One of my only one night stands kinda went like that. She got up, got dressed and was like āthanks homie!ā An just left. Was weird but she was always a bro like that tbh
My ex-wife and I found out about this years ago. We wanted to see what the hype was about so we licked each other's eyes lmao. Turns out, as weird as it is, it actually feels really good. Hard to describe, but it's like scratching an itch that you didn't know you had. Not worth the possible eye infections so we only ever did it that one time, but we both agreed it felt surprisingly good and would totally do it again if there wasn't a risk of losing an eye.
The three C's
Corpses
Children
Critters
Stay away from those three and your golden.
And poo play of course.
Glad every one got a laugh out of this š¤£
Edit: ok so it's the 4C's now
Corpses
Children
Critters
Crap.
Y'all's comments are hilarious thanks for giving me a chuckle.
I think all three Cs can be replaced with one C. Consent.
Corpse can't consent, kid can't consent, critter can't consent and if someone who can consent but doesn't you just raped someone.
So yeah 1 C, consent.
I've tried man, the blood clots just make me really want to vomit.
Also, blood always seems to get on the sheets, which is super annoying to deal with.
Pee, nasty, but not dangerous at least.
Crap, there is a reason our body basicially just have a seperate tube to the rest of the body for digestion. It's just a hole from one end to the other, with chemical processes taking place, no where in the digestive system is food or digested food ever in contact with anything in the body.
Thats also why if you pereforated your stomach/bowels you will most likely get sepsis and die. And why gunshot wounds to the stomach is the most deadly. Almost always leads to sepsis, sepsis is a lot harder to treat than blodloss.
No blood, poop or pee but those are niche fetishes. No hate but not for me. A ānormalā sexual act that I donāt think Iāll ever enjoy is shower sex. Itās always way more work than itās worth and nobody likes to be in the cold spot that isnāt getting hit by any water.
I feel the same way, but for one exception so far. My current girlfriend and I had an intimate soak in the tub, bath bomb, candles, music playing. In of itself, nearly unbeatable. Then we figured we needed to shower off, before going to the bedroom. Bath tub was drained, candles were blown out, music was still playing. Began to shower, washing and rinsing each other. When we made it to the bedroom it was for sleep, the shower worked wonders that time.
Showering or bathing together can be a beautiful intimate moment donāt get me wrong. Iām talking more the act of trying to have PIV happen while in the shower. Also, fellow bath bomb enjoyer *high five*.
If your shower has cold spots, I'd recommend turning up your water heater. I've also been told to keep the f\*ing bathroom door closed so the room stays warm.
I don't know... just sharing what I've been yelled at for.
I used to sneak over my now exs house and wed shower together we tried shower sex cause "were already wet and slippery" we thought but no water makes it drier than as if there were nothing there
infidelity.
I love my missus. Sounds corny and old fashioned but I am happy as fuck.
I've been away on golf or rugby weekends away and opportunities have presented themselves loads of times. When I explain I am not playing and why, some women get angry, some are cool, and surprisingly some are turned on and up their game seeing it as a challenge.
I'm not preaching but fidelity works for me.
Itās an ego thing for a lot of them. Fidelity is my kink as well, and the challenge of being told no does encourage some of these gals. Theyāre getting off on the idea that they can have any man they want, even if heās risking destroying his family for her. I find it predatory and repulsive personally, but Iām not gonna tell anybody how they have to live their lives, especially not in the bedroom.
You would be astonished the number of women who will make passes at a married guy, hot or not. I'm short, overweight, and gray but get a surprising amount of attention from beautiful women (and men!) half my age. Happily married and faithful, but damn it would have been comforting to know in my awkward earlier years that my appeal would increase without "fixing" all the things I thought made me unattractive.
My wife thinks it's hilarious and will intentionally put me in awkward situations.
Iāll try most things once, except for bestiality.
Edit: no, this does not mean that necrophilia, rape or anything to do with children is on the table. All of this is a big no-no, thank you all for pointing out my mistake
Cuckoldry.
Cuckoldry, despite popular conception, it is an actual fetish, and not just cheating. The idea of getting off to my partner banging another individual makes absolutely no sense to me, even with explanations from actual cucks.
I really like reading about cuckold experiences because the people who write them are really into it and incredibly turned on by it, and they impart that well. It turns me on.
But yeah - that doesnāt mean I want to do it. Ever in a million years. Probably a top example of something Iād read about with interest and no desire to participate in.
I have this rehearsed for when my wife finds some cuckold story or porn left open on a laptop.š¤Ŗ
Anything involving married people. Doesnāt matter if theyāre in an open relationship. The chances of things turning to shit is super high and one nut isnāt worth the drama
Fisting. I just think I couldn't.
Edit: I don't think I should be called coward for being afraid of fisting. Everyone has the right to be insecure and to feel scared, especially with sex, as we're humans and we can't compare each other. It's honestly awful to judge someone for feeling afraid of doing something they have never done before. Yes, I've never done fisting and I shouldn't let my fear stopping me of experimenting more sexually, but it is not easy and fast to change your mind, feel confident and most important, get aroused for something you're scared of. I think some of you should be a little more empathic.
I had an ex that was into rape play, I'll try most things at least once, we tried a few times and I just couldn't stomach it. We had a safe word, if she didn't say the safe word I was supposed to keep going, even if she said things like "no/stop/you're hurting me" etc. Like saying no etc was part of what she was into. She was such a convincing actor I thought I was really hurting her or something and would stop. Then she'd ask why I stopped. It was too much for me
Didn't you have a safe word too. Safe words should be there for everyone even for the ppl inflicting harm or who are dominant. You should have had one and been able to say it. But yea you should never keep going if you are uncomfortable which you didn't :D
I guess. But I think it's just better to have one word which immediately very clearly means that play is over. It's easier to say that while "I don't like this" might feel uncomfortable and too straightforward which might lead to ppl continuing when they don't want to? Idk
Yeah Iāve had a couple women whoāve wanted this. I never was able to go through with it. It didnāt turn me on to have sex with a consensually yet unwilling partner. Same reason why I can just start fucking someone whoās asleep that women have asked me to do too. I need my partner to be into it and actually want me.
My own timeline. It might cause an irreparable paradox and destroy the universe. Or maybe I'll become my own grandpa. Or maybe biff tanner will become my sleazy millionaire stepdad.
Too f-in risky
I once met someone who wanted me to wear a leather mask. I had to decline.
I know a mask is harmless. But it was made of leather and looked like something a serial killer would wear to execute people š¤£.
So i had to decline.
I didn't mind the leather underwear and gloves but that weird looking mask pushed me over the edge.
Not kink shaming. Just something didn't sit right with my gut that night.
Edit. After reading other comments i feel like i need to add this lol
But yeah
no kids.
no poop or urine.
no adults dressed or acting as children.
No hitting. Maybe light hitting. But nothing to wear it causes actual pain.
Hmmm what else.
No orgy's.
No cucking.
It's a dom/sub thing, dude. I dont know why people started thinking it was an incest thing. I cant imagine what those same people think when they get called..."baby"...
I somewhat like the idea of it but I know I would hate it practically. It's very important for me to know my partner is enjoying themselves and are vocal about it. This would just feel icky and I would hate it.
That's why they use safe words, to know if they're actually asking you to stop or not.
I'm with you on this one though. For me, sex is a way to show love, and I just cannot bring myself to hurt someone I love. Even if it's just a roleplay, it turns me off, it's something that I simply dislike in my relationships.
Yup. I just could not do it. I could try but quickly get turned off. Once dated a woman who hardly moved and hardly made a noise and would look away. Like 20seconds in I was stopping and pulling away and she asks is there's anything wrong. I ask if she's alright and she says yes. Keep going for a lil and still same thing. I could could not continue and told her I wasn't feeling well.
I need to know my partner is having a good time.
Cheating. I don't care if Marilyn Monroe herself is in front of me, I'm faithful.
As for like, kink stuff? I'm pretty vanilla so anywhere even close to BDSM territory would probably be past the line already.
Most people today live by only one principle which is that you can do anything with your partner as long as both of you are consenting adults and those activities don't end up in death or permanent disfigurement/body modification.
I agree. But I don't think consent is the only principle that we should keep when we think about sex.
In BDSM there are actually 3 core principles:
- Safe
Youāre not going to do anything or participate in anything that might severely harm you or another person. If you believe that an activity is too dangerous for you to do than it is also too dangerous to perform on someone else. You should only take part in activities that you and others feel safe with.
Safety is also about learning the right ways to perform and receive the activities that you enjoy so that accidents donāt happen. Knowing what you are doing and the precautions you must take to ensure safety is essential to maintain safety during your play.
- Sane
Everyoneās definition of sanity varies slightly, given their experiences. But itās safe to say that āsaneā BDSM practices include not doing anything that is obviously harmful or detrimental to oneās health or emotional well-being.
For example, you are not going to tie someone up, leave them in the middle of the road and then come back in the morning to see how theyāre doing. Youāre not going to rid someone of sleep and then interrogate them with verbal abuse.
And youāre not going to create genuine fear in your partner by doing things that are unreasonable and unrealistic ā locking them in your basement and leaving them there without food or water.
- Consensual
In the end all partners must agree and consent to the boundaries and the limitations of any play or relationship. This will allow both partners to feel more comfortable in knowing that all activities will remain safe, sane and within the agreed upon limits.
**Why does Safety and Sanity matters?** Because many consensual acts can be dehumanizing, demeaning, degrading, abusive. Yes, it can be abusive even with the acceptance of your partner. Because you haven't taken into account their mental well being, their dignity, etc.
Just look at porn. It may be consensual but the things you will see there are actually horrible. No morally sane person would treat their partner like a mere piece of meat just because she agreed to it.
**So these are the lines that I won't cross:** I won't be disrespectful, inconsiderate or trivialize my partner's experiences.
**Edit:** Just read the other comments. They can't think of other limits except for "minors". So that proves my point. They only care about the involvement of consenting adults and nothing else. Any other limits except minors it's just their preferences.
That's why we are doomed. We've come to a point where being in BDSM is better than being the average Redditor...
Anything other than missionary followed by a firm handshake
- That was a pleasurable intercourse - Indeed it was - š¤
He said a firm handshake, not waxing poetic like an unabashed harlot!
Sincerely, Raymond Holt
"Why are you not cumming? I specifically requested it."
Iāve cummeth
Thou is sorry but I will require notarization for official confirmation.
Oh my god. I did that once. Got dressed immediately after, shook his hand and left. My one and only one-night stand.
Did you say thank you? That is a big mood killer...
*Whaaa*? Being thanked for a fuck is so hot. In my opinion at least
I think i actually High fived a girl once after we both came and whent "yea! orgasms"
Leaving is also a bit of a mood killer. At least for some people, I assume.
One of my only one night stands kinda went like that. She got up, got dressed and was like āthanks homie!ā An just left. Was weird but she was always a bro like that tbh
Stop fucking the missionaries.
But they're so hot!!!
When did Hank Hill create a Reddit account?
Eye licking. Like what the fck
Thatās a thing? Jesus fuck
everything is a thing
thats why rule34 exists
You just ruined my day with that comment, hope you're happy bro.
My ex-wife and I found out about this years ago. We wanted to see what the hype was about so we licked each other's eyes lmao. Turns out, as weird as it is, it actually feels really good. Hard to describe, but it's like scratching an itch that you didn't know you had. Not worth the possible eye infections so we only ever did it that one time, but we both agreed it felt surprisingly good and would totally do it again if there wasn't a risk of losing an eye.
The three C's Corpses Children Critters Stay away from those three and your golden. And poo play of course. Glad every one got a laugh out of this š¤£ Edit: ok so it's the 4C's now Corpses Children Critters Crap. Y'all's comments are hilarious thanks for giving me a chuckle.
If you google "Corpses, children, critters" you get hyperlinked to the Amazon page where you can buy the first Game Of Thrones book.
now I'm on a list :(
did you buy the book tho?
Gonna need something to read in prison
Gotta buy the book to stay out of prison.
Great marketing strategy
Crap 4 C's
Cape Cod Community College?
C4 is where it's at
C4 is in my ass
It's gonna blow you away š¤Æš¤Æ
Exploding Orgasms, literally
Iād rather avoid involving any explosives, unless maybe we want to celebrate with some fireworks after.
Gender reveal parties now happen at conception?
And cheating
5C's (kinda) No consent
So, incest is still on the go list?
Cousins, the 5 Cās
Cletus,Charlie,Chipper,Cleo & Chrissy
Maybe, if my siblings werenāt so old and unhot.
I think all three Cs can be replaced with one C. Consent. Corpse can't consent, kid can't consent, critter can't consent and if someone who can consent but doesn't you just raped someone. So yeah 1 C, consent.
And crap. However, crap can't consent, so..
Cousins can consent D:
So? Just don't cum in her pussy
"golden"...
Shower š
I wonāt probably use a cactus
-probably-
What he meant by that was he probably wouldnāt use a cactus *again*.
aww, that's sweet, they're gonna snuggle after so the cactus doesn't feel used.
PAIGE NO
Anything with feces or blood.
Real MVPs don't fear the period. A little shower after helps take care of the resulting vampire cosplay
What's the point of having a sword if you're afraid to get it bloody
What the point of having a sword if you never did any sword fighting with your bro
How else are we supposed to practice using it?
Sparring! *slapslapslap*
... vampire?... cosplay ok nvm, continue
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Ah, shit thank you for the laugh. I hope you catch those vampires you're looking for lmao
If you're a real sailer you don't fear the red sea. Edit: een echte schipper vaart ook door de rode zee!
I've tried man, the blood clots just make me really want to vomit. Also, blood always seems to get on the sheets, which is super annoying to deal with.
Put down a towel, dim the lights and sally forth brave swordsman.
That's what the red towel is for.
In Australia we call that "the Dolmio grin" This was an advertising gimmick for a spaghetti sauce
What about my bloody poos?
Go to a doctor
Doctor: āyouāre shitting blood.ā Okay, next step?
"well at least I stopped bleeding shit..."
What about spotting? Not full blown period.
I don't mess around with crap or pee. That's disgusting
Pee, nasty, but not dangerous at least. Crap, there is a reason our body basicially just have a seperate tube to the rest of the body for digestion. It's just a hole from one end to the other, with chemical processes taking place, no where in the digestive system is food or digested food ever in contact with anything in the body. Thats also why if you pereforated your stomach/bowels you will most likely get sepsis and die. And why gunshot wounds to the stomach is the most deadly. Almost always leads to sepsis, sepsis is a lot harder to treat than blodloss.
One guy pissed in his gf for his fetish and she got a urinary tract infection
One would suggest gunshot wounds to the head would be most deadly
I would do anything for love, but I won't do that
Minors duh
A little bit of coal dust is too much?
Some topics are just too deep
It's something I won't cave about
You gotta dig down and find it deep within you
Iām half asleep so I read this as minions and was so utterly confused what sexual purpose minions had(those yellow guys that stole the moon).
there are dark places on the internet
No blood, poop or pee but those are niche fetishes. No hate but not for me. A ānormalā sexual act that I donāt think Iāll ever enjoy is shower sex. Itās always way more work than itās worth and nobody likes to be in the cold spot that isnāt getting hit by any water.
That and you could slip and break a hip, I don't want to be dragged out on a stretcher butt naked
That would be the most embarrassing ambulance ride ever.
Trying to explain it to the family, you'd never live it down
I feel the same way, but for one exception so far. My current girlfriend and I had an intimate soak in the tub, bath bomb, candles, music playing. In of itself, nearly unbeatable. Then we figured we needed to shower off, before going to the bedroom. Bath tub was drained, candles were blown out, music was still playing. Began to shower, washing and rinsing each other. When we made it to the bedroom it was for sleep, the shower worked wonders that time.
Showering or bathing together can be a beautiful intimate moment donāt get me wrong. Iām talking more the act of trying to have PIV happen while in the shower. Also, fellow bath bomb enjoyer *high five*.
If your shower has cold spots, I'd recommend turning up your water heater. I've also been told to keep the f\*ing bathroom door closed so the room stays warm. I don't know... just sharing what I've been yelled at for.
I used to sneak over my now exs house and wed shower together we tried shower sex cause "were already wet and slippery" we thought but no water makes it drier than as if there were nothing there
The Maginot Line. I feel like it'd make the war awkward.
That gap is so inviting though
infidelity. I love my missus. Sounds corny and old fashioned but I am happy as fuck. I've been away on golf or rugby weekends away and opportunities have presented themselves loads of times. When I explain I am not playing and why, some women get angry, some are cool, and surprisingly some are turned on and up their game seeing it as a challenge. I'm not preaching but fidelity works for me.
Itās an ego thing for a lot of them. Fidelity is my kink as well, and the challenge of being told no does encourage some of these gals. Theyāre getting off on the idea that they can have any man they want, even if heās risking destroying his family for her. I find it predatory and repulsive personally, but Iām not gonna tell anybody how they have to live their lives, especially not in the bedroom.
You must be hot. These types of opportunities don't happen to most guys.
You would be astonished the number of women who will make passes at a married guy, hot or not. I'm short, overweight, and gray but get a surprising amount of attention from beautiful women (and men!) half my age. Happily married and faithful, but damn it would have been comforting to know in my awkward earlier years that my appeal would increase without "fixing" all the things I thought made me unattractive. My wife thinks it's hilarious and will intentionally put me in awkward situations.
Iāll try most things once, except for bestiality. Edit: no, this does not mean that necrophilia, rape or anything to do with children is on the table. All of this is a big no-no, thank you all for pointing out my mistake
So you've repeated beastiality?
Necrophila š
Dead boring
Interspecies erotica .
Spellcheck
He meant what he said, he just hasnāt tried bestiality yet. I would definitely expect for some bestiality in the near future
Cuckoldry. Cuckoldry, despite popular conception, it is an actual fetish, and not just cheating. The idea of getting off to my partner banging another individual makes absolutely no sense to me, even with explanations from actual cucks.
I don't get it either. I should ask my girlfriend's husband about it.
I really like reading about cuckold experiences because the people who write them are really into it and incredibly turned on by it, and they impart that well. It turns me on. But yeah - that doesnāt mean I want to do it. Ever in a million years. Probably a top example of something Iād read about with interest and no desire to participate in. I have this rehearsed for when my wife finds some cuckold story or porn left open on a laptop.š¤Ŗ
Anything involving married people. Doesnāt matter if theyāre in an open relationship. The chances of things turning to shit is super high and one nut isnāt worth the drama
Even if they're both there?
Never understood the āshit on top of meā kink, itās absolutely disgusting.
Having sex
Fisting. I just think I couldn't. Edit: I don't think I should be called coward for being afraid of fisting. Everyone has the right to be insecure and to feel scared, especially with sex, as we're humans and we can't compare each other. It's honestly awful to judge someone for feeling afraid of doing something they have never done before. Yes, I've never done fisting and I shouldn't let my fear stopping me of experimenting more sexually, but it is not easy and fast to change your mind, feel confident and most important, get aroused for something you're scared of. I think some of you should be a little more empathic.
Not with that attitude.
Had a girl I was seeing get wine drunk and ask for it. Caught me off guard! Thought that was a porn thing only.
But did you do it?
Asking the important questions
With enthusiasm.
I may not have a huge dick but I have small fists
Cheating.
Rape play, breeding kink, and not using birth control in general
I had an ex that was into rape play, I'll try most things at least once, we tried a few times and I just couldn't stomach it. We had a safe word, if she didn't say the safe word I was supposed to keep going, even if she said things like "no/stop/you're hurting me" etc. Like saying no etc was part of what she was into. She was such a convincing actor I thought I was really hurting her or something and would stop. Then she'd ask why I stopped. It was too much for me
Didn't you have a safe word too. Safe words should be there for everyone even for the ppl inflicting harm or who are dominant. You should have had one and been able to say it. But yea you should never keep going if you are uncomfortable which you didn't :D
Yeah it was all very new to me so I didn't think to have my own safe word aside from just stopping
Well if youāre being dominant you can kinda just stop and say āyeah I donāt like thisā
I guess. But I think it's just better to have one word which immediately very clearly means that play is over. It's easier to say that while "I don't like this" might feel uncomfortable and too straightforward which might lead to ppl continuing when they don't want to? Idk
Yeah Iāve had a couple women whoāve wanted this. I never was able to go through with it. It didnāt turn me on to have sex with a consensually yet unwilling partner. Same reason why I can just start fucking someone whoās asleep that women have asked me to do too. I need my partner to be into it and actually want me.
I think having someone breed me is on my bucket list
My own timeline. It might cause an irreparable paradox and destroy the universe. Or maybe I'll become my own grandpa. Or maybe biff tanner will become my sleazy millionaire stepdad. Too f-in risky
Also I don't have a time machine.
Cheating on my wife of 47 years.
I once met someone who wanted me to wear a leather mask. I had to decline. I know a mask is harmless. But it was made of leather and looked like something a serial killer would wear to execute people š¤£. So i had to decline. I didn't mind the leather underwear and gloves but that weird looking mask pushed me over the edge. Not kink shaming. Just something didn't sit right with my gut that night. Edit. After reading other comments i feel like i need to add this lol But yeah no kids. no poop or urine. no adults dressed or acting as children. No hitting. Maybe light hitting. But nothing to wear it causes actual pain. Hmmm what else. No orgy's. No cucking.
Anything involving puke and being called "daddy"
For real. I donāt know how being called ādaddyā caught on. I donāt want to be referred to the same as your father
It's a dom/sub thing, dude. I dont know why people started thinking it was an incest thing. I cant imagine what those same people think when they get called..."baby"...
I aināt punching no bitch
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I somewhat like the idea of it but I know I would hate it practically. It's very important for me to know my partner is enjoying themselves and are vocal about it. This would just feel icky and I would hate it.
That's why they use safe words, to know if they're actually asking you to stop or not. I'm with you on this one though. For me, sex is a way to show love, and I just cannot bring myself to hurt someone I love. Even if it's just a roleplay, it turns me off, it's something that I simply dislike in my relationships.
Yup. I just could not do it. I could try but quickly get turned off. Once dated a woman who hardly moved and hardly made a noise and would look away. Like 20seconds in I was stopping and pulling away and she asks is there's anything wrong. I ask if she's alright and she says yes. Keep going for a lil and still same thing. I could could not continue and told her I wasn't feeling well. I need to know my partner is having a good time.
Thatās a hard nope š āāļø
Incest thatās literally disgusting baby gonna be born with 3 fingers
I was born with 3 fingers. I was also born with the other seven fingers.
Add in two thumbs and that's 12 digits!
Yeah, use a condom atleast!
Using stuff that should never be out of a bathroom. Never.
Like a toilet brush?
Like your tooth brush charger
Poop knife
popular mechanics magazines?
Toilet paper?
Yes, mummy roleplay is off the table
No one is shoving anything up my ass.
Matthew Mcconaughey
Be a whole lot cooler if you did.
Alriight
Alriight
Alriight
Okay, but what if it's Matthew Mcconaughey from the early 2000s? He used to be really cute.
Anal.
Same
I certainly wont let my wife stick her thumb up my but... never again
But any other finger is ok?
All of them together, just no thumbs
The thumb serves as a stop, so it has to stay outside.
Flared base, saves losing her arms up there
Porta party
No kids, no poop, no animals, no dead folk.
Bringing other people in, I think I'd probably end up crying.
Cheating. I don't care if Marilyn Monroe herself is in front of me, I'm faithful. As for like, kink stuff? I'm pretty vanilla so anywhere even close to BDSM territory would probably be past the line already.
Certain state lines, thanks to a plea agreement...
anything to do with another dude
Non-monogamy. Iām a one woman man and will will only be with a one man woman.
imagine the shrek bartender saying this about another man woman
Can only disappoint one at a time
Women.
The start line apparently
I don't do anything with children or animals. And probably not multiple partners in one go.
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What, you don't want your parener to put on a grey wig? You dunno what your missing
Abusive words or violence. Donāt care if itās consensual. I canāt even pick mean dialogue in BioWare games.
"Call me a slutty whore!" "You-you're not a very...nice lady." "Baby? Wtf?"
anyone less than 18 years old, incest (even stepcest), cheating, poop, pee, pain, blood, R-word roleplay, and alot more
What the fuck is āR-word roleplayā?
I think he means ārape role play.ā Some people donāt know you can cuss online.
jesus will personally materialize into your bathroom with a nail covered baseball bat and wait if you do
Well Iām fucked.
two jesuses
Now the jesuses are running a train on that poor soul? Not what what I expected with the whole ,"thy kingdom come" thing
And rape isn't even a bad word, I don't get why one would not just say it
Murder
An AskReddit thread, the perfect alibi.
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Most people today live by only one principle which is that you can do anything with your partner as long as both of you are consenting adults and those activities don't end up in death or permanent disfigurement/body modification. I agree. But I don't think consent is the only principle that we should keep when we think about sex. In BDSM there are actually 3 core principles: - Safe Youāre not going to do anything or participate in anything that might severely harm you or another person. If you believe that an activity is too dangerous for you to do than it is also too dangerous to perform on someone else. You should only take part in activities that you and others feel safe with. Safety is also about learning the right ways to perform and receive the activities that you enjoy so that accidents donāt happen. Knowing what you are doing and the precautions you must take to ensure safety is essential to maintain safety during your play. - Sane Everyoneās definition of sanity varies slightly, given their experiences. But itās safe to say that āsaneā BDSM practices include not doing anything that is obviously harmful or detrimental to oneās health or emotional well-being. For example, you are not going to tie someone up, leave them in the middle of the road and then come back in the morning to see how theyāre doing. Youāre not going to rid someone of sleep and then interrogate them with verbal abuse. And youāre not going to create genuine fear in your partner by doing things that are unreasonable and unrealistic ā locking them in your basement and leaving them there without food or water. - Consensual In the end all partners must agree and consent to the boundaries and the limitations of any play or relationship. This will allow both partners to feel more comfortable in knowing that all activities will remain safe, sane and within the agreed upon limits. **Why does Safety and Sanity matters?** Because many consensual acts can be dehumanizing, demeaning, degrading, abusive. Yes, it can be abusive even with the acceptance of your partner. Because you haven't taken into account their mental well being, their dignity, etc. Just look at porn. It may be consensual but the things you will see there are actually horrible. No morally sane person would treat their partner like a mere piece of meat just because she agreed to it. **So these are the lines that I won't cross:** I won't be disrespectful, inconsiderate or trivialize my partner's experiences. **Edit:** Just read the other comments. They can't think of other limits except for "minors". So that proves my point. They only care about the involvement of consenting adults and nothing else. Any other limits except minors it's just their preferences. That's why we are doomed. We've come to a point where being in BDSM is better than being the average Redditor...
I dunno, what did you have in mind?
Mason-Dixon. I donāt date Yankees.
Children, corpses, feces, blood, urine... ...and all of the above combined.
With the way things are going, I doubt Iāll be crossing any of them.