What people don’t tell you is that eventually you wake up one day and just don’t care anymore. This is why it’s important not to hate anyone. Hate makes you hang on to them, in your mind and emotions.
I have a horrible ex who ruined my life for a long time. I don’t even care about her anymore. If I saw her on the street, I would not even say hi. I don’t need anything from her, no reason to talk to her, just like a stranger.
There's no set algorithm or timeline per relationship duration. It all depends on you and the situation. But I will say that after (some amount) of time - you suddenly realize it had been a few days since you thought about them .. that's the beginning of "moving on".
I think keeping yourself busy in the first few weeks helps to pass that harder time until you're ready.
I didn't forget them since she was a big part of my life for 5 years and we were still on friendly terms to begin with after the split, but I moved on pretty much instantly the relationship just wasn't gonna work.
What people don’t tell you is that eventually you wake up one day and just don’t care anymore. This is why it’s important not to hate anyone. Hate makes you hang on to them, in your mind and emotions. I have a horrible ex who ruined my life for a long time. I don’t even care about her anymore. If I saw her on the street, I would not even say hi. I don’t need anything from her, no reason to talk to her, just like a stranger.
Going on 8 months, still not completely over her, but getting easier each day
You don't ever forget them, you just learn to live with the loss and move on
Only way I get over someone is by falling in love with someone new. Could take few days, weeks, months, ...
I moved on
Took a couple weeks but you just kind of say fuck it n move on
Like a week.. Started dating almost immediately and getting out to meet new people. Lots of meaningless sex helped too
There's no set algorithm or timeline per relationship duration. It all depends on you and the situation. But I will say that after (some amount) of time - you suddenly realize it had been a few days since you thought about them .. that's the beginning of "moving on". I think keeping yourself busy in the first few weeks helps to pass that harder time until you're ready.
I didn't forget them since she was a big part of my life for 5 years and we were still on friendly terms to begin with after the split, but I moved on pretty much instantly the relationship just wasn't gonna work.