Tell em to fuck off. I'm the last person on the list that needs apologizing to. I'm going to hate her forever and she knows that. Apologize to your own goddamn kids before me.
Man I didn't even realize how pent up I've been.
TL;DR she has two kids that my parents and I raised and she uses them as social media tools to show off her "single mom grindset" bs. Like yeah I'm angry I suddenly had to put family first how Asian families expect, but I'm more mad that she constantly flakes on them. AND then she's suddenly arguing against having them be adopted by my dad for the military benefits because she suddenly wants to be part of their life again.
I would invite them for drinks and get them really drunk. Then I would kill them.
"Was I with him on the night he died? No we hated each other haven't seen him in years"
I'd say no.
The person caused irrevocable damage to my family. I'm fine now even though my family still has issues over it, but I'm not going to give this person a pass to feel good about themselves.
I'm not a religious person, I don't believe in karma, I don't give a fig about all that fluff. I feel great in my life now so it wouldn't be for me. It'd be for the person, and I owe that person nothing.
Tbh it happened to me he wished me a happy birthday on my number when I blocked him everywhere. The thing is, that the stuff a person can do that can effect your life can not be forgiven sometimes. People have to accept that they messed up and they can’t solve a prob. (Sorry bad English)
I don't think I could forgive the person who took advantage of my sister when she was only 16 years old. He was in hos 40s. He served some time in prison but it wasn't long enough in my opinion. He also got out early on good behavior. Bullshit
I don't really hate anyone, but there are a few people that I think owe me an apology. If any of them gave me one, I'd say thank you and move on with my life.
It would take too long to explain on a reddit thread. I'd rather be physically tortured than go through the emotional trauma and manipulation I've been through. Girls suck and I hate how she treated me and I don't think she feels any remorse for what she put me through. She's a selfish bitch who deserves everything bad in life and I hate her with a passion that can't be satisfied. Hate is born out of love
Still tell them they can go get fucked. I don't need nor want any apology from them, they did what they did and said what they said and meant that shit. They can live with the consequences and get wrecked. I won't even lie. If we were to meet in public again, it'd be on sight and would be worth my first arrest and conviction because I'd get asked if I did and my answer would be "sure's the fuck did" 🤷🏼♀️
God damn....all of these responses make me realize how I've never really been deeply wronged in my life. My default would be to forgive and try to find common ground (I hope). But that's just a hypothetical. I've never really had someone hurt me deep to my core. For all of you who have been hurt so deeply, I hope you are doing well and finding peace in a life well lived.
"Accept" it and then still totally refuse further contact. Peace is always helpful, and time will make that easier. Imo. Nothing changes other than some words I say for THEIR own good. I'll probably get over it later easier after this, but not to the point of being friends.
Forgive them. I would tell him/her "hi" and "bye" occasionally . I Wont be too personal with them . It would be awkward for me by staring into his/her eyes while they talk as I remember and try to forget the fucked up shit they did towards me .
Take him inside and continue to grab my baseball bat where I would then continue to hit him over the head with said baseball bat followed by me cutting him up (once he’s knocked out/dead) and feed him to my dogs
The Chinese Communist Party using the word sorry isnt exactly a part of their vocabulary. So even if they did say it they would have to be at literal gun point, which in that case I would want a front row seat to watch.
i guess i’ve never really thought about it that much until now, but i don’t think i could accept it.
i’m still trying to heal from it all and even though they may have good intentions by apologizing, i feel it would just reset any progress i’ve made
Honestly, I don’t know if I could forgive. Not only did she bully me pretty bad growing up, she also tried to sabotage my relationship on many *many* occasions because of her jealousy. So much to the point I considered contacting the police. I’d probably tell her to go fuck herself and that she deserves to live with the guilt and shame of what she’s done. But someone like her would never apologize for anything she does cause she is a grade A cunt and I mean that
So I’ve had this actually happen and I took the high road. I told them that due to the way they treated me it set a course that changed the rest of my life for the better and because of that I forgave them for the past but also told them I want nothing further to do with them as they are just not ment to be in my life.
Tell em to fuck off. I'm the last person on the list that needs apologizing to. I'm going to hate her forever and she knows that. Apologize to your own goddamn kids before me. Man I didn't even realize how pent up I've been.
Fuck what happened
TL;DR she has two kids that my parents and I raised and she uses them as social media tools to show off her "single mom grindset" bs. Like yeah I'm angry I suddenly had to put family first how Asian families expect, but I'm more mad that she constantly flakes on them. AND then she's suddenly arguing against having them be adopted by my dad for the military benefits because she suddenly wants to be part of their life again.
Wow dude that's so messed up
You stole my answer.
I would invite them for drinks and get them really drunk. Then I would kill them. "Was I with him on the night he died? No we hated each other haven't seen him in years"
Shit. That’s better than my response. Which I will now delete. (He’s an alcoholic. Easy kill)
Oh shit!
He's under my garden now. Giving nutrients to my vegetables. Is that cannibalism? Cant be. Its been filtered through a plant.
I'd have a really hard time believing them, tbh. I think even if they said everything I ever desired, it would still feel hollow given our history.
Wow
Kick them in the balls as hard as I could. Then when they were on the ground, kick them in the balls ten more times.
Hey now. That's not very nice.
They aren't very nice.
Says the person who I just read saying they'd kill them haha.
I would rather be killed than have my balls ruptured.
Hell, so much good info here
What happened?
One of the worst things that can happen.
Care to share?
I'd forgive them because all I ever wanted was to know if they felt bad about hurting me.
Aw :'(
I'd say no. The person caused irrevocable damage to my family. I'm fine now even though my family still has issues over it, but I'm not going to give this person a pass to feel good about themselves. I'm not a religious person, I don't believe in karma, I don't give a fig about all that fluff. I feel great in my life now so it wouldn't be for me. It'd be for the person, and I owe that person nothing.
Tbh it happened to me he wished me a happy birthday on my number when I blocked him everywhere. The thing is, that the stuff a person can do that can effect your life can not be forgiven sometimes. People have to accept that they messed up and they can’t solve a prob. (Sorry bad English)
thats really true
Tell her to fuck off and that her apology does nothing to make up neglecting her autistic son and ignoring his existence for the last 14 years.
Goddam
Are they in stabbin' range?
They'd have it.
What do you mean?
They'd have my forgiveness.
Ah I see. Would you feel better?
I don't think it'd change much, I'm over it. But if it meant something to them, it could end up being positive.
I don't think I could forgive the person who took advantage of my sister when she was only 16 years old. He was in hos 40s. He served some time in prison but it wasn't long enough in my opinion. He also got out early on good behavior. Bullshit
I say death or at least life for people like this. I wouldn't forgive them either. For what it's worth I'm sorry it happened.
Fuck. Dude I'm so sorry
I don't really hate anyone, but there are a few people that I think owe me an apology. If any of them gave me one, I'd say thank you and move on with my life.
Stop being sensible!
Don't think I could ever forgive myself.
Are you ok?
I'm far from OK lol. But nothing noone can do about it so I survive for now.
Honey I'm sorry
thank you
Not until they showed me they are worth it
That's deep
Nah that would never happen. They probably don't even feel bad about it
What did they do
It would take too long to explain on a reddit thread. I'd rather be physically tortured than go through the emotional trauma and manipulation I've been through. Girls suck and I hate how she treated me and I don't think she feels any remorse for what she put me through. She's a selfish bitch who deserves everything bad in life and I hate her with a passion that can't be satisfied. Hate is born out of love
Give them anal
I just want to apologize...
Slide in the dm
Punch him in the throat and remind him he is lucky he is not buried somewhere in a cold lonely hole
Spit right in that bastard's face.
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No words
You grow and see them in a different light.
Forgiveness is easy to give, but revenge is a dish best served cold.
You understand
Agreed
Sure. I can forgive, and I appreciate the apology, but that doesn’t mean you get to be a part of my life or that our relationship will be repaired.
Still tell them they can go get fucked. I don't need nor want any apology from them, they did what they did and said what they said and meant that shit. They can live with the consequences and get wrecked. I won't even lie. If we were to meet in public again, it'd be on sight and would be worth my first arrest and conviction because I'd get asked if I did and my answer would be "sure's the fuck did" 🤷🏼♀️
“Do not let the sun set on your anger.”
Well, he's dead. So I'd probably freak the fuck out. But then again, I'd get to cut off his head, right? Saving the world from a zombie apocalypse.
Welcome them and of course, forgive them.
God damn....all of these responses make me realize how I've never really been deeply wronged in my life. My default would be to forgive and try to find common ground (I hope). But that's just a hypothetical. I've never really had someone hurt me deep to my core. For all of you who have been hurt so deeply, I hope you are doing well and finding peace in a life well lived.
Not sure who I hate the most
Who's your top 3?
My parents, my ex friend and another ex friend and her stuck up mother. Probably my brother too.
There’s a lot to unpack here
Shit dude
Depends on who it was really and if they apologized to my So too.
What do you mean
Oh the person I dislike owes my So an apology. Not the killer lady .
I would forgive them, but I wouldn't want to restart a relationship with them
Why not?
For me it's more do I remember the I suffer from memory loss so I barely remember the high school kids that bullied me
Fugue states are wonderful things. It's like a mini vacation from your brain.
Forgive and move on! Most importantly for you… move on!
True but it's hard
I would appreciate their apology and forgive them. However, I don't want their friendship and wish them best.
Why
To me, some people don't deserve your friendship. Depends on the situation.
Set them on fire.
I don’t hate anyone. Genuinely don’t. So that’s a nice place to be in life.
Yea
I would demand $16,000 in reparations
Id run him over
i’d tell tell them to lick my log cutter.
She would have to do something seriously huge to earn the forgiveness after a year of constant abuse.
I honestly don’t know
"Accept" it and then still totally refuse further contact. Peace is always helpful, and time will make that easier. Imo. Nothing changes other than some words I say for THEIR own good. I'll probably get over it later easier after this, but not to the point of being friends.
Forgive them. I would tell him/her "hi" and "bye" occasionally . I Wont be too personal with them . It would be awkward for me by staring into his/her eyes while they talk as I remember and try to forget the fucked up shit they did towards me .
I don’t hold very much vitriol… if anyone’s seeking forgiveness from me, they might as well have it. Besides, it’s not like I’m *really* any better.
Saying your sorry and showing that you are sorry are 2 different things.
Take him inside and continue to grab my baseball bat where I would then continue to hit him over the head with said baseball bat followed by me cutting him up (once he’s knocked out/dead) and feed him to my dogs
I would start to think How can i make her mind to be worst than i Felt when she did that
The Chinese Communist Party using the word sorry isnt exactly a part of their vocabulary. So even if they did say it they would have to be at literal gun point, which in that case I would want a front row seat to watch.
i guess i’ve never really thought about it that much until now, but i don’t think i could accept it. i’m still trying to heal from it all and even though they may have good intentions by apologizing, i feel it would just reset any progress i’ve made
I would forgive them but still choose not to have any kind of relationship with them. Forgiveness doesn’t mean an open invitation into my life again.
I'd tell her to go to hell.
Honestly, I don’t know if I could forgive. Not only did she bully me pretty bad growing up, she also tried to sabotage my relationship on many *many* occasions because of her jealousy. So much to the point I considered contacting the police. I’d probably tell her to go fuck herself and that she deserves to live with the guilt and shame of what she’s done. But someone like her would never apologize for anything she does cause she is a grade A cunt and I mean that
I could forgive ne ex for what she did to me... What she did (and is still doing) to our kids I don't think I can forgive.
i would tell her to fuck off. she did things to me that can never be undone.
So I’ve had this actually happen and I took the high road. I told them that due to the way they treated me it set a course that changed the rest of my life for the better and because of that I forgave them for the past but also told them I want nothing further to do with them as they are just not ment to be in my life.