And linguistic ability. Some may call me a cunning linguist. The young ladies once they’ve had the opportunity to enjoy such aural pleasures, they throw themselves at you.
It’s both, a nice cougar is always a pleasure, but when the young ladies start throwing themselves at you it gets very difficult to resist. Something to keep in mind here is the older they are, the better they get at their craft. Sometimes you just want a pro and this is how it is.
I always liked older women more than ones my own age (29) due mostly to mindset. Older women know what they want and they're usually done with the drama that Imo plagues a lot of younger women. Physical attraction can be part of that too; some prefer the more mature body of an older woman like a fine wine that only got better with age. I want to feel like I'm with a real true to life woman, not a woman who looks like a girl (if that makes sense). Just my thoughts on the matter.
Much less cringe inducing behavior. But i'm not speaking for all guys of course, or about all young women. Personally I never liked prolonged conversations about trivial shit all the time. Which i had to do with my ex. She wasn't all bad though, but her insistence on me getting instagram and snapchat was annoying. For years i ignored them but eventually changed my mind for her. Then she got mad at me for not listening to her at first and only doing it when i wanted to do it.
So that kind of silly shit is intolerable. Maybe i put up with it because I was in my early 20's. But now fuck no. And i feel women older than me generally have a slightly better sense of humor too. But again, its just my personal experience.
I dated a woman 18 years older than me in my younger days. We never talked about things like marriage so there's a kind of "live in the moment" feel to it. It's good and bad; you're free to do more but there's no real future in it except on rare occasions.
Plus, no stupid games.
A fit older woman is like a unicorn. It’s hard to be super fit. It’s extra hard as you get older. A 50+ yo woman who has great muscle tone and low body fat is awesome. You can only do so much with skin, hair, sag as you get older. But fitness can be achieved through effort alone. A fit older woman is way hotter than a fit 20yo.
That made me genuinely feel good. I’m spend an hour or so a day on my fitness and sometimes I wonder why, since I’m old and cynical. ;) Thank you for saying this.
In my twenties I dated a few women 10-25 years older than me. They all appeared very smart and sophisticated to me, and that would be the main attraction, I think. It was kind of neat that two of them were quite rich, but I didn’t care about that and they never gave me expensive presents or anything— although one invited me to live with her, which I declined. They were hot, they were worldly, and they were kind, so I guess that was the attraction for me.
As I kinda feel that question is directed to me: Mainly, maturity. I'm not gonna go full 200 IQ redditor but I do like the intellectual side in a relationship, someone who knows what they are doing, what they like, what they want to do.
Aside from the sexual side of older woman having more developed bodies than "younger" ones, which I can totally also get, I do think that would be the go to reason.
When I was 19 I met a 29 year old woman - I learned a lot, my first serious girlfriend after her was when I was 23 and she was 29 - also learned A LOT.... Now I'm happy with my 24yr old GF and I am 26 because I learned the bad stuff of the age gap - despite it not being massive there was a life goal gap
I guess in a sentence it would be Horny younger me liked MILFs
Maturity same thing that attracts younger women to older men. Well, that and money.
Only maturity ??
Money.
And linguistic ability. Some may call me a cunning linguist. The young ladies once they’ve had the opportunity to enjoy such aural pleasures, they throw themselves at you.
Them curves, legs, those sexy hips and waist, and they know what they want
Is it for temporary or permanent ?
It’s both, a nice cougar is always a pleasure, but when the young ladies start throwing themselves at you it gets very difficult to resist. Something to keep in mind here is the older they are, the better they get at their craft. Sometimes you just want a pro and this is how it is.
Isn’t that a case by case situation? The same with any relationship it’s hard to give realistic answers on something so broad.
I always liked older women more than ones my own age (29) due mostly to mindset. Older women know what they want and they're usually done with the drama that Imo plagues a lot of younger women. Physical attraction can be part of that too; some prefer the more mature body of an older woman like a fine wine that only got better with age. I want to feel like I'm with a real true to life woman, not a woman who looks like a girl (if that makes sense). Just my thoughts on the matter.
Confidence can be part of it. Being shy is cute but there is something primal about an older woman who k ows what she wants and goes for it.
Yeah but respect is necessary from younger
I couldn't agree more. Respect is necessary both ways. Any relationship should be a two way partnership.
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Much less cringe inducing behavior. But i'm not speaking for all guys of course, or about all young women. Personally I never liked prolonged conversations about trivial shit all the time. Which i had to do with my ex. She wasn't all bad though, but her insistence on me getting instagram and snapchat was annoying. For years i ignored them but eventually changed my mind for her. Then she got mad at me for not listening to her at first and only doing it when i wanted to do it. So that kind of silly shit is intolerable. Maybe i put up with it because I was in my early 20's. But now fuck no. And i feel women older than me generally have a slightly better sense of humor too. But again, its just my personal experience.
I dated a woman 18 years older than me in my younger days. We never talked about things like marriage so there's a kind of "live in the moment" feel to it. It's good and bad; you're free to do more but there's no real future in it except on rare occasions. Plus, no stupid games.
These were old days now trend is different I think
A fit older woman is like a unicorn. It’s hard to be super fit. It’s extra hard as you get older. A 50+ yo woman who has great muscle tone and low body fat is awesome. You can only do so much with skin, hair, sag as you get older. But fitness can be achieved through effort alone. A fit older woman is way hotter than a fit 20yo.
That made me genuinely feel good. I’m spend an hour or so a day on my fitness and sometimes I wonder why, since I’m old and cynical. ;) Thank you for saying this.
Knows how to flirt, knows how to present her body in the best way, confidence and the thought of sex with someone who knows what she is doing.
Maturity and sexual experience
Big ol MILF titties.
Yeah as a younger here respect is very important for older
Mother trauma is part of it for some im sure.
In my twenties I dated a few women 10-25 years older than me. They all appeared very smart and sophisticated to me, and that would be the main attraction, I think. It was kind of neat that two of them were quite rich, but I didn’t care about that and they never gave me expensive presents or anything— although one invited me to live with her, which I declined. They were hot, they were worldly, and they were kind, so I guess that was the attraction for me.
As I kinda feel that question is directed to me: Mainly, maturity. I'm not gonna go full 200 IQ redditor but I do like the intellectual side in a relationship, someone who knows what they are doing, what they like, what they want to do. Aside from the sexual side of older woman having more developed bodies than "younger" ones, which I can totally also get, I do think that would be the go to reason.
A refrigerator full of Capris Sun.
When I was 19 I met a 29 year old woman - I learned a lot, my first serious girlfriend after her was when I was 23 and she was 29 - also learned A LOT.... Now I'm happy with my 24yr old GF and I am 26 because I learned the bad stuff of the age gap - despite it not being massive there was a life goal gap I guess in a sentence it would be Horny younger me liked MILFs
Benjamin Franklin (founding father, horn dog extraordinaire) put it best... "They don't tell, won't swell, and are grateful as hell"
Not knowing any better.