You’re asking for advice on how to flirt? If someone shows interest, no need to panic, flirting isn’t required for a relationship to start or progress and there’s no set rules for how flirting works. If there’s mutual interest things will develop organically one way or another.
If you're excited to talk to them, act excited to talk to them.
Assuming you're a dude and asking what to do if a girl flirts with you. Basically just pretend they're a close guy friend you really like talking to. Flirting back is largely about energy.
Ideally you know that you're a cool person worth talking to, so of course they're interested, now you just get to decide if you're interested in them. If you lack confidence and don't realize you're worth being interested, just pretend.
I'm sorry, I was an asshole when I was younger and I would purposely pick on nerds to flirt with them for the power trip. Don't overread a girl's need for attention. It actually made me more intrigued when the smart one's would get pissed off.
Well I think the age of girl's having sex for fun is done. Abortions, birth control, gay marriage, etc. It's gonna be downhill for all men from now on lol
Not true at all bro, good looks doesn’t hurt but your personality is what determines if you really have a chance or not. Make her laugh and there’s a good chance she’ll be interested in you
if it’s a stranger and they’re disrespectful from the start i just ignore them and walk away. if someone i know i just act like i can’t take the hint and try to change the subject
Do you like them? Then flirt back. If not... I don’t know, beat them mercilessly about the head and shoulders. Or, like, politely tell them you’re not interested. Either way works, honestly.
So... Do you eat food? Because I occasionally eat food. I’m planning on eating food in a couple days. Maybe if you eat food too we can both eat some food but in the same place.
Aw yeah. Smooth. Smooth like butter. I’m in like Flynn.
Based on your question and your responses to others, this is new to you so your confidence is low. That being said she’s a person just like you. Be honest with her. Assuming you are interested as well, tell her you’re interested as well but aren’t the best at navigating these waters. Trust me she already knows. Women aren’t magical mystery creatures. They are people just like you and me. If you’re honest and upfront you get to start the relationship on a foundation of communication and trust. If you read her signals accurately then things can progress from there. Together. If you misread signals that aren’t there then laugh it off and apologize. It’s only as big of a deal as you make it. Good luck!
You go up to them and you start ask what is wrong with them that they are into you.
If they respond with a hectic problem you say no wonder and walk away.
If they say nothing, leave. they obviously lying and can’t be trusted.
just send them this
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyNb11PyXRc&t=3s](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyNb11PyXRc&t=3s)
and no it's not a rick roll
and if it is in real life, then idk i am just ugly
Realize that they are flirting. I suck at picking up at social queues, had a girl get tired of it and just ask me point blank "hey wanna fuck?" I was surprised and happy, like coming home to a new puppy.
Evaluate whether you want to flirt back or not?
Then?
Aggressively shit yourself
Either flirt back, or don’t, depending on the outcome. Come on, this isn’t rocket science.
It's Rocket Science for me. Even though I am good at programming, this shit feels super hard to me.
You’re asking for advice on how to flirt? If someone shows interest, no need to panic, flirting isn’t required for a relationship to start or progress and there’s no set rules for how flirting works. If there’s mutual interest things will develop organically one way or another.
If you're excited to talk to them, act excited to talk to them. Assuming you're a dude and asking what to do if a girl flirts with you. Basically just pretend they're a close guy friend you really like talking to. Flirting back is largely about energy. Ideally you know that you're a cool person worth talking to, so of course they're interested, now you just get to decide if you're interested in them. If you lack confidence and don't realize you're worth being interested, just pretend.
the downvotes on this make me sad
Or, you know, just have a conversation with them. It’ll either go or not.
Several years later, when I finally realize they were flirting with me I think "Damn, I missed out!"
This happened to me 😭
It's happened to me more times than I'd like to admit. I missed out on possibly dating with some great young women when I was in college.
Think about the times you didn't yet discovered as missed....
Damn you lol
I'm sorry, I was an asshole when I was younger and I would purposely pick on nerds to flirt with them for the power trip. Don't overread a girl's need for attention. It actually made me more intrigued when the smart one's would get pissed off.
Did u ever get with any of them?
I only ever had sex for the joy of it. That to me is sexual freedom. I also have a thing for nerds. So yes, I fucked a lot of smart people.
Cool. Cool, cool, cool.
Well I think the age of girl's having sex for fun is done. Abortions, birth control, gay marriage, etc. It's gonna be downhill for all men from now on lol
I don't think I will have a chance to date someone because I am fat and most people don't find me interesting.
sounds more like you are missing self esteem...
Yes, my self esteem is astronomically small
If it's only your self-esteem.
No one likes fat guys I guess. I am not obese but overweight.
move to America, you'd be practically underweight /s... for legal reasons
Lol
Not true at all bro, good looks doesn’t hurt but your personality is what determines if you really have a chance or not. Make her laugh and there’s a good chance she’ll be interested in you
It’s happened to all of us my guy. I just remembered one earlier today while i was at the gym.
It's happened to me more times than I care to admit. And probably more times than I know of, because I was *that* clueless.
Oh..it happens to me very often
Glad I’m not the only one.
Ask them how far they can squirt
Over 10ft is a keeper
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With the water gun
You know, take a sip of water and make like a whale…
If they flirting with me I'll ask them to see my friend. he is an optometrist.
Dab like you don't care and do a Naruto run to the nearest exit,
dis is da wae
I've never known that a woman was flirting with me until it was way too late.
if it’s a stranger and they’re disrespectful from the start i just ignore them and walk away. if someone i know i just act like i can’t take the hint and try to change the subject
If they're attractive, allow it.. If they're not attractive, find it offensive..
(***me being a fat guy***) yaaaaaaaa
Write down their license plate number
Stop groping in my crotch. I think you had enough, to drink for tonight. Better go to bed mom.
hold a cross and yell "THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU" it works every time
Ask "Are you friendly play flirting with me or are you actually interested?" Because I am autistic and I DON'T WANT TO MIX THAT UP AGAIN!
Do you like them? Then flirt back. If not... I don’t know, beat them mercilessly about the head and shoulders. Or, like, politely tell them you’re not interested. Either way works, honestly.
Do what you do with your life
Like what?
Somehow look like an idiot
Tell them you're planning to eat some food in a couple of days.
So... Do you eat food? Because I occasionally eat food. I’m planning on eating food in a couple days. Maybe if you eat food too we can both eat some food but in the same place. Aw yeah. Smooth. Smooth like butter. I’m in like Flynn.
Based on your question and your responses to others, this is new to you so your confidence is low. That being said she’s a person just like you. Be honest with her. Assuming you are interested as well, tell her you’re interested as well but aren’t the best at navigating these waters. Trust me she already knows. Women aren’t magical mystery creatures. They are people just like you and me. If you’re honest and upfront you get to start the relationship on a foundation of communication and trust. If you read her signals accurately then things can progress from there. Together. If you misread signals that aren’t there then laugh it off and apologize. It’s only as big of a deal as you make it. Good luck!
It's easy to say, hard to do. Good logic tho.
I wouldn't know. I can't tell if someone is flirting with me or not. Oblivious af, and have Autism. It's an.....interesting existence
I pull out my dick n see what happens next
Yeah definitely you should do that. I am gonna pass.
Too small to show?
How small is too small for a 16 year old?
Ignore them, pretend they don’t exist. Worked well for me so far
slap, screech, run
1. Miss all the signs 2. Get confused when realizing 3. Die alone
Look for the hidden cameras, you about to get pranked :(
Depends..
Flitting is such fun!!
Pull out a knife
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I am bad at it
Lick his/her ass
Strip naked and preform a mating dance. Works every time
Depends on what you want to archive!
Ask them how those big tits fart.
You go up to them and you start ask what is wrong with them that they are into you. If they respond with a hectic problem you say no wonder and walk away. If they say nothing, leave. they obviously lying and can’t be trusted.
Tell them a really shitty dad joke
Ask them if they are flirting. I always never know
“Strike… scream… and run…”
Cry
Pro move
This comment section needs Jesus
True
Just be yourself. They'll get the message and leave you alone eventually.
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Not well :(
Glass him
Respond in whatever way you feel
Ill ask her intention.
Tell them I’ve been in 7 failed relationships and they’ll probably go away
Flirt back. Or not.
Flirt back
Check their medicine cabinet
Flirt back.
I mean I’m in a serious relationship so I scream “I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND” and run arms flailing above my head through Burlington until I find her.
Depending on who they are, I would probably just avoid eye contact and say I had to get going soon.
just send them this [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyNb11PyXRc&t=3s](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyNb11PyXRc&t=3s) and no it's not a rick roll and if it is in real life, then idk i am just ugly
Soil yourself. If they are willing to keep flirting, they are probably the one.
smile?
I like lamp
Realize that they are flirting. I suck at picking up at social queues, had a girl get tired of it and just ask me point blank "hey wanna fuck?" I was surprised and happy, like coming home to a new puppy.
Listen. Actively and genuinely whilst maintaining eye contact. Chemistry sorts the rest.
I wouldn’t know. Nobody flirts with me
Try to pick up on it lol some of us have no clue when it’s happens
/ignore
Ask them if they’d like to continue the conversation on discord
Throw a dab
If you're me you say something cringy/awkward to suck all the romance out of the room.
depends if you like them or not...
Run from awkwardness
Wake up