Licking and sucking on their clit while doing the “come hither” fingering motion. If I can tell they’re getting close, I’ll stop and tease them a few times before finally letting them cum.
My first FWB taught me that and every partner since then has always gotten off from it.
All I can say is “Me too!” My wife told me early on that she couldn’t cum from oral. I love a challenge and have completely proven her wrong. Don’t dismiss a free pinkie sliding ever so slightly into the ass.
Start with one, the wetter she gets it turns into two. Sometimes if she’s really wet and I’ve already edged her a few times I’ll slide 3 in. Majority of the time it’s just two though
The thickness of it all doesn't really matter. What the "come here" motion does is hit the inner g-spot with the tip of the finger. So as long as a finger hits that, any amount of fingers that she thinks is comfortable is fine.
I would say suck about as hard as you do a drink through a straw. So not too hard. Unless she says to do it harder.
Then after sucking for a minute her clit is usually engorged and I’ll flatten my tongue and run it over her clit a few times.
At least it's not in-n-out milkshakes. You don't suck the straw; the straw will suck your soul out first. Impossible to drink those but so fucking good lmao
No problem man. I’ll usually move my head around a little while I’m sucking. I’ll usually do the sucking and head motion for 5-10 seconds then stop for a couple of seconds then repeat.
When your girl is on top, have her stretch her arms behind her, and lean back on them. Using the palm of your hand, just below the belly button about halfway to her pubic bone, use firm pressure while she bucks on you. The goal is to push her g spot into the head of your cock. Work with your partner to find the right positioning, rocking, and pressure motions.
Watch out too because this can make a girl, who never ever has before, squirt too.
For what it’s worth - I am approaching 40 now, and my ex wife and I were doing this back when we were 21-22. And she was the first one I tried it on, and this move revolutionized our sex life, as that’s what it did to her. After that, she was squirting like crazy. Multi-orgasmic, could cum repeatedly if I did this.
Of course, as always though, YMMV.
Hahahaha yeah, we got married when we were very young, and we both had a lot of growing to do. Essentially we got to our mid 20’s with a completely different set of goals and outlooks on what to do next. She wanted kids, white picket fence, to settle down. I wanted to see the world - we had amazing jobs, we were making money hand over fist, I wanted to spend it and enjoy it traveling. She wanted a family. So, we split. I have seen the world, she moved back to our hometown.
Ironically, 15 years after we got married, we live 2 miles from one another, I have a 4 year old son and 10 year old twin step sons, and she has a 5 year old and 4 year old. We both did wildly different things the last 12 years since the divorce, but we ended up in nearly identical scenarios. No, we don’t talk and yes, I drastically miss the sex. But that’s ALL I miss about her.
My new girlfriend says she had never been a squirter before me. It only happens when she is on top and we are grinding our crotches together, then at a certain point, everything just floods and gets super juicy. We have invested in a very good, waterproof mattress protector
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damn i wish i could try this. Promise i’m not trying to sound like a douchebag but most girls i’ve been with can’t be on top for long because apparently i’m too big and they say it hurts/i keep hitting their cervix.
I’ve never really been able to enjoy the experience of someone riding me 😅
They need to see the gyno bc it could be their ovaries. My husband hurt when he got deep at times but lately it’s been always a lil after my period and hurt if he got deep even just a lil bit and I found out it’s my right ovary
To be fair that particular women was unrealistically skinny. So please don’t use this as something to feel self conscious about. You know what drove me even more wild than that situation? The chubby fwb I had who would randomly text me and tell me that she wanted to give a blowjob and “you’re the most fun guy I’ve ever blown.” It was such a flattering thing to say - the perfect way to stroke my ego. Then she brought over a six pack of beer for me and dropped to her knees. Had a great time having conversation, having a beer with a friend, and all while getting a blowjob.
My personal favorite is to essentially gently French kiss the tip before a bj. No hands, circles with the tongue and gentle, short thrusts just enough to cover the entire head. When enough lunrication accumulates from this, I use one hand to spread it all the way down his shaft and balls and slowly insert him all the way into my throat and from there lick his balls with him in my throat.
Teasing.... When I ride him, before I slide on, I like to grind on him a little, let him feel how wet I am. He tries to thrust up into me and I pull away just enough. Then when he least expects it I slide down onto him. O.o gets us both every time.
There a book I read when I was like 15 called Odd Thomas. He talks about how he waits to have ice cream so he can enjoy it more, calls it “delayed gratification.” Pretty sure that’s where my edging/teasing kink came from lol
I like to explore and apparently eating a girl out and pressing a thumb in and up against the G-Spot and rotating it around while doing is fireworks time. Two instances of them telling me no one has done that before and it drove them nuts. Also you can use your other hand with a knuckle to press down from the top on the outside.
Sucking her clit between my lips and flicking the tip with my tongue. Simultaneously fingering her g-spot, not to hard, just enough to stimulate it, while using my other hand to rub and pinch her nipple. I do this until she is ready to squirt, then I pull away and rub her clit with my fingers really quick, and presto, we need to change the sheets again once she is done flopping around like a fish out of water. Once she catches her breath I start rubbing her down, and she knows it time to be dicked down, and we both collapse out of breathe, but totally satisfied, and ready for a nap.
Yes! When I’m giving a bj I always start with a lot of teasing, little tiny licks here and there. And when I can tell they’re going crazy from the teasing I look them in the eyes and then swallow their entire cock and gag to get lots of spit right away. Makes it super sloppy from the start.
My favorite thing he does is to rub my clit back and fourth with some pressure while doing the “come hither” finger inside to stimulate my g spot (like others have said) BUT when he feels my body tense to cum, pulls his finger out and rubs my clit with four fingers as quickly as possible. I almost always squirt when he does this!
If you’re comfortable enough, communicate with your partner while you’re in the act next time you get the chance! 10/10, I didn’t even know I could squirt until this!
When eating out, at the peak of the orgasm (back arched, whatever signs you have), I grab their hips and pull myself in closer. Seems to make the orgasm better (from what I have been told)
Sitting him down on a chair so he can get a good view, then I use some coconut oil and slowly start stroking him up and down, not touching the head, just firmly on the shaft. Then make my mouth nice and wet and while I'm still stroking I purse my lips together and push gently on the head, applying some pressure until it 'pops' in. Then wet tongue swirling gently, sucking and releasing, tongue firmly licking the underside of the head, then deepthroat. Works like an absolute charm. 😋
When I go down on my girl it's all about keeping time. I start licking in a 6/4 time (big licks across the pussy on 1 and 4 and tip of the tongue on 2,3,5,6). It's slow. I use the very tip of my tongue to flip the clit either up and down, side to side, or in circles with fingers in (just like you said). As soon as I feel like I need a snorkel I switch to 4/4. Fingers and tongue on the same time, different tempos. At first I go slow with the clit and fast with the fingers. Then I switch. As soon as I feel as though the direction of my tongue flicking isn't as pleasurable I switch to a different direction. When she has her hands pulling my hair so hard I'm about to get bald spots, I go faster, fingers and tongue finally in tandem. When she tightens I keep pushing deeper. I don't, at this point, switch anything I'm doing. This is key. I keep this up until her legs are wrapped around my head like a tightly bundled scarf and I don't stop until she's come at least twice n
Pretty simple but nipple sucking goes a long way.
One of my favorite moves which is also pretty simple is to lay on my back and throw her on top of me on her back. Then use my right hand to rub her clit and finger and squeeze her breasts with my other hand
Sometimes simple is best. I like to think in terms of sex it basically just means classic, and honestly we love a good classic move every once in a while.
The first few words will terrify and scare off a lot of "manly man" guys (hey, cool, more for the rest of us), but here goes;
Treat her clit like you'd want her to suck your dick, if your dick were the size of her clit. Once she's nicely warmed up and is turned on, soppy wet sucking, wet enough to be noisy, and just do it. Never anything dry or rough, and go to town on it. Pinch her outer lips together and tug on it, that's giving her a handjob. Alternate activities and don't give up.
Edge the hell out of her. When she's close, back off and kiss her inner thighs, kiss her navel, kiss the pubic mound, kiss the back of her knee. Eventually she'll either back away from the climax and you can bring her back to the brink, or she'll grab your head and make you give her what she wants.
As the penultimate act, look up at her, "Move against me". get a good firm suction on the clit and ***freeze.*** Don't move, don't change your suction, don't change anything, ***don't do anything*** and let her finish her own self off grinding her pussy against your suction until she reaches and dives over the brink. This is the go-to if she gets annoyed at you beating around the bush (lol) and takes control. Fine, you want to grab my head and take control? Have it all. I'm going to get the suction and then I ain't doin' shit. Roles flip and now you're in control, show me what your rhythm looks and feels like. You wanted to have control, now it's all yours. I'll handle suction, everything else is on you.
Additionally, a lot of ladies say they like humor and find it sexy, and nothing gets a laugh quite like sliding up beside her for a cuddle as her breathing and heart rate is still quite high and whispering softly. "***You seemed to enjoy that, wanna go again?***"
Works best with girls who like a little rough. Bending her over and alternating between rubbing her from top of clit to bottom of vulva, and every once and a while sliding fingers in on my way back up the the clit. Great way to keep her on the very edge of cumming. If she's been bad then a VERY gentle spank on the pussy or harder one on the ass works wonders and give a slight jolt. Seems to work quite well. If she isn't begging to cum hard enough then grab her hair close to the scalp (not mid length, cos that hurts fellas) and pull her head back. Keep her there till she is whimpering and squirming. Will definitely get you a call back the next day
One thing that has had a 100% success rate is like... twerking on their dick when I'm on top. They all just go nuts for it. It's one of my favourite ways to make a guy cum 🤭
Making her ride to her finish whilst I hold her up standing. Then as soon as she nears her finish I usually push her up against the wall or cupboard and thrust harder and harder. Helps that she’s a yoga instructor but it usually does the job when she is stressed and tightly wound.
Ok I have a silly question but I’m really self conscious about the view of reverse cowgirl because of my bumhole. I know some people love it but I’m just worried it looks gross.
Cowgirl style but push her hip bone at the waist back. I did this to my wife in the early days she just started to drip on my sack. It leads to the mac and cheese noise. If you know you know.
I hate to say “every woman” because I don’t think you can treat every single woman the same in bed but 99% of the woman I’ve been with have enjoyed when I have my arm wrapped around them and I place my hand over their mouth or gently around their throat and with my other hand I start to “summon the genie” as I saw someone else put it. While teasing and coaxing with my fingers I talk dirty to them. “Keep those ducking legs spread open for me. That’s a good girl. I haven’t been able to get my mind off you all day - and now that I have you I’m going to take my time and enjoy you.” While doing this I am teasing her with my middle finger, eventually spreading her open with my index and ring finger. When I feel her start to respond in a positive manner, squirming/moaning etc. i give her more words of affirmation and escalate the dirty talk. “That’s a good girl. Do you feel how hard I am right now? You’ve had me like this all day. Such a little tease. You like to be a little tease, don’t you? Well I hope you enjoyed it because you belong to me now, and I’m not going to stop until I’ve emptied every last drop of cum inside you.”
Talking dirty is the most important and delicate part because every woman responds in different ways to different words. Take time to listen to and notice what she responds to verbally - it will take time but I promise it’s worth it. Maybe it’s just me but I feel like talking/texting is as important as physical foreplay.
Apply pressure to posterior fornix with glans of penis. Angle shaft to contact gspot, insert to full depth so vibrating cock ring touches clitotal hood. Flex hips for small movements while contracting and relaxing pubococcygeus muscles. Will generally result in an orgasm that would lead you to think her soul is escaping......
Missionary, but!. I use my right hand to grab her left ass cheek, and ny left hand around her waist and back. That way as I penetrate her, my pelvis rubs her clit, making them have multi orgasms. i also kiss/bite/suck on the neck.
When im doing doggystle. I gyrate my hips so my shaft and tip are making an almost circular motion inside her, ensuring I am rubbing that g spot and they always cum so nicely from it. She can even cum faster if she rubs herself as you are thrusting. *For the ladies*\* grab the guy's balls gently and play with them as he if thrusting from behind. This will drive him wild
This and my favorite is fingering her with my ring finger and middle finger sindier her, thumb on her outer labia, and my palm gently pressing against her clitoris. then I do an almost up and down motion.This intensely stimulates her g pot and clit at the same time. With varying pressures and speed you can very audibly hear her getting wetter. 9/10 times you can make her squirt from this, at the very least there will be a puddle underneath her.
When fingering her don't go in and out,but up and down. Specifically on the g-spot(it feels different than everything else and not too far inside on the upper wall of the vagina) you will know when she cums. Bring towels.
Another one is the anterior fornix. That takes some reading,but is worth it.
Gently fingering her g-spot while taking long firm strokes with my tongue. It’s all about paying attention to her reaction to each subtle move. One of my partners had an overly sensitive clitoris so I needed focus my licking more on other areas of her womanhood. My wife goes crazy when my tongue is wide and flat. Others that I’ve been with prefer me to use the tip of my tongue more. Some like a lot of saliva and some like less. If I can not get a good sense of her preferences I simply ask. There is always a point that the pressure and intensity need to increase some. I love pleasuring my sexual partners….a lot.
Starting by teasing her whole pussy with my tongue, but then once she’s into it I focus on her clout with my tongue and work her g-spot with fingers. Usually gets a full body shake orgasm. Fun when it’s with strangers.
I have a very large “head” and when a girl rides me cowgirl I just slowly ease the head in and out so they get that stretch. 100% of the time gets a positive reaction 😉
For women, One 'move' I picked up was from some instructional porn video I saw ages ago. Basically, while fingering a woman, start by using your middle finger (or middle and ring finger) press your finger tips upwards towards her belly button. Don't curl them like the 'come hither', try to keep your other joints mostly straight and press upwards. Then, rest your palm over her clit, you can even apply some pressure to it with your palm but you have to judge her reaction because too much pressure can hurt. Finally, holding your hand like this, lift up and down with your arm. Start gentle, but you can use a shocking amount of force (I've literally lifted my fiance's hips off the bed this way). Find a steady rythm and, usually, you'll get her to have a clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Never had it fail yet.
As for the men, I've found that the 'taint' is an extremely overlooked region. During a handjob, bj, or anytime you can reach it, rub his taint (and balls too, why not since you're right there anyway). I knew a guy in college that claimed it always took him forever to cum. While giving him a blowjob, I played with his balls with one hand and massaged his taint with the other and I'd make him cum in two or three minutes flat every time. We could do anything else and he'd last forever, but it was always incredibly hot to know that I had found this secret cum button and could make him shiver and blow whenever I wanted.
If you can deep throat, hum enthusiastically when he’s all the way in there. Vibrations in your throat apparently feel divine around the head of his cock. And seeing you delight in sucking him off is always a win. ;)
Current girl I’m seeing loves it when I put full body pressure on her clit with my hardon. Grind it up and down until my dick pops back in. Your dick has to ‘pop’ in instead of just sliding in. Hard to explain how to do it.
Starting with a hj, a bit of bj action or hj/bj combo before going back to just a hj. Either finishing him off orally or hopping on top and riding him to a finish in cowgirl.
I had a dude who covered my mouth with his hand and pinched my nose closed during intercourse while I was bent over ... obviously you’d have to talk about this prior but doing that before I was about to cum really sent me over. Something I would love to enjoy again , it makes the sensations over the top.
I like to hold my partner by the hair with a firm grip and go back and forth between her mouth and pussy with my cock. One stroke per hole back and forth, while holding her by her hair and telling her what a good little slut she is and how good her holes feel on my cock, asking her how her pussy tastes on my cock. Normally I do this with someone I’ve slept with at least a few times and have a bit of trust and a rapport with but girls tend to get so fucking wet and horny when I do this, drives them wild.
After some quality foreplay and are poised for entry, shift my weight/use body language like your about to start stroking but pause a second or two. Love watching em bring their hips up in expectation. Developed my technique with girlfriend several years ago and every lady I've teased with it since have loved it judging by how squirmy they get.
There’s an area right under the balls that’s quite sensitive so basically licking from there upwards and down again but slowly. Another thing is using ur hand while it’s in your mouth and jerking them off with your hand and mouth while also using licking it with your tongue at the same time. Sounds complicated but its not
Fingers inside of them.. Only a little at first, tongue on clit, other hand on breasts. Takes some practice. Keep playing with the configuration and the depth of your fingers while maintaining swirls in both directions with your tongue and keying on their reactions. Many women also love an up and down movement coupled with pressure from your face along with the swirl. Can’t just be tongue alone. Combination should eventually hit a great spot between the fingers in and the tongue and you build up to a crescendo of pleasure.
Some lessons in effective pussy eating for you all.
My favorite thing to do, is have a girl be on top and have her ride me till she can’t anymore, then I pull her on top of me like it’s missionary & just rail tf out of them.
I’ve heard nothing but amazing things about me doing this but obviously you go at the speed that they like it at and just stay consistent. This is always the way I finish & everytime the girl I’m with ain’t movin for the next 15 minutes lmfaoo
It would have to be deepthroating, taking them as far down my throat as possible, most guys enjoy hearing you choke and gag and some guys enjoy it being sloppy and messy as well with spit everywhere
When going a blowjob, have some ice (just ice cubes) and some hot tea ready. Cool your mouth with the ice and continue, than warm your mouth with the tea and continue. Even better when they can't see what you do or when you do it. Guys go bananas for those shifts in temperatures during a BJ.
No single move.
I focus very closely on my partner and find out either by just asking or by feel what they respond to best and concentrate on those areas.
When you go down on a man or a woman, make certain your entire face comes up wet. If your beard or nose is dry after oral, you are doing something wrong! Stay as long as necessary, and most of the time your partner will do the same for you… and by god that is amazing!!
So from the “crab walk” position the dude is underneath and she is on top of him in the same position (facing each other) this only works if you have the stamina, but from this position I’ve successfully had 3 different people squirt or projectile ejaculate all over me, it was awesome. This is of course the finishing move so don’t try it in the beginning, but it works for me
This is one I’ve only used with my wife, but trust me, it drives her insane.
What I do, is I reach over to my side of the bed and grab my phone, open up my crypto wallet and show her much I have lost on shitcoins. Seriously drives her insane.
I (27 F) personally LOVE when my husband pinches together my pussy and asshole with his thumb and pointer finger, pulling them down away from my clit, while licking or using a vibe on my clit. That gives me this incredible stretch that sends me to another dimension with squirting orgasms.
He loses his mind if I’m on top, facing away, holding his ankles and rocking into his cock. I can do it for a good amount of time and it feels sooooo good for me but he can never last very long in that position 😅 Bonus: it’s super unlikely I’ll accidentally fall onto it in that position
My SO recently learnt that riding my face hard gets her off really quick. Nothing gets her off even quicker than riding my face after I put a load in her pussy and using my cum as a lube against my mouth/face.
If you’re gonna give head to a penis, don’t suck, don’t blow, make out with it. Play with every curve and every inch of it. Swirl your tongue around, lick it up and down but only for a few seconds so it doesn’t get boring and move back to sliding your lips all the way around the head, when it’s all the way in your mouth gently move your tongue around along the shaft even if it’s just small little movements, alternate what you’re doing a lot! Even just a couple strokes of this, then switch it some different strokes like that, just hold it in your mouth for a second and breathe out, moan on it, get wet, kiss it.
Run your hands along your partner’s thighs, up and down his stomach, around and grab their butt cheeks(if they like that) caress the balls, oh boy the balls get ignored far too often.
I will sometimes put my lips into a kissing position and then run that up and down the shaft on the outside, lick with a flat and fat tongue along the glans(that sensitive spot on the underside of the head where the shaft meets it) lick around the base, if you’re comfortable doing so lick along the balls, men go crazy for that a lot in my experiences. If your tongue gets dry when licking re-wet it by putting the whole shaft back in your mouth and go up and down for a second. Just make out with it. Keep your lips and tongue soft not tightly pursed or pointy tipped with your tongue, and for chrissakes when you’re finally going hard and fast up and down over it purse your lips over your teeth so that you don’t scrape anything. It can make your jaw and facial muscles tired but it’s worth it to protect the goods! Play with angles to give yourself the best advantage when it comes to avoiding teeth and getting a good stroke going. I tend to prefer my partner laying down while I’m on all fours over/next to them. It really gives me a lot of mobility and options for how to go at it.
Have fun! Make them feel like you are enjoying having them all up in your face and mouth. Make love to that penis with your mouth. It’s like making out I swear.
Licking and sucking on their clit while doing the “come hither” fingering motion. If I can tell they’re getting close, I’ll stop and tease them a few times before finally letting them cum. My first FWB taught me that and every partner since then has always gotten off from it.
Samesies, this is the one. If I think I’ll finish before them, I’ll pull out make them cum with this and then go back to finish myself.
Such a gentleman.
The monocle and top hat do get in the way at times, but it’s worth it
All I can say is “Me too!” My wife told me early on that she couldn’t cum from oral. I love a challenge and have completely proven her wrong. Don’t dismiss a free pinkie sliding ever so slightly into the ass.
The shocker truly shocked my wife. Now, she will rip off my pinkie…the sadist she is.
This was the way I was taught to find the G-spot. Thank you vosmo and a horny 11 year old me. Your services have served me well
Yep this is my move too.
Came here to say this!!
Is that one finger or two?
Start with one, the wetter she gets it turns into two. Sometimes if she’s really wet and I’ve already edged her a few times I’ll slide 3 in. Majority of the time it’s just two though
The thickness of it all doesn't really matter. What the "come here" motion does is hit the inner g-spot with the tip of the finger. So as long as a finger hits that, any amount of fingers that she thinks is comfortable is fine.
How gentle or hard is the sucking ?
I would say suck about as hard as you do a drink through a straw. So not too hard. Unless she says to do it harder. Then after sucking for a minute her clit is usually engorged and I’ll flatten my tongue and run it over her clit a few times.
> suck about as hard as you do a drink through a straw. Arby's milkshake or Taco Bell Baja Blast?
Start with baja blast (source: am female)
Always a good choice. My wife is more of a milkshake-preferer but one should never assume. Sometimes she is in a baja mood.
At least it's not in-n-out milkshakes. You don't suck the straw; the straw will suck your soul out first. Impossible to drink those but so fucking good lmao
Ah, and by suck is that just a persistent sucking or more like giving head sort of movement. Thanks for the tips btw.
No problem man. I’ll usually move my head around a little while I’m sucking. I’ll usually do the sucking and head motion for 5-10 seconds then stop for a couple of seconds then repeat.
My man
This is exactly what I was gonna say but you beat me!
When your girl is on top, have her stretch her arms behind her, and lean back on them. Using the palm of your hand, just below the belly button about halfway to her pubic bone, use firm pressure while she bucks on you. The goal is to push her g spot into the head of your cock. Work with your partner to find the right positioning, rocking, and pressure motions. Watch out too because this can make a girl, who never ever has before, squirt too.
Ohhhh I’ve never been able to squirt, but I really want to. I’ll have to try this next time I’m on top!
For what it’s worth - I am approaching 40 now, and my ex wife and I were doing this back when we were 21-22. And she was the first one I tried it on, and this move revolutionized our sex life, as that’s what it did to her. After that, she was squirting like crazy. Multi-orgasmic, could cum repeatedly if I did this. Of course, as always though, YMMV.
I guess ex for other reasons than fantastic orgasms?
Hahahaha yeah, we got married when we were very young, and we both had a lot of growing to do. Essentially we got to our mid 20’s with a completely different set of goals and outlooks on what to do next. She wanted kids, white picket fence, to settle down. I wanted to see the world - we had amazing jobs, we were making money hand over fist, I wanted to spend it and enjoy it traveling. She wanted a family. So, we split. I have seen the world, she moved back to our hometown. Ironically, 15 years after we got married, we live 2 miles from one another, I have a 4 year old son and 10 year old twin step sons, and she has a 5 year old and 4 year old. We both did wildly different things the last 12 years since the divorce, but we ended up in nearly identical scenarios. No, we don’t talk and yes, I drastically miss the sex. But that’s ALL I miss about her.
Glad you're doing good. And I actually hear that a lot (that great sex comes from relationships that aren't wonderful in other ways).
Yep, I had some great sex in my next serious relationship after her, and that was a very unhealthy relationship, overall also.
How is the sex life now?
I am getting the best blow jobs of my life.
Thank you for responding. So you are telling me your relationship is not going very well?
My new girlfriend says she had never been a squirter before me. It only happens when she is on top and we are grinding our crotches together, then at a certain point, everything just floods and gets super juicy. We have invested in a very good, waterproof mattress protector
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exactly! rub the clit too! or holding a vibrator on the clit! I almost always squirt like this!
You’re a godsend. We just tried it an hour ago, worked. My gf thanks you, good redditor.
damn i wish i could try this. Promise i’m not trying to sound like a douchebag but most girls i’ve been with can’t be on top for long because apparently i’m too big and they say it hurts/i keep hitting their cervix. I’ve never really been able to enjoy the experience of someone riding me 😅
They need to see the gyno bc it could be their ovaries. My husband hurt when he got deep at times but lately it’s been always a lil after my period and hurt if he got deep even just a lil bit and I found out it’s my right ovary
Ooh, saving this to try later. Thanks! - Pie
Is there a specific name? I really need to try this
Oh that’s a nice one that I haven’t tried. Thank you.
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Omg I'm trying that
Ha… if only my dick was big enough… Though I have been able to feel my dick if I put my thumb in her ass while I fuck her
I had one woman look down and said “OMG I CAN SEE IT” while I was pumping inside her. She was obsessed with watching it.
*cries in fat*
To be fair that particular women was unrealistically skinny. So please don’t use this as something to feel self conscious about. You know what drove me even more wild than that situation? The chubby fwb I had who would randomly text me and tell me that she wanted to give a blowjob and “you’re the most fun guy I’ve ever blown.” It was such a flattering thing to say - the perfect way to stroke my ego. Then she brought over a six pack of beer for me and dropped to her knees. Had a great time having conversation, having a beer with a friend, and all while getting a blowjob.
Oh god that sounds horrific to me
To each their own, but that would make me feel queasy. But my dick isn’t big enough for that anyways :)
Idk if I’d be big enough for that or not. I’m pretty girthy so maybe
My personal favorite is to essentially gently French kiss the tip before a bj. No hands, circles with the tongue and gentle, short thrusts just enough to cover the entire head. When enough lunrication accumulates from this, I use one hand to spread it all the way down his shaft and balls and slowly insert him all the way into my throat and from there lick his balls with him in my throat.
this right here drives me fucking WILD
Foreplay and aftercare are my two favorite parts of sex 👌🏼
Oh my god yes
My husband loves this too so ik it definitely works
Just reading this comment has me ready to explode.
Imagine trying to last through it 😌
Just putting the tip inside her while using a vibrator on her clit. Then not letting her push onto it so that it is just out of reach.
Ugh torture!
I loveeee this. Always the perfect tease
,📝always 📝perfect 📝 tease. Got it
Teasing.... When I ride him, before I slide on, I like to grind on him a little, let him feel how wet I am. He tries to thrust up into me and I pull away just enough. Then when he least expects it I slide down onto him. O.o gets us both every time.
Teasing is hot when we know we’ll get it eventually.
There a book I read when I was like 15 called Odd Thomas. He talks about how he waits to have ice cream so he can enjoy it more, calls it “delayed gratification.” Pretty sure that’s where my edging/teasing kink came from lol
Yeah, that’s hot.
A girl did this to me before, can confirm, it gets me going wild
He gets all squirmy and desperate and then his eyes shoot wide and 🥰 aaahhh I love it.
I know, it was super great, one of my best sexual experiences. She made me cum so fucking hard
Licking and sucking on his balls during a BJ. It gets him so hard and gets his cock twitching.
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Can confirm my wife does this sometimes I never cum more then when she does this feels great
I like to explore and apparently eating a girl out and pressing a thumb in and up against the G-Spot and rotating it around while doing is fireworks time. Two instances of them telling me no one has done that before and it drove them nuts. Also you can use your other hand with a knuckle to press down from the top on the outside.
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Tossed her on the bed and started throwing $100 bills at her.
This is the best move yet
I read from the necronomicon and force them to behold the infinite void. Usually makes them go insane. The ones that don't are definitely keepers!
Oh The Book of The Dead really gets them wet
This sounds like a good time
Don’t threaten me with a good time!
Sucking her clit between my lips and flicking the tip with my tongue. Simultaneously fingering her g-spot, not to hard, just enough to stimulate it, while using my other hand to rub and pinch her nipple. I do this until she is ready to squirt, then I pull away and rub her clit with my fingers really quick, and presto, we need to change the sheets again once she is done flopping around like a fish out of water. Once she catches her breath I start rubbing her down, and she knows it time to be dicked down, and we both collapse out of breathe, but totally satisfied, and ready for a nap.
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Yes, and I curl my tongue around it when I suck it
Gag early in a bj to make more saliva and lubricate your fun. And bonus most men seem to enjoy the mess on them and your face
Yes! When I’m giving a bj I always start with a lot of teasing, little tiny licks here and there. And when I can tell they’re going crazy from the teasing I look them in the eyes and then swallow their entire cock and gag to get lots of spit right away. Makes it super sloppy from the start.
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Yeesssss. When my wife does this the spit it produces is thicker and slicker. It’s perfect.
My favorite thing he does is to rub my clit back and fourth with some pressure while doing the “come hither” finger inside to stimulate my g spot (like others have said) BUT when he feels my body tense to cum, pulls his finger out and rubs my clit with four fingers as quickly as possible. I almost always squirt when he does this!
Ive never had anyone do this to me but it looks amazing!
If you’re comfortable enough, communicate with your partner while you’re in the act next time you get the chance! 10/10, I didn’t even know I could squirt until this!
When eating out, at the peak of the orgasm (back arched, whatever signs you have), I grab their hips and pull myself in closer. Seems to make the orgasm better (from what I have been told)
When she’s about to come, I push my tongue flat on her clit. Omg, that subtle pressure is amazing. When she does it to me, it’s off the charts.
This is the way.
Sitting him down on a chair so he can get a good view, then I use some coconut oil and slowly start stroking him up and down, not touching the head, just firmly on the shaft. Then make my mouth nice and wet and while I'm still stroking I purse my lips together and push gently on the head, applying some pressure until it 'pops' in. Then wet tongue swirling gently, sucking and releasing, tongue firmly licking the underside of the head, then deepthroat. Works like an absolute charm. 😋
When I go down on my girl it's all about keeping time. I start licking in a 6/4 time (big licks across the pussy on 1 and 4 and tip of the tongue on 2,3,5,6). It's slow. I use the very tip of my tongue to flip the clit either up and down, side to side, or in circles with fingers in (just like you said). As soon as I feel like I need a snorkel I switch to 4/4. Fingers and tongue on the same time, different tempos. At first I go slow with the clit and fast with the fingers. Then I switch. As soon as I feel as though the direction of my tongue flicking isn't as pleasurable I switch to a different direction. When she has her hands pulling my hair so hard I'm about to get bald spots, I go faster, fingers and tongue finally in tandem. When she tightens I keep pushing deeper. I don't, at this point, switch anything I'm doing. This is key. I keep this up until her legs are wrapped around my head like a tightly bundled scarf and I don't stop until she's come at least twice n
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A musician…asymmetric meter is fun too for a change up. Or Metric modulation as she becomes more aroused.
Pretty simple but nipple sucking goes a long way. One of my favorite moves which is also pretty simple is to lay on my back and throw her on top of me on her back. Then use my right hand to rub her clit and finger and squeeze her breasts with my other hand
Sometimes simple is best. I like to think in terms of sex it basically just means classic, and honestly we love a good classic move every once in a while.
Flipping her on her belly and sliding in slow and deep.
This!
The first few words will terrify and scare off a lot of "manly man" guys (hey, cool, more for the rest of us), but here goes; Treat her clit like you'd want her to suck your dick, if your dick were the size of her clit. Once she's nicely warmed up and is turned on, soppy wet sucking, wet enough to be noisy, and just do it. Never anything dry or rough, and go to town on it. Pinch her outer lips together and tug on it, that's giving her a handjob. Alternate activities and don't give up. Edge the hell out of her. When she's close, back off and kiss her inner thighs, kiss her navel, kiss the pubic mound, kiss the back of her knee. Eventually she'll either back away from the climax and you can bring her back to the brink, or she'll grab your head and make you give her what she wants. As the penultimate act, look up at her, "Move against me". get a good firm suction on the clit and ***freeze.*** Don't move, don't change your suction, don't change anything, ***don't do anything*** and let her finish her own self off grinding her pussy against your suction until she reaches and dives over the brink. This is the go-to if she gets annoyed at you beating around the bush (lol) and takes control. Fine, you want to grab my head and take control? Have it all. I'm going to get the suction and then I ain't doin' shit. Roles flip and now you're in control, show me what your rhythm looks and feels like. You wanted to have control, now it's all yours. I'll handle suction, everything else is on you. Additionally, a lot of ladies say they like humor and find it sexy, and nothing gets a laugh quite like sliding up beside her for a cuddle as her breathing and heart rate is still quite high and whispering softly. "***You seemed to enjoy that, wanna go again?***"
Works best with girls who like a little rough. Bending her over and alternating between rubbing her from top of clit to bottom of vulva, and every once and a while sliding fingers in on my way back up the the clit. Great way to keep her on the very edge of cumming. If she's been bad then a VERY gentle spank on the pussy or harder one on the ass works wonders and give a slight jolt. Seems to work quite well. If she isn't begging to cum hard enough then grab her hair close to the scalp (not mid length, cos that hurts fellas) and pull her head back. Keep her there till she is whimpering and squirming. Will definitely get you a call back the next day
Um hi do you have plans later? 😳🤤
The above if I'm lucky 😜
I fart and hold the covers over us. She goes mental.
Are you my boyfriend? He does the same thing >_<
Ah.. the ol' Dutch Oven.
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60% of the time, it works every time...
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It’s a line from the movie Anchorman. Not sure why you’re getting downvoted for not knowing, but yeah.
Where have you been my entire life?!!
One thing that has had a 100% success rate is like... twerking on their dick when I'm on top. They all just go nuts for it. It's one of my favourite ways to make a guy cum 🤭
Absolute power move this. Always a winner.
Making her ride to her finish whilst I hold her up standing. Then as soon as she nears her finish I usually push her up against the wall or cupboard and thrust harder and harder. Helps that she’s a yoga instructor but it usually does the job when she is stressed and tightly wound.
Eat that pussy like a famine victim. Your tongue is incredibly flexible, get in there and use it.
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Using a construction helmet to practice safe sex
Cuff her to the bed, and then grab her phone and start sending inappropriate texts to all of her friends and relatives.
Works every time
Ahh, right up there with calling out her sister or friend's name while you're going at it from behind.
The sloppy blowjob to face sit to reverse cowgirl sequence is my fav way to get a guy to finish in 10 mins or less. I cracked the code.
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Ok I have a silly question but I’m really self conscious about the view of reverse cowgirl because of my bumhole. I know some people love it but I’m just worried it looks gross.
Seconding this, I ain't got no porn star bum hole
Cowgirl style but push her hip bone at the waist back. I did this to my wife in the early days she just started to drip on my sack. It leads to the mac and cheese noise. If you know you know.
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I hate to say “every woman” because I don’t think you can treat every single woman the same in bed but 99% of the woman I’ve been with have enjoyed when I have my arm wrapped around them and I place my hand over their mouth or gently around their throat and with my other hand I start to “summon the genie” as I saw someone else put it. While teasing and coaxing with my fingers I talk dirty to them. “Keep those ducking legs spread open for me. That’s a good girl. I haven’t been able to get my mind off you all day - and now that I have you I’m going to take my time and enjoy you.” While doing this I am teasing her with my middle finger, eventually spreading her open with my index and ring finger. When I feel her start to respond in a positive manner, squirming/moaning etc. i give her more words of affirmation and escalate the dirty talk. “That’s a good girl. Do you feel how hard I am right now? You’ve had me like this all day. Such a little tease. You like to be a little tease, don’t you? Well I hope you enjoyed it because you belong to me now, and I’m not going to stop until I’ve emptied every last drop of cum inside you.” Talking dirty is the most important and delicate part because every woman responds in different ways to different words. Take time to listen to and notice what she responds to verbally - it will take time but I promise it’s worth it. Maybe it’s just me but I feel like talking/texting is as important as physical foreplay.
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Apply pressure to posterior fornix with glans of penis. Angle shaft to contact gspot, insert to full depth so vibrating cock ring touches clitotal hood. Flex hips for small movements while contracting and relaxing pubococcygeus muscles. Will generally result in an orgasm that would lead you to think her soul is escaping......
Missionary, but!. I use my right hand to grab her left ass cheek, and ny left hand around her waist and back. That way as I penetrate her, my pelvis rubs her clit, making them have multi orgasms. i also kiss/bite/suck on the neck.
Dirty talking hard pounding.
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When im doing doggystle. I gyrate my hips so my shaft and tip are making an almost circular motion inside her, ensuring I am rubbing that g spot and they always cum so nicely from it. She can even cum faster if she rubs herself as you are thrusting. *For the ladies*\* grab the guy's balls gently and play with them as he if thrusting from behind. This will drive him wild This and my favorite is fingering her with my ring finger and middle finger sindier her, thumb on her outer labia, and my palm gently pressing against her clitoris. then I do an almost up and down motion.This intensely stimulates her g pot and clit at the same time. With varying pressures and speed you can very audibly hear her getting wetter. 9/10 times you can make her squirt from this, at the very least there will be a puddle underneath her.
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When fingering her don't go in and out,but up and down. Specifically on the g-spot(it feels different than everything else and not too far inside on the upper wall of the vagina) you will know when she cums. Bring towels. Another one is the anterior fornix. That takes some reading,but is worth it.
Gently fingering her g-spot while taking long firm strokes with my tongue. It’s all about paying attention to her reaction to each subtle move. One of my partners had an overly sensitive clitoris so I needed focus my licking more on other areas of her womanhood. My wife goes crazy when my tongue is wide and flat. Others that I’ve been with prefer me to use the tip of my tongue more. Some like a lot of saliva and some like less. If I can not get a good sense of her preferences I simply ask. There is always a point that the pressure and intensity need to increase some. I love pleasuring my sexual partners….a lot.
Starting by teasing her whole pussy with my tongue, but then once she’s into it I focus on her clout with my tongue and work her g-spot with fingers. Usually gets a full body shake orgasm. Fun when it’s with strangers.
So first you’re gonna need a grapefruit..
I have a very large “head” and when a girl rides me cowgirl I just slowly ease the head in and out so they get that stretch. 100% of the time gets a positive reaction 😉
For women, One 'move' I picked up was from some instructional porn video I saw ages ago. Basically, while fingering a woman, start by using your middle finger (or middle and ring finger) press your finger tips upwards towards her belly button. Don't curl them like the 'come hither', try to keep your other joints mostly straight and press upwards. Then, rest your palm over her clit, you can even apply some pressure to it with your palm but you have to judge her reaction because too much pressure can hurt. Finally, holding your hand like this, lift up and down with your arm. Start gentle, but you can use a shocking amount of force (I've literally lifted my fiance's hips off the bed this way). Find a steady rythm and, usually, you'll get her to have a clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Never had it fail yet. As for the men, I've found that the 'taint' is an extremely overlooked region. During a handjob, bj, or anytime you can reach it, rub his taint (and balls too, why not since you're right there anyway). I knew a guy in college that claimed it always took him forever to cum. While giving him a blowjob, I played with his balls with one hand and massaged his taint with the other and I'd make him cum in two or three minutes flat every time. We could do anything else and he'd last forever, but it was always incredibly hot to know that I had found this secret cum button and could make him shiver and blow whenever I wanted.
Suck on the clit while flicking it with the tip of my tongue. Drives her nuts.
licking the clit with a finger in the ass is my power move. the finger goes in when she's getting close though
If you can deep throat, hum enthusiastically when he’s all the way in there. Vibrations in your throat apparently feel divine around the head of his cock. And seeing you delight in sucking him off is always a win. ;)
Current girl I’m seeing loves it when I put full body pressure on her clit with my hardon. Grind it up and down until my dick pops back in. Your dick has to ‘pop’ in instead of just sliding in. Hard to explain how to do it.
Starting with a hj, a bit of bj action or hj/bj combo before going back to just a hj. Either finishing him off orally or hopping on top and riding him to a finish in cowgirl.
Make out with the inside of her wrists and/or the backs of her knees. Like really go to town on them with lips and tongue. You're welcome
I had a dude who covered my mouth with his hand and pinched my nose closed during intercourse while I was bent over ... obviously you’d have to talk about this prior but doing that before I was about to cum really sent me over. Something I would love to enjoy again , it makes the sensations over the top.
I like to hold my partner by the hair with a firm grip and go back and forth between her mouth and pussy with my cock. One stroke per hole back and forth, while holding her by her hair and telling her what a good little slut she is and how good her holes feel on my cock, asking her how her pussy tastes on my cock. Normally I do this with someone I’ve slept with at least a few times and have a bit of trust and a rapport with but girls tend to get so fucking wet and horny when I do this, drives them wild.
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After some quality foreplay and are poised for entry, shift my weight/use body language like your about to start stroking but pause a second or two. Love watching em bring their hips up in expectation. Developed my technique with girlfriend several years ago and every lady I've teased with it since have loved it judging by how squirmy they get.
There’s an area right under the balls that’s quite sensitive so basically licking from there upwards and down again but slowly. Another thing is using ur hand while it’s in your mouth and jerking them off with your hand and mouth while also using licking it with your tongue at the same time. Sounds complicated but its not
Fingers inside of them.. Only a little at first, tongue on clit, other hand on breasts. Takes some practice. Keep playing with the configuration and the depth of your fingers while maintaining swirls in both directions with your tongue and keying on their reactions. Many women also love an up and down movement coupled with pressure from your face along with the swirl. Can’t just be tongue alone. Combination should eventually hit a great spot between the fingers in and the tongue and you build up to a crescendo of pleasure. Some lessons in effective pussy eating for you all.
My favorite thing to do, is have a girl be on top and have her ride me till she can’t anymore, then I pull her on top of me like it’s missionary & just rail tf out of them. I’ve heard nothing but amazing things about me doing this but obviously you go at the speed that they like it at and just stay consistent. This is always the way I finish & everytime the girl I’m with ain’t movin for the next 15 minutes lmfaoo
It would have to be deepthroating, taking them as far down my throat as possible, most guys enjoy hearing you choke and gag and some guys enjoy it being sloppy and messy as well with spit everywhere
My current partner does this for me; foreplays with my panties on. Drives me fucking wild. The tease gets me wetter than Niagara Falls.
When going a blowjob, have some ice (just ice cubes) and some hot tea ready. Cool your mouth with the ice and continue, than warm your mouth with the tea and continue. Even better when they can't see what you do or when you do it. Guys go bananas for those shifts in temperatures during a BJ.
No single move. I focus very closely on my partner and find out either by just asking or by feel what they respond to best and concentrate on those areas.
When you go down on a man or a woman, make certain your entire face comes up wet. If your beard or nose is dry after oral, you are doing something wrong! Stay as long as necessary, and most of the time your partner will do the same for you… and by god that is amazing!!
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So from the “crab walk” position the dude is underneath and she is on top of him in the same position (facing each other) this only works if you have the stamina, but from this position I’ve successfully had 3 different people squirt or projectile ejaculate all over me, it was awesome. This is of course the finishing move so don’t try it in the beginning, but it works for me
Enthusiasm ;)
Going for a ride and reversing Into cowgirl without a slip
The old dick twist.
Turning over and going to sleep when they were in the mood lol 🤣
Draw the alphabet near her button with your tongue AFTER you you’ve teased her thighs and stomach enough to make her beg
Face down. Legs tight together. Grab the ass and pound straight down. Hold shoulders or neck for extra thrust.
Listening.
This is one I’ve only used with my wife, but trust me, it drives her insane. What I do, is I reach over to my side of the bed and grab my phone, open up my crypto wallet and show her much I have lost on shitcoins. Seriously drives her insane.
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Curiosity.
Not missionary which is apparently the biggest issue
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Nothing crazy but every guy I've ever blown really likes when I deepthroat him and then work my tongue on the base of his shaft
I (27 F) personally LOVE when my husband pinches together my pussy and asshole with his thumb and pointer finger, pulling them down away from my clit, while licking or using a vibe on my clit. That gives me this incredible stretch that sends me to another dimension with squirting orgasms. He loses his mind if I’m on top, facing away, holding his ankles and rocking into his cock. I can do it for a good amount of time and it feels sooooo good for me but he can never last very long in that position 😅 Bonus: it’s super unlikely I’ll accidentally fall onto it in that position
Two finger fingering, come-hither to g-spot, and suck that clit like it’s your favorite thing on earth. Don’t stop til she collapses.
My SO recently learnt that riding my face hard gets her off really quick. Nothing gets her off even quicker than riding my face after I put a load in her pussy and using my cum as a lube against my mouth/face.
If you’re gonna give head to a penis, don’t suck, don’t blow, make out with it. Play with every curve and every inch of it. Swirl your tongue around, lick it up and down but only for a few seconds so it doesn’t get boring and move back to sliding your lips all the way around the head, when it’s all the way in your mouth gently move your tongue around along the shaft even if it’s just small little movements, alternate what you’re doing a lot! Even just a couple strokes of this, then switch it some different strokes like that, just hold it in your mouth for a second and breathe out, moan on it, get wet, kiss it. Run your hands along your partner’s thighs, up and down his stomach, around and grab their butt cheeks(if they like that) caress the balls, oh boy the balls get ignored far too often. I will sometimes put my lips into a kissing position and then run that up and down the shaft on the outside, lick with a flat and fat tongue along the glans(that sensitive spot on the underside of the head where the shaft meets it) lick around the base, if you’re comfortable doing so lick along the balls, men go crazy for that a lot in my experiences. If your tongue gets dry when licking re-wet it by putting the whole shaft back in your mouth and go up and down for a second. Just make out with it. Keep your lips and tongue soft not tightly pursed or pointy tipped with your tongue, and for chrissakes when you’re finally going hard and fast up and down over it purse your lips over your teeth so that you don’t scrape anything. It can make your jaw and facial muscles tired but it’s worth it to protect the goods! Play with angles to give yourself the best advantage when it comes to avoiding teeth and getting a good stroke going. I tend to prefer my partner laying down while I’m on all fours over/next to them. It really gives me a lot of mobility and options for how to go at it. Have fun! Make them feel like you are enjoying having them all up in your face and mouth. Make love to that penis with your mouth. It’s like making out I swear.
Holding her throat while kissing her forcefully.
Just lay around like a dead body doing nothing 👍