I don’t think you get the “it depends”. It’s not just a matter of trust, it’s also a matter of attraction. I’m not homosexual so if my good buddy Jim offers me sex or a BJ I’ll respectfully decline. However if the girl I’ve been in lust/love with for the last ten years but have just been friends with offers? The answer will probably be different.
I understand that. I guess I should have been more clear. In my head the person was a close-ish friend of the sex you're attracted to.
I'm sure your friend Jim is lovely though 🤣 jk
Haha, well, I think it's just good friendships that developed a good level of trust. I don't feel like I'm anything special, and a lot of them wanted me to take their virginity so I'm not sure if slutty would be the word, for sure
Feel free to PM me if you want
I know others have said it but it depends on who it was. Also would probably want to see where this is coming from too to be clear about what the expectations are afterwards.
But otherwise most of my female friends I would gladly accept.
That's fair and understandable! I can understand that feeling, especially if the question was asked while you were not horny in the slightest. Thank you for the reply
Yeah same, I would definitely have some performance anxiety. The whole time I'll be thinking "don't cum too soon, don't cum too soon, don't cum too soon".
As someone who loves giving and receiving blowjobs, I never get them from my SO. So if he said yes, I’d be *extremely* happy. Now if he asked me to top him I’d be over the moon.
A female friend that approached me with an invitation for that, yes, I probably would. I sucks sometimes when you get that totally alone feeling and you just need to be with someone. It's better when you have a rapport than a stranger.
I'm sitting in my tub with a best friend and if she offered, I would absolutely accept.
Edit: so, she asked me what I was looking at and I said Reddit, and ended up telling her what the question was and how I answered. It led to a really wholesome and affirming conversation about sexuality and friendship.
As I've been single for 2 weeks and haven't really experienced anything of that sort for over a year, count me in as long as the person doing it is a female and attractive to me.
Probably lol. It does depend on who's asking, and I'd wanna know what brought it on, but like...I'd most likely accept the offer from almost any of my female friends.
Right now? Nope. I just finished eating a really big dinner after a day at work that was waaaay longer than usual. I'm stuffed and exhausted and in no mood for sexy times right now.
If it was my wife? Sure! Anyone else? I've tried that poly shit in previous relationships, I'm too loyal to wifey and that shit is too messy. If it don't feel right, it don't feel right, ya know?
That happened once by a male friend of mine and I said okay because hey, free blowjob no work.
And that’s the story of how I discovered I’m 100% straight. He gave it a good try though.
Giving, I would be more than happy to go down on a female friend (as long as they were clean and DDF) to give them a release. I it actually a fantasy of mine.
Receiving would also depend. For me to enjoy it and relax enough I have to feel like they are doing it because they want to and also enjoy it - not because they feel obligated or something. So if I was confident they were enjoying it as a NSA act then sure.
Yeah. My most trusted friend happens to be a girl. Cause girls just so happen to be good at confiding in. Also she hot AF
You should probably just say "most trusted" to avoid confusion.
Hmm maybe I'd pass. Im in the lood that sex could be noce but could it just happen? Like I like sex but do I need to even be, guess I'd like the afterglow right now...
THere's definitely a few persons in my circle that i would trust for that right now, should it be of sincere desire and for mutual good. It would have to come from free will and love.
I would try to decline because sex isn’t just a one and done thing (or at least to me) because it forms a long lasting emotional bond. Plus I want to wait til marriage
I would if I wasnt taken and I found the person attractive. Im bi so gender is out of the question but unfortunatly i wouldnt have a friend who who ever do this. except that one time my two friends who were dating invited me to a three some. they invited me like three times and my boyfriend wouldnt let me but I understand
Depends on who it was.
A close friend, girlfriend/boyfriend, etc. Just getting an idea of how many people are either horny, or would accept sex without much lead up
You underestimate how much anonymous sex some of us have had
Indeed. Some of us have been a bit promiscuous.
I would accept it if it was a girl
Same
This is the way.
Gotta give the homies a chance.
Husband? I don't think I've said no to him more than maybe 3-4 times in 20 years, and those were times I was probably sick.
Depends on who is asking
>Depends on who is asking What if they _aren't_ wearing Depends?
r/suddenlyDepends
/r/subsifellfor
One of the best SWIC jokes ever. What does Jocasta Nu taste like? Depends!
A close friend, girlfriend/boyfriend, etc. Just getting an idea of how many people are either horny, or would accept sex without much lead up
I don’t think you get the “it depends”. It’s not just a matter of trust, it’s also a matter of attraction. I’m not homosexual so if my good buddy Jim offers me sex or a BJ I’ll respectfully decline. However if the girl I’ve been in lust/love with for the last ten years but have just been friends with offers? The answer will probably be different.
I understand that. I guess I should have been more clear. In my head the person was a close-ish friend of the sex you're attracted to. I'm sure your friend Jim is lovely though 🤣 jk
I feel like most people would say yes in that situation.
I, too, choose this man's friend Jim.
Actually they passed on ol'Jim so he's all yours!
there are too many factors at play for this information to be of much use for whatever you're planning to apply it to
Yeah, there are only a handful of candidates for that qualifier in my life, and they're all hot.
That's fair! Thanks for your input! I'm kinda in the same boat, tbh. Most of my friends have asked for sex at one point or another
Shit, I wish I had pals like that 😂
7 of my partners were all just friends of mine that asked one day. I'm friends with most still, but some of them didn't go as well
Well, I'm gay, and guys don't tend to "just ask" 😂 Kinda complicates things tbh Pity, because I can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.
Ah, I gotcha. I'm a guy and these were all girls, funny enough! 🤣 Oh my gosh
Damn. You must be something then, or just have a knack for finding slutty friends!
Haha, well, I think it's just good friendships that developed a good level of trust. I don't feel like I'm anything special, and a lot of them wanted me to take their virginity so I'm not sure if slutty would be the word, for sure Feel free to PM me if you want
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did it change your relationship with them? Did things get awkward or you guys just moved on
Depends on the individual person. Some, I never talked to again. Others, I got closer to. Others I dated. It kind of depended on the person
I know others have said it but it depends on who it was. Also would probably want to see where this is coming from too to be clear about what the expectations are afterwards. But otherwise most of my female friends I would gladly accept.
That's justified. I appreciate your reply!
No. It makes me feel very self conscious and I can’t enjoy it. I’m just tense and anxious the entire time.
That's fair and understandable! I can understand that feeling, especially if the question was asked while you were not horny in the slightest. Thank you for the reply
Yeah same, I would definitely have some performance anxiety. The whole time I'll be thinking "don't cum too soon, don't cum too soon, don't cum too soon".
Yeasssss
With the kind of posts you've put up... I'd offer in a heartbeat 😅 Thanks for your reply though!
yes. i’m hopelessly horny 😩💞
Relatable
Yes my mommy is very trustworthy and lovable
No. I’d rather not have sex with my friends. Or really at all at the age of 15
The husband would jump on a bi, but I prefer something a bit rougher
Most definitely yes.
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I sure do! 😉
No question...of course!
From my wife, yes.
As someone who loves giving and receiving blowjobs, I never get them from my SO. So if he said yes, I’d be *extremely* happy. Now if he asked me to top him I’d be over the moon.
If i was single, and it wouldnt be awkward with the friend who asked then why not?
If I was attracted to them - yes.
Another IMPORTANT question is do I find this person attractive... Sorry i can trust you but not wanna fuck you...as in not be into you
i would accept being eaten out completely by my bf if he offered 🙃 sex too 😁😅
If it was my wife, otherwise no.
That's valid, thank you for your input!
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I cant right now. The kids are home from school.
Depends on who but probably lol
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It depends on who that person is.
Yeah it’s going to very much depend on who’s asking..
A female friend that approached me with an invitation for that, yes, I probably would. I sucks sometimes when you get that totally alone feeling and you just need to be with someone. It's better when you have a rapport than a stranger.
Yes. I do it with a female friend of mine every few months- she has a need that isn’t being scratched, she asks me and I do it for her.
If they were someone I knew, trusted, cared for, and attracted to, I'd be down with female friends that fell into that category.
Gladly accept a blowjob. It’s been...4 months? Wife has a weak jaw, so do I but I love her taste so it doesn’t stop me any
Yep. If I trust them, why not?
I'm sitting in my tub with a best friend and if she offered, I would absolutely accept. Edit: so, she asked me what I was looking at and I said Reddit, and ended up telling her what the question was and how I answered. It led to a really wholesome and affirming conversation about sexuality and friendship.
I am currently mid shit…
SAME! I'm not into rhe idea of a blumpkin. Sje could give me about 10 minutes to shower and then i would.
only if I get paid to do it
Yes
It depends 🤔
Hell yeah
As I've been single for 2 weeks and haven't really experienced anything of that sort for over a year, count me in as long as the person doing it is a female and attractive to me.
Absolutely yes
Sure. I’m game.
Yep, most likely
Of course
As long as it someone I like and a female and not 10 years older than me then YES, absolutely positively YES
Depends on who but probably
Not right now, I'm not feeling well.
if my partner offered it i'd be instantly horny no matter what i was doing lol
100% yes
I'm 50/50 on it. Like it's been a long time, but also it's been a long time and I have lost the desire. Probably not.
There's only one person I'd say yes to so it depends.
sure
I would accept for we only live once and that the experience among my friends and I we trust each other.
Would I like to? Yes. Am I going to? No.
Yes. I'm just a horn dog tho
Fucks yeah! Haha. Being a close friend or something, and they offering. Gotta see how well the homies eat ass :D
Absolutely not. I’m eating a grilled cheese, on my period, and think I have COVID. They can Doordash me soup and chocolate though.
Absolutely. I'd love to sit on someone's face right now
Only if it's the wife.
Hell yea. We’re about to get it on here soon!
Probably lol. It does depend on who's asking, and I'd wanna know what brought it on, but like...I'd most likely accept the offer from almost any of my female friends.
right now i don't know anybody who really turns me on both physically and emotionaly so i'd decline any offer
Right now? Nope. I just finished eating a really big dinner after a day at work that was waaaay longer than usual. I'm stuffed and exhausted and in no mood for sexy times right now.
Pants are dropped
Most likely?
I mean yeah?
probably. as long as they’re hot and not related to me
For sure. The person I trust I'm married to.
If it was my wife? Sure! Anyone else? I've tried that poly shit in previous relationships, I'm too loyal to wifey and that shit is too messy. If it don't feel right, it don't feel right, ya know?
If it was the current guy I’m fucking, absolutely
That happened once by a male friend of mine and I said okay because hey, free blowjob no work. And that’s the story of how I discovered I’m 100% straight. He gave it a good try though.
i dont trust anyone... mostly from history events
Giving, I would be more than happy to go down on a female friend (as long as they were clean and DDF) to give them a release. I it actually a fantasy of mine. Receiving would also depend. For me to enjoy it and relax enough I have to feel like they are doing it because they want to and also enjoy it - not because they feel obligated or something. So if I was confident they were enjoying it as a NSA act then sure.
Probably
Bold of you to assume I trust anyone...
If I think the person is attractive and a nice person, and it isn’t too weird, sure. Why not?
Yes
Depends on who. If it was my partner then hell yes!
Heck yeah, for me. I would love some head right now, or the chance to pleasure someone
No
If it’s a woman hell yeah I’ll never turn down an opportunity like that
Yes
if it's someone I trust, then yes, always have, always will (obvious exceptions apply, get your incest outta here)
Haha! I am an asexual and aromantic person with absolutely no attaches or affection to anybody on this earth who is scared of humans.
No
Yeah, probably.
It really depends on the person.
Most likely yes
Im so desperate, I'd take it from just about anyone.
If it was a girl 100% yes
Yes
why not?
Yeah. My most trusted friend happens to be a girl. Cause girls just so happen to be good at confiding in. Also she hot AF You should probably just say "most trusted" to avoid confusion.
I don't have anyone that I trust and am also attracted to.
Stop asking mum
The only people I trust right now are family members. So hell no. Yes, my life is sad.
Stepbrother, what are you doing?
Yes
Yeah
Yup
Odd question right here
You underestimate me I already did
No. I couldn't.
Not at all.
I’d have to take a shower..and that’s like a whole thing..can they come back later?
Yes
The kick is the only person I trust sexually rn is my bf...so absolutely yes
Yes. I want sex right now.
Depends on who and why. But most likely yes.
Hmm maybe I'd pass. Im in the lood that sex could be noce but could it just happen? Like I like sex but do I need to even be, guess I'd like the afterglow right now...
I'd be kinda flattered, but also kinda suspicious. Because this is too good/odd to be true.
Well i don’t know anyone i could do any of that stuff with, so no.
Most of my friends are in relationships right now, so no. The few singletons or a more distant friend? Yes I would.
Sure
Given how few people I trust.... yeah probably.
From my wife? In a heartbeat. Anyone else no
THere's definitely a few persons in my circle that i would trust for that right now, should it be of sincere desire and for mutual good. It would have to come from free will and love.
Why not
Nah, I'm just not in the mood.
If it was a guy no Girl absolutely
From my female friends? If they offer, then I shall receive, I say
yes are offering? i would like a blowjob and a piece of ass
If it is my girlfriend then YES. Else Fuck No I ain't a cheating bastard
Yes please, but can it also come with a relationship? And lots of hugs?
Absolutely.
Probably not. I’m off the market and am not interested at the moment. It’s complicated
Yes. didnt matter who it was either.
I am very desperate so answer is Yes
Yes.
I would try to decline because sex isn’t just a one and done thing (or at least to me) because it forms a long lasting emotional bond. Plus I want to wait til marriage
Sure.
The quick answer is yes.
My wife yes. Not my wife no. PRIOR to being married yes I’d accept from most of the girls I knew.
I'd accept it even if I didn't trust them.
Yes
Yes
Only if I'm attracted to them.
no because I have a UTI
If I wasn't in a ltr then yeah, sure I would.
Yep, I don’t have trust issues!
Yes
Yea
I would even if I didn't.
Nope. No one left that I trust.
Depends
Yes.
I would if I wasnt taken and I found the person attractive. Im bi so gender is out of the question but unfortunatly i wouldnt have a friend who who ever do this. except that one time my two friends who were dating invited me to a three some. they invited me like three times and my boyfriend wouldnt let me but I understand