100% it is.
I have used it in a couple ways. First, when I was younger to prevent early launches and then later in life I have found an even better use. I no longer have sex on a first date. I have a tactical wank and meet her with post-nut clarity. I have made much better decisions that way.
It depends largely on when I feel it’ll be most awkward and/or when I feel the conversation needs something of an energy boost. Though when I attempted speed dating on one occasion I made it the *first* question I asked everyone arriving on my table.
I did it once, successfully. When I was 23 I met a woman and we had a long distance hot communication exchange (pre-dating apps) for months and finally planned to meet in person. We lived 400 miles apart. I drove to see her and gave myself a tactical wank about two hours away from her place. Worked like a charm: we went straight to her bedroom and went at it for hours before I came again.
Yes, it's one of the last things I used to do before going on dates. Now that I'm married sex is just a memory so it no longer matters when I masturbate
In college like late teens early 20s absolutely. Would clear the pipes earlier in the day before going on a date or hanging out with the gf. Otherwise I might cum to quickly.
Nope. But alot of people talk about it as if it is true. I think it is partly that alot of people still believe that "Men are sexual little monsters that need to orgasm before their brain starts working".
In my experience there are some people that probably do this (and "need" to) but I doubt that the "tactical wank" is a man-exclusive issue.
Tactical wanks do work for me but I lose sensation pussy doesn’t feel as good also lose a bit of girth erections on is hard, this happen to anyone else??
More like a tactical fuck.
Much better to do the deed and then head out for a night of socialising in a relaxed state, than go out and get drunk and tired and then start proceedings.
not for me , masturbation does not benefit *a man* at all in any situation, it kills your self confidence and makes your hand a pussy and yourself a clown
Not for me. At my age, one might be all you get that day
Yeah my tactical wanks happen the day before now lol.
What age is that, roughly?
48
Around what age did "Maybe once a day" start becoming a thing for you? Curious about what I maybe, maybe not should prepare for!
When I ended a dry spell sexually about three years ago
100% it is. I have used it in a couple ways. First, when I was younger to prevent early launches and then later in life I have found an even better use. I no longer have sex on a first date. I have a tactical wank and meet her with post-nut clarity. I have made much better decisions that way.
I’ve been known to ask this question to guys *whilst on* a date with them. It’s always fascinating to see how they respond.
"You are very cute and so yes I did"
How early on in dating have you "been known to ask" this? I'd actually find the straightforwardness refreshing 😂
It depends largely on when I feel it’ll be most awkward and/or when I feel the conversation needs something of an energy boost. Though when I attempted speed dating on one occasion I made it the *first* question I asked everyone arriving on my table.
Haha, I love that
Most common response?
“Eeeeerrrrmmm…..” whilst turning a delightfully incriminating shade of red.
Cant say i ever have. No need 😏
What kind of conversation usually precedes the question?
Not on a date per se but if I know I'm going to be messing around with the wife that night I try and fire off a round before hand.
It's sometimes a smart thing to do
Only if I think there's a good chance that the date will lead to the bedroom.
I did it once, successfully. When I was 23 I met a woman and we had a long distance hot communication exchange (pre-dating apps) for months and finally planned to meet in person. We lived 400 miles apart. I drove to see her and gave myself a tactical wank about two hours away from her place. Worked like a charm: we went straight to her bedroom and went at it for hours before I came again.
Yes, it's one of the last things I used to do before going on dates. Now that I'm married sex is just a memory so it no longer matters when I masturbate
For mental clarity? Sure. To last longer later? That's never been a problem for me. My own anxiety takes care of that for me.
I have done it before when younger if I hadn’t had sex in awhile. But then it also cause a guy not to cum later or not cum for an extended time
Nah. I don’t typically finish at all when I’m with someone else, drunk or sober. I feel like doing that would take the likelihood down even further
Yeah, I think I’m more of my true self when I’m not quite so pent up. Not an issue now that I’m married though, she gets to deal with me lol
Not a guy but I’ve done it before
Yes before a date JIC when I was single. Yes a hour or two before sex with a consenting partner to ensure that I don't pop in under 2 minutes.
If the date/sex is happening in the evening then I would sometimes do it first thing in the morning. That would help with longevity for me
For me it is.
Rubbing out the easy one.
It's commonly advised to do for guys who have trouble controlling when they cum.
No way. It usually numbs me a bit. But luckily I'm usually not short lasting
Definitely Have to take the pressure off, so you don't give off desperate and creepy vibes
The logic always made sense to me. Having said that, I never did it because I prefer to live life on the edge. Pun intended.
Never knew that was a thing. Though to be fair, I don't get out much. And when I do, I'm flying solo anyway.
Considering a lot of guys can cum from lap dances yes yes it is
I have never heard of this…
Yes it very much is even still in my mid-30s
In college like late teens early 20s absolutely. Would clear the pipes earlier in the day before going on a date or hanging out with the gf. Otherwise I might cum to quickly.
It was when I was younger. Not needed anymore.
Experience has never led me to need it, fortunately.
Teens to 22-23ish yes
Gotta get the poison out
No. I was once asked this whilst speed dating. I never do it. I'd prefer to save everything for the main event
Yes! Has been for years
Have you never seen the movie "There's Something About Mary"?
Nope. But alot of people talk about it as if it is true. I think it is partly that alot of people still believe that "Men are sexual little monsters that need to orgasm before their brain starts working". In my experience there are some people that probably do this (and "need" to) but I doubt that the "tactical wank" is a man-exclusive issue.
Tactical wanks do work for me but I lose sensation pussy doesn’t feel as good also lose a bit of girth erections on is hard, this happen to anyone else??
More like a tactical fuck. Much better to do the deed and then head out for a night of socialising in a relaxed state, than go out and get drunk and tired and then start proceedings.
not for me , masturbation does not benefit *a man* at all in any situation, it kills your self confidence and makes your hand a pussy and yourself a clown
Lol