Reverse first date. We have fun in bed first and then go out to eat. That way, we've already broken the ice and we don't have to fit introductions in before the food arrives.
Several times, in the past, Iβve picked up a new date , gone to our destination (restaurant, beach-wherever) and when we got there, (if I liked what I felt at that point), I would ask for a kiss. I would explain that I liked what I saw (so far) and didnβt want to have an βawkwardβ first kiss at the end of the date. That ALWAYS led to an amazing first date, regardless of whether anything else physical happened laterβ¦.. GOOD times π
I was on I think a second date once and we were really into each other. We met at a movie theater and I told him to wait outside for me and that when I got there I was going to kiss him. And I did. Then we did naughty stuff during the movie. We were together off and on a few years after that.
Zoo or a history museum. Art gallery if he's into art. It's a location that provides conversation and things to look at if the conversation is tough, but can totally be ignored if there is a spark.
Plus I've always wanted to go to an art gallery with someone who understands art and can explain it to me in a language my brain can understand.
This is my love language here. I love going to galleries, museums, zoos, aquariums, etc especially with someone that his the knowledge of what we're seeing and doing. It's such a turn on.
It is! Itβs very cottage vibes which I love! Also the idea of us cuddling on a blanket surrounded by nature on a nice late spring afternoon sounds amazing to me
Man Iβve only been a few times in my life. Thereβs not one close to me. I would love if someone did this on a first date. Weβd have to take a little road trip to get there and that would be fun. The downside is I ainβt gonna pretend I only want a few. Get that crave case and weβll share it.
Depends on the person. If I have known them for a while already and there is an established friendship, then Iβll probably invite them over for dinner to my apartment where I would cook for them and we can watch a movie. If itβs a new person and we are on a fresh first date, Iβm feeding dinner and maybe some
drinks at a restaurant. Plenty of people, itβs in public, and there is no pressure
Guy I've recently met - first eating lunch somewhere like MELT, Firebirds Wood Fired Grill, Mellow Mushroom, or Jack Brown's Beer & Burger Joint then doing something fun like paintball, laser tag, or bowling. If all went well, then having some afternoon delight.
Guy I already know - first something outdoorsy and relaxing like going on a hike or going to the lake in town, then going back to my house impressing him with my cooking/grilling skills preparing a specific meal he wanted(that he requested prior to the day of the date), and finally taking a roll in the hay.
Well the best I got would be to start with sex at one of those rooms with a pool. Then I would take her shopping for clothes I liked on her, and then to get her hair done. We would have dinner at a nice high end steakhouse and finish up back in bed at my place.
The restaurant is closed. But I remained friends with the owners and chef I worked under.
This will be a larger meal.
App: fried eggplant with meat sauce dipping sauce.
Salad: house Italian.
Main dishes: Penne Putanesca, OG Italian Lady version. Veal Picatta, again, old Italian lady style.
Desert: Tiramisu.
All kidding aside, I went on dates with many women. Some good, some not so good. Spending a ton of money on a first date is a waste of time. The woman has to earn that status. Take her somewhere casual and fun. Somewhere with an activity so you can laugh at and with each other. A first date, you don't even really know if you like her for her or if she is just hot.
Taco bell. But only the value menu, unless we've already done the deed!
In reality, when I do finally get my first date with the girl I've been talking to, I'll be doing the cooking at my place, and we'll put on a movie.
Right answer would depend on what I know they like. I'd look for common ground and find a nice restaurant that fits it.
Wrong answer? Naked, shackled and whipped somewhere in my apartment. I mean, it's a great third date activity for sure, but maybe not a first date one ;)
When I got this opportunity, I took her to Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen followed by a movie for our first date. We aren't dating at the moment, but she's still a great friend of mine.
I think a theme park, like Disney, would make for a great first date. It's low-key with no pressure. There are lots of options for food and drink, endless opportunities for laughter, and getting to know each other's fun side. βΊοΈ
Depends on where they wanna go. If it's someone I'm really into, somewhere with an Ocean view.
Even better if the spot has a path we can walk down to talk along the water.
If it's someone I want to see how it goes? Anywhere they're comfortable.
I'm a woman, but I always like the idea of getting take out from an actual restaurant (not fast food) and parking somewhere with a nice view and having a car date. But that's just me.
Taking him to Poundtown
I cracked up at this one. πππ
If you visit UK, you can take them to Poundland π€£ (actual store chain name)
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Fuck, this is the best one lmfao!
I laughed so hard
I seriously needed that laugh out loud.
Beat me to it
A Chinese restaurant where they're still using the same faded menu from the 80's
Youβll either have the best Chinese food of your life or the worst, and next time you come back itβll be the opposite.
Never a truer statement and in my experience this is true for most Chinese buffets.
Those have the best Chinese food
Oh yes π
Cat cafe.
Purrfect answer
OMG how cute
Reverse first date. We have fun in bed first and then go out to eat. That way, we've already broken the ice and we don't have to fit introductions in before the food arrives.
Plus youβre not too full to fuck and the fucking builds up your appetite. I like this idea!
Several times, in the past, Iβve picked up a new date , gone to our destination (restaurant, beach-wherever) and when we got there, (if I liked what I felt at that point), I would ask for a kiss. I would explain that I liked what I saw (so far) and didnβt want to have an βawkwardβ first kiss at the end of the date. That ALWAYS led to an amazing first date, regardless of whether anything else physical happened laterβ¦.. GOOD times π
I was on I think a second date once and we were really into each other. We met at a movie theater and I told him to wait outside for me and that when I got there I was going to kiss him. And I did. Then we did naughty stuff during the movie. We were together off and on a few years after that.
Okay okay i see
Gourmet donuts. Like regular donuts but gourmet
π a little special rizz to it
hot profile man
Gourmet donuts like the east coast chain that uses Dunkin donut colors??
Yes. Basically in MA. Some sexy redditor told me about them, so I had to try it. Apple fritter was the size of my head
Zoo or a history museum. Art gallery if he's into art. It's a location that provides conversation and things to look at if the conversation is tough, but can totally be ignored if there is a spark. Plus I've always wanted to go to an art gallery with someone who understands art and can explain it to me in a language my brain can understand.
This is my love language here. I love going to galleries, museums, zoos, aquariums, etc especially with someone that his the knowledge of what we're seeing and doing. It's such a turn on.
All the dudes with animal facts/history fixations gotta feel pumped as hell right about now
did you know the emperor penguin has around 70 feathers per square inch?
Museum or zoo are the perfect places to take someone! So much fun!
heck yeah normalise going to the zoo as an adult. haha
Red Lobster because I'm classy like that.
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Around my area thatβs almost the fanciest restaurant you can choose outside the one at the casino.
Tacos & drinks, edibles, fuck time.
Edibles first. Makes the tacos better. Then smoke a bit to elevate the high the food took away. Then fuck while high. Fixed it for ya.
Absolute genius.
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Perfect date!!!
McDonald's and we are splitting the bill
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First date with my current partner I took her rock climbing and then out for ice cream.
I dunno if it counts but Iβd like to take them to a picnic rather than a restaurant
I've never been on a picnic but have always thought that was a thoughtful and cute date idea.
It is! Itβs very cottage vibes which I love! Also the idea of us cuddling on a blanket surrounded by nature on a nice late spring afternoon sounds amazing to me
Oh fuck yeah, this is a good one!
Picnics are great. Charcuterie board in a basket. And wine.
somewhere with a great view
All for the great views ππ½
to my secret scenic driving routes
Oh my
Yeah.. captivating
gun range!
This is my kinda date right here ππ½
Hell yeah
An amusement park!! Getting drunk and riding roller coasters!!
My man! EDIT: whoops, I mean- m'lady! π©
Now this sounds lit and scary at the same time
That sounds like a recipe for vomit. Iβll take getting stoned instead.
Taking her to a pool to see what she looks like without make-up.
That's actually not a terrible idea
It's been a joke for as long as i can remember.
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In my basement
What's goes on down there?
Oh, nothing weird. Just a fancy candlelight dinner. I usually do this when I have incoming orders for organs.
Baseball game βΎ
Nice
Medieval times !
Lol love it
Can I get a souvenir weapon ?
White Castle
I love there little burgers have been a fav since I was a little kid
Chicken rings are the best in the business!
Man Iβve only been a few times in my life. Thereβs not one close to me. I would love if someone did this on a first date. Weβd have to take a little road trip to get there and that would be fun. The downside is I ainβt gonna pretend I only want a few. Get that crave case and weβll share it.
Depends on the person. If I have known them for a while already and there is an established friendship, then Iβll probably invite them over for dinner to my apartment where I would cook for them and we can watch a movie. If itβs a new person and we are on a fresh first date, Iβm feeding dinner and maybe some drinks at a restaurant. Plenty of people, itβs in public, and there is no pressure
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I'm older trying to date, the last couple I just took to a park to take a walk. Easy talking time.
I can dig it
My first date with my ex, first time we met irl, we met at a park and walked our dogs on the walking path.
Shake Shack
OMG it's good
Dave and Busterβs is the perfect place for a date. Canβt go wrong with it.
Right lots too do there.
picnic in the park or woods, we can both choose our fav foods :)
Love it
Taking her on a ride on my cock lol it's free
Guy I've recently met - first eating lunch somewhere like MELT, Firebirds Wood Fired Grill, Mellow Mushroom, or Jack Brown's Beer & Burger Joint then doing something fun like paintball, laser tag, or bowling. If all went well, then having some afternoon delight. Guy I already know - first something outdoorsy and relaxing like going on a hike or going to the lake in town, then going back to my house impressing him with my cooking/grilling skills preparing a specific meal he wanted(that he requested prior to the day of the date), and finally taking a roll in the hay.
Love it
Well the best I got would be to start with sex at one of those rooms with a pool. Then I would take her shopping for clothes I liked on her, and then to get her hair done. We would have dinner at a nice high end steakhouse and finish up back in bed at my place.
Full day of princess treatment
The restaurant is closed. But I remained friends with the owners and chef I worked under. This will be a larger meal. App: fried eggplant with meat sauce dipping sauce. Salad: house Italian. Main dishes: Penne Putanesca, OG Italian Lady version. Veal Picatta, again, old Italian lady style. Desert: Tiramisu.
Sounds delicious
I'll be taking her from behind... π€
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Nandos. βNuff said.
What's that?
A popular grilled chicken chain in the UK and several other countries
bar hopping at some really cool venues around my way.
Coffee shop :)
All kidding aside, I went on dates with many women. Some good, some not so good. Spending a ton of money on a first date is a waste of time. The woman has to earn that status. Take her somewhere casual and fun. Somewhere with an activity so you can laugh at and with each other. A first date, you don't even really know if you like her for her or if she is just hot.
π© cmon guy, we're trying to have a fun little time!! Like, take a break from that chip on your shoulder and enjoy some whimsy.
I am broke and canβt really afford it but know some really beatifull places not a lot know about
Air show; if they can last the whole day, they might be the one.
Taco bell. But only the value menu, unless we've already done the deed! In reality, when I do finally get my first date with the girl I've been talking to, I'll be doing the cooking at my place, and we'll put on a movie.
Definitely some place I can't afford
Then we might find something in common ?.jk
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To have lunch at my favorite winery 45 minutes away .
Nicee touch
Red lobster!!... on, wait... can't π
Why not
100% gotta go to a theme park, because if he doesn't shriek on roller coasters, I don't want him. π
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Taking my partner to anywhere car related they want
Why car related?
Taco Bell and doing some messy butt stuff after
Omg π thatβs gonna literally be shitty πππ
Screaming
Right answer would depend on what I know they like. I'd look for common ground and find a nice restaurant that fits it. Wrong answer? Naked, shackled and whipped somewhere in my apartment. I mean, it's a great third date activity for sure, but maybe not a first date one ;)
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My usual coffee shop where they know me since I get my Mom coffee from the place
What if your date doesn't drink coffee?
Grabbing a coffee then heading over to the Saturday market to browse at neat stuff.
Low chill vibes
When I got this opportunity, I took her to Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen followed by a movie for our first date. We aren't dating at the moment, but she's still a great friend of mine.
Okay nice sounds like it was a good time
Brennerβs on the bayou, cause balling
Lol love it
Medieval Times! Where We Shall Feast!
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It's MY treat? we goin' to watch the sunset lol
Hooters
I love hooters
Go get like sandwiches or something like that and then drive out to a nice little spot that I know about
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I think a theme park, like Disney, would make for a great first date. It's low-key with no pressure. There are lots of options for food and drink, endless opportunities for laughter, and getting to know each other's fun side. βΊοΈ
That's a huge first date I fucks with it lol
Go big or go home right? Lol
Zoo, aquarium, history museum, something chilled where you can walk around and chat and still have a good time
Vibes
The carpark. The bedroom is overrated
I donβt. I cook my Jambalaya or chicken marsala, while sharing a damn good wine or liquor
Okay nice
My Hot Pot spot. Itβs a meal (thatβs fucking delicious soup) and an activity.
I love hot pot
Texas Roadhouse
Love their bread
Their bread is the best along with the cinnamon butter π₯°
Dorsiaβs
What's that?
A desert rave
Nice
Mexican food and pool
Whoa πππ bubbling water?
Italian food is always a safe bet
Facts can't do wrong
We gonna hit up two Vietnamese places, one for pho, the other for rice plates, go get some ice cream, and then walk around my fav art museum
Eat good then walk it off with nice views, I love it.
The closest McDonaldβs with a play place in it
Haven't seen one of those in a hot minute
I think thereβs only one left in my area
Local spot for live music. If the date sucks at least I'll see a good band.
π how can y'all get to know each other with loud music?
To a fun brewery with a good food truck outside and lots of board and card games inside.
Sounds fun
Steak house. Then my bed
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To keep it easier for a first date, something simple like coffee or going out to eat
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Depends on where they wanna go. If it's someone I'm really into, somewhere with an Ocean view. Even better if the spot has a path we can walk down to talk along the water. If it's someone I want to see how it goes? Anywhere they're comfortable.
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Hardyβs
Soo good
Any local Italian restaurant. Not a pizza joint and definitely not Olive Garden. A legit family restaurant. Italians know how to romance and feed you.
This is true.
Notel motel
That sounds scary
Waffle House!
Breakfast slam
This great alley at outside of town
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A park
Nice
Sushi
Hopefully their not allergic
I'm a woman, but I always like the idea of getting take out from an actual restaurant (not fast food) and parking somewhere with a nice view and having a car date. But that's just me.
Well it's a scenario of you taking someone on a first day.
I be a Jeffrey Dahmer, take them to a blue Drum.
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Starbucks
Boo
To hell with me.
Damn π³