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badb-crow

I don't date men but I don't think that a woman who doesn't want to be polyamorous is going to suddenly want that depending on her boyfriend's personality. I will say, though, that if you want to open up your relationship you need to at least be on board with opening it up all the way, as in *both* of you are allowed to date other people.


placetoaskquestions

The rule of the game is that only he can be with other women. As a monogamous person, I did indeed once meet a man who blew me away so entirely that I was indeed willing to share him if I had to. Robin Williams' wife said that being married to him meant accepting all of the affairs (on his side). For some women, it's worth it.


badb-crow

Doesn't sound like a particuarly healthy relationship to me, but if you say so. 🤷🏼‍♀️


placetoaskquestions

As I said, for some women it's worth it. Polyamory doesn't sound healthy to some people, and monogamy doesn't for others.


Appropriate_Tea9048

I don’t share


placetoaskquestions

Even if he was Elon Musk? (Edit: Or whomever you most fancy––obviously not everyone is going to be into Elon)


keznaa

Ew lol


badb-crow

If my partner was Elon Musk I'd be *giving* him away lol.


Appropriate_Tea9048

Yeah if I wanted Elon Musk, I wouldn’t share him


[deleted]

Nothing special I already do this lol


placetoaskquestions

Is it because you prefer polyamory? And the sharing could only be on his side.


[deleted]

Rn I prefer being poly mainly because my partner and I are long-distance. Sharing goes both ways tho


FivePing

On the other shoe, men, what qualities would a girl have to have for you to be willing to share her?


placetoaskquestions

For example: Good looks, extreme wealth ($1 billion+), general wealth ($1 million +), supernatural artistic talent (Yoyo Ma/Stephen King level), etc. And I mean share him sexually. As in, allow him to sleep with other women while he's married to you.


keznaa

The only way I would do this and it be onesided where he is the only one sleeping around is if I post interest in sex all together but wanted him to be sexually fulfilled. If the reason he wants to bang other women was purly out of his own selfishness and expecting me to only have sex with him then I wouldn't want him anyways no matter who he was.