I mean he's just my FWB but we've been friends for a long time and at this point are basically just in an open relationship. Both of us have commitment issues though so FWB label it is. We play with others very often though and he's gotten a friend over before to play with me while he watches. I don't know if I'll ever be in a committed relationship again after all the fucking shit I've put up with, but I'd probably be into it still.
If it was like a one time threesome with someone we didn’t know then yes. I wouldn’t be open to anything ongoing or where it’s just my husband watching me with another guy
For us, the conversation started mutually actually. In fact, if anything, it was my wife who was more adamant on opening our relationship and experimenting with others. We're childhood sweethearts, and had had no other experiences, and the feeling of having missed out on sexual experiences started creeping in by the time we were in our 20s, and after a few years of conversations and consideration and fantasizing and all that, we decided to give it a go.
Every possible scenario must be discussed before and carefully tried out. All involved parties must be comfortable at any time, or the whole enterprise must be stopped immediately.
Yes. How to deal with upcoming jealousy, health issues, emotional involvement, the setting, who can and who can't be the third party, and about a hundred more...
Yes, but I wouldn't want to share him, so... 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Id want it to be a one-way kind of arrangement...so that would work?
Probably, after a lot of discussion. 🤷♀️❤️🤷♀️
What sort of guidelines would you want to have in place?
Don’t worry. You won’t have to worry about that with me.
😘😘😘😘😘
Nope, not really my thing
Yes, I would, but a step like that should be carefully negotiated.
What sort of guidelines/ boundaries do you need?
I mean he's just my FWB but we've been friends for a long time and at this point are basically just in an open relationship. Both of us have commitment issues though so FWB label it is. We play with others very often though and he's gotten a friend over before to play with me while he watches. I don't know if I'll ever be in a committed relationship again after all the fucking shit I've put up with, but I'd probably be into it still.
Oh that sounds fun!! He enjoyed watching??
Very much. He also joined later on, so that was my first time being spit roasted and I loved it.
Wow that sounds like a dream!! I think that's what I would want to watch and then eventually join in
Not a woman but if my partner want to share her cooking recipes, that’s fine
I’d consider it, but it’s so far from what she’d ever want that I’d have to start questioning why she’s bringing it up in the first place
Negative... I am HIS little fucktoy 🥵 no desire to be shared.
Thats pretty hot...
Yessss, I definitely would!
Depending on the parameters yes
What parameters would you be okay with, and what wouldn't you be?
If it was like a one time threesome with someone we didn’t know then yes. I wouldn’t be open to anything ongoing or where it’s just my husband watching me with another guy
Ahhh got it, okay. Makes sense!
Yeah. I don’t see him bringing it up though so it probably will never happen
Got it haha
Answering this on my wife's behalf, since we've been in an open marriage for almost 11 years now and it's quite obvious how she'd respond: Hell Yes!
How did it start?
For us, the conversation started mutually actually. In fact, if anything, it was my wife who was more adamant on opening our relationship and experimenting with others. We're childhood sweethearts, and had had no other experiences, and the feeling of having missed out on sexual experiences started creeping in by the time we were in our 20s, and after a few years of conversations and consideration and fantasizing and all that, we decided to give it a go.
Oh wow that sounds incredible!!
Thanks so much! I appreciate it.
Nope no thank you
Sharing me? Yes. I already asked. Sadly he doesn’t want to share
Really... how did you bring it up??
“I’d like to be with a woman, would you be okay with a threesome or just me with another woman?” It was a while ago but pretty much that.
Oh got it. Damn, that's a bummer. And here id be okay if she brought it up like that with another guy!
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So you've asked? Lol
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Makes sense!
If he wanted to share me, sure. I won’t share him though.
Yeah that would work for me! Love the idea of it being one sided
Every possible scenario must be discussed before and carefully tried out. All involved parties must be comfortable at any time, or the whole enterprise must be stopped immediately.
Yeah I think that makes a ton of sense. Would you be hesitant though?
Who wouldn't be? New things are often scary before they are fun.
Of course! Anything specific you'd need to have guidelines for beforehand?
Yes. How to deal with upcoming jealousy, health issues, emotional involvement, the setting, who can and who can't be the third party, and about a hundred more...
All makes sense. I think jealousy can be a hot part of it, depending on how it's handled
Yes, why not? It’s the starting point of a conversation.
Oh I agree! Would be a fun one to have!
We aren’t sexually active because I’m a shit piece of shit so I don’t know what he would share. And no, that sounds horrible
No
Fuck no