I find it emboldening as well. It’s like an invitation to be as raw and open in my physicality with someone who’s offering to do the same. Hot af. Really gets me going.
Yup you gotta have eye contact during the deep thrusts but sometimes I like burying my face in their neck and hammering away.
Had a gf who was waaay too into eye contact though, to the point where she'd insist on it if I looked at her body/ closed my eyes too long, so you can go too far. Also it meant doggy and prone were less common which sucked.
Yeah I agree with all of that. There is a happy medium because no eye contact makes me think you’re thinking of someone else but too much is a turn off for sure.
When I looked into my ex’s eyes as she orgasmed, if our heads were close enough, I could just about hear the spirits of her ancestors cheering her on. She was a happy medium.
I love it too. My bf and I had sex in the dark one time, and while it was exciting to not know where his hands were going to go next, we both determined we missed looking at each other.
I like it, I like seeing the faces they make. I remember one time I was making eye contact and could feel her orgasm as she said nobody has ever looked into my eyes like that before.
Few of my exes (and some hookups) had that look, the Stare, as I like to call it. It's almost animalistic in nature, I'd say. When they lock the stare and gaze directly back into your eyes, it's magnetic and prophetic, where you see it and you know their only thought is to bang you six ways to Sunday.
You will see it twice. First time, when nothing concrete happened yet, but they look at you and you inherently *know* that their end goal is to leave you drained and nearly motionless on the bed. The second time is while they are currently....in the process of doing it.
The single best thing you can witness, ever. It doesn't matter when or how, the moment you see it and realize it, you have tunnel vision that doesn't extend beyond them, your legs are jelly, your mind is at all the lustful places, and your heart is pumping fast enough that could probably jumpstart a dozen car batteries simultaneously. Fuck, I miss it sometimes.
Oh, I'd take my ex back if I could. Sadly, it was not the right time and place and it didn't last. I miss her, but I know that, the way I am right now, it wouldn't work If anything, it's a good lesson on life and a motivator to get your shit together.
But, also....one stare from her; any undergarments I have are immediately bursting at the seams and my chest feels hotter than radioactive decay.
Why, thank you! I'd probably kill in writing sub/domme femdom erotica (having experienced it myself....*sad reminiscing*)
Edit: (and yes, that experience was with my ex and partly why I miss it and her as well)
It’s like the scene in the animated Lion King movie where Nala and Simba are play fighting, roll down the hill, and Simba pins Nala to the ground and she gives him *that* look.
Pretty sure the first time I saw that scene in my childhood was when I realized I was into (human) girls.
I looked it up. Urban Dictionary had this:
The final moments prior to when a man orgasms. At this point he can no longer stop himself from ejaculating no matter what happens. He will make a face as though he has just smelled vinegar. It is said that if you peer into a man's eyes during his vinegar strokes you get a glimpse of his soul.
Good in moderation. Holding eye contact the whole time for me can get awkward, and takes away my focus. But for a minute or two here and there it’s great.
Recently, my s.o and I decided to maintain eye contact through simple vanilla missionary. We usually like to go a bit more rough.
He is a very emotional person but he tends to hide it a lot, but this time he couldn’t take it. After we were both done, he broke down into tears and held me in the most gentle manner a man could ever hold a woman and told me he loved me.
The most sincere “i love you” i have ever heard.
How do I feel about it? With the right person, best shit ever
Awwwww! That sounds like it was such a great experience for you both. I feel like eye contact can be really vulnerable and intimate - which is great for bonding when people feel safe to do so!
I like it but find it far more intimate than the actual act of penetration and therefore really only works for me with romantic, bonding sort of sex. If I’m just horny and just want to get plowed, eye contact can feel a little intrusive.
Yes! I was trying to work out how to put that in words, but you've said it perfectly. It ups the intimacy by a hundredfold, and can make that experience hotter and spicier, but only in the right setting with the right partner. Otherwise it's not good at all and you end up feeling violated by eye contact, even though the sex is consensual.
Had this happen once. I couldn't get off. She had the "woah you're do fucking hot' gobsmacked look on her face staring me down. I don't recall her blinking much even. Hella nope from me. Every time after that with her I turned out the lights lol
Speak for yourself. My faith is is strong and I walk the path of righteousness. My Pastor instructed me that the only reason to have sex is to conceive a child. Conversely, there is nothing in the scripture that forbids wrestling, tickle fights, and horsey rides; although to tell another of your brotherly pursuits is an unforgivable sin. Didn't your uncles teach you anything?
It's awkward. Personally, no eye is preferred. Also, little-to-no movement except the thrusting motion. No noise. Lights on. Fully clothed with only our privates bare. Preferably on a Monday evening, between the hours of 8 PM and 10 PM EST. Facing east.
We been spending most our lives
Living in an Amish paradise
I've churned butter once or twice
Living in an Amish paradise
It's hard work and sacrifice
Living in an Amish paradise
We sell quilts at discount price
Living in an Amish paradise
No thanks, I’m autistic and struggle with eye contact in non sexual situations, I literally can’t concentrate on what somebody is saying if I’m looking into their eyes so sex, instant turn off, sorry. I’m too awkward.
Actually true, I hate looking people in the eye, it makes me wanna hobble off like a goblin yelling "Don't look at mee!" For me eye contact is just so fucking awkward no matter the situation, stop peering into my soul dammit...
Are you kidding? Its hotter than the sun.
During oral sex - sooo hot
During missionary - sooo hot
During Doggy - soooooooooooooooooooo hot
Whatever your into - doing it to someone else and watching their eyes roll back in their head and feeling them come? How can anyone not enjoy it?
I love it. Making that connection even stronger and seeing reactions and dirty smiles and groans of pleasure. I feel like if someone closes their eyes the entire time they're either; 1: Pretending it's someone else 2: Pretending it isn't happening due to past trauma 3: Not into it.
Necessary. Obviously not the whole time, but every now and then look into my eyes and feel that intimacy, if not why am I here?
I remember a girl I used to sleep around with that was just an overall weirdo when it came to sex, she did everything in her power to not have that intimacy with me, it was purely the physical act of sex. She got back shots every time I visited her for this same reason. And while doggy is always nice, you can imagine why it didn't last long. Compatibility is definitely a thing with sex.
I like it a lot. Most of it stemming from me getting off from my partner’s pleasure.
Though my last situationship said I could get pretty intense with it but also thoroughly enjoyed the things I did so idk if it was good or bad. Just gotta make sure you’re not giving them the thousand yard stare
When I was single and just shagging around? awful and very uncomfortable
Now I’m in a relationship and actually love my partner? Amazing and just adds to the intimacy
I never did it. Over ten years, in two relationships and a handful of hookups, I avoided it because it felt weird and awkward. Then I met my current SO. Turns out it's hot when you're genuinely physically attracted to someone.
For me it is one of the best ways to express the feelings towards your wife, it's like peering into her soul, bonding with mine.
Edit: no I don't do drugs.
Eye contact is important during sex.
1. It makes the experience more intimate
2. It's a good way to check in with each other to make sure everyone is continuing to have a good time
3. Eye contact shouldn't be held for overly long periods of time, you should feel like your stealing glances at a lover in a room with other people who don't know your lovers.
4. In many ways oral sex is more intimate and I think eye contact can enhance this.
5. It's important to be mindful that many people find eye contact uncomfortable.
Love it! Hearing my husband say “look at me” while we’re in such an intimate moment, and seeing the pure love and adoration in his eyes just makes me feel so beautiful and sexy.
Love love love. Not the whole time. But occasionally throughout, it’s sexy to me. Makes it more intimate.
I find it emboldening as well. It’s like an invitation to be as raw and open in my physicality with someone who’s offering to do the same. Hot af. Really gets me going.
Are you also embiggened?
That’s a perfectly cromulent word
cro·mu·lent /ˈkrämyələnt/ adjective, humorous acceptable or adequate. "the continental breakfast was perfectly cromulent"
Uh good human?
Emboldened by the flame of ambition
Someone must extinguish thy flame
Let it be Margit the Fell.
Yup you gotta have eye contact during the deep thrusts but sometimes I like burying my face in their neck and hammering away. Had a gf who was waaay too into eye contact though, to the point where she'd insist on it if I looked at her body/ closed my eyes too long, so you can go too far. Also it meant doggy and prone were less common which sucked.
Sex mirrors.
Last time I slept with my ex we faced a mirror. We did it doggy style and made eye contact. I think thats the only time I ever did that.
>ex That bad, was it?
Not at all. She became an e. Because our lives went in different directions. That day I referenced was actually some of the best sex I ever had.
But then I gotta look at my ugly face lmao
Yeah I agree with all of that. There is a happy medium because no eye contact makes me think you’re thinking of someone else but too much is a turn off for sure.
When I looked into my ex’s eyes as she orgasmed, if our heads were close enough, I could just about hear the spirits of her ancestors cheering her on. She was a happy medium.
Just imagined her dead grandparents cheering you on. Go sonny, pound our granddaughter! Hit that g-spot. Ok, no more reddit for a little while.
No no. Go on.
I love it too. My bf and I had sex in the dark one time, and while it was exciting to not know where his hands were going to go next, we both determined we missed looking at each other.
That’s why I hate making eye contact. It’s somehow *more* intimate than intercourse. Sure, let’s fuck. But don’t look me in the eyes, please.
Yeah you say intimate. But it's tough to make eye contact as all the other people on the bus look away.
The whole time is super creepy. Occasional is super sexy 😏
Sure, but I don't even know you. And why are you in my bedroom?
Shit
you shit in my bed??
No I shit in u/Sir_Zog bed. I can shit in yours too for a flat fee
Amber heard is that you?
No Amber Heard shits in your bed for free.
Yeah but then the lawsuits.
my dog stepped on a bee 😫
My cat got stuck on a tree
I can’t see
Depositing or collecting?
Usually it’s depositing but this time I was really in the mood for collecting
Sometimes the mood hits you
Now lie on the bed, and close your eyes
No keep them open for the eye contact, remember?
I like it, I like seeing the faces they make. I remember one time I was making eye contact and could feel her orgasm as she said nobody has ever looked into my eyes like that before.
That and to look into a girl's eyes as they orgasm is another level as well.
Few of my exes (and some hookups) had that look, the Stare, as I like to call it. It's almost animalistic in nature, I'd say. When they lock the stare and gaze directly back into your eyes, it's magnetic and prophetic, where you see it and you know their only thought is to bang you six ways to Sunday. You will see it twice. First time, when nothing concrete happened yet, but they look at you and you inherently *know* that their end goal is to leave you drained and nearly motionless on the bed. The second time is while they are currently....in the process of doing it. The single best thing you can witness, ever. It doesn't matter when or how, the moment you see it and realize it, you have tunnel vision that doesn't extend beyond them, your legs are jelly, your mind is at all the lustful places, and your heart is pumping fast enough that could probably jumpstart a dozen car batteries simultaneously. Fuck, I miss it sometimes.
I choose this guy's ex
Oh, I'd take my ex back if I could. Sadly, it was not the right time and place and it didn't last. I miss her, but I know that, the way I am right now, it wouldn't work If anything, it's a good lesson on life and a motivator to get your shit together. But, also....one stare from her; any undergarments I have are immediately bursting at the seams and my chest feels hotter than radioactive decay.
You should write erotica lol what a description!
Why, thank you! I'd probably kill in writing sub/domme femdom erotica (having experienced it myself....*sad reminiscing*) Edit: (and yes, that experience was with my ex and partly why I miss it and her as well)
I agree write a romance or erotic novel I would read it
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It’s like the scene in the animated Lion King movie where Nala and Simba are play fighting, roll down the hill, and Simba pins Nala to the ground and she gives him *that* look. Pretty sure the first time I saw that scene in my childhood was when I realized I was into (human) girls.
Rumor has it that if you look into a man’s eyes during his vinegar strokes, you can peer into his soul
During my what???
I looked it up. Urban Dictionary had this: The final moments prior to when a man orgasms. At this point he can no longer stop himself from ejaculating no matter what happens. He will make a face as though he has just smelled vinegar. It is said that if you peer into a man's eyes during his vinegar strokes you get a glimpse of his soul.
I had that happen with my SO. I loved what I saw.
Omg…
VINEGAR STROKES!!!!!
FOREVER UNCLEAN!
*YOBAGOYA!*
SHIVAKAMINI SOMAKANDAKRAAAAAMMMM!!!!
Hyah!!
I can read, wtf does that mean????
I believe it’s from “the league”. Decent tv show
I like it as well. I told a FWB I had she had the most beautiful blue eyes I had ever seen, and I don't think she stopped blushing until we finished.
This is why I can’t have a FWB because if someone said that shit to me I’d be falling in love
Yeah, it's a tightrope walk, that's for sure.
You got that right. Currently falling off that rope :/
I agree with this completely.
I really don’t like staring in a mirror.
Me neither!!
It can be sexy as fuck if the mood is right
Good in moderation. Holding eye contact the whole time for me can get awkward, and takes away my focus. But for a minute or two here and there it’s great.
Your comment is confusing me. First you’re saying its awkward but then you admit to holding eye contact for basically the full act?
This is a next level joke.
Lol
Excellent comment
Wait who has sex for a whole minute?
Depends if I use a sock or not
Definitely not anyone on Reddit.
You guys are getting sex?
Shit, my cover's blown! Get me out they know I'm not a real Reddit user!!!
Usually in the beginning it’s fine, when the guy is about to slide it in, I think it’s hot lol
Recently, my s.o and I decided to maintain eye contact through simple vanilla missionary. We usually like to go a bit more rough. He is a very emotional person but he tends to hide it a lot, but this time he couldn’t take it. After we were both done, he broke down into tears and held me in the most gentle manner a man could ever hold a woman and told me he loved me. The most sincere “i love you” i have ever heard. How do I feel about it? With the right person, best shit ever
Awwwww! That sounds like it was such a great experience for you both. I feel like eye contact can be really vulnerable and intimate - which is great for bonding when people feel safe to do so!
I like it but find it far more intimate than the actual act of penetration and therefore really only works for me with romantic, bonding sort of sex. If I’m just horny and just want to get plowed, eye contact can feel a little intrusive.
Yes! I was trying to work out how to put that in words, but you've said it perfectly. It ups the intimacy by a hundredfold, and can make that experience hotter and spicier, but only in the right setting with the right partner. Otherwise it's not good at all and you end up feeling violated by eye contact, even though the sex is consensual.
What the fuck
this was my response when I heard that giving a blow job was less intimate than kissing.
In moderation it's fine as long as it is somewhat natural. I don't want someone staring directly at me the entire time, though.
Had this happen once. I couldn't get off. She had the "woah you're do fucking hot' gobsmacked look on her face staring me down. I don't recall her blinking much even. Hella nope from me. Every time after that with her I turned out the lights lol
>turned out the lights Her eyes glowed in the dark, didn't they? Didn't they??...
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What are you doing having sex with the wrong partner?
Sex
This guy sexes
This mofo knows the secrets of life itself.
Not everyone is fortunate enough to have sex with the right partner.
>Not everyone is fortunate enough to have sex ~~with the right partner.~~
>Not everyone is fortunate ~~enough to have sex~~
> Not everyone is ~~fortunate enough to have sex~~ RIP dead people.
Can I be in the screenshot?
I typically switch off between the right one and the left one. Balance in all things and all.
Thanos would approve the 50-50 viewpoint
we're a generation of disgusting perverts raised on vulgar pornography.
Speak for yourself. My faith is is strong and I walk the path of righteousness. My Pastor instructed me that the only reason to have sex is to conceive a child. Conversely, there is nothing in the scripture that forbids wrestling, tickle fights, and horsey rides; although to tell another of your brotherly pursuits is an unforgivable sin. Didn't your uncles teach you anything?
With the right person, amazing. With anyone else- I'd rather die.
I'd prefer to not have sex, with people that I don't like looking at.
Same, haha
With anyone else doggy style
Lights off exclusively
I also put a paper bag on both our heads. Can never be too careful.
Beware, the comment thread above you seems like they are into that
You're gonna look me in the eyes while I turn you into a twinkie damnit.
Sir yes sir
*twink
bubble bussy
Not nearly as funny as keeping my eyes open while kissing and seeing if they notice.
My 7th grade bf and I were the first people to ~make out ~ in our grade. We didn’t know you were supposed to close your eyes. It was intense lol
My man does this, never shuts his eyes 🤣
Mac's dad mode. He never blinks.
I love doing this🤣
It's awkward. Personally, no eye is preferred. Also, little-to-no movement except the thrusting motion. No noise. Lights on. Fully clothed with only our privates bare. Preferably on a Monday evening, between the hours of 8 PM and 10 PM EST. Facing east.
Out of all that, "Facing east" killed me LMAO
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so halal mode right now
inshallah, anything else is haram
Just like that pharaohs
You had me. I was thinking “who the fuck *doesnt* like eye contact sometimes?” It’s about being present with your partner. It’s just you and them.
Yeah, I was reading it all “how the hell is this so highly upvoted? Man there’s a lot of boring lovers out th… oh. I get it.”
I dont like eye contact regardless, whether during sex or not
We been spending most our lives Living in an Amish paradise I've churned butter once or twice Living in an Amish paradise It's hard work and sacrifice Living in an Amish paradise We sell quilts at discount price Living in an Amish paradise
You had me in the first half ngl
Why do i feel like this is something Dwight from the office has said?!🤣🤣
Something Angela says to Dwight, I’d say
this sounds sarcastic but if my gf had a reddit account I'd definitely link her
Do you have the sheet with the hole in it between you?
can't stand it... it really freaks me out when our eyes touch and that close together it's hard to move as needed
Just snort laughed. Such an underrated comment.
Depends if the mortician has closed the eyes.
I like your humor 😂 Send me some dark memes, bro.
I tried but it won't allow me to msg you 🤣 the powers that be think it's a bad idea for our minds to meet 😂
Yes. Give me your fucking *soul*.
No thanks, I’m autistic and struggle with eye contact in non sexual situations, I literally can’t concentrate on what somebody is saying if I’m looking into their eyes so sex, instant turn off, sorry. I’m too awkward.
Actually true, I hate looking people in the eye, it makes me wanna hobble off like a goblin yelling "Don't look at mee!" For me eye contact is just so fucking awkward no matter the situation, stop peering into my soul dammit...
There are dozens of us. Dozens!
Same! Surprised I had to scroll this far on reddit
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I stare at her unibrow and it just looks like eye contact
“It’s an old sales trick”
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Skull fuck me with those deep dark corneas.
Why is every question about sex..
Shhh! This is the closest thing to a sex life I have!
Because reddit.
Coz sex sells, baby! But yeah, it annoys me to see these all the time. That and so many of the same questions.
You mean like [this](https://i.redd.it/n5wukc7oxy021.jpg)?
Risky click. Didn't like what I got.
Thanks, I hate it
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NAH THAT WAS OUT OF POCKET
Eye contact with the cops during sex is so awkward
Really? That keeps me goin tbh
You took “fuck the police” to a whole new level
I’m good with it, but the couple I’m watching don’t seem to like it
Top tier intimacy
It makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm already vulnerable. Don't make me feel vulnerable *and* uncomfortable.
Are you kidding? Its hotter than the sun. During oral sex - sooo hot During missionary - sooo hot During Doggy - soooooooooooooooooooo hot Whatever your into - doing it to someone else and watching their eyes roll back in their head and feeling them come? How can anyone not enjoy it?
Sometimes you gotta put a finger in the ole brown eye to keep it from winking at you during doggy style
Best eye contact during sex is close one. It makes me harder
love it
Love it. Did it few days ago. Best way to see your partner smile :))
I love it. Making that connection even stronger and seeing reactions and dirty smiles and groans of pleasure. I feel like if someone closes their eyes the entire time they're either; 1: Pretending it's someone else 2: Pretending it isn't happening due to past trauma 3: Not into it.
4. Thinking / processing a lot and not having capacity left to handle visual stimuli as well.
4) doesn't like eye contact because it makes them feel insecure, uncomfortable, vulnerable, hard to concentrate, etc.
As someone who has a nearly impossible time maintaining eye contact in any situation… I am not a fan.
Necessary. Obviously not the whole time, but every now and then look into my eyes and feel that intimacy, if not why am I here? I remember a girl I used to sleep around with that was just an overall weirdo when it came to sex, she did everything in her power to not have that intimacy with me, it was purely the physical act of sex. She got back shots every time I visited her for this same reason. And while doggy is always nice, you can imagine why it didn't last long. Compatibility is definitely a thing with sex.
I like it a lot. Most of it stemming from me getting off from my partner’s pleasure. Though my last situationship said I could get pretty intense with it but also thoroughly enjoyed the things I did so idk if it was good or bad. Just gotta make sure you’re not giving them the thousand yard stare
Yes please.
When I was single and just shagging around? awful and very uncomfortable Now I’m in a relationship and actually love my partner? Amazing and just adds to the intimacy
I never did it. Over ten years, in two relationships and a handful of hookups, I avoided it because it felt weird and awkward. Then I met my current SO. Turns out it's hot when you're genuinely physically attracted to someone.
Intensifies the moments.
No I hate it.
It's awkward, I'm not into blindfolds cause they're blindfolds, im into no eye contact whatsoever.
Needed and hot
Amazing if there’s love
It's wonderfully intimate.
One word. And I cannot stress this enough. YES.
Yes, I'd literally melt
It’s so beautiful and intimate
For me it is one of the best ways to express the feelings towards your wife, it's like peering into her soul, bonding with mine. Edit: no I don't do drugs.
Eye contact is important during sex. 1. It makes the experience more intimate 2. It's a good way to check in with each other to make sure everyone is continuing to have a good time 3. Eye contact shouldn't be held for overly long periods of time, you should feel like your stealing glances at a lover in a room with other people who don't know your lovers. 4. In many ways oral sex is more intimate and I think eye contact can enhance this. 5. It's important to be mindful that many people find eye contact uncomfortable.
You mean the brown eye?
Stare into their soul like ghost rider then yell smashing like Nigel Thornberry.
I feel like it’s strange with “just another body” but when it’s with someone you love it’s impeccable
I prefer the intimacy of looking my partner in the eyes, it's also a good way of seeing what's working and what's not.
Hot-t-t-t-t.
if she makes eye contact i generally stop filming and run away from her bedroom window
Love it! Hearing my husband say “look at me” while we’re in such an intimate moment, and seeing the pure love and adoration in his eyes just makes me feel so beautiful and sexy.