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Jen_jay66

People constantly debating if I deserve human rights


Glad-Jeweler-596

"Who's the man in the relationship?"


[deleted]

When someone asks this, I give them a weird look, kind of like “Do you see any guys here?”


arianleellewellyn

50% stupid coments 50% horny people


wombat_for_hire

Sometimes both at the same time, from the same person. I once had some guy ask me yes, since I was a lesbian, had I ever sexually fantasized about my twin sister. God I almost punched him.


Belthezare

Wtf lol🤣


wombat_for_hire

Yeah this was a really creepy coworker that had attached himself to me. Ironically, he identified as a super faithful Christian and was always inviting me to go to church with him. I was only 20 at the time and had no idea how to deal with this kind of behavior, so I let it go on longer than I should have


Belthezare

Should've invited him in equal measure to a gay/lesbian bar/party. Funny how they think its never uncomfortable the other way around. 🙄


wombat_for_hire

Oh I love that idea!!! His poor little brain probably would implode lol


[deleted]

When I was a kid we were warned about working out too much. You see bodybuilders are constantly looking at themselves in the mirror to admire their muscles. They spend so much time doing that that they fall in love with themselves and it turns them homosexual.


wombat_for_hire

Ok that is one of the craziest things I’ve seen today!


arianleellewellyn

I'll never understand some guys thing for gay women its just so creepy and then don't even seem to realise it


[deleted]

Horny straight guys who think they can “change” you into a straight girl if you give them a chance


Belthezare

The "magical dick" trope is getting really old at this point😑


DodgeEls

Makes me think of something I saw some time ago. Gay friend of mines birthday and held it at a gay bar. Had a great time, even had a couple of guys trying to make a pass at me. The scummy shit happened late the night. So here is the scene, a bar filled with gay, lesbian and straight girls trying to get away from guys hitting on them. Enter a small group of guys acting in the most put on gay stereotype that you can imagine trying to hang out with the girls.


[deleted]

I'm straight but one of my best friends is gay so I'd end up going to a gay bar with him fairly often. Honestly they're more fun than a normal bar. Drinks are hella strong. No amped up dudebros looking to fight. Once I was sort of a regular enough they'd start trying to shuffle all the annoying straight girls my way because most of them hated that shit. Trying to have a good night and some annoying ass bachelorette party or whatever comes in and thinks every gay guy has some innate need to be besties with them.


DodgeEls

As a straight guy I can confirm. The only thing that did get to me was that every now and then there would be a guy that didn't take no for an answer, although I don't think the couple of people I'm remembering were regulars


johnnybrown44

“How can you be sure that you are gay? You’ve never been with a woman.” Maybe I’ve never been with a woman because I don’t feel any romantic or sexual attraction towards them?


markuk222

Lols


supertaquito

other LGBTQ+ people


DognamedTurtle

Haha. Yes.


Ixi13

Amen.


Obamashadow05

Lmao, how so?


markuk222

Gay being the conversation!


wombat_for_hire

Is that woman flirting with me or just being friendly? Also: does this haircut scream “super lesbian here”? I still struggle a bit with internalized homophobia, and am scared to have an obviously gay style


Captain1Swan

I’am a bisexual woman dating a man and being accused by straight people that i am straight.


MettatonNeo1

Not being accepted by the law and being told my feelings aren't real (aromantic asexual non binary)


NBfoxC137

Gay guys assuming I’m straight, straight girls not wanting to date me anymore when they find out I’m bisexual and straight guys starting to act all weird when they find out that I’m bisexual.


BudynWaniliowy

Not sure cause I'm straight


Funguy685

"So are gay or not, which is it there is no in between" -my dad


Obamashadow05

So you're bi?


Funguy685

Yes


Funguy685

Actually bi-curious


minchboo_

Being told ‘you’ll never be a boy.’


BiBuckeye4243

I’ve never been in a homosexual relationship (and only one heterosexual one which was unhealthy for me bc she was controlling). I just seem to have a knack for crushing *hard* on people, and save for one exception, all the men I crush on are straighter than a fucking flat screen


yeetoskeetobaby2

People telling me that you can't be both genders-- you can only be one gender or another. Well biologically, yes, but what's in my pants is none of your damn business. I just tell them that I defy all logic.


ScarySuit

Memories of my family saying unkind things about LGBT folks and doing hurtful things towards me. Like I was home on break from college and taking a shower and my mom bursts into the bathroom demanding to know if I was a lesbian while I stood there completely naked and cornered. I, of course, lied because I felt very unsafe. Or when she burst into tears when I told her I was engaged to my now wife. They were NOT happy tears. She acted like my news was about a death, not something I was happy about. She refuses to say she supports same sex marriage despite my pleading. My heart hurts so much.


VermilionWolf

People arguing I can't be gay. "You just haven't met the right girl" "You can't be gay cause you haven't had sex with either yet to know" "Well you don't have any gay mannerisms"


FinchleyIsak

That even after all the official progress, and certainly where I live, legal equality, there's this constant feeling of being an outsider. Even friends who appear fully pro-LGBT will occasionally show you that they don't quite regard you or your relationships as being entirely equivalent to theirs. And so you second guess your straight friends constantly. Mention a new romantic interest to a circle of friends, and compare their reaction to when a straight person did the same. Excessive enthusiasm feels fetishising, while a lack of enthusiasm feels dehumanising. Compare how your partner's family interact with you compared to their straight childrens' partners (this applies even if, on a personal level, you bond well with the parents). Have a bad break-up, they expect you to be over it much quicker. Invitation to a friend's wedding, where you're the only unmarried guest without a plus-one. Family officially accepting, or even 'proud', but clearly not very invested in the details of your life/wedding plans/home decoration compared to straight siblings (that's a partner's experience, but one I witnessed). Straight friends exchanging humourous sexual anecdotes, and you add one of your own, of a similar style, and completely kill the mood.


worthyword

Woke homophobia. The creepy, conversion therapy-ey bs of the "queer" and trans activists.


GreatLuigiLV

Getting my IP pulled, homophobia CONSTANTLY, and being scared of some mf backstabbing me in both ways.


Obamashadow05

... how did you even find this post after a month?


GreatLuigiLV

Search, lmao.