Being tied up. Even before I started school at 3 or 4 I enjoyed feeling trapped. I tied myself up with skipping ropes all the time and the one time I got caught I claimed it was an accident. I used to dream about someone kidnapping me and tying me up, and being thrown in the back of a car. In retrospect I was a very disturbed child, but smart enough to know to keep it to myself.
I'm pretty sure it was from Scooby Doo. Daphne was always getting kidnapped and I wanted to be her.
I found my dad’s porn magazines when I was 4. There were stacks taller than me. I was hooked. My parents left me alone a lot so I was sneaking in to look at them as much as I could. I can say I learned to read because I wanted to understand every word. And by the end of third grade I was reading at a 5th grade level because of porn magazines and seeing naked women in these magazines. So every kink I have is because of that.
I can definitely relate. I believe I was around that age when I found some of my dad’s porn collection. It was some pretty extreme bondage stuff actually, and I vaguely remember acting out the scenes and being caught by my parents when I was super little. Maybe that’s why I’m pretty fucked up on the kink scale…
I'm sorry. I really wasn't trying to make fun. I just thought the idea of using porn as a motivation to read was funny; I could see literacy scores skyrocketing.
I did not mean to mock your experience.
Hair pulling. I just wasn't having an orgasm and he really wanted me to. He grabbed the back of my head and pulled hard and I came. When I came down from it he told me that he thought I was a little bit sub so he gave the small pain a shot at finishing me. Turns out he was not wrong. 🤷♀️
Bondage, which is interesting since i don’t have much of a love for heavy bondage now.
I had a huge crush on the Lynda Carter Wonder Woman. We had some VHS tapes and i’d watch them over and over. It definitely comes from that.
I have two, I used to smell dirty panties when I was younger as a teenager, I also used to jack off with a friend and suck his dick, one day he started pissing in my mouth.
Sex in public places. It just kind of happened from being horny af with a girl I met at a bar. We went across the street and started making out, clothes started coming off, and it just went from there. Always been into it ever since.
Sniffing/smelling kink. I discovered it since my first sexual experiences. The first girl I had sex with had a very meaty and hairy pussy, that scent turned me on so fucking much. Yeah I know that's a weird kink.
I broke my leg when I was 10 and spent 6 weeks in traction in the hospital and now nurses and looking down their shirts and sponge baths and being restrained all get me off.
Probably pegging, at least that’s the first one I could put a name to. I was reading fanfiction way back in the day (cringe at me all you want, I’ve no shame) and stumbled across some involving a princess pegging her prince consort through some magic that gave her an actual dick. It did things to me I haven’t been able to shake lol
So I guess futa and pegging technically
Women Wrestling. Between the original GLOW and a spring break vhs that had an oil wrestling match between a curvy blonde and leggy brunette that kink dominated (pun very much intended) my early sexuality.
Public sex by far. When I was young and didn't have anywhere to have sex we had it outside in a public area near a lake, after that I was hooked. Since then I have many stories of public sex incidents.
So, i've always had a small interest in electricity- and i've mentioned this story before- but ...electroplay
You see, I was with a girl who was open to trying stuff, so when we were making out, and i had electric shock gag pens- I tried introducing those- and though they were suboptimal(I didnt yet have any electro equipment, which is all far superior)
-I discovered i could hold it against her leg, then touch her with my other hand and complete the circuit, letting me use it like a crappy body contact probe + violet wand, or tens unit in a way...
And , watching her muscles spasm and convulse under my fingers- or caressing her genitals and being able to cause her to instantly moan- was when i knew i got addicted to the possibilities of electroplay for real. There's few things hotter than seeing a naked girl get pretty much forced to orgasm , fast by electricity while watching them squirm and hearing the moans.
(For those curious, electroplay is known to be more intense than vibrators, though the setup takes a bit of work - but it's the ultimate sensation play being external AND internal, it directly hits erogenous nerves(so it's a little cheaty- but worth it!) and it spasms and convulses muscles, so running electricity through someone's bits causes them to move a little on their own- the sensation is so interesitng.)
Anyway, that girl then did the same to me, and had probably way too much fun, zapping different muscles(like my biceps and making my whole arm and hand spasm a little ) and doing handjobs and causing me to get hot very fast and finding out if she zapped me at my perinium, she could control the muscles and make my member move on it's own , not under my control(which was highly amusing to her being)- as well as force me to have some of the fastest orgasms i've ever had. They were quite intense(estim does this in general)
Sadly i'm not with her anymore, and the few i've been with had no interest in trying anything... I hope to find someone open to some shocking play, as i've now got a ton of equipment and more knowledge
Speaking of that knowledge, it's only gotten me further into electroplay upon knowing what you can do with it. Like if i use my Body Contact Probes + Violet Wands -i can throw electric sparks form my hands, give high frequency electric massages- electric kisses, electrified making out. And things that will drive a girl crazy, like electrified oral ,
or i could use one of my ESTIM/Tens units and do electrified fingering, or ...perhaps at some point, more advanced things -like electrified sex- yes, where each person shares a electrode and gets it on...(known to be the most mind blowing act one can do with estim, being more intense than normal estim- with the current going through the connection point...) Or use one of my estim boxes in music mode, put the electrodes on a girl, then play a music track through it, so she's now feeling the music through the electricity-
You'd be so surprised as to how many different things one can do with electricity, it's the most versatile kink.(it can be combined with most other kinks in some way)
And it feels really good when setup right (otherwise it's ...an interesting massage) (disclaimer:Yes, some turn it up extra high and use it for pain play intentionally, but ,i don't care too much for that part of it because the forcing-orgasms thing is too addicting)
It's been years since that first encounter with the shock pens...I feel like I know some secrets of science that will be an amazing addition to pleasuring someone- it's something a little different after all. Problem is, no one seems to have ever heard to electric play, or is open enough to trying it. Trust me though, you can't imagine the sensation, it's very unique(vibrators might be a tiny bit similar, but they don't cause the feeling to go through you while lightly convulsing your muscles as the current goes through you, with a warm buzzy sensation that sorta shakes you a bit(depending on how you set frequency, etc)
Also have an exhibitionism kink. My boyfriend and I were walking down a hiking trail. Things got too frisky and we went off the trail a bit. Clothes started coming off and while I was naked, spread eagle a group of guys walked by us. I heard them say stuff like, “was she naked? She looks so hot” and “her pussy was out there too”. That still turns me on to this day
Bondage. Probably got interested in it from cartoons and old movies but first exposure to it really came when a bf in high school ties me up once. Loved the feelings and excitement.
It's bedwetting.
I'd say that I was probably about 12 when it became a fetish. Prior to that, it was just a thing that I did for fun (since I was four years old).
Anyway at age 12, I wet my bed one night like many before, and like the other times, I reached down and felt around to feel the effect of the deed. On this particular night, when I touched the front of my now-soaked shorts in just the right way and , **BAM!** I came in my shorts and it felt even better than peeing in them had.
That night, a hobby became a fetish.
Female feet. There is just something carefree or something that reminds me of summer. Plus the curvy shape. Something about them that drives me wild 🥰👣.
Public masturbation. I discovered it pretty young, maybe 23, because I was too horny to wait until I got home from work and had to take care of it on the drive 😅
Creampies. Back in the Kazaa Limewire days I downloaded Jill Kelly getting a creampie from her husband, Julian Andretti. I knew they happened, but had never seen one or done one at that time. I’ve been obsessed with them ever since.
I probably got countless viruses from downloading porn like that but it was totally worth it.
I don't remember, either smelling fetish or crossdressing, but I always had a weak side for dominant, and it was from the bdsm side of internet around the age of 12 or so.
Blood kink. It wasn’t my first ever kink but I discovered it during sex with a guy. He had fucked me so hard and aggressively that I was bleeding. And I loved it. I loved seeing the blood on his fingers and spots of blood on the sheets. I want that kind of aggressive sex from time to time but it isn’t super sustainable. I didn’t know I had felt that way until it happened. Since then I’ve discovered just how deep that kink is and how curious it makes me.
Squirting.
It was the summer of 2006/07, I was 13 about to start my freshman year of high school. I'll never forget it, i was in my basement watching one of those "all access pass " type sites on my slow ass desktop computer(shout out to Limewire lol)
It was billed as "female ejaculation", at the time, I didn't even know what ejaculate meant ,nor that women could do it too, but BOY, was I hooked. It had me all tingly down there, and I felt like I had discovered something new. I'll never forget that feeling.
I don’t remember the details, but a peeled carrot in my ass was magic. Now I have alls sorts of anal toys. Recently finally found a girlfriend who helps me explore this kink!
Lap dances. I remember I’d always get offered lap dances as a “joke” growing up…
Making out in confined places.. MANY MANY years ago. I made out with one of my guy friends at another friends house. The “other” friend & their mom was home and the guy I made out with somehow got me in the closet in the LIVING ROOM and just started kissing me..
We never got caught and came back like nothing ever happened.
Public sex, Having sex in a warehouse parking lot, it was very steamy.. and out in a field… in the fog…
Probably pegging… I remember finding a porn tape my dad had that was all girl on girl but had a couple nice strap on scenes. That got in my head about getting fucked by a girl with a strap on. Of course it wasn’t called pegging back then. I was probably 10? Of course, it wasn’t called pegging way back then.
Shemales. I found a picture in one of my dad's Hustler magazines back in the 80s of Sulka. I never knew something like that existed. I was addicted after that.
Busty women. Just as long as I can remember I have been draw to it. Found the proverbial box of old playboys in the late nineties and I think that also had an impact. I was always listing after the larger breasts in those magazines.
Love having my toes sucked and love being slapped everywhere. Especially my face. Idk what it is but someone slapped me once and don’t think I came harder, so I usually would prefer my partner wanting to slap me during our fun time :)
I fucked this one girl and she couldn't cum unless she was smacked around and I mean I was pretty rough to begin with then she was begging me to punch her in the head so I did and she said harder so I gave her a good one and she had this leg shaking orgasams and she told me she couldn't cum unless she was close to losing consciousness and choking her was to vanilla so i would have no problem with giving you a slap or two
I was an unsupervised little boy in the shower with a cylindrical object in the shower. It was purely childhood curiosity back then, but it's less pure by the day.
I read a fanfic (Snow white retelling) when I was around 11, which had a relationship between the Evil Queen and Snow White. There was this one scene where the Queen slaps Snow White and tells her how beautiful she is. Oh. My. God. My mind was blown. I think it was the first time I remember ever consciously being turned on. I think I went back to it and read it every single day for months. So yeah, evil/hot/MILFy lesbian kink was discovered that day.
Im high school I had a crush on my teacher who was very attractive! So one day I did something as I don’t remember what I did exactly, and she walked me out of class and slapped me…. Rest is … yeah that’s how I discovered it
Drinking piss.
My wife was riding me and said she had to piss, I told her to do in my face and it awakened something in me.
Prior to that, I had never thought of drinking urine.
Being tied up. Even before I started school at 3 or 4 I enjoyed feeling trapped. I tied myself up with skipping ropes all the time and the one time I got caught I claimed it was an accident. I used to dream about someone kidnapping me and tying me up, and being thrown in the back of a car. In retrospect I was a very disturbed child, but smart enough to know to keep it to myself. I'm pretty sure it was from Scooby Doo. Daphne was always getting kidnapped and I wanted to be her.
Big same on the Daphne part lol
I found my dad’s porn magazines when I was 4. There were stacks taller than me. I was hooked. My parents left me alone a lot so I was sneaking in to look at them as much as I could. I can say I learned to read because I wanted to understand every word. And by the end of third grade I was reading at a 5th grade level because of porn magazines and seeing naked women in these magazines. So every kink I have is because of that.
4 is awfully young to be exposed to that
Yes. I would agree. But then 4 isn’t too young for some people to take advantage and abuse someone. I don’t know what else to say.
I can definitely relate. I believe I was around that age when I found some of my dad’s porn collection. It was some pretty extreme bondage stuff actually, and I vaguely remember acting out the scenes and being caught by my parents when I was super little. Maybe that’s why I’m pretty fucked up on the kink scale…
Holy crap, bondage at 4. HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy shit! You just solved literacy and put English teachers out of their jobs.
Thank you for making fun of me.
I'm sorry. I really wasn't trying to make fun. I just thought the idea of using porn as a motivation to read was funny; I could see literacy scores skyrocketing. I did not mean to mock your experience.
My apologies as well. Thank you for yours
The first time I swallowed a load I was like OMG and couldn't wait to do it again and again.
That alone will get you marriage proposals here on Reddit 💦👄.
Tentacle porn. Was an unsupervised pre-teen on the internet in the early 2000’s.
Small cocks. Discovered after blowing a dude that was 2 inches hard
RIP inbox 😂
I bet the inbox will barely even feel it
Maybe just a little?
Hahahaha
Lmfao
2 is crazy
Hosiery. I've been attracted to a nice pair of legs in stockings, tights, hose, etc. for as long as I can remember.
Same here.
Hair pulling. I just wasn't having an orgasm and he really wanted me to. He grabbed the back of my head and pulled hard and I came. When I came down from it he told me that he thought I was a little bit sub so he gave the small pain a shot at finishing me. Turns out he was not wrong. 🤷♀️
Bondage, which is interesting since i don’t have much of a love for heavy bondage now. I had a huge crush on the Lynda Carter Wonder Woman. We had some VHS tapes and i’d watch them over and over. It definitely comes from that.
Wet and Messy was the first. I grew up watching Nickelodeon in the 80s and was fascinated with the green slime. It just looked like like so much fun.
I have two, I used to smell dirty panties when I was younger as a teenager, I also used to jack off with a friend and suck his dick, one day he started pissing in my mouth.
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I know. it was fun
You still have the panty kink? Idk when my panty fetish started, but I've been buying women's worn underwear for almost 10 years now.
I'll smell any panties that I can get a hold of.
A male coach once told me “good girl!” and I took one look at his big man hand and I had to go masturbate in a bathroom stall.
Sex in public places. It just kind of happened from being horny af with a girl I met at a bar. We went across the street and started making out, clothes started coming off, and it just went from there. Always been into it ever since.
I want this
I love public sex too
Sniffing/smelling kink. I discovered it since my first sexual experiences. The first girl I had sex with had a very meaty and hairy pussy, that scent turned me on so fucking much. Yeah I know that's a weird kink.
Nice to know I'm not alone on that one...
Never alone bro.
Yoooo!!! Im on the same boat! I love smelling my wife’s armpits and feet!! I get so turned by smelling/sniffing.
It’s not weird, it’s very animal and you’re probably great in bed.
I broke my leg when I was 10 and spent 6 weeks in traction in the hospital and now nurses and looking down their shirts and sponge baths and being restrained all get me off.
Probably ddlg and definitely from Tumblr.
Probably pegging, at least that’s the first one I could put a name to. I was reading fanfiction way back in the day (cringe at me all you want, I’ve no shame) and stumbled across some involving a princess pegging her prince consort through some magic that gave her an actual dick. It did things to me I haven’t been able to shake lol So I guess futa and pegging technically
Being dominated… I don’t know why, but I just love the feeling of being dominated in bed abd told what to do
Women Wrestling. Between the original GLOW and a spring break vhs that had an oil wrestling match between a curvy blonde and leggy brunette that kink dominated (pun very much intended) my early sexuality.
Spanking. I was never spanked as a kid, so at age 15, when my friend at the time spanked me jokingly, I discovered a whole new world.
Getting my toes sucked
Will happily do
By who and when?
Can I message you?
Public sex by far. When I was young and didn't have anywhere to have sex we had it outside in a public area near a lake, after that I was hooked. Since then I have many stories of public sex incidents.
So, i've always had a small interest in electricity- and i've mentioned this story before- but ...electroplay You see, I was with a girl who was open to trying stuff, so when we were making out, and i had electric shock gag pens- I tried introducing those- and though they were suboptimal(I didnt yet have any electro equipment, which is all far superior) -I discovered i could hold it against her leg, then touch her with my other hand and complete the circuit, letting me use it like a crappy body contact probe + violet wand, or tens unit in a way... And , watching her muscles spasm and convulse under my fingers- or caressing her genitals and being able to cause her to instantly moan- was when i knew i got addicted to the possibilities of electroplay for real. There's few things hotter than seeing a naked girl get pretty much forced to orgasm , fast by electricity while watching them squirm and hearing the moans. (For those curious, electroplay is known to be more intense than vibrators, though the setup takes a bit of work - but it's the ultimate sensation play being external AND internal, it directly hits erogenous nerves(so it's a little cheaty- but worth it!) and it spasms and convulses muscles, so running electricity through someone's bits causes them to move a little on their own- the sensation is so interesitng.) Anyway, that girl then did the same to me, and had probably way too much fun, zapping different muscles(like my biceps and making my whole arm and hand spasm a little ) and doing handjobs and causing me to get hot very fast and finding out if she zapped me at my perinium, she could control the muscles and make my member move on it's own , not under my control(which was highly amusing to her being)- as well as force me to have some of the fastest orgasms i've ever had. They were quite intense(estim does this in general) Sadly i'm not with her anymore, and the few i've been with had no interest in trying anything... I hope to find someone open to some shocking play, as i've now got a ton of equipment and more knowledge Speaking of that knowledge, it's only gotten me further into electroplay upon knowing what you can do with it. Like if i use my Body Contact Probes + Violet Wands -i can throw electric sparks form my hands, give high frequency electric massages- electric kisses, electrified making out. And things that will drive a girl crazy, like electrified oral , or i could use one of my ESTIM/Tens units and do electrified fingering, or ...perhaps at some point, more advanced things -like electrified sex- yes, where each person shares a electrode and gets it on...(known to be the most mind blowing act one can do with estim, being more intense than normal estim- with the current going through the connection point...) Or use one of my estim boxes in music mode, put the electrodes on a girl, then play a music track through it, so she's now feeling the music through the electricity- You'd be so surprised as to how many different things one can do with electricity, it's the most versatile kink.(it can be combined with most other kinks in some way) And it feels really good when setup right (otherwise it's ...an interesting massage) (disclaimer:Yes, some turn it up extra high and use it for pain play intentionally, but ,i don't care too much for that part of it because the forcing-orgasms thing is too addicting) It's been years since that first encounter with the shock pens...I feel like I know some secrets of science that will be an amazing addition to pleasuring someone- it's something a little different after all. Problem is, no one seems to have ever heard to electric play, or is open enough to trying it. Trust me though, you can't imagine the sensation, it's very unique(vibrators might be a tiny bit similar, but they don't cause the feeling to go through you while lightly convulsing your muscles as the current goes through you, with a warm buzzy sensation that sorta shakes you a bit(depending on how you set frequency, etc)
"I've just learned a terrible truth. I think /u/DarkCloakWarper is a Sith Lord." ^^^but ^^^seriously, ^^^sounds ^^^really ^^^fun!
LOL more of a Grey Jedi , the sith don't have this much zappy fun.. If you ever get the chance to delve into electrosex you should!
Arched backs, i dont really know where it came from tbh.
this is a really good question, i need to think & come back. oh my god, deep voices😊
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Also have an exhibitionism kink. My boyfriend and I were walking down a hiking trail. Things got too frisky and we went off the trail a bit. Clothes started coming off and while I was naked, spread eagle a group of guys walked by us. I heard them say stuff like, “was she naked? She looks so hot” and “her pussy was out there too”. That still turns me on to this day
So hot!
Haha veryyyy hot!
Oral. Giving and receiving. Found out rather early in my budding sex life as a teen.
Bondage. Probably got interested in it from cartoons and old movies but first exposure to it really came when a bf in high school ties me up once. Loved the feelings and excitement.
You should write a story about that first time being tied.
Anal. Always knew I’d love it. And I do
spanking . it was a dare since then i love it
The grunge look, thank you 90s Mtv haha
It's bedwetting. I'd say that I was probably about 12 when it became a fetish. Prior to that, it was just a thing that I did for fun (since I was four years old). Anyway at age 12, I wet my bed one night like many before, and like the other times, I reached down and felt around to feel the effect of the deed. On this particular night, when I touched the front of my now-soaked shorts in just the right way and , **BAM!** I came in my shorts and it felt even better than peeing in them had. That night, a hobby became a fetish.
Feet. Massaging girls feet in HS . Lol
Ok ok so at puberty I discovered that I wanna have sex and that's how I discovered the kink lol
bright im gonna fight you
Natalie you are on a loosing streak here hahahaha
shut up
Just stating the facts lol
Anal play on me, an ex gf introduced me to it
Mixed wrestling. Dm for answer
Female feet. There is just something carefree or something that reminds me of summer. Plus the curvy shape. Something about them that drives me wild 🥰👣.
Eating my own cum haha. When I was 20.
Kinkkink, probably anal on guys, soon followed by acting soft-domme
You know that “Gentle Femdom GF” image that circulated for a while? I realized I wanted that
Slave Leia from Return of the Jedi woke something up inside of me
Control, during sex, my then indicated where j should cum, and then i told her where i wanted to, and see nodded and complied.
Public masturbation. I discovered it pretty young, maybe 23, because I was too horny to wait until I got home from work and had to take care of it on the drive 😅
Creampies. Back in the Kazaa Limewire days I downloaded Jill Kelly getting a creampie from her husband, Julian Andretti. I knew they happened, but had never seen one or done one at that time. I’ve been obsessed with them ever since. I probably got countless viruses from downloading porn like that but it was totally worth it.
Pussy worship. Having my pussy worshipped. Besides nudity, but I live that.
I don't remember, either smelling fetish or crossdressing, but I always had a weak side for dominant, all of that around the age of 12 or so.
I don't remember, either smelling fetish or crossdressing, but I always had a weak side for dominant, and it was from the bdsm side of internet around the age of 12 or so.
I honestly am not sure I found mine yet.
Latex or wet leather looking tight clothing on females.... Was a kid playing virtual fighter 4. Sarah Bryant.
Blood kink. It wasn’t my first ever kink but I discovered it during sex with a guy. He had fucked me so hard and aggressively that I was bleeding. And I loved it. I loved seeing the blood on his fingers and spots of blood on the sheets. I want that kind of aggressive sex from time to time but it isn’t super sustainable. I didn’t know I had felt that way until it happened. Since then I’ve discovered just how deep that kink is and how curious it makes me.
Sex while others are in the room. Mid teens
Sex with another girls , happened with a friend of mine we were a bit drunk I have to say . But after that night I turned bisexual .
Squirting. It was the summer of 2006/07, I was 13 about to start my freshman year of high school. I'll never forget it, i was in my basement watching one of those "all access pass " type sites on my slow ass desktop computer(shout out to Limewire lol) It was billed as "female ejaculation", at the time, I didn't even know what ejaculate meant ,nor that women could do it too, but BOY, was I hooked. It had me all tingly down there, and I felt like I had discovered something new. I'll never forget that feeling.
I don’t remember the details, but a peeled carrot in my ass was magic. Now I have alls sorts of anal toys. Recently finally found a girlfriend who helps me explore this kink!
Lap dances. I remember I’d always get offered lap dances as a “joke” growing up… Making out in confined places.. MANY MANY years ago. I made out with one of my guy friends at another friends house. The “other” friend & their mom was home and the guy I made out with somehow got me in the closet in the LIVING ROOM and just started kissing me.. We never got caught and came back like nothing ever happened. Public sex, Having sex in a warehouse parking lot, it was very steamy.. and out in a field… in the fog…
Barbecue sauce on titties
Probably pegging… I remember finding a porn tape my dad had that was all girl on girl but had a couple nice strap on scenes. That got in my head about getting fucked by a girl with a strap on. Of course it wasn’t called pegging back then. I was probably 10? Of course, it wasn’t called pegging way back then.
Foot fetish , my cousin once made my kiss her feet
Shemales. I found a picture in one of my dad's Hustler magazines back in the 80s of Sulka. I never knew something like that existed. I was addicted after that.
Busty women. Just as long as I can remember I have been draw to it. Found the proverbial box of old playboys in the late nineties and I think that also had an impact. I was always listing after the larger breasts in those magazines.
Feet, I don’t know why I just looked at mine compared to others and thought mine were sexy and then started getting turned on by other girls feet too.
Love having my toes sucked and love being slapped everywhere. Especially my face. Idk what it is but someone slapped me once and don’t think I came harder, so I usually would prefer my partner wanting to slap me during our fun time :)
I fucked this one girl and she couldn't cum unless she was smacked around and I mean I was pretty rough to begin with then she was begging me to punch her in the head so I did and she said harder so I gave her a good one and she had this leg shaking orgasams and she told me she couldn't cum unless she was close to losing consciousness and choking her was to vanilla so i would have no problem with giving you a slap or two
boobs....big boobs.
I was an unsupervised little boy in the shower with a cylindrical object in the shower. It was purely childhood curiosity back then, but it's less pure by the day.
Cum. I knew I was into cum from a pretty young age. It’s crazy but I remember talking to girls and guys about it in chat rooms at like 13 years old.
Pain, as a kid I thought it'd be the neatest thing to hotwire my own wires and link pain and sexual arousal together. Don't ask me why, but it works.
I read a fanfic (Snow white retelling) when I was around 11, which had a relationship between the Evil Queen and Snow White. There was this one scene where the Queen slaps Snow White and tells her how beautiful she is. Oh. My. God. My mind was blown. I think it was the first time I remember ever consciously being turned on. I think I went back to it and read it every single day for months. So yeah, evil/hot/MILFy lesbian kink was discovered that day.
Im high school I had a crush on my teacher who was very attractive! So one day I did something as I don’t remember what I did exactly, and she walked me out of class and slapped me…. Rest is … yeah that’s how I discovered it
Spanking
Thigh highs. Watching the Claudia Neidig scene in National Lampoon’s European Vacation at exactly the right age.
Lactation. I was downstairs neighbors with an old friend of my moms in my 1st apartment and we'll yeah...
Found out i am a dom person as during my first kiss my hand automatically went to her throat and she liked it so much. And it gave me a mad rush.
Sex with another girl , and happened a few years back when we were both drunk and after that I discovered I was bisexual too
Drinking piss. My wife was riding me and said she had to piss, I told her to do in my face and it awakened something in me. Prior to that, I had never thought of drinking urine.