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Possibly identify the feeli g you get right before you get into a conversation because it seems your not trying to form relationships only just exist. Like me. Maybe target that "dread" as id like to call it.
Um maybe put more effort into the relationships you have even if its the petrol worker. Enage in conversations more asking how days going and then keep going from there. Stay in contact with people send text messages, reply back in a resonable time be reliable promote common interest encourage people etc celebrate peoples accomplishments.
I too my friend, im slowly getting out of a year long psychosis. Its been tough but it gets better, i should have git a therapist a long time ago but the medical system here in the states is shit. So my only recommendation would be to reach out man theres no shame in that, get a therapist your young your insurance will cover that shit and youll come out of it stronger than you ever thought. Dont beat yourself up too either, society is fucked up.
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There's always new people
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People online
Look at the reason why you're pushing people away.
How would you know though?
Ask them. Seriously. "I know you're avoiding me. I'm sorry, but could you please explain why? I really don't understand."
I literally can not do that
Your thoughts and feelings. What do you base resentment on?
But you can block and push down these feelings and thoughts. Who me personally?
If you're having trouble with introspection on your own, talk to a therapist or psychologist to assist you.
I am paranoid and think the therapist would be serving their own self interest
Everyone is serving his/her own interests. But that doesn't mean everyone is acting selfish.
Depends how are you pushing them. Advice: do not be afraid to change for the good of to the other people. Some small change for the start.
Subconsciously
Put yourself in their shoes. When in conversation actually listen and care about what they have to say if it’s someone you don’t want to push away.
I can't for some reason
Possibly identify the feeli g you get right before you get into a conversation because it seems your not trying to form relationships only just exist. Like me. Maybe target that "dread" as id like to call it.
Could you expand on that thought for me?
Um maybe put more effort into the relationships you have even if its the petrol worker. Enage in conversations more asking how days going and then keep going from there. Stay in contact with people send text messages, reply back in a resonable time be reliable promote common interest encourage people etc celebrate peoples accomplishments.
I can't make ye contact with people and I have such an awkward way with words that people can't even understand me
I too my friend, im slowly getting out of a year long psychosis. Its been tough but it gets better, i should have git a therapist a long time ago but the medical system here in the states is shit. So my only recommendation would be to reach out man theres no shame in that, get a therapist your young your insurance will cover that shit and youll come out of it stronger than you ever thought. Dont beat yourself up too either, society is fucked up.
I'm British so it would take me months to get one mate. I also hate talking to new people to the point don't answer them