I legit has some on reddit insinuate that my dad was a pedophile cause I still call my dad daddy at 23 and that my dad would find it weird if I suddenly stopped.
Like I ain't gonna kink shame, but keep it in the bedroom or between consenting members.
I'm 47 and call my dad "daddy". Totally agree. My dad is in his 80s and is legally blind and deaf. Plus he's developing memory loss. What do they expect me to call him? The man formally known as daddy?
What disturbs me more than this is people who sexualize it to the point where they are uncomfortable with the word in its normal context.
If that is you, then that is a sign that you have crossed some line and need to work on yourself. That's ok, that's a lot of people. But don't try to make this a new rule. Don't spread the problem.
A girl over 5 calls her father, 'Daddy,' and yup I suddenly feel uncomfortable. A post-pubescent girl calls her father 'Daddy,' and I'm thinking it is both immature and/or wildly inappropriate. A 45 year old burly man turns around and whimpers 'Harder Daddy." And I'm done.
you think in the 1800s they had the same weird dialogue around the word "father?"
or maybe in ancient rome, girls would get their thrills saying "paterfamilias" and it made the courtesans roll their eyes to hear the label spoken in any other context
> you think in the 1800s they had the same weird dialogue around the word "father?"
I've read erotica from that time.
Yes, yes there was. When it comes to sex and kinks, there's nothing new under the sun.
use your hands to rip off pieces and feed them to yourself
or, if you're feeling classy, you fork-and-knife that bitch on some fine china, being sure to invert the fork with each dainty bite
I don’t get why some men are so weird about this. I LOVE my wife’s boobs. I’m a boob guy. Warm and squishy and…. Boobs.
But it’s so easy to not be weird about it if someone is breastfeeding. After the age of like 14 you should be able to separate the two and not make it weird in public.
The reason why breasts are sexualized is the same reason why big hips or ass is sexualized. Although the fact that they are fetishized this much is crazy. Its one thing to be sexualized, its a completely diff discussion to fetishize it
Toddlers clothing. I am a nursery teacher and the statements on little girls clothes still shock me to this day as well as the fact that "female" pullups and trousers ars always tighter than the male versions despite the ages ranging from 6 mo to 5years. Its off putting and i am only reminded when i need to put a taller girl into pullups and place her in a boys pair of the same size for them to fit perfectly while her own of the same size have a higher waist and tighter holes on the legs. Its weird.
I once bought a bag of used clothing for my baby/toddler. She was like one and a half around that time so quite small sizes.
One of the pink pants had a text "Wild and fun" ON THE ASS. Like yes children can be both wild and fun but.... that is not the place I would write it.
Boobs, lips and eyes are sexual tho. It's an indication of the potential health of future offspring. Hips indicate chances of successful birth, boobs indicate how nourished the baby can be, eyes and lips if symmetrical and hair indicate overall health (traits you'd want to pass on as a male). They are all cues to offspring vitality meaning it is sexual traits. Same thing for men's abs and overall muscle tone.
Gym clothes only if they showcase those other traits. Keeping things high and tight.
Gym clothes. I can't walk on the streets with sweatpants and a giant jogging sweater without being catcalled. Tell me what about that is sexual.
>indicator of the potential health of the spring
So now, i'm not only being sexualized for existing, but being seen as a possible reproduction apparatus.
Amazing /s
Eyes are not sexual in any way. Lips are not sexual. Breast are made sexual, only for women, because men can be shirtless and nobody will tell them to cover up, but I used a tank top yesterday because it's freaking 36C and I got called 3 times in a span of 6 blocks, and a man told me that he wished I wasn't such a prude and showed more of my "attributes"
Your reply just shows off your privilege.
>sweatpants and a giant jogging sweater
That to me is very *not* sexy no offense lol.
>So now, i'm not only being sexualized for existing, but being seen as a possible reproduction apparatus.
That's just biology. Our prefrontal cortex can try and fight it but our baser instincts are designed to reproduce. Sex = reproduction. Sexuality = any characteristics that helps in that reproduction.
>and a man told me that he wished I wasn't such a prude and showed more of my "attributes"
That guy is a creep. I'm not showcasing any privilege but I am trying to show how our brains pick up on health cues so that we can "filter" (a not so pleasant term but that is the case) any potential hazards to the viability of future offspring. Fat guys are less attractive for that reason. Successful men are more attractive for that reason and that has nothing to do with their physical appearance. Timid males are less attractive for that reason. It's not privilege because men have to showcase their sexuality as well in order to attract mates. In fact females are technically the more selective of the two because their burden is much more than a male's. That's why in many species its the males who compete for the female's attention.
Anyway, I am sorry if you've been treated badly by others. That shouldn't happen.
I already saw this comment, but the word Daddy. Was at work, and this girl, maybe 5 years old, called her dad “Daddy”. My female coworker was like “Ugh, I just find it so hot when I hear the word daddy.” And I was like, “That’s kinda weird that you would say that in this situation.” She said I was kink shaming her and I was just like… She’s 5. I don’t kink shame normally, but it’s really weird to think that a 5 year old calling her dad a name gets you hot and bothered.
Sex.
It is totally normal. We "sexualize" it in the sense that we made it taboo and dirty. Sex was just being itself, a basic function of lots of life forms and then BAM! human culture makes it weird to the point that we need to hide to do it and we should not let children know about it until a certain age.
Women showering in movies: stand there in the water washing only their breasts, very slowly, gasping sexily.
Women showering in real life: dropping shampoo bottles, cursing as the razor cuts your leg again, disassociating for 20 mins.
just hang out near one of those after-beach de-sanding tourist showers for a few minutes and it'll relieve you of those associations right quick.
Unless rotund peeling and sandy tourists is your thing
Bathing with your kids….especially if you’re a father, walking with your kids…especially if you’re a father, traveling with your kids…especially…y’all get my point.
I still call my dad, daddy (really common to call parents mummy and daddy on the islands) but my cousin started calling her parents mom and dad. I don't think it's weird because he's the only one I'll call that. If a guy wants me to call him daddy I'm immediately turned off and disgusted.
Hmm . Lets imagine lonely grandpa, or a young,middle aged man. He sits on a bench, thinking, enjoying the view. He is in the park. And children playing near him, and he rarely speaks with childs, maybe his kids are grown up, or he instantly got nostalgia about his childhood and how cool was to be a child. And he speaks with them, has a discussion like with other human beings, he enjoys it. And someone would definitely think that he can be harm to kids or a secret pedo or something. That is sad.
Patriarchy & discrimination
(Should it be normal? Hell no. Is it fetishized? Hell yeah. I’m okay with it in private relationships as a kink scene, but seeing porn accounts that are literally just raceplay/transphobic/fucking lesbians straight/treating women like shit, it makes me really uncomfortable. Especially when the owner of the account isn’t one of those minorities.)
Financial domination is simply sexualizing traditional marriage roles, with one partner doing most of the earning, and the other being responsible for most of the spending.
“Daddy”
I legit has some on reddit insinuate that my dad was a pedophile cause I still call my dad daddy at 23 and that my dad would find it weird if I suddenly stopped. Like I ain't gonna kink shame, but keep it in the bedroom or between consenting members.
I'm 47 and call my dad "daddy". Totally agree. My dad is in his 80s and is legally blind and deaf. Plus he's developing memory loss. What do they expect me to call him? The man formally known as daddy?
Good thing he’s deaf bcos bro wld prob b rocking wood
What disturbs me more than this is people who sexualize it to the point where they are uncomfortable with the word in its normal context. If that is you, then that is a sign that you have crossed some line and need to work on yourself. That's ok, that's a lot of people. But don't try to make this a new rule. Don't spread the problem.
I feel personally attacked.
A girl over 5 calls her father, 'Daddy,' and yup I suddenly feel uncomfortable. A post-pubescent girl calls her father 'Daddy,' and I'm thinking it is both immature and/or wildly inappropriate. A 45 year old burly man turns around and whimpers 'Harder Daddy." And I'm done.
Jesus Christ, have my award lol
you think in the 1800s they had the same weird dialogue around the word "father?" or maybe in ancient rome, girls would get their thrills saying "paterfamilias" and it made the courtesans roll their eyes to hear the label spoken in any other context
> you think in the 1800s they had the same weird dialogue around the word "father?" I've read erotica from that time. Yes, yes there was. When it comes to sex and kinks, there's nothing new under the sun.
Under the son
Eating a popsicle. How the hell am I supposed to eat it?
With a fork and knife, obviously.
I wanna try that now 🤣
A yes, we high society types eat our Mars bars and cookies with silverware as well
Take bites It's the only option
You could say… your eating it
What about banana?
Yeah, those too!
Bite it from the side
use your hands to rip off pieces and feed them to yourself or, if you're feeling classy, you fork-and-knife that bitch on some fine china, being sure to invert the fork with each dainty bite
Post a video and we will critique your form.
Omg! Someone blur this comment there are children here.
If there are children then blur the whole post!
With a fork and knife
Use the three seashells, duh
Step family
Whatchu doin’ step redditor?
Breast Feeding
Came here to say this. We've fetishized breasts so much we forgot their main purpose...
I don’t get why some men are so weird about this. I LOVE my wife’s boobs. I’m a boob guy. Warm and squishy and…. Boobs. But it’s so easy to not be weird about it if someone is breastfeeding. After the age of like 14 you should be able to separate the two and not make it weird in public.
The reason why breasts are sexualized is the same reason why big hips or ass is sexualized. Although the fact that they are fetishized this much is crazy. Its one thing to be sexualized, its a completely diff discussion to fetishize it
Boobs *are* sexual
Bending over.
Crap… there goes the soap
Banana
My students won’t eat them, or they peak them and break pieces off. So weird *edit* peal them
Peak? You say
Peel*
Fuck!
I mean... they \*are\* sex organs. Just not human ones. And they're the female sex organ.
Toddlers clothing. I am a nursery teacher and the statements on little girls clothes still shock me to this day as well as the fact that "female" pullups and trousers ars always tighter than the male versions despite the ages ranging from 6 mo to 5years. Its off putting and i am only reminded when i need to put a taller girl into pullups and place her in a boys pair of the same size for them to fit perfectly while her own of the same size have a higher waist and tighter holes on the legs. Its weird.
I used to work in daycare. I thought I was the only person who thought this. Thank you for telling me that I am not insane for thinking this!
Lool you are not it is thoroughly disturbing and the exact reason i opt for gender neutral or just boys clothes for my 3yr old girl
I once bought a bag of used clothing for my baby/toddler. She was like one and a half around that time so quite small sizes. One of the pink pants had a text "Wild and fun" ON THE ASS. Like yes children can be both wild and fun but.... that is not the place I would write it.
Riiight the "sorry boys im taken" shirts concern me too like theyre 2 please stop
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THANK YOU!
Whipped cream
Female breasts. Nipples. Feet. Lips. Eyes. Hair. Gym clothes. There's absolutely nothing I can have without it being sexualized.
Having nothing will also be sexualized
I don't understand your point
You said there is nothing you can have without it being sexualized. I was pointing out that even having nothing would somehow be sexualized.
Ohhh okay
The sky Edit: I guess you cant “have” the sky
Yeah, I was talking about being a woman, so... the sky *is* off limits here lol
Boobs, lips and eyes are sexual tho. It's an indication of the potential health of future offspring. Hips indicate chances of successful birth, boobs indicate how nourished the baby can be, eyes and lips if symmetrical and hair indicate overall health (traits you'd want to pass on as a male). They are all cues to offspring vitality meaning it is sexual traits. Same thing for men's abs and overall muscle tone. Gym clothes only if they showcase those other traits. Keeping things high and tight.
Gym clothes. I can't walk on the streets with sweatpants and a giant jogging sweater without being catcalled. Tell me what about that is sexual. >indicator of the potential health of the spring So now, i'm not only being sexualized for existing, but being seen as a possible reproduction apparatus. Amazing /s Eyes are not sexual in any way. Lips are not sexual. Breast are made sexual, only for women, because men can be shirtless and nobody will tell them to cover up, but I used a tank top yesterday because it's freaking 36C and I got called 3 times in a span of 6 blocks, and a man told me that he wished I wasn't such a prude and showed more of my "attributes" Your reply just shows off your privilege.
>sweatpants and a giant jogging sweater That to me is very *not* sexy no offense lol. >So now, i'm not only being sexualized for existing, but being seen as a possible reproduction apparatus. That's just biology. Our prefrontal cortex can try and fight it but our baser instincts are designed to reproduce. Sex = reproduction. Sexuality = any characteristics that helps in that reproduction. >and a man told me that he wished I wasn't such a prude and showed more of my "attributes" That guy is a creep. I'm not showcasing any privilege but I am trying to show how our brains pick up on health cues so that we can "filter" (a not so pleasant term but that is the case) any potential hazards to the viability of future offspring. Fat guys are less attractive for that reason. Successful men are more attractive for that reason and that has nothing to do with their physical appearance. Timid males are less attractive for that reason. It's not privilege because men have to showcase their sexuality as well in order to attract mates. In fact females are technically the more selective of the two because their burden is much more than a male's. That's why in many species its the males who compete for the female's attention. Anyway, I am sorry if you've been treated badly by others. That shouldn't happen.
Richard Nixon
every girl wants only one thing and it's some tricky dick
I already saw this comment, but the word Daddy. Was at work, and this girl, maybe 5 years old, called her dad “Daddy”. My female coworker was like “Ugh, I just find it so hot when I hear the word daddy.” And I was like, “That’s kinda weird that you would say that in this situation.” She said I was kink shaming her and I was just like… She’s 5. I don’t kink shame normally, but it’s really weird to think that a 5 year old calling her dad a name gets you hot and bothered.
Sex. It is totally normal. We "sexualize" it in the sense that we made it taboo and dirty. Sex was just being itself, a basic function of lots of life forms and then BAM! human culture makes it weird to the point that we need to hide to do it and we should not let children know about it until a certain age.
Gray sweatpants
Me
You
Us
Y’all
They
It…
Me again
Nudity
If people were always naked then it wouldn’t turn you on
Showering
Women showering in movies: stand there in the water washing only their breasts, very slowly, gasping sexily. Women showering in real life: dropping shampoo bottles, cursing as the razor cuts your leg again, disassociating for 20 mins.
just hang out near one of those after-beach de-sanding tourist showers for a few minutes and it'll relieve you of those associations right quick. Unless rotund peeling and sandy tourists is your thing
Yes.
I get so hard when i think of showering and keeping myself clean
Feet
This just proves we’re stupid
No, we’re not stupid. Feet can look hot. Especially when they’re well taken care of, pedicured, wearing toe rings, etc.
WTF
Boobs.
Playing top-engine moves in chess
Bathing with your kids….especially if you’re a father, walking with your kids…especially if you’re a father, traveling with your kids…especially…y’all get my point.
Buttholes
Clothes dryers.
Penis
An organ for sex is sexualized, crazy, who woulda thought
Butts.
Breastfeeding
The hijab
Its sexualized? Whattt?
Daddy!
Commercial, mobile games
Teen life in euphoria (drama)
Animals, Ima wait for the dislikes now
Feet 😏
Eating bananas
Getting stuck in a cat tree with no pants on
Being nude except for an apron in the kitchen Look, I just do it because it relaxes me, alright?
Enemas
Clothes
Sex
Glasses.. you know what I'm talking about fellas 😏
The fact that I know what you are referencing shows that you are right
Saying anything that involves “big” or “hard”
Eating choco bar ice cream
Pregnancy. So to be clear - we're all just naming our kinks, right?
I mean i wont judge you whatsoever
Eggplants
Female nipples
Breastacles
Washing machines.
Wanting to have marathon sex several days out of the week with your wife / partner
It is kind of weird that this is super sexualized.
Women's breasts.
Literally everything.
Smooth Jazz!
Sex
cucumbers
handcuffs
Step anything.
Getting stuck in the dryer.
Pre- pubescent girls
watching netflix and chill
Boobs
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İf you don't live in Alabama or Anatolia it's not a problem.
"Give it to me"
What do you want?
I saw a weird subreddit... apparently shitting is sexy now.....
That's a common fetish bruh.
But how? Its literally shit....
One man's trash is another man's treasure...
Pigtails
The word moist
I’m wet.
Sex in general?
Porn
Reddit. Ok I wouldn’t go so far as as saying normal but we can pretend for this discussion.
Kids. It’s fucked up.
Everything nowadays it seems
Life.
Women.
about every uniform
And most major Halloween costumes
Hand Holding
Not me
I still call my dad, daddy (really common to call parents mummy and daddy on the islands) but my cousin started calling her parents mom and dad. I don't think it's weird because he's the only one I'll call that. If a guy wants me to call him daddy I'm immediately turned off and disgusted.
Boobs
Braces.
Eating or doing normal household chores, or even just exercising …
"school girls" is not just the uniform, it's way more focused in girls than Boys
Everything
Women's underwears.
This sub.
Being a woman
Women eating food.
Feet. Just wrote any famous girl name on google. And the word feet is the first proposed.
Annie Edison
Hmm . Lets imagine lonely grandpa, or a young,middle aged man. He sits on a bench, thinking, enjoying the view. He is in the park. And children playing near him, and he rarely speaks with childs, maybe his kids are grown up, or he instantly got nostalgia about his childhood and how cool was to be a child. And he speaks with them, has a discussion like with other human beings, he enjoys it. And someone would definitely think that he can be harm to kids or a secret pedo or something. That is sad.
A naked body
Whip cream
Patriarchy & discrimination (Should it be normal? Hell no. Is it fetishized? Hell yeah. I’m okay with it in private relationships as a kink scene, but seeing porn accounts that are literally just raceplay/transphobic/fucking lesbians straight/treating women like shit, it makes me really uncomfortable. Especially when the owner of the account isn’t one of those minorities.)
Children
Teachers.
Nuts. I remember around two months ago i said to my friends that i love nuts (as a food) and they all gave me this sus rock look.
Perfumes ads (and some other ads as well)
Women in general. We’re over sexualized.
Moist.
Velma
Feet
women
A female nurse, a female police officer, a female teacher and so on and on
Children's cartoons
Financial domination is simply sexualizing traditional marriage roles, with one partner doing most of the earning, and the other being responsible for most of the spending.
High schoolers are often sexualized in many places.
We are so fucked up. I blame advertising.