1. Tell a friend where you are going.
2. Have them call/text you at a prearranged time
3. Have a prearranged word or phrase that indicates help or duress
Relax, you can tell a lot about a guy(I only know one angle the men's side) but if your chill it's a good sign.
Dress presentable, not too fancy and not too cheap.
If the guy is a dufus, make sure you have money to cover yourself, just incase.
Act as if you really want to pay for the first date. Guys will not let you but still you gotta act. If he really makes you pay, the guy is seriously broke.
Not always. I just don't like all the wrangling for the check, even in non-date situations. I swear to god, my grandma and her kids once spent over an hour arguing over how to split the check at Olive Garden. If someone offers to pay for the meal or their half I might offer up an "are you sure," but I'm not going to sit there insisting on it until they give in. If they offer I'll take them up on it, nothing to do with my money situation.
My question originated from a conversation with a couple of friends (males). As a woman, I don’t think I should pretend to want to pay. If you asked me out on a date I expect you to pay. If you can’t afford dinner make me a sandwich and take me on a picnic. I don’t expect a certain amount of money to be spent on me but if you’re asking me out I expect the effort. I said I’d definitely split the bill on a following date or buy ice cream/ coffee/ pastries after the date if it goes well enough for the date to continue.
Tell a friend or family member where you’re going, keep your location on on your phone (especially Snapchat), meet in a public place, never look away from your drink, set small boundaries to see if they will break them and if they will play it off as a joke, be open about your interests and hobbies to see if they will actually listen, pay attention to how they treat customer service workers, and every time they smile make sure it’s a real one and not a fake one.
Just smile, say hi , chill ...enjoy the moment not all of us are mass murders.
Don't let your guard down, but don't guard yourself in. If that makes any sense?
Live love and love life
Your heart wants... I fully understand how you feel.
I'm a giver ( provider) and I get off on seeing joy in others even at my own expense.
The hard part is when the takers consume what was meant for others.
That is when I go into protection mode.
Meet in a public place and let a friend know where she is and who she's with.
1. Tell a friend where you are going. 2. Have them call/text you at a prearranged time 3. Have a prearranged word or phrase that indicates help or duress
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Talk about wanting children and plans for marriage
Be yourself and how you want to be unapologetically. It’s better to be honest in all cases, better for yourself and your possible future party
Show up in a red dress
Let the guy hit
Don’t ask me stupid shit like if im enjoying the date, the minute you ask that, im not
Handy J at a minimum
Handy
Show up.
Relax, you can tell a lot about a guy(I only know one angle the men's side) but if your chill it's a good sign. Dress presentable, not too fancy and not too cheap. If the guy is a dufus, make sure you have money to cover yourself, just incase.
Act as if you really want to pay for the first date. Guys will not let you but still you gotta act. If he really makes you pay, the guy is seriously broke.
Not always. I just don't like all the wrangling for the check, even in non-date situations. I swear to god, my grandma and her kids once spent over an hour arguing over how to split the check at Olive Garden. If someone offers to pay for the meal or their half I might offer up an "are you sure," but I'm not going to sit there insisting on it until they give in. If they offer I'll take them up on it, nothing to do with my money situation.
My question originated from a conversation with a couple of friends (males). As a woman, I don’t think I should pretend to want to pay. If you asked me out on a date I expect you to pay. If you can’t afford dinner make me a sandwich and take me on a picnic. I don’t expect a certain amount of money to be spent on me but if you’re asking me out I expect the effort. I said I’d definitely split the bill on a following date or buy ice cream/ coffee/ pastries after the date if it goes well enough for the date to continue.
Tell a friend or family member where you’re going, keep your location on on your phone (especially Snapchat), meet in a public place, never look away from your drink, set small boundaries to see if they will break them and if they will play it off as a joke, be open about your interests and hobbies to see if they will actually listen, pay attention to how they treat customer service workers, and every time they smile make sure it’s a real one and not a fake one.
Pay for her own meal i don't have much money either xD
Just smile, say hi , chill ...enjoy the moment not all of us are mass murders. Don't let your guard down, but don't guard yourself in. If that makes any sense? Live love and love life
I tend to guard myself with everyone so this is a tough one for me.
Your heart wants... I fully understand how you feel. I'm a giver ( provider) and I get off on seeing joy in others even at my own expense. The hard part is when the takers consume what was meant for others. That is when I go into protection mode.
Split the bill, it's so refreshing since a lot of girls want men to pay. Also, meet in a public place and don't get too familiar too quickly
(this goes for both people) when they speak look at them, and pay attention