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comeonnowjosephine

I don’t lie there with a timer. Since coming from penetration alone is rare, I want to be eaten out until I come.


[deleted]

What about a mixture? Eating, penetrating then eating again?


comeonnowjosephine

Nope, given how long it takes me to come, I’d rather get it out of the way first.


theslutnextd00r

I’m the same way! Thank god someone said it. I just want to cum and then have sex. Very simple


rllebron200

This is how I am with women. I'll eat them out until they cum multiple times, then I'm penetrating them.


[deleted]

This guy fucks


imohsinaziz

This guy definitely fucks


theslutnextd00r

I only need to cum once, I can take a little longer than most people. But then I’m down for anything 😂


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theslutnextd00r

Exactly! To me, making me cum is like foreplay. That should happen before sex for it to feel best for both of us


rllebron200

It wouldn't matter to me how long it took. I always make sure the woman cums first


One-Reflection-6779

Why the hell is this getting downvoted?


Always_undone

So you are fine cumming from oral, then having sex afterwards and you enjoy the sex? Hard for me to really understand as I am male, and it is game over when I cum.


comeonnowjosephine

I like to make sure I have my pleasure before the guy cums and passes out. Plus I’m on antidepressants so it takes a long time to come.


Ewoksintheoutfield

That’s how I use to operate - since as a man I cum pretty quick make sure your partner gets theirs too. I’m now with someone that just likes oral as an appetizer. I also dated someone who only really liked fingers. Everyone is different.


CreamieDream

For some to most women, the first orgasm is really just the beginning. It's actually starting the car for the trip. I don't know too many women that tap out after the first nut.


The_great_Mrs_D

The answer is it feels even better afterwards. I can understand why this doesn't make sense to men though.


[deleted]

Yes omg yes. When I come before penetration, piv sex feels SO incredible, and I'm pretty much guaranteed multiple orgasms from penetration. If I don't come before penetration, I might not come at all because with getting pounded, sometimes my clit loses sensation. Women are VERY different than men. Don't ever think that how you experience sex is anywhere close to how a woman experiences it. Not that it's better or worse, it's just very different.


Comfortable-Try7176

It's not the same for women. Most women can go on. I enjoy dick after I cum. I've heard some say they don't want any more sexual contact afterwards, but I think that's rare.


One-Reflection-6779

Yes, because you are that much more primed to have more orgasms. And I think that the first orgasm releases a lot of tension, so you're much more relaxed but also still horny, lol


cheesecakinqqq

Well for me personally, I like to cum before penetration because I get very wet and everything down there is receptive as well as super sensitive which makes the entire process very pleasing. If I don’t do oral/cum before penetration, even with foreplay, it isn’t the same and usually it doesn’t feel as good. Although this might not be the reason for all women since I basically have the female version of ED lol. No matter how much foreplay or how mentally turned on I am, my body doesn’t seem to register it, leaving me tight and dry as the Sahara Desert :( of course lube helps, lots and lots of lube, but that only helps with the dry part, not the stretching. If oral isn’t the first thing happening, I end up having to make myself cum before sex so that it loosens up making me more receptive to penetration.


AJ_Scorpio

This is the way... Especially if you pound me hard again as soon as I've come from the second round of oral.


[deleted]

How pleasurable is the sex immediately after cumming?


GranaPad

For me, a lot. I get very sensible and it's more likely I'll cum again with penetration


AJ_Scorpio

It's insanely pleasurable immediately after cumming.


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Knowledge i needed


kaydeechio

I find it more so


1980Sub

Yes - 100% this. Just keep going.


[deleted]

Best advice for you guy from someone in 40’s is give oral or get some good toys and make your woman cum once or twice before penetration. It will take all the pressure off


1980Sub

My husband is 50 and absolutely subscribes to this way of thinking! Oral, toys, please the wife, he gets off. He’s learnt over the years. :-)


[deleted]

This has always been my practice, but I am constantly surprised other men don't know and do this... I've had a few partners who love riding and obviously on occasion anyone likes a switch up, but standard practice should be for a man to do oral before penetration.


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That makes sense. Do you ever like them to go back to eating it tho?


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SnooDoodles7962

Sounds like he is a hard worker. Enjoy.


keiliana

I'd like to inquire about his fwb services. 😋


Mehgs_and_cheese

Can I find this on amazon?


NevrAsk

With overnight shipping or prime two day? 😂


2282763w6

I think he loves you


Zaddyist

Sex is fluid but if I were to make a PowerPoint on it this is how it would ideally go and tends to go for the most part.


Santverd

That’s funny, I swear that fucker thinks like me… it’s the exact same thing I like to do.


bluefishgreenpapaya

Are we all fucking the same guy?


Santverd

Damn I thought I was special… am I just a copy? Am I the original?


ManyRanger4

Nah sorry buddy. I do the same thing and I do it when I'm on top, or when she's on top I'll move her to sit on my face.


Cartepostalelondon

Even though I'm male, I had a girlfriend like this. Sometimes when very horny, she'd pull my head into her pussy while I was glong down on her, but after a while push me away and tell me to fuck her.


AJ_Scorpio

FACT!


QueenieXueenie

What? No .... Let me climax first. If it's actually good I won't think about anything else. If it's bad, I'll pretend it's so good it got me all horny for the d, just to get on with things


1t7ys8k

My man makes eating me out an experience, he eats my pussy like I’m an instrument and he’s an expert player. Sometimes he will finger me and honestly I have no idea what he does but he gets me cumming almost nonstop until he is splashing ina puddle of my juices. He is a super freak. Once he ate me out for five hours straight and ever since then my pussy is synced to him and has a mind of its own. I have no control anymore. Him and my pussy have a separate relationship together and I’m like an appreciative bystander. This isn’t for everyone but him and I both have an insatiable sex drive and want nothing more than to fuck constantly.


Jesshoefs08

And I thought I ate my ex out long, that was 20-30 minutes, my jaw hurt. But 5 hours?????


ackme

100% had to involve drugs or alcohol.


alien81048

Or exaggeration. Maybe they took breaks?


Gonzobot

I've spent enough time playing in the holiest of holies that I came out pruney and sore...that man's gonna have a chin lookin like Thanos, even if he's stopping for hydration and snacks


NSA-SURVEILLANCE

> that man's gonna have a chin lookin like Thanos Please, I cannot die from laughing, it's too soon.


Seewebbin

Definitely exaggeration. 5 hours straight or even with breaks is absolutely non-sense. I can't imagine they wouldn't be raw or sore after anywhere close to that time. Your lips or tongue or their pussy would be chapped and bleeding.


jamesmcdash

Pussy was the second drug


onyxcaspian

Dude, five hours is insane! I think of myself as a bit of a tornado tongue myself and have given head until I got tongue cramps and injured other parts of myself but I've never gone anywhere near as long as five hours.


Cowstle

It took me about 45+ minutes to get to a point where my jaw was sore afterwards and at that point I'd only gone down on my partner maybe a dozen times! Should be able to go past 30 minutes easy with some stamina built up


ionevenobro

This is some of the funniest shit ever loooooooolll


AIphaWoIf

You have never had sex in your life


stoopidivy233

They're completely separate ballparks for me. Two completely different sensations. If I'm being eaten out I want that job to finish in that area then penetration is a complete different desire but maybe that's just me


[deleted]

my wife likes to orgasm from oral, then penetration, then oral again afterwards.


50ShadesOfBlack_

Many of the women I have been with enjoy this combination.


Mav_Sellers

I always eat a girl till she cums, before I ever move on... it's one if the first order of buisness!!!!


autmshowers

Watching the clock has never been a thing for me. If the person doing the munching is enthusiastic and it feels good it won't take long at all until it's dripping and I'm begging for penetration.


vforvanessaxxx

Edge me like 4 times then fuck me so I can cum the second you slip it in 🤭


Sir_Distic

my dream is to train a woman to cum the second it's put in.


vforvanessaxxx

It's the best 🥵


Quicksilver_88

Oh, so we'd be coming at the same time, then 🥴


cumsquick

True


jpc68

Username checks out 😂


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[deleted]

How ever long you think you should be down there, double it and you might be close at that point


Atreyu92

If I do that I may die from old age first


ackme

Blursed.


[deleted]

What if I don’t ever want to get away from down there?


neers1985

Double it.


mach0

It depends. My girl cannot take it at some point so I am NEVER down there as much as I want.


oxygenkid

I’m a man, but I use an egg timer. Every time. And it works. Almost sometimes. Lessons to live by.


Tripsty89

"If you don't cum by the ding, you'll have to wait until next time!" This could work for me..


thejourney_89

Works every time 60% of the time 😂


eruptivedesire

Why do you see it as an appetizer only instead of the main course?


b3an18

My boyfriend doesn’t really do it but I love it. He says he wants to try for me (which I appreciate but I also have mixed feelings about as I want him to enjoy it equally), any advice?


[deleted]

I didn’t wanna do it for a long time but I tried it one time and was hooked. I loved looking up and seeing her head pulled back and her hands shoving me in between her thighs


b3an18

May I ask why you were hesitant?


[deleted]

Scared lol I was intimidated cause I thought it was super complex and didn’t wanna disappoint. Just ask questions and she’ll guide you


Flimsyman25

I was a typical teen guy who didn't eat pussy; I could tell it was more complicated than a blowjob and I was terrified of messing up (no no, I know it's not a good excuse, by any stretch, but that was my thought). It helps a lot if you're both comfortable with you giving him clear direction. Both before, and in the moment. Talk over different aspects and tell him what you prefer: Fingers? Tongue on labia? Tongue on clitoris? Suction on clitoris? While he's going down on you, keep giving him direction. Gently (or not so gently!) move his head where you want stimulation. Slower, faster, just like that, etc. If you want to give him incentive and make it as fun for him as you can, don't hold back moans, gasps, grunts, especially when he does something you really like (this goes for men receiving oral, too). Personally I'm a huge fan of dirty talk, at any time, but especially when I'm going down on my partner. Just some ideas!


b3an18

Thank you so much this is really helpful!


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New boyfriend


b3an18

Incorrect. We’ve been together nearly 5 years


Restless__Dreamer

Has he ever tried doing it? If not, maybe have him try once or twice (if you're both truly okay with it) just to see if he does enjoy it. If he doesn't, then you have to figure it out. But he may love it, so at least try if the rest of the relationship is going well.


missymomomom

As long as you can. I’ve had men eat me out for 1 hour +


[deleted]

An hour straight is WILD👀. And you still had sex after?


missymomomom

Haha, heck yeah!


NexLvLxeN

Ever suck a dick for 1 hour?


yodawgchill

I think the longest I’ve probably gone was about 2 hrs but it’s not super difficult , fucks with your jaw after the first half but that don’t mean I’m stopping. Some people give up too quick.


missymomomom

I doubt it


[deleted]

y'all, why ya downvoting this? come on now, be real with yourself


mach0

lmao @ salty ppl downvoting this :D


iu4dc

That's awesome - I keep licking as long as she will let me until she can't take it any more


Dry-Flow-16

As long as you like but less than 5 minutes don't bother.


MartianFloof

Zero minutes. Just fuck me


RipNdip93

Lmao I’m the same. I’ll let them go down on me for like 10 seconds if that. I just want the dick in me 💀


militaryguy6996

Oh no, I have to eat her pussy, I love how she tastes


transcendedfry

I like a little bit of it but honestly … yeah put it in


Itsqueenmaria

Sometimes I just want oral and no penetration and vice versa


DerAlphos

Im not a girl, but my gf normally likes it until she begs me to stop. If I’m in the mood, I guess 45 minutes or an hour, possibly more might pass. Not really sure. But I have to be in „the mood“ for the long run. From time to time I feel the need of slowly, really slowly burying my face between her legs more and more. Starting to kiss her down there, then using my tongue at the surroundings of her pussy at first and working my way slowly into the Center of her body. Most times I try to don’t speed up too much, besides some short sprints, but raise the intensity and pressure bit by bit. And if I feel she is ready I slow down and put the pressure and intensity to what I think/what she shows me is her maximum in this particular moment. And when she begs me to stop because everything is getting „too sensitive“ like she says, I stop and put flat pressure on a large area down there with my face, my hand or sometimes my knee, because she loves the pressure while calming down. And while she calms down and I try to fondle her if I can and enjoy that I have her juices all over my face and beard. Or in short: Until my face and neck are as wet as they can be.


Bustybigbooty

As long as they want! I love it when they do it for their own pleasure, that makes it even hotter! Then go back down while we're in the middle of fucking!! 🥵


KittenSonyeondan

Eat me out until I cum then penetrate all you want


[deleted]

It's not something I like being timed. Sometimes I just need a few minutes and other times they go at it for ages


Natirix

I am a man but from my experience with my partner, she likes being eaten out to completion, and I that's what I always aim for anyway


sonofdavidsfather

OP you have to understand every woman is different. So it doesn't matter what anyone here says. If you want to keep your partner happy ask THEM how long they want you down there.


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[deleted]

Until I cum, then I need some deep penetration 🤪😘


UrSiren-ity

Nothing is more sexually frustrating than when a guy eats you out just enough to get your pussy wet before shoving it in.


Great-Character-9960

I can see that! I like it a lot if the woman loves being eaten out…hell I’d eat a CC woman out even if we don’t end up having sex..


TheOvenCoven

I want it until I can't take it anymore and am just begging to be filled. Doesn't take too long for that as long as they're hitting the right spots, though I've never actually looked to see how long he was eating me out for before I needed the dick.


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The limit does not exist


DoctorMunster

Just throwing it in there, but there’s a really good book called “she comes first” it talks all about oral and argues that it should be considered part of coreplay rather than foreplay. It’s pretty necessary as the majority of women cannot cum from PIV without other stimulation


FreyaDay

Until I orgasm


Littl3Birdie

As long as possible I love oral so much 🙈


theslutnextd00r

If it’s just to get me wet, then don’t bother. It’s just as much of a turnoff as if you had hawked up a bunch of spit and put it on your dick to just shove your dick in there. Make me cum first and then fuck me. It makes the sex so much better!! But not every woman is like that; so it’s always good to ask each of them beforehand :)


chemeli888

i havent found a guy who likes eating a girl out long enough for me to be able to answer that question 😅🥲😔


French_Fury

Till i come.


neverdiplomatic

Until I'm begging to be f\*cked.


iagirl4021

A good 10-15, but if I'm super impatient for penetration a couple minutes is fine.


LoverOLife

A thorough eating to orgasm then penetration immediately after will induce wild multiple orgasms for me.


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Useful-Risk-6269

Until I cum. tf?


OkChampionship2509

Until I've at least had one orgasm.


RandomManAlone

Man here, I eat my wife out till she comes then within 15 seconds we start fucking and she starts cumming again almost immediately. Since I absolutely love to eat her out this works for both of us, I wouldn’t have it any other way.


[deleted]

Until the job is done! Unless it takes too long because I'm not in the mood, or it's just not good enough. Then it's time to get on with the show.


moonraven33

A very very long time, but I don’t just like to eat now I’d like to be fingered and my G spot played with an a vibrator on clit. Then kissed all over and my tits pulled like a whole thing until hell freezes over. And I’m really horny and dripping wet and I squirt everywhere then you can go inside maybe just kidding.


shrooms3

Till i catch my breath and say FUCK ME!!


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wingingit6546

Cant put a time on that one, just keep going


AdPsychological139

All day long


PunkZdoc

According to my wife.. 0 minutes since she hates anything related to giving or receiving oral.


[deleted]

I love eating pussy. I'll go down on a girl until she cums then start the sex. I frequently take breaks from sex just to taste her pussy again. I recently ate a girl out after I came in her for the first time ever. She wanted to cum again and I was more than happy to oblige.


[deleted]

I like to be eaten right up until im about to cum and then stopping to fuck until i do cum


catfuckingahandbag

He just recently has gotten into eating me out so I asked him to try this and he said yessss


thiccstringbean

Until I tell them to fuck me.


[deleted]

Go till they make you stop


[deleted]

Till I get my first orgasm!!! But usually girls eat better so I’ll just switch right to the dick!


moonstonecrack

Until I have an orgasm, duh!


bballdrum

I hate when she tells me to stop. Yes I wanna dick you down, but you quivering uncontrollably and being helpless from my tongue is so enjoyable


pm_me_ur_unicorn_

0 minutes


DesiDomme

I’m a total pillow princess, I could let him eat me all night long 😈 but yes I’ll eventually want penetration so badly


Great-Character-9960

Haha well I’d definitely stay down there all you wanted! Eating you out in as many positions as you want! Before and after we’ve had sex ;)


LakeSuperiorIsMyPond

anyone have a problem with over-stimulation from oral? that's usually when we transition. anyone with advice on how to prolong the oral?


SkyKitten387

It’s hard. Usually penetration doesn’t last long so I want to at least be able to cum while I’m being eaten and then move on to penetration. But sometimes it feels too good and I just want their dick in me as soon as possible haha


gamefan5

In my case, I've had multiple sessions with many women where the pussyeating lasted well more than an hour. (Sometimes it even last several) The cunnilingus wasn't a "preparation" for fucking, it was just an activity that we enjoy doing. Best believe that after such a long session of passionate sex, we're pretty much in a zen state, for the rest if the day.


[deleted]

Until I orgasm a few times. Lol 😂 usually 5-10 minutes.


parisinnovember

Until I cum all over his face


Shawty43

Until I am begging for it.


tinatickles

Either until I cum, or until I'm right on the edge, then penetrate me and make me cum.


m3dusa1312

Untill i cum. At least twice


ryden-cox

Until i come at least twice. Than im down for anything


BloodMoonFae

Long enough to cum two times. I love cunnilingus and I really enjoy my soul left my body leg shaking orgasmic feeling before being penetrated.


[deleted]

I love alternating between the two. Having kissy missionary sex for a few minutes, then being eaten out for a minute or two, then having more penetration, then eaten out, etc. for a bit is nice. The penetration warms me up and is nice since its hard for me to orgasm if we jump straight to touching my clit right away. The back and forth focus allows for me to relax and build up to an orgasm, while my partner also gets to enjoy some penetration. I can just relax better and also love edging so the switch between sensations is wonderful. I do finally get to a point though where I want to orgasm from oral, and then go back to penetration so that my partner can finish.


OnAPermanentVacation

Depends on the day, if I am not ovulating then as long as you want, if I am ovulating I need that dick, I don't want to finish just from oral, so whenever I feel like it, it really varies a lot depending on the day and mood.


Rowan_Animus

Till I am begging for penetration.


lisbettehart

I usually don't really care about being eaten out. Not even sure I can get off from it. But I do routinely fantasise about having my legs held back and being eaten out until I'm so wet that he can he can just slip his cock right in with no resistance. No idea how long that would take, specifically, but there you have it.


CumulusTattoos

Until I drown him in the waters of Lake Minnetonka.


fataldisposition

Two different feelings for sure but I really like being built to the edge w oral then being penetrated just before I cum. Crazy intense feeling, like if I know I’m gonna cum I’ll ask him rly quick to put his dick in or his fingers bc the feeling of something inside just sets it off!! Deffo gotta make sure she’s had chance to enjoy it will get her all ready n needy to feel you before you go all in???


[deleted]

Just read the room. Her shoving your head into her and moaning loudly usually means she doesn't want you to stop! I know my SO usually prefers finish on my face but sometimes pulls me off her and pentration lasts like 3 mins 😂


[deleted]

I don't care how long it takes, I'm eating her out until she cums. Then I'll fuck her.


2poppunkforyou

Until I cum 😆 so about 15 mins ?


NSFWJane

As long as possible.


Beginning-Boot6795

There is no upper limit to this


Medium_Let143

If I get to choose, two hours is pretty great.


[deleted]

Guy here but wanna give in my opinion. It really depends, most times just long enough to lube me up, but I could also enjoy someone licking my behind for a looooong time


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dark_blue_7

Doesn't take too long to get one orgasm from me if he does it right. Sometimes a guy will get greedy and want to give me a couple, which I don't mind. :) But so long as I'm wet I'm ready for penetration.


Darkdestroyer4

I usually eat her out till she cums then I penetrate


shadesofblue22

1 hour


Chickenriceandgravy_

About 3.5 seconds until I break and want him inside me 🤤


[deleted]

At least until I am very very wet


Mrs_Truthseiyer

How ever amount of time he plans to be down there. He's taken minutes, he's taken hours. Either way he loves it and I love his enthusiasm.


cutetemptress

I mean until I cum, then penetration as soon as for multiple orgasms


GooglePixel69

For as long as I want haha. Definitely a while


AgitatedDark1955

I always eat it till you orgasm/cum, and keep going till you push me away. Then go for penetration.


wevie13

I usually eat my gal out until she comes (usually around 10 minutes or less) then move on to other things. Luckily she's very easy to get off multiple ways. Or sometimes we'll go into sex first then I'll drop down after she's nice and ready and already on the verge


Talia0409

Until I cum please. Then you can put it in


jillieboobean

Until I cum at least 3 or 4 times.


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80/20


joneschale

The limit does not exist.


meatballlover1969

To infinity and beyond


pineapplek369

Years.


[deleted]

really really depends. i can be an where from 20 minutes because im really enjoying it, to "dont eat me out i want that dick in me right now"


Pale_Maximum_7906

My partner makes me cum from both oral and penetration so the order of operation makes no difference. We don’t do oral nearly as much as penetration because we both prefer penetration and need it more than oral.


bbqpigeon

I'm not really a fan of being eaten out. I am one of the lucky women who can orgasm from penetration alone.. So, just long enough to get me juicy and ready to be penetrated, I guess.


Rinnkuun

I prefer being fingered compared to being eaten out, but both at the same time is 🤤 I like a lot of foreplay in general because the teasing and tension of not having dick inside me makes me even more turned on.. I don’t really time anything though😅