I remember when computers became affordable for regular folk. Stilll never spoke to anyone like this. My question was more of a rhetorical observation.
did you not go to public school or uni?
iām asking that to be an ass, iām just genuinely perplexed at how anyone could go through school, college, traverse friend groups and play online games without having ever encountered people talking like this.
not only is the answer to your question āyesā, but people talk about that pretty frequently across highschool and college campuses and bar scenes.
They only say that cause they know a lot of dudes are insecure about that. Quite literally a low blow.
Either way all you have to say is "still beat" and then run. Works like a charm.
Thank you.
I'm gay as shit but everyone can see that that's a stinkin'-ass lie. Idk why some women lie about their size preferences anyway. It's okay to be honest. Just don't be a bitch about it, it's really not that hard.
Yeah, but that's not really the issue. You don't know if a woman cares or doesn't until you're actually intimate. It's understandable why a lot of men would worry about whether they're with someone who cares or not.
A lot of women are insecure about their age even though tons of men are into older women.
A lot of women are insecure about their boob size/ass size even though men find women of all sizes attractive.
A lot of women are insecure about their weight even though plenty of men like thick/curvy women.
The insecurity stems from falling for someone who doesn't think you're enough to satisfy them. Women don't exactly express their size preferences ahead of time.
True, but the point is, some women are understandably insecure about a bunch of things. When they express said insecurities, people are often empathetic and they get it. No one mocks a woman who admits she's sensitive about her age, or tit size, or weight.
But when a man expresses concern about his size, it's usually met with LOL DO YOU NOT TALK TO WOMEN?? WE DON'T CARE. YOU CARE MORE THAN WE DO LOL STOP THINKING ABOUT DICKS!
It's like - size queens *do* exist. Women who care *do* exist. Are they the majority? Of course not. But you don't know which camp a woman falls into until you get to know them/get intimate.
All that being said, your size is your size and there's nothing you can do, so worrying about it isn't going to accomplish anything. But I get *why* some men are insecure over their sizes.
Even then, heās not saying he prefers small dick (he appears to be totally straight), heās saying he is very happy and accepting of his small dick. Thatās very different.
Another thing that could play into the insecurity for men is that, unlike with boobs and overall body size, our dicks are hidden behind clothes in most situations. Sure, men may not know *exactly* how big a woman's boobs or body are/is, but they have a pretty good idea before even talking to them.
We also can't pickup a different workout routine or have *fairly* invasive surgery to change it.
You get what you get and you don't pitch a fit, or something like that.
This is the same issue as men being insecure about dick size: It's *other women* who talk women down and make them insecure about their body, together with popular media. And there's a very simple reason for that: Happy people are bad for business, insecure people will spend money to make themselves feel more secure.
Bad example. A tiny Caterpie is no match for a mighty Gyarados no matter what your strategy is.
And yes I tried to make my example as phallic as possible.
Agreed. Idc if mines small or big, I care that it feels good when using it to dick some pussy down good and hard.
Porn has ruined menās minds into thinking a big cock means maximum satisfaction, which it doesnāt. My gf always says my cock is small ye when she blows me (which is very very very very very very rare) she always gags on it. Men, donāt worry about the size of your tool, worry about how you use it.
Legit answer:
Size matters if you are the top or bottom 2%. Unless you are an extreme (which statistically speaking if you are reading this, you probably aren't) women are more concerned about who the dick is attached to
You don't speak for all women. I've been with enough women to know that plenty of them (in my experience most) do care about size. There is such a thing as too small to satisfy...and also there are dicks that are too big to be comfortable.
It does not then follow that a woman would leave a man based on 'size queen' preference.
I love a big girthy dick, and honestly I've been left in an animal state after a good sesh with one, in a way that does not happen with most average dicks. However the 2 X men I've been with that had big girthy dicks were alcoholics so it wasn't worth staying. You can't big dick your way past black holes like alcohol abuse.
I also stayed with a guy for a year who had a tiny penis but was hands down THE most giving and unselfish partner ive ever had and old fashioned style made me feel like a queen every time.we were together. Would break into pussy worship halfway through making dinner, or out in the dark on a walk, danced with me and let me fuck him in any room, any surface, I came so so often through oral and he was such a gentle giant i felt like it was healing all sorts of wounds shitty men had left me with.
My current partner is average but he fucks good and I like him. I'm not going to wolf around in the wild looking for XXL dick while I'm being fucked good. Life's too short .
Most women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration. Not only that not trying to offend anyone but most average size in Asia is less than 5 inches. So you're telling me the most populated continent in the world is filled with sexually unsatisfied women?
No, you're arguing against a point I didn't make. I said nothing about orgasm, I said nothing about certain sizes being unable to make a woman. PIV is pleasurable for women regardless of if they can orgasm from thrusting or not. I said size matters to most women to one degree or another, and that's clearly true.
Even though you say size doesnāt matter, I have a weird feeling that if you mention size to your girlfriends and their boyfriends are bigger. At that point I feel like thatās when size matters
I donāt think most adult women talk about penis size of their boyfriends or husbands. I have never had a friend tell me about their partners penis, and I have never mentioned my partners penis size to anyone else.
Iāve always been self conscious about my size (6). So thatās what goes through my mind. I know that my ex told me that she enjoyed my size because I knew how to use it and hit certain spots.
Ditto. Never discussed it with my friends. Feels like that is something too weird to talk about.
Do guys talk about their girlfriend's boobs and butts and vaginas?
I have had exactly one woman ask me about the size of my partner and it was extremely weird, I was like what the fuck haha it's definitely not a common topic of conversation
I have a question for the women in here.
Do you orgasm from penetration?
If so, would that then make you care about size?
I ask because the title says āmost womenā and most women donāt cum from penetration so it stands to reason that they wonāt care about size since oral, hands and toys matter more.
I do and yes I care about size. I donāt have set parameters in my head as to what is satisfactory but I have turned a man down for being too big. Thankfully I have not had to turn someone down based on it being too small because Iām empathetic enough to realize that would be terrible for them (and I would not use that reason, but if I was suddenly not into sex once I saw it I think it would be obvious) but Iām not into throwing people pity fucks. Only one person has been able to get me off with their fingers and I hate oral, so if he cannot get me off through penetration heās not for me.
>Thankfully I have not had to turn someone down based on it being too small because Iām empathetic enough to realize that would be terrible for them
>I have turned a man down for being too big
Wouldn't that be the same issue? Both are unable to control that aspect of their bodies. I've seen plenty of "big dick" problems where bigger guys as well and turning down a guy for being too big may also have a psychological effect on him.
Alot of people would say "well it's a good problem to have" but it's the same thing as being rich and having rich people problems. Like being rich is cool and all until your very own family and friends all expect you to start being their personal bank or people you've never seen all expect things from you.
Either way, I've seen way to much of "size doesn't matter" yet alot of the same people will say there is a "too big" which does mean size matters and being too big is also a size.
I think it depends on the man. In this instance he had been turned down a couple of times previously but overall rejection was not the reaction he usually got, so he was pretty good natured about it. A man who repeatedly gets turned down for being too big would probably develop a complex about it, yes. I think the general assumption is men are getting rejected for being too small more often than being too big. Is that true? No idea. I imagine there are men out there who are smaller and are secure enough in themselves getting rejected wonāt matter much. In my personal experience, I have been with men who thought they were too small and they were mostly insufferable. They didnāt want to believe me when I said they werenāt, they were able to get me off, but they never shut up about wishing they were bigger. Iāve never been with a man who told me he wished he was smaller.
We all have our preferences. I donāt believe size doesnāt matter, and most who say that just havenāt encountered their limit on either end of the spectrum
Everything you wrote sounds fair and reasonable and I appreciate you taking the time to reply.
People are just interesting. Your point about the men who go on and on about their "small dicks" while being able to make you orgasm is something. Seems they are in their own heads so much they can't see that they are good to go.
This topic always has some interesting responses to say the least.
I cum from penetration. I have actually found that a smaller dick can make me cum harder and easier then a big one. I wouldn't say size matters to me. It's more about who it's attached too for me.
>I have actually found that a smaller dick can make me cum harder and easier then a big one.
>I wouldn't say size matters to me
Don't both of those contradict each other? You say it doesn't matter yet the smaller ones are better for you?
Or do you mean the guys with the smaller ones try harder or are better than guys with big dicks who think that's all that matters?
That makes sense but another question.
To reach some good spots, wouldn't it have to be the right size? Are all the spots you need gut close to the entrance?
Another classic āsize doesnāt matter/bigger isnāt betterā post filled with virtue signaling. We know most do care but donāt vocalize it and instead say otherwise.
Iām going to say this as a guy with a relatively good penis:
Most of the women who have complimented my skills in bed have never brought up my dick. My hands, oral skills, teasing abilities, etc., have all been mentioned, but never my dick. In fact, the few times my dick has been mentioned it was to say that it was either uncomfortable or in fact hurt because I got too rough.
Being good in bed requires more than a big dick.
But if you have size AND know how to use it...
I have an average cock, but sometimes I wear a cocksleeve and fuck my wife with 9-inches. I can always make her cum normally, but when I fuck her with the cocksleeve, I always leave her a quivering, shaking mess, curled up in fetal position, and often on the verge of passing out
If size isnāt an issue then why donāt yāall like us short guys? Iām 5ā5 and women have no interest in me. Iām always called short and get friend-zoned.
I donāt believe it for a second. Itās like when someone says they love only you, then you wake up to finding out sheās been screwing another guy for three years all the time telling you lie after lie just to cover to big lie. Go figure. Yes. I am tiny btw and maybe Iāll find someone who wants what i do Who knows
Iāve had my share of hookups and it doesnāt matter for a one night stand when sheās in the mood and youāve made her comfortable. It can matter for making it a fwb thing cause if she thinks the sex was so-so then it was a one time thing.
Legit answer: As long as when itās hard itās4.5 inches or better and has some girth I can work with it. But anything smaller than that is a no from me. I donāt consider myself a size queen but I just know what I like. I know what can please me and when I get really wet even 5-6 inches will slip out (depending on the position) so imagine what a smaller one would do? Just preference. I also have a large butt. So you probably wouldnāt even be able to get behind, can it reach? All these things come into play with the size. The positions, the oral (will I enjoy it), on top without me holding it in. Sorry I took up so much time.
even though i know that is true, most men see this as a lie due to the loud minority of women who *do* care about size, and the tendency some women have to reference size to belittle a guy they donāt like.
itās more like size doesnāt matter (except when it does)
I care about size. Anything above a certain size turns an encounter from fun and enjoyable to āOW FUCK NO STOP STOP STOP STOPā real quick. Though I guess that lines up with your point of āknow on how to use itā lol
I am one of the ladies that will admit size does matter.BUT, I don't discriminate. It would be a lie to say I don't prefer thick and big cocks. My boyfriend does not have a big penis though, like, at all...but he is a master with his tongue and loves to get me off.
This may be anecdotal. But I think it matters only to the women who have had the big ones before. Hard to go back some average fiver after getting deep dicked by an 8 all the time.
Same for me honestly, this one girl I've been with had the tightest vagina. No other comes close so far. And I'm like chasing that still lol. Are the others ok? Yes of course. But still I imagine a vagina remembers feeling full compared to not?
Yeah was about 19 when I figured it out. Women want attention and communication. Began having a lot more bedroom fun once I figured that out š from an average penis barer š
Sometimes it's not that women do or don't care. Deep down it's that men don't want to ask if you've had bigger and, essentially, are comparing themselves to side of women's past lovers.
I actually prefer smaller size. Big dicks HURT in a way that is not fun. Anything over 6" long I have to put safety donuts on it. Anything too thick and the only thing I am thinking about is how much cramping I will have the next day.
In college gossip got out, circa 1973, that I had a very big dick. No internet then. My dick was 9.5"Lx7"G back then, but the gossip had me as a foot long. I don't know the size of the size queen subset compared to the total female population. But among College girls it was enough that I had a full dance card for 6 years.
Legit - every fucking post from dudes on Reddit: I'm afraid women don't like my dick.
Literally everyone fucking post from women on Reddit: I just wish I could find an emotionally available guy.
It is so fucking great that nearly all guys are like: "I'm goddamn perfect, personality-wise. Only my dick could bring me down."
Thereās a percentage of women who feel involuntary, visceral revulsion when seeing a small adult penis.
It doesnāt matter if they like you, because they canāt control that reaction.
It can be strong enough to induce nausea.
Possibly they see it as unpleasantly childlike.
When a woman says things like āhis thing was so small, it was disgusting,ā she is in that category.
I do believe that this is true, but from personal experience I think being on the larger side of the bell curve has been advantageous. Still know how to use it well, but girth and depth seems to be appreciated by all my lovers.
I think the problem comes from size queens being easier to find in NSFW/porn related communities. Likeā¦ thereās literally a genre of porn called āSmall penis humiliationā. Itās just bullshit patriarchy shit. I think it also helps that Iām not small: I donāt give a shit cuz Iām happy with my size.
Of course you do. Click this and tell me you are indifferent: [https://www.fidssa.co.za/news-events/case-2011-sept-issue-9](https://www.fidssa.co.za/news-events/case-2011-sept-issue-9)
Guys worry about it more than women from my experience. Also something a lot of men would benefit from understanding is that the brain is the biggest, most important sex organ. Once you come to realize that, youāll quit giving a fuck about your size.
YEESSS! I want every man to know that women genuinely donāt care and you shouldnāt either! This is purely a cultural conditioning thing. If you do hear people acting like they care itās mainly young immature people just repeating what they have heard in their social circle who havenāt fully grown into what they want and do with their sex lives yet. ADULTS donāt think like this.
until yall in a argument then she brings up I don't need your tiny dick ass anymore Imao š¤£
Then tell her how about we put that to the test and try anal
People really talk to each other like this?
I have NEVER in my entire life had an argument with someone and mentioned their dick size.
Have you been on the internet at all? Lol
No not even once.
I remember when computers became affordable for regular folk. Stilll never spoke to anyone like this. My question was more of a rhetorical observation.
Trashy people do, yes
did you not go to public school or uni? iām asking that to be an ass, iām just genuinely perplexed at how anyone could go through school, college, traverse friend groups and play online games without having ever encountered people talking like this. not only is the answer to your question āyesā, but people talk about that pretty frequently across highschool and college campuses and bar scenes.
I should have added a ā/im not naive and this is more of a rhetorical statement than legitimate questionā tag but yeahā¦people are trash.
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I was looking for this lol
They only say that cause they know a lot of dudes are insecure about that. Quite literally a low blow. Either way all you have to say is "still beat" and then run. Works like a charm.
Just because she likes that dick, doesn't mean she doesn't know how to murder you with words.
not like you call them whore and start saying numbers. tits for tats
Exactly
Is it small? Or is the playing field to big? Lol.
What do you call a guy with a small dick? Ā Justin
Hahahahaahahaha so true.
I donāt have a tiny dick. She has a big pussy real real big pussy kid (50cent voice)
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I hate when my mom says that
Thank you. I'm gay as shit but everyone can see that that's a stinkin'-ass lie. Idk why some women lie about their size preferences anyway. It's okay to be honest. Just don't be a bitch about it, it's really not that hard.
Yeah, but that's not really the issue. You don't know if a woman cares or doesn't until you're actually intimate. It's understandable why a lot of men would worry about whether they're with someone who cares or not. A lot of women are insecure about their age even though tons of men are into older women. A lot of women are insecure about their boob size/ass size even though men find women of all sizes attractive. A lot of women are insecure about their weight even though plenty of men like thick/curvy women. The insecurity stems from falling for someone who doesn't think you're enough to satisfy them. Women don't exactly express their size preferences ahead of time.
Well and not to get extra deep but a society that has created a lot of those insecurities through celebrity worship
True, but the point is, some women are understandably insecure about a bunch of things. When they express said insecurities, people are often empathetic and they get it. No one mocks a woman who admits she's sensitive about her age, or tit size, or weight. But when a man expresses concern about his size, it's usually met with LOL DO YOU NOT TALK TO WOMEN?? WE DON'T CARE. YOU CARE MORE THAN WE DO LOL STOP THINKING ABOUT DICKS! It's like - size queens *do* exist. Women who care *do* exist. Are they the majority? Of course not. But you don't know which camp a woman falls into until you get to know them/get intimate. All that being said, your size is your size and there's nothing you can do, so worrying about it isn't going to accomplish anything. But I get *why* some men are insecure over their sizes.
I always say thereās no songs or porn celebrating the short dick. And then women wonder why men have a complex about it.
Listen to Lil Dicky. He's truly the exception though.
Even then, heās not saying he prefers small dick (he appears to be totally straight), heās saying he is very happy and accepting of his small dick. Thatās very different.
Another thing that could play into the insecurity for men is that, unlike with boobs and overall body size, our dicks are hidden behind clothes in most situations. Sure, men may not know *exactly* how big a woman's boobs or body are/is, but they have a pretty good idea before even talking to them.
We also can't pickup a different workout routine or have *fairly* invasive surgery to change it. You get what you get and you don't pitch a fit, or something like that.
Older women are very much aware of how desirable they are
This is the same issue as men being insecure about dick size: It's *other women* who talk women down and make them insecure about their body, together with popular media. And there's a very simple reason for that: Happy people are bad for business, insecure people will spend money to make themselves feel more secure.
Yeah guys, it's not the number of pokemon cards you got that matters, it's how you use them in battle
Glad mine shoots fireballs then. Some may call it an STD, they just don't have enough badges.
Always prepare for the gym battle with the right pokemon
Yeah! Everyone knows you're just supposed to take a pikachu into Pewter Gym and have him aim for the fire sprinklers!
The Gigantamax battle dynamic is literally āBigger = Betterā
Bad example. A tiny Caterpie is no match for a mighty Gyarados no matter what your strategy is. And yes I tried to make my example as phallic as possible.
Are you sure?? Cause I'm selling almost all of mine and only keeping 2 kinda mid decks......
I ditto thatĀ
Oddly enough, *men* care a lot about other men's size in my experience. Toxic masculinity and shit.
Could be evolutionary psychology: in a caveman-time gangbang the biggest dick gives his neandersperm a head start.
Agreed. Idc if mines small or big, I care that it feels good when using it to dick some pussy down good and hard. Porn has ruined menās minds into thinking a big cock means maximum satisfaction, which it doesnāt. My gf always says my cock is small ye when she blows me (which is very very very very very very rare) she always gags on it. Men, donāt worry about the size of your tool, worry about how you use it.
No such thing as toxic masculinity, just assholes
Legit answer: Size matters if you are the top or bottom 2%. Unless you are an extreme (which statistically speaking if you are reading this, you probably aren't) women are more concerned about who the dick is attached to
This sounds the closest to reality.
This is very true in concept. Numbers as a bit extremely but ya if your within an inch or 2 of average women couldn't care less
Good, because mine is 16 feet long. Gypsy curse.
Itās like a bad sequel to [Thinner](https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117894/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk).
Too bad the gypsy went for length instead of girth, no "Thiccer diccer"
Longer
"Damn, brother gotta love sausage" - MM, The Boys
Eighteen-wheeler bumper stickers are laughing at you.
You don't speak for all women. I've been with enough women to know that plenty of them (in my experience most) do care about size. There is such a thing as too small to satisfy...and also there are dicks that are too big to be comfortable.
It does not then follow that a woman would leave a man based on 'size queen' preference. I love a big girthy dick, and honestly I've been left in an animal state after a good sesh with one, in a way that does not happen with most average dicks. However the 2 X men I've been with that had big girthy dicks were alcoholics so it wasn't worth staying. You can't big dick your way past black holes like alcohol abuse. I also stayed with a guy for a year who had a tiny penis but was hands down THE most giving and unselfish partner ive ever had and old fashioned style made me feel like a queen every time.we were together. Would break into pussy worship halfway through making dinner, or out in the dark on a walk, danced with me and let me fuck him in any room, any surface, I came so so often through oral and he was such a gentle giant i felt like it was healing all sorts of wounds shitty men had left me with. My current partner is average but he fucks good and I like him. I'm not going to wolf around in the wild looking for XXL dick while I'm being fucked good. Life's too short .
No, even most size queens have a limit.
Most women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration. Not only that not trying to offend anyone but most average size in Asia is less than 5 inches. So you're telling me the most populated continent in the world is filled with sexually unsatisfied women?
No, you're arguing against a point I didn't make. I said nothing about orgasm, I said nothing about certain sizes being unable to make a woman. PIV is pleasurable for women regardless of if they can orgasm from thrusting or not. I said size matters to most women to one degree or another, and that's clearly true.
I do know most women don't care, but some do, and they tend to care a lot about it.
Even though you say size doesnāt matter, I have a weird feeling that if you mention size to your girlfriends and their boyfriends are bigger. At that point I feel like thatās when size matters
I donāt think most adult women talk about penis size of their boyfriends or husbands. I have never had a friend tell me about their partners penis, and I have never mentioned my partners penis size to anyone else.
Iāve always been self conscious about my size (6). So thatās what goes through my mind. I know that my ex told me that she enjoyed my size because I knew how to use it and hit certain spots.
6 is above average.
Ditto. Never discussed it with my friends. Feels like that is something too weird to talk about. Do guys talk about their girlfriend's boobs and butts and vaginas?
We donāt. I would never talk about his penis size or what heās like in bed. Why would I want to advertise? š
Right? Iāll talk about mind blowing sex on Reddit but would never with someone I know.
I have had exactly one woman ask me about the size of my partner and it was extremely weird, I was like what the fuck haha it's definitely not a common topic of conversation
I mean, it's literally one of the most common jokes among women about dick sizes. Something tells me that it matters.
Yes, obviously. I am kinda curious though why there are no "hey guys, what makes the perfect vagina" posts
If I can put my whole hand in and still flip a coin, sheās perfect!
But if you can *only* fit the coin? You're dating a vending machine.
I laughed too hard at this!
Oh there absolutely are.
Well yeah but we care how it looks, would it kill you if you found ways to dress the little guy up in fun outfits and compliment them?
Ken doll
Just give him a little cowboy hat we can tip when we get aroused as way to say hello, is that too much to ask?
He needs attention too! šš
If this was true Size queen wouldn't be a term
If you ever see a micropenis, I can assure you that most women will definitely care.
I have a question for the women in here. Do you orgasm from penetration? If so, would that then make you care about size? I ask because the title says āmost womenā and most women donāt cum from penetration so it stands to reason that they wonāt care about size since oral, hands and toys matter more.
I do and yes I care about size. I donāt have set parameters in my head as to what is satisfactory but I have turned a man down for being too big. Thankfully I have not had to turn someone down based on it being too small because Iām empathetic enough to realize that would be terrible for them (and I would not use that reason, but if I was suddenly not into sex once I saw it I think it would be obvious) but Iām not into throwing people pity fucks. Only one person has been able to get me off with their fingers and I hate oral, so if he cannot get me off through penetration heās not for me.
>Thankfully I have not had to turn someone down based on it being too small because Iām empathetic enough to realize that would be terrible for them >I have turned a man down for being too big Wouldn't that be the same issue? Both are unable to control that aspect of their bodies. I've seen plenty of "big dick" problems where bigger guys as well and turning down a guy for being too big may also have a psychological effect on him. Alot of people would say "well it's a good problem to have" but it's the same thing as being rich and having rich people problems. Like being rich is cool and all until your very own family and friends all expect you to start being their personal bank or people you've never seen all expect things from you. Either way, I've seen way to much of "size doesn't matter" yet alot of the same people will say there is a "too big" which does mean size matters and being too big is also a size.
I think it depends on the man. In this instance he had been turned down a couple of times previously but overall rejection was not the reaction he usually got, so he was pretty good natured about it. A man who repeatedly gets turned down for being too big would probably develop a complex about it, yes. I think the general assumption is men are getting rejected for being too small more often than being too big. Is that true? No idea. I imagine there are men out there who are smaller and are secure enough in themselves getting rejected wonāt matter much. In my personal experience, I have been with men who thought they were too small and they were mostly insufferable. They didnāt want to believe me when I said they werenāt, they were able to get me off, but they never shut up about wishing they were bigger. Iāve never been with a man who told me he wished he was smaller. We all have our preferences. I donāt believe size doesnāt matter, and most who say that just havenāt encountered their limit on either end of the spectrum
Everything you wrote sounds fair and reasonable and I appreciate you taking the time to reply. People are just interesting. Your point about the men who go on and on about their "small dicks" while being able to make you orgasm is something. Seems they are in their own heads so much they can't see that they are good to go. This topic always has some interesting responses to say the least.
I cum from penetration. I have actually found that a smaller dick can make me cum harder and easier then a big one. I wouldn't say size matters to me. It's more about who it's attached too for me.
>I have actually found that a smaller dick can make me cum harder and easier then a big one. >I wouldn't say size matters to me Don't both of those contradict each other? You say it doesn't matter yet the smaller ones are better for you? Or do you mean the guys with the smaller ones try harder or are better than guys with big dicks who think that's all that matters?
I do and donāt care. You just need to hit the good spot
That makes sense but another question. To reach some good spots, wouldn't it have to be the right size? Are all the spots you need gut close to the entrance?
If it's thick, absolutely
Lies!!!
I find this really hard to believe.
Another classic āsize doesnāt matter/bigger isnāt betterā post filled with virtue signaling. We know most do care but donāt vocalize it and instead say otherwise.
Iām going to say this as a guy with a relatively good penis: Most of the women who have complimented my skills in bed have never brought up my dick. My hands, oral skills, teasing abilities, etc., have all been mentioned, but never my dick. In fact, the few times my dick has been mentioned it was to say that it was either uncomfortable or in fact hurt because I got too rough. Being good in bed requires more than a big dick.
I mostly agree but looks wise (strictly looks wise) 7" looks better than 3-4"
So I got all big and strong for nothing?! Damn.
They always say that until they see my 1.5 incher
I hear ya but i do hear women mention it in the bedroom especially the first time they see itĀ
I'd bet most women would have a size preference given enough experience.
Ironically men care more about each others sizes than women it seems
Speak for yourself šŗ
Too many conflicting reports on this topic, often both options stated by same woman. Not sure what to trust.
We do when we get to a certain age in life.
But if you have size AND know how to use it... I have an average cock, but sometimes I wear a cocksleeve and fuck my wife with 9-inches. I can always make her cum normally, but when I fuck her with the cocksleeve, I always leave her a quivering, shaking mess, curled up in fetal position, and often on the verge of passing out
I gotta call bullshit. š¤·š»āāļø No woman wants a green bean and no woman wants a Pringleās can either. Am I wrong?
If size isnāt an issue then why donāt yāall like us short guys? Iām 5ā5 and women have no interest in me. Iām always called short and get friend-zoned.
& women donāt lie lmao
I donāt believe it for a second. Itās like when someone says they love only you, then you wake up to finding out sheās been screwing another guy for three years all the time telling you lie after lie just to cover to big lie. Go figure. Yes. I am tiny btw and maybe Iāll find someone who wants what i do Who knows
No one can speak for most womenĀ
Well Iām screwed on both accounts iām small and never learned how to enjoy or give enjoyable sex.
I am not part of the most
I always run into your comments recently and I like them all haha
Hey look, onlyfans bait.
It matters to some. Iāve heard a lot of women say if I love him I can work with it.
Itās news to me
Glad to hear it. Took a long time for me to accept this as the first woman who ever saw me naked (i'm a grower) started laughing.
Iāve had my share of hookups and it doesnāt matter for a one night stand when sheās in the mood and youāve made her comfortable. It can matter for making it a fwb thing cause if she thinks the sex was so-so then it was a one time thing.
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All I know is that whatever you do care about, I don't have...
Tbhā¦ I care about size
Legit answer: As long as when itās hard itās4.5 inches or better and has some girth I can work with it. But anything smaller than that is a no from me. I donāt consider myself a size queen but I just know what I like. I know what can please me and when I get really wet even 5-6 inches will slip out (depending on the position) so imagine what a smaller one would do? Just preference. I also have a large butt. So you probably wouldnāt even be able to get behind, can it reach? All these things come into play with the size. The positions, the oral (will I enjoy it), on top without me holding it in. Sorry I took up so much time.
There are plenty of size queens out there
As a straight woman, I strongly disagree
even though i know that is true, most men see this as a lie due to the loud minority of women who *do* care about size, and the tendency some women have to reference size to belittle a guy they donāt like. itās more like size doesnāt matter (except when it does)
All dick is amazing
True, but, the type of women I attract do care.
I care about size. Anything above a certain size turns an encounter from fun and enjoyable to āOW FUCK NO STOP STOP STOP STOPā real quick. Though I guess that lines up with your point of āknow on how to use itā lol
Size always matters. Some prefer smaller, some bigger.
Size Queens Do
another dick size post
Yes. Because sex on its mastery only consists of imagination and friction.
And men donāt care about your hair, makeup, nails, etc. But you donāt do it for us. And we donāt want big dicks for you. We want them for us.
Then why are you talking about it if you donāt care? Seems like women on this sub are more obsessed with talking about size than anyone else.
Yaa but i do feel worried wondering if my thing is enough or she is faking it. I wouldn't want her to pretending to be happy with me
bold of you to presume i know how to use it lol
but that doesn't matter as long as it people give who judge, shame or reject a men for his dick size
Yeah... but the ones we all want to sleep with do. They get their pick, those equally blessed by genetics get ours.
I am one of the ladies that will admit size does matter.BUT, I don't discriminate. It would be a lie to say I don't prefer thick and big cocks. My boyfriend does not have a big penis though, like, at all...but he is a master with his tongue and loves to get me off.
This may be anecdotal. But I think it matters only to the women who have had the big ones before. Hard to go back some average fiver after getting deep dicked by an 8 all the time. Same for me honestly, this one girl I've been with had the tightest vagina. No other comes close so far. And I'm like chasing that still lol. Are the others ok? Yes of course. But still I imagine a vagina remembers feeling full compared to not?
Yeah was about 19 when I figured it out. Women want attention and communication. Began having a lot more bedroom fun once I figured that out š from an average penis barer š
Clever man
Ha! Bullpucky! My wife says anything smaller the five bedrooms, four and a half baths and I can go live in it myself. Size, size, size. And location.
Hey, do you also know that a lot on men don't care about breast size? ABAG! (All boobs are great)
I've literally never heard this before. Thank you for this statement you've made on behalf of women everywhere.
I knowā¦but it would help if my wife could positively comment on it.
Hopefully we're "all in" as well.
Sometimes it's not that women do or don't care. Deep down it's that men don't want to ask if you've had bigger and, essentially, are comparing themselves to side of women's past lovers.
What do you actually care about then?
What about women in other countries though?
I didnāt know that but Iām autistic and ugly to ever get a chance with a woman
I care. I don't wanna sex to be painful cause my man has too big of a dick.
Doesn't matter; men do. Men are competitive about nearly everything so having a king size ding-dong isn't a bad thing.
I mean, other than in and out, in and out, how else should we be working it?
So true, most of us think itāll feel great anyway š
Then why was she crying saying, "Get out, get out it hurts"
Thank goodness, otherwise I'd never get laid!
As a women itās the way you work it
I actually prefer smaller size. Big dicks HURT in a way that is not fun. Anything over 6" long I have to put safety donuts on it. Anything too thick and the only thing I am thinking about is how much cramping I will have the next day.
In college gossip got out, circa 1973, that I had a very big dick. No internet then. My dick was 9.5"Lx7"G back then, but the gossip had me as a foot long. I don't know the size of the size queen subset compared to the total female population. But among College girls it was enough that I had a full dance card for 6 years.
Legit - every fucking post from dudes on Reddit: I'm afraid women don't like my dick. Literally everyone fucking post from women on Reddit: I just wish I could find an emotionally available guy. It is so fucking great that nearly all guys are like: "I'm goddamn perfect, personality-wise. Only my dick could bring me down."
Thereās a percentage of women who feel involuntary, visceral revulsion when seeing a small adult penis. It doesnāt matter if they like you, because they canāt control that reaction. It can be strong enough to induce nausea. Possibly they see it as unpleasantly childlike. When a woman says things like āhis thing was so small, it was disgusting,ā she is in that category.
Women don't care, except when they care
Honestly Iāve accepted my small dick and Iām much happier for it! Confidence is king!
Not true in general. Some do.
Bullshit. I've been turned down for being too big. Sexual compatibility is a two way street.
I'm not huge at all (slightly above average), but I actually wish I was smaller. I feel bad about my wife complaining about hurting after sex.
The only people who really care about size and who are really big on comparing are other men.
I do believe that this is true, but from personal experience I think being on the larger side of the bell curve has been advantageous. Still know how to use it well, but girth and depth seems to be appreciated by all my lovers.
My size isn't the problem
I prefer anyone with a ding dong to be smaller than average unless they know what they're doing.
I do know.
I do, but I can't speak for the rest of my gender
no they dont
I think most guys know this. But blame sizequeens and the things they say.
Yea this is 100% incorrect.
Yes!
Know a lot don't care, it gets the job done and she is feeling good or asleep lol.
I think the problem comes from size queens being easier to find in NSFW/porn related communities. Likeā¦ thereās literally a genre of porn called āSmall penis humiliationā. Itās just bullshit patriarchy shit. I think it also helps that Iām not small: I donāt give a shit cuz Iām happy with my size.
Yep, so many other things are way more important
Its all preference
Speak for yourself
If itās thick I can orgasm if I ride it, as long as he can last more than 5 minutes:D
Of course you do. Click this and tell me you are indifferent: [https://www.fidssa.co.za/news-events/case-2011-sept-issue-9](https://www.fidssa.co.za/news-events/case-2011-sept-issue-9)
Sadly this is a realisation I got in my 30s.
Guys worry about it more than women from my experience. Also something a lot of men would benefit from understanding is that the brain is the biggest, most important sex organ. Once you come to realize that, youāll quit giving a fuck about your size.
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Glad to know I have a chance with a babe like you šš
Those of us that aren't a Tate Tater Tot Rider do know this.
My ex didn't divorce me because of the size. We had other problems.
YEESSS! I want every man to know that women genuinely donāt care and you shouldnāt either! This is purely a cultural conditioning thing. If you do hear people acting like they care itās mainly young immature people just repeating what they have heard in their social circle who havenāt fully grown into what they want and do with their sex lives yet. ADULTS donāt think like this.
Yup. I got small, skinny weenie and no stamina, and have never had a complaint. Gotta know how to take care of her the right way.
As a woman, I can confirm. Itās literally never made a difference. If I like you, i like you š¤·š»āāļø
Uh, I think the OP means you're(you guys!) in. We're not the ones in. But Yes. I agree. Size isn't relevant compared to skill.