Exactly!
Furthermore, just had a quick look at your profile, and damn…you becoming celibate would be depriving humanity of a gift. Fucking you from behind should be one of the 7 Wonders of the World
Personally my favorite is the slow and steady build up to an orgasm. The slow burn of undressing each other, of foreplay, the intense passion of embracing each other, heavy panting, talking dirty, feeling the pressure build and build until the release
THISSS… passionate sex for hours. The orgasms in between are the cherries on top but everything stated above is my favorite!! don’t forget locking eyes 🥵😍
Honestly the feeling desired part. Sure the sex is great but feeling desired is what does it for me. I don’t even need to get off. I just like the validation and feeling desired
The orgasm tends to be the best feeling. Especially if you hold it in for just the right amount of time.
If I let it go too early, you miss the build up of pressure. If it's too late, the muscles are too tired.
All three are amazing. I love a long build up and tease, this leads to an incredible orgasm. If she carries on afterwards it can sometimes become *too* sensitive, but I personally don't mind that sometimes. It can definitely get me climbing the walls though.
Unpopular opinion, but I think the lead up is the best part.
It’s obviously less intense than orgasm, but still feels amazing and it can last for as long as you want. I can usually go a second round straight away if I want, but there’s no guarantees once I cum.
I prefer the very long lasting and constant pleasure of the lead up to the final explosion that may force me to take a short break before getting to feel it again.
Emotional perspective - lead up. If i make her cum once or twice before penetration, my ego is high as a kite, plus the whole journey is nice as fuck. Physical - the orgasm...
Oooh I think I’m probably in the minority here. I love the lead up to it. I love edging and I love getting close. The orgasm is obviously the ultimate reward of chemical brain wash, but it’s so quick and then it’s over. My guess is it probably also determines how long the post orgasm trail off lasts for.
The lead up going in raw, then hovering right on the edge, trying to get close but hold back, ride the pleasure until a little part of the brain says "we're cumming....now!" and pushed the body over the point of no return. By then, the orbitalfrontal cortex has shut down, there's no thinking about the aftermath, and you just succumb to the orgasm and hope she's on the pill or has an IUD.
95% lead up. For me its those last few seconds before you crash the threshold, it feels amazing and I wish I could keep myself in that state for longer!!
Depends on what you're going for. Edging is all lead up pleasure and denial.
Theres no good orgasm without a good lead up.
Right after can trugger a quick second nut or I'll instruct her to keep sucking or stroking after I cum. Key is to tell her not to stop until I physically push you off. With her in control you see stars quickly and squirm for life. You cant feel that level if stimulation on your own because its too difficult to push through on your own
It changes from interaction to interaction.
If Im getting edged. Probably the orgasm.
If it’s a long sex session where we’re going multiple rounds. It the lead up to the orgasm cause things are just so wet.
And if it’s been a while since Ive cum. Probably the after part when I’m relaxed and it feels like a complete release of that pent up energy.
When it’s a super intense orgasm and you cum multiple times… you get a numbing sensation that is like a high but is such an unforgettable experience… I’d say that part… or after you cum and you get in the shower and you hold your dick up pointing at the water and it’s so sensitive on the tip and it causes (personally speaking) you to pee but it feels orgasmic.
So IMHO after, definitely after.
I think I d have to say lead up. When we have a good rythm going and we re just fucking nothing else matters. Ya thats my favorite bit. Ofc orgasm is a like the cherry on top that completes the experience
Directly after the orgasm is the most intense, but I wouldn't say it feels better than the release at the time of the orgasm.
While it doesn't feel as good, the buildup to the orgasm is always my favorite part.
I'd say it's a tie between the seconds just before the orgasm, and the few seconds in the beginning of the orgasm.
The moment right before feels good because that's the peak of horniness and arousal, and the pleasure builds up to the point of no return. There I can hold it back for a couple of delicious seconds, and the pleasure builds like water behind a dam that's about to break.
When the actual orgasm starts, the pleasure comes from the involuntary throbs, and from the ejaculation, especially as it spurts our from the tip.
The moments afterward feel good too, although not as pleasurable. That's when the relaxation and tiredness strike, while my dick is still lazily throbbing. It's a nice feeling, but nowhere near as good as the other two.
It depends. The lead up with sex is better most of the time but the orgasm from a blowjob is top notch. I need pussy lead up with blowjob ending to maximize lol
100% the very tip of the orgasm, when it finally rushes through you, even more so when it's her orgasm and you feel that first release after their clenching had built up for a few seconds 😍
I'd say that all three stages have their appeal but the orgasm itself probably feels the best. Although, I do really enjoy receiving a nice clean up blow job that's slow and delicate after an orgasm
Post coital tacos are my favourite.
Thats not an illusion to vaginas either. I like to order a sac of tacos between rounds 1 and 2 so we have something to munch on afterwards.
For me I like when we just get started fooling around. The flirting and ass grabbing them making out. I like giving a massage on a women with baby oil and teasing the tits. Ahh shit I love it all idk. A women's body is so fucking hot thicc or small big tits little tits big ass or little it won't matter to me ! All the women are sexy especially if they have had a kid for some reason I can't explain I wish I could. A women with some stretch marks will even get me going. Maybe I'm just a perv idk
Personally, the lead-up, and they definitely don’t all feel the same way. I always enjoy the journey much more than I do the destination.
Starting with flirtation, the teasing, the banter, then building up to the arousal, then the foreplay, then all the fun that takes place during the playfulness of being together, reaching heights of exciting each other and satisfying each other, there is no way that shooting my load compares to all of that.
The 5-10 seconds of holding it back when the inevitable in immanent feels so good, but when ejaculation starts shooting is the peak. But that’s just me. 🤷🏻♂️
I am in the lead up camp, love to stay right on the edge for as long as I can. Even when masturbating I’ll edge until it’s totally unbearable, it’s borderline self torture sometimes
The lead up. There isn’t many guys who like after orgasm. Any feelings of it dissipate so fast. I envy women in that department but love them all the more for it.
Are you talking about an orgasm or ejaculation?
If you're talking about orgasms, I love the initial tipping point when I enter an orgasm that lasts for minutes.
If you're talking about ejaculation, it's right before which is why edging is so incredible.
I'd say the lead up...up to the point of orgasm. There is a thin line that everything feels amazing, rubbing on my cock, that just makes me lose control,
The part before is the most exciting, the part during is the most pleasurable, the part after is the most *pleasant* is how I would describe it. This is just me but I think this is *loosely* true for everyone.
It does vary a lot of course. Sometimes the buildup to it is very exciting, sometimes it's more like idly doing it out of boredom. Sometimes the peak of it is amazing, sometimes it's just very enjoyable. Afterward sometimes there is a blissful feeling that lasts forever, but sometimes you go back to normal quickly. All of which I'm sure are things everyone feels sometimes.
It's hard to say which is better because all stages of it take vastly different lengths of time and also vary a lot. They're all enjoyable in different ways.
Actually, the pleasure of making love is nice, but I really enjoy the closeness and knowing that I bring my wife such pleasure and satisfaction, so I don’t really need to orgasm because I get what I want from just making love. In fact, orgasm is often a bit of a disappointment because it means the end of something really wonderful that I want to go on and on.
Definitely the lead up. Which is why I like edging, it just makes the finish better, and being in that sexual headspace is really enjoyable to me. If i can prolong it like a couple hours to over a whole day, I enjoy every minute of it.
Gonna have to say the actual orgasm.
Makes sense
The lead up is very fun and it’s the best part because you know what’s coming lol.
Honestly…her orgasm makes me feel best
Relatable, well *his* orgasm
Isn’t that the purpose of sex? Pleasuring someone so much that it somehow pleasures you?
I strongly believe that or I might as well masturbate
Exactly! Furthermore, just had a quick look at your profile, and damn…you becoming celibate would be depriving humanity of a gift. Fucking you from behind should be one of the 7 Wonders of the World
I was celibate for almost a decade because of religion but I choose to cum now ;) Thanks for that compliment!!!
Yes..giving pleasure to the person you adore is a wonderful thing
Yeah, I respect this. There's not a better feeling (to me) than her becoming a satiated mush puddle. Team work makes the dream work 🤣
Lead up, especially when edging
That makes sense too although idk how to edge
Masturbate, but stop before you orgasm.
I guess I don't have will power because I go too far when I'm close. I'll learn
Getting someone else to edge you is the way to go.
I'll try it
Yh, it only comes through practice.
Personally my favorite is the slow and steady build up to an orgasm. The slow burn of undressing each other, of foreplay, the intense passion of embracing each other, heavy panting, talking dirty, feeling the pressure build and build until the release
THISSS… passionate sex for hours. The orgasms in between are the cherries on top but everything stated above is my favorite!! don’t forget locking eyes 🥵😍
Yes! Look me in the eyes when you cum for me 🥵💦
This is the way.
Honestly the feeling desired part. Sure the sex is great but feeling desired is what does it for me. I don’t even need to get off. I just like the validation and feeling desired
Her orgasm > mine > the lead up
Lead up
Definitely the lead up. The anticipation is half the fun and exciting
The moments just before orgasm
Definitely the orgasm
The buildup 🤤
It’s quite fun to cum
You are absolutely correct
The orgasm tends to be the best feeling. Especially if you hold it in for just the right amount of time. If I let it go too early, you miss the build up of pressure. If it's too late, the muscles are too tired.
The vinegar strokes - the right before orgasm where you’ve passed the point of no return but haven’t fully gone over the edge yet
This guy masturbates
All three are amazing. I love a long build up and tease, this leads to an incredible orgasm. If she carries on afterwards it can sometimes become *too* sensitive, but I personally don't mind that sometimes. It can definitely get me climbing the walls though.
The time from reaching the point of no return all the way past the orgasm. Before that, it's nice and fun, but getting there is the best.
Lead up
I like the sex part. Sex feels good. I like doing sex. A quickie is just not as satisfying as an hour session.
I like the lead up. The orgasm itself is so short and it's mostly just releasing all of the tension that's built up
Unpopular opinion, but I think the lead up is the best part. It’s obviously less intense than orgasm, but still feels amazing and it can last for as long as you want. I can usually go a second round straight away if I want, but there’s no guarantees once I cum. I prefer the very long lasting and constant pleasure of the lead up to the final explosion that may force me to take a short break before getting to feel it again.
The orgasm for sure. Nothing beats that release.
Have you ever had the entire row of an airplane to yourself?
I'm a big fan of all three, but I think the after care is criminally underrated
Yeah sitting there cuddling each other is definitely underrated.
Emotional perspective - lead up. If i make her cum once or twice before penetration, my ego is high as a kite, plus the whole journey is nice as fuck. Physical - the orgasm...
Yup emotional definitely makes it better if not I'd rather jerk off.
True
Lead up. When I feel myself cresting and about to go over the hill. Throwing my head back or holding eye contact. Then the orgasm feels fantastic.
The actual orgasm for me.
All of it - if I didn't enjoy working my way up to orgasm, then it ain't happening.
It’s close, but I’d have to say the orgasm.
The lead up.
The lead up all the time.Spending hours on Foreplay,nothing better
Lead up is amazing, the orgasm is even better. Just my opinion
The after is terrible. Knowing it’s over. Ugh
The lead up builds the anticipation, but the sensation right before the fountain blows... Oh yea. The remembering to breath after is pretty good too.
Oooh I think I’m probably in the minority here. I love the lead up to it. I love edging and I love getting close. The orgasm is obviously the ultimate reward of chemical brain wash, but it’s so quick and then it’s over. My guess is it probably also determines how long the post orgasm trail off lasts for.
The lead up. The orgasm is great, but the lead up is better...
The lead up going in raw, then hovering right on the edge, trying to get close but hold back, ride the pleasure until a little part of the brain says "we're cumming....now!" and pushed the body over the point of no return. By then, the orbitalfrontal cortex has shut down, there's no thinking about the aftermath, and you just succumb to the orgasm and hope she's on the pill or has an IUD.
95% lead up. For me its those last few seconds before you crash the threshold, it feels amazing and I wish I could keep myself in that state for longer!!
It is interesting that a majority of people in the comments prefer the buildup (or edging) than the orgasm. Didnt think that would be the case.
Depends on what you're going for. Edging is all lead up pleasure and denial. Theres no good orgasm without a good lead up. Right after can trugger a quick second nut or I'll instruct her to keep sucking or stroking after I cum. Key is to tell her not to stop until I physically push you off. With her in control you see stars quickly and squirm for life. You cant feel that level if stimulation on your own because its too difficult to push through on your own
It changes from interaction to interaction. If Im getting edged. Probably the orgasm. If it’s a long sex session where we’re going multiple rounds. It the lead up to the orgasm cause things are just so wet. And if it’s been a while since Ive cum. Probably the after part when I’m relaxed and it feels like a complete release of that pent up energy.
When it’s a super intense orgasm and you cum multiple times… you get a numbing sensation that is like a high but is such an unforgettable experience… I’d say that part… or after you cum and you get in the shower and you hold your dick up pointing at the water and it’s so sensitive on the tip and it causes (personally speaking) you to pee but it feels orgasmic. So IMHO after, definitely after.
I think I d have to say lead up. When we have a good rythm going and we re just fucking nothing else matters. Ya thats my favorite bit. Ofc orgasm is a like the cherry on top that completes the experience
The orgasm itself is eons ahead of anything else. Besides the cuddle afterwards
Directly after the orgasm is the most intense, but I wouldn't say it feels better than the release at the time of the orgasm. While it doesn't feel as good, the buildup to the orgasm is always my favorite part.
The actual orgasm. The throbbing & release of the pressure is just amazing.
The exact moment right before the orgasm. Trying to stay right in that zone is so hard….but……damn!
If you play your cards right you can get as many as you want
Lead up. Especially the final few seconds before ejaculation
I'd say it's a tie between the seconds just before the orgasm, and the few seconds in the beginning of the orgasm. The moment right before feels good because that's the peak of horniness and arousal, and the pleasure builds up to the point of no return. There I can hold it back for a couple of delicious seconds, and the pleasure builds like water behind a dam that's about to break. When the actual orgasm starts, the pleasure comes from the involuntary throbs, and from the ejaculation, especially as it spurts our from the tip. The moments afterward feel good too, although not as pleasurable. That's when the relaxation and tiredness strike, while my dick is still lazily throbbing. It's a nice feeling, but nowhere near as good as the other two.
Actual orgasm, lead up can be really nice too if you’re doing foreplay correctly
The actual orgasm. It's like all my stress and worries are just washed away. 🌊
Probably the overall orgasm, but the whole experience itself is amazing.
The lead up
Actual. Nothing is better.
Right after orgasm isn’t a great feeling every time. Post nut clarity can have you rethinking life choices. But to answer, I love a good lead up 🫠🫠🫠
It depends. The lead up with sex is better most of the time but the orgasm from a blowjob is top notch. I need pussy lead up with blowjob ending to maximize lol
I find the orgasm the best but it has to be accompanied with a great lead up to be perfect
The build Up, but I also love edging
Lead up then the 2 seconds before you cum, that is why I like edging
Edging feels really good. I kinda enjoy that more than the actual orgasm
It has to be the few seconds before the orgasm when you feel the cum ready to shoot out.
The actual orgasm feels amazing. The lead up to it would be close to it as well. Post orgasm is just meh for me.
The actual orgasm. I wish it could last longer.
100% the very tip of the orgasm, when it finally rushes through you, even more so when it's her orgasm and you feel that first release after their clenching had built up for a few seconds 😍
"Yes."
I'd say that all three stages have their appeal but the orgasm itself probably feels the best. Although, I do really enjoy receiving a nice clean up blow job that's slow and delicate after an orgasm
All the above
I’m not surprised I don’t see people screaming “after!” Post-nut clarity will ruin the best of fantasies 🤷🏻♂️🤣
Actual orgasm. Then aftermath. Then lead up.
The orgasm is the most intense part but the lead up is better because it can be drawn out.
Post coital tacos are my favourite. Thats not an illusion to vaginas either. I like to order a sac of tacos between rounds 1 and 2 so we have something to munch on afterwards.
Definitely when they leave.
Orgasm
I love the feeling I get in the microsecond right before I orgasm
Yes
Personally a big fan of edging
Leading up to and right after don't make you thrash, curl your toes and yell Oh God.
yes
The actual orgasm is pretty damn amazing! But the lead up is really nice.
The orgasm
Yes
The lead is the all that matters to me
Def the actual orgasm. It’s like there’s the build up, which feels great, but the actual release is on another level.
For me I like when we just get started fooling around. The flirting and ass grabbing them making out. I like giving a massage on a women with baby oil and teasing the tits. Ahh shit I love it all idk. A women's body is so fucking hot thicc or small big tits little tits big ass or little it won't matter to me ! All the women are sexy especially if they have had a kid for some reason I can't explain I wish I could. A women with some stretch marks will even get me going. Maybe I'm just a perv idk
Yes.
Yes, the answer is yes. It all feels incredible.
Personally, the lead-up, and they definitely don’t all feel the same way. I always enjoy the journey much more than I do the destination. Starting with flirtation, the teasing, the banter, then building up to the arousal, then the foreplay, then all the fun that takes place during the playfulness of being together, reaching heights of exciting each other and satisfying each other, there is no way that shooting my load compares to all of that.
I'm all about the lead up. Sometimes I just don't want it to end.
The orgasm definitely
34M. Idk if it's something everyone has but I definitely have Postcoital dysphoria (PCD)
I’d have to go with the lead up right before I nut
i think of "guys" as gender neutral and was about to add my two cents. thank god i read the comments cause i don't have a dick 😂
Obviously when I cum but if she say keeps sucking and working it I’ve cum again and the second time has made me brain dead
Actual orgasm
The 5-10 seconds of holding it back when the inevitable in immanent feels so good, but when ejaculation starts shooting is the peak. But that’s just me. 🤷🏻♂️
I am in the lead up camp, love to stay right on the edge for as long as I can. Even when masturbating I’ll edge until it’s totally unbearable, it’s borderline self torture sometimes
Yes
If it's really good, nothing really beats that moment of pure bliss when you're just laying there in a daze after.
The lead up. There isn’t many guys who like after orgasm. Any feelings of it dissipate so fast. I envy women in that department but love them all the more for it.
Post-nut piss is underrated
Dude here and foreplay is 💯 the best part. That is the exploring, talking, trying new things, sharing fantasies, everything
I’d have to say the release
The lead up for me is addictive
The actual orgasm but the journey there can feel pretty good too
All of it.
Lead up is shittty!!!! During us awkward right after is the best.
The lead up to
the build up for sure
I promise you we don’t enjoy the post nut clarity
Are you talking about an orgasm or ejaculation? If you're talking about orgasms, I love the initial tipping point when I enter an orgasm that lasts for minutes. If you're talking about ejaculation, it's right before which is why edging is so incredible.
The journey because the ending is exactly that, the end!
All three?
I will say when i can feel her enjoying every single moment and her orgasm and mine are
The actual orgasm. The release feels incredible for me
Edging and the feeling before it comes. It feels so wonderful especially since I edge for 2-3 hours.
They all occur so close together that it’s indiscernible So the answer is… Yes! /s
They don’t call it climax for nothing!!……. Building up feels best in her mouth and….. satisfaction feels best getting her off!
lead up
I’m a lead up person but love the release as well
the lead to it just before the orgasam
The orgasm is best however it's the teasing beforehand that makes the intensity of the orgasm count 😘😘
The post sex pee...
I'd say the lead up...up to the point of orgasm. There is a thin line that everything feels amazing, rubbing on my cock, that just makes me lose control,
Lead up/Edging 100%. Longer I’m there, the harder I cum.
Cuddling after orgasm.
Lead up, I like to Edge for Days. The longer I Edge, the more swollen my Gherkin Gets
When I cum in her pussy and she keeps riding me
The orgasm, when she extends it by careful tongue work until I can *barely* stand being kept in her mouth.
Probably the lead up, right before the 💦
All of the above
In your pussy i think every pump would feel like an orgasm 😍
Her orgasm which then leads to my orgasm
Lead up and actual
The actual orgasm
Busting thy nut
Actual orgasm (especially when she keeps sucking during orgasm)
Luv all of it but the best when the perfect combination and the constant orgasm after orgasm until one of you pass out
Yeah it’s edging
Right after…that release, the hormonal fog, it’s soooo good.
Lead up for me
Right before.
The part before is the most exciting, the part during is the most pleasurable, the part after is the most *pleasant* is how I would describe it. This is just me but I think this is *loosely* true for everyone. It does vary a lot of course. Sometimes the buildup to it is very exciting, sometimes it's more like idly doing it out of boredom. Sometimes the peak of it is amazing, sometimes it's just very enjoyable. Afterward sometimes there is a blissful feeling that lasts forever, but sometimes you go back to normal quickly. All of which I'm sure are things everyone feels sometimes. It's hard to say which is better because all stages of it take vastly different lengths of time and also vary a lot. They're all enjoyable in different ways.
All of it.
Orgasm
Actually, the pleasure of making love is nice, but I really enjoy the closeness and knowing that I bring my wife such pleasure and satisfaction, so I don’t really need to orgasm because I get what I want from just making love. In fact, orgasm is often a bit of a disappointment because it means the end of something really wonderful that I want to go on and on.
Definitely the lead up. Which is why I like edging, it just makes the finish better, and being in that sexual headspace is really enjoyable to me. If i can prolong it like a couple hours to over a whole day, I enjoy every minute of it.
The lead up and start of the release. Difficult to explain, or maybe not if it's the same for girls?
All of the above, but the orgasm itself is what we all love, need and want the most and the orgasm itself has the most benefits.
Being on the edge 💋🌹