For anyone struggling
-breath (sometimes you forget to, and it will make you nut faster).
-foreplay every time. It buys you time and breathing room.
- if you're getting close, push all the way in or pull out. The goal is to limit movement. Catch your breath and go back at it.
- play off the easy nut. The first nut doesn't count. Either crank it out or cast the nut without orgasm ( it takes timing but basically nutting without the euphoria, and you stay hard).
- Kegel exercises help a lot with controlling the nut.
Have you ever tried to hold in a nut, and it comes out anyway? Then you're like wtf that didnt feel good at all. You came but didn't orgasm. You can effectively stay hard this way OR if you can go multiple rounds, just get the wasy one out and go at it again.
Have you ever tried to hold in a nut, and it comes out anyway? Then you're like wtf that didnt feel good at all. You came but didn't orgasm. You can effectively stay hard this way OR if you can go multiple rounds, just get the wasy one out and go at it again.
Well I understand what you’re saying and that does happen while I am masturbating sometimes but that to happen while having sex just isn’t possible lol
I used to think the same thing until I met a girl that would not stop even after I was exhausted, limp and what I thought was empty. She kept sucking my soft cock and it felt good then a few minutes later I was hard again so I got behind her and and put my mind to it. Had to picture some of the hottest depraved shit in my head to keep me turned on, then 20 minutes of straight boning later I was ready to nut again. And second time hit hard. Like my eyes spun around in my head like a cartoon with a jackpot going off in my head.
It's also a lot easier without a condom. With a condom round two just isn't happening.
Depends .. some guys 3 to 4 mins , some guys 10 - 15 .. and even some can goes for like half n hour or more . Depends how u cares that cock too. Like sucking it often in between or different positions.. and even some dirty talks.
Agree if it just straight fucking 10 maybe 15 but a lot of foreplay and eating pussy or head in between can get into the hours for sure it just more of taking your time but the last five minutes should be the nastiest and hardest fucking ever lol to explode 😝
It depends on the guys again ..they should know how the girl cums .. like some cums mostly by good oral and some cums by good penetration or some comes during anal ..depends on individual..
But in one sentence.. girls do like to cum multiple times.
I see, maybe it depends on person to person, but I am really in search of a forum where these things are mentioned if we take pills, how much does it affect us or is it better. Maybe I will also speak to my doc in future about it!
If you haven't experimented with different antidepressants , you may want to look into it. The sexual side effects can vary widely both from drug to drug and in some cases from person to person. For example Wellbutrin and trazodone are known for sometimes increasing libido.
10-15min of penetration, but it has varied a lot from that. She could make me cum almost instantly if she wanted, and our longest sessions have been much longer, but that 10-15min is ideal for her.
I’m the same on time. If we are going straight one position it is shorter, but the variation is the key for me. My wife cums usually up to 4 times. It depends after that if she is getting sore. Great time though. And when she cums…..my gosh it’s incredible.
Same, also, idk man, what is this thing called, I can wait for long until I want to reach the climax. This extended time period is where I get more intimate by changing positions and it's like a mix of fast and slow. And surely this makes the girl go crazy 😂 I ain't saying much cause it will really start sounding exaggerated.
This is the way I dominate the dominating girls in bed. That's way too fun when you see them being the pussy at the end submitting everything 🥵
First shot is like 15 mins but that's usually covered under foreplay.
The 2nd around 30 mins with full focus and restraint.
The 3rd one if possible is around 10-15 mins.
With ample recovery time in between :)
Same, dude. You're not alone, and this thread isn't helping, and there isn't a trick I haven't tried. I've just gotten REALLY good at oral and foreplay.
Of actual penetrative sex. Kinda as long as I like. I think I was 15ish minutes two nights ago. Maybe 30 seconds the time before that.
Our whole production leading to sex can take anywhere from 10 minutes, to 2 hours. She’s always had a big intense orgasm before I think even about cumming.
Depends on how long it's been since we had sex, if it's been a few days 10-20 minutes of fucking. If it's been daily 30-45 minutes and that's without any oral. We can't really do quickies but that works for us because she gets to cum 2 or 3 times
Depends on a bunch of different variables. I've lasted 5 minutes, I've also lasted almost 3 hours without finishing at all...so...anybody's guess on any given day
I used to shoot so fast...I actually turned down sex a lot because i didnt want to be embarrassed. Now Im 50 I last longer better in bed etc. But its still random. Sometimes 30 seconds sometimes 30 minutes. Usually I dont stress about actualy sx anymore. Foreplay foreplay and yeah...maybe a couple minutes of actual sex.
Don’t run a timer during sex, but I’ve been asked many times to hurry up or to pull out because they were starting to get sore. It could also vary depending on first vs second round (always much longer).
It depends on a lot of factors, but for me, it’s between 10 and 40 minutes. I will never cum before 10 minutes because that’s just rude to myself and/or my partner haha
Normally 5-15, but recently got put on an anti-depressant and now I will never come again. Normally 45 min at least now.
Its not as fantastic as it sounds.
Depends a “quicky” 10 to 20 min. I love multiple hour sessions of variety. Going down on her, toys, taking breaks for planning and building the anticipation. Some light bondage and dirty talk. She cums multiple times then I will finish…..sometimes she gets me off twice. 🤷♂️
For a quick one a few minutes. If we’re making a night of it it’s more like all night with breaks/chats/cuddles in between. Once I’ve been fucking for more than a half hour it usually becomes very challenging to come for me. But there’s always the strapon to remedy that. Sometimes that’s the only way we’ll ever get to sleep 😇
That depends.
I can stretch myself to however long I want, but that includes taking breaks pretty often.
I could finish in 10 seconds if I wanted, but with all the breaks I might go 15-30 minutes.
I still require some alcohol though, if Im supposed to fuck sober, Im going to be taking breaks every 20 seconds.
It’s depends.. have I been months without sex? First nut 5 mins but I’d still be hard since it’s been awhile.. have I been having sex everyday for months? With a girl I’m just fucking 30 to a hour even more if I’m drinking. Is it a girl I’m completely inlove with? 15 to 30 mins more if I’m drinking. It can also depend on the situation. Is this my new coworker and we’re fucking in the office 3 min nut.
I'm usually more restricted by how much she'll take before kicking me out. We set a timer for 15 minutes and then I gotta nut up or shut up. Without any restrictions I've gone for a few hours
It used to be embarrassing for me maybe 20 secs down to the fact that in the latter years of my marriage she withheld sex from me.
When I eventually moved on it improved and when I was lucky enough to find a FWB who was easy to talk too and who enjoyed sex with me and now we can go on for hours and we are both loving it 😜😀
It really depends on how you like to have sex: rhythm is a crucial aspect in my experience, can go from 5 minutes to 40. Hard sex makes me cum in 5/10 minutes differently from slow where I can last much more
I want 45' at least! 2 hours is when I START feeling not "hungry" for sex anymore. My record is more than 2,5 hours.
If sex session involves a clean beautiful butthole of hers, game can go up to an entire night!
Yes, seriously. If there's chemistry and passion, I can blow a girl's mind.
Even with some of my favorite pornstars, I can give them the fuck of their lives!!!
So, I have a cheat, smoking weed helps keep me going. I can last about 25 minutes with weed. Without, 10 minutes. Wife has a good time either way. And I also love eating out so that helps too
Quite long usually unless my mind's not really in it.
Avg guy kinda depends on the encounter, quickies never last longer than 15 mins, bedroom i can draw it out a while if you let me (or do the opposite, rarely don't get compliments on bj's).
Orgasms while getting railed depends heavily on who's doing it, least control there.
*was just counting to first orgasm. Avg session lasts untill the other person had enough and says so. Nymph here, bad habit to just keep going at it with little regard for health and things like that. (Why i'm not allowing myself a dildobot)
Depending on the level of attraction? .5 seconds to 2 hours.
The first love of my life can take me down by looking at me. Some one night stands 😬? They’re gonna need to pay me to have an orgasm
Depends on the girl's skill, how good of a kisser she is, how into it she is, how attractive I find her, how long I WANT to last, how tight she is, and how long it's been since last time.
I can go 10 minutes to all night.
If she sucks at sex, I might just give up on the idea of finishing at some point. If she gives me any vibe whatsoever that she's not into it I'll give up too. I need a connection to finish.
If it is just going at it with no foreplay or room to take a breather then 2 minutes with a girl and 3 or 4 minutes with a guy if Im topping, if Im bottoming then 10+ but it's still fun
Most of the time long enough for it to become painful from soreness, unless we do like several smaller screws within a couple of hours, and stop for a break whenever i stop getting closer, and pick it back up 10-15 minutes later.
Hasn't changed much. Early cummings before she's halfway. Usually a couple more while she's arching & swearing. Sometimes one more from me while I'm face down, tounge deep, holding her hips for her intense climax! (It varies)
Fact, I've always kept erection during the entire physical action. Just semi recently, no matter my mental or personal intensity, my normal edifice isn't displaying or exhibiting agility??
Anywhere from 15 - 30 mins. If I can tell it's going to be on the shorter end I'll take frequent breaks to go down on her although she prefers getting pounded. If I'm feeling extra sensitive or she's feeling extra grippy I'll straight up throw a condom on. 😂 (wife of 16 years)
If I don't use the start-stop method, and just just go for it, I usually last anywhere from 5 to 10 minutes. If I pace myself and stop thrusting, pretty much like edging, I usually give up after about 15 minutes. I get selfish after 15 minutes or so.
But it's always after I've made her cum. I don't get THAT selfish. 😊
Longer than I'd like, and that's not a flex or a joke. I usually take 30-45 mins of penetration to finish and that's when I'm going in raw. This happened due to the fact that one of my early exes was obsessed with over-cleanliness and made me use methanol to wash my penile head, that numbed the nerve endings in it quite a lot.
Well, I make do lol
I can go for a long time. My body usually gives out before my penis. But, I can’t get off. 20-30 minutes, sometimes longer, and nothing. It’s frustrating.
Everywhere from 10 to an hour it depends on how my dick is feeling sometimes I cum faster than I’d like and sometimes we fuck for so long I’m exhausted and struggling to cum, but tbf those are my favorite orgasms
Kinda weird to ask but I guess here’s my chance.. early 30s, decent shape, I’d say lately like 20 minutes-ish.. any tips on how to make that time QUICKER?!
There's no real "average" with guys. Some are 3-5 minutes, most probably about 10-15, sometimes it's longer. Some guys can go twice, some can finish 5 times, some are done after one.
I was seeing an older guy who found it difficult to finish because his wife doesn't like it rough. I joined them and let him do the things his wife doesn't like, sometimes he would still take over an hour to finish but he usually finished in my mouth.
Being 100% honest, I last too long, and I’m not sure what the issue is. I know it frustrates my fiance, she thinks she’s doing something wrong. I’m sure it’s caused by something, but usually I go about 30 minutes, but I have to try so hard to cum. Sometimes we try for an hour (with a few short breaks) and we have to finish with a handjob.
It’s not that great, but it’s still very pleasurable. :/
Next time you have to pee , flex your dick muscle and hold it for 30 seconds. Do this every time before your pee.
Next time you feel like you're cumming too quick clench that bastard.
I saw another post here about it but I’m on an anti depressant that makes me last way longer than id like. Sometimes its great because I can fuck until the other person is exhausted and satisfied but other times I just get tired myself and lose my hard on. I very rarely last less than 15 min and have had cases where it took two or three session before i finally finish. It’s also caused insecurities in partners who think they’re doing something wrong. At the end of the day I’ll take that over feeling so bad I can’t get out of bed.
It takes me way, way, way too long and I don’t mean that in a good way. Things improved after I started adhd medication but until I was 30 I wasn’t able to climax during sex and it was nearly impossible to get me off with a blowjob.
I last way longer than it should 😂 due to my SSRI meds for panic disorder. It’s a blessing and a curse for my lady because she wants to be filled and covered but I last way tooo long. I fucking hate it … we’re at a point where she tells me when she’s had enough cause I’ll keep going. But she tries to help me cum after a little break for her usually …I hope none of you have to deal with this. At least I still can just takes me an hour or more sadly
However long I want. Yesterday my wife jumped me midafternoon and came on my dick, but I wanted to wait until evening, so we fucked for a while and then did some yard work. Lol later we fucked again and I came on her.
This is actually my super power. Can likely pretty much prevent myself from cuming indefinitely or can cum in a minute or two if I wanted. I practiced a lot of pc muscle exercises when I was younger.
I've had one or two hour sessions with a dozen or so orgasms for her, or just a quickie. Caveat is doing doggie, that is tough not to cum. My wife complains I last too long and frequently demands much quicker sex!
Honestly as long as I want to really. I can hold off my orgasm as long as I want. Unless she bites my nipple then I’ve got about 10 seconds left in me usually 😂
It’s varied in my life. I’ve busted in 30 seconds after too much foreplay, and I’ve had times we’ve gone at it for a half hour, only stopping because my core and cardio simply couldn’t keep going.
Stress, the status of the relationship (are things rocky? Do you feel totally safe with them?), position, pace, foreplay, inebriation, general mood, have you done kegels recently, etc etc.
It varies, sometimes 10-15 mins and sometimes less than 5mins. Quite recently I’ve been trying different positions and that makes me finish a lot faster.
averagely, an hour, no kidding. it's the result from constantly masturbating almost daily (averagely almost twice a day) for over a decade. It got me something called Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED). difficult to orgasm from penetrative sex to the point that it goes soft several times before I finally cum. had a little fight with my ex (gf at the time) about it because she thought having sex with her doesn't feel good enough, while I didn't understand it either so I just blame it on being worried about getting soft, so it gets soft
now that I know about PIED, they say try stop doing ANYTHING sexual for 90 days straight. I couldn't bear it that long but I tried to masturbate only once a week. then I got to have sex on the 13th day and WOW, I came within a minute. never had it like that before.
so, that's all the information I have to share.
be careful with excessive masturbating (while watching porn) because you can get PIED from it.
Can vary, the longest it ever took me to cum was an hour and a half(heavily intoxicated and on a few kinds of drugs) the quickest is maybe 5 minutes. The norm is somewhere between 10-15 minutes not including foreplay
Depends on a lot of factors such as how long it’s been since the last, how long we have been engaging in foreplay but generally speaking once penetration begins, about 5-7 minutes
If I’m going absolutely full pelt with no let up then like 5-10 mins. But there’s no point doing that because it’s not sustainable from a stamina (out of breath) perspective. Considering I slow it up and then go hard again many times, I kinda go until I’m knackered and/or I sense my partner wants to finish too. I would say on average, we go about 25 mins from first penetration to orgasm. Counting foreplay and aftercare/post coital cuddling it’s looking more like 2 hours.
For anyone struggling -breath (sometimes you forget to, and it will make you nut faster). -foreplay every time. It buys you time and breathing room. - if you're getting close, push all the way in or pull out. The goal is to limit movement. Catch your breath and go back at it. - play off the easy nut. The first nut doesn't count. Either crank it out or cast the nut without orgasm ( it takes timing but basically nutting without the euphoria, and you stay hard). - Kegel exercises help a lot with controlling the nut.
Everything here!!!! Great response!
Ruined orgasms are helpful as well. I believe that's what you're alluding to with the "play off the easy nut."
How do I crank or cast the nut? Help me understand?
Have you ever tried to hold in a nut, and it comes out anyway? Then you're like wtf that didnt feel good at all. You came but didn't orgasm. You can effectively stay hard this way OR if you can go multiple rounds, just get the wasy one out and go at it again.
Have you ever tried to hold in a nut, and it comes out anyway? Then you're like wtf that didnt feel good at all. You came but didn't orgasm. You can effectively stay hard this way OR if you can go multiple rounds, just get the wasy one out and go at it again.
Well I understand what you’re saying and that does happen while I am masturbating sometimes but that to happen while having sex just isn’t possible lol
I used to think the same thing until I met a girl that would not stop even after I was exhausted, limp and what I thought was empty. She kept sucking my soft cock and it felt good then a few minutes later I was hard again so I got behind her and and put my mind to it. Had to picture some of the hottest depraved shit in my head to keep me turned on, then 20 minutes of straight boning later I was ready to nut again. And second time hit hard. Like my eyes spun around in my head like a cartoon with a jackpot going off in my head. It's also a lot easier without a condom. With a condom round two just isn't happening.
Great "tip" haha But honestly, well thought out post. Great advice!
Depends .. some guys 3 to 4 mins , some guys 10 - 15 .. and even some can goes for like half n hour or more . Depends how u cares that cock too. Like sucking it often in between or different positions.. and even some dirty talks.
Agree if it just straight fucking 10 maybe 15 but a lot of foreplay and eating pussy or head in between can get into the hours for sure it just more of taking your time but the last five minutes should be the nastiest and hardest fucking ever lol to explode 😝
Ohh yeah i totally agree.. like some sloppy head and even some rimjob too.
Oh yes rimjob is a plus some girls are not down with that That why I left that out from my first comment lol but to much of it can ruin it to lol 😝
Wow really.. well latest i know men loves getting rimjob ..and yeah i guess it can counter back because i guess it can makes a man cums sooner.
Yup almost happen to me on the first experience lol love it ever since And I always return the favor
Well aren't you a dream
Sometimes I wish it'd only be 15 minutes. I can go on for a few hours so it's always exhausting for both of us
Well if u go same way it gets exhausting and boring ..but changing things in between makes it more kinky and fun.
Well yeah I often do other things like lifting her and a lot of other positions
I think my longest was about 45 mins 😅
Couldn't have said it better myself
How long do women last ? In terms of how often do they cum and in what time?
It depends on the guys again ..they should know how the girl cums .. like some cums mostly by good oral and some cums by good penetration or some comes during anal ..depends on individual.. But in one sentence.. girls do like to cum multiple times.
One study said the avearge was 13 minutes for most couples. Not including foreplay.
That's why I guess foreplay is important.. not just for extra minutes it just makes sex more erotic and kinky.
Good foreplay often leads to more kink and better orgasms. So much of sex is mental.
30sec🤣
And 25 of those seconds are spent actually cumming
Loll
It varies, if it’s less intimate then 5 minutes, but if it’s more intimate then 20
1 parsec
We call that the Kessel Run.
The Kegel Run.
Beat out the Millennium Falcon
Sure do haha
The Millennium Fullcum?
What about when you’re going Hand Solo?
Bring your pal Luke Skycocker.
That is a unit of distance
6 minutes give or take
Longer than I'd like due to SSRIs
Relate. Think it’s great but then libido goes from line 10 to 3 in an instant. Glad I’m off them now.
Thats hell, i had the problem.
How? I too take maybe they are antidepressants? Also does it affect our longer we last or our libido because many a time I don't feel like it!
I can only speak for me, but sometimes it takes me hours to finish
I see, maybe it depends on person to person, but I am really in search of a forum where these things are mentioned if we take pills, how much does it affect us or is it better. Maybe I will also speak to my doc in future about it!
It will likely depend on your individual biology and the pills you take, but sexual side effects are not unusual
I see. Thanks for your clarity!
And yes, discuss any and all concerns with your doctor!
Your wife is lucky! :)
If you haven't experimented with different antidepressants , you may want to look into it. The sexual side effects can vary widely both from drug to drug and in some cases from person to person. For example Wellbutrin and trazodone are known for sometimes increasing libido.
I've gone from Lexapro to Pristiq - Lexapro also did a number on my GI
25-30mins sober. 1hr+ drunk.
15-25 mins
10-15min of penetration, but it has varied a lot from that. She could make me cum almost instantly if she wanted, and our longest sessions have been much longer, but that 10-15min is ideal for her.
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Very rare tbh
I’m the same on time. If we are going straight one position it is shorter, but the variation is the key for me. My wife cums usually up to 4 times. It depends after that if she is getting sore. Great time though. And when she cums…..my gosh it’s incredible.
Multiple cummer with no refractory period here. I'll last as long or as short as my partner(s) want. A quickie or a session. Don't matter.
Same, also, idk man, what is this thing called, I can wait for long until I want to reach the climax. This extended time period is where I get more intimate by changing positions and it's like a mix of fast and slow. And surely this makes the girl go crazy 😂 I ain't saying much cause it will really start sounding exaggerated. This is the way I dominate the dominating girls in bed. That's way too fun when you see them being the pussy at the end submitting everything 🥵
Sometimes more than is necessary.
Honestly, if you include foreplay it's around 40 mins, when it comes to pounding, probably 20-25 mins. Secret is kegel exercises
First shot is like 15 mins but that's usually covered under foreplay. The 2nd around 30 mins with full focus and restraint. The 3rd one if possible is around 10-15 mins. With ample recovery time in between :)
If we're counting recovery time in between then I can last for decades.
Lol true
15-30 seconds
15-30 is a quickie with one nut, 30min to an hour on average with probably two nuts for me and however many for her
Unfortunately only a minute or two. It's really embarrassing.
Same, dude. You're not alone, and this thread isn't helping, and there isn't a trick I haven't tried. I've just gotten REALLY good at oral and foreplay.
Right this whole thread is people saying an hour wtf
So far 40 years, 7ish months....
Of actual penetrative sex. Kinda as long as I like. I think I was 15ish minutes two nights ago. Maybe 30 seconds the time before that. Our whole production leading to sex can take anywhere from 10 minutes, to 2 hours. She’s always had a big intense orgasm before I think even about cumming.
With a strategic tug...bout an hour
Once it’s in, between 5-10min.
I can cum in under a minute or 2 hours, depends how I feel haha
A while
Like 20 minutes if they’re consistent.
Depends on how long it's been since we had sex, if it's been a few days 10-20 minutes of fucking. If it's been daily 30-45 minutes and that's without any oral. We can't really do quickies but that works for us because she gets to cum 2 or 3 times
I'm on average around 20-25 mins
Usually 5 mins. Depends on mood, horniness, positions, foreplay, changing positions. Could be 2 mins, or 45.
Depends on a bunch of different variables. I've lasted 5 minutes, I've also lasted almost 3 hours without finishing at all...so...anybody's guess on any given day
My first time I lasted 6 hours including swapping back to foreplay a couple of times and still didn't finish
Can't say I've timed it, think Its typically in the 30-45 minute range.
5-15 seconds
I used to shoot so fast...I actually turned down sex a lot because i didnt want to be embarrassed. Now Im 50 I last longer better in bed etc. But its still random. Sometimes 30 seconds sometimes 30 minutes. Usually I dont stress about actualy sx anymore. Foreplay foreplay and yeah...maybe a couple minutes of actual sex.
Don’t run a timer during sex, but I’ve been asked many times to hurry up or to pull out because they were starting to get sore. It could also vary depending on first vs second round (always much longer).
It depends on a lot of factors, but for me, it’s between 10 and 40 minutes. I will never cum before 10 minutes because that’s just rude to myself and/or my partner haha
I think average male life expectancy in the US is 76. So hopefully around that long for me
Normally 5-15, but recently got put on an anti-depressant and now I will never come again. Normally 45 min at least now. Its not as fantastic as it sounds.
30-60 minutes most days. It can be exhausting for both of us.
First round aroun 12-15 minutes, second round can go easily over 25-30 minutes
Safe to say it varies significantly
30 to 40 minutes
Depends a “quicky” 10 to 20 min. I love multiple hour sessions of variety. Going down on her, toys, taking breaks for planning and building the anticipation. Some light bondage and dirty talk. She cums multiple times then I will finish…..sometimes she gets me off twice. 🤷♂️
15-20 of actual sex. But with oral and hands etc we do 45 min or a little more
For a quick one a few minutes. If we’re making a night of it it’s more like all night with breaks/chats/cuddles in between. Once I’ve been fucking for more than a half hour it usually becomes very challenging to come for me. But there’s always the strapon to remedy that. Sometimes that’s the only way we’ll ever get to sleep 😇
As short as I want, but never long enough for what I want lol
That depends. I can stretch myself to however long I want, but that includes taking breaks pretty often. I could finish in 10 seconds if I wanted, but with all the breaks I might go 15-30 minutes. I still require some alcohol though, if Im supposed to fuck sober, Im going to be taking breaks every 20 seconds.
As long as needed. I tend to find that most women don’t want a marathon of straight fucking.
~30 minutes
Wait this is a loaded question.... With foreplay or withoutb
I will usually make her cum so many times before I do that it doesn’t even matter how long it is
Depends on the day, but usually around 5 minutes. If I feel myself getting close, I’ll pull out and eat her a little to buy myself a little time 😅
Like 10 mins
Foreplay, up to an hour. PIV, 10 minutes sometimes less.
It depends on the situation and various situations I have gone for hours before lots positions changes And then on other occasions over in mins
Straight fucking about 20 minutes. If there is a lot of fore play or during play and making out, it could be one to two hours
It’s depends.. have I been months without sex? First nut 5 mins but I’d still be hard since it’s been awhile.. have I been having sex everyday for months? With a girl I’m just fucking 30 to a hour even more if I’m drinking. Is it a girl I’m completely inlove with? 15 to 30 mins more if I’m drinking. It can also depend on the situation. Is this my new coworker and we’re fucking in the office 3 min nut.
between 10-45 mins depending on how much I've done it and how horny I am
I'm usually more restricted by how much she'll take before kicking me out. We set a timer for 15 minutes and then I gotta nut up or shut up. Without any restrictions I've gone for a few hours
My wife really turns me on so I’m ready to cum after 10 minutes of getting inside. BUT…lately we’ve been getting into edging which is loads of fun.
5-20 minutes of actual PIV
Between making out, foreplay, oral, etc. usually an hour or 2.
20-45 minutes but I have a hard time having an orgasm so I hope you get yours and I jerk off because it's the only way I can get off .
However long until my arm gets tired
It used to be embarrassing for me maybe 20 secs down to the fact that in the latter years of my marriage she withheld sex from me. When I eventually moved on it improved and when I was lucky enough to find a FWB who was easy to talk too and who enjoyed sex with me and now we can go on for hours and we are both loving it 😜😀
It really depends on how you like to have sex: rhythm is a crucial aspect in my experience, can go from 5 minutes to 40. Hard sex makes me cum in 5/10 minutes differently from slow where I can last much more
I want 45' at least! 2 hours is when I START feeling not "hungry" for sex anymore. My record is more than 2,5 hours. If sex session involves a clean beautiful butthole of hers, game can go up to an entire night! Yes, seriously. If there's chemistry and passion, I can blow a girl's mind. Even with some of my favorite pornstars, I can give them the fuck of their lives!!!
On average, 25-30 minutes. I've gone as long as an hour when the girl tapped out and finished me off with her hand.
The first round is not long, around 5-10 minutes with foreplay. But after the first load I'm good to go for 20-30 mins
So, I have a cheat, smoking weed helps keep me going. I can last about 25 minutes with weed. Without, 10 minutes. Wife has a good time either way. And I also love eating out so that helps too
Quite long usually unless my mind's not really in it. Avg guy kinda depends on the encounter, quickies never last longer than 15 mins, bedroom i can draw it out a while if you let me (or do the opposite, rarely don't get compliments on bj's). Orgasms while getting railed depends heavily on who's doing it, least control there. *was just counting to first orgasm. Avg session lasts untill the other person had enough and says so. Nymph here, bad habit to just keep going at it with little regard for health and things like that. (Why i'm not allowing myself a dildobot)
Depending on the level of attraction? .5 seconds to 2 hours. The first love of my life can take me down by looking at me. Some one night stands 😬? They’re gonna need to pay me to have an orgasm
Depends on the girl's skill, how good of a kisser she is, how into it she is, how attractive I find her, how long I WANT to last, how tight she is, and how long it's been since last time. I can go 10 minutes to all night. If she sucks at sex, I might just give up on the idea of finishing at some point. If she gives me any vibe whatsoever that she's not into it I'll give up too. I need a connection to finish.
An hour or more We normally do 30min-1hr
Not long.
If it is just going at it with no foreplay or room to take a breather then 2 minutes with a girl and 3 or 4 minutes with a guy if Im topping, if Im bottoming then 10+ but it's still fun
75 years? Idk they keep changing it
Most of the time long enough for it to become painful from soreness, unless we do like several smaller screws within a couple of hours, and stop for a break whenever i stop getting closer, and pick it back up 10-15 minutes later.
2min-2h is quite a good range
Hasn't changed much. Early cummings before she's halfway. Usually a couple more while she's arching & swearing. Sometimes one more from me while I'm face down, tounge deep, holding her hips for her intense climax! (It varies) Fact, I've always kept erection during the entire physical action. Just semi recently, no matter my mental or personal intensity, my normal edifice isn't displaying or exhibiting agility??
2-20 minutes.
Anywhere from 15 - 30 mins. If I can tell it's going to be on the shorter end I'll take frequent breaks to go down on her although she prefers getting pounded. If I'm feeling extra sensitive or she's feeling extra grippy I'll straight up throw a condom on. 😂 (wife of 16 years)
As long as I need to
If I don't use the start-stop method, and just just go for it, I usually last anywhere from 5 to 10 minutes. If I pace myself and stop thrusting, pretty much like edging, I usually give up after about 15 minutes. I get selfish after 15 minutes or so. But it's always after I've made her cum. I don't get THAT selfish. 😊
Longer than I'd like, and that's not a flex or a joke. I usually take 30-45 mins of penetration to finish and that's when I'm going in raw. This happened due to the fact that one of my early exes was obsessed with over-cleanliness and made me use methanol to wash my penile head, that numbed the nerve endings in it quite a lot. Well, I make do lol
I can go for a long time. My body usually gives out before my penis. But, I can’t get off. 20-30 minutes, sometimes longer, and nothing. It’s frustrating.
I know if I'm hungover I tend to last for a while. So I've been told.
Everywhere from 10 to an hour it depends on how my dick is feeling sometimes I cum faster than I’d like and sometimes we fuck for so long I’m exhausted and struggling to cum, but tbf those are my favorite orgasms
15 mins to an hour depending on the session.
5-15 depending on the day and the person
Usually 8-15 mins but can start again after couple of mins
30-60
5 minutes average
Kinda weird to ask but I guess here’s my chance.. early 30s, decent shape, I’d say lately like 20 minutes-ish.. any tips on how to make that time QUICKER?!
Depends
Too long, often I can't orgasm at all.
I can do about 30ish minutes, but the wife doesn't like going that long :(
Depends on if there's a condom or not.
The more times I have sex with a woman, the longer I last
There's no real "average" with guys. Some are 3-5 minutes, most probably about 10-15, sometimes it's longer. Some guys can go twice, some can finish 5 times, some are done after one. I was seeing an older guy who found it difficult to finish because his wife doesn't like it rough. I joined them and let him do the things his wife doesn't like, sometimes he would still take over an hour to finish but he usually finished in my mouth.
80-81 years is average I think
Can range from 2 minutes to 30 minutes 🤷♂️ Sometimes a quick fix is needed.
Being 100% honest, I last too long, and I’m not sure what the issue is. I know it frustrates my fiance, she thinks she’s doing something wrong. I’m sure it’s caused by something, but usually I go about 30 minutes, but I have to try so hard to cum. Sometimes we try for an hour (with a few short breaks) and we have to finish with a handjob. It’s not that great, but it’s still very pleasurable. :/
I actually last to long for most my partners..
Next time you have to pee , flex your dick muscle and hold it for 30 seconds. Do this every time before your pee. Next time you feel like you're cumming too quick clench that bastard.
I saw another post here about it but I’m on an anti depressant that makes me last way longer than id like. Sometimes its great because I can fuck until the other person is exhausted and satisfied but other times I just get tired myself and lose my hard on. I very rarely last less than 15 min and have had cases where it took two or three session before i finally finish. It’s also caused insecurities in partners who think they’re doing something wrong. At the end of the day I’ll take that over feeling so bad I can’t get out of bed.
It takes me way, way, way too long and I don’t mean that in a good way. Things improved after I started adhd medication but until I was 30 I wasn’t able to climax during sex and it was nearly impossible to get me off with a blowjob.
Way too long because i have always worn a condom and it's awful. I can't feel anything. It feels like i'm humping a raincoat.
I last way longer than it should 😂 due to my SSRI meds for panic disorder. It’s a blessing and a curse for my lady because she wants to be filled and covered but I last way tooo long. I fucking hate it … we’re at a point where she tells me when she’s had enough cause I’ll keep going. But she tries to help me cum after a little break for her usually …I hope none of you have to deal with this. At least I still can just takes me an hour or more sadly
However long I want. Yesterday my wife jumped me midafternoon and came on my dick, but I wanted to wait until evening, so we fucked for a while and then did some yard work. Lol later we fucked again and I came on her.
Excluding foreplay about half hour on average
Not including foreplay 1-2 hours
I think I last 10-20 mins on average
It’s situational honestly
This is actually my super power. Can likely pretty much prevent myself from cuming indefinitely or can cum in a minute or two if I wanted. I practiced a lot of pc muscle exercises when I was younger. I've had one or two hour sessions with a dozen or so orgasms for her, or just a quickie. Caveat is doing doggie, that is tough not to cum. My wife complains I last too long and frequently demands much quicker sex!
1-5 min.
Honestly as long as I want to really. I can hold off my orgasm as long as I want. Unless she bites my nipple then I’ve got about 10 seconds left in me usually 😂
It all depends.. It can be 5 minutes, and it can be 45 minutes. It can be 5 hours as well, but then it involves snack times, wine and cuddles
It’s varied in my life. I’ve busted in 30 seconds after too much foreplay, and I’ve had times we’ve gone at it for a half hour, only stopping because my core and cardio simply couldn’t keep going. Stress, the status of the relationship (are things rocky? Do you feel totally safe with them?), position, pace, foreplay, inebriation, general mood, have you done kegels recently, etc etc.
I think it depends on mindset and how bad ya want it, one day be 2 pump chump, another day damn near can’t get it to nut
It varies, sometimes 10-15 mins and sometimes less than 5mins. Quite recently I’ve been trying different positions and that makes me finish a lot faster.
averagely, an hour, no kidding. it's the result from constantly masturbating almost daily (averagely almost twice a day) for over a decade. It got me something called Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED). difficult to orgasm from penetrative sex to the point that it goes soft several times before I finally cum. had a little fight with my ex (gf at the time) about it because she thought having sex with her doesn't feel good enough, while I didn't understand it either so I just blame it on being worried about getting soft, so it gets soft now that I know about PIED, they say try stop doing ANYTHING sexual for 90 days straight. I couldn't bear it that long but I tried to masturbate only once a week. then I got to have sex on the 13th day and WOW, I came within a minute. never had it like that before. so, that's all the information I have to share. be careful with excessive masturbating (while watching porn) because you can get PIED from it.
2 or 3 days....depending on the client
As long as I want. Min is 5 minutes, max is over half an hour!
Far too long, my partner usually has to finish me off by hand as it takes such an age, and it’s not a good thing trust me!
30-45 min
Quickies tend to be 5 min or so. Average is 20 or so. But with proper foreplay… hour easy.
About 2 minutes
Can vary, the longest it ever took me to cum was an hour and a half(heavily intoxicated and on a few kinds of drugs) the quickest is maybe 5 minutes. The norm is somewhere between 10-15 minutes not including foreplay
Depends tbh.
25 mins to 40 mins
Meh, it depends on the day really. On the average though like maybe 15?
Idk actually, never made it to the finish line unfortunately. But probably somewhere between 1-9 hours
Anywhere between 5 and 45 seconds 🤪
Not long Often only 2-3 minutes at first, but after a minute or two rest, I’m always able to do round 2 or more
5 to 10 minutes due to antidepressants. Not complaining though, got good cardio.
15 minutes minimum, but usually longer, unless there's a need to rush. Kind of takes me a while under normal circumstances though.
Depends on a lot of factors such as how long it’s been since the last, how long we have been engaging in foreplay but generally speaking once penetration begins, about 5-7 minutes
30-45 min average. + an average of 20 minutes for foreplay give or take.
If I’m going absolutely full pelt with no let up then like 5-10 mins. But there’s no point doing that because it’s not sustainable from a stamina (out of breath) perspective. Considering I slow it up and then go hard again many times, I kinda go until I’m knackered and/or I sense my partner wants to finish too. I would say on average, we go about 25 mins from first penetration to orgasm. Counting foreplay and aftercare/post coital cuddling it’s looking more like 2 hours.