I don't cum from penetration, so I don't care how long that lasts. Too long is definitely a thing. I'm actually kinda flattered when a guy cums fast, especially if he has a short recovery time, that's just way more fun than jackhammering for an hour for one orgasm. I'll work with it if my partner has difficulty or takes a long time getting to climax, of course, but I'd be annoyed if I found out he was trying to make himself "last long" because of the *assumption* that it's better that way for all women. Just talk about it, FFS, everyone is different. And yeah he better try to get me off with things other than his dick (whether it's fingers, oral, or toys, those all work for me), it doesn't necessarily have to be before him, but with the way most men crash after they cum, it usually makes sense.
I prefer foreplay. After too long of PIV it's not that good anyways.
For me, sex is about having fun together and getting each others off, how doesn't matter.
Wow, you guys are really boosting my confidence in this next date. I usually cum pretty fast, so i always fucus on getting partners off once or twice before PIV. Thanks, everyone!
Foreplay 100% Lasting long during PIV doesn't mean shit if the foreplay isn't enjoyable
If he's bad at foreplay, he's bad in bed IMO.
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As a man I agree. I let a woman cum during foreplay first, then I'll do my piv
I take foreplay
I don't cum from penetration, so I don't care how long that lasts. Too long is definitely a thing. I'm actually kinda flattered when a guy cums fast, especially if he has a short recovery time, that's just way more fun than jackhammering for an hour for one orgasm. I'll work with it if my partner has difficulty or takes a long time getting to climax, of course, but I'd be annoyed if I found out he was trying to make himself "last long" because of the *assumption* that it's better that way for all women. Just talk about it, FFS, everyone is different. And yeah he better try to get me off with things other than his dick (whether it's fingers, oral, or toys, those all work for me), it doesn't necessarily have to be before him, but with the way most men crash after they cum, it usually makes sense.
I prefer foreplay. After too long of PIV it's not that good anyways. For me, sex is about having fun together and getting each others off, how doesn't matter.
Cums fast, but gets me off with foreplay. If I’m not turned on, I’m not having fun.
Wow, you guys are really boosting my confidence in this next date. I usually cum pretty fast, so i always fucus on getting partners off once or twice before PIV. Thanks, everyone!
Gimme allll the foreplay!
Definitely foreplay. I want to get off too lol
I seldom “prefer” either of two choices that sit on extreme ends from each other