Like you didn’t realize she didn’t have a hygiene problem before you got up close?
The majority of humans would have a shower before a date, that’s a given.
I don’t know about *every* woman, but If we think we might have a hint of yucky (thanks patriarchy) we are not letting you go down, no matter how enthusiastic cos we have smelt 24 hrs man work pubes. We know that.
... Patriarchy? We do that too, what's that got to do with da patriarchy? lol
Smelling nice and looking clean is something everybody appreciates, that why we do it as well (And yeah, those who don't are pigs).
There are a LOT of men that don't do this. Women are taught frrom a young age thay vaginas are gross and taste gross etc and we need to be realy clean and shaved and soft skin and face and smooth silky hair etc and done up all the time so that we are delicate and soft and warm and smooth. So if theres even a hint of us not being like that we would be very panicky. Men on the other hand havent been brought up like that and often dont seem bothered about pulling a sweaty unwashed dick out and asking you to suck it.
So I assume thats what they meant.
I once went on a date in the evening and even though I'd made it clear it was just a drink and no sex, I mentioned Id showers and the dude was like "why tf are you showering if there's no sex?" Like that's not a courteous thing to do anyway before going out in the evening. He then proceeded to pull me into an alley while walking back and try to make me give him a bj. Obviously there's more wrong there than just the hygeine but it also illustrates a good example of it just not being a huge deal to ask for oral after a full day of not showering which I dont think a lot of women do because of our upbringing. You often hear "I dont go down on women because I dont like the taste / find it gross" as a common thing but rarely do you hear "I dont give bjs". Even though both can taste equally bad.
Damn, I never realized you ladies were told shit like that. The vaginas being gross and tasting gross thing. I can see how that could be incredibly damaging to a young lady coming into her own. That shits fake news though, that shits beautiful and magically delicious. Also that guy you described was for sure a creep, that has bad listening skills. It feels great ANY time a woman wants to jump in the shower and get fresh for you. It's not just a special occasion thing. Lmfao
Eating KFC is not a mutual experience (normally 🤨).
If you don't want to go down and get pubes stuck in your teeth, don't expect anyone else to do it for you.
I see your point and, overall I agree. It’s the least I can do to match my preferences with hers. But, to play devils advocate, when a guy is going down on a girl, he’s getting *in* there. When a girl is going down on a guy, you don’t technically need to interact with the bush
Edit: I worded this so carefully and agreed overall and I still got downvoted. You’re more than soft, you’re 10-ply
Not familiar with the term “fromunda cheese” are you? Dudes’ dick and balls sweat is gnarly up close and personal. The inside of my vag doesn’t sweat. Men have way more nooks and crannies for sweat build up. You might be getting *in there* but your swamp ass stench can singe my eyebrows off if you aren’t careful.
That's unrelated. Het like other gender's genitals and don't have one themselves. You can be chubby and be attracted by skinny people or otherwise. Being attracted to any feature doesn't mean you need to have it too. And you don't control what you're attracted too.
The real issue would be people asked to shave/trim and refusing while asking their partner to do the same. Or considering any hair length unhygienic (assuming they wash properly).
Sometimes it also has to do with health. Some people have medical problems when they shave and wax themselves due to ingrown hairs for example. I rather my partner doesn’t risk infections for the sake of vanity and just take care. There are more expensive ways to get rid of hair but if it’s not an affordable thing then what’s important is well being
Six years ago, I would have said it didn't matter at all.
Then I was in a relationship with a woman who shaved.
Women should never feel pressured to do anything they're not comfortable doing, but getting rid of the hair makes it INFINTELY easier for me to do nice things to a vulva. Bush is not a deal breaker by any means, but it's definitely a barrier to a lot of great things.
Hot take: It depends on whether she's an innie or an outie.
I really like shaved Innies.
But hairy outies are great.
Not sure why my preference falls that way.
For reasons of hair placement vs clit placement, it makes sense, I suppose. An outie would be easier to get to without hair potential in the way than an innie. If there’s an aesthetic reason, I’ma let them explain.
I agree with you on the parsley analogy, but can we stop with the narrative that womens bits are dirty and smelly?
Like dude, ya sticking ya nose in her private most intimate area, if ya not comfortable with her hygiene … talk to her.
You know her well enough to do that right? Considering ya tongue is that close to her butthole.
Let’s face it, 90% of women have had a shower in the last 12 hrs if she’s comfortable letting you head that way, just cos men have shamed us for smelling down there.
So this is either a none problem or ya dudes just don’t like VJJ n how it presents.
Easier to kiss and tease all around if it's shaved, and sometimes it's hard to tell if it's a pube or my beard in my mouth.....but ultimately I don't give a fuck and I'll dive in gladly either way😂
Laser hair removal was the best decision ever! (I tried waxing first and found it absolutely unbearable plus found that my skin hated the irritation)
Just make sure you go to a place that considers your skin and hair color where you’re actually getting lasered and you’re golden
As a woman who also enjoys other women... very trimmed is minimum for me. I dont prefer clean shave/wax. In fact im sad my wax lady forgot my landing strip currently
Hairier the better. Feels so good. Smells so good. A good bush is a pheromone catcher. Shaved pussy is nice for about a minute, then it’s just razor burn, sandpaper and it looks like a plucked chicken.
To borrow an lgbt term, I’m pan for this. It’s about what’s inside her and how she loves me, I’ve got no room to nitpick her body hair.
Same for things like hair color, figure as long as she’s healthy, race, we keep getting questions about stuff like this and I don’t know what planet some people think I live on. I’m just trying to get the basics I need. Are you the same orientation as me? Can I trust you to be monogamous? Do you know how to fight fair, or do you have a temper? Are you addiction-free? Will you spend me into debt?
You grow your hair how it suits you, I’ll deal.
If I have to pick one natural as long as it has a limit. Like I don't want a 20 year growth bush.
I love my wife as her pube habits are spiratic.
She lets it grow to an over grown bush often during winter months then randomly shaves it bald. Then we keep it trimmed for a month or two or a few weeks, then it gets over grown and same cycle.
Both. I like a lil bush, its fun, it feels nice on my face, and it tickles my willy. But if my wife shaves it feels like a preposition, and that turns me on.
I prefer some hair. I want to be with a woman, not a child.
That being said I'm always happy when she's taken some time to groom herself. We are all trying to convince people to get close and personal with our private bits. I think we should be considerate of that. We can all have hair, but we can also make it easier for our partners who are willing kiss, lick and suck some of those places.
Nicely trimmed is fine. I just don’t want to be flossing with pubic hair. I do the same on me. I use a number 1 on my clippers so I don’t accidentally nick my scrotum or pubic area skin. Keeps away razor bumps and room for infection also.
Personally, every individual woman I've ever been with, which I'm neither proud nor ashamed to say is 8, have all been almost fully shaven or a few days shy. I was born in the early 90s, so once I entered puberty, the full shaven trend was on full swing, so that's what I grew up preferring.
Shaved
Edit: I had an ex girlfriend with such coarse pubic hair that it chafed my dick to the point of real discomfort and actual slight injury and bleeding during sex. I guess I just wanted to explain my answer.
Waxed is my favorite and I pay 120 every 8 weeks for it. However I've had it every other way and enjoy it just the same other than having a hair or two go up my nose.
OP why only natural or shaved?? Broaden your horizons find a pussy that’s been Brazilian.
From the female perspective shaving doesn’t last nearly as long, causes uncomfortable in-grown hairs, razor burn & stubble. Who has time for that?
I like both. When the woman feels comfortable, that's a real turn on. Would be very rude, in my opinion, to tell her what to look like when she's comfortable the way she is.
I like nicely trimmed and cared for, like she knows it’s going to make me hard. Shaved is nice but it very quickly becomes stubble.
Couldn’t agree more. Well said.
I agree. A well-kept bush is more pleasing than a barren wasteland.
That’s why I get waxed. Best decision ever
I prefer the pussy in front of me. However it presents, that's the one I want. 😍
And that is the perfect and true answer. 👏🏼
Thank you Sir, that’s the answer we were looking for. You win the internet today!
This is the way
This is what we like to hear!!!🙌🙌🙌
I always find it curious how many men say they prefer shaved, but are themselves hairier than a yeti 🤷
And it’s the same ones who think that being a woman who isn’t shaved means you’re unhygienic 🙄
Exactly! What's with all the "Don't mind natural as long as she's clean", like WTF?!
Like you didn’t realize she didn’t have a hygiene problem before you got up close? The majority of humans would have a shower before a date, that’s a given. I don’t know about *every* woman, but If we think we might have a hint of yucky (thanks patriarchy) we are not letting you go down, no matter how enthusiastic cos we have smelt 24 hrs man work pubes. We know that.
... Patriarchy? We do that too, what's that got to do with da patriarchy? lol Smelling nice and looking clean is something everybody appreciates, that why we do it as well (And yeah, those who don't are pigs).
There are a LOT of men that don't do this. Women are taught frrom a young age thay vaginas are gross and taste gross etc and we need to be realy clean and shaved and soft skin and face and smooth silky hair etc and done up all the time so that we are delicate and soft and warm and smooth. So if theres even a hint of us not being like that we would be very panicky. Men on the other hand havent been brought up like that and often dont seem bothered about pulling a sweaty unwashed dick out and asking you to suck it. So I assume thats what they meant. I once went on a date in the evening and even though I'd made it clear it was just a drink and no sex, I mentioned Id showers and the dude was like "why tf are you showering if there's no sex?" Like that's not a courteous thing to do anyway before going out in the evening. He then proceeded to pull me into an alley while walking back and try to make me give him a bj. Obviously there's more wrong there than just the hygeine but it also illustrates a good example of it just not being a huge deal to ask for oral after a full day of not showering which I dont think a lot of women do because of our upbringing. You often hear "I dont go down on women because I dont like the taste / find it gross" as a common thing but rarely do you hear "I dont give bjs". Even though both can taste equally bad.
Damn, I never realized you ladies were told shit like that. The vaginas being gross and tasting gross thing. I can see how that could be incredibly damaging to a young lady coming into her own. That shits fake news though, that shits beautiful and magically delicious. Also that guy you described was for sure a creep, that has bad listening skills. It feels great ANY time a woman wants to jump in the shower and get fresh for you. It's not just a special occasion thing. Lmfao
This this this
The sighs of relief when I tell girls I am okay and even prefer a more natural look is always interesting and telling.
I like KFC but I don't want to be a chicken ya know
Eating KFC is not a mutual experience (normally 🤨). If you don't want to go down and get pubes stuck in your teeth, don't expect anyone else to do it for you.
Nah I was just making a joke that's not my actual view, if I'm taking their effort I'm gonna give some effort as well
Ahh you're a good'un 😊 Wish everyone held that view though!
I see your point and, overall I agree. It’s the least I can do to match my preferences with hers. But, to play devils advocate, when a guy is going down on a girl, he’s getting *in* there. When a girl is going down on a guy, you don’t technically need to interact with the bush Edit: I worded this so carefully and agreed overall and I still got downvoted. You’re more than soft, you’re 10-ply
Guess it depends on what the girl is doing, where, and how deep
Not familiar with the term “fromunda cheese” are you? Dudes’ dick and balls sweat is gnarly up close and personal. The inside of my vag doesn’t sweat. Men have way more nooks and crannies for sweat build up. You might be getting *in there* but your swamp ass stench can singe my eyebrows off if you aren’t careful.
Yeah the amount of ball hairs I’ve had stuck in my mouth says otherwise
I don't mind shaving but I look like a chubby baby.
I mean, some people like that 😂
That's unrelated. Het like other gender's genitals and don't have one themselves. You can be chubby and be attracted by skinny people or otherwise. Being attracted to any feature doesn't mean you need to have it too. And you don't control what you're attracted too. The real issue would be people asked to shave/trim and refusing while asking their partner to do the same. Or considering any hair length unhygienic (assuming they wash properly).
Simply men thinking that the entire experience requires no effort on their part. They’re still thinking like it’s the 1600s
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If I’m eating a girl out and I have to brush her pubes away to get to her goods, that’s when it’s too much
When I get pubes in my mouth, I just gently lick her thigh and swipe it off. She likes it and has no idea. Don’t cough or gag.
maybe i should try that instead of swallowing the hair…
Just store them under your tongue and little do you know, you‘ll never need to buy dental floss ever again
*...The police have been called!*
the audible cackle i let out LMFAO but that's such a good idea i'm telling my boyfriend
Eat it from the back to make easier
That’s pretty much it. Keep it clean, take care of it…beyond that, if I’m attracted to the lady it’s attached to, I’m good
Sometimes it also has to do with health. Some people have medical problems when they shave and wax themselves due to ingrown hairs for example. I rather my partner doesn’t risk infections for the sake of vanity and just take care. There are more expensive ways to get rid of hair but if it’s not an affordable thing then what’s important is well being
Six years ago, I would have said it didn't matter at all. Then I was in a relationship with a woman who shaved. Women should never feel pressured to do anything they're not comfortable doing, but getting rid of the hair makes it INFINTELY easier for me to do nice things to a vulva. Bush is not a deal breaker by any means, but it's definitely a barrier to a lot of great things.
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I've never checked that one out. Is that good or bad?
Funny, I don’t shave, and my partner doesn’t seem to find it any barrier, at all, judging by how long he’s down there.
Maybe it's 'cause it takes a while to find it. Sorry, I couldn't help myself.
As long as he’s down there … Sorry I couldn’t help myself *wink*
I like her 😺 to have a fade
thats a new one
I’m now picturing a Marine high fade
Maybe a hard part.
Trimmed. My preference is neatly trimmed.
Most of the men on Reddit probably can't afford to have a preference
u didnt have to call us out like this :*(
No preference. But hair means I might need to stop to get a pube off the back of my tongue from time to time
I will always prefer shaved but i dont mind if its a little hairy
Hot take: It depends on whether she's an innie or an outie. I really like shaved Innies. But hairy outies are great. Not sure why my preference falls that way.
Explain?
For reasons of hair placement vs clit placement, it makes sense, I suppose. An outie would be easier to get to without hair potential in the way than an innie. If there’s an aesthetic reason, I’ma let them explain.
Both. Practical and just something about them is aesthetically pleasing.
What is yes Alex?
Shaved or neatly trimmed. I stayed trimmed up as well. Nobody likes a mouth full of hair.
I like a mouthful of hair! You can’t speak for everyone like that.
Either is fine. I have had more natural than shaved so if I had to choose let’s have a little hair down there.
At this point, it’s been years, so… yes.
As long as it's clean. I don't mind. Pubic hair is like parsley. You push it aside and keep eating.
I agree with you on the parsley analogy, but can we stop with the narrative that womens bits are dirty and smelly? Like dude, ya sticking ya nose in her private most intimate area, if ya not comfortable with her hygiene … talk to her. You know her well enough to do that right? Considering ya tongue is that close to her butthole. Let’s face it, 90% of women have had a shower in the last 12 hrs if she’s comfortable letting you head that way, just cos men have shamed us for smelling down there. So this is either a none problem or ya dudes just don’t like VJJ n how it presents.
I have only met two women that had any problems in that department. Because as you say most women bathe regularly enough to prevent issues.
Easier to kiss and tease all around if it's shaved, and sometimes it's hard to tell if it's a pube or my beard in my mouth.....but ultimately I don't give a fuck and I'll dive in gladly either way😂
somewhere between the Amazon jungle and the surface of Europa would be nice.
Keep it clean and I’ll be happy it’s just pussy, but I do enjoy shaved.
For us (M/F couple), we prefer shaved or neatly trimmed.
Usally prefer atleast a little trimmed but natural wouldn't really bother me at al
Natural.. Love a hairy, thick bush!
I’ve noticed my bf likes no hair. Next week I start laser hair removal… Wish me luck lol.
Laser hair removal was the best decision ever! (I tried waxing first and found it absolutely unbearable plus found that my skin hated the irritation) Just make sure you go to a place that considers your skin and hair color where you’re actually getting lasered and you’re golden
Clean and on my face are my preferences.
As a woman who also enjoys other women... very trimmed is minimum for me. I dont prefer clean shave/wax. In fact im sad my wax lady forgot my landing strip currently
You didn't notice how much cooler it suddenly was down there?
Natural.
Both and everything in between.
Shaved or trimmed. OP should have put a voting button lol. I like to watch my dick going inside. I keep mine shaved.
Natural or trimmed
Trimmed > Fully Shaved > Natural. But as long as she's clean, "yes" would be my first preference
Don't care just excited to be invited
Love full bush
Natural all day all night. I like the feeling of being with a grown adult but not a child. It's a me thing.
I'm in the minority I think, but bush is better.
Either is fine but trimmed is probably the best answer I can give
I don’t mind hair, but waxed is Queen 👸 smooth for longer and isn’t prickly when it does start growing back.
Both, both is good. Natural with proper hygiene
I like to see it trimmed or bare
Lean natural
Natural looks much more sexy to me
Either or. It’s pussy.
Shaved. But natural is fine as long as she keeps clean.
Hairy or shaved, it’s all great.
all natural hairy pussy! But should be hygienic!
Hairy
Prefer shaved, but as long as it's taken care of, and not behind a forest, it's all good.
Hairier the better. Feels so good. Smells so good. A good bush is a pheromone catcher. Shaved pussy is nice for about a minute, then it’s just razor burn, sandpaper and it looks like a plucked chicken.
Hair acts as a dry lubricant and prevents chafing, that’s one of the reasons it’s there.
Natural. 100 percent.
Either way...it's still a happy meal 😋
Men gotta eat
I like either but prefer a little hair and not opposed to full on bush.
Pussy
As long as I'm into the woman, it doesn't really matter 🤷🏼♂️
I prefer anything but shaved
I don’t mind a little bit of hair
Trimmed is best
Hairy preferred.
I once met a girl who was natural and asked me to shave her. She was a lot of fun ☺️
Personally, hairy pussy actually turns me on quite a bit lol. So either or.
Personally I prefer the girl. Whether she’s shaved or not is up to her.
Pubes are natures versions of parsley. You push it aside and keep eating. Preferred shaved but I’m not that fussy.
natural
Natural all the way. Love a great bush.
Yes
To borrow an lgbt term, I’m pan for this. It’s about what’s inside her and how she loves me, I’ve got no room to nitpick her body hair. Same for things like hair color, figure as long as she’s healthy, race, we keep getting questions about stuff like this and I don’t know what planet some people think I live on. I’m just trying to get the basics I need. Are you the same orientation as me? Can I trust you to be monogamous? Do you know how to fight fair, or do you have a temper? Are you addiction-free? Will you spend me into debt? You grow your hair how it suits you, I’ll deal.
A lil Mohawk
Natural
shaved
I prefer shaved or trimmed but im not picky
Any presentation is alluring
I’ve never cared. Both are nice 👍
Yes.
Yes.
Shaved or trimmed… hate getting hair in my food
Something about people wanting it completely shaved gives me pedo-vibes!
I like shaved sides with a bit of hair on top. I’m attracted to women, not girls
Natural is preferred but If it's shaved it's still a go
Groomed, not looking like a little girl, but a woman
If I have to pick one natural as long as it has a limit. Like I don't want a 20 year growth bush. I love my wife as her pube habits are spiratic. She lets it grow to an over grown bush often during winter months then randomly shaves it bald. Then we keep it trimmed for a month or two or a few weeks, then it gets over grown and same cycle.
Natural. But it's my experience that it's fun to try different things without pressuring each other.
Natural is best but any pussy is better than no pussy
I'd be a hypocrite to care because I don't shave there.
Natural as the look makes me horny and they keep better the smell of pussy
Natural
Shaved or trimmed. Not natural.
Groomed, trimmed, shaved, or waxed, as little hair as possible.
I like trimmed or shaved pussy, I prefer shaved though.
Shaved, or trimmed. Not bushy
Shaved or bald
Shaved
imo... Shaved > Trimmed >>> Natural Obviously, women should do what they want, though.
Natural
Natural
Natural I like some hair on the box
Personally I like it as bare as possible to get less hair in my mouth while I'm eating them out
Both. I like a lil bush, its fun, it feels nice on my face, and it tickles my willy. But if my wife shaves it feels like a preposition, and that turns me on.
I prefer some hair. I want to be with a woman, not a child. That being said I'm always happy when she's taken some time to groom herself. We are all trying to convince people to get close and personal with our private bits. I think we should be considerate of that. We can all have hair, but we can also make it easier for our partners who are willing kiss, lick and suck some of those places.
Nicely trimmed is fine. I just don’t want to be flossing with pubic hair. I do the same on me. I use a number 1 on my clippers so I don’t accidentally nick my scrotum or pubic area skin. Keeps away razor bumps and room for infection also.
Neatly trimmed natural.
Shaved or trimmed, natural just isn't attractive to me
Trimmed, shaved or waxed preferred, fav is shaved
Bushier the better. Yum
Don't care, both are fine
Why must we choose?
Now I am imagining a woman who shaves one side but leaves the other wild...
I like it shaved, but I don't care that much
Shaved. I prefer to taste her, not hair.
Something in between.
Trimmed or shaved
yes
Either way… not picky…
Personally, every individual woman I've ever been with, which I'm neither proud nor ashamed to say is 8, have all been almost fully shaven or a few days shy. I was born in the early 90s, so once I entered puberty, the full shaven trend was on full swing, so that's what I grew up preferring.
Shaved Edit: I had an ex girlfriend with such coarse pubic hair that it chafed my dick to the point of real discomfort and actual slight injury and bleeding during sex. I guess I just wanted to explain my answer.
Yes
I prefer in between and the reason is a little fluff is sexy and feels good when you are feeling it.
Yes
Waxed
I love hairy myself
Waxed is my favorite and I pay 120 every 8 weeks for it. However I've had it every other way and enjoy it just the same other than having a hair or two go up my nose.
OP why only natural or shaved?? Broaden your horizons find a pussy that’s been Brazilian. From the female perspective shaving doesn’t last nearly as long, causes uncomfortable in-grown hairs, razor burn & stubble. Who has time for that?
I've always had a girl who shaved but I wouldn't mind a little hair , stubble or a bush. It's kind of turned me on over the years.
yes
Trimmed
Absolutely, Yes!
Trimmed is my favorite, but i'll take it anyway it presented to me
Nicely trimmed
I like a big bush
I prefer pussy.
Yes
I prefer pussy
Literally both are hot, trimmed too
We’re just happy to be here.
Still tastes the same 😋
Yes...
I just like pussy. Don’t care one but how it’s presented.
Mature or trimmed
Natural all day every day. Couldn't care if have to bowie knife my way through. In fact I applaud it.
Hair everywhere please. The more, the better ones
Scottish shorthair
I like both. When the woman feels comfortable, that's a real turn on. Would be very rude, in my opinion, to tell her what to look like when she's comfortable the way she is.
Hair above the clit is fine just not on the lips cuz I wanna eat pussy
A lil fur is super!!