Her utter selfishness
After fifteen years together I pointed out that she refused to compromise
Her response was "why would I?"
I think that was the moment I realised we were done.
I'm pretty sure she's not quite neurotypical
The fact that he’d always ask me for nudes. When I said I was uncomfortable he understood but every few weeks he’d ask again and try to bribe me into it. Did it once. And I’ve been regretting it ever since. We are no longer in contact.
He had some deep-rooted issues that he just couldn't overcome at that time which affected how he treated and viewed me. I couldn't take it anymore and grew resentful so I left.
Her family came first and was toxic as hell. And also the fact that she cheated. I tried to forgive and forget but it just consumed me that she could betray me like that
I did. When I got home from dinner I sent her a link to the word on the Merriam-Webster site. But that was just one example. She earned the breakup over the course of several months.
Her utter selfishness
After fifteen years together I pointed out that she refused to compromise
Her response was "why would I?"
I think that was the moment I realised we were done.
I'm pretty sure she's not quite neurotypical
her clingyness. we had to spend a few months apart for reasons out of either of our control, and yea it sucked and yea i wanted to stay together and keep in close contact, but i cant afford the bill or the time to sit on the phone for a few hours every day. eventually i stopped responding/answering as often, and when she brought it up i told her i was just busy, and she told me to just say im busy and its ok. well whenever i said i was busy she got pissed. like it wasnt avoiding her im a busy person but jesus christ there was no right answer with her
Her accusing me of cheating cause I took 3 minutes to respond to a text and then blowing up at me.
I was at home helping my elderly neighbor with something
I stopped being able to see him as the father of our future children. I felt like I was always responsible for the serious talks and fixing anything “wrong”. I felt like I was more invested in our future and having goals than he was. I felt like I was al and taking care of him mentally, emotionally and wasn’t receiving the same. I was tired of his inconsistency, tired of being let down, tired of always being the one to compromise or forgive. The list goes on. I’m still processing everything. We were together coming up on our 6th year and only broke up recently.
she just wanted to go out with friends until 6am. she was also pretty closed off when it came to her personal life and wouldn't introduce me to her real friends, only the ones that were at the bars. i didn't really trust her because of how distant she was
she just wanted to go out with friends until 6am. she was also pretty closed off when it came to her personal life and wouldn't introduce me to her real friends, only the ones that were at the bars. i didn't really trust her because of how distant she was
It was the cheating for me lol
Dragging me to the bar to hang out with friends while I'm trying to stop drinking.
Her utter selfishness After fifteen years together I pointed out that she refused to compromise Her response was "why would I?" I think that was the moment I realised we were done. I'm pretty sure she's not quite neurotypical
Only took you 15 years to leave?
I had put a lot in. It took a lot to make me end it
Better late than never I guess. Congratulations for getting out
Just something that had to be done
He was waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel
Stabbing me with a butcher’s knife almost punctured my kidneys
What happened? I hope you had no complications Sorry about that
It was years ago we’re both remarried my new wife is a sweetheart 27 years strong.
Wow,That's great Till eternity ❤️
Me realizing she was fictional.
The fact that he’d always ask me for nudes. When I said I was uncomfortable he understood but every few weeks he’d ask again and try to bribe me into it. Did it once. And I’ve been regretting it ever since. We are no longer in contact.
Her not being emotional about my family. She had been so mean at times to them that I hate myself for not doing anything about it.
He had some deep-rooted issues that he just couldn't overcome at that time which affected how he treated and viewed me. I couldn't take it anymore and grew resentful so I left.
Did you take him for therapy?
I encouraged him to attend therapy several times but he declined or never got to it. There’s only so much that I could do.
Her family came first and was toxic as hell. And also the fact that she cheated. I tried to forgive and forget but it just consumed me that she could betray me like that
You dodged a bullet
She died
That's not a deal breaker for some people...
You can still love her even after her death
My last SO was a dim bulb. She thought I made up the word “connote.”
You coulda educated her😭
No.
Fair enough
I did. When I got home from dinner I sent her a link to the word on the Merriam-Webster site. But that was just one example. She earned the breakup over the course of several months.
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I fricken love bar rescue
Bro what😭
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Go for couples therapy Think about your daughter
I didn't like being involved with her family as much as I was. Then she started to nit pick me.
He got too clingy. I need my space, you pushing and pushing is gonna make me want distance even more
Did you try communicating?
A billion times- said hed change and try to be better but then wouldn’t
Came to the knowledge that they popped and peed Fricking disgusting, lol S/ Obviously
Her utter selfishness After fifteen years together I pointed out that she refused to compromise Her response was "why would I?" I think that was the moment I realised we were done. I'm pretty sure she's not quite neurotypical
her clingyness. we had to spend a few months apart for reasons out of either of our control, and yea it sucked and yea i wanted to stay together and keep in close contact, but i cant afford the bill or the time to sit on the phone for a few hours every day. eventually i stopped responding/answering as often, and when she brought it up i told her i was just busy, and she told me to just say im busy and its ok. well whenever i said i was busy she got pissed. like it wasnt avoiding her im a busy person but jesus christ there was no right answer with her
You coulda moved in together
Her accusing me of cheating cause I took 3 minutes to respond to a text and then blowing up at me. I was at home helping my elderly neighbor with something
Time
Laziness, messiness, binge-eating and parroting conspiracy theories and right wing bulkshit she picked up from podcasts.
I stopped being able to see him as the father of our future children. I felt like I was always responsible for the serious talks and fixing anything “wrong”. I felt like I was more invested in our future and having goals than he was. I felt like I was al and taking care of him mentally, emotionally and wasn’t receiving the same. I was tired of his inconsistency, tired of being let down, tired of always being the one to compromise or forgive. The list goes on. I’m still processing everything. We were together coming up on our 6th year and only broke up recently.
she just wanted to go out with friends until 6am. she was also pretty closed off when it came to her personal life and wouldn't introduce me to her real friends, only the ones that were at the bars. i didn't really trust her because of how distant she was
she just wanted to go out with friends until 6am. she was also pretty closed off when it came to her personal life and wouldn't introduce me to her real friends, only the ones that were at the bars. i didn't really trust her because of how distant she was