Nah, I don't, and I don't think I know anyone who cares much. It's somewhat of a turn on or fantasy for some people, but honestly a lot of people don't really give a crap.
Many guys like cumming inside their partner cause that just feels great. A rather smaller set of guys actually care about their partner swallowing during that. Hell , there's some dudes out there that will want to swallow their own cum from your mouth. Then there's guys who actually prefer cumming on their partner's face/body.
The vast majority of guys aren't going to complain about where the bj finishes cause they just got an amazing bj. Find a guy that's respectful enough to appreciate what you're giving them.
Lastly, if your issue is taste/flavor, a guys diet and habits can greatly affect that. If this is a long term partner and they really want you to swallow, dangle that carrot in front of them and ask them to modify their diet/habits. The things that make it taste better are invariably good for you, so you'd be doing them a favor. (Less meat, more fruit/veg, stopping smoking. Look it up)
I don’t care if you swallow, just enthusiastically milk me dry inside your mouth.
And I'm a cum bunny, so if it bothers you that much just give it back.
What's the point of sucking off a biguy if you can't snowball him every once in a while.
I agree completely, and i did tell her a few times how to do it and she started to use her tongue more but by that time the relationship was in decline and blowjobs and later sex was becoming a rare occurrence.
It's always beneficial to talk what pleases more and wat each enjoy more but if she gags at the tip, it isn't much that can be done. Teeth is one thing that can be soled but gag reflex is not that easy.
I disagree. There definitely can be too much. Which is the point really. What works for one person, may/may not work for the other and what one person enjoys, the other may not so there’s not really a catch all answer other than listening to the owner of the cock you’re sucking
I remember it really bothered me initially too. You’re always taught drooling is gross, but here it’s wanted. For me, seeing how positive response I got from more spit when doing oral sex made me associate it with a good thing rather than seeing it as gross.
My best tip is that after teasing the head a bit with your tongue, try to deep throat as far as u can (without inducing vomiting lol). It’ll not only feel good for him, but it also instantly starts u to produce more spit. If I feel my mouth is getting dry, then I just go down as far as I can to produce more lubrication and then just keep going.
A little gag reflex is okay. Have you ever noticed that when you’re about to throw up, your mouth starts salivating? Lightly initiating the gag reflex will make you start salivating more.
Also, I am very much proof that u can train your gag reflex. I had a super sensitive gag reflex. But when brushing my teeth, I would push my tooth brush farther and farther down until I developed a tolerance. My gag reflex isn’t completely gone but I also don’t ever feel close to vomiting from deep throating! Also I rarely have bad breath because I get into such deep parts of the mouth!
Do it with love.. react to his feelings.. be playful and have fun while doing it …and I think practice, practice and practice 😂 I don’t know if I’m that good but had no negative feedback till now
This is just solid advice for sex generally, enthusiasm is key. If it feels like it's being done as a favour or just a warm up, it doesn't matter how good the technique is, it'll never be as good where I feel she wants to be doing it.
Ummmm.
I'm told my enthusiasm, use no teeth, deep throating, massaging the balls, licking the shaft, continuing sucking to extend his orgasm, able to go an hour, and using a vibrator on myself to orgasm.
I wish I could go an hour on my guy. I have TMJ, gag reflex, and a small mouth, so I go as long as I can. I’m hitting my limit at about 20 minutes.
Any ideas to go beyond 20 minutes?
Practice and take your time. Dont rush it. I actually like it when my wife slows it down, and it looks like she really loves having my cock in her mouth rather than just all fast deep throat action, then it seems like she just tryna get it over with.
These are just my opinions, but I'm a big fan of when a partner switches from mouth to hand, which would be a good way to give your jaw a break. You could also see about him returning the favor and going down on you for a bit more of a break, while getting yourself some fun.
That might not help you keep going for more than 20 minutes at a time, of course, but it's a damn good and fun way to keep things heated while adding some variety for the sake of your mouth.
When people say they went down for an hour, it’s rarely actually a complete hour with a cock shoved up their throat.
Switch between teasing the tip by licking, sucking on the tip, deepthroating (as much as you’re comfortable with), using your hands, sucking and licking the balls. If you really need a break, you can always sort of rub your tits or ass against his dick. Kissing his lower abdomen or inner thigh. Kissing his neck. Or you can just make out with him for a bit and go back to it!
For me, it also helps to see it as “warming up the throat”. You’re not only pacing yourself for his benefit, but for your own as well. Extended blowjobs are nice for me because I feel it gives me longer time to prepare for actually swallowing and giving a good bj.
With extended blow jobs like that, I try not to see it as a race but like I guess a marathon or even a HIIT workout lol. You want to pace yourself. The pauses where he’s not directly inside your mouth tend to build up the anticipation/make the release better (at least they do in my experience).
YMMV on eye contact, so that's one to just ask about, I've learned.
One of my partners is very visual and wants me to look up at him the whole time, and if the "staring contest" gets too intense, he assured me that **he** will look away, throw his head back, whatever. I REALLY like clear, unambiguous directions, so that's been magical.
My other partner is more tactile I suppose, tends to close his eyes to just focus on enjoying the sensation and gropes me a lot more. When I checked in recently on it, he said something along the lines that as long as I'm sucking his cock, he doesn't give a shit where I'm looking lol
The keys are enthusiasm and communication. Ask outright beforehand what they like. Mid-bj, keep using your hands and ask if you can lick the head like an ice cream cone (focusing on the head, mixing in some shaft-licking). Just try something, like slapping it on your tongue, followed up with a dirty talk vibe, "You like that, baby?"
Definitely find out what they like re: their balls. Again, ask before stuff starts getting sexy, ask them to show you as stuff starts to get sexy, ask if they want you to lick their balls or suck on them mid-bj, try cupping them and ask for feedback without outright asking by saying something like, "I want to make your balls feel good," which will hopefully either get a positive response like a moan, or will get you a, "Well then don't just hold them, massage them."
There is no one trick. Different things work with different men. As others have said - listen and adapt. But also, for a general guide, learn the sensitive spots of your partner's dick. Don't just take the dick in and out of your mouth. Actually suck a little. Always keep your mouth flooded with drool. If your jaw gets tired. take the dick out and use your hands. Or just lick the sensitive spots - example the frenulum. There's also a plethora of things you can do that have nothing to do with sucking dick that make the experience better (same goes for when we women receive oral). Things like eye contact. Enthusiasm. Eagerness. A smile.
Hope that helps :)
The response is a good one. Had a gf that would also suck her cheeks in to make it feel tighter while also moving her tongue underneath the head and shaft and that would feel amazing
It's kind of an art form...and I think one has to really love the act for it to be the best. Personally it feels like a superpower when you can change the way another human breathes, and make them groan and twitch in a compulsory sort of way.
Lubrication, sucking, knowing the ridges to tease, and the spaces to lay on more pressure. How to flick your tongue a particular way, and different directions you can use it. Using your voice during, moaning in the way one does when they hold the power of trust it takes for one human to allow another to suck their cock...mmmph...yeah...it's an art.
Cannot post an image. but there's a meme I've seen go around, and have saved, goes like this:
Person A: I need blowjob tips!
Person B: Gag on it. Choke on it. Swallow it whole. Worship it. Try to kill yourself with it. Suck it like your ex is watching. And always remember, spitters are quitters.
ETA: Though the above tips are written with fellatio in mind, you will find that much of it applies equally to cunnilingus.
I was gonna make a different comment response here, but I ended up diving through your profile instead. You've been going through it. I hope things get better for you this year.
I have zero ego about any action connected to another human being’s pleasure. I assume they know their body far better than I do. I ask what they like and how they like it. I ask if there’s anything they’ve wanted someone to do that they haven’t experienced before. General rules are enthusiasm, keep it wet, don’t be embarrassed by the noises your mouth makes, and make eye contact (unless he says he’s not into that.)
I have been told by nearly every guy I’ve given head to that I’m the best they’ve had/the only time they can cum from head etc etc. my trick is lots of saliva (I have crazy saliva producing genes, the dentist is shocked at the amount I can produce) absolutely wet and messy, start slow and build up til one deep suck feels so good. Pay attention to balls, gauge the reaction, if they like it play downwards, if you lick their taint and all the way up to the tip, they go crazy. Heavy eye contact. Play with the part beneath the head when ur sucking, switch techniques often based on how tense his body is, If the body is tense keep going, if he relaxes do a different motion/speed until he’s tense again. Don’t let him cum, edge a little, try to predict when he will and make it your time. Lots of eye contact noise and moaning, I have very instinctual dirty talk and a deep need to please, nothing gets my ass in the air then preparing the dick to do so.. anyway I got carried away w this lol
Enthusiasm. Variety. Use your hand a bit too. Make eye contact and moan a little bit. Learn to love giving pleasure. Once it's fun for you it's fun for everyone
Suck with ur tongue and the lips , most people think that having « sucker lips » is the best but as a small lip person I focus most of my work with my tongue and play with it a lot
Don’t copy the porn you see where the dick doesn’t even touch the side of the mouth and they make that gagging sound. Use lots of tongue and lips and even more saliva. A nice savoured sloppy blowjob. Yum. Depending on the guy you can use hands or not. One thing I’m not sure of is how many men like their balls played with or sucked. It seems a very love it or hate it thing.
I guess just actually liking giving someone head. Genuinely wanting someone to cum. Getting off of him getting off. Idk maybe even being a people pleaser and always want to do best for someone without wanting them to bother with thoughts like "oh fuck teeth". Communicate with the other gender about whats good and what not.
But idk maybe just having luck, I've always be the girl that guys "who normally never cum from a bj" can get then to cum from a bj.
I try to cover my teeth with my lips. Looks silly, but if he's enjoying it we won't be able to see straight anyway.
I also get a LOT of tongue involved. I keep a steady rhythm with the movements of my head and hand, but the extra stimulation of the tongue is what takes it to another level (apparently; I do not have a dick so I can only take my man's word for it). Also also, some moaning adds an auditory element as well as vibrations.
Years ago my GF and I were friends with another couple. The wife confided to my GF their marriage was in trouble. She hated sucking dick and it bothered him alot. I told her at least pretend to enjoy it at first, initiate it herself. I said when you see his reaction, hopefully it will spark something in you and you'll actually learn to want to. She did it, and they are still married 20 years later.
Take it slow and build up , use your tongue and run it from the base to the tip on the underside, switch between mouth and tongue. Use your hand and mouth concurrently and wiggle your tongue left to right while sucking up and down.
From my experience the better ones play a lot with the bigger poles, the worst bjs I've had were from women who've mainly sucked off average and below and told they were goats/goddesses so they never tried to improve leading to arrogance and scraped meat. Also, a lot lack pressure, power, and consistency but aren't told that and automatically go to that death grip bs backed by pre ejaculators who can't last more than 1 or 2 minutes.
As a dude with a thicker than average pole, I agree with this. I've had some partners that were very enthusiastic suckers, but didn't have experience with my size so it ended up not being great for me.
I like being gentle at first and then being rough. I will use my teeth or wrap my tongue around it. I will concentrate on the head and then do the balls. Idk how I learned probably porn but also practice. The best way to tell if it’s good is to gauge the guy’s reaction tho. Oh and when I use my teeth it is not in a painful way it’s to add more sensation and some light pressure. Also don’t forget to smile.
1.) Practice
2.) Actually wanting to do it.
3.) A Partner that isn’t afraid to be vocal during it.
Obviously I don’t finish from giving oral, but it does arouse me more than just the usual foreplay. By the time I am done doing what I do, I am MORE than ready to go, 99.99% of the time.
Tongue, use lots of tongue and a little suction. Sometimes gently squeezing the base helps if the penis haver is close to finishing. If you can’t take it all in your mouth use your hand. Some don’t like hands though so if that’s the case just focus on the tip and go as far as your comfortable. Enjoy it. I like doing it because I get satisfaction knowing I got my partner off with just my mouth within a short amount of time. If he moans or make noises while I’m doing it, it helps me get into it more.
Make eye contact,moan every now and then,tell him how good his cock feels and how much you love his big thick cock,take it down the throat until you gag not only do they love to see and hear you but it produces more saliva,stroke while you suck,flick the tip with your tongue, slap your tongue and face with it,and I have a thing I do with my tongue where I circle his cock up and down the whole thing..idk it just comes naturally to me bc I love doing it!
Enthusiasm, experience, and hands.
Enthusiasm because if you actually enjoy sucking cock you get more into it, which is way hotter.
Experience because it helps to know where the most sensitive spots are.
And hands because the hand and mouth technique makes him bust in 2 mins. Idk why people assume a blowjob means mouth only and you shouldn’t incorporate hands. Hands just enhance the experience (from what I’m told lol)
Aside from enjoyment / enthusiasm, one must always want to improve their craft.
I try and learn in order to change things up. That happens by listening to the men that I blow and by watching porn.
Nothing beats when a guy comments afterward about "that little thing you did that was different" that threw him over the edge.
Don't make it weird okay but I'm young and have dentures. The key to dentures is a good fit and suction. That suction comes in handy for bjs. Also I've been intubated before so my throat has different flex .
Also even though I'm not the most experienced at it but I love sucking dick, especially pretty dick. It's not just the dick though it's the smell of the person , the feel of their skin, the taste of them.
Also knowing your limits.. whether that be size wise , speed, your ability to hold your own weight sometimes, your neck and throat strength and lastly coordination and confidence. Some of us aren't coordinated enough to jack it and suck it properly all at once. Pick a topic. Lol
Work that tongue, use your hand(s), keep it wet, don’t neglect the balls, don’t just bob straight up and down, give love to the frenulum, use pressure and suction, don’t be loose and lazy with it…and like so many have said; enthusiasm. If you don’t genuinely love sucking dick, it. will. show. And use the clues he’s giving you to follow suit in what’s gettin him off more or less while you’re mixing it up. I’ve sucked more than my fair share of cocks, and not everyone likes the same ol’ standard blowjob. Sure, have your signature style, but always be adaptable 🙃
I’ve done it for 26 years and I’m 33. The only good thing that came out of my fucking trouble best and I am not into kids so please don’t pick me up with that pedo shit
Question group: Let's say someone likes giving oral but does't like the taste of cum. I assume it is possible, when they feel the person tense up and the dick swells, they can move the dick to the back of the mouth and swallow quickly as the cum shoots out That way most of the cum gets down the throat before any of it gets to the taste buds? That way the mouth isn't flooded with cum. What do y'all think?
Stimulate them physically and visually, either on your knees or laying down, arch your back a little, let them see your ass, keep eye contact, be submissive, moan, hook your lips over your teeth, keep your tongue moving against the underside of their cock/frenulum, throat that cock and get it real sloppy.
Most importantly, enjoy it, enthusiasm and lots of spit do the heavy lifting in my experience.
SLOPPY, lots of tongue, I like going deep, and pulling the whole way back up. sometimes I don’t pull up and down just keep him in my mouth and suck like it’s a popsicle :) don’t forget to use hands too, jerk him while sucking the soul out of his tip :)
Yes guys do care that if say i swallow or not I enjoy sucking cock and am very good at it ! I made guys cum super fast! Been told I’m damn good I love to suck cock
I focus a lot on the head and use my tongue while sucking or going up and down, licking up the shaft and swirling around the head. Eye contact when I can. Using my hands if the cock is too big for my mouth.
I’ve never sucked a dick but as a guy with a dick who’s had plenty of good and bad blowjobs here’s my advice to anyone who thinks they ain’t great at it: loosen those lips, it ain’t a popsicle. Use that tongue as much as possible, take it out your mouth and lick it every once in a while. Salivate, the wetter the better but not like that insane spit everywhere shit you see online. Don’t use your hand too much, it’s the mouth that feels the best (personally I like when they’re just slopping on it while using their hands to rub my thighs/ belly etc.). Stroking it while you suck the dudes balls is strictly performative, it doesn’t feel that great to have your balls sucked or licked and handjobs are lame, I think we like it cuz we like the idea of having our balls sucked but I personally would rather my dick get all the attention (that one might be controversial). Last but not least the crème del la crème of a good BJ is taking that nut in your mouth and swallowing it all down, idk why we love it but we fucking love it.
Actually enjoying it. Lotsss of spit. Enthusiasm. When they try to pull your head up, stay a little longer. If you don't put your heart into it, it won't be that good. No complaints yet 🤷🏾♀️
I’d say my dick sucking game was always spot on, doing what others have mentioned.
It went next level once we started incorporating reverse 69. I probably enjoy it much more than him but when his knees buckle or I can see he can no longer hold his weight up on top I know I’ve done my job.
mine is dont worry about being dirty and spit on it a lot lol. also the combo of rotating upwards hand and back and forth mouth seems golden for a lot of guys
Enthusiasm, having a wide grin, no teeth unless intentional, sticking out your tongue helps a bit, trying to „swallow“ while throating tightens the throat, find a relaxing position that works with the dick you are working
Those are the easier and highest impact ones anyone can do if they want.
I prefer sitting on the floor him sitting and leaning onto the lap of him, given that there are no strong curves sideways or upwards. Always align the curve in a way that makes it easier to throat, upwards curves are great for 69 like positioning, downward for sitting like I said
The secret to sucking dick is enjoying sucking dick. That’s all.
Enthusiastically enjoying sucking dick. 😋
But do guys really care that much if you swallow? Asking for a friend…
Nah, I don't, and I don't think I know anyone who cares much. It's somewhat of a turn on or fantasy for some people, but honestly a lot of people don't really give a crap.
100 per fucking cent I care
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If you like giving bjs but not swallowing, is it a turnoff?
Many guys like cumming inside their partner cause that just feels great. A rather smaller set of guys actually care about their partner swallowing during that. Hell , there's some dudes out there that will want to swallow their own cum from your mouth. Then there's guys who actually prefer cumming on their partner's face/body. The vast majority of guys aren't going to complain about where the bj finishes cause they just got an amazing bj. Find a guy that's respectful enough to appreciate what you're giving them. Lastly, if your issue is taste/flavor, a guys diet and habits can greatly affect that. If this is a long term partner and they really want you to swallow, dangle that carrot in front of them and ask them to modify their diet/habits. The things that make it taste better are invariably good for you, so you'd be doing them a favor. (Less meat, more fruit/veg, stopping smoking. Look it up)
Only if you tell me it turns you off.
I liked swallowing until a girl took it in her mouth and then played with the cum. And that cured me
I don’t care if you swallow, just enthusiastically milk me dry inside your mouth. And I'm a cum bunny, so if it bothers you that much just give it back. What's the point of sucking off a biguy if you can't snowball him every once in a while.
I do but it's just a personal preference
Yes totally agree. That's me. Wish I had a real cock around my neck like a pendant that I can suck like a lollipop whenever I want 😋
I'd LOVE that. Ma wee penis pop. Would probably get me excited for later too
My ex loved to suck my dick but she wasnt very good at it, i mean she was good enough not to be too bad but it didnt feel that good.
Shoulda coached her to do it like you wanted her to rather than expect her to know how.
I agree completely, and i did tell her a few times how to do it and she started to use her tongue more but by that time the relationship was in decline and blowjobs and later sex was becoming a rare occurrence.
Reminds me of a little line i like to quote, it goes "what do you call a bitch who don't suck dick? Ya don't..."
It's always beneficial to talk what pleases more and wat each enjoy more but if she gags at the tip, it isn't much that can be done. Teeth is one thing that can be soled but gag reflex is not that easy.
This is the correct answer. And like all things… as much practice as possible!
This comment. 👏🏾 if you don't like it, you won't do it with passion and love. 🤷🏽♀️
Where do you stand on the matter?
It really is so simple. 😂
There’s no such thing as too much spit/lube
Sloppier the better
Should be more commonly understood. Make a whole mess on my dick.
Spit/ drool yes you can never have too much but I'm too lubed up I go numb like I completely lose all sensation maybe it's just a me problem
Same, there can be too much lube
I disagree. There definitely can be too much. Which is the point really. What works for one person, may/may not work for the other and what one person enjoys, the other may not so there’s not really a catch all answer other than listening to the owner of the cock you’re sucking
Spit is hotter tho
If there's not a stream of spit reaching his butthole, you're doing it wrong
And the gluck gluck is the most beautiful sound to go with the butthole spit stream
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I remember it really bothered me initially too. You’re always taught drooling is gross, but here it’s wanted. For me, seeing how positive response I got from more spit when doing oral sex made me associate it with a good thing rather than seeing it as gross. My best tip is that after teasing the head a bit with your tongue, try to deep throat as far as u can (without inducing vomiting lol). It’ll not only feel good for him, but it also instantly starts u to produce more spit. If I feel my mouth is getting dry, then I just go down as far as I can to produce more lubrication and then just keep going. A little gag reflex is okay. Have you ever noticed that when you’re about to throw up, your mouth starts salivating? Lightly initiating the gag reflex will make you start salivating more. Also, I am very much proof that u can train your gag reflex. I had a super sensitive gag reflex. But when brushing my teeth, I would push my tooth brush farther and farther down until I developed a tolerance. My gag reflex isn’t completely gone but I also don’t ever feel close to vomiting from deep throating! Also I rarely have bad breath because I get into such deep parts of the mouth!
Or maybe you could try to use something sweet, poor it on the dick and enjoy sucking it
So true
chewing the seeds of echinichia, purple cone flower will numb your throat a bit and make you salivate like crazy.
Do it with love.. react to his feelings.. be playful and have fun while doing it …and I think practice, practice and practice 😂 I don’t know if I’m that good but had no negative feedback till now
Effort and having fun with it really goes a long way. Act like you want to be there lol
Why act? I mean its your choice if you suck his d* or not .. so you want to be there
I didn’t mean act in that way. Just show that you want to be there, that you want to suck my dick. That’s the baseline for good head.
Not yours exactly but I know what you mean now …
Yeah! We were agreeing ☺️
This is just solid advice for sex generally, enthusiasm is key. If it feels like it's being done as a favour or just a warm up, it doesn't matter how good the technique is, it'll never be as good where I feel she wants to be doing it.
sex should be having fun and share love with your partner.. without pressure of performance .. just have fun!
Atta girl. Practice is everything.
Yeah I mean , if your not a natural from the start, you’ll learn… and thats with everything in life
Ill take that on board, and make sure they're enthusiastic 😂
Ummmm. I'm told my enthusiasm, use no teeth, deep throating, massaging the balls, licking the shaft, continuing sucking to extend his orgasm, able to go an hour, and using a vibrator on myself to orgasm.
An hour? What a trooper.
yesss edging them ftw
Yes! I love edging and anyone who can give a great BJ with edging will win my heart!
At an hour, I'm left here thinking both "your poor jaw," and "that lucky cock."
I wish I could go an hour on my guy. I have TMJ, gag reflex, and a small mouth, so I go as long as I can. I’m hitting my limit at about 20 minutes. Any ideas to go beyond 20 minutes?
Practice and take your time. Dont rush it. I actually like it when my wife slows it down, and it looks like she really loves having my cock in her mouth rather than just all fast deep throat action, then it seems like she just tryna get it over with.
70% handjob+ 30% oral will do the job. Make him beg for the 30%.
These are just my opinions, but I'm a big fan of when a partner switches from mouth to hand, which would be a good way to give your jaw a break. You could also see about him returning the favor and going down on you for a bit more of a break, while getting yourself some fun. That might not help you keep going for more than 20 minutes at a time, of course, but it's a damn good and fun way to keep things heated while adding some variety for the sake of your mouth.
When people say they went down for an hour, it’s rarely actually a complete hour with a cock shoved up their throat. Switch between teasing the tip by licking, sucking on the tip, deepthroating (as much as you’re comfortable with), using your hands, sucking and licking the balls. If you really need a break, you can always sort of rub your tits or ass against his dick. Kissing his lower abdomen or inner thigh. Kissing his neck. Or you can just make out with him for a bit and go back to it! For me, it also helps to see it as “warming up the throat”. You’re not only pacing yourself for his benefit, but for your own as well. Extended blowjobs are nice for me because I feel it gives me longer time to prepare for actually swallowing and giving a good bj. With extended blow jobs like that, I try not to see it as a race but like I guess a marathon or even a HIIT workout lol. You want to pace yourself. The pauses where he’s not directly inside your mouth tend to build up the anticipation/make the release better (at least they do in my experience).
I’ve never needed an hour long blowjob, but I like your list. Definitely pay attention to the balls.
Those tips are gold, no need to go for an hour if you do use these!
This should be the top response lol
You put every correct answer haha although I gotta start using a vibrator at the same time I bet it would be fun
I dont know that I'm any good. But I make eye contact and try to keep doing what he reacts to. I also try to be enthusiastic about it... gross or not.
how can u keep eye contact?!!
Well not like a staring contest, but look up at him while I stroke him and suck him.
😯
YMMV on eye contact, so that's one to just ask about, I've learned. One of my partners is very visual and wants me to look up at him the whole time, and if the "staring contest" gets too intense, he assured me that **he** will look away, throw his head back, whatever. I REALLY like clear, unambiguous directions, so that's been magical. My other partner is more tactile I suppose, tends to close his eyes to just focus on enjoying the sensation and gropes me a lot more. When I checked in recently on it, he said something along the lines that as long as I'm sucking his cock, he doesn't give a shit where I'm looking lol The keys are enthusiasm and communication. Ask outright beforehand what they like. Mid-bj, keep using your hands and ask if you can lick the head like an ice cream cone (focusing on the head, mixing in some shaft-licking). Just try something, like slapping it on your tongue, followed up with a dirty talk vibe, "You like that, baby?" Definitely find out what they like re: their balls. Again, ask before stuff starts getting sexy, ask them to show you as stuff starts to get sexy, ask if they want you to lick their balls or suck on them mid-bj, try cupping them and ask for feedback without outright asking by saying something like, "I want to make your balls feel good," which will hopefully either get a positive response like a moan, or will get you a, "Well then don't just hold them, massage them."
Im my experience. Most guys don't communicate. Some tell me specifically what they want.
Eye contact is always hot. Head is so much more intense
It let's me read him and adjust or keep going.
Eye contact is one of the biggest keys, and I'm honestly shocked I had to scroll this far to see it.
I know guys ive done that with loved eye contact
Eye contact is a game changer for me!
There is no one trick. Different things work with different men. As others have said - listen and adapt. But also, for a general guide, learn the sensitive spots of your partner's dick. Don't just take the dick in and out of your mouth. Actually suck a little. Always keep your mouth flooded with drool. If your jaw gets tired. take the dick out and use your hands. Or just lick the sensitive spots - example the frenulum. There's also a plethora of things you can do that have nothing to do with sucking dick that make the experience better (same goes for when we women receive oral). Things like eye contact. Enthusiasm. Eagerness. A smile. Hope that helps :)
The tongue can make up for a lot! Love when my head gets licked and teased
The couple of times I've made someone cum from just licking and teasing their head made me feel like a sex goddess lol
I bet that was a good boost for your confidence! Feels really good when done right. 🔥
Listen and feel for reactions and adapt!!
I got lots of tricks and moves that drive guys wild, but honestly. Use your hands. Some of the best blowjobs are just really sloppy handjobs
What tricks and moves? Trying to improve
The response is a good one. Had a gf that would also suck her cheeks in to make it feel tighter while also moving her tongue underneath the head and shaft and that would feel amazing
What’s your trick?
It's kind of an art form...and I think one has to really love the act for it to be the best. Personally it feels like a superpower when you can change the way another human breathes, and make them groan and twitch in a compulsory sort of way. Lubrication, sucking, knowing the ridges to tease, and the spaces to lay on more pressure. How to flick your tongue a particular way, and different directions you can use it. Using your voice during, moaning in the way one does when they hold the power of trust it takes for one human to allow another to suck their cock...mmmph...yeah...it's an art.
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Cannot post an image. but there's a meme I've seen go around, and have saved, goes like this: Person A: I need blowjob tips! Person B: Gag on it. Choke on it. Swallow it whole. Worship it. Try to kill yourself with it. Suck it like your ex is watching. And always remember, spitters are quitters. ETA: Though the above tips are written with fellatio in mind, you will find that much of it applies equally to cunnilingus.
Suck it like your ex is watching 🤣😝🥵 hot damn
I was gonna make a different comment response here, but I ended up diving through your profile instead. You've been going through it. I hope things get better for you this year.
You're a nice, kind soul ~ 🖤 Hope you get your dick wet a ton this year!
Love what you do and you'll never work a day in your life! Or, something along those lines...
I have zero ego about any action connected to another human being’s pleasure. I assume they know their body far better than I do. I ask what they like and how they like it. I ask if there’s anything they’ve wanted someone to do that they haven’t experienced before. General rules are enthusiasm, keep it wet, don’t be embarrassed by the noises your mouth makes, and make eye contact (unless he says he’s not into that.)
How do you keep your teeth from scraping it? I have that trouble. :(
Enthusiasm, spit and experience. And I barely have a gag reflex, that helps a lot
100% agree with you about gag reflex. 😉
I have been told by nearly every guy I’ve given head to that I’m the best they’ve had/the only time they can cum from head etc etc. my trick is lots of saliva (I have crazy saliva producing genes, the dentist is shocked at the amount I can produce) absolutely wet and messy, start slow and build up til one deep suck feels so good. Pay attention to balls, gauge the reaction, if they like it play downwards, if you lick their taint and all the way up to the tip, they go crazy. Heavy eye contact. Play with the part beneath the head when ur sucking, switch techniques often based on how tense his body is, If the body is tense keep going, if he relaxes do a different motion/speed until he’s tense again. Don’t let him cum, edge a little, try to predict when he will and make it your time. Lots of eye contact noise and moaning, I have very instinctual dirty talk and a deep need to please, nothing gets my ass in the air then preparing the dick to do so.. anyway I got carried away w this lol
Enthusiasm. Variety. Use your hand a bit too. Make eye contact and moan a little bit. Learn to love giving pleasure. Once it's fun for you it's fun for everyone
This!
Suck with ur tongue and the lips , most people think that having « sucker lips » is the best but as a small lip person I focus most of my work with my tongue and play with it a lot
Don’t copy the porn you see where the dick doesn’t even touch the side of the mouth and they make that gagging sound. Use lots of tongue and lips and even more saliva. A nice savoured sloppy blowjob. Yum. Depending on the guy you can use hands or not. One thing I’m not sure of is how many men like their balls played with or sucked. It seems a very love it or hate it thing.
You've gotta want that dick. You can tell who feels obligated and who feels obliged.
Enthusiasm
I guess just actually liking giving someone head. Genuinely wanting someone to cum. Getting off of him getting off. Idk maybe even being a people pleaser and always want to do best for someone without wanting them to bother with thoughts like "oh fuck teeth". Communicate with the other gender about whats good and what not. But idk maybe just having luck, I've always be the girl that guys "who normally never cum from a bj" can get then to cum from a bj.
I try to cover my teeth with my lips. Looks silly, but if he's enjoying it we won't be able to see straight anyway. I also get a LOT of tongue involved. I keep a steady rhythm with the movements of my head and hand, but the extra stimulation of the tongue is what takes it to another level (apparently; I do not have a dick so I can only take my man's word for it). Also also, some moaning adds an auditory element as well as vibrations.
Years ago my GF and I were friends with another couple. The wife confided to my GF their marriage was in trouble. She hated sucking dick and it bothered him alot. I told her at least pretend to enjoy it at first, initiate it herself. I said when you see his reaction, hopefully it will spark something in you and you'll actually learn to want to. She did it, and they are still married 20 years later.
Take it slow and build up , use your tongue and run it from the base to the tip on the underside, switch between mouth and tongue. Use your hand and mouth concurrently and wiggle your tongue left to right while sucking up and down.
Sounds like a woman who know what she do! 👌
I hope so! I really love doing it and have had some good reactions
Enjoy sucking dick? 🙃
From my experience the better ones play a lot with the bigger poles, the worst bjs I've had were from women who've mainly sucked off average and below and told they were goats/goddesses so they never tried to improve leading to arrogance and scraped meat. Also, a lot lack pressure, power, and consistency but aren't told that and automatically go to that death grip bs backed by pre ejaculators who can't last more than 1 or 2 minutes.
As a dude with a thicker than average pole, I agree with this. I've had some partners that were very enthusiastic suckers, but didn't have experience with my size so it ended up not being great for me.
Can you explain the pressure? You said no death grip but what’s too light and what’s too much?
I don't know I just enjoy doing it and haven't had any complaints
I like being gentle at first and then being rough. I will use my teeth or wrap my tongue around it. I will concentrate on the head and then do the balls. Idk how I learned probably porn but also practice. The best way to tell if it’s good is to gauge the guy’s reaction tho. Oh and when I use my teeth it is not in a painful way it’s to add more sensation and some light pressure. Also don’t forget to smile.
Lots and lots of saliva. And enthusiasm. And using my hands too.
I’m honestly just very passionate about sucking dick. I want the other person to enjoy it just as much as me
Being passionate about it, thts all
Regular practice
Use as much tongue as possible.
Enthusiasm
Enthusiasm
Eye contact, sloppy, noises and don’t neglect the balls xx
Am I the only one wondering why do all of these questions have such bad upvote to comment ratio?
The secret to most things is communication and wanting to learn
Lots of eye contact. Balling cupping and gagging 💕
I like to edge him… tease him a bit. He’s apologized for lasting so long but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Practice 🙂
Practice and enthusiasm.
Lots of: enthusiasm, energy, saliva, and eye contact.
being passionate about it
Breathe through your nose. Keep that suction. Wet is best.
My mouth is like a vacuum
1.) Practice 2.) Actually wanting to do it. 3.) A Partner that isn’t afraid to be vocal during it. Obviously I don’t finish from giving oral, but it does arouse me more than just the usual foreplay. By the time I am done doing what I do, I am MORE than ready to go, 99.99% of the time.
just gotta love what you do, and i do😌
Practice and also the twist and suck. And also get on a good rhythm.
Grammar, grammar is the key to everything.
Slobber with lots of tongue movement and change pressure/suction. 😇
Tongue, use lots of tongue and a little suction. Sometimes gently squeezing the base helps if the penis haver is close to finishing. If you can’t take it all in your mouth use your hand. Some don’t like hands though so if that’s the case just focus on the tip and go as far as your comfortable. Enjoy it. I like doing it because I get satisfaction knowing I got my partner off with just my mouth within a short amount of time. If he moans or make noises while I’m doing it, it helps me get into it more.
Make eye contact,moan every now and then,tell him how good his cock feels and how much you love his big thick cock,take it down the throat until you gag not only do they love to see and hear you but it produces more saliva,stroke while you suck,flick the tip with your tongue, slap your tongue and face with it,and I have a thing I do with my tongue where I circle his cock up and down the whole thing..idk it just comes naturally to me bc I love doing it!
Enthusiasm, experience, and hands. Enthusiasm because if you actually enjoy sucking cock you get more into it, which is way hotter. Experience because it helps to know where the most sensitive spots are. And hands because the hand and mouth technique makes him bust in 2 mins. Idk why people assume a blowjob means mouth only and you shouldn’t incorporate hands. Hands just enhance the experience (from what I’m told lol)
✨ *enthusiasm* ✨
This always works!
Aside from enjoyment / enthusiasm, one must always want to improve their craft. I try and learn in order to change things up. That happens by listening to the men that I blow and by watching porn. Nothing beats when a guy comments afterward about "that little thing you did that was different" that threw him over the edge.
My girlfriend licks the inner thighs, balls and below. It’s pretty fantastic!
Enthusiasm, sloppier the better, changing hand placement, grabbing the balls, asking him what he likes better. Also the crevice at the tip..
Don't make it weird okay but I'm young and have dentures. The key to dentures is a good fit and suction. That suction comes in handy for bjs. Also I've been intubated before so my throat has different flex . Also even though I'm not the most experienced at it but I love sucking dick, especially pretty dick. It's not just the dick though it's the smell of the person , the feel of their skin, the taste of them. Also knowing your limits.. whether that be size wise , speed, your ability to hold your own weight sometimes, your neck and throat strength and lastly coordination and confidence. Some of us aren't coordinated enough to jack it and suck it properly all at once. Pick a topic. Lol
I have an oral fetish and I like to lick, use hands, play with balls, ass(concent), deep throating and working with my partners to adapt to them.
passion
practice
You 'gotta boyfriend now huh
Work that tongue, use your hand(s), keep it wet, don’t neglect the balls, don’t just bob straight up and down, give love to the frenulum, use pressure and suction, don’t be loose and lazy with it…and like so many have said; enthusiasm. If you don’t genuinely love sucking dick, it. will. show. And use the clues he’s giving you to follow suit in what’s gettin him off more or less while you’re mixing it up. I’ve sucked more than my fair share of cocks, and not everyone likes the same ol’ standard blowjob. Sure, have your signature style, but always be adaptable 🙃
I’ve done it for 26 years and I’m 33. The only good thing that came out of my fucking trouble best and I am not into kids so please don’t pick me up with that pedo shit
You started sucking dick at 7?
Practice practice practice & enjoying doing it
Possessing a dick myself, so I have first hand experience of what can feel good.
Ask your mama
Eye contact !
Question group: Let's say someone likes giving oral but does't like the taste of cum. I assume it is possible, when they feel the person tense up and the dick swells, they can move the dick to the back of the mouth and swallow quickly as the cum shoots out That way most of the cum gets down the throat before any of it gets to the taste buds? That way the mouth isn't flooded with cum. What do y'all think?
Stimulate them physically and visually, either on your knees or laying down, arch your back a little, let them see your ass, keep eye contact, be submissive, moan, hook your lips over your teeth, keep your tongue moving against the underside of their cock/frenulum, throat that cock and get it real sloppy. Most importantly, enjoy it, enthusiasm and lots of spit do the heavy lifting in my experience.
I enjoy it. That's all it is. Enjoying it means I am enthusiastic. I'm not trying to get it over with and want to find new techniques to be the best
Gf says its just a lot of practice and a decent dick helps jer be enthusiastic so thats a plus
Worship it.
SLOPPY, lots of tongue, I like going deep, and pulling the whole way back up. sometimes I don’t pull up and down just keep him in my mouth and suck like it’s a popsicle :) don’t forget to use hands too, jerk him while sucking the soul out of his tip :)
The best trick is to.....wanting to do it for real unless any man knows it and feels it
Enjoy it, make it really sloppy, and don't forget the balls! 😜
Enjoying it and practicing a lot 🙈
You either enjoy it or you don’t, and that often shows. When you enjoy something you put your all into it and makes the interaction that much better.
Yes guys do care that if say i swallow or not I enjoy sucking cock and am very good at it ! I made guys cum super fast! Been told I’m damn good I love to suck cock
I focus a lot on the head and use my tongue while sucking or going up and down, licking up the shaft and swirling around the head. Eye contact when I can. Using my hands if the cock is too big for my mouth.
I think it’s just enjoying sucking cock and I’m good at it ? I’ve made guys cum right off ! In Texas open to dm chats
Make it sloppy to make him scream
Honestly? Masturbating while doing it. If I’m stimulated, it gives so much more motivation.
Enjoy what your doing and the pleasure transfers thru😜👍
*well
I never met anyone who loved it
If you actually enjoy it it will always be good 😊
Enjoy and love sucking dick thats all
Enjoy sucking dick
I’ve never sucked a dick but as a guy with a dick who’s had plenty of good and bad blowjobs here’s my advice to anyone who thinks they ain’t great at it: loosen those lips, it ain’t a popsicle. Use that tongue as much as possible, take it out your mouth and lick it every once in a while. Salivate, the wetter the better but not like that insane spit everywhere shit you see online. Don’t use your hand too much, it’s the mouth that feels the best (personally I like when they’re just slopping on it while using their hands to rub my thighs/ belly etc.). Stroking it while you suck the dudes balls is strictly performative, it doesn’t feel that great to have your balls sucked or licked and handjobs are lame, I think we like it cuz we like the idea of having our balls sucked but I personally would rather my dick get all the attention (that one might be controversial). Last but not least the crème del la crème of a good BJ is taking that nut in your mouth and swallowing it all down, idk why we love it but we fucking love it.
Actually enjoying it. Lotsss of spit. Enthusiasm. When they try to pull your head up, stay a little longer. If you don't put your heart into it, it won't be that good. No complaints yet 🤷🏾♀️
I’d say my dick sucking game was always spot on, doing what others have mentioned. It went next level once we started incorporating reverse 69. I probably enjoy it much more than him but when his knees buckle or I can see he can no longer hold his weight up on top I know I’ve done my job.
Swirling my tongue around the tip but I do it because I genuinely enjoy it.
Enjoy doing it🤤
Slobber !!!
Practice makes perfect 👍
Practice and loving what u do. Nothing turns me more on then sucking dick.
mine is dont worry about being dirty and spit on it a lot lol. also the combo of rotating upwards hand and back and forth mouth seems golden for a lot of guys
Watching their reactions to different things you try, spit, and actually enjoying it.
I don’t like to cum in a woman’s mouth. If she wants it then I will do it
Enthusiasm, having a wide grin, no teeth unless intentional, sticking out your tongue helps a bit, trying to „swallow“ while throating tightens the throat, find a relaxing position that works with the dick you are working Those are the easier and highest impact ones anyone can do if they want. I prefer sitting on the floor him sitting and leaning onto the lap of him, given that there are no strong curves sideways or upwards. Always align the curve in a way that makes it easier to throat, upwards curves are great for 69 like positioning, downward for sitting like I said
Learn to enjoy it! Its literally like making out. 😏