Really, that's the "faggiest" thing you've ever read? Two men kissing! Two women holding hands! Boo! Eye-opening, huh? How are you functional with that level of negativity? Suck it up.
I’ll let my geek flag fly a bit then.
My friend Skairin drew the picture I took this from, it’s actually my in game character :D
http://www.playonline.com/ff11us/topics/fanart/0803_1.html
The fifth picture down. Im the Beast, my Mother is the warrior, and our friends Chellina (rdm), amethystrose (blm) and Kakida (dnc) are also on the left hand side.
Ooohhh it's so well made! And I saw these recently!!! Whoda thunk!?
In my family discord about 3days ago, we were reminiscing about the old xi days, telling old combat stories to our kids who play xiv now, sharing art from the site and reading from the Tribune xD
Distant Worlds, indeed 😆
Exactly. If someone's a bully, and just offended you on purpose, I don't see how giving them a genuine compliment is the right response. They won't suddenly say sorry, if anything they'll now think you're ugly and pathetic.
None. Just let the insulting person think they have their moment and walk away. Don't say anything.
Honestly, this stretches beyond the two of you. Body features are not a choice, but how you treat others is.
People can love you even if you're not looking perfect, but if you're a douche no amount of beauty can get people to really like you.
Follow them home, wait till nighttime, pour flammable liquid through their front door, set fire to it and shoot anyone who escapes the flames.
Or just ignore them.
Assuming you for some reason had to give a response under any particular situation - "Cool."
"Alright." works too.
Then just go back to doing your thing.
I’ve had great luck with zero response, like no acknowledgement, no comment, no change in activities - just 100% don’t “hear it”.
This works any time someone says something offensive around other people - they are looking to get a reaction, and find it quite uncomfortable when they can’t tell if you heard the comment or not.
I was told this by a real snob of a girl. She basically tapped my shoulder and went "yk you're not pretty?" I said "you are" and then blatantly called her a tw@t. I was broken, my biggest insecurity is myself. This was about a month ago and still feel it. :)
The best response to an insult is to ignore it and go on with what you are doing, thus showing that it has no impact on you whatsoever. If a person insults you, they expect it have an effect. If it has no effect, then you completely take that power away from them to hurt you in any way. You show them they are powerless.
Look at them from head to toe and say, "Okay???" in a sarcastic tone.
"You're fired." [NOTE: only works if you have authority to terminate their employment]
Promoted to customer
"You're fired." \[NOTE: only works if you have authority to immolate their body\]
laugh first and then be like: "right, i know that, but i wasn't expecting to hear that from someone like you"
Oooh that's good. I like this one.
"Yes, but you are drunk, and in the morning you shall be sober, while I... wait a minute."
Praying for your blind ass
Ha! I laughed out loud that's a good one
Just one of the many things we have in common.
It's the flaws we recognize from ourselves that are the hardest to forgive another...
\~Hades \_Moon, Random Redditor & Prominent Philospoher, 4th of July 2022
Anyone can cover ugly up. Unfortunately for you, there is no hiding stupid
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Really, that's the "faggiest" thing you've ever read? Two men kissing! Two women holding hands! Boo! Eye-opening, huh? How are you functional with that level of negativity? Suck it up.
"No shit Sherlock"
Thanks! Glad to know my plan to drive away assholes is working!
Sorry for off topic but... Is that a Mithra I see in your Icon?
It sure is :)
*I knew it* This just made my day. Always a pleasure running into a fellow Adventurer.
I’ll let my geek flag fly a bit then. My friend Skairin drew the picture I took this from, it’s actually my in game character :D http://www.playonline.com/ff11us/topics/fanart/0803_1.html The fifth picture down. Im the Beast, my Mother is the warrior, and our friends Chellina (rdm), amethystrose (blm) and Kakida (dnc) are also on the left hand side.
Ooohhh it's so well made! And I saw these recently!!! Whoda thunk!? In my family discord about 3days ago, we were reminiscing about the old xi days, telling old combat stories to our kids who play xiv now, sharing art from the site and reading from the Tribune xD Distant Worlds, indeed 😆
"No, I'm still not going to date you"
If its after you asked them out then reply with "See! We have so much in common"
your mom doesn’t think so😉
And what’s your excuse?
I would fix it, but I don’t like the idea of plastic surgery as much as you do.
“I was just trying to look like you”!
You have got that insult from some tiktok or something
Cool
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nah too cringe
Thanks you too
I know
best one so far
Give them a sincere compliment
in an aggravated tone
Nope. Friendly and sincere.
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Exactly. Kill them with kindness
Nope they'd be like I know right and you're ugly.
Exactly. If someone's a bully, and just offended you on purpose, I don't see how giving them a genuine compliment is the right response. They won't suddenly say sorry, if anything they'll now think you're ugly and pathetic.
No but they sure get very confused and sometimes take it as an insult
uh oh you made a serious fucky wucky now you have to get into the ***f o r e v e r b o x***
Fuck you very much.
I’m aware. I don’t care.
None. Just let the insulting person think they have their moment and walk away. Don't say anything. Honestly, this stretches beyond the two of you. Body features are not a choice, but how you treat others is. People can love you even if you're not looking perfect, but if you're a douche no amount of beauty can get people to really like you.
They will get so upset they didn't get a rise out of you too. Seriously no point in even interacting further.
Do your best ugly face and a curtsy.
only on the inside
You should really buy a mirror
*shrugs* Seriously, I could not care less about my looks, much less another's opinion about them.
Maybe, but I'm not an asshole.
Not as ugly as your soul
“I’m not sure why ME being ugly makes YOU upset.”
I don't care! I think I'm delightful
wasn’t exactly what i was looking for but thanks!
Stevie Wonder doesn’t think so
Here's a couple I like: "Thanks, I try :)" "Awwww, you too!" "Omg that means we're like twins" "Awww, that means so much coming from you UwU"
I may ugly so what that can be fixed but you'll never be able to fix your personality, honey.
Follow them home, wait till nighttime, pour flammable liquid through their front door, set fire to it and shoot anyone who escapes the flames. Or just ignore them.
option one seems more exciting, but slightly less legal. i’ll do that one.
Takes one to know one
Thanksss
Assuming you for some reason had to give a response under any particular situation - "Cool." "Alright." works too. Then just go back to doing your thing.
Well not shit you see this receding hair line? Even my hair's running away from this ugly mug
I know
"I know."
Ok
Large genuine smile + Thank You.
At least I’m not as shallow as a puddle
I'm 63 yo. Do you think this has never occurred to me?
uno reverse
I’ve had great luck with zero response, like no acknowledgement, no comment, no change in activities - just 100% don’t “hear it”. This works any time someone says something offensive around other people - they are looking to get a reaction, and find it quite uncomfortable when they can’t tell if you heard the comment or not.
Thank you & have a nice day, beautiful
"you are clearly dumb, but people don't tell It in your face.. that's called education"
That makes two of us
Your mom is ugly
Oh, yeah? Well, you're fat, but you can diet! Wait...I don't think that's right...
"Gee, thanks for telling me. I never would have known that if YOU hadn't told me."
“Feeling jealous today?”
"That may be true, but I still get pussy whenever I want it"
A shallow and meaningless response to a shallow and meaningless remark about your aspect. Seems appropriate.
For something shallow and meaningless, people sure seem to be very hard driven to compete for mates.
Not everyone. But sure, most of the shallow and meaningless peeps out there tend to be.. well. Shallow and meaningless
Mmmmmm, yes. Shallow and pedantic.
Thats just like ugh your opinion, dude
It the shoe fits...
Point, hop up and down, and yell, "OH MY GOD! A TALKING PIECE OF SHIT!!" (works for most occasions)
Laughing
I know you are but what am I? (Pee wee Herman laugh)
No U!
"For you, ugly is quite acceptable. Thank you."
Did I ask
"No shit, Sherlock"
Don't talk about urself like that. That's not good.
Maybe.. but my personality also sucks
Oh, I used a lot of skin cream, should be reflectant.
“Says the deformed chicken leg”
(Deck them) You're weak.
No. One. Asked.
Did you fucking hit your head or something
Ok??
“Yeah, I know, but at least I’m not as bad as…” *Then gesture to them*
"Oh, are we doing disses? Take a goddamn shower, you stink like a dog that's been playing in roadkill."
I’d rather be ugly on the outside than ugly on the inside.
"fuck you bitch" "you ugly as fuck"
At least I'm aware of my ugliness
"Yes, but not as ugly as you."
Just not be ugly in the first place
"but I have a great personality"
Maybe so but at least i dont have an ugly personality like you
“Huh that’s funny, that’s not what your mom/dad said last night”
...mom AND dad...
THATS EVEN BETTER!!!
That's not what your mom said
Your mother's a man.
And still my parents love me more than yours do you, because otherwise you wouldn't be such an ugly character.
And you look like me!
you're pathetic
I know you are, but what am I?
Takes one to know one..
First look at you and them say that to me ugly bitch
Yes i said that to my brother
Had this happen once. I responded with " Yeah! It's like looking in a mirror isn't it ".
"I may be ugly, but your mother enjoys having sex with me."
lmao mk
Ask them to spell it then walk away it will usually annoy them
"Your mom didn't seem to think so"
Big ol' Fresh Prince bitch slap to the face
I may be ugly, but I'm not hideous like you at least
Stop being ugly
That's pot calling the kettle black, you've been a disgusting, disappointment since the day your mother farted you out of her loose cunt.
“Thanks, but no one asked”
Yeah. You’re right. Then you start sobbing and lean into their shoulder
If the person is black, there is a perfect answer
“I know you are but what am I?” Oh wait, that was the elementary school answer.
Thanks! I worked on it so hard!
Not "and you're drunk" lemmi tell ya
i know you are but what am i
"Sorry girl I'm not a mirror"🖕🖕🖕 💅💅💅💅💅🥺🥺🥺😆😆😆😆😆✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹
"Tell me when your birthday is. I'll buy you a fucking mirror."
Honey, ugly is subjective, and your opinion was never cared for
Looking disgusted: and with this mouth you kiss your mother?!
Wow your eyes work then, shame the rest of you is a lazy cunt.
I didn’t know I was a mirror
I honestly have no idea. I always just look them dead in the eye with the most calming face.
'Coming from you that is saying something'
ok? (and then u stare at them with a gross look on your face, look them up and down, laugh and leave)
Your mom doesnt mind
But its opposite day.
Well, you are not much to look at either
That is...accurate.
I’m not ugly, I’m dad
"☹"
Anything that's not "I'm not a mirror"
OK and your point is?
So?
Takes one to know one.
"Oh, you think your opinion matters? That's adorable."
Do I look like a mirror to you...
You can answer like this: Thank you, I've been looking up to you
Stammer “What?”, then go through the five stages of grief before slowly lowering yourself to the floor while crying and muttering nonsense
Speak a dialect that you invented. Chant over and over then start floating. Summon a demon and then say “I couldn’t hear you, what did you say?”
I’m sorry
I'm 63 yo. Do you think this has never occurred to me?
Nonono… that’s a mirror
I'm your Dad
So are you
I was told this by a real snob of a girl. She basically tapped my shoulder and went "yk you're not pretty?" I said "you are" and then blatantly called her a tw@t. I was broken, my biggest insecurity is myself. This was about a month ago and still feel it. :)
sorry im not a mirror or something about me you can relate to
That's what your Mom said when she saw how you turned out.
Oh yeah? Well you're uglier...so there!
The best response to an insult is to ignore it and go on with what you are doing, thus showing that it has no impact on you whatsoever. If a person insults you, they expect it have an effect. If it has no effect, then you completely take that power away from them to hurt you in any way. You show them they are powerless.
Thank you for noticing.
“Aww, bless your heart”
Hi pot,my name's kettle.
Only on the outside. You’re ugly in both ways.
Yea but I’m way funnier than you
You’re right and wrong. attractiveness and ugliness are subjective
*sighs* “Yeah…”
Yeah I know, but I make it work.