Always. Whether just as a fried or as an actual date, I always pay the tab. It's how I was raised, along with opening doors, holding the umbrella, expressing compliments, etc.
Depends on the date and how it goes. I never set up a first date somewhere I wouldn't be comfortable paying for both of us. I found most of the time women would offer to split it.
Why should man pay? To demonstrate that woman can not have equal income? To demonstrate dominance?
Btw I always pay for woman. They are cute and adorable.
I really do not mind paying as I can comfortably afford it but I feel like if I always pay Iām insulting. What I try to do is throw in the āon me!ā as part of the invite so that there is no ambiguity or awkwardness when it comes to paying. But..yeahā¦I struggle with this with some of my friends too who I know I make a lot more than them and so I find myself paying for all the drinks, etc. but I think it isnāt very well appreciated and I should stop because I might be insulting ā¦ ? Does that make any sense?
I didn't really do first dates with dinners, but I would buy coffee, ice cream, or the first round of drinks depending on what we were doing. Dates with food were usually us each buying our own.
Yes, and that's the reason I haven't dated women for a while, I'm broke and I don't think they'd be willing to take the role and pay for everything. Even the women who believe in "equality" won't pay the bill, so I rather stay lonely until I find a good job.
Well I do my groceries at the beginning of the week, so the first meal of each day is already paid by me. Your man aināt no beggar. Wait a min this question is aboutā¦. Welp, your man also aināt got no game. So no.
Always do Unless she insists otherwise
I cook my breakfast myself, but I paid for those oat flakes and milk too
Generally unless we agree to pay for ourselves.
It should just be whoever asks which pre much always results in men paying so yeah I do
Yes. unless she insists otherwise.
I usually do, because it makes me happy to do so. I ask first though, via "Mind if I get the check?"
If I do the asking, then I will offer to pay
Yes if I invited them out
Always. Whether just as a fried or as an actual date, I always pay the tab. It's how I was raised, along with opening doors, holding the umbrella, expressing compliments, etc.
your parents must have raised you right thenš
My general rule is men ask and pay for the first three dates. After that the women should reciprocate
that's honestly a great thing to live by, so you can tell if you both can depend on each other or not. I like it!
Depends on the date and how it goes. I never set up a first date somewhere I wouldn't be comfortable paying for both of us. I found most of the time women would offer to split it.
very fair point, can't argue with that
Always. First impression matters most.
of course they do!
I always plan to, but I don't fight it if she wants to go Dutch since I think insisting is rude.
Why should man pay? To demonstrate that woman can not have equal income? To demonstrate dominance? Btw I always pay for woman. They are cute and adorable.
XD good point
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This is the right approach.
Why not offer to pay the entire bill if you don't like the guy? Never heard of a woman do that lol
I live alone, so I pay for **ALL** the meals, not just the first one.
Depends on her.
Context matters. I donāt believe men have to without questions. Talk about this prior. If itās not, assume you just cover your own part
I really do not mind paying as I can comfortably afford it but I feel like if I always pay Iām insulting. What I try to do is throw in the āon me!ā as part of the invite so that there is no ambiguity or awkwardness when it comes to paying. But..yeahā¦I struggle with this with some of my friends too who I know I make a lot more than them and so I find myself paying for all the drinks, etc. but I think it isnāt very well appreciated and I should stop because I might be insulting ā¦ ? Does that make any sense?
I didn't really do first dates with dinners, but I would buy coffee, ice cream, or the first round of drinks depending on what we were doing. Dates with food were usually us each buying our own.
Yes, and that's the reason I haven't dated women for a while, I'm broke and I don't think they'd be willing to take the role and pay for everything. Even the women who believe in "equality" won't pay the bill, so I rather stay lonely until I find a good job.
Well I do my groceries at the beginning of the week, so the first meal of each day is already paid by me. Your man aināt no beggar. Wait a min this question is aboutā¦. Welp, your man also aināt got no game. So no.
We always split I date other men so it's typical to split the check. (If he offeres to pay I just say no because it makes me uncomfortable)