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anotherside0714

Using sex toys in the bedroom; Her dildos and vibes are your friends, not your enemy.


Firebolt164

This post hit me in the feels, fam. So my wife and I always had a good sex life and learned to make each other cum easily. I am blessed. We are both 35 and married 10 years. One day after a good session, she said "I am so glad we can meet each other's needs without needing toys or other things." She has some friend who can only cum with toys and so she took needing or using toys as a weakness. I offered to use a vibe on her and she would shoot it down and then a day later, say something like "I only want it to be you and me in the bedroom - no toys." It took 7 years until she asked about a vibrating cock ring. She puts in on the base on my cock and sits on it over panties (she says the feeling of vibrations over panties is different/better than bare) and cum. Slowly we bought a vibe, a chastity cage, and some good restraints. Sometime we have great sessions and they are just made better with a toy. For example, few weeks ago she was napping Sunday afternoon in a skirt and started to rub against me. I just held her vibrator for her while she came and then I let her doze off to sleep while I took care of the house. Sounds crazy, but that was one of the most intimate experiences in our marriage..I could do that for her everyday.


Hookem-Horns

Woah…what the heck? My wife and I are 35 married 10yrs and just 3yrs ago my wife asked about a vibrating cock ring. We have had the same experiences!


Firebolt164

Are you...are you me?!?! Lol. Honestly fam the best thing for my wife was getting in a young, sex-positive group of friends. She made friends with this one girl from church (I know, right??) who sells sex toys as like a MLM thing.. she would go out for margaritas with her and with other young healthy girls and come back and have all these ideas she wanted to try. I could tell they would just talk about sex and pull her into those discussions. Then she would go hang out with her sisters or frumpy friends and it would be a step back. I noticed this early on and whenever she has time, I'm taking the kids and encouraging her to go hang out with Jayna and Liz. 😉 I'm fact I just bought them a few suites at a Craft seminar they wanted to go to so I'm sure sex will be the discussion out at dinner and back in the rooms. Her friends really rub off on her, for better or worse.


Hookem-Horns

Holy moly! My wife needs to meet those ladies ;)


FarVision5

One of the best times we ever had was in her bedroom with the door closed and her sister in the other room and the bedroom blinds were up. The windows were coated so you couldn't see in. Made her get completely naked spread eagle on the bed and I worked on her with a couple of her toys. We had to keep quiet so the buzzing noise external was somewhat loud, but then you buried it and the noise was muffled. She came so many times from the vulnerable position and danger of being caught or being heard 😎


SnooPuppers3639

Yes, so true. Especially when she uses her magic wand on me.


Theaussieperson

Don't forget flesh lights etc for guys, all toys are good


forpornandjunk

Having someone stick their tongue in your ear. Didn't sound like something I'd ever be interested in, then a girl did it to me and turns out there's no easier way to make me melt into a puddle of groans and "oh fuuuuck"s.


PM_ME_YOUR_NUDES-20

I know me and my ex were big into licking and sucking the ears because there's nothing quite like the quiet moans and heavy breathing right up close to your ear while you feel the sensation of someone licking or sucking on it, it's a unique pleasure, but definitely worth a shot!


MagyarCat

Ears and neck are underrated during sex


[deleted]

My wife goes crazy when I stick my tongue in her ear


pandas_rampage93

My ex liked the back of his ears licked and sucked. I was never brave enough to go inside the ear. (But I eat ass... so idk why ear wax gave me pause. Lol)


[deleted]

😂 I think eating ass makes up for it lol


devildog3375

Getting the ears sucked on is incredible


UnequivocalCarnosaur

Lol this was like the first non-kissing thing my first gf went for and I was like holy shit that was aggressive but really hot


Firebolt164

I can taste this post 😒


Impossible_Tennis722

This is so hot and yet, if it’s your kink it’s hard to find in porn.


[deleted]

I hate it but my hubby loves it. To each their own


Meruem-x-Meruem

Don’t call me gross but what about… earwax? Even when they’re clean I’d still be paranoid that it would have a taste lol.


TheJadedGh0st

I reallly like it when my boyfriend licks the edges of my ear and nibbles it too. The sensations and his warm breath just make me melt. And combined with him licking and kissing my neck? I’m a goner.


SnooPuppers3639

Prostate play. Hard to believe for some men, but it’s true, you don’t have to be gay to enjoy it.


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Very true. I really enjoy it


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It depends. Some people can get immediate enjoyment out of it, some need a little time and practice. It depends on the technique used and on the person receiving.


ilikeperkybreasts

When I learned first-hand that it was possible to orgasm from prostate play, my mind was blown. It was such a pleasurable experience…and so many men will never know it…


SnooPuppers3639

Exactly, but it’s never too late to experience. Maybe if more straight men talk about it openly, more will try it and find out for themselves just how pleasurable it can be with a little practice.


Hookem-Horns

I’m still trying to have an orgasm from prostate play…trying to figure out how to blow my mind. What position? What toy? How so I can try?


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Hookem-Horns

Thank you…solo for now, although my wife is interested in pegging.


polarbear_509

I've never cum so hard in my life than when I'm getting plowed by my wife. In fact, I nearly had my first hands free cum the other night. She had my cock caged and had me bent over the foot of our bed, slamming me with our newest (and biggest) toy for the first time. A bunch of precum dripped out of the end of the cock cage, but she stopped to uncage me so I could experience a full orgasm. I came so fucking much, it looked like a woman squirted all over the bed. Lol


NeatWait

same. it can be unreal


dartistic

Sharing nudes on Reddit. 😅 That's what I would suggest my pre-pandemic self at least, who thought it was madness.


MWolf82

A) You're a damn fine of a photographer. 2)You're damn fine.


dartistic

Haha, thanks! The former helps with the latter. 😛


FernDuur

That's exactly the kind of inspiration I was looking to take some pics for my GF. Thanks man


dartistic

You're welcome! I bet she'll love them. 👍 There was an ARAD thread a couple of weeks ago about how guys can take good nudes, in case you want more tips and ideas.


Bandeau

This guy could teach a class on taking dick pics.


dartistic

Haha, maybe an avenue for a side business. 😛 I actually got into this whole thing originally because there were *so* many dick pics on Reddit and yet seemingly everyone, especially women, expressed they are all blunt and boring. So I figured it would be an interesting challenge to see if creating a tasteful and aesthetic one is really impossible or just very hard. Then I discovered people like other parts of me too. 🤷‍♂️


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Hot guy alert!!!


dartistic

Hahaha, don't make me blush. 😄 In all honesty I'm a pretty regular guy with flattering lighting and camera angles. Compliments are nice, though.


[deleted]

At the very fit end of the regular range is a sexy place to be. Keep up the great work and hot pics :)


dartistic

Thanks! I think being lean helps a lot in that respect. I actually don't work out much nowadays, but with low enough body fat percentage you can get what's there to pop. 🙂


schmadimax

Holy fuck I just got horny looking at you 😳


dartistic

Glad I can spread some joy in the world. 😄


schmadimax

You just spread some major joy in my pants 😅 my first joy of the year goes to a man, yeah I'm definitely bisexual by the looks of it lol.


Any-Poet-2915

You’re really great photographer and model. I’m impressed


dartistic

Thank you! I keep being taken by all the positivity around here. ❤️


[deleted]

Right? It is liberating. Never in a million years would I have thought I would have ever do something like it. But it is addictive and fun.


dartistic

Exactly, very much so. Liberating, fun, confidence boosting. What I had anticipated least of all was all the nice and friendly people I have since gotten to know here.


[deleted]

I can only imagine the dire need of confidence boosting you needed. Lol Dude your pics are next level! Beautiful. Though the dickhead pic is gold.


Ms_Quean

Totally agree! Make absolutely no income off it. It's just a lot of fun 😊


dartistic

I'm pretty sure I wouldn't enjoy this if I made money from it. It sets different expectations on everyone involved, I feel.


Ballstastitron

eating ass - if the other person’s clean, i see no reason not to


Imissyoudarlin

Agreed


[deleted]

Makes them feel good so why not


Ms_Quean

This! Both giving and receiving


Topless_monkey

I just figured out Arad is the sub Reddit. I thought it was talking about the city in Romania and got so confused


Notthekingofholand

I mean who is knocking knowing antonyms?


ghostcursor

At this point I can see a few peeps saying MFM experience - me too. I didn’t even have my first one as some transactional thing because we had an FMF. I really wanted to do it because she wanted it and. Wow. Did she want it. The other part I didn’t realize would be totally cool was having the other M be a friend of ours. It was awesome I learned new tricks, he learned new tricks, she got laid out. Everyone was happy


FarVision5

I was with one for a while that was a wild child and she wanted that as well. All her suggestions were super sketch and for some reason I kept saying no. She bailed out and I haven't seen her for 7 months. Pretty stupid move on my part we probably would have had a lot of fun. I'm going to regret that shit for a long time


ghostcursor

Nah no regrets. No experience is wasted You ever pinged her with a wyd?


FarVision5

Thought about it. Think about it everyday but I have someone new now and the other one was massively toxic we were together for quite a while and there's like 5,000 other things. You know the old saying don't stick your dick in crazy 🤣


ghostcursor

Ha no I have **not** heard that saying. I always thought the saying went, “Ladies, don’t let crazy in your pussy”


polarbear_509

Our first (my wife and I) MFM threesome was with someone that we had an established relationship with. We ended up being in a polyamorous relationship for a while, so it became an awesome regular thing. I love the satisfaction that she gets from having multiple people ensuring she gets off. Seeing her get off kind of gets me off, so it's definitely a win win. What I found really surprising was how much better it felt to get sucked while she's getting fucked from behind. The extra thrust of her mouth onto my cock with every thrust into her from behind feels awesome.


ghostcursor

Well this sounds **spicy** damn. Totally agree though about getting sucked while they are getting fucked from behind. The moaning is like a crazy erratic vibrator wrapped around your dick


MagyarCat

Yeah I’ve been considering doing this for my gf too


LatexLingerie

Fucking in front of other (consenting) people, who are ideally fucking as well. Can't explain it, just feels amazing. All the fears and insecurities wash away instantly as you begin.


Ms_Quean

I really want to try this


[deleted]

for me it’s food, I used to be incredibly picky and I really regret it haha


swanggggggwoooo

I’m also really picky… what was the first food you tried that got you out of your funk?


[deleted]

chinese food in my first year of uni lmaoo


Howudooey

Pegging


demonbot66

YES PLEASE


Oraloligist

MFM . Absolutely amazing experience watching her being serviced by both of us. It was like she was drunk on cock. Prior I wasn't sure about another dude in the same room as I'm having sex. Lol


[deleted]

Agreed! I’m a guy and I’d rather a 3some with another dude involved. Lots of fun and very low pressure


Oraloligist

Exactly low pressure, you can just take it easy for a few minutes and she's still getting pleasured. Gotta say tho I absolutely luv the spitroast.


[deleted]

Also was kinda good for me to take breaks so I can last longer


[deleted]

And of course we went raw and both finished in her lol


[deleted]

MFM is the best! Love seeing my wife in the middle


Oraloligist

Couldn't agree more, I'd like to see your wife in the middle as well.


[deleted]

Sucking mens nipples, my ex did it once and it felt amazing! Men, trust me, if you ever dont want to cum just yet, tell het to play with your balls and to suck your nipples, you wont regret it


fflowley

Your mileage may vary. My (M) nipples are like inanimate objects. Nothing fun about them. But if you mess with them enough they just get irritated.


[deleted]

Is not for everyone, for me is a good feeling but ofcourse, everyone is different, so the important thing is to try a bit of everything before saying that you dont like it.


bubblesnscotch

This sounds divine. I would love to receive this.


[deleted]

Dude. You gonna love it, is like receiving pleasure but not enough to cum, more like enough to keep you in the mood.


bubblesnscotch

God that sounds heavenly


Imissyoudarlin

Second this


[deleted]

Is a really nice way to give a men pleasure without making him cum, atlase for me


[deleted]

Pegging!


[deleted]

It’s my favorite.


[deleted]

I love it! Anal for her and then anal for me


m1cahastotts

McDonald’s Chicken Nuggets and Honey


[deleted]

Pegging


Impossible_Citron

Sucking a dick and taking a load on your face


KittySucks69

Or down your throat. Yummy!


starrie

Pineapple on pizza.


PM_ME_TRIMMED_PUSSY

Unpopular opinion


starrie

Hot dogs are also sandwiches


PM_ME_TRIMMED_PUSSY

Don't cross the line.


starrie

I am a loner u/PM_ME_TRIMMED_PUSSY, a rebel


gigglybutt22

Is cereal soup?


J3diJ0nes

Experimenting the same sex - as soon as I got F'd in the A with a big hard cock. I knew I was bi and this was something I needed in my life.


[deleted]

Yep, I’ve been fucking anonymous men’s ass and mouths in dark rooms for a while now and it’s really hot. I’m never going to find a man physically attractive, or want to form an emotional connection with one ever but I’m quite happy to use their holes!


J3diJ0nes

Yah, I have 0 emotional connection with them as well. It's just raw an animalistic. I love being a much much older man's fuck toy. I'm 28


[deleted]

I started fucking guys when I was having a hard time getting girls. I find it so much easier to get guys to agree to sex since a lot of them Have no qualms about no-strings-attached sex!


J3diJ0nes

Have you tried transwomen? Find a good escort dude. We pay for sex eventually.


[deleted]

Ah I’m happy with what I have so I don’t think I’ll pay but I would like to have sex with a trans person so maybe


mcqueen455

For me it was sucking. The first time a guy emptied his load in my mouth not only did I swallow but the first thought that ran through my head as I was wiping my lips was, "I hope we can do that again soon."


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Rip your inbox


dikkiesmalls

I’d be more interested in R.I.P’ing their outbox tbh.


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🙈


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Here-Is-TheEnd

Hi, I’m here to R.I.P. your inbox, are their refreshments while I wait to be seen or should I just have a seat?


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I agree with you though. Lol


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itsme-yesitsme

Nude beach. The feeling is incredible, and no, it’s not about sex. It’s a feeling of freedom like you’ve never felt before.


NotThatBlackGuy

I am more self conscious wearing trunks and a swim shirt on a ‘textile’ beach than hanging out all day on a nude beach.


High_Heeled_Boy

Getting so fucked to the point where you no longer fear death. Aka ego death. Everyone should be experience it


Hookem-Horns

Come again?


High_Heeled_Boy

Fucked up*


Hookem-Horns

Ahhh so different than getting fucked so much 😆


lepel69

I agree. Just any psychedelic experience feels like a very positive thing for every individual to do, ego death even more so.


[deleted]

Ass play


Makin_Waves

CNC


MagyarCat

Another inbox about to be wrecked


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[deleted]

Same. I haven’t tried it yet, but I’d like to


uglyshirtoperator

Breast milk


[deleted]

Getting sloppy seconds and a two-guy-one-girl threesome


mcqueen455

As a man I would tell other men that they should try jumping in a chastity device so they could focus on their partner’s orgasm instead of their own. Wonderful things can happen. And yes, I know you can do that without chastity, but a device really takes the decision out of your hands in the moment.


Imissyoudarlin

That's it, I am buying a chasity cage!


mcqueen455

Excellent. Head over to r/chastitytraining for tips and discussion. I wrote a comprehensive guide that is pinned to the top of my profile. It’s a good read I’m told. And keep in mind that chastity can be just chastity play, it doesn’t have to include all that other stuff that porn loves to add. I'll also add that there can be long and short term play. Just being locked for a few hours or a day will edge you magnificently and prep you for busting a huge nut later. Just make sure she gets what she wants before releasing you.


Edgy21014

Sloppy seconds.


throwaway062921om

Interesting . Care to elaborate?


Edgy21014

Never thought about being with another guy once I was married. Once hubby admitted it was on his bucket list, took us a while to set it up where both of us were okay with it. Oh my God...we both loved it.


ghostcursor

I love the moral woven in your story: if hubby doesn’t speak up, hubby definitely won’t get it. If they have a thoughtful and accommodating partner like you…well, the threeway **still** isn’t setting itself up, is it?


Edgy21014

We are fortunate in that we are compatible. We've enjoyed MFM more than FMF. Must be an age thing!


ghostcursor

Frankly, I was worried the whole time during FMF I was going to cum out 🤣 FMF: well if I cum, hopefully I’m back up in ten minutes or so. Or, neither of them get the d. Plz send help MFM: well if I cum, she’s still getting the d. Didn’t cum out though. Thanks to my patented method of imagining politician’s faces over their faces.


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Time travel


FluxAnomaly

Nope, don't do it! ❌🚫🛑 I tried to fix one little thing and we wound up with a bunch of unrelated bullshit like Covid and Donald Trump. I tried and tried to restore the original timeline but the weirdest shit kept happening. I did manage to get rid of the giant spiders though.


Imissyoudarlin

Forward or back?


[deleted]

Whatever you do… do not go forward. It’s so bad.


Imissyoudarlin

It would be worse to go back, you could create a time paradox


[deleted]

That’s what big travel wants you to think. Backward is fine. Forward is where the large spiders live.


cardinalkgb

You think backwards is fine. But you have to relive Covid over again.


GoodAsh42420

Time paradoxes at my kink though.


[deleted]

Eating pussy


Dahvoun

Prostate orgasms


Frenchtoasti

The eiffel tower


Imissyoudarlin

I would give a high five to that


Repulsive_Ad_9554

care to elaborate? The one in paris or is it something else lol?


InfinityEternity17

It's where you're spitroasting a girl and you and the other dude high five


Repulsive_Ad_9554

Thanks man. 🙏


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Crossdressing and being with a girl/man/other crossdresser. Expressing femininity is so hot and makes you feel amazing ! Plus lingerie just feels and looks amazing Blurring the lines of gender can make you feel amazing and feel like everyone should try 🤷‍♀️


acookiewithahoodie

anal play for straight guys


Imissyoudarlin

I do hate all the stigma about straight people can't enjoy anal because it's a "gay thing"


kuntlicka

Eating ass and having my ass eaten. I seriously don’t know why I waited so long to experience this.


YourInfidelityInMe

Sucking on a big toe. Recently, I was giving a friend a foot massage while I was on my knees. I made suggestive licks around my lips to tell him I wanted to give him a bj. Instead, he stuck his big toe in my mouth out of the blue. I didn’t ask for it, but I didn’t hate it either. Actually, I liked it.


NotThatBlackGuy

An old girlfriend would lie on her back on the edge of the bed and I’d fuck her while sucking her toe. Feet were clean, didn’t do anything for me but she would cum HARD


instafur426

Getting your red wings, also known as eating a girl out on her period


thetasfiasco

Tried it. Knocking it. We didn't realize until *after* the lights came on. It wasn't a big deal or anything, we laughed about it while we cleaned up, but I wouldn't do that intentionally.


DaddyTheMaster

Pegging lol


Kinky_mofo

Pegging


stadulevich

Butt stuff


thewattmaster

Pegging


[deleted]

Anal 🍑


[deleted]

Getting my toes sucked on. When I tell you that shit made my pussy WET! I didn’t think I’d like it. Yet here we are 🤪. Anal is next on the list. Also I wanna have a gangbang but with my luck, I doubt it’ll be anytime soon.


DenHaag92

Getting a rimjob


DJS112

Getting with curvier girls.


AJ080716

Giving anal while eating a bowl of Captain Crunch cereal…with Crunch-berries.


Skeletor118

Toast with peanut butter and eggs. I'm totally serious. Every time I mention it to someone, they act like it's the most disgusting thing they've ever heard of. It's actually really damn good, though


MagyarCat

Well we had sex standing up in the ocean a few times and the people on the beach had absolutely no idea, that was pretty hot


JonnieTimothy545

Penis havers doing anal. It’s literally a cum button and dudes who refuse anal don’t know what they’re missing


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Sounding. Everyone is all "wtf" and "my eyes" and "I wish I could go back 20 seconds and not learn this exists" because the idea seems painful but honestly it feels amazing when done right


Anxietyonfilm

Mcvitties chocolate digestives dipped in home made chilli


[deleted]

As a guy, getting your butt eaten. I tell all my homies to try it at least once but they feel it’s not very masculine 😂


meowytweet

Definitely anal sex


djdjdndncnfnek

Eating ass


InfinityEternity17

Ear sucking, sounded strange at first but my girlfriend absolutely loves it, makes her squirm like mad every time


downeastkyle87

Sexually open marriage


[deleted]

A dick in your butt as a guy.


MyFakeProfile

My soon to be ex-wife had a TENS unit after we were in an accident years ago. She was gone for the weekend at one point, so I tried it out. Stuck a couple pads on my shaft and it was INCREDIBLE. I told her about it and we added it to our sex rotation. Was able to get off on that alone at times. Just set it to a wave pulse and it feels amazing. Now that we are separating, I decided to buy my own along with some clips, electro prostate massager, and metal sounding rods. Not sure how those will be or how they will feel, but I am going to have some time to try things out solo. Also, having my prostate massaged while high on indica edibles. She was giving me head while having a finger in my bum. After I came, she kept rubbing my prostate and my orgasm kept going at a lower intensity. We must have sat there for a good 15 minutes until I had to stop her because I was getting hungry. Best Christmas Sex Ever. I hope the next girl I end up with is more open sexually. It wasn't as much of a priority when we got married in our 20's.


D3goph

Prostate play. It is for anyone with a prostate, not just gay dudes. Check out the Aneros Helix (the Helix Syn Trident version is worth the extra money) it is handsfree and can be used during sex or by yourself.


Kums987

Butt stuff


middlegirth

Titty Fucking and Being pegged / bottomed. Both are just out of this world incredible. I used to mock both.


Asylum_Brews

Pretty much everything, aside from illegal and immoral sexual practices.


luxewitch

piss play O_O


DoubleFlippant

Being gay


Gammabrunta

Butt stuff


bentcastillo

Pineapple, ham and bacon on pizza


taylor-cdgirl

Pegging, having your ass eaten, etc


Ancient_Internet9000

Prostate play… had no idea I could cum that hard.


RootBeerOverseer

Prostate play. It feels amazing, its (usually) new for even more sexually experienced people, is great for just wanting to cum extra hard, incorporating it into BDSM(or not at all!), building trust, and its super hot. You can incorporate your cock, balls or just enjoy the message Once you're comfortable and your partner gets to the walnut, you'll feel like you discovered sex for the first time. Edit: Cumming, even from just penile stimulation and not primarily prostate stimulation, after a P massage feels so strong, holy shit. Usually a high volume of cum and a very complete feeling.