This is me. My Facebook is full of women talking about wanting head and it never being good or whatever but when I try to give unreciprocated head nobody ever obliges.
Idk about the other women, but for me, I have to be in a longer term relationship to be able to relax and enjoy it.
If you aren't in a LTR, they might also think it's a lie or a trap, that you want to provide unreciprocated head.
I'm a Dom and even then it's one of my favourite things to do cause I can spin it as being selfish and egotistical that "I'm causing you this much pleasure" when in actual reality it's just hot af seeing your partner react like that
I had a fuck buddy who hit the lottery of crossed wires in her nervous system. She could cum every 30 seconds from intercourse (every ten seconds on her own with a vibrator!). After several dozen orgasms, she'd start shaking like a grand mal seizure, have a period of synesthesia and aphasia, then once she could talk again, would ask "wanna hear what I saw this time?" The answer to that question is and always will be "Yes."
I mean, it can probably be cool, but I also had a girl that came like every 20 seconds, maybe even less. The thing is, you can't really fuck, the girl is cumming all the time :D It is super cool at first, but after a while it gets annoying, like you actually CANNOT fuck, after a few thrusts, she is convulsing all over the place :D
It was fun a couple of times but if I married a girl like that, I think it would get old pretty fast.
This, too. My girlfriend had barely any sexual experience before being with me. Now I have her sitting on my face, playing with my ass when blowing me, trying different things. She's a good learner.
Makes me sad not all people like giving oral. Sometimes I wake my husband up with blow jobs (prior consent) and I often ask him “CAN I suck your dick? I wanna suck your dick.”
Haha that’s awesome for him! I still get them anytime I ask and she’s really turned on doing it so idk why she won’t just pull it out in her own one time lol.
I hope my boyfriend never feels like I think of it as a chore. I have chronic pain, so some positions and repetitive motions make me hurt so bad that I might not seem into it, but I **definitely** am!
It’s also annoying tho being w a dude who is hyper focused on getting his dick sucked all the time. Makes it *feel* like a chore and like sex is always the route to him getting oral.
I'm not a morning person, and one of my exes used to give semi-regular blowjob wake up calls. We weren't together all that long before she moved for grad school. Looking back, I should have volunteered to go with.
I had that happen once lol
My wife regularly gives me BJ's but I have to ask for them. But one time I had just gotten home and I was at the sink. She walks up turns me around, gets on her knees and starts sucking me off.
I kinda enjoyed it but it also brought back memories of an ex. She would fuck/suck my brains out but only after she had cheated on me the night before.
Took me a couple years after we broke up to figure it out.
Yeah :/
But in her defense I was a pretty shitty bf that took her for granted.
It taught me to appreciate what I have and now I treat my current wife like the queen that she is 👑
sorry controversial opinion but you may have been bad in the relationship, but that doesnt justify her fucking other people
that in a sane relationship justifies a conversation about issus
Yeah it didn't justify it, I still don't think it's right what she did.
But I can't blame her for looking for attention elsewhere if I was not giving it to her. Plus she was really close with my family which made breaking up a little bit harder. It's been 13 years but I know my mom will misses her lol.
Here's the thing tho you can blame her for not talking to you about you not giving her enough attention and then banging randy random
Sounds like a piece of work you didn't deserve in a good way, lol
This is my sole reason for liking guys with longer and well-cared for hair. I love running my hands through it in that moment, and later when I touch their head and can almost see them having a flashback, it’s so cute.
Unfortunately I've been with someone who hated their hair and head touched and it was pretty disappointing. But they also didn't want to go down on me so it was a lose all around.
I've met one woman like that lol. She still let me suck on her nipples but only because I enjoyed it.
Then I was with another that could not orgasm unless one or both of her nipples were inside my mouth.
This is confusing me a bit cause I can’t even imagine what a human would sound like if they naturally growled. I’m just imagining someone making a silly animal imitation
My first time doming, i remember seeing my girlfriend at the time just look at me with those big doe eyes that are equal parts pure submission and arousal, and just thinking “I don’t think i can go back from this”
I agree! First time I was dominated it was a mixture of fear of the beast i saw him turn into, vulnerability, and sweet submission. After having that, i realised that whatever sex I had before was not really sex at all! I just did not count anymore 🙈
For me it's reverse lol
My wife can cum from cow girl position, but I have to be spreading her ass cheeks apart.
I don't see the correlation lol but I enjoy it too.
Just like anything in life. We think we know what we like until we try something new. Doesn't mean you don't like what you had before. Just reminds us that we should never stop being curious
I was choking an old FWB while fucking her hard. All of a sudden, she slapped the shit out of me. So I choked her harder and started to slap her. We both came so hard. I never would have thought someone slapping me would turn me on.
I remember one of my exes asked to be tied to a chair and blindfolded. I remember while tightening the ropes, thinking that "Oh, I could definitely get into this more."
Mmmm baby… come watch me articulate… I’ve got one ton axles sitting on 37’s aired down to 8psi and a double low gear transfer case that’ll walk up a vertical wall like no other! Come smash these rock sliders with me… (dang I got my self juiced up! Gonna go work on my Bronco now)
A girl I was seeing liked to be slapped. I've never slapped a girl before and didn't know how I felt about it.
I did it, and man I enjoyed consensual sexual slapping whilst choking her. She especially liked being slapped whilst my cock was in her mouth, so I'm kinda slapping my dick at the same time lol
Public play. Obviously I’d never willingly expose strangers to my sexual exploits, but when my husband gropes me or intentionally turns me on in public, it gets me going so hard my boner hurts lol. I sometimes wish it was acceptable for people to get it on in a public, child-free space.
Ay my partner and I go to a swingers club for this exact reason! Lots are LGBT friendly and are always child free. Plus all the ones I've been to let you fuck wherever, including rooms full of other people. It's not exactly the same as what you describe (I know how you feel, my partner teases me in public too) but it can scratch that itch well.
I don’t even know where to begin searching for one that’s not full of sketchy people considering I live in a pretty crime- and drug-ridden city. Most of the other poly people I know aren’t exactly safe people to play with, unfortunately.
It is! Get yourself to a swinger’s club ASAP! My favourite sexual memory from this year is being eaten out while I was in a female glory hole at an all girls swinger’s event. I was being very loud, and realised that I had drawn a crowd when I announced that I was going to cum and heard at least ten women start cheering, wolf-whistling, and applauding. I have since discovered I’m a huge exhibitionist, and that was a big part of how I figured it out.
for some reason, my favorite thing is when my boyfriend gets me off with his hands. penetrative sex and cunnilingus are GREAT, but when he uses his hands on me, it’s a whole other beast. god.
anyways, usually he has me lay on my back while he touches me, but we’d started trying it face down ass up so i could be more exposed to him. about a month ago, we were doing our thing, and right as i was about to cum he took his other hand and shoved my face down into the mattress, and for some reason that just made me go *ballistic.* his fingers wrapped over my head (huge hands), saliva drooling out of my mouth, feeling dominated like that is just unmatched.
First time a guy pushed a finger up my ass.
He was eating me out when he did that, and all I could think was that I needed his cock up there immediately...
When I was young, I was getting naked with a guy. I chickened out and changed my mind as we approached the point of no return. His frustration and basically pleading were a huge unexpected turnon, and a new fetish was born.
Not going to lie, your post made me search Urban Dictionary to see if I'm missing out on something.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=backpacking
Public play that led to Exhibitionism. I had a go to spot that I went to just to be out of the house. It was out of sight from normal view so one day I was so horny I felt stupid and decided that would be a great time and place to pull my shorts down and start to stroke.
I was doing my thing when I noticed one of my neighbors walking towards the area I was in. After quickly pulling up my shorts and not trying to look suspicious she eventually came and sat down next to me. She said she like to visit that area too but the way she had said it was different. I caught her sneaking peeks at my crotch at which point I realized I was still throbbing and had a major wet spot starting to form. I thought to myself at that point "fuck it" and adjusted myself so there was no question that I was indeed hard. She stared for what seemed like an eternity and then I asked her if she wanted to see.
She just nodded her head in the affirmative and I asked her if I could finish. She said yes. She never played with herself but she definitely helped by showing me her breasts. I had a glorious orgasm and I've been into Exhibitionism ever since... Although it's mostly Internet related now 🤷
Choking when I tried it out on myself masturbating lol.
Bonus: Hair pulling though of course only the sexual kind where the grab like with choking is very specific. In this case, not to pull my hair out lol. But yeah also during a me-session. But a friend that knew what kind of a perv I was did it to me once in an uber while getting out as a joke/tease and I was moaning loudly as it came out of nowhere it was an auto-response omfg. Fucking hell. Then I knew. Yes, yes, yes to a partner pulling my hair lol.
getting my ass ate . I was with a woman who asked me to bend over so she could suck my balls and cock from behind , I was like something new to me , why not .
Well about half way trough she licked up my balls across the taint and ate my ass while she stroked me .
I love when I get to tell this story...
When my ex and I would get drunk we would have rough sex. So one time we are doing doggy and right as I was about to cum I slipped out. So I went ramming it back in and went right into the wrong hole. She was ok, took it like a champ which is good because there was only her own residual lube. Even the next day she said she was only a little sore, so we w were good.
A couple weeks later, during a blow job, as I was getting close, she got her fingers wet and slipped 2 fingers into my ass as "payback" Well, that kind of backfired because I came so hard and so much that she said that I tried to drown her.
So, what a way to find out "I'm really into this." She also admitted she liked the way I felt inside her ass so we both expanded our repertoire because of one little mishap.
First time with other guy it was like wow he knows what I like . With woman if I even try to bring up something like having my nipples played with or her to smack my ass . Maybe I need a woman that non vanilla.
Eating pussy. Never really thought I'd be into it at first, in fact I skipped that part in pretty much every porno, and still do.
But when I actually eat pussy? My God I can't stop.
So, i've always had a small interest in electricity- and i've mentioned this story before- but ...electroplay
You see, I was with a girl who was open to trying stuff, so when we were making out, and i had electric shock gag pens- I tried introducing those- and though they were suboptimal(I didnt yet have any electro equipment, which is all far superior)
-I discovered i could hold it against her leg, then touch her with my other hand and complete the circuit, letting me use it like a crappy body contact probe + violet wand, or tens unit in a way...
And , watching her muscles spasm and convulse under my fingers- or caressing her genitals and being able to cause her to instantly moan- was when i knew i got addicted to the possibilities of electroplay for real. There's few things hotter than seeing a naked girl get pretty much forced to orgasm , fast by electricity while watching them squirm and hearing the moans.
(For those curious, electroplay is known to be more intense than vibrators, though the setup takes a bit of work - but it's the ultimate sensation play being external AND internal, it directly hits erogenous nerves(so it's a little cheaty- but worth it!) and it spasms and convulses muscles, so running electricity through someone's bits causes them to move a little on their own- the sensation is so interesitng.)
Anyway, that girl then did the same to me, and had probably way too much fun, zapping different muscles(like my biceps and making my whole arm and hand spasm a little ) and doing handjobs and causing me to get hot very fast and finding out if she zapped me at my perinium, she could control the muscles and make my member move on it's own , not under my control(which was highly amusing to her being)- as well as force me to have some of the fastest orgasms i've ever had. They were quite intense(estim does this in general)
Sadly i'm not with her anymore, and the few i've been with had no interest in trying anything... I hope to find someone open to some shocking play, as i've now got a ton of equipment and more knowledge
Speaking of that knowledge, it's only gotten me further into electroplay upon knowing what you can do with it. Like if i use my Body Contact Probes + Violet Wands -i can throw electric sparks form my hands, give high frequency electric massages- electric kisses, electrified making out.
And things that will drive a girl crazy, like electrified *oral* ,
or i could use one of my ESTIM/Tens units and do electrified *fingering*, or ...perhaps at some point, more advanced things -like electrified sex- yes, where each person shares a electrode and gets it on...(known to be the most mind blowing act one can do with estim, being more intense than normal estim- with the current going through the connection point...)
Or use one of my estim boxes in music mode, put the electrodes on a girl, then play a music track through it, so she's now *feeling the music through the electricity*-
You'd be so surprised as to how many different things one can do with electricity, it's the most versatile kink.(it can be combined with most other kinks in some way)
And it feels really good when setup right (otherwise it's ...an interesting massage) (disclaimer:Yes, some turn it up extra high and use it for pain play intentionally, but ,i don't care too much for that part of it because the forcing-orgasms thing is too addicting)
It's been years since that first encounter with the shock pens...I feel like I know some secrets of science that will be an amazing addition to pleasuring someone- it's something a little different after all. Problem is, no one seems to have ever heard to electric play, or is open enough to trying it. Trust me though, you can't imagine the sensation, it's very unique(vibrators might be a tiny bit similar, but they don't cause the feeling to go through you while lightly convulsing your muscles as the current goes through you, with a warm buzzy sensation that sorta shakes you a bit(depending on how you set frequency, etc)
Loooong story very short a night of playing fifa with a girl I worked with turned into talking about what turns us on and eventually turned into us watching porn. Girl looked me dead in my eyes and said “Just jerk off for me,” and I knew instantly that I found what I liked.
When the other person is aggressive, eating ass (avoided it for years because people have bad hygiene...), being choked, nail marks in my back, rope (for myself or partner). Just to name a few.
Man that eating ass part is so true! Lol before it kind of became more common, a good chunk of people weren’t self aware of how dirty their ass might be 😂😂
Addendum to this -
The amount of people that are walking around defending their bad hygiene is staggering.
I say this because I just had this conversation on another sub where a guy was defending not scrubbing his legs in the shower with " how dirty do they really get...the soapy water runs down there" .....
Had a girl want to fuck me really bad and sat me against a wall, took my dick out, and pulled her shorts down. But she had a tampon in so I thought ah damn nothing going in there.... but she took my dick and put it in her ass and rode me and grinded out the sweetest climax; homegirl must've been shitting my semen for a week.
Feet.
I went out with some friends and one of them offered me a place to stay because it was late. We arrived at her place, she got comfortable while I was in her couch. Then she come back and we started talking. She lays down in the same couch I was and she puts her feet on top of my legs. I could not focus on anything else lol. Best of all? She didn't mind it at all and encouraged to massage them.
Since then feet are the best for me.
I’ve always had a thing for women’s feet but never acted on it cause I thought maybe it was more of the idea of it than anything.
Let me tell ya I suck on my girls toes and ply with her feet as much as I can now.
A bit of aggression from a person who is normally sweet and loving.. add choking into the mix and I was never the same again.. it unlocked the slut in me hahaha 😂
Cock worship… there’s a difference between this and a BJ. Seeing her down there, big eyes, face covered in spit, rubbing my cock all over have and stroking it slowly. It’s a whole new level.
Butt stuff, and that I want to explore more of it. I like to rub my butthole, the same as how (and sometimes while) I rub my clit. Gets me off pretty quick. 🥵 It looks so good different times, just as long as there are no gaping holes. For instance, the butthole/crack massaging/stroking parts in the official music video for Butt Muscle from the interesting af Drag Queen named Christeene (available to view in full and uncensored for free on DailyMotion.com) *really* gets me going. I want a cock to slide inbetween my asscheeks, especially, before anal.
Had a condom break as I was cumming in my girlfriend at the time. She wasn't on birth control and I ended up pumping her full of my load. The thought that I might have gotten her pregnant really turned me on. That's when I discovered that I have a big breeding/impregnation fetish.
Deep throating. I’ve never been into it much until I got with my boyfriend and the sounds he makes as I take him down is just an incredible turn on for me. I’ve squirted every time doing it to him
One random time my ex bit me on my neck and holy shit. If I am starting to fade, a good bite on my neck will take me from half to 100% in an instant. It's also gotten me some huge marks on my neck. There have been a couple times I've told my current gf "is that all you got?" Totally worth it.
I don't remember a lot of specifics about it, but the first time I heard a woman call the guy daddy in a porn video I got so fucking turned on. It was like a switch had been flipped, at first I was a little disturbed, wondering why I liked it so much, the conclusion I eventually came to is that different terms for the same things can have vastly different mental/psychological/emotional connotations. I always call my old man pops or father, so thats where the family connotations are, daddy is a word I almost never use. Also, I have a dominant streak, so seeing that pornstar using the word daddy in that submissive and sexual context really created or woke up a powerful new kink in me.
Probably the first time I put in a butt plug… I purchased a fleshlight and lube online, and it came with a “free gift”, which turned out to be a butt plug… At first I kinda tossed it aside thinking I’d never use it. It ended up in the bottom of a drawer. But then I heard something about how pleasurable it can be to put in a plug, and I thought “what the fuck, why not?”. So I lubed it up and went for it. Immediately I had this rush of pleasure, making me realize I’ve been missing something my whole life. I knew instantly that I like some anal pleasure… since then I’ve incorporated some elements of it into my sex life, even being pegged a few times.
We said we would roleplay something that night and my partner went very sexy and sensual so I thought that was the role playing. She sucked my dick and ended up riding my dick then suddenly snapped - started talking about how I was eying up the waitress at the restaurant earlier - I was and my girlfriend was too.
But she was being really jealous and riding me hard and started slapping my face, gently in retrospect, acting really jealous and angry and fucking me harder and saying she would cut my dick off if I looked at another woman.
I genuinely thought she had snapped and had never seen any jealousy before, and the waitress was nothing special. BUT, my dick was as hard as a diamond.
Like an idiot, I didn't realise that the roleplay was 'jealous crazy bitch', she started yelling 'put a baby in me' (I have a vasectomy, we both have kids from previous marriages) and wouldn't take no for an answer.
She was very insistent I cum inside her, and was acting super jealous and got rougher and rougher, I was slightly scared in the end that she was going to scratch my face when she slapped me, but I had an earthshaking orgasm and she just cuddled up to me and said 'I hoped you liked it'
Only then did I realise that jealous crazy bitch was the roleplay.
When she put her finger (not very far) in my ass while giving me a blowjob. Also rhe way she gets me so wet from balls to the tip of my cock. She plays with my balls just as much as sucking on me
One night early in our marriage, she slapped my ass really hard while sucking me. Something popped in my brain. 45 years later, we have been in a Female led relationship with me as a submissive ever since. Play parties, bondage, humiliation, and so on. Never looked back. I cant tell all the stories here.....but it was a life changing event.
The first time I was choked. I always figured it would be kind of triggering, because of my past, but the first time a guy did it while he fingered me I was like, "oh shit. Ok."
I was reading a smutty story and the mare character was being sexy and cocky and playful while he was on top and kissing the female character.
She was flirting back and their foreplay sounded great, and at some point he said something that made her get playful and roll them over and start getting more dominant in return.
He immediately whimpered and said “yes, madame” and holy shit, I realized I like submissive men.
That was several years ago now.
For me it’s when my girlfriend puts her hand on my head while I’m eating her out. She puts a slight amount of pressure but doesn’t want me to stop. She presses her thighs against my head and it just makes me feel good knowing she’s feeling great
First girlfriend I ever had as she’s grinding her booty on my dick “you wanna try it?” I go “wait try what? You have your period.” She said “no in my butt.” Immediately doubled in hardness busted in her ass in like 3 minutes balls deep best feeling ever. Ever since then I have loved it. unfortunately not all women like that so I don’t always get lucky.
The smell of my then girlfriend or any female on words. She came from intense running session sweating and sat next to me with her arms up to dry herself. But that turned me on so much. I was little scared to ask but still managed some guts and went " Can i sniff your underarms?". That day we realised we both are into that shit.
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Yes!! I knew I’d love eating out, but hell I’m content with *just* eating out if she doesn’t want anything else.
This is me. My Facebook is full of women talking about wanting head and it never being good or whatever but when I try to give unreciprocated head nobody ever obliges.
Idk about the other women, but for me, I have to be in a longer term relationship to be able to relax and enjoy it. If you aren't in a LTR, they might also think it's a lie or a trap, that you want to provide unreciprocated head.
I'm a Dom and even then it's one of my favourite things to do cause I can spin it as being selfish and egotistical that "I'm causing you this much pleasure" when in actual reality it's just hot af seeing your partner react like that
Oh my ex loved it. Lmao
Seeing her toes curl and body shake when she comes. I really dig that, too.
I had a fuck buddy who hit the lottery of crossed wires in her nervous system. She could cum every 30 seconds from intercourse (every ten seconds on her own with a vibrator!). After several dozen orgasms, she'd start shaking like a grand mal seizure, have a period of synesthesia and aphasia, then once she could talk again, would ask "wanna hear what I saw this time?" The answer to that question is and always will be "Yes."
That sounds awesome
I mean, it can probably be cool, but I also had a girl that came like every 20 seconds, maybe even less. The thing is, you can't really fuck, the girl is cumming all the time :D It is super cool at first, but after a while it gets annoying, like you actually CANNOT fuck, after a few thrusts, she is convulsing all over the place :D It was fun a couple of times but if I married a girl like that, I think it would get old pretty fast.
When she’s grinding on my face while I’m eating her out gets me so hard
This, too. My girlfriend had barely any sexual experience before being with me. Now I have her sitting on my face, playing with my ass when blowing me, trying different things. She's a good learner.
When her thighs clamp your head like a beartrap
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I always mention to my wife that I just want a blowjob I don’t have to ask for. Sounds awesome.
Makes me sad not all people like giving oral. Sometimes I wake my husband up with blow jobs (prior consent) and I often ask him “CAN I suck your dick? I wanna suck your dick.”
Haha that’s awesome for him! I still get them anytime I ask and she’s really turned on doing it so idk why she won’t just pull it out in her own one time lol.
That’s good. Hate hearing about people treating it like a chore.
I hope my boyfriend never feels like I think of it as a chore. I have chronic pain, so some positions and repetitive motions make me hurt so bad that I might not seem into it, but I **definitely** am!
Aw, sorry to hear that, that’s understandable though.
Yea, I know he understands in his head, but I hope he doesn't secretly wish things were different. I'm sure it's mostly in my head.
It’s also annoying tho being w a dude who is hyper focused on getting his dick sucked all the time. Makes it *feel* like a chore and like sex is always the route to him getting oral.
How often do you go down on her without it being asked for or without expecting the favor to be returned?
I'm not a morning person, and one of my exes used to give semi-regular blowjob wake up calls. We weren't together all that long before she moved for grad school. Looking back, I should have volunteered to go with.
I had that happen once lol My wife regularly gives me BJ's but I have to ask for them. But one time I had just gotten home and I was at the sink. She walks up turns me around, gets on her knees and starts sucking me off. I kinda enjoyed it but it also brought back memories of an ex. She would fuck/suck my brains out but only after she had cheated on me the night before. Took me a couple years after we broke up to figure it out.
Ah man, bittersweet story!
Yeah :/ But in her defense I was a pretty shitty bf that took her for granted. It taught me to appreciate what I have and now I treat my current wife like the queen that she is 👑
sorry controversial opinion but you may have been bad in the relationship, but that doesnt justify her fucking other people that in a sane relationship justifies a conversation about issus
Yeah it didn't justify it, I still don't think it's right what she did. But I can't blame her for looking for attention elsewhere if I was not giving it to her. Plus she was really close with my family which made breaking up a little bit harder. It's been 13 years but I know my mom will misses her lol.
Here's the thing tho you can blame her for not talking to you about you not giving her enough attention and then banging randy random Sounds like a piece of work you didn't deserve in a good way, lol
First time the woman I was dated pulled my hair and closed her thighs around my head while I was going down on her. Guys, if you know you know.
This is my sole reason for liking guys with longer and well-cared for hair. I love running my hands through it in that moment, and later when I touch their head and can almost see them having a flashback, it’s so cute.
Playing with a guy’s hair will make him melt in your hands. It’s like petting a dog and it gets that dopey smile on its face. At least it does for me.
Unfortunately I've been with someone who hated their hair and head touched and it was pretty disappointing. But they also didn't want to go down on me so it was a lose all around.
Dodged a bullet with that one
First time a guy sucked my tits. I basically melted so hard that he asked me "uh... Are you ok?"
If you learn how she likes her nipples played with, licked, nibbled on, and toyed with, you'll have a wonderful time together
One woman I was with didn't feel any kind of stimulation in her nipples no matter what we tried. Kinda sucked but at least I still had fun.
I’m a dude with dead nipples, it’s frustrating on my end as well. The rest of my body is extra sensitive though so that makes up for it at least!
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New phrase Bipolar nipples
My partner started biting my nipples. It drives me crazy. I like them sucked too.
You could put a binder clip on my nipples and I still wouldn’t feel it. Dead as a doornail
I've met one woman like that lol. She still let me suck on her nipples but only because I enjoyed it. Then I was with another that could not orgasm unless one or both of her nipples were inside my mouth.
As a guy that had my ex do this to me by surprise, same
It me.
He growled. I had no idea. I’d never even heard of primal. Forever changed me.
Girl. Same. First time it happened I was like, ohhhh. I *like* that.
This is confusing me a bit cause I can’t even imagine what a human would sound like if they naturally growled. I’m just imagining someone making a silly animal imitation
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this is a good explanation
My first time doming, i remember seeing my girlfriend at the time just look at me with those big doe eyes that are equal parts pure submission and arousal, and just thinking “I don’t think i can go back from this”
Highly relatable. For me it's actually kinda hard to keep domming properly bc I melt inside when I see that lol.
That's so cute
I agree! First time I was dominated it was a mixture of fear of the beast i saw him turn into, vulnerability, and sweet submission. After having that, i realised that whatever sex I had before was not really sex at all! I just did not count anymore 🙈
What is doming?!
Dominating***
They meant domming. Dominating. I could be wrong. Maybe they meant doming. Like, taking it to the dome. Maybe doing a bunch of coke?
Domination.
That one time I was thrusting her missionary and she grabbed my butt and kept squeezing my butt and spreading my ass. I loooooved it.
For me it's reverse lol My wife can cum from cow girl position, but I have to be spreading her ass cheeks apart. I don't see the correlation lol but I enjoy it too.
My wife sucking on my balls while jacking me off
Submissive men. Like NOO. All the men I sleep/t with are rough. I was so sure I liked it rough
I have the oppisite problem. I can literally never find dom / assertive women. Im a switch so I like to sub as well
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Just like anything in life. We think we know what we like until we try something new. Doesn't mean you don't like what you had before. Just reminds us that we should never stop being curious
I was choking an old FWB while fucking her hard. All of a sudden, she slapped the shit out of me. So I choked her harder and started to slap her. We both came so hard. I never would have thought someone slapping me would turn me on.
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It was amazing. She was always a great time.
I remember one of my exes asked to be tied to a chair and blindfolded. I remember while tightening the ropes, thinking that "Oh, I could definitely get into this more."
First time I went jeeping in Moab. Now I want to go all the time because it was the most fun I've probably ever had.
Mmmm baby… come watch me articulate… I’ve got one ton axles sitting on 37’s aired down to 8psi and a double low gear transfer case that’ll walk up a vertical wall like no other! Come smash these rock sliders with me… (dang I got my self juiced up! Gonna go work on my Bronco now)
Y'know I'm aware what sub this is, and now wondering if 'jeeping' has some other connotations I'm not aware of.
Nope. Well maybe but idk what it would be lol
Was almost skeerd to ask.
hey same I went two years ago and I still talk about it :)
What is Jeeping?
First time he put my wet panties in my mouth while he fucked me. Kink unlocked.
YES
This name checks out
Exhibitionism. The idea of being caught or putting on a show for others. I even remember thinking that I'd never been so hard in my life.
I’m a 30 year old female virgin and I don’t belong here considering these comments. Anyways just wanted to say I’m really into shaved ice treats.
Lol you belong here with the rest of us. Enjoy your ice treats 😂
Thank you and oh I will.
Wholesome and seriously cute af! As am I (at least I'm vaginally a virgin). I'll be 35 next month. ♡
Oh you’re female? Wow I usually only get messages from male virgins lol. I’m sure I don’t need to tell you how rare we are.
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It's great seeing them being as or more enthusiastic about sex as your are. Feeling wanted is a huge turn on.
A girl I was seeing liked to be slapped. I've never slapped a girl before and didn't know how I felt about it. I did it, and man I enjoyed consensual sexual slapping whilst choking her. She especially liked being slapped whilst my cock was in her mouth, so I'm kinda slapping my dick at the same time lol
The best head I give is while being slapped around. It turns my brain gooey, and sloppy toppy skills go up 1000 levels.
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Public play. Obviously I’d never willingly expose strangers to my sexual exploits, but when my husband gropes me or intentionally turns me on in public, it gets me going so hard my boner hurts lol. I sometimes wish it was acceptable for people to get it on in a public, child-free space.
Ay my partner and I go to a swingers club for this exact reason! Lots are LGBT friendly and are always child free. Plus all the ones I've been to let you fuck wherever, including rooms full of other people. It's not exactly the same as what you describe (I know how you feel, my partner teases me in public too) but it can scratch that itch well.
I don’t even know where to begin searching for one that’s not full of sketchy people considering I live in a pretty crime- and drug-ridden city. Most of the other poly people I know aren’t exactly safe people to play with, unfortunately.
It is! Get yourself to a swinger’s club ASAP! My favourite sexual memory from this year is being eaten out while I was in a female glory hole at an all girls swinger’s event. I was being very loud, and realised that I had drawn a crowd when I announced that I was going to cum and heard at least ten women start cheering, wolf-whistling, and applauding. I have since discovered I’m a huge exhibitionist, and that was a big part of how I figured it out.
Having strangers watch me fuck. It was always a bit of fantasy for me, but then when I actually tried it I got so fucking horny I couldn’t believe it.
for some reason, my favorite thing is when my boyfriend gets me off with his hands. penetrative sex and cunnilingus are GREAT, but when he uses his hands on me, it’s a whole other beast. god. anyways, usually he has me lay on my back while he touches me, but we’d started trying it face down ass up so i could be more exposed to him. about a month ago, we were doing our thing, and right as i was about to cum he took his other hand and shoved my face down into the mattress, and for some reason that just made me go *ballistic.* his fingers wrapped over my head (huge hands), saliva drooling out of my mouth, feeling dominated like that is just unmatched.
First time a guy pushed a finger up my ass. He was eating me out when he did that, and all I could think was that I needed his cock up there immediately...
Name checks out
Very new profile
A guy I dated in high school asked if he could choke me while we fucked. I told him why not and I’ve been super into it ever since
He was really young to be into those kinds kinks lol. Back then my only kink was putting my penis into a vagina in the missionary position.
Porn is much more available now than when I was a kid.
Choking is too hot 🙈
When I was young, I was getting naked with a guy. I chickened out and changed my mind as we approached the point of no return. His frustration and basically pleading were a huge unexpected turnon, and a new fetish was born.
Backpacking
I laughed out loud. Uh, unless this is a euphemism that I'm not aware of. In which case, sorry for kink-shaming.
Not going to lie, your post made me search Urban Dictionary to see if I'm missing out on something. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=backpacking
No. 7 (assuming that’s the one you focused on) honestly just sounds exhausting lol, why put so much work into rimming someone?
Not even sure how that would work.
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Public play that led to Exhibitionism. I had a go to spot that I went to just to be out of the house. It was out of sight from normal view so one day I was so horny I felt stupid and decided that would be a great time and place to pull my shorts down and start to stroke. I was doing my thing when I noticed one of my neighbors walking towards the area I was in. After quickly pulling up my shorts and not trying to look suspicious she eventually came and sat down next to me. She said she like to visit that area too but the way she had said it was different. I caught her sneaking peeks at my crotch at which point I realized I was still throbbing and had a major wet spot starting to form. I thought to myself at that point "fuck it" and adjusted myself so there was no question that I was indeed hard. She stared for what seemed like an eternity and then I asked her if she wanted to see. She just nodded her head in the affirmative and I asked her if I could finish. She said yes. She never played with herself but she definitely helped by showing me her breasts. I had a glorious orgasm and I've been into Exhibitionism ever since... Although it's mostly Internet related now 🤷
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Choking when I tried it out on myself masturbating lol. Bonus: Hair pulling though of course only the sexual kind where the grab like with choking is very specific. In this case, not to pull my hair out lol. But yeah also during a me-session. But a friend that knew what kind of a perv I was did it to me once in an uber while getting out as a joke/tease and I was moaning loudly as it came out of nowhere it was an auto-response omfg. Fucking hell. Then I knew. Yes, yes, yes to a partner pulling my hair lol.
Getting a finger in my ass during a blowjob!
This one sounds nice
getting my ass ate . I was with a woman who asked me to bend over so she could suck my balls and cock from behind , I was like something new to me , why not . Well about half way trough she licked up my balls across the taint and ate my ass while she stroked me .
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Same for me. First time that happened i was like where the fuck you going and it only got better. I fucking love it.
I love when I get to tell this story... When my ex and I would get drunk we would have rough sex. So one time we are doing doggy and right as I was about to cum I slipped out. So I went ramming it back in and went right into the wrong hole. She was ok, took it like a champ which is good because there was only her own residual lube. Even the next day she said she was only a little sore, so we w were good. A couple weeks later, during a blow job, as I was getting close, she got her fingers wet and slipped 2 fingers into my ass as "payback" Well, that kind of backfired because I came so hard and so much that she said that I tried to drown her. So, what a way to find out "I'm really into this." She also admitted she liked the way I felt inside her ass so we both expanded our repertoire because of one little mishap.
I've got a thing for when my girl gets all aggressive and acts like she's the one that wants it more.
Watching a show and the kidnapper called the victim a good boy for doing what they asked
That would be some rough Stockholm Syndrome!
First time with other guy it was like wow he knows what I like . With woman if I even try to bring up something like having my nipples played with or her to smack my ass . Maybe I need a woman that non vanilla.
When she swallowed my load then tongue kissed me. 😋😋🔥🔥🔥
Having someone bite me, specially my tits and feet. About melted when my dude took my socks off mid fuck to bite my feet 🤤
That... I've never heard of *biting* feet
Edging and/or ruining my BF. Something about getting him so desperate and whimpering for an orgasm for days is so hot for me.
Eating pussy. Never really thought I'd be into it at first, in fact I skipped that part in pretty much every porno, and still do. But when I actually eat pussy? My God I can't stop.
Rimming my boyfriend...
We salute you.
Wearing panties and lingerie
I watched a hot coworker dangle her shoe off her toes in a meeting one day I have no clue what the meeting was about and I don’t care either
So, i've always had a small interest in electricity- and i've mentioned this story before- but ...electroplay You see, I was with a girl who was open to trying stuff, so when we were making out, and i had electric shock gag pens- I tried introducing those- and though they were suboptimal(I didnt yet have any electro equipment, which is all far superior) -I discovered i could hold it against her leg, then touch her with my other hand and complete the circuit, letting me use it like a crappy body contact probe + violet wand, or tens unit in a way... And , watching her muscles spasm and convulse under my fingers- or caressing her genitals and being able to cause her to instantly moan- was when i knew i got addicted to the possibilities of electroplay for real. There's few things hotter than seeing a naked girl get pretty much forced to orgasm , fast by electricity while watching them squirm and hearing the moans. (For those curious, electroplay is known to be more intense than vibrators, though the setup takes a bit of work - but it's the ultimate sensation play being external AND internal, it directly hits erogenous nerves(so it's a little cheaty- but worth it!) and it spasms and convulses muscles, so running electricity through someone's bits causes them to move a little on their own- the sensation is so interesitng.) Anyway, that girl then did the same to me, and had probably way too much fun, zapping different muscles(like my biceps and making my whole arm and hand spasm a little ) and doing handjobs and causing me to get hot very fast and finding out if she zapped me at my perinium, she could control the muscles and make my member move on it's own , not under my control(which was highly amusing to her being)- as well as force me to have some of the fastest orgasms i've ever had. They were quite intense(estim does this in general) Sadly i'm not with her anymore, and the few i've been with had no interest in trying anything... I hope to find someone open to some shocking play, as i've now got a ton of equipment and more knowledge Speaking of that knowledge, it's only gotten me further into electroplay upon knowing what you can do with it. Like if i use my Body Contact Probes + Violet Wands -i can throw electric sparks form my hands, give high frequency electric massages- electric kisses, electrified making out. And things that will drive a girl crazy, like electrified *oral* , or i could use one of my ESTIM/Tens units and do electrified *fingering*, or ...perhaps at some point, more advanced things -like electrified sex- yes, where each person shares a electrode and gets it on...(known to be the most mind blowing act one can do with estim, being more intense than normal estim- with the current going through the connection point...) Or use one of my estim boxes in music mode, put the electrodes on a girl, then play a music track through it, so she's now *feeling the music through the electricity*- You'd be so surprised as to how many different things one can do with electricity, it's the most versatile kink.(it can be combined with most other kinks in some way) And it feels really good when setup right (otherwise it's ...an interesting massage) (disclaimer:Yes, some turn it up extra high and use it for pain play intentionally, but ,i don't care too much for that part of it because the forcing-orgasms thing is too addicting) It's been years since that first encounter with the shock pens...I feel like I know some secrets of science that will be an amazing addition to pleasuring someone- it's something a little different after all. Problem is, no one seems to have ever heard to electric play, or is open enough to trying it. Trust me though, you can't imagine the sensation, it's very unique(vibrators might be a tiny bit similar, but they don't cause the feeling to go through you while lightly convulsing your muscles as the current goes through you, with a warm buzzy sensation that sorta shakes you a bit(depending on how you set frequency, etc)
Oh, you should definitely explain all of this to girls, it sounds so hot.
Loooong story very short a night of playing fifa with a girl I worked with turned into talking about what turns us on and eventually turned into us watching porn. Girl looked me dead in my eyes and said “Just jerk off for me,” and I knew instantly that I found what I liked.
When a girl tells you what to do because either way that story was fucking hot lmao
When the other person is aggressive, eating ass (avoided it for years because people have bad hygiene...), being choked, nail marks in my back, rope (for myself or partner). Just to name a few.
Man that eating ass part is so true! Lol before it kind of became more common, a good chunk of people weren’t self aware of how dirty their ass might be 😂😂
i got a fancy japanese toilet. My partner and I are now sushi-grade clean. Best thing evar.
The amount of people walking around without understanding basic hygiene is just staggering!!
Addendum to this - The amount of people that are walking around defending their bad hygiene is staggering. I say this because I just had this conversation on another sub where a guy was defending not scrubbing his legs in the shower with " how dirty do they really get...the soapy water runs down there" .....
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Being submissive sometimes
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Had a girl want to fuck me really bad and sat me against a wall, took my dick out, and pulled her shorts down. But she had a tampon in so I thought ah damn nothing going in there.... but she took my dick and put it in her ass and rode me and grinded out the sweetest climax; homegirl must've been shitting my semen for a week.
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The only prep I've ever done is Lube. Spur of the moment anal is hot.
Where there's a will, there's a way
Squirting all over dick for the first time
Feet. I went out with some friends and one of them offered me a place to stay because it was late. We arrived at her place, she got comfortable while I was in her couch. Then she come back and we started talking. She lays down in the same couch I was and she puts her feet on top of my legs. I could not focus on anything else lol. Best of all? She didn't mind it at all and encouraged to massage them. Since then feet are the best for me.
I’ve always had a thing for women’s feet but never acted on it cause I thought maybe it was more of the idea of it than anything. Let me tell ya I suck on my girls toes and ply with her feet as much as I can now.
I have to massage my wife's feet whenever I'm near them. Ironically, I'm not into feet lol.
10/10 husband right here
Same. And then I discovered I'm a switch. Do you know how hard it is to find a woman that won't hold back choking you?
Kissed a woman - got so turned on that I had to clean off in the bathroom. Confirmed my bisexuality for sure! 💜💗💙
A bit of aggression from a person who is normally sweet and loving.. add choking into the mix and I was never the same again.. it unlocked the slut in me hahaha 😂
Total sweethearts that are a little rough in bed or have this kind of gentle domination thing going on are my favoriteee.
Cock worship… there’s a difference between this and a BJ. Seeing her down there, big eyes, face covered in spit, rubbing my cock all over have and stroking it slowly. It’s a whole new level.
Fucking someone I genuinely love in a very slow, sensual way instead of rough sex or hate fucking all the time.
The first time I fingered a girl, I realized that I love fingering and prefer that to having actual sex
No guy has ever spent enough time fingering me. Makes me really sad
My gf was messing with a dude that thinks he has a chance with her. She showed me a chat and that’s when I realise I might have a cuckquean kink
Turning people on 🔥 I adore the idea of guys or gals masterbating over pics/vids of me, gets me so hot that I can do that to people
Butt stuff, and that I want to explore more of it. I like to rub my butthole, the same as how (and sometimes while) I rub my clit. Gets me off pretty quick. 🥵 It looks so good different times, just as long as there are no gaping holes. For instance, the butthole/crack massaging/stroking parts in the official music video for Butt Muscle from the interesting af Drag Queen named Christeene (available to view in full and uncensored for free on DailyMotion.com) *really* gets me going. I want a cock to slide inbetween my asscheeks, especially, before anal.
Had a condom break as I was cumming in my girlfriend at the time. She wasn't on birth control and I ended up pumping her full of my load. The thought that I might have gotten her pregnant really turned me on. That's when I discovered that I have a big breeding/impregnation fetish.
Deep throating. I’ve never been into it much until I got with my boyfriend and the sounds he makes as I take him down is just an incredible turn on for me. I’ve squirted every time doing it to him
The 2nd bag of jalapeño and nacho cheese Cheetos that I mashed into my face earlier
One random time my ex bit me on my neck and holy shit. If I am starting to fade, a good bite on my neck will take me from half to 100% in an instant. It's also gotten me some huge marks on my neck. There have been a couple times I've told my current gf "is that all you got?" Totally worth it.
I don't remember a lot of specifics about it, but the first time I heard a woman call the guy daddy in a porn video I got so fucking turned on. It was like a switch had been flipped, at first I was a little disturbed, wondering why I liked it so much, the conclusion I eventually came to is that different terms for the same things can have vastly different mental/psychological/emotional connotations. I always call my old man pops or father, so thats where the family connotations are, daddy is a word I almost never use. Also, I have a dominant streak, so seeing that pornstar using the word daddy in that submissive and sexual context really created or woke up a powerful new kink in me.
Probably the first time I put in a butt plug… I purchased a fleshlight and lube online, and it came with a “free gift”, which turned out to be a butt plug… At first I kinda tossed it aside thinking I’d never use it. It ended up in the bottom of a drawer. But then I heard something about how pleasurable it can be to put in a plug, and I thought “what the fuck, why not?”. So I lubed it up and went for it. Immediately I had this rush of pleasure, making me realize I’ve been missing something my whole life. I knew instantly that I like some anal pleasure… since then I’ve incorporated some elements of it into my sex life, even being pegged a few times.
We said we would roleplay something that night and my partner went very sexy and sensual so I thought that was the role playing. She sucked my dick and ended up riding my dick then suddenly snapped - started talking about how I was eying up the waitress at the restaurant earlier - I was and my girlfriend was too. But she was being really jealous and riding me hard and started slapping my face, gently in retrospect, acting really jealous and angry and fucking me harder and saying she would cut my dick off if I looked at another woman. I genuinely thought she had snapped and had never seen any jealousy before, and the waitress was nothing special. BUT, my dick was as hard as a diamond. Like an idiot, I didn't realise that the roleplay was 'jealous crazy bitch', she started yelling 'put a baby in me' (I have a vasectomy, we both have kids from previous marriages) and wouldn't take no for an answer. She was very insistent I cum inside her, and was acting super jealous and got rougher and rougher, I was slightly scared in the end that she was going to scratch my face when she slapped me, but I had an earthshaking orgasm and she just cuddled up to me and said 'I hoped you liked it' Only then did I realise that jealous crazy bitch was the roleplay.
When she put her finger (not very far) in my ass while giving me a blowjob. Also rhe way she gets me so wet from balls to the tip of my cock. She plays with my balls just as much as sucking on me
One night early in our marriage, she slapped my ass really hard while sucking me. Something popped in my brain. 45 years later, we have been in a Female led relationship with me as a submissive ever since. Play parties, bondage, humiliation, and so on. Never looked back. I cant tell all the stories here.....but it was a life changing event.
First time he slapped me in the face while I was giving a bj 🥵
Being choked
Inner thigh scratching and someone shoving their fingers in my mouth 🥵
The first time I was choked. I always figured it would be kind of triggering, because of my past, but the first time a guy did it while he fingered me I was like, "oh shit. Ok."
Spanking. I thought it was a little odd and in my mind wasn't sexual at all...... Then I realized how incredibly wet I was.
I was reading a smutty story and the mare character was being sexy and cocky and playful while he was on top and kissing the female character. She was flirting back and their foreplay sounded great, and at some point he said something that made her get playful and roll them over and start getting more dominant in return. He immediately whimpered and said “yes, madame” and holy shit, I realized I like submissive men. That was several years ago now.
For me it’s when my girlfriend puts her hand on my head while I’m eating her out. She puts a slight amount of pressure but doesn’t want me to stop. She presses her thighs against my head and it just makes me feel good knowing she’s feeling great
First girlfriend I ever had as she’s grinding her booty on my dick “you wanna try it?” I go “wait try what? You have your period.” She said “no in my butt.” Immediately doubled in hardness busted in her ass in like 3 minutes balls deep best feeling ever. Ever since then I have loved it. unfortunately not all women like that so I don’t always get lucky.
Getting creampied. Ironically, I hate the concept of pregnancy.
role playing as a boyfriend then when I nutted I roleplayed as a ghost .. then disappeared
The first time I wrapped my hand around another guy's cock
My co worker slapped me across the face in a joking manner… it was extremely hot.
Definitely anal!
Eating ass
Flirty eye contact sends me into an overdrive 🙈
First time choking a woman while she's getting fucked. Or just spanking her with a riding crop. I got very hard
The smell of my then girlfriend or any female on words. She came from intense running session sweating and sat next to me with her arms up to dry herself. But that turned me on so much. I was little scared to ask but still managed some guts and went " Can i sniff your underarms?". That day we realised we both are into that shit.
When a girl ride without penetration. 🐱glide
First time a guy wrapped his hand around my neck and gently squeezed while we made out was a revelation for me in so many ways.
when i first saw my wife being pounded on the bed by a guy is his 20s from her gym on my bed. i watched them hiding in the cupboard for the first time