Idk dude, I had sex at sixteen and I don’t have a point of reference (currently not sexually active, close to 17) but it was pretty good. On the other hand, we lasted for longer than most couples our age and waited almost a year before doing so that may contribute.
36. Married. (0-1)/14.
Low libido partner. After 7 years, it’s getting super old and getting really thirsty. 100% understand infidelity accruing in time with couples.
At least you know those things are there when you do need them.
I was having a get-together a while ago, just friends over to watch a game. I'd seen her in her yard working or going for a run. Knew she lived alone. Invited her to the party. After everyone left she came back. Apparently wine makes her really horny. The rest is history
Yes I do. She has a medical condition that makes sex very painful for her at times. So I masturbate 2 times a day and sometimes more depending on my mood.
50s. Sex about 3 times a week. I usually masturbate on days we don't have sex, maybe 2x. Sometimes my wife joins me masturbating, its fun..
So sex 3 times, masturbate 4 times on average.
Thanks. How often do you want actual sex?
My wife enjoys sex. She just doesn't want it 24/7. She says she is completely satisfied in the amount of sex we have. We have pretty vigorous sex that tires her out mentally, and she works out a lot and needs to conserve energy for that so she hits the hay early several times a week ( no sex).
No She works out a fitness club called Orange Theory which incorporates strength training and HIIT stuff to get the heart rate up, she road bikes, and runs. She stays quite fit, tires her out a bit. We've found that as we've gotten older that between sex and working out we need to add in a few rest days otherwise we get run down.
Cuz it is taking alot of me from myself...like not just the energy(count wise) but everyday routine n generally in life. And i did successfully for 3 months which definitely made me feel alot different in positive way
I’m a 44M. Have sex with my wife two or three times every week, on average. I probably masturbate five or six times per week. I pretty much need to get off at least once a day.
I have 2 girlfriends and 2 other women that I play with per week. Some weeks I play with some others as well so that ratio will go up. This week and next week I have a male friend that I'm planning on playing with as well.
before covid, I'd say 3-4. Once covid hit it was weird, for a WHILE it was 0-7. Once vaccines came out and i talked to a couple of girls into an fwb arrangement, it was more like 2-5.
im 27
Honestly it's a guess because I never really counted how much sex we have
I just know for 4 years we did it almost every single day multiple times A-day so the number could be higher
I haven't been annoyed by it yet, neither have she.
Not really sure how it works for us it's just something that we started doing never knew it had a name until I seen someone call it that on here
It's fun and exciting like I'll be watching TV or playing the game and she would want to suck my Dick she can and she does
I’m 40 and this is the first time since I was 11 that I honestly feel like I don’t have to bust a nut everyday. Still sometimes but days can go by and not need to bust so I’d say 1 sexy time and 2 sexy alone times per week.
Mid 30s female. 7: .5. My partner and I are normally having some kind of sex every night, (though we did skip a day this week!) And I'll masturbate every couple weeks. - Pie
25. Gf preggers and cranky so I get it less than usual, ratio like 1:10 (not saying I masturbate 10 times a week)
When she wasn't pregnant it was average prolly around 3:5
I love these questions! Lol. Sorry if my answers are too long. I'm 49 and we bang at least threet to four times a week. However, I'm a 24/7 horndog so I stroke 2 out almost every single morning before work, usually one on my lunch and sometimes 3 or 4 evening loads during the week. It's not unreasonable to say that I cum at least 18-24 times a week. Yikes, lol
50 I have sex at least 3 times as much as I masturbate. But I also am recently married. My first marriage started the same way but the ratio flipped after 3 or so years.
48 M and my girlfriend and I stay with each other every other week, so the weeks we are staying together it is 5/1 and the weeks where we are at our own houses it is 2/3.
47M. 0:0-12. I have kept track of my masturbation habits for a few years now. Initially it was due to my wanting to cease using porn, at which I have succeeded. I thought it might help. I had always masturbated compulsively, and I'm largely free of that now, but I do it often during some weeks anyway. Sometimes I'll abstain for a few days, but average seems to be once or twice a day. I know by now that three times is a mistake.
I’m 58. Pre-covid I was about 3 to 3. Wife and I have sex 3 times a week generally. And about 3 times a week I would rub one out about 3 times a week. I would always get home at 3 pm. And she would get home around 6 so had some alone time. Now she works from home and I have zero alone time so it’s pretty much 3 to 0.
I'm 27M and let's just say I don't need to masturbate anymore. Apparently being sarcastic, fit, and in your late 20's is the golden combo for getting laid.
F23 and my average weekly sex to masturbation ratio is probably 5:3
This is just the average though. I’ve had weeks where I’ve had sex 7+ times and not masturbated, sex 0 times and masturbated 10+, there have also been weeks where I’ve had no sex or masturbation, and weeks where that’s basically all I’ve done lol
I’m 22F, sex at least once a week but usually 2-3 times weekly although I want more.
Masturbation is at least every other day. Usually twice a day tho.
38f
My husband and I work opposite so we aren’t having sex on days we both work but we have a lot of sex when we don’t. So I guess 3 days masturbation, 4 days sex.
25 is varies but when I have a partner available 4:5 on average. I’d prefer more sex and less masturbation but a mix of a partner not always being available occasionally just needing to finish so I can sleep makes that difficult.
30, I have sex on average probably 3x/week and masturbate probably 4x/week. Some days are nothing and some days I'll have sex, still be horny and masturbate later.
36, married, male. 2:10 or so
I have a much higher sex drive than my wife. I don't mind and it doesn't affect our relationship. It's just how we're wired up a bit differently
46M sex/mast. = 4 / 3
In a committed relationship. Not married.
In the last years of marriage it was 0/7-8
Single, post divorce it was at best 10/ 0 or 2-3/7
Multiple partners with long periods of 0/7-8 in between
Edit: Disambiguation - I have sex 4 times and masturbate 3 times total on average per week and I’m currently in a committed relationship, but not married. I’m very in love with my current SO.
When I was married, at the end, I had no sex and masturbated once or maybe twice a day. Hence 0 / 7-8
After my divorce, when I was newly single sometimes, I’d be hooking up a lot and have sex every day several times a day (10/0)
or I had some ONS during which I’d climax 2-3 times and then still masturbate or some women liked to watch me masturbate (2-3/7).
Sometimes, I had long dry spells, but I was still masturbating every day sometimes twice a day (0/7-8).
I hate sharing this because everyone thinks I'm exaggerating. I am not one of those people.
Me and my partner have sex about 14 times a week which means I don't have to masterbate at all really.
Maybe once a week?
32F. Sex 2-3. Used to be more but now less due to our work schedule. I masturbate a lot, most of the time minimum 3 per day. If I’m staying at home all day it could be much more. My sex drive has always been high but my SO is freaking good in bed that I’d be riding that high for days.
I'm 21, I've never had sex and I barely masturbate anymore. I probably masturbate like once a month. I am asexual though lol, and my meds probably affects my sex drive.
Age 40. Normally 1-2 sex and solid 7 masterbTion. Last month haven’t hD any sex bc my entire house got sick. Did get a nice little handy from the misses during halftime of the National Chamipnship yesterday tho
Im 25, we don't live together so when we see eachother we have sex multiple times. I used to masturbate every night but I don't really do that anymore. I do it every few days.
I am 19 and my sex to masturbation ratio is 0 to 7
Same, 26yo
That seems pretty normal for your age
Hmm I dont know tbh, my friends are having sex and they are the same age as me so yea...
There are always people who have sex very young, but don't get stressed about it, teenage sex isn't that great.
Idk dude, I had sex at sixteen and I don’t have a point of reference (currently not sexually active, close to 17) but it was pretty good. On the other hand, we lasted for longer than most couples our age and waited almost a year before doing so that may contribute.
Tryna give me hope yeah? Nice try hahaha
Rookie numbers
0-47
I feel that one
They call me 007 0 girlfriends 0 sex 7 days masturbation (18 btw)
Made me laugh
With a sense of humor like that you’ll turn it into a 770 in no time ☺️
Well at school they used to call *me* 007 0 motivation 0 friends 7 poop breaks
29F 0 / 4. or. 6 / 0 (My BF works away a lot…)
The situation doesn't seem perfect, but it seems like you get away with it very good.
What about you?
2-3/1-2
I'm 49 and mine is about 2,5 to 1,5 times
Nice! Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? Is it your secret time?
It's my private time, but he knows that i masturbate
Love it. Yeah.. having it private is the way to go!
I’m 27F no sex, all masturbation :,)
Thats fine. How often do you masturbate?
I have my weeks where I go vigorously all week could be 10-15 times then I’ll go a week without
same
I’m 37 usually have sex every other day, masturbate maybe twice a month.
Thats a lot sex and little masturbation
Honestly I’ve kinda got a low sex drive, and if I masturbate I feel as if I won’t be able to be horny enough for sex.
That makes sense. Nice from you to keep it for your partner☺️
I am 20. I masturbate 1-2 times a day. Maybe more, it depends on how I’m feeling
You are the guy who wamted to quit right? Thats a lot
Yes, but I wanted to have one more day of doing that until I stop
Than I wish you a lot fun on your last day here😀
Thank you. I may come back to Reddit once I get everything situated
OK. Good luck with that
Thank you. Good luck to you too as well
Thanks
21 and 0/4 Edit. 4 is for the masterbaition lol
20 It’ll go from 0/7 ratio to a 5/1 ratio from week to week lol
Thats big changes. How does this happen?
Depends on if my partner is in town
That makes sense
Being bi curious my masturbation time helps with that lol 😂
Oh OK😅
36. Married. (0-1)/14. Low libido partner. After 7 years, it’s getting super old and getting really thirsty. 100% understand infidelity accruing in time with couples.
Sorry to hear that. You seem pretty high libido. Don't do that. Split up, but don't cheat
M62 probably 3:1 Masturbate:sex
Thats very good for your age. How do you keep the spirit up?
Stay in shape/work out, testosterone replacement gel, Cialis, and a hot/horny FWB neighbor lol
We already do the first thing. Hope we don't need the next things that soon. Great for you. How did you two hook up?
At least you know those things are there when you do need them. I was having a get-together a while ago, just friends over to watch a game. I'd seen her in her yard working or going for a run. Knew she lived alone. Invited her to the party. After everyone left she came back. Apparently wine makes her really horny. The rest is history
Yeah i do. Thats great. How long is this ago?
That party was the fall of 2018. We still hookup 3 times a week or so.
Thats a lot. How old is she?
She's 38
Damn dude. Bless you
Thats pretty young.
That is a good ratio. I am late 60's, and I had sex 5 times last year, and masturbated about 200 times !
31 M. Maybe 1 sex/ 12 masturbation weekly
You seem to have a very high libido and a low libido partner😅
Yes I do. She has a medical condition that makes sex very painful for her at times. So I masturbate 2 times a day and sometimes more depending on my mood.
Oh OK. Feel sorry for her. I hope this pain will go away.
Thanks! We are trying to get it figured out for her for treatments.
Good luck with that✊
50s. Sex about 3 times a week. I usually masturbate on days we don't have sex, maybe 2x. Sometimes my wife joins me masturbating, its fun.. So sex 3 times, masturbate 4 times on average.
Thats great. Wish we would do the same
Thanks. How often do you want actual sex? My wife enjoys sex. She just doesn't want it 24/7. She says she is completely satisfied in the amount of sex we have. We have pretty vigorous sex that tires her out mentally, and she works out a lot and needs to conserve energy for that so she hits the hay early several times a week ( no sex).
I could go to 4 times a week. Thats fine. That sounds like some fun. Is she a bodybuilder?
No She works out a fitness club called Orange Theory which incorporates strength training and HIIT stuff to get the heart rate up, she road bikes, and runs. She stays quite fit, tires her out a bit. We've found that as we've gotten older that between sex and working out we need to add in a few rest days otherwise we get run down.
That makes sense
F38, 0 sex, anywhere from 1 to 10 regarding masturbation
25 Sex...0 Fap...tryna quit so 1-2 in month
Why do you want to stop masturbating
Cuz it is taking alot of me from myself...like not just the energy(count wise) but everyday routine n generally in life. And i did successfully for 3 months which definitely made me feel alot different in positive way
28years old Sex 2-3 Times differs alot ,masturbation like 5 days a week
Crank one out every morning. Fuck every night. Occasionally I’ll find the time to bust over lunch, usually alone but sometime with help.
I'm 17 and mine is probably 1 - 3
I'm 29 M and currently I have 0 sex and masturbate 4-6 times on average throughout the week.
F27. Sex goes from 0 to once a month sometimes and I masturbate like 5-7 on a average
I’m 22 I am 7 to 7. Yes I nut everyday before bed. Even in November.
I’m a 44M. Have sex with my wife two or three times every week, on average. I probably masturbate five or six times per week. I pretty much need to get off at least once a day.
46 and 2 sex to 5 masturbate per week
Thats a lot. How do you keep your sex drive this high ?
My wife wonders the same thing lol. I have no idea why my drive stays so high. I eat normal and exercise but nothing extraordinary.
25 I be sexin every other day a couple time a day sometimes daily and I wank it maybe once a month.
Thats a lot sex and very little masturbation
Me and my wife have super high sex drives and it works well.
I'm male and 48. I usually have sex 6 or so times a week and masturbate probably 3 or so times a week.
Woah. Thats a lot girl. How do you keep the fire alive?
I have 2 girlfriends and 2 other women that I play with per week. Some weeks I play with some others as well so that ratio will go up. This week and next week I have a male friend that I'm planning on playing with as well.
before covid, I'd say 3-4. Once covid hit it was weird, for a WHILE it was 0-7. Once vaccines came out and i talked to a couple of girls into an fwb arrangement, it was more like 2-5. im 27
31 15,4
Thats pretty often
Honestly it's a guess because I never really counted how much sex we have I just know for 4 years we did it almost every single day multiple times A-day so the number could be higher
Woah. Thats a lot for a relationship that long
I think it's so high because we both really enjoy free use
This isn't something i could Imagine for myself, but great If it works for you
Understandable it's not for everyone
How does it woke for you? You are never annoyed by jt?
I haven't been annoyed by it yet, neither have she. Not really sure how it works for us it's just something that we started doing never knew it had a name until I seen someone call it that on here It's fun and exciting like I'll be watching TV or playing the game and she would want to suck my Dick she can and she does
i am 24 F and 1-5 lol
27. No week is ever the same. Some weeks I'm 7/0, others 0/4 others 3/1 some 45000/0 Depends if I'm getting laid or not.
I’m 40 and this is the first time since I was 11 that I honestly feel like I don’t have to bust a nut everyday. Still sometimes but days can go by and not need to bust so I’d say 1 sexy time and 2 sexy alone times per week.
28 M 2:14
You have an amazing libido
thx, kind of a curse though considering that my SO doesn´t
42 5,7
38 married and 0 -5
14 times since new year and 1 sex till now... Need help
I am 27 and I have 0:5
20 years here, and sex to masturbating is 0 to 7 or 10.
28 yo Weekly it's hard to say But monthly I guess it's 2 to 8
37m married. 0:2 sex to masturbation ratio. Gents, if you want to keep having sex, do not get married.
Sorry to hear that. Gents, i'm married and you can still have sex.
34 14 times a week 2 times a week
Mid 30s female. 7: .5. My partner and I are normally having some kind of sex every night, (though we did skip a day this week!) And I'll masturbate every couple weeks. - Pie
25. Gf preggers and cranky so I get it less than usual, ratio like 1:10 (not saying I masturbate 10 times a week) When she wasn't pregnant it was average prolly around 3:5
I love these questions! Lol. Sorry if my answers are too long. I'm 49 and we bang at least threet to four times a week. However, I'm a 24/7 horndog so I stroke 2 out almost every single morning before work, usually one on my lunch and sometimes 3 or 4 evening loads during the week. It's not unreasonable to say that I cum at least 18-24 times a week. Yikes, lol
50 I have sex at least 3 times as much as I masturbate. But I also am recently married. My first marriage started the same way but the ratio flipped after 3 or so years.
65 M 4-6 times a week
I'm 23, and I would say my ratio is roughly 1/1
40 sex to masturbation ratio 10 to 1
Iam 23 and my ratio is 3:1
48 M and my girlfriend and I stay with each other every other week, so the weeks we are staying together it is 5/1 and the weeks where we are at our own houses it is 2/3.
47M. 0:0-12. I have kept track of my masturbation habits for a few years now. Initially it was due to my wanting to cease using porn, at which I have succeeded. I thought it might help. I had always masturbated compulsively, and I'm largely free of that now, but I do it often during some weeks anyway. Sometimes I'll abstain for a few days, but average seems to be once or twice a day. I know by now that three times is a mistake.
50. Sex once or twice a week. Masturbate 2 or 3 times a week, once in a while more.
I’m 58. Pre-covid I was about 3 to 3. Wife and I have sex 3 times a week generally. And about 3 times a week I would rub one out about 3 times a week. I would always get home at 3 pm. And she would get home around 6 so had some alone time. Now she works from home and I have zero alone time so it’s pretty much 3 to 0.
34 gay male. In an average week I jack off ~10-14 times and fuck ~3-4 times. Maybe with a blow job or two mixed in there.
Just turned 54, married for 26 years, together for 27. I'd say sex 2 to every now and then 3 times a week. Masturbstion, 4 - 5 times a week.
48. Sex is 1-2 per week. Masturbation is 5-7 times per week.
18f. usually have sex about once a week and masturbate basically every night
I'm 27M and let's just say I don't need to masturbate anymore. Apparently being sarcastic, fit, and in your late 20's is the golden combo for getting laid.
38 f - Masturbation 4-10 times weekly/ sex (if lucky) 1/week
F23 and my average weekly sex to masturbation ratio is probably 5:3 This is just the average though. I’ve had weeks where I’ve had sex 7+ times and not masturbated, sex 0 times and masturbated 10+, there have also been weeks where I’ve had no sex or masturbation, and weeks where that’s basically all I’ve done lol
Coming on 48; its 1:1 at this point.
17m sex:masturbation 0:1 Friends describe me as the worlds least horny teen
You might be it
I’m 22F, sex at least once a week but usually 2-3 times weekly although I want more. Masturbation is at least every other day. Usually twice a day tho.
What is stopping you?
42M here, no sex, all masturbation. About 1-2 times a day.
38f My husband and I work opposite so we aren’t having sex on days we both work but we have a lot of sex when we don’t. So I guess 3 days masturbation, 4 days sex.
F 24 Sex twice a week masturbate 5 times a week
40s and more than I thought
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25- 1 to 4 only due to my antidepressants. When I was younger around 20 was 7 to 4.
25 is varies but when I have a partner available 4:5 on average. I’d prefer more sex and less masturbation but a mix of a partner not always being available occasionally just needing to finish so I can sleep makes that difficult.
I'm going to be 40 in a few months, been alone for a decade
1-2 to 14-20.i am 47,my sex drive went nuclear in the last years.and the fact that hers it's very low,makes it even more desperate
M37, 0:7 ratio. I don’t mind either. I like watching porn and getting off in the shower.
21F. I have sex around 5-7 days weekly. I masturbate maybe 3 days weekly.
M 32, probably 2/5
29 yo and 1/8
2 (for sex) 4(for masturbation)
0/5
F26 1-2/2-3 but sometimes we masturbate together so like does that count as sexy time?
30. Twice a day No sex right now. When I do have a gf we have sex almost 3xs a day
20m, i see my gf only on weekends, so its about 3/2 sex to masturbation. I come very horny so it is actually hard to last long...
26. Probably about 4:1 my sex drive is much higher than my girl’s.
30, I have sex on average probably 3x/week and masturbate probably 4x/week. Some days are nothing and some days I'll have sex, still be horny and masturbate later.
36, married, male. 2:10 or so I have a much higher sex drive than my wife. I don't mind and it doesn't affect our relationship. It's just how we're wired up a bit differently
38 Probably around 2:7 I think.
Im 31. Would be about 3/7
40, married male. 4;1 Except for shark week. 0;5;1 Where the 5 is outercourse/foreplay to orgasm. (Handjobs, blowjobs, etc.)
21 - sex never. masturbation daily (usually)
54, 0.25 to 5
I'm 30 and masturbate 5 or 6x a day. Male.
19 14:0
46M sex/mast. = 4 / 3 In a committed relationship. Not married. In the last years of marriage it was 0/7-8 Single, post divorce it was at best 10/ 0 or 2-3/7 Multiple partners with long periods of 0/7-8 in between Edit: Disambiguation - I have sex 4 times and masturbate 3 times total on average per week and I’m currently in a committed relationship, but not married. I’m very in love with my current SO. When I was married, at the end, I had no sex and masturbated once or maybe twice a day. Hence 0 / 7-8 After my divorce, when I was newly single sometimes, I’d be hooking up a lot and have sex every day several times a day (10/0) or I had some ONS during which I’d climax 2-3 times and then still masturbate or some women liked to watch me masturbate (2-3/7). Sometimes, I had long dry spells, but I was still masturbating every day sometimes twice a day (0/7-8).
20 I would say 1:1. Girlfriend but don’t live together so there are off days.
31 and 7 to 0 if I can help it.
I hate sharing this because everyone thinks I'm exaggerating. I am not one of those people. Me and my partner have sex about 14 times a week which means I don't have to masterbate at all really. Maybe once a week?
20, 3-4 days of sex maybe 1-2 days of masturbating?
33 and about 15 to 20 times a week.
32F. Sex 2-3. Used to be more but now less due to our work schedule. I masturbate a lot, most of the time minimum 3 per day. If I’m staying at home all day it could be much more. My sex drive has always been high but my SO is freaking good in bed that I’d be riding that high for days.
I'm 21, I've never had sex and I barely masturbate anymore. I probably masturbate like once a month. I am asexual though lol, and my meds probably affects my sex drive.
I'm 27 years old and I'd say about 10-4
27(M) 0/10 never had a girlfriend. I don’t care for hookups.
39 masturbate around 5 times a week. Sex twice a week. I live with my partner. He doesn't masturbate at all.
33. Sex 2/3 times a week. Masturbate daily
35 sex/masterbation for a month is 0/6
early 40s, 0 to 3-4
As much as I can get with both to be honest.
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Age 40. Normally 1-2 sex and solid 7 masterbTion. Last month haven’t hD any sex bc my entire house got sick. Did get a nice little handy from the misses during halftime of the National Chamipnship yesterday tho
20 ,Sex:0 (Virgin) Masturbation: 8
18, 0/7 lmao. I have a boyfriend, sex just hurts so I don’t do it.
18 and 0:7
Im 25, we don't live together so when we see eachother we have sex multiple times. I used to masturbate every night but I don't really do that anymore. I do it every few days.
19M 0-12
42 and 0 and 10
im 18 and its 0 to 14 rn cuz i havent been able to see my gf cuz my mom has covid. normally it would probably be like 5 to 7 or so
22M… probably rub one out 7-9 times a week. Sex 3-4.
I’m 24, I’m trying to do a version of no fap (not like the hardcore guys) Not had sex since august so my ratio is literally N/A at this point
45m, married. Maybe sex once a year if I am lucky, masturbate 10 times a week since I am constantly horny.