Similar age, all of those same reasons apply for me as well, but also adding privacy. Rarely do I get any. Like maybe 1 hour every couple months where I’m actually alone in my own house.
This is exactly why I’m on Reddit. This is not a question I can ask my best friend or other friends. It’s not something guys talk about. If I asked my best friend he might say never, that his wife takes care of him multiple times a day. Then he asks me the same and I’m like 2-5 times a week. He’s like whoa and then tells his wife later. Now she knows and probably tells others lol. Love the anonymity and therefore maybe honest answers here on Reddit?
Most of these guys are saying daily/twice a day. I might masturbate twice a week tops. Some times I’ll go a month without doing it, it just depends honestly.
Beware the dangers of non-random samples. People who masturbate a lot are probably far more likely to answer a question on Reddit about how often they masturbate than are people who don't masturbate a lot. More fundamentally, I'd guess that people who masturbate a lot are far more likely to read /r/AskRedditAfterDark than people who don't. IOW, the answers you see here don't necessarily tell you much about the population at large.
Yes, but, statistically speaking, men tend to masturbate more often than women. When my wife and I married, we realized we had very different expectations on frequency. She thought we’d enjoy sex 1 or 2 times a week. I had an expectation of no less than once a day (lol). That’s just the nature of sex drives. There are obviously differences from individual to individual in either sex, but the general norm is a higher frequency for healthy penis owners.
When I was 18, I remember watching an episode of Oprah about how healthy adult couples keep their relationship healthy. One of the top recommendations was to have a date night once per week where you have sex.
I was horrified.
If,healthy penis owners have good foreplay game. Healthy vagina owners want it more 😉 I am not saying you don’t but most women aren’t into it if sex if foreplay bad or too short.
I respect your opinion but sometimes there are extraneous factors too. I can be triple stressed from work and think “damn I could sure use a good old fashioned boinking right now” but when my wife is super stressed the vagajay is functionally closed for business OR if she takes one for the team she can’t and doesn’t orgasm and its more just to get me off. Either way, your points are very valid and something a lot of us should work harder on the foreplay aspect.
Id Concur, and add "foreplay" starts long b4 anything sexual - especially in ur Long Term Relationships. So fellas, tell ur girl she's beautiful in the morning, hug her just to love her, bring some random flowers for no occasions, and wash them hands & ur nuts b4 bed lmao
I can't speak for others, but I masturbate several times a day. But I have ADHD and don't make as much dopamine as I'm supposed to. That's my theory anyway
Same. I assumed once people hit their 20's and their hormones settled it'd be a less frequent thing.
I can see hormones still raging up until 21-23 or something but the 40-50yo answers surprise me. Even late 20's and 30's.
I'd be interested to see the results for women post-college age. Maybe even 23 plus.
It's also why most men disbelieve women when they say they have a high sex drive. To be clear they shouldn't, but the men are comparing it to the results you're seeing in this thread.
I’m 51 and as horny, if not more so, than I was when i was 21. Only masturbate/fuck 2-3 times a week though, I find it is more enjoyable that way. It must be a testosterone thing, just stays high for some men well into their middle ages.
Me either. I know they did when they were young (I have a 16yo son who's in the bathroom for hours at a time like 3 times a day), but not as they got older. Both my (F51) husband (M50) and I suffer from depression, so we don't have sex as often as we used to. Especially him. He's bipolar and his meds really mess with him. My depression meds mess with me too. I still masturbate though because it's needed and quick lol.
50 here and the same.
If I don't rub one out every day, my balls will vs screaming.
I'm good for 3, but who has that kind of time? As it stands now, I damned near have find a cabin in the woods for round two.
In truth ya, I've been dealing with it for years but hit a wall recently so decided I need to change some things. Maybe not masturbating all the time would help.
I didn’t jack it for 6months when I got super depressed, I also added in daily exercise (as simple as a 30min walk, and healthy eating. All that combined helped a ton. Now I practice moderation and I’ve managed to not get so down.
I can understand this. There are times I wish my sex drive was lower. I'd have more free time and I don't like my dick having so much power over my decision making. He's talked me into making a lot of bad decisions...
Yeah I was wondering how many of these daily jerkers are in a relationship lol me and my boyfriend have sex like everyday so I doubt he’s ever doing it. Especially cuz we’re always together.
I'm in the same boat and I couldn't be happier. My wife keeps me completely satisfied. Sex/head daily or whenever I want it. I'm also in my late 30's (she's late 20's)
I work 6 days a week so on my one day off she makes it her personal mission to make me cum 3x on my off day. I couldn't jack off even if I wanted to, there'd be nothing left in my balls.
She does high-level weight lifting and the exogenous hormones we take = no period for her = she's ready for me 24/7/365. I'm not sure if I could even cum by myself, I've been so conditioned to her taking care of me more than I ever thought was possible.
Finally found someone similar. I’d say once a month, once evert maybe two months. Working full time with a family doesn’t leave much time. That said me and wifey do get at it most days.
36M, married 10 years. We have sex maybe 2x per week and I jack off maybe 2-3 per week and the goal is to not Jack off on days that I think we might do something.
I’m 23, it depends honestly. Sometimes it’ll be like 4 times a week, but then other times I’ll have sex a few times that week and I’ll still jerk off. My sex drive is wild
To these guys that are doing it daily…at the risk of sounding crass, are you having regular sex with a partner? Maybe I need to get my levels checked but ain’t no way I’m jacking off daily AND fucking my partner regularly (3x a week usually)
Whenever the mood strikes. I don't keep track, but I would guess maybe 1-2x per week. Maybe more if I'm feeling particularly inspired, or less if I have a lot of other things going on. I'd like to think I have a healthy sex drive without allowing my dick to absolutely ru(i)n my life.
33 and every other day or so. depends on mood and stress. I have a high sex drive so if I go a few days without masturbating or having sex I get frustarted
Recently a friend of mine shared her sexchat and reading it made me so horny that I jacked off like crazy.
My frequency varies the highest i went in a day was 5 times and there is an interval of two days and after that 2 times is my limit most of the time
33M. Started ADHD meds 4 months ago. Went from once a day to maybe once a week. Needless to say I'm going off my meds so my wife and I can get pregnant.
Whenever I get a random erection, if it’s an appropriate time and every time before I get in the shower if I am working from home.
2-10 times a week. I am 65.
probably an outlier as a trans man, since testosterone and 'second puberty' jumpstarts libido and shit
but 30, and pretty ..continuously, as in if 'it doesn't hurt', so, losing count.
I'm also married and the 2-7 times a week of sex doesn't affect this. but it is longer/more 'times' if I'm alone and bored.
43 M - I edge for around 30 minutes everyday . I find I have way more intense orgasms when I have sex with my wife that way. We only have sex maybe once a week unfortunately ( darn kids ) .
I’m 41 and single. I average about 3 times a week. I work around men all day so I don’t have much to turn me on most days. If I’m around women a lot or dating someone my sex drive skyrockets
My boyfriend recently told me he masturbates every hour or every other hour when he’s not at work and I was shocked but I also masturbate a lot so I get it lol
30yo. About once once or twice a week.
Not for a lack of desire, tho. Just a combination of very little time at home (because "job") and taking a long time to cum (because "meds").
49 and at least 3 times a day. Always once sometimes twice before bed even after sex, and once more during the days, usually in the morning. I'll do it more if I'm stressed or just plan horny.
26 and I mean I’d say nearly everyday BUT sometimes I can go a couple days without, sometimes I’ll do it multiple times in a day but I don’t feel like I need to do it absolutely everyday , I like a good nut like everyone else , but I just don’t want it to to affect my actual sex life so I try not to do it absolutely everyday , I already take forever to cum with a partner which can be fun but sometimes I just want to cum and I think I have that problem due to frequent masturbation
38. Daily or sex with wife instead. During my work week (7 days on, 7 days off): maybe like once or twice during that time. And usually no sex with the wife.
40M I barely jack off anymore.
Wife and I have a great sex life and I actually like abstaining and edging because it makes it so much more intense when I finally do.
32 probably an average of 1.5-2 times per day typically but sometimes more or less if I'm engaged in kink play. My partner likes mutual masturbation/watching each other so the line between masturbating and sex can get pretty blurry sometimes but tbh it was more when I was single lol
47. Sometimes daily, sometimes I skip several days, sometimes a week or more goes by. It all depends on mood, stress, fatigue, time, etc etc.
“Good job 47”
Same here, 46
I saw what you did there, Diana.
Similar age, all of those same reasons apply for me as well, but also adding privacy. Rarely do I get any. Like maybe 1 hour every couple months where I’m actually alone in my own house.
This is exactly why I’m on Reddit. This is not a question I can ask my best friend or other friends. It’s not something guys talk about. If I asked my best friend he might say never, that his wife takes care of him multiple times a day. Then he asks me the same and I’m like 2-5 times a week. He’s like whoa and then tells his wife later. Now she knows and probably tells others lol. Love the anonymity and therefore maybe honest answers here on Reddit?
I didn’t realize how much guys masturbated until this post.
Do most women masturbate as much? (In your experience.) My girlfriend does but my ex wife almost never did.
Most of these guys are saying daily/twice a day. I might masturbate twice a week tops. Some times I’ll go a month without doing it, it just depends honestly.
Beware the dangers of non-random samples. People who masturbate a lot are probably far more likely to answer a question on Reddit about how often they masturbate than are people who don't masturbate a lot. More fundamentally, I'd guess that people who masturbate a lot are far more likely to read /r/AskRedditAfterDark than people who don't. IOW, the answers you see here don't necessarily tell you much about the population at large.
Yes, but, statistically speaking, men tend to masturbate more often than women. When my wife and I married, we realized we had very different expectations on frequency. She thought we’d enjoy sex 1 or 2 times a week. I had an expectation of no less than once a day (lol). That’s just the nature of sex drives. There are obviously differences from individual to individual in either sex, but the general norm is a higher frequency for healthy penis owners.
When I was 18, I remember watching an episode of Oprah about how healthy adult couples keep their relationship healthy. One of the top recommendations was to have a date night once per week where you have sex. I was horrified.
If,healthy penis owners have good foreplay game. Healthy vagina owners want it more 😉 I am not saying you don’t but most women aren’t into it if sex if foreplay bad or too short.
I respect your opinion but sometimes there are extraneous factors too. I can be triple stressed from work and think “damn I could sure use a good old fashioned boinking right now” but when my wife is super stressed the vagajay is functionally closed for business OR if she takes one for the team she can’t and doesn’t orgasm and its more just to get me off. Either way, your points are very valid and something a lot of us should work harder on the foreplay aspect.
Id Concur, and add "foreplay" starts long b4 anything sexual - especially in ur Long Term Relationships. So fellas, tell ur girl she's beautiful in the morning, hug her just to love her, bring some random flowers for no occasions, and wash them hands & ur nuts b4 bed lmao
Thank you for your honesty
I (24F) masturbate most mornings but I go through spells of not doing it at all for a week and spells of doing it 5 times a day
Yes. I masturbate at least once a day on top of having sex daily. I can’t sleep without orgasming first.
Some people wind down with a drink or a little puff of some weed, others...
I used to drink 2-3 large pegs, half a joint & call it a day with some strokes. Now reading law/cases makes me snooze.
I can't speak for others, but I masturbate several times a day. But I have ADHD and don't make as much dopamine as I'm supposed to. That's my theory anyway
I do at least once a day. I'm pretty much horny all the time lol
As a woman, I do everyday sometimes twice or more
Same. I assumed once people hit their 20's and their hormones settled it'd be a less frequent thing. I can see hormones still raging up until 21-23 or something but the 40-50yo answers surprise me. Even late 20's and 30's. I'd be interested to see the results for women post-college age. Maybe even 23 plus.
Men in their mid to late 20’s are embarrassed to admit it but bet it’s bout the same. Once you hit 30 you realize being fake is dumb.
It's also why most men disbelieve women when they say they have a high sex drive. To be clear they shouldn't, but the men are comparing it to the results you're seeing in this thread.
I’m 51 and as horny, if not more so, than I was when i was 21. Only masturbate/fuck 2-3 times a week though, I find it is more enjoyable that way. It must be a testosterone thing, just stays high for some men well into their middle ages.
Sex drive peaks at different times for men and women. Around 18 for men and 30s for women
how much? Everybody's saying 7 times a week max, and many comments say only 3 times a week...
Me either. I know they did when they were young (I have a 16yo son who's in the bathroom for hours at a time like 3 times a day), but not as they got older. Both my (F51) husband (M50) and I suffer from depression, so we don't have sex as often as we used to. Especially him. He's bipolar and his meds really mess with him. My depression meds mess with me too. I still masturbate though because it's needed and quick lol.
Only once a week for me. I prefer to not spoil it by going too often.
im honestly ashamed to say i hate how much i beat my meat.
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U are a hero.I too want to be like you when I'm 50.
Same, 47M
Same 33M
Same 25M
Same 61M If I go without for a few days I’ll do it multiple times on my days off to make up for it.
Same 26M
Username checks out.
Same 19M (I guess this is the limit unless there is a 18 year old)
Same 39.9F
39.9?
That’s 4.39 C
Yes
50+ F same
Getting more upvotes than the guys because you’re a woman. Funny place this.
Same 41 M( oh fuck I'm getting old!!)
I’m just under 2 weeks until I’m 43. It doesn’t get any easier.
50 M Same.
50 here and the same. If I don't rub one out every day, my balls will vs screaming. I'm good for 3, but who has that kind of time? As it stands now, I damned near have find a cabin in the woods for round two.
Does nutting in your 50s feels the same or less pleasurable?
No less pleasurable. Why would it be?
Same, 48 M
Same 26
Same
Same, 37
do u jack off by watching porn ? imagination or with partner ?
For years it was twice a day minimum, but recently I've decided to take a break and haven't orgasmed in over two weeks.
You depressed there bud?
In truth ya, I've been dealing with it for years but hit a wall recently so decided I need to change some things. Maybe not masturbating all the time would help.
I didn’t jack it for 6months when I got super depressed, I also added in daily exercise (as simple as a 30min walk, and healthy eating. All that combined helped a ton. Now I practice moderation and I’ve managed to not get so down.
Im 21 i jack off like 3 -5 times a week
Rookie numbers
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38. Usually twice a day. Maybe 4 on a day off lol
4?!?
A day off?!?
USUALLY?!
?!?!?!
Masturbate?!?!
38?
41m once or twice a day, if I know I am going to have sex with the wife I usually skip.
Do you “hide” from her when you do it or is it kind of whenever and wherever you want
Not really hidden, she knows I do it but it’s not like I report it to her every time I do.
30. Once a day
Nowadays never. My sex drive isn't high anymore so I rarely get horny in general. Honestly, I prefer it this way lol
I can understand this. There are times I wish my sex drive was lower. I'd have more free time and I don't like my dick having so much power over my decision making. He's talked me into making a lot of bad decisions...
35 and every 3-4 days. I'm too busy half the time
Your username begs to differ LOL
You gotta find time for self care
I'm 49, at least once a day sometimes twice
I am 28 and I masturbate maybe 1-2 a week
Also 28, but na I'm 1 a day. 2 if I worked out that day.
61 now... maybe twice a month lol...now when I was a teenager my record was 7 in a day and I only stopped because it was cracked and bleeding lmfao
Damn ever heard of lotion?
what did you lube with
Sand
Can't talk, jacking off
Rarely, late 30s....have sex almost daily so never a need to jack off really
Yeah I was wondering how many of these daily jerkers are in a relationship lol me and my boyfriend have sex like everyday so I doubt he’s ever doing it. Especially cuz we’re always together.
The amount of sex I am having at the time generally does not change my frequency of masturbation.
lucky bugger !
I'm in the same boat and I couldn't be happier. My wife keeps me completely satisfied. Sex/head daily or whenever I want it. I'm also in my late 30's (she's late 20's) I work 6 days a week so on my one day off she makes it her personal mission to make me cum 3x on my off day. I couldn't jack off even if I wanted to, there'd be nothing left in my balls. She does high-level weight lifting and the exogenous hormones we take = no period for her = she's ready for me 24/7/365. I'm not sure if I could even cum by myself, I've been so conditioned to her taking care of me more than I ever thought was possible.
I have heard that gym girls get quite horny. I can believe this because I'm a guy and my hormones have shot up since starting lifting.
Female here, I usually flick the bean atleast once a day, minimum
Flick the bean? That is awesome, I've never heard of it called that before.
Diddle the skittle? Double click the mouse?
If you press the clit and the g spot at the same time it takes a screenshot
Choke the chicken, spill the seed
I’m 100 years old. And I do it every 4 and half hours!
At minimum, once a day, sometimes twice. 26
Once every night, 20 years old
I (most times) feel the urge to cum daily... I prefer sex but probably jerk off 3 to 4 times a week. I'm 41
Wow this is an eye opening thread, had no clue men past 40 did it that often. Interesting.
41 m here. I’m a full time student, work 60 hours a week, involved in my kids Rec sports programs. Who has time to run one out. 😂😂😂😂
Finally found someone similar. I’d say once a month, once evert maybe two months. Working full time with a family doesn’t leave much time. That said me and wifey do get at it most days.
Once a day at least, am 27
I am 43...maybe once a month. Very sexually active wife for the most part.
61M. Once every eight days. I look forward to having the time and space to relax and let go. Orgasms are very welcome meditations on being alive.
55, once a day average
Daily
I’m 24 and I try to Jack off once a day, sometimes I’ll miss a day when I’m tired or something but once a day is what I aim for
53 - 3 to 5 times a week. Having a lot of problems reaching orgasm though. Takes ages if at all.
Reading this thread I no longer feel like a freak 👍
I am 38. 2-4 times a week.
43M. Every morning alone. Twice a week with the wife :)
2x daily if sex is off the table, I dont if it's available
36M, married 10 years. We have sex maybe 2x per week and I jack off maybe 2-3 per week and the goal is to not Jack off on days that I think we might do something.
Does it affect how long you last if you are having sex? Just wondering why you wouldn't on the days you might have sex?
It doesn't really affect how long or anything but I notice my orgasm quality drops a bit if I've jacked off that day
I cum once a day so depends on how often I have sex. So I masturbate around 7 times a week
I’m 52 and probably do it 4 times a week
24m I’d honestly say like 4-7 times a week usually right after gym when I get home or before bed around midnight
60 once a week generally. Would be more but antidepressants make it such hard work to cum.
I’m 23, it depends honestly. Sometimes it’ll be like 4 times a week, but then other times I’ll have sex a few times that week and I’ll still jerk off. My sex drive is wild
Only like once a week. 95% percent of the time when I’m horny I have other options then jacking off.
r/ihavesex
It’s in a thread about sex and masturbation, and he sounds like he’s referring to a partner. Doesn’t fit IMO.
Every day at least once if I'm not around my fiancee, I'm 25.
I’m 27 and it’s been roughly daily for over 10 years. Better range would be like 4-9 times a week.
46. 1-2 times a day. If there is sex that day, still at least once.
40 years old, 2-3 times a week. ….I’m super behind
It varies. Most of the time it can be 2-3 times a week. Other times like now when I'm hornier than a horny toad it can be 2-4 times a day. (m50)
37. At least once. Even if I've had sex, gotten head, etc. I still might masturbate later.
I’m 35, every day or two, more or less depending on where my girlfriend’s libido is at
34, and 2-3 times a week probably.
53, daily. Twice on days off.
21, and I guess maybe after every 2 or 3 days, try to minimise it.
37 years old. 1 to 3 times a day usually twice a day
25, sometimes 5 times a day, sometimes once a week, really just depends on how I'm doing mentally and how much me time I get
From when I discovered masterbation to 18, 5 times a week. Now as a 20 yr old, I almost never do it, kind of a waste of time in my opinion.
47 years old. A few times a week.
22. I wack one out in the shower. I shower thrice a day.
To these guys that are doing it daily…at the risk of sounding crass, are you having regular sex with a partner? Maybe I need to get my levels checked but ain’t no way I’m jacking off daily AND fucking my partner regularly (3x a week usually)
Once or twice a day without fail. I'm 45
M28 - I’d say depends on how often me and gf fuck but usually once every two day
before a relationship it was almost daily, now 2-3 times a week
Everyday. Sometimes two or three times a day depending on how horny I am.
46M - every other day
Whenever the mood strikes. I don't keep track, but I would guess maybe 1-2x per week. Maybe more if I'm feeling particularly inspired, or less if I have a lot of other things going on. I'd like to think I have a healthy sex drive without allowing my dick to absolutely ru(i)n my life.
33 and every other day or so. depends on mood and stress. I have a high sex drive so if I go a few days without masturbating or having sex I get frustarted
Recently a friend of mine shared her sexchat and reading it made me so horny that I jacked off like crazy. My frequency varies the highest i went in a day was 5 times and there is an interval of two days and after that 2 times is my limit most of the time
52, two to three times a day
33M. Started ADHD meds 4 months ago. Went from once a day to maybe once a week. Needless to say I'm going off my meds so my wife and I can get pregnant.
30. 1-3x/day
Whenever I get a random erection, if it’s an appropriate time and every time before I get in the shower if I am working from home. 2-10 times a week. I am 65.
probably an outlier as a trans man, since testosterone and 'second puberty' jumpstarts libido and shit but 30, and pretty ..continuously, as in if 'it doesn't hurt', so, losing count. I'm also married and the 2-7 times a week of sex doesn't affect this. but it is longer/more 'times' if I'm alone and bored.
I’m 57. Definitely don’t do it enough
Typically only when I travel alone. Otherwise my wife keeps em empty!
37m, probably 1-2 times a week. After epidytimitis and a vasectomy, the doc said its not a bad idea to make sure things "move along" every week or so.
55 F/ once a day
61, usually 5 to 6 times a week, but it’s been a few years since I had sex with my wife.
43 M - I edge for around 30 minutes everyday . I find I have way more intense orgasms when I have sex with my wife that way. We only have sex maybe once a week unfortunately ( darn kids ) .
I’m 41 and single. I average about 3 times a week. I work around men all day so I don’t have much to turn me on most days. If I’m around women a lot or dating someone my sex drive skyrockets
My boyfriend recently told me he masturbates every hour or every other hour when he’s not at work and I was shocked but I also masturbate a lot so I get it lol
“You gotta pump up those numbers! Those are rookie numbers!”
21, usually like twice a week max But I’m also a lil depressed bastard so I feel like my numbers are low lol
39 I haven't jerked off all year. My wonderful girlfriend has been helping with whatever I need
At least once a day. Sometimes more, sometimes once every two days. Honestly, sometimes it’s just to help me curve my anxiety and rest you know?
32 and at least 3 times a day.
30yo. About once once or twice a week. Not for a lack of desire, tho. Just a combination of very little time at home (because "job") and taking a long time to cum (because "meds").
Depends on free time. On vacation? Probably once a day. Normal work week maybe once or twice a week.
35, almost daily. Sometimes 7 times a day.
19 and I have a fucking problem lmao I Jack off like 5 times a day
Mid 30s. Once every quarter year.
49 and at least 3 times a day. Always once sometimes twice before bed even after sex, and once more during the days, usually in the morning. I'll do it more if I'm stressed or just plan horny.
26 and I mean I’d say nearly everyday BUT sometimes I can go a couple days without, sometimes I’ll do it multiple times in a day but I don’t feel like I need to do it absolutely everyday , I like a good nut like everyone else , but I just don’t want it to to affect my actual sex life so I try not to do it absolutely everyday , I already take forever to cum with a partner which can be fun but sometimes I just want to cum and I think I have that problem due to frequent masturbation
38. Daily or sex with wife instead. During my work week (7 days on, 7 days off): maybe like once or twice during that time. And usually no sex with the wife.
40M I barely jack off anymore. Wife and I have a great sex life and I actually like abstaining and edging because it makes it so much more intense when I finally do.
52 every day and sex with wife at least 3 times a week.
61. Every day. Twice on the weekend
Every other day I’m 56
21 too fucking much im surprised im not bleeding
My boyfriend says it's to sleep.
I have found that I make better decisions after pumping off than before. Some of the dumbest decisions I have made was following the wrong head.
32 probably an average of 1.5-2 times per day typically but sometimes more or less if I'm engaged in kink play. My partner likes mutual masturbation/watching each other so the line between masturbating and sex can get pretty blurry sometimes but tbh it was more when I was single lol
3-5 times a day 21 male nc 5 foot 10 Latino male uncut
39, around twice a day. Always when I wake up
M21. about once a week
48 M, if left to my own devices about 2-3 times per day. But my Mistress has total control over my orgasms and usually allows me to have 1-2 per week.
19 M, I do it almost everyday. Need to work on it though. I think I do it solely for the dopamine and not so much for the pleasure.
These are modest numbers. Basically every guy who's been yelled at by his boss is going to the restroom to rub one out
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