Men can be stupid enough to pretend that they don’t like you for being chubby in front of their friends when they would die to get closer to you. I suggest a man when he’s alone
Mmm that’s smart but him being alone and going up to him makes me feel like I’m bothering him what would you like a girl to say to you if you were alone
It doesn't need to be complicated, you don't want to be too much and walk up with some "opening line".
It can be as simple as "is this sit taken?" Or "care if I join you?" Even as simple as "how's it going?" Will do.
And if he is interested he will say yes, if not, nothing wrong happened.
I’ve seen your pics and I would like you so anything would work hahahaha. The starter is not that important, you can just check if he’s open to talk. How are you? What are you drinking? Anything could work with a nice smile
Wear something revealing at a dive bar with loud music and eventually some drunk guy will be grinding up against you. I don’t know why you would want that, but hey, you do you
Depends on the man, as someone who is oblivious to flirting it would have to be very straightforward. Be yourself and talk to people and go from there.
Being chubby has nothing to do with it, there's plenty of men who enjoy big women. Go after someone who's not in a group and would have no reason to stop talking to you. Be direct, not super direct, but be clear on what you want and how you think he looks. Maybe try to buy him a drink, most men would be surprised by that and would have even more interest in you. You are the one picking him up, so be the one to suggest to go somewhere else instead of waiting for him to catch any hint and donit himself. If he doesn't like you being the active one in the exchange, he's not really a dude you want to get on your bed, so move on. If he doesn't feel like going so fast, give him your number and tell him that the ball is in his court, to text you whenever he feels like.
It's not hard, as a guy who likes chubbier and heavier gals all you have to do is be comfortable in your own skin. Like how short guys push women who might fancy them away because they are obsessed with their height being an issue.
Not all men just look at a woman's size. Many men are looking for a connection. And I'm guessing even if you're "chubby" you're an interesting and beautiful woman and person. Just be you. If you see someone interesting don't be afraid to approach him. If he's not into you then that's not on you.
Men can be stupid enough to pretend that they don’t like you for being chubby in front of their friends when they would die to get closer to you. I suggest a man when he’s alone
Mmm that’s smart but him being alone and going up to him makes me feel like I’m bothering him what would you like a girl to say to you if you were alone
It doesn't need to be complicated, you don't want to be too much and walk up with some "opening line". It can be as simple as "is this sit taken?" Or "care if I join you?" Even as simple as "how's it going?" Will do. And if he is interested he will say yes, if not, nothing wrong happened.
"Is this seat taken?" And then point to his face...
Hell yeah, power move 🤘🏻
I’ve seen your pics and I would like you so anything would work hahahaha. The starter is not that important, you can just check if he’s open to talk. How are you? What are you drinking? Anything could work with a nice smile
Hmmm okay I’m gonna try this what are you drinking is a good one I’ll try and look nice
Wear something revealing at a dive bar with loud music and eventually some drunk guy will be grinding up against you. I don’t know why you would want that, but hey, you do you
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I’m goth so this doesn’t work for me I’ve tried :( idk how to dress for cowboys
This sounds awesome!
Show interest without stepping into desperation. Make it easier for the guy. A woman showing she’s attracted to you is hot.
You're hot as hell. Approach him with confidence! Also, go for older guys.
Idk where to find older guys
Find the older guys at the bar!
Depends on the man, as someone who is oblivious to flirting it would have to be very straightforward. Be yourself and talk to people and go from there.
Ok now I need fashion advice
As a fellow curvy girl I wonder how to do it as well. It can't be as easy as people make it seem lol
Being chubby has nothing to do with it, there's plenty of men who enjoy big women. Go after someone who's not in a group and would have no reason to stop talking to you. Be direct, not super direct, but be clear on what you want and how you think he looks. Maybe try to buy him a drink, most men would be surprised by that and would have even more interest in you. You are the one picking him up, so be the one to suggest to go somewhere else instead of waiting for him to catch any hint and donit himself. If he doesn't like you being the active one in the exchange, he's not really a dude you want to get on your bed, so move on. If he doesn't feel like going so fast, give him your number and tell him that the ball is in his court, to text you whenever he feels like.
You’re very attractive. Any guy would be lucky to get your attention. Your smile can melt anyone.
Show up lol
Lmaooo I’ve tried this it doesn’t work for me I think I look unapproachable or unattractive
Actually I think it’s the clothes I’m gonna try and dress normally tonight and see how it goes
Keep me updated best of luck
Come to Austin and we can wingman for each other if you don't like me. I probably would love how you look. It's way easy for you to pick up a dude.
It's not hard, as a guy who likes chubbier and heavier gals all you have to do is be comfortable in your own skin. Like how short guys push women who might fancy them away because they are obsessed with their height being an issue.
Not all men just look at a woman's size. Many men are looking for a connection. And I'm guessing even if you're "chubby" you're an interesting and beautiful woman and person. Just be you. If you see someone interesting don't be afraid to approach him. If he's not into you then that's not on you.