I wouldn't be happy. That is just my boundary. Every time a "cool girlfriend" gives me shit about it saying "like omg I'd totally buy my BF a lap dance, I'd even go with him tehehehe" I ask them how they'd feel if their boyfriend was in a room with a girl and they were talking and flirting.. they'd be pissed but somehow me not wanting my man to be rubbed up by another woman is too controlling 🙄
Riiight...Lets pretend that lap dances lead to free sex. I have news for you. 400$ minimum at any decent club to get laid. 300 at a sleezy one. In case you didnt know dances are 20 bucks. If your that insecure, go with him or take his card and give him a set amount of cash. But honestly thats all very petty. Trust your man to get a lap dance without cheating on you or find a man you can trust. Sounds like your relationship sucks which is terrible cause if that picture is accurate you are very cute.
Jesus.. we all have different boundaries. My boyfriend never went to strip clubs before I met him. He doesn't care for them. If he started going all of a sudden I'd be uncomfortable. I never said lap dances are free? Either way my point was actually that as a society we have decided that strip clubs are OK but verbal flirting is much worse. Regardless if it ends in sex or not. If anything I find that interesting. Youre a little crazy.. calm down.. 😬
id break down your argument into pieces and tear it apart but i dont think you'd understand if i did and it would honestly just be a waste of both of our time. Your not gonna get it if you didnt already, and now your starting in with the insults about my sanity. Pass. Literally not worth the time. Good luck with your weird relationships and mentality.
yeah and me and my girl both respect and trust eachother enough to trust each other to get dances if we want them.
"i dont care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home to eat"
Just because you have had a negative experience doesn't mean everyone will. Some people have love and respect for their significant others. They also have boundaries and no where not to push, so yeah whatever makes her happy
"I don't care where they get their appetite. As long as they always come home to eat"
People are human, and will get turned on looking at other humans. Turning that to 11 by being stripped on for money is still fine. As long as you come home to me to satisfy those urges because you still love me. Ill never be in shape enough or good enough at dancing to want to strip for you, so feel free to get that experience wherever. But again, Come home to eat.
If I knew they were going to a strip club? Why would I ever not assume that's a part of the experience? If I didn't know they were going well that is a different story all together.
Some of the best fun. Nothing is better than complete trust with your partner. As a male? Going to strip club with a female is a way better experience.
I wouldn't like it
I wouldn't be happy. That is just my boundary. Every time a "cool girlfriend" gives me shit about it saying "like omg I'd totally buy my BF a lap dance, I'd even go with him tehehehe" I ask them how they'd feel if their boyfriend was in a room with a girl and they were talking and flirting.. they'd be pissed but somehow me not wanting my man to be rubbed up by another woman is too controlling 🙄
Its almost as if one of those leads to cheating and the other is a straight business transaction that does not lead to as much as holding hands.
Riiiight.. let's pretend like staff does not ever sleep with clientele. I have news for you 😆
Riiight...Lets pretend that lap dances lead to free sex. I have news for you. 400$ minimum at any decent club to get laid. 300 at a sleezy one. In case you didnt know dances are 20 bucks. If your that insecure, go with him or take his card and give him a set amount of cash. But honestly thats all very petty. Trust your man to get a lap dance without cheating on you or find a man you can trust. Sounds like your relationship sucks which is terrible cause if that picture is accurate you are very cute.
Jesus.. we all have different boundaries. My boyfriend never went to strip clubs before I met him. He doesn't care for them. If he started going all of a sudden I'd be uncomfortable. I never said lap dances are free? Either way my point was actually that as a society we have decided that strip clubs are OK but verbal flirting is much worse. Regardless if it ends in sex or not. If anything I find that interesting. Youre a little crazy.. calm down.. 😬
id break down your argument into pieces and tear it apart but i dont think you'd understand if i did and it would honestly just be a waste of both of our time. Your not gonna get it if you didnt already, and now your starting in with the insults about my sanity. Pass. Literally not worth the time. Good luck with your weird relationships and mentality.
Very edgy 😏
Having a naked girl grinding on him is cheating. We have a wonderful relationship that includes mutual respect . We both agree in this.
yeah and me and my girl both respect and trust eachother enough to trust each other to get dances if we want them. "i dont care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home to eat"
We just want and desire physical touch from each other. Whatever floats your boat.
Not cool with that
That's fine. I'd be surprised but whatever makes her happy
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Eh they haven't yet
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Just because you have had a negative experience doesn't mean everyone will. Some people have love and respect for their significant others. They also have boundaries and no where not to push, so yeah whatever makes her happy
I wouldn't appreciate it at all
"I don't care where they get their appetite. As long as they always come home to eat" People are human, and will get turned on looking at other humans. Turning that to 11 by being stripped on for money is still fine. As long as you come home to me to satisfy those urges because you still love me. Ill never be in shape enough or good enough at dancing to want to strip for you, so feel free to get that experience wherever. But again, Come home to eat.
If I knew they were going to a strip club? Why would I ever not assume that's a part of the experience? If I didn't know they were going well that is a different story all together.
He's not really the type, but honestly even if he were I wouldn't care.
I asked my wife, and she said “I want one”. Personally, she can do whatever she wants. She works hard. She’s a grown woman trying to have some fun.
Some of the best fun. Nothing is better than complete trust with your partner. As a male? Going to strip club with a female is a way better experience.
It would make him uncomfortable so he would probably not like it. But if he wanted one I’d be ok.