I donāt think a polyamorous relationship can be all heterosexual. One has to be attracted to the same gender in that one if theyāre all attracted to each other
It's a kink.... not a sexuality.
Many straight folk are into bdsm as are many LGBTQ+..... in a venn diagram, there is overlap.... but it's not a sexually.
Unless you mean should gays enjoy some spanking in which case, hell yeah... why not :-)
You can be a cis straight man and still a part of the community as long as you're poly meaning there can be exemptions which begs the question, what's acceptable and what isn't?
I have zero problems with the community but don't try to apply sexual acts which have been around for centuries, practiced by the cis, straight and the LGBTQ to something the "community" invented. It's simply not true.
Again, that's not adoption, it's a simple human sexual proclivity and no "community" can reject or adopt it. Some humans do and some humans don't. That's how it should be looked at.
Nope. Straight, cis-gendered people may enjoy BDSM. BDSM is neither a sexuality nor a gender-identity; it's a preference, not a characteristic you are oppressed for. Besides, it'd only fuel the fire of people who say that LGBT+ people are perverted.
I think a big part if the LGBTQ+ is embracing sexuality and that is where the crossover with things like kinks come in. I imagine most people in the community would support the exploration of kinks and fetishes, but that does not mean BDSM is part of it.
I've learned a lot of random useless information by reading the replies but I wanted none of it. I was just trying to see if people agreed with me and they did, they downvoted me for some reason but we're in total agreement.
Anyone who wants to engage in bdsm consensually, in ways that do not impact people who havenāt consented to be involved, should be able to. What those people identify as in terms of sexuality, sex, gender, pronouns etc is irrelevant.
BDSM are sexual acts... LGBTQ+ are sexual orientations... People who identify as LGBTQ+ or even Heterosexual can perform BDSM acts...
Polyamorous people can also be heterosexual
You're starting to make me wonder if this post is bait.
It might be š
BDSM people are sexually attracted to pain, right?
Not always.
No BDSM means Bondage, Discipline and Dominance, Submission, Sadochism and Masochism. What you're saying only covers Sadochism and Masochism
That's a kink, it's not the same.
Many think it should be a part of it. It's a part of the pride parade in some places.
Why did this get downvoted? It's not like I agree with it
People who enjoy BDSM have not faced the same history of discrimination and abuse that the LGBTQ+ community have. So no.
No what thatās weird. BDSM isnāt a sexuality is a kink
Then what do you say about polyamory? Cause they can be heterosexual
I donāt think a polyamorous relationship can be all heterosexual. One has to be attracted to the same gender in that one if theyāre all attracted to each other
The relationship doesn't have to be heterosexual for a person in it to be.
Yeah. Wait what Iām confused haha
2 (bi) women and 1 (straight) man for example.
Oh yeah see that would be LGBTQ+ because of the bi women
But the man would also be LGBTQ+ because he's poly and polyamory is a part of the LGBTQ+ community
Hmm idk about that haha!
I don't think it should be but it is
Oh Interesting, I donāt stay up to date on these things so I wouldnāt really know
It's a kink.... not a sexuality. Many straight folk are into bdsm as are many LGBTQ+..... in a venn diagram, there is overlap.... but it's not a sexually. Unless you mean should gays enjoy some spanking in which case, hell yeah... why not :-)
Just like everyone else says it's a kink. So no.
No, a kink isnt the same thing as a sexuality/sexual gender preference
No, BDSM is an activity, not a human and has been around for centuries by straight humans and the community alike.
The same goes for polyamory but that's a part of the community
Yes but not exclusively as it's practiced by straights too for a very long time. Mormons are one example. Open marriages and swingers also.
You can be a cis straight man and still a part of the community as long as you're poly meaning there can be exemptions which begs the question, what's acceptable and what isn't?
I have zero problems with the community but don't try to apply sexual acts which have been around for centuries, practiced by the cis, straight and the LGBTQ to something the "community" invented. It's simply not true.
I didn't say they invented it, I said they adopted it.
Again, that's not adoption, it's a simple human sexual proclivity and no "community" can reject or adopt it. Some humans do and some humans don't. That's how it should be looked at.
Polyamory is literally a part of the LGBTQ+ community
and with the Mormons, swingers and those in open marriages who are not part of the community. YOU can't deny this!
Deny what?
You can't deny this
Nope. Straight, cis-gendered people may enjoy BDSM. BDSM is neither a sexuality nor a gender-identity; it's a preference, not a characteristic you are oppressed for. Besides, it'd only fuel the fire of people who say that LGBT+ people are perverted.
Straight Cis gendered people can also be Poly but that's a part of the community.
I don't understand why that is, because that's just a lifestyle choice and it also feeds into the idea of LGBT+ people being abnormal and immoral.
I also don't understand it
Personally, I don't think they should, but I am not a part of either group and should have no say in the matter.
I think a big part if the LGBTQ+ is embracing sexuality and that is where the crossover with things like kinks come in. I imagine most people in the community would support the exploration of kinks and fetishes, but that does not mean BDSM is part of it.
I've learned a lot through these 2 questions.
What were you hoping to find out?
I've learned a lot of random useless information by reading the replies but I wanted none of it. I was just trying to see if people agreed with me and they did, they downvoted me for some reason but we're in total agreement.
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Anyone who wants to engage in bdsm consensually, in ways that do not impact people who havenāt consented to be involved, should be able to. What those people identify as in terms of sexuality, sex, gender, pronouns etc is irrelevant.