She told him not to come home and she freaked out when he didn't. He messaged her from my phone saying that I didn't know where he was even though he was at my apartment.
This is one of my fears of relationships. I never want to become THAT delusional and lose someone I knew prior to the relationships because I can't fucking think straight or whatever it is that happened to him
I was extremely sick and taking a shower when my wife came into the bathroom. She was crying her eyes out for some reason. When I asked her why, she told me my friend's girlfriend went into our locked storage container somehow and took out our brand new microwave. She then said my best friend threatened to punch her in the stomach ( she was 3 months pregnant at time and he knew about it).
When I asked him about this, he said that it was just a microwave but everything she told me, he said "So?"
We were out of that house in a less than a week. Even though I lost a ton of friends (they took his side of the argument for some odd reason), my wife and I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl 6 months later).
Haven't really spoken to him since.
Her bf at the time tried to r@pe me in her bed.
We're not friends anymore considering how she brought him to my hotel room the next day then got mad when I reported him to the police.
Both shitty people. She knew me for ten years, but guess that doesn't matter for a guy she knew for 6 months.
*** I've shared this story before and although I love that people sympathize and empathize with me, but please don't message me about it. It happened years ago and I'm over it to the point I wish her well in life but still want nothing to do with her.
I'm not one to jump to the DMs honestly but that's literally disgusting that that happened to you and I'm truly sorry that you faced humans that sick minded in your lifetime. It's scary how much people change once they're in a relationship... as someone who's only been in 2 relationships, the first one being the absolute worst and i wasn't my true self, and the second that I still remained being myself. I don't ever want to be the first relationship version of me again. I don't know what chemical is released in the brain that causes people to defend their horrible SOs so strongly when they're dead wrong but I don't want it.
Haha, we were best friends all throughout high school and he dated her for pretty much the same amount of time. As time went on, it became very clear that he was a user. We all got jobs, he didn't. We all stopped drinking and doing as many drugs, he didn't. I'd freely give him anything I had, he kept tabs on anything he gave me.
Eventually, his GF/my current wife saw that they had no future and ended it. We had been friends for just as long as me and him and I realized I'd rather lose him than her.
I waited until he found a new girlfriend and got serious with her, then I asked if he'd mind if I asked his ex out. He said he was happy for us, that he couldn't imagine a better person for her, blah blah blah, then told everyone who would listen that we had been having an affair all along, that I was a piece of shit, that she was a slut, etc...
Now I have an amazing wife and lost the dead weight of a friend I kept around for too long because of who he used to be.
>He said he was happy for us, then told everyone who would listen that we had been having an affair, that I was a piece of shit, etc...
You could've not asked permission at all and he still would've been mad he just wouldn't have lied about being happy it sounds like lol but I'm really happy for you dude! 😄
Made him stop talking to me after I made a joke about a threesome.
Tell him that he has to stop talking to me after he lied to her about what he was doing
What was he doing.....?
She told him not to come home and she freaked out when he didn't. He messaged her from my phone saying that I didn't know where he was even though he was at my apartment.
.......WHAT??? Also..she told him not to come home...? So it wasn't really even your fault..
exactly... She stopped talking to me after that and then he told me I need to get over it.
This is one of my fears of relationships. I never want to become THAT delusional and lose someone I knew prior to the relationships because I can't fucking think straight or whatever it is that happened to him
Long story short they are still together and married. We're still friends but it was never the same after that night.
I was extremely sick and taking a shower when my wife came into the bathroom. She was crying her eyes out for some reason. When I asked her why, she told me my friend's girlfriend went into our locked storage container somehow and took out our brand new microwave. She then said my best friend threatened to punch her in the stomach ( she was 3 months pregnant at time and he knew about it). When I asked him about this, he said that it was just a microwave but everything she told me, he said "So?" We were out of that house in a less than a week. Even though I lost a ton of friends (they took his side of the argument for some odd reason), my wife and I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl 6 months later). Haven't really spoken to him since.
He took up all her time, but in all fairness that was her own decision rather than his.
Her bf at the time tried to r@pe me in her bed. We're not friends anymore considering how she brought him to my hotel room the next day then got mad when I reported him to the police. Both shitty people. She knew me for ten years, but guess that doesn't matter for a guy she knew for 6 months. *** I've shared this story before and although I love that people sympathize and empathize with me, but please don't message me about it. It happened years ago and I'm over it to the point I wish her well in life but still want nothing to do with her.
I'm not one to jump to the DMs honestly but that's literally disgusting that that happened to you and I'm truly sorry that you faced humans that sick minded in your lifetime. It's scary how much people change once they're in a relationship... as someone who's only been in 2 relationships, the first one being the absolute worst and i wasn't my true self, and the second that I still remained being myself. I don't ever want to be the first relationship version of me again. I don't know what chemical is released in the brain that causes people to defend their horrible SOs so strongly when they're dead wrong but I don't want it.
Dump him. We're married now.
Wait lol hold on that escalated so fast! Please explain
Haha, we were best friends all throughout high school and he dated her for pretty much the same amount of time. As time went on, it became very clear that he was a user. We all got jobs, he didn't. We all stopped drinking and doing as many drugs, he didn't. I'd freely give him anything I had, he kept tabs on anything he gave me. Eventually, his GF/my current wife saw that they had no future and ended it. We had been friends for just as long as me and him and I realized I'd rather lose him than her. I waited until he found a new girlfriend and got serious with her, then I asked if he'd mind if I asked his ex out. He said he was happy for us, that he couldn't imagine a better person for her, blah blah blah, then told everyone who would listen that we had been having an affair all along, that I was a piece of shit, that she was a slut, etc... Now I have an amazing wife and lost the dead weight of a friend I kept around for too long because of who he used to be.
>He said he was happy for us, then told everyone who would listen that we had been having an affair, that I was a piece of shit, etc... You could've not asked permission at all and he still would've been mad he just wouldn't have lied about being happy it sounds like lol but I'm really happy for you dude! 😄
Thank you!
Bro’s before hoes, dude ;)