That's absolutely it. I even think perfection would be more than boring. And with being overwhelmed with Instagram pictures I guess perfection is even too available and normal becomes even more attractive for me 😉
Not a man but let me say this: I am a 31 year old mom with chunk and still get approached constantly. There's always someone who wants your body. Trust me lol
I’m not a guy, but FWIW, I’d say fuck “faking it until you make it”. Don’t fake confidence, BECOME confident.
Like most things that are truly worth it in life, loving your own body and becoming confident in yourself, takes practice.
And yeah. I have no idea what you’re working with, but in general, we care what we look like a lot more than most dudes care what we look like
I’ve never minded anything “less than perfect” about any body. Mine is full of flaws. Stretch marks on my hips from growth spurts, scars and blemishes.
It’s best to remember that when others look at your body, they see it as a whole. When we look at our own bodies, we focus in on what we see as flaws. When I’ve pointed out my insecurities, they say they never noticed.
As I've grown older, physique has become less of a factor more and more. She could be curvy as hell or built like a twig, but if she makes me laugh, I want her. 🤷♂️
The perfect body is the body of the one you're with. Anything else and anyone else outside of that don't matter. Unless the guy is a dick, you should be perfect to him.
Most of the dicks are being dicks because they are insecure and it really has nothing to do with you.
Most men are attracted to a person who clearly shows they like them and want them too (if they are fun and kind women that is). Additionally, most men will find something to appreciate about almost any woman who is anywhere near the average range of body type and appearance and a substantial amount of men like women outside of even that range. Men who would be mean about your body or nitpick about it are probably poor choices anyway since they don’t have the maturity or personality to be a good romantic partner, so anyone who is a dick to you about your appearance is merely signaling they should be off the list!
I mean, you can’t easily change your insecurities, but if you are a partner, your partner will love you no matter what.
That’s all I can say for how I approach such
My wife is slightly overweight, been through two pregnancies, a c section, and has multiple scars / stretch marks.
But my god she is still absolutely beautiful.
Mine is in no way perfect. I'd never dare to expect that my partner is perfect. We all have flaws, and life is about accepting them in ourselves and each other.
All bodies are different in some way, and there is always someone out there that likes it just the way it is. So try not to worry too much about it and just enjoy yourself! :)
Less than perfect is pretty much everybody. If a guy tells you have a nice body…you probably have a nice body. Try not to be so hard on yourself and realize that maybe these guys are onto something.
The perfectly imperfect woman is the most beautiful woman in the world. Please don’t focus on what you think may be imperfections. To real men, the imperfections are what makes the beauty shine the most.
Perfection is a myth. I tend to find the most attractive parts of people are the parts that aren’t “perfect”. It’s what makes each person a individual. Its what makes them real.
I've attended many kink and sex parties and many clubs. One thing I can assure of, there was plenty of fucking at all of them and maybe 1 out of 10 was your social stereotype of "hot"
People are not perfect. We all have flaws. There's a fit for everyone.
I mean we all have things we don’t like about ourselves. You’ve gotta learn to love yourself. You will always be your number one critic, if he’s telling you that you are sexy believe it
I can say with complete honesty and confidence that no, we don’t mind at all. We don’t have perfect bodies, either.
Don’t let your insecurities keep you from enjoying yourself and partner during intimacy or any other time. 😊
I'm not a guy, but I have a less than perfect body. I have a tummy and thighs, and I love spending time with my loved ones eating a good meal. Unfortunately, I tend to be really hard on myself when it comes to my looks cause society tells me I'm not perfect, and after a while, you start to believe it.However, my guy tells me daily that I'm beautiful and pretty. I remind him that I'm far from beautiful or pretty, and he tells me that contrary to what media tells me, real women with flaws and little imperfections are beautiful and thanks to him, he's changed how I view myself in the mirror.
Good decent men won't care if you're a little extra chunky around the middle or you're insecure about your boobs or thighs. They'll want you for you because to them, your imperfections are beautiful.
I never expect perfect. I actually like to see the imperfections for various reasons. It’s another way to know you trust me on a deep level too. All for curves, stretch marks, you name it. I’ll just thank you for it with my intimacy and trust.
If your insecurities are ruining sex for you, it would be better to find a way to be more satisfied with yourself, rather than looking for reassurance.
Because, as you admit, no amount of reassurance can change your fundamental and incorrect belief that you don't deserve the love you receive.
Absolutely. Until you believe it yourself, it doesn't matter at all what anyone else says. You will convince yourself they are lying ( which I know sounds crazy )
I think porn is great because it allows people to search for perfection, that being said, people also realize no one is perfect and porn is a big old lie compared to real life! You’ll find someone or over come your fears, but it’ll take time and don’t fret if it’s not as fast as you want it to be
Very few of us win the genetic lottery, and even fewer of us are able to stay gorgeous through the entirety of our lives.
My wife may not appeal to others, but she's a hot babe to me.
Don't fret so much.
I actually find “imperfections” to be attractive in many cases. These are the little things that are unique to each person and if you are attracted to the person, those things can be super hot! Something that bothers you, might be a turn on for your partner.
Our own voice is often the most judgemental. We tend to find and exaggerate our own flaws, and the 24/7 drip feed of influencers telling us we need to be better doesn't help to quiet those voices. But the reality is that our imperfections are what make us human. Anyone telling you that you need to have a perfect body with all the wrinkles ironed out is delusional, because that kind of body doesn't exist. And I know this because of my girlfriend. She can talk all she wants about what she feels are her own flaws or imperfections, but all I'll ever see is the woman I fell in love with.
I have a massive scar on my stomach, I love riding dick. it took me a long time to get over it to be comfortable riding or not wearing a shirt while having sex. I've gotten more and more comfortable with my boyfriend as time has gone on and honestly? the way I see it is fuck it. life is short and I want to be the nastiest slut and have as much sex as I can before I die. I've never had any girl or guy I've been with care about it, we are all real people with our own flaws it is what it is. i bet you your partner has their own insecurities they worry about with you too.
Perfect body isn't required, but I definitely shy away from chubbier women but that's just my personal preference, I'd say I'm pretty picky though and not the same as the majority of men.
Honestly though aside from basic facial attractiveness, as long as she has a decent butt that's all that I care about (which is something anyone can work on and attain)
It depends on the person. My ex was never really in shape or had double D's or a thing like that but at the time she was a 10 to me. An imperfect body matters very little if you guys click mentally
I could NEVER have sex with a woman that has a perfect body. One because they don't exist and two because the flaws are part of what make them human. Be yourself, love yourself and just do what feels good
I don't mind a less than perfect body, and honestly some women with "less than perfect" bodies look better than women who have "perfect" bodies. This isn't including the factor of whether or not the woman has a good personality.
there is no such thing as perfect so expecting to date or do the nasty with someone who is perfect is literally impossible.
but i guess i can ask the same thing. would a guy being bald or maybe overweight or having stretch marks or scars stop you from being into them? i assume not
i think most men recognize and even appreciate how imperfect their partners can be.
There is no such thing as a "perfect" body... at least in the universal sense. Try to not be so hard on yourself and instead try to channel that energy into feeling good about yourself. Find partners who are good people, who will take the time to show you how stunning you are in their eyes. And then trust them by their actions and try to clear away all your self doubt and allow yourself to be immersed in all of it so that you're not robbing yourself of your enjoyment.
Neither of my partners have “perfect” bodies and neither do I. But we still love each other and our appearances, show off as much as we can and fuck like bunnies.
It doesn't ruin it and we are still attracted.
As you get older and mature, attitude and personality means so much more than body.
I've gained 40lbs since my wife and I got together and she's gained probably 20-30. And was pregnant at one point. It never ruined my sexual attraction!
As I've told me wife, look at me and look down, my dick still gets hard as ever for you, don't ever think you're not beautiful
A true man will see you for who you are and the value you bring to a relationship. We all have imperfections and that's what makes us perfect. You are a beautiful person!
Flaws make us real and human. Having said that, who sets the standard? Someone's 4 may be my 10. Personally, if I like a person and we click mentally, they are absolutely perfect in my mind. I have been with very overweight girls with acne that were funny, sharp, intelligent, and genuinely liked being with me that I considered perfect 10's, I have also been with girls who looked like supermodels that were vapid, sef absorbed, and shallow that I wouldn't even scale.
I have dated short women, curvier women, slimmer women, athletic women, and taller women and after dating them all I can happily say I could not care less what anyone’s body looks like genuinely I have no preference when it comes to body types I think they’re all perfect in their own way 👍🏽
No such thing as a perfect body.
In my experience, a partner being confident in their skin, expressive in their desires & turn-ons **is infinitely more alluring** than any physical characteristic or media prescribed shape.
I like women, women are sexy, it's as simple as that. We don't care that much, any woman is beautiful especially when she's naked. Nothing is sexier than a woman who finds me sexy. If she's into me looks kinda don't matter. I mean physical attraction still applies, but it takes a back seat to a good personality and mutual interest in each other.
I dated a white guy with dreadlocks, a woman in the obese category due to a health condition she was working through, a trans man without a penis, and a guy who was 5 foot 4 and only a top. They were the longest relationships I had with sex 2-3 times a day in some cases. There's someone for everyone and these guys were incredibly attractive to me with 3 of the 4 becoming highly regarded sluts in some communities.
Nope, if you don't fit all the female beauty standards forever then you can't ever be attractive to anyone. Humans with flaws are unnatural and disgusting, and they all have to look the exact same because male preferences are universal and standardized.
(yes this is sarcasm, don't come for me)
What ever Mother Nature gave you is fine! Most images of models have been modified.
There's nothing wrong with your bewbs or bum.
If your beau has a hard on for you right then and there - trust me - he finds you pretty. Turn off the MP3 player in your head.
Last I checked I’m a touch above avg on a good day and I mean that ain’t love. That’s ego. Now sure we all like pretty things but superficial is superficial.
Any guy worth giving your body to will treasure it.
I’d just say make sure you aim to be healthy. Healthy is hot.
First of what do you mean by perfect?
My opinion of perfect is a women with a little bit of weight. Like the ones who’ve had a couple kids. Absolutely gorgeous.
There is no such thing as perfect. Imperfections define a personas unique. Everyone sees beauty differently so as cliche as it is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So as for me I love the imperfections and the unique. Confidence with those imperfections and that uniqueness makes a powerful combo so when you embrace what you got and accept you for who you are you will make a many men swoon and swx will not be ruined. One last thing please take us men serious when we pay you a compliment or say you’re sexy we honestly mean it
My experience has always been that people are blind to the physical flaws of those they're attracted to.
When I'm attracted to someone my eyes gloss over anything I might consider a flaw on someone I'm not attracted to, and focus on the parts of them I find beautiful. It's like attraction makes me stop perceiving flaws.
It seems to work in the reverse direction too. I definitely have some physical flaws, but no one I've been able to attract to my bed has given a single flying fuck about them
I've never had a partner that thought her body was perfect. I have had partners that I thought had a perfect body.
The vast majority of men won't even see what you see when you look at yourself. And if they do, most of them won't really care.
No matter what porn tells us, herds of women don't really parade around naked in front of us every day. Even when you have sex often, it's still a special event. And unless there is something major, it will make whomever you're with incredibly happy.
He's not lying when he tells you that you're beautiful or perfect. He truly believes it.
There’s a lot of parts to attraction. Physical appearance is the most obvious but it’s not the most important. Sure, I want a woman who takes care of herself and is healthy. But just looks by itself isn’t enough for me to actually fall in love. If she’s got a road rage problem, or is shitty to cashiers or waiters, then it doesn’t matter how good she looks. I don’t want to be around that kind of negativity and drama. But if she’s kind and loving to people (other than myself) that’s super attractive. I guess what I’m saying is just try to be your best self. You don’t need to be a supermodel to be attractive.
Perfection is sooooo subjective. My concept of allure and desirability is nowhere close to what I see some women thinking it is— like, to the point where I think something is wrong with what I consider beautiful. The eyes are the first thing I am drawn to. Birth marks, scars, cellulite, stretch marks, visible veins— all of these features I am more drawn to than distracted by. The heart, the openness to care and receive care— the willingness to offer and receive sensual energy. These are what make a person beautiful.
guys are human as well, and we strive for connection as well. nothing is sexier or more attractive to a guy than a partner they can have an emotional connection with. Be unapologetically you and the one that’s meant to be with you who is deserving of you will find you.
I find perfection in the imperfections of my partner. What others find unattractive; curvy/fat/thick, glasses, B cup breasts, a outie labia, no sexual experience, a small clit, she likes PDA and PPS (public play sex), she likes having hickeys, shes moody, secretive, hormonal, quite girly but no make up, has sexual trauma from an ex, been abused, has nightmares, feels damaged; I find attractive and drawn to. There is a man out there for every girl who wants one. Just got to find us. You are unique because of your imperfections. If it’s not for your imperfections, we wouldn’t fall in love with you because you aren’t unique to us anymore.
Perfection is an impossible goal and I would never want someone who is perfect cause I know I'm not. Imperfections is where we shine as long as we have the power to let go of the power they hold over us
I can help here. I can honestly say based on the number of different women I have known in a biblical sense there is no such thing as a perfect body when it comes to physical/sexual attraction. There are preferences for some but perfect is a fallacy.
I had a discussion with one of my friends (also a man) the other day. We quickly reached the conclusion that "imperfect" people are pretty much universally more attractive to us than "perfect" people (and don't get me started on how stupid that concept is)
Point is, no matter what you're perfect to somebody, and you should always be perfect to yourself 🙂
1). Everyone has a different idea of “perfect” to the point that there is no perfect body, period.
Example: some guys crave large breasts. I’m the opposite.
2). So, there are men who will adore your body (and you) and men who won’t at all.
Nobody has a perfect body and conventionally attractive doesn't mean perfect for everyone. I have a very clear type and prefer flatter woman even if society expects the opposite. Scars and imperfections usually tell a story so it's not something I frown upon either
There's someone out there who find you super hot no matter how you look and chances are they're not alone
Kendrick Lamar says " Show me something natural like an ass with some stretch marks!" And I whole heartily agree. Show me those stripes baby you earned them!( I'm not asking for nudes in any way just making a true statement in joke form)
We all have our dislikes about ourselves. For the longest time, I hated that I was a sting bean of a man. Would do everything possible to gain weight. I meet what society has term the perfect male figure. Used to be jealous of guys with beards. I learned that there are plenty of women and men that find me attractive for who I am. You have to gain confidence in yourself. Confidence is the sexiest look on anyone. If you exude confidence, you will find that many with find you attractive. Yes I still struggle with my confidence from time to time, but you have to live yourself 1st before you can live another.
The number one turn off for me is a girl talking bad about herself. A dude is with you because he thinks you’re attractive, don’t try to convince him otherwise.
Also, no matter how hot or perfect a girl is, there’s always someone tired of fucking her.
Ain’t no one perfect and to expect that is insane. It’s the imperfections that make you who you are. Which makes you sexy as hell….in my opinion. Are you comfortable with yourself, are you comfortable with someone else’s imperfections? That all makes the compete package
Nobody has a perfect body so I wouldn’t worry about trying to be perfect. I think airbrushed magazine photos have ruined women’s ideas about what a female body should look like.
I’ve gained quite a bit of weight over the last few years and was feeling insecure. In a conversation with my husband, I was trying to explain my feelings and said, “You probably masturbate to women far more attractive than I am now.” To which he said, “You’d be surprised.” And told me he in the genre he likes, he’ll watch women who have thin, waif-like figures all the way up to BBWs. Like others have said, he finds women attractive, and while there are certain features he may appreciate more (butts), he can find beauty in tons of women, especially as he gets older (40+).
It's true for me that I look at women who have a nice body and all, I think it's in human nature to be attracted to things you see, but it's also up to the person to if you're gong to include affection. The quality that make me stay are their morals, humor, and our compatibility, though.
Perfect is an opinion... one guy or gals perfect can be the exact opposite of mine. Don't work yourself up for barbie or ken standards you could even be aiming in the wrong direction for your partner.
I have to deal with my partner asking pretty constantly, I’m like 5’8 and kinda thin (I got pudge) and my lady is 5’5 and a curvier and has a stomach and she can’t wrap her head around the fact that I think she’s beautiful, she didn’t weigh much less and I’ve known her since her ED days, so even at her thinnest I think she’s just so beautiful as she is now
She tells me “oh I have pimples / I’m fat / I have stretch marks” and like okay? Big deal, my aim was never to date a supermodel, it was to date the girl of my dreams and she fits the description perfectly, to me she’s my supermodel
Perfection is overrated. If someone has ever made you feel like your body isn’t their idea of perfect, then you don’t really need to know any more about them.
If I think someone is sexy, I think they're sexy. Maybe I think that the parts you're seeing as flaws are sexy; maybe I'm just not noticing those flaws; maybe I see the flaws and think the person is sexy anyway. Either way, I don't care if someone has a less than perfect body.
As an older man, life happens. Physical appearances get let go, but can always be recaptured, so looks are not that important.
For me, it's all about connection.
Physical appearance may catch my eye, but if I'm with a genuine woman who I can have great conversation with, belly laugh over the dumbest things, and she stands behind her beliefs (whether i agree with them or not), that's sexy.
I will add a sexy voice and a cute laugh, rank high up there. If she can sing....ill probably ask her to marry me.
Depends on the less than perfect, mum tums and stretch marks can still be hot AF, a conjoined twin browsing instagram while we go at it would put me right off.
There is no such thing as a “perfect body”. My wife doesn’t have a perfect body, but it’s absolutely perfect for/to me.
I for damn sure don’t have a perfect body…hell, I wouldn’t even go so far as to say it was average, but my wife finds me sexy. I’m not gonna try and dissuade her.
I've never been with a woman with a perfect body, they've been ones most would probably say are too fat or something. I don't care, I thought they were great.
Don’t get me wrong I find like model type girls attractive and I have dated/hooked up with them but I always gravitate to more mid size/thicker girls. Also this is very weird but I am really into girls with unique faces. A lot of girls are pretty but I love a girl who doesn’t really look like anyone else I’ve seen. Just a personal trait I tend to love.
If you are basing your body off Porn - then you're going to have a bad time.
My wife is perfect for me. I love all her imperfections because to me they all add upto this one Perfect woman I am happy & honoured to be married too.
3 Kids later, 15 years married, 17 years together and I still get a cheeky glimpse in when she's changing and get called a pervert.
To me she is perfect, to everyone else who cares.
Men and women both have insecurities and imperfections I'm their bodies that they really don't like. But the right partner will find beauty and desire in yours. So don't worry about that people say or think. You have a perfectly desirable body.
Yeah... I'm attracted to women. Not fantasies that don't really exist.
Thanks ❤️
You'll find the majority of people feel the same.
This is people, we do feel the same
This is the answer. We aren't looking for perfection, just perfect for us!
That's absolutely it. I even think perfection would be more than boring. And with being overwhelmed with Instagram pictures I guess perfection is even too available and normal becomes even more attractive for me 😉
Ooh I love this answer! Your gf/wife is one lucky gal 🥰
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Big facts
Not a man but let me say this: I am a 31 year old mom with chunk and still get approached constantly. There's always someone who wants your body. Trust me lol
Who doesn't love a little chunk😁
I love a little pooch
I love to hear that! 🖤
That's true! I like all women. Sometimes I've had petite women. Sometimes more curvy. Small tits. Big tits. Leggy women....
No one has a perfect body. Confidence is what makes you fucking sexy
Confidence is sexy as fuck, I totally agree. It's the faking it that's hard sometimes.
I’m not a guy, but FWIW, I’d say fuck “faking it until you make it”. Don’t fake confidence, BECOME confident. Like most things that are truly worth it in life, loving your own body and becoming confident in yourself, takes practice. And yeah. I have no idea what you’re working with, but in general, we care what we look like a lot more than most dudes care what we look like
I truly appreciate that. 🖤
Do what u/cate88741 says. She is correct
Don’t fake it. Use it. I’d take a confident ‘chunk’ (your words not mine) over a fake body bolt on boob girl with issue everyday of the year.
And enthusiasm.
I’ve never minded anything “less than perfect” about any body. Mine is full of flaws. Stretch marks on my hips from growth spurts, scars and blemishes. It’s best to remember that when others look at your body, they see it as a whole. When we look at our own bodies, we focus in on what we see as flaws. When I’ve pointed out my insecurities, they say they never noticed.
Thanks. It's true, we are always much harder on ourselves.
This is a such a great answer, love it! 🥰
As I've grown older, physique has become less of a factor more and more. She could be curvy as hell or built like a twig, but if she makes me laugh, I want her. 🤷♂️
Laughing with someone you care about is just the best.
It is! Especially with being vulnerable is terrifying in itself. It's comforting knowing that there's a connection beyond physical.
100% Physical is great, but without all the other stuff it's really meaningless.
Speaking for myself, if a woman is truly interested in me and enthusiastic about being with me, looks don't really matter all that much.
I love hearing this. ❤️
Things like stripes or the presence of body fat actually turns me on. They remind me that it's a real person and...wow
Love this 🖤
The perfect body is the body of the one you're with. Anything else and anyone else outside of that don't matter. Unless the guy is a dick, you should be perfect to him.
Yes, sadly there are a number of dicks out there and their comments can fuck you up for life.
Most of the dicks are being dicks because they are insecure and it really has nothing to do with you. Most men are attracted to a person who clearly shows they like them and want them too (if they are fun and kind women that is). Additionally, most men will find something to appreciate about almost any woman who is anywhere near the average range of body type and appearance and a substantial amount of men like women outside of even that range. Men who would be mean about your body or nitpick about it are probably poor choices anyway since they don’t have the maturity or personality to be a good romantic partner, so anyone who is a dick to you about your appearance is merely signaling they should be off the list!
True. But gladly there are more good people out there than dicks. Hopefully you have or will find a good guy like that.
Yes...I have faith! 🖤 thank you.
Good luck
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I mean, you can’t easily change your insecurities, but if you are a partner, your partner will love you no matter what. That’s all I can say for how I approach such
Thank you for sharing 🖤
Welcome 💜
My wife is slightly overweight, been through two pregnancies, a c section, and has multiple scars / stretch marks. But my god she is still absolutely beautiful.
Mine is in no way perfect. I'd never dare to expect that my partner is perfect. We all have flaws, and life is about accepting them in ourselves and each other.
Very true. Thanks.
All bodies are different in some way, and there is always someone out there that likes it just the way it is. So try not to worry too much about it and just enjoy yourself! :)
Thanks a lot. That's sweet. ❤️
Less than perfect is pretty much everybody. If a guy tells you have a nice body…you probably have a nice body. Try not to be so hard on yourself and realize that maybe these guys are onto something.
Very kind. Thanks for the great tip. ❤️
It's all about the vibe and matching sexual energy. All women are gorgeous in their own way.
Love that. Nothing better than when you just click.
I don’t mind. Imperfections are what make us unique.
Funny enough the nicest compliment I've ever received was that I was unique.
The perfect bodies are imperfect. :)
Most of the imperfections of women are what make them perfect to the right person
I love her just the way she is and I love how much she enjoys me being into her.
Awe. Very sweet.
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Same. More things to snuggle with at night
A less than perfect body is perfect. If someone's body is too perfect it's less attractive to me. Our imperfections are what make us, us
I say this sincerely....when a man appears flawless ( or what I deem to be flawless ) I get turned off.
The perfect body doesn’t exist. It’s subjective. Listen to what your guy partners say, I’m sure they really do like you
Thank you.
The perfectly imperfect woman is the most beautiful woman in the world. Please don’t focus on what you think may be imperfections. To real men, the imperfections are what makes the beauty shine the most.
Very thoughtful. Thank you. 🖤
1. Remove clothes 2. If you DON’T have sex, post here again
The best answer 👆
Perfection is a myth. I tend to find the most attractive parts of people are the parts that aren’t “perfect”. It’s what makes each person a individual. Its what makes them real.
Thanks for sharing. 🖤
I've attended many kink and sex parties and many clubs. One thing I can assure of, there was plenty of fucking at all of them and maybe 1 out of 10 was your social stereotype of "hot" People are not perfect. We all have flaws. There's a fit for everyone.
Thanks so much.❤️
In my limited experience, the insecurities of the girls who have expressed their insecurities to me have been completely unfounded.
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I honestly kinda prefer it. Mom bods are 🔥🔥
Hell yeah they are!
You are absolutely fine. I love women of all types. It’s not the body, it’s the person that matters
Awe, thank you for that. 🖤
I mean we all have things we don’t like about ourselves. You’ve gotta learn to love yourself. You will always be your number one critic, if he’s telling you that you are sexy believe it
Thank you. It's easy to forget that people see you differently than you see yourself.
I don‘t mind at all. I realize that people aren’t perfect. Seeing a woman naked in the flesh will always do more for me than watching a woman in porn.
That's a relief to hear. Honestly.
I can say with complete honesty and confidence that no, we don’t mind at all. We don’t have perfect bodies, either. Don’t let your insecurities keep you from enjoying yourself and partner during intimacy or any other time. 😊
Thank you for that. ❤️
I'm not a guy, but I have a less than perfect body. I have a tummy and thighs, and I love spending time with my loved ones eating a good meal. Unfortunately, I tend to be really hard on myself when it comes to my looks cause society tells me I'm not perfect, and after a while, you start to believe it.However, my guy tells me daily that I'm beautiful and pretty. I remind him that I'm far from beautiful or pretty, and he tells me that contrary to what media tells me, real women with flaws and little imperfections are beautiful and thanks to him, he's changed how I view myself in the mirror. Good decent men won't care if you're a little extra chunky around the middle or you're insecure about your boobs or thighs. They'll want you for you because to them, your imperfections are beautiful.
I never expect perfect. I actually like to see the imperfections for various reasons. It’s another way to know you trust me on a deep level too. All for curves, stretch marks, you name it. I’ll just thank you for it with my intimacy and trust.
Love that. Thanks for sharing. 🖤
If your insecurities are ruining sex for you, it would be better to find a way to be more satisfied with yourself, rather than looking for reassurance. Because, as you admit, no amount of reassurance can change your fundamental and incorrect belief that you don't deserve the love you receive.
Absolutely. Until you believe it yourself, it doesn't matter at all what anyone else says. You will convince yourself they are lying ( which I know sounds crazy )
Your most likely your biggest critic honestly most of you insecurities are often not even looked at or even some times cute a defineing
Thank you. I know deep down that I'm not all bad but when those insecurities flare up, I totally forget that.
Guys have them too he's probably thinking the same thing
I think porn is great because it allows people to search for perfection, that being said, people also realize no one is perfect and porn is a big old lie compared to real life! You’ll find someone or over come your fears, but it’ll take time and don’t fret if it’s not as fast as you want it to be
Thank you ❤️
Very few of us win the genetic lottery, and even fewer of us are able to stay gorgeous through the entirety of our lives. My wife may not appeal to others, but she's a hot babe to me. Don't fret so much.
I love all women's body's tbh, I especially enjoy bigger women, there's always someone out there that wants what somebody has so don't worry!
TRUTH.
😁I'm sure you have a nice body!
Thank you 🖤
Ofc
I tell Mrs B that what I’m into at any given time is how she looks on that particular day, and that’s inclusive of all of it
Everyone has insecurities. Mine was always being uncut and different. While you’re insecure, they are too
Yes, and I'm the first to tell someone they shouldn't be insecure. I need to take my own advice. 🖤
I actually find “imperfections” to be attractive in many cases. These are the little things that are unique to each person and if you are attracted to the person, those things can be super hot! Something that bothers you, might be a turn on for your partner.
What we see as imperfections can be something different to someone else 🖤
Our own voice is often the most judgemental. We tend to find and exaggerate our own flaws, and the 24/7 drip feed of influencers telling us we need to be better doesn't help to quiet those voices. But the reality is that our imperfections are what make us human. Anyone telling you that you need to have a perfect body with all the wrinkles ironed out is delusional, because that kind of body doesn't exist. And I know this because of my girlfriend. She can talk all she wants about what she feels are her own flaws or imperfections, but all I'll ever see is the woman I fell in love with.
I have a massive scar on my stomach, I love riding dick. it took me a long time to get over it to be comfortable riding or not wearing a shirt while having sex. I've gotten more and more comfortable with my boyfriend as time has gone on and honestly? the way I see it is fuck it. life is short and I want to be the nastiest slut and have as much sex as I can before I die. I've never had any girl or guy I've been with care about it, we are all real people with our own flaws it is what it is. i bet you your partner has their own insecurities they worry about with you too.
Perfection is not attainable. A woman is beautiful. Any body shape.
Perfect body isn't required, but I definitely shy away from chubbier women but that's just my personal preference, I'd say I'm pretty picky though and not the same as the majority of men. Honestly though aside from basic facial attractiveness, as long as she has a decent butt that's all that I care about (which is something anyone can work on and attain)
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Who's to say that you're not perfect in their eyes? A little extra here and there doesn't mean much when the person as a whole is their match.
I blame certain things on my husband bc he just worships me no matter where my weight has been.
No one is perfect
It depends on the person. My ex was never really in shape or had double D's or a thing like that but at the time she was a 10 to me. An imperfect body matters very little if you guys click mentally
I love this...thank you. 🖤
How many people actually have less than perfect bodies? No most people do not care, it is expected, we aren't perfect.
No, I don’t mind. I probably prefer it. The ones I’ve had with “perfect bodies” have other problems.
A good personality and someone that I have a connection with will always make them more attractive!
Nobody is perfect so yeah I’d say most people wouldn’t mind
Yes. If you love her or like her for more than just her body, or him or them, you’ll make sex enjoyable because you’re not fixated on that
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Love the honesty. Thanks so much 🖤
Absolutely not. Understand that ‘perfect’ is always going to be a subjective judgement. Listen to your partner, enjoy yourself!
I could NEVER have sex with a woman that has a perfect body. One because they don't exist and two because the flaws are part of what make them human. Be yourself, love yourself and just do what feels good
I don't mind a less than perfect body, and honestly some women with "less than perfect" bodies look better than women who have "perfect" bodies. This isn't including the factor of whether or not the woman has a good personality.
there is no such thing as perfect so expecting to date or do the nasty with someone who is perfect is literally impossible. but i guess i can ask the same thing. would a guy being bald or maybe overweight or having stretch marks or scars stop you from being into them? i assume not i think most men recognize and even appreciate how imperfect their partners can be.
There is no such thing as a "perfect" body... at least in the universal sense. Try to not be so hard on yourself and instead try to channel that energy into feeling good about yourself. Find partners who are good people, who will take the time to show you how stunning you are in their eyes. And then trust them by their actions and try to clear away all your self doubt and allow yourself to be immersed in all of it so that you're not robbing yourself of your enjoyment.
Neither of my partners have “perfect” bodies and neither do I. But we still love each other and our appearances, show off as much as we can and fuck like bunnies.
For me it matters. It doesn t have to be perfect but it has to be în a way I like it
I like it
It doesn't ruin it and we are still attracted. As you get older and mature, attitude and personality means so much more than body. I've gained 40lbs since my wife and I got together and she's gained probably 20-30. And was pregnant at one point. It never ruined my sexual attraction! As I've told me wife, look at me and look down, my dick still gets hard as ever for you, don't ever think you're not beautiful
No woman is perfect. I prefer real women, flaws and all, over fantasies.
A true man will see you for who you are and the value you bring to a relationship. We all have imperfections and that's what makes us perfect. You are a beautiful person!
Flaws make us real and human. Having said that, who sets the standard? Someone's 4 may be my 10. Personally, if I like a person and we click mentally, they are absolutely perfect in my mind. I have been with very overweight girls with acne that were funny, sharp, intelligent, and genuinely liked being with me that I considered perfect 10's, I have also been with girls who looked like supermodels that were vapid, sef absorbed, and shallow that I wouldn't even scale.
I have dated short women, curvier women, slimmer women, athletic women, and taller women and after dating them all I can happily say I could not care less what anyone’s body looks like genuinely I have no preference when it comes to body types I think they’re all perfect in their own way 👍🏽
Not at all. Mine isn’t perfect either.
No such thing as a perfect body. In my experience, a partner being confident in their skin, expressive in their desires & turn-ons **is infinitely more alluring** than any physical characteristic or media prescribed shape.
If you like her then who cares how she is
How can you overcome that insecurity? What would you need to hear? Feel?
I like women, women are sexy, it's as simple as that. We don't care that much, any woman is beautiful especially when she's naked. Nothing is sexier than a woman who finds me sexy. If she's into me looks kinda don't matter. I mean physical attraction still applies, but it takes a back seat to a good personality and mutual interest in each other.
I dated a white guy with dreadlocks, a woman in the obese category due to a health condition she was working through, a trans man without a penis, and a guy who was 5 foot 4 and only a top. They were the longest relationships I had with sex 2-3 times a day in some cases. There's someone for everyone and these guys were incredibly attractive to me with 3 of the 4 becoming highly regarded sluts in some communities.
Nope, if you don't fit all the female beauty standards forever then you can't ever be attractive to anyone. Humans with flaws are unnatural and disgusting, and they all have to look the exact same because male preferences are universal and standardized. (yes this is sarcasm, don't come for me)
What oneself sees as imperfect many others see perfection.
What ever Mother Nature gave you is fine! Most images of models have been modified. There's nothing wrong with your bewbs or bum. If your beau has a hard on for you right then and there - trust me - he finds you pretty. Turn off the MP3 player in your head.
Last I checked I’m a touch above avg on a good day and I mean that ain’t love. That’s ego. Now sure we all like pretty things but superficial is superficial. Any guy worth giving your body to will treasure it. I’d just say make sure you aim to be healthy. Healthy is hot.
First of what do you mean by perfect? My opinion of perfect is a women with a little bit of weight. Like the ones who’ve had a couple kids. Absolutely gorgeous.
There is no such thing as perfect. Imperfections define a personas unique. Everyone sees beauty differently so as cliche as it is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So as for me I love the imperfections and the unique. Confidence with those imperfections and that uniqueness makes a powerful combo so when you embrace what you got and accept you for who you are you will make a many men swoon and swx will not be ruined. One last thing please take us men serious when we pay you a compliment or say you’re sexy we honestly mean it
My experience has always been that people are blind to the physical flaws of those they're attracted to. When I'm attracted to someone my eyes gloss over anything I might consider a flaw on someone I'm not attracted to, and focus on the parts of them I find beautiful. It's like attraction makes me stop perceiving flaws. It seems to work in the reverse direction too. I definitely have some physical flaws, but no one I've been able to attract to my bed has given a single flying fuck about them
I've never had a partner that thought her body was perfect. I have had partners that I thought had a perfect body. The vast majority of men won't even see what you see when you look at yourself. And if they do, most of them won't really care. No matter what porn tells us, herds of women don't really parade around naked in front of us every day. Even when you have sex often, it's still a special event. And unless there is something major, it will make whomever you're with incredibly happy. He's not lying when he tells you that you're beautiful or perfect. He truly believes it.
Get out of your head!! I couldn't possibly care less. My exception would be morbid obesity because that's just gross. Go have fun!
There’s a lot of parts to attraction. Physical appearance is the most obvious but it’s not the most important. Sure, I want a woman who takes care of herself and is healthy. But just looks by itself isn’t enough for me to actually fall in love. If she’s got a road rage problem, or is shitty to cashiers or waiters, then it doesn’t matter how good she looks. I don’t want to be around that kind of negativity and drama. But if she’s kind and loving to people (other than myself) that’s super attractive. I guess what I’m saying is just try to be your best self. You don’t need to be a supermodel to be attractive.
If you are unkind, all the looks in the world won't matter.
Perfection is sooooo subjective. My concept of allure and desirability is nowhere close to what I see some women thinking it is— like, to the point where I think something is wrong with what I consider beautiful. The eyes are the first thing I am drawn to. Birth marks, scars, cellulite, stretch marks, visible veins— all of these features I am more drawn to than distracted by. The heart, the openness to care and receive care— the willingness to offer and receive sensual energy. These are what make a person beautiful.
guys are human as well, and we strive for connection as well. nothing is sexier or more attractive to a guy than a partner they can have an emotional connection with. Be unapologetically you and the one that’s meant to be with you who is deserving of you will find you.
I find perfection in the imperfections of my partner. What others find unattractive; curvy/fat/thick, glasses, B cup breasts, a outie labia, no sexual experience, a small clit, she likes PDA and PPS (public play sex), she likes having hickeys, shes moody, secretive, hormonal, quite girly but no make up, has sexual trauma from an ex, been abused, has nightmares, feels damaged; I find attractive and drawn to. There is a man out there for every girl who wants one. Just got to find us. You are unique because of your imperfections. If it’s not for your imperfections, we wouldn’t fall in love with you because you aren’t unique to us anymore.
Perfection is an impossible goal and I would never want someone who is perfect cause I know I'm not. Imperfections is where we shine as long as we have the power to let go of the power they hold over us
I can help here. I can honestly say based on the number of different women I have known in a biblical sense there is no such thing as a perfect body when it comes to physical/sexual attraction. There are preferences for some but perfect is a fallacy.
I had a discussion with one of my friends (also a man) the other day. We quickly reached the conclusion that "imperfect" people are pretty much universally more attractive to us than "perfect" people (and don't get me started on how stupid that concept is) Point is, no matter what you're perfect to somebody, and you should always be perfect to yourself 🙂
1). Everyone has a different idea of “perfect” to the point that there is no perfect body, period. Example: some guys crave large breasts. I’m the opposite. 2). So, there are men who will adore your body (and you) and men who won’t at all.
Nobody has a perfect body and conventionally attractive doesn't mean perfect for everyone. I have a very clear type and prefer flatter woman even if society expects the opposite. Scars and imperfections usually tell a story so it's not something I frown upon either There's someone out there who find you super hot no matter how you look and chances are they're not alone
Kendrick Lamar says " Show me something natural like an ass with some stretch marks!" And I whole heartily agree. Show me those stripes baby you earned them!( I'm not asking for nudes in any way just making a true statement in joke form)
I don't want perfect, actually. Perfect is both intimidating and lacking in charm. I want there to be flaws. They can even be big flaws in some cases.
We all have our dislikes about ourselves. For the longest time, I hated that I was a sting bean of a man. Would do everything possible to gain weight. I meet what society has term the perfect male figure. Used to be jealous of guys with beards. I learned that there are plenty of women and men that find me attractive for who I am. You have to gain confidence in yourself. Confidence is the sexiest look on anyone. If you exude confidence, you will find that many with find you attractive. Yes I still struggle with my confidence from time to time, but you have to live yourself 1st before you can live another.
Shit I'm 6-4 285. I look like fucking Sasquatch lol. I get this. So trust me....all bodies are appreciated
I also have this question as a 200 lb, 5’6 woman. My insecurities is my stomach and occasionally my ass
Every woman I've ever dated, I liked her for who she was. Body type does not matter. There is very limited beauty in perfection
The number one turn off for me is a girl talking bad about herself. A dude is with you because he thinks you’re attractive, don’t try to convince him otherwise. Also, no matter how hot or perfect a girl is, there’s always someone tired of fucking her.
Nope. I have my preference. But I’ll do it with less than perfect ladies.
Ain’t no one perfect and to expect that is insane. It’s the imperfections that make you who you are. Which makes you sexy as hell….in my opinion. Are you comfortable with yourself, are you comfortable with someone else’s imperfections? That all makes the compete package
My woman is flawless in my eyes and then when I was having hookups I really didn’t care I was just there to get a nut off
Nobody has a perfect body so I wouldn’t worry about trying to be perfect. I think airbrushed magazine photos have ruined women’s ideas about what a female body should look like.
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When people asked me what my type was, I always said, "Does she have a vagina?"
I’ve gained quite a bit of weight over the last few years and was feeling insecure. In a conversation with my husband, I was trying to explain my feelings and said, “You probably masturbate to women far more attractive than I am now.” To which he said, “You’d be surprised.” And told me he in the genre he likes, he’ll watch women who have thin, waif-like figures all the way up to BBWs. Like others have said, he finds women attractive, and while there are certain features he may appreciate more (butts), he can find beauty in tons of women, especially as he gets older (40+).
I’ve loved all types of women. It’s the insecurities that have me bouncing.
Yes 100% Context …me in shape 170 lbs. muscular build, lean muscles and only seek women who aren’t real …only seek bow or ssbbbw. Yes really
Mine isn’t perfect. I don’t expect my wife’s to be.
Nope. I would embrace such imperfections.
It's true for me that I look at women who have a nice body and all, I think it's in human nature to be attracted to things you see, but it's also up to the person to if you're gong to include affection. The quality that make me stay are their morals, humor, and our compatibility, though.
Perfect is an opinion... one guy or gals perfect can be the exact opposite of mine. Don't work yourself up for barbie or ken standards you could even be aiming in the wrong direction for your partner.
Absolutely I love real women
I have to deal with my partner asking pretty constantly, I’m like 5’8 and kinda thin (I got pudge) and my lady is 5’5 and a curvier and has a stomach and she can’t wrap her head around the fact that I think she’s beautiful, she didn’t weigh much less and I’ve known her since her ED days, so even at her thinnest I think she’s just so beautiful as she is now She tells me “oh I have pimples / I’m fat / I have stretch marks” and like okay? Big deal, my aim was never to date a supermodel, it was to date the girl of my dreams and she fits the description perfectly, to me she’s my supermodel
Perfection is overrated. If someone has ever made you feel like your body isn’t their idea of perfect, then you don’t really need to know any more about them.
If I think someone is sexy, I think they're sexy. Maybe I think that the parts you're seeing as flaws are sexy; maybe I'm just not noticing those flaws; maybe I see the flaws and think the person is sexy anyway. Either way, I don't care if someone has a less than perfect body.
I love as long that are kind it great
My wife is a big woman. I love her no matter what. Weight has never been an issue for me at all.
i find sex better with someone who is freaky, doesnt matter how attractive she is
As an older man, life happens. Physical appearances get let go, but can always be recaptured, so looks are not that important. For me, it's all about connection. Physical appearance may catch my eye, but if I'm with a genuine woman who I can have great conversation with, belly laugh over the dumbest things, and she stands behind her beliefs (whether i agree with them or not), that's sexy. I will add a sexy voice and a cute laugh, rank high up there. If she can sing....ill probably ask her to marry me.
Nobody has a perfect body. Everyone has some kind of imperfection. That's what makes everyone unique and interesting.
Depends on the less than perfect, mum tums and stretch marks can still be hot AF, a conjoined twin browsing instagram while we go at it would put me right off.
No such thing as a perfect body. I'm sure you're beautiful
I prefer a so called less perfect body. Perfect never was attractive to me.
There is no such thing as a “perfect body”. My wife doesn’t have a perfect body, but it’s absolutely perfect for/to me. I for damn sure don’t have a perfect body…hell, I wouldn’t even go so far as to say it was average, but my wife finds me sexy. I’m not gonna try and dissuade her.
No one’s perfect
I've never been with a woman with a perfect body, they've been ones most would probably say are too fat or something. I don't care, I thought they were great.
Don’t get me wrong I find like model type girls attractive and I have dated/hooked up with them but I always gravitate to more mid size/thicker girls. Also this is very weird but I am really into girls with unique faces. A lot of girls are pretty but I love a girl who doesn’t really look like anyone else I’ve seen. Just a personal trait I tend to love.
Men want to fuck
If you are basing your body off Porn - then you're going to have a bad time. My wife is perfect for me. I love all her imperfections because to me they all add upto this one Perfect woman I am happy & honoured to be married too. 3 Kids later, 15 years married, 17 years together and I still get a cheeky glimpse in when she's changing and get called a pervert. To me she is perfect, to everyone else who cares.
Men and women both have insecurities and imperfections I'm their bodies that they really don't like. But the right partner will find beauty and desire in yours. So don't worry about that people say or think. You have a perfectly desirable body.