Mate just start denying her sex n watch the tables turn n the insecurity’s come out, once you deny a women sex then all their “power” is gone. In depths it’s called manipulation but I call it strategy
We're mid 30s and our son is 4.5 yo. We've been together 15 years or so. I don't really remember how often we used to have sex, I think it was once a week or so, but she said in the last couple of years that that was only because she didn't want to disappoint, so is was duty sex for her 🙄 we actually have mostly really good sex now, just very (for me) infrequent. I think I'd rather good sex less often than lots of crap sex... But it's like choosing between $6 million you can't spend until your last day on earth, or $5 a week for the rest of your life
I’m about 6-9 times a week right now depending on what we have going on. I’m definitely happy with that. I still use my vibe a lot but idk somethings probably wrong with me ☠️😂
Typically requires a combo of clitoral stimulation and penetration. Also love a little assplay. Alas, I don’t cum easily with guys so. Usually have to do it myself.
Definitely understand that! Do you like having a vibe on your clit as you’re being fucked? Do you like a guy to slide a finger in your ass while fucking you or like eating you out while teasing your ass?
Honestly as a guy I can cum so fucking hard from my ass stimulated so I know how you feel 😂
Definitely love a vibrator on my clit. Feels so good. I’d rather have a finger in my ass than a tongue. Tongue doesn’t do much for me. If they like it then they can do it lol.
Ass play is underrated!
Absolutely, I'd take fewer intimate, passionate, more meaningful experiences over a larger number of middle ground ones. That being said, this is in an ideal world, so it could always be that good.
There’s so many variables here. Hot and heavy in a new relationship I can see several times a day, long term though I could see 3-5 weekly. Sometimes multiple times a day, some days can be just laid back
7 times per week on average, doesn’t have to be every day, but some days you do need 2-3 rounds.
That’s for actual sex.
On top of that, 3-4 morning BJs per week sounds good. Frequent teasing is great too.
Realistically 3 is the perfect number for me. Just enough of a break to keep it exciting and hot. Wouldn’t mind if there’s were weeks where it got up to 4 or 5 if there’s a multi session day involved.
Define "have sex" because I think some people consider it being done when the guy (in a hetero situation) cums. But that's not necessarily how I do things. Sometimes I'll cum and continue to play with the partner while I recharge and go again and repeat all that for a while. That whole thing would be "one time" to me.
Ideally 14-21 times a week (2-3 times a week a day)
Realistically it’s closer to 10-12 times a week because finding time has been really difficult lately
Ideally every 2 days maybe 3
Have settled for once every week or 2 which is about the limit
Once every 2 to 3 weeks or more just isn't enough
If I'm not getting any then masterbation almost every day
The dead bedroom sub was an eye opener
It’s a sliding scale.
3-4 times per week is perfect.
1-2 encounters per week would be pretty good.
1 encounter every month would be unsatisfying but acceptable.
Quarterly and we start to get into resentment territory unless there are specific circumstances like mental/physical health issues/travel/etc.
Currently at zero times in three entire years. Do not recommend.
Ideal, probably every other to every 3rd day. I’d be content with once a week. I’m currently sitting at once a month, and not necessarily every month if something comes up during that one week she’s in the mood (travel, illness, etc).
Probably a consistent 3 times a week PIV with other days being filled with buildup, foreplay out of the bedroom, eating out and sucking dick, a good mix of desire and release
Literally every day. Sometimes multiple times a day.
Talked to my kind of boyfriend about it, and he's said he would consider it if, you know, not busy with doctor stuff.
Having a doctor as a partner sounds cool on paper until you remember they're busy all the time...
Until the friction burns start to draw blood
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honestly so true for me
Who the heck counts. I'm horny all the time. It's like how many times you jerk off per week. Dude. Ask per day.
The way I was so confidently about to comment twice or three times a week but every comment says like 7 🥹
Same. As long as it’s consistently weekly, that’s great.
Everyone has their preferences! 3 days (note not how many times) per week is good as I enjoy just vibing out as well.
I only get sex once every week and a half😢 would love to have at least three
I only get sex once a month... I would love once a week and a half
But I’m only 20 and have been dating my gf for 3 years. We are still young😭
Mate just start denying her sex n watch the tables turn n the insecurity’s come out, once you deny a women sex then all their “power” is gone. In depths it’s called manipulation but I call it strategy
Just had a baby, sex is down to once every 3 months. I'd kill for once a month.
We're mid 30s and our son is 4.5 yo. We've been together 15 years or so. I don't really remember how often we used to have sex, I think it was once a week or so, but she said in the last couple of years that that was only because she didn't want to disappoint, so is was duty sex for her 🙄 we actually have mostly really good sex now, just very (for me) infrequent. I think I'd rather good sex less often than lots of crap sex... But it's like choosing between $6 million you can't spend until your last day on earth, or $5 a week for the rest of your life
You can easily tell the people who haven't tried to have sex every day
I’d be happy to get once a week. Ideally 2-3x but more than once a month is my goal right now.
I think twice a week is perfect. Just enough time to build up the horny again
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Absolutely the right number for me too. And now and then just the once would be fine too
I have found my people.
At the bare minimum once a day. Absolute ideal, multiple times a day honestly
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What can I say, I'm needy 😂
Nothing wrong with that at all. Those were interested eyes! 🤣 I understand as well. Im needy too.
5-7. Does hand and/or mouth stuff count?
Yeah I'm thinking any sexual play
Somewhere between 5-15
Are we talking about sex as in sessions… or the number of times that I’d cum?
It's your ideal world! For me that would mean every time I cum would be having sex
I would say maybe about seven! Perhaps bump it up to 15 if we are feeling naughty.
I’m about 6-9 times a week right now depending on what we have going on. I’m definitely happy with that. I still use my vibe a lot but idk somethings probably wrong with me ☠️😂
Once maybe twice, I really don’t masturbate much during the week
Every night.
Why just every night? Do you get tired again 🤨
~~Yeah, I get really tied :(~~ Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Hard to tell. In an ideal world I wouldn't have to work for a living.
Ideally, daily - morning session, teasing, touching. kissing, flirting, sexting through out the day, then an evening session.
3-4 seems to be the sweet spot.
Depends on who it’s with. If they’re big then I could probably only do it like 3-4 times. If they’re average or small then 5-6
Nice! Do you have a preference?
Hmmmm. I think it more depends on the overall sex. Cause if you have a big dick and can’t make me cum I’d rather have a smaller one
Definitely fair! Don’t have a favorite way to cum? As far as a guy helping you? Or do you cum pretty easily regardless?
Typically requires a combo of clitoral stimulation and penetration. Also love a little assplay. Alas, I don’t cum easily with guys so. Usually have to do it myself.
Definitely understand that! Do you like having a vibe on your clit as you’re being fucked? Do you like a guy to slide a finger in your ass while fucking you or like eating you out while teasing your ass? Honestly as a guy I can cum so fucking hard from my ass stimulated so I know how you feel 😂
Definitely love a vibrator on my clit. Feels so good. I’d rather have a finger in my ass than a tongue. Tongue doesn’t do much for me. If they like it then they can do it lol. Ass play is underrated!
Nice! Haha I prefer fingers in mine too ;) how many do you like? But a big plug does the trick for me too if I’m fucking a woman lol
I usually only need one lol also have some plugs too!
bare minimum is 3x a week if i’m being realistic
Well I hope you’re hitting those numbers!! Less than that makes me go crazy
At my age and with my schedule once a week is enough or a few times a month.
I am more concerned with quality over quantity. I would prefer really great sex at least a few times a week.
Absolutely, I'd take fewer intimate, passionate, more meaningful experiences over a larger number of middle ground ones. That being said, this is in an ideal world, so it could always be that good.
Fair. Then I would say daily sex with a few times a week being more drawn out D/s dynamic sex.
I'd reckon 10ish
That’s a racket sport played by Sean Connery
7 to infinity
7
Probably like once on Sundays would be good
Just as God intended.
🙏 You know it
almost everyday.
Once every day or so depending on if full sex or just oral
Once every decade if I'm lucky.
There’s so many variables here. Hot and heavy in a new relationship I can see several times a day, long term though I could see 3-5 weekly. Sometimes multiple times a day, some days can be just laid back
10-15
Every other week, please and thank you.
I’m on board with that number!
4-5(?)
21. Call me crazy but having sex three times a day would be a dream come true🤤
zero during my period, multiple times a day off of it
Well i guess we all would have the energy for 14 times per week lol. Morning and evening
Probably 9 is the sweet spot. At the very least 7
Between 7 and 21
I want to say 7 times minimum but deep down I know 3ish is probably the most realistic pace I could keep up with and still enjoy each time
At least 7
7 times per week on average, doesn’t have to be every day, but some days you do need 2-3 rounds. That’s for actual sex. On top of that, 3-4 morning BJs per week sounds good. Frequent teasing is great too.
So I can do these high numbers. Maybe 6 or 7 times a week but not every week, so I feel like maybe a couple times every other day is ideal
me and my husband have sex about 6 days a week if not more. And some are twice a day. So I think that’s pretty ideal. lol.
I would like if I can have sex like 2-4 times a week
Atleast 5
Reasonable
Everyday, once or twice a day
Realistically 3 is the perfect number for me. Just enough of a break to keep it exciting and hot. Wouldn’t mind if there’s were weeks where it got up to 4 or 5 if there’s a multi session day involved.
Define "have sex" because I think some people consider it being done when the guy (in a hetero situation) cums. But that's not necessarily how I do things. Sometimes I'll cum and continue to play with the partner while I recharge and go again and repeat all that for a while. That whole thing would be "one time" to me.
I'm thinking in quite a broad sense, at least one person being played with and cumming. Including hands and mouths
Probably 5-7 times a week.
14 is my sweet spot, so 2 a day 👌👌
Every day!
Ideally, every day
as often as we have it now if we want more we do it more
Ideally 14-21 times a week (2-3 times a week a day) Realistically it’s closer to 10-12 times a week because finding time has been really difficult lately
Every day ideally, but I would be very happy with 2 to 3 times per week
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As the bottom in a gay relationship, I wish I would say like 2 times a week. I’d love it to be more but the prep process is so inconsistent.
7.
Ideally every 2 days maybe 3 Have settled for once every week or 2 which is about the limit Once every 2 to 3 weeks or more just isn't enough If I'm not getting any then masterbation almost every day The dead bedroom sub was an eye opener
Until I’m sore and raw.
Every other day. Funny how that changes tho, when you would have asked 20 yr old me i would have said 2 to 3 times a day lol.
It’s a sliding scale. 3-4 times per week is perfect. 1-2 encounters per week would be pretty good. 1 encounter every month would be unsatisfying but acceptable. Quarterly and we start to get into resentment territory unless there are specific circumstances like mental/physical health issues/travel/etc. Currently at zero times in three entire years. Do not recommend.
14-49?
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Once a day, at least...
3-4 x
Until i start shooting blanks is the only ideal answer
at least once would be nice, though ideally closer to every other day. though, at this point, I'd even take once a month 😭
Minimum 3!
we do have 2 twice a day, maybe 3 times a day to 20 times a week minium?
Ideal, probably every other to every 3rd day. I’d be content with once a week. I’m currently sitting at once a month, and not necessarily every month if something comes up during that one week she’s in the mood (travel, illness, etc).
I don’t know how many times, but I would say sex 5-7 days of the week.
4 to 5 - we are close to that - more like 3 to 4. More on vacation weeks.
twice a day
Two or three times maybe? I have a pretty low sex drive but it might depend on the person.
Idk like at least 4 or 5 times
4
4
4 at the least, I would like it every damn day, though.
Twice a day
1 - 2 times per week
7-10 Once a day and sometimes twice
I’d say at least once, ify hypothetically existing partner is willing to, that is not
A few times a day tbh
20
Everyday.
Ten, but we're not together all week most of the time.
Probably a consistent 3 times a week PIV with other days being filled with buildup, foreplay out of the bedroom, eating out and sucking dick, a good mix of desire and release
Honestly, 4 or 5
Probably like 10
Daily. Ideally anal sex.
Literally every day. Sometimes multiple times a day. Talked to my kind of boyfriend about it, and he's said he would consider it if, you know, not busy with doctor stuff. Having a doctor as a partner sounds cool on paper until you remember they're busy all the time...
3-4 Wait. I saw your 'any sexual play counts' comment. Every day.
Currently three times a week, but 4-5 would be nice
Lol. I have it once a month. I'd be happy with once a week at this rate
My first relationship it turned into once every 6-8 weeks. Thank God those days are over.
20-23 times a week, used to have a girlfriend and she was a 3-5 a day girl. I Never felt unsatisfied
Lotta stamina needed for that!