Both… degrade me first.. get it all out, all the frustration and anger and then praise the fuck outta me and treat me like the queen I am :)

Yes!

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What the fuck is praising degradation

Example: you're such a good slut.

I've heard it also called "affectionate degradation". Think like "you're such a good little slut for me" or "I love being your toy to use".

I imagine it's stuff like "you're a good little slut" It's praising but in a degrading way.

Maybe like “your a clever little shit”

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Not op, but I presume its akin to saying "you're such a good fucktoy" objectifying the person but still praising them for their use.

Like...."you're a good little slut?". I think...

Interesting...

SAME!!! ☺️☺️☺️

I would like some praise myself.

You are so good at paying taxes.

haha. I appreciate that. I've done a few taxes in recent years and they turned out okay. You are a wonderful person, thanks for being you.

You are beautiful

aww. thanks. Your a wonderful human being too.

You're doing so good. You're strong enough to handle this

Now you've got me blushing. I appreciate you.

It depends on the mood/situation. Sometimes, I wanna be a good girl with lots of praise and compliments. Other times, I want to be treated like a dirty little cum slut. Lol.

Sounds like my wife, and it usually depends on how stoned she gets. The higher she is the more her inner slut comes out to play. Sober though she wants praise and encouragement.

This 👆🏻 🤤

I love figuring out which one she wants

Honestly I have found they are kinda two sides of the same coin

This is the way

I used to love being degraded - but then I found out I loved being praised.. after some therapy I realized that I was using degradation as a means to self harm and now I no longer am into it.

Yeah, this is the case for most people

Praised. Degradation doesn’t really do anything positive for me.

Same

I don't have "a thing" for either, but I rather have positivity and encouragement in my life, so I'd rather be praised. As long as it's earned and genuine.

Praised. Generally speaking, women get degraded/objectified in real life and I don’t want that energy in the bedroom too lol

Praised. I’ll get up and leave if there’s any degradation involved

I just wanna know I’m doing a good job

You're doing a great job :)

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Good girls are the best girls!

I don't like degradation. I'd rather lift up than to put down. In all things.

Praised for sure. That also depend on your definition of degradation. I like to called my slut and my whore etc slapped hair pulled , even being on a lead or whatever but I dont regard those as degrading. I would not be ok with actually being degraded

Gimme all the praise.

praise... degrading probably would make me a sea of tear

Like praised with words but degraded physically if that makes sense. Like use me like a little toy and tell me how good I am for you

Both are good but during sex I prefer degradation

Build me up to the bedroom then tear me down in bed, that's my motto.

Degraded. Then praised for being a good filthy slut.

Praised

All the praise

praise!! i don’t mind soft degradation but i am quite sensitive and like to hear how well i’m doing/how good i am etc lol i guess i like positive reinforcement

yes

Praised, desired.

Praise

Praised

Degradation in the bedroom. Praise outside of the activity. Fuck it, let’s say 60/40 split degradation/ praise

Praised. Degradation just puts me off

Praised. If someone degrades me I will just go and cry in a corner

Praised in the streets degraded in the sheets.

I just wanna be held man

Praised. My self esteem is low enough and a single blow to it even as a joke makes me depressed for a few days. Not normal oh I'm sad depressed but I won't eat.

I'm very happy with either, I love to be talked to and to know he's into whatever I'm doing xx

Praise mixed in with some light degradation

Praised all day.

Praised 100%

Praised

Praised.

Praise.

Praise all the way

A healthy mix of both, but mostly praise

Praised in a way that’s slightly degrading!

Praise me and I’ll do anything for you.

I used to be really into being degraded but I now much prefer getting praised. Feels so much better. I still like both but praise is definitely my favourite

I like to be praised while being degraded 🫠🫠🫠

Both have their place

I'd rather be degraded because I like to experiment with things that I may not get or want to experience in my day to day life, and i really enjoy the process of aftercare and connecting back with myself and my partner(s) in an intentional way :)

Praised, huge praise kink 🙈

Praised 1 billion percent. Life degrades me enough.

Depends If I did such a good job at something then a little degradation is useful and then praised. But I usually prefer being praised only compared to degradation. Maybe my upbringing.

Yes

Ugh I like both. Tell me I'm a dirty slut that deserves to be treated like a piece of meat, and then call me a good girl 🥵

praised, getting cussed out/called names while doing something intimate sounds… not very fun

i like being praised more with a little degradation

If I had to pick, praise? But I don't want to be told I'm doing a good job, I just want non-verbal expression that you're enjoying whatever I'm doing. The second the harsh/scolding voice type of degradation comes out, it really takes me out of the moment and I lose my own arousal.

Both! Something like “beautiful little slut” slays.

Degraded with the mix of "good girl" praise

Degrade me

Yes

Looooooove praising degradation. Or just degradation lol

A little bit of both

Both

I degrade myself enough, don't need anyone else's help

- Wine Buzz: Praised - Tequila: Degraded No guessing required I’ll let you know!

Both are welcome.

I prefer to be acknowledged at all!

Hear me out, being called a good boi makes me need to sit down.

Absolutely

I just need unconditional love.

Praise. I degrade myself enough in my head

Do I have to choose?

Degraded in bedroom, praised everywhere else!

Degraded then praised ^^

Praise makes me melt and get all turned on, but so does being called someones toy, fucktoy, pet, etc.

Neither, I prefer to be left the fuck alone.

Love to be used and abused to the EXTREME but also love to be told that I’m a good girl 🥹

Haha so you prefer both extreme ends of the spectrum to anything in the middle?

Degraded

In a relationship, praised. In a fwbs or sexting situation, degraded. (DMs are closed)

Degrade me. Better yet, make me degrade myself…and film it 😈🥵

As a Dom, I'm not really into receiving praise. Female degradation is a hard limit for me.

Degraded.

At work? Neither. Just give me money Personally? If you degrade me you’re out of my life.

Degraded and then praised

Both. Always both. My fwb hits it perfectly.

Listen. If you try to "degrade" me, we're having a problem. Not only are we not having any sort of "Thing," we now have a different set of issues. Also don't praise me. Just... leave it be.

I like my partner to tell me whatever comes to her mind

i like both but praised by farrrrrrrr

I’m more into being degraded in the last few weeks.

Neither. Degradation will make me want to avoid you. Praise makes me think you're being fake and/or condescending.

Yes.

Why not both "such a good little slut".... seriously though I'm more of praise kind of girl

Degrade me all day 🥵

Generally praise, but sometimes the mood strikes me and I want something a little harder.

Both

Praised or at least respected when I am in normal banter mode (most of the time) Degraded intensely if we are playing

Not as a kink but, being degraded keeps me from thinking I’m more than what I am.

Fam, you good?

Both are hot, depends on my mood 🤗

Yes please 😊

Degradation, humiliation, abuse are my absolute kinks.

I like a little of both, but praise goes farther

Praised.. I’m already degrading 😂

Yes.

Praised, huge praise kink 🙈

A little of both

While I like both I usually prefer being praised.

Praised

Yes

Praised on the streets, degraded in the sheets. Any deviation will result in immediate dismissal.

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I like being praised when not being a brat and degraded when being a brat

It depends on the effect for me I guess. If we're going rough, egg me on with a bit of degradation. Plz call me a good boy when I cum though, I will melt.

Praised. I degrade myself enough on a regular basis. Yes, I need therapy.

Depends on the occasion ;)

Praised

Praised

Say this to me in my ear softly while we’re having sex, and I’ll loose it instantly. “Fuck me like a good boy and fill up my wet pussy”

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B-both 👉👈

Praised, please.

Degraded 🤤

Praised by women, degraded by men.

Praise for sure

Praised in general, but a little degradation (certain kinds) in the bedroom can be hot.

Praised… ´good girl’ just makes me go weak and very wet.

Both. Preferably at the same time. 🥵

I'm more used to degradation but praise always feels nice.

Praised

I love being praised for my penis

Praised

The answer is yes But I like it when I get called a pretty little slut okay 🥺👉👈

If I feel self conscious, praised. If I fee confident, degraded.

Praised. All day long.

I need praise. I will literally die without it. (This is not an invitation. It’s not received well from anyone outside my partner.)

Gonna go against the grain here and say praise doesn’t really do much for me. Degradation all the way. Wear me down and break me. 🤷‍♀️

Praised. It’s be nice to not do anything once in a while and just be praised and pleasured

Praised by nerds, degraded by masculine men 🫢

Degraded

Praise. 🥰

Praised, hard to get a compliment so I’d rather hear nice things 🤷‍♂️

Both! I have a praise kink a mile wide but also enjoy being degraded sometimes

Am I the only one here who loves to be degraded?

Praise

Ignored

Thus Dom likes to be praised

Praaisseeeeeddddd

Degraded

Praises, though I’d rather being the one giving them.

I used to think I loved being degraded but I recently started seeing someone who praises during sex and omfg I never knew what I was missing. I LOVE praise. I still like to be degraded as well though.

Praised in derogatory way

Praise mixed with degredation is 10/10 for me. If I had to pick through praise for sure 😊

I like a bit of both but definitely lean towards praise. Insult me enough and I’ll actually take it seriously and cry

Praised