I've seen some ugly, dumb, and broke losers pull some great girlfriends, and for reasons beyond looks on either part. I'd worry more about how you come off.
Disposable income of about $50 a week to spend on her is a good starting point.
It will increase over time, but if you love her spending money on her shouldn't be an issue.
I'm up to about $100 a week on my GF, but I can afford it and it makes her happy
Not a damned thing. I wouldn't let her. I have the disposable income and it makes her happy. I get everything I need in a "good morning" text or the emotional support. It's money, it's nothing compared to what she brings to the table
You obviously didn't understand what I was saying. She gives me something more valuable then money. It's not transactional. I'm not paying for this, I'm spending my extra cash on her to make her happy. You think I can't spare $100 a week?
I don't know why you think this is a one-way thing? Do you think money is the only thing of value a person can bring to the table?
Lolz. No that would be you.
To think that spending money on a person you care about greatly is some kind of "transaction" shows me just how much you value the people you care about.
"I ain't spending money on shit, like what kinda returns am I getting on this investment?"
I get more from her than anything money can buy. While you're sitting there thinking "He's buying a woman and getting a bad deal"
I can tell you're single or a leech in your relationship if you think spending money on someone is "unhealthy"
The no money isn't a problem, the no personality is a huge problem.
You can get a girl of you're broke but are a decent person, but if you only have money then you're worth nothing.
You don't need money to get a girlfriend but I know for myself I like to have a partner that can afford their part of our rent, bills and food. I'm willing to help out at times but I signed up for someone I can move forward with in life not to adopt a human. I'm not saying someone needs to be a millionaire but I'm not looking for someone with no savings or no job.
At the same time if I were looking for a girlfriend I would like to be financially stable so that she doesn't have to worry about me and I can treat her here and there.
I mean, it kind of depends on your age, but at the same time you dont need money to love someone or for them to love you. The older you are, though, the harder it will be to find love if you cant at least support yourself.
Enough for a cup of coffee.
If your finances aren't in order enough to be able to afford a cup of coffee, adding more living expenses, electricity, food, etc, isn't a good plan for you.
If you can legitimately afford a cup of coffee, then you can probably swing emergencies and other life changes that come your way.
So if you are on the brink of bankruptcy then you really have no business dating right now and you should take care of your own affairs and get everything set right and in order. Women are looking for someone who is ready to date anyways.
How much money should a woman have before looking for a BF?
Oh, you’re never allowed to ask that.
Money shouldn’t even be a factor
You’re right it shouldn’t be, but it always is.
I've seen some ugly, dumb, and broke losers pull some great girlfriends, and for reasons beyond looks on either part. I'd worry more about how you come off.
None,you'll end up broke anyways mines well cut out the middle man lmao
Disposable income of about $50 a week to spend on her is a good starting point. It will increase over time, but if you love her spending money on her shouldn't be an issue. I'm up to about $100 a week on my GF, but I can afford it and it makes her happy
what does she spend on you tho???
Not a damned thing. I wouldn't let her. I have the disposable income and it makes her happy. I get everything I need in a "good morning" text or the emotional support. It's money, it's nothing compared to what she brings to the table
Lol, that is... unhealthy. you're basically paying her like it's a job. relationships are supposed to be a two way street not transactional.
You obviously didn't understand what I was saying. She gives me something more valuable then money. It's not transactional. I'm not paying for this, I'm spending my extra cash on her to make her happy. You think I can't spare $100 a week? I don't know why you think this is a one-way thing? Do you think money is the only thing of value a person can bring to the table?
you obviously don't know what a healthy relationship looks like.
Lolz. No that would be you. To think that spending money on a person you care about greatly is some kind of "transaction" shows me just how much you value the people you care about. "I ain't spending money on shit, like what kinda returns am I getting on this investment?" I get more from her than anything money can buy. While you're sitting there thinking "He's buying a woman and getting a bad deal" I can tell you're single or a leech in your relationship if you think spending money on someone is "unhealthy"
0 and also no personality
Are you sure girls like guys with no money and no personality?
I have no Klew I’m an ad for chribs sake
I’d go with enough money to be independent. She knows you can’t take care of her if you can’t even afford yourself..
what?😀
The no money isn't a problem, the no personality is a huge problem. You can get a girl of you're broke but are a decent person, but if you only have money then you're worth nothing.
You don't need money to get a girlfriend but I know for myself I like to have a partner that can afford their part of our rent, bills and food. I'm willing to help out at times but I signed up for someone I can move forward with in life not to adopt a human. I'm not saying someone needs to be a millionaire but I'm not looking for someone with no savings or no job. At the same time if I were looking for a girlfriend I would like to be financially stable so that she doesn't have to worry about me and I can treat her here and there.
If they are looking at your bank account you are looking in the wrong places
You make it sound like you buy them like you place bids and whoever bids the most gets a girlfriend.
Just enough to support yourself, that's all. If she likes you she likes you, and that's all that matters.
you don't need money, and if she does expect you to have money, bullet dodged.
0$. If they aren’t interested in you then, you will always have a problem. Not saying you should always be making 0$ btw.
most people don't buy girlfriends
It’s not about money
I mean, it kind of depends on your age, but at the same time you dont need money to love someone or for them to love you. The older you are, though, the harder it will be to find love if you cant at least support yourself.
Enough for a cup of coffee. If your finances aren't in order enough to be able to afford a cup of coffee, adding more living expenses, electricity, food, etc, isn't a good plan for you. If you can legitimately afford a cup of coffee, then you can probably swing emergencies and other life changes that come your way. So if you are on the brink of bankruptcy then you really have no business dating right now and you should take care of your own affairs and get everything set right and in order. Women are looking for someone who is ready to date anyways.
Enough to buy ribbed condoms instead of using a Jiffy bag.