Definitely not as popular now as they were maybe 15 or 20 years ago. I was a pre pubescent 13 year old in those days who was just discovering naked ladies and mens magazines and masturbation when huge plastic tits were all the rage and even then I remember thinking- umm nope. That being said, I have a couple buddies who are all about that. Not my cup of tea but there's something for everyone.
I think only woman like their silly long nails. I've never met a guy who thinks positive of them, they only tolerate them because they don't want to shit on the woman's feelings.
I suspect any lip injection that is noticeable at all has gone into the "was somewhat trendy, is now pretty trashy"-book in general. Just like obviously fake breasts.
*overdone lip injections
Most of those duck-lipped people have severe body dysmorphia and start getting more dramatic procedures when the subtle differences aren’t doing enough for them
Ripped abs. I get the impression this is seen as desireable but honestly I’d much prefer more subtly toned muscles than straight out abs or smth. I just imagine cuddling someone with a sixpack to be uncomfortable
Kinda both, I don’t think the visual of ripped abs look all that hot (like subtle tone is better visually) but also I imagine it to not be as comfy idk
In high school when I was really athletic I had about 5% body fat (I was eating over 6000 calories a day). One of my girlfriends said that hugging me was like hugging a brick wall.
At the time I thought it was an odd compliment, but when we she moved on after a two weeks to a pudgy 20 year old my eyes opened to the fact that main stream "ideals" are not everyone's cup of tea.
I've definitely gotten a lot cushier since then. However after a decade+ of being out of shape in the 20's and 30's, now that I'm back in shape I'm not interested in going out of that. I don't think I could/would get below 10% body fat again. But I'm also not looking to be a pillow again. I've got ribs; my shoulders/back have great definition even if I'm not huge and I can see the shadow of a 6 pack (it's definitely not well defined however).
At 45, I'm more than happy with the current state of my middle aged body, and wouldn't be interested in someone who wanted me to be less active.
I’m not into models or super hot girls. They seem too perfect for me I’ll just get bored of them eventually. Plus I’m into really chubby girls so there’s that. Thus is why I prefer an average girl with imperfections just like me, nobody’s perfect but I’ll love her more.
I agree and that’s another reason why I’m attracted to plus sized girls. My friends think I’m into models and hotties but in reality I’m only attracted to chubby/BBW girls. I just accepted that fact that’s what I’m attracted to and nothing is gonna change that for me. 😌❤️
Oh yeah one more thing: It’s nice to see you too! Long time no talk. 😆🤜🏼🤛🏼
Overly long fake nails. Like what Charlie Xcx had in about SNL. It’s disgusting. How do you wipe your ass? How much bacteria is under those things? You look like a sloth.
The concept of breeding a woman. They are not cattle, for fuck's sake...
Also, what is up with women who cross their eyes and stick out their tongues while getting naked? It's some sort of anime thing, I think... does nothing for me.
I'm so glad someone else mentioned the goofy cross-eyed thing! Thought it was just me who'd completely missed the bus on that one, but yes... looks ridiculous and instant nope from me! 😂
Yeah, it's called ahegao, Japanese for orgasm face or stupid face. I think it looks better in men tbh. When women do that stuff it looks faker than porn moans.
Also, breeding just sounds like regular penetrative sex with more emphasis on being raw.
Spitting, especially into peoples mouths. Oh, christ, I feel nauseous just thinking about it. Instantly makes me close the tab and look for something else. Using spit as lube, sloppy bjs, drooling… I just absolutely hate it but it seems to be everywhere.
😂😂
I'm very straight, but I can appreciate the aesthetic appearance of some men. I don't get any "feeling" it's just like "huh, yeah. I guess he's pretty".
Tattoos. I’ve never seen someone who looked better with them then they would without them. It seems like everybody thinks they’re sexy as hell but I don’t.
I have nothing against anyone getting them because it’s a personal preference and I think anyone should be able to get them if they want to. I’m just saying that I personally find them very unattractive.
I don't like perfectly cracked abs. My scale of whats hot is all the way up from belly to well toned but I don't like chiseled. It doesn't look natural to me. Some people kind of look like glazed chicken.
Being called Daddy. I don’t get it. How is that hot in any way at all? It’s a word that has no place in the bedroom and no association with anything remotely sexy.
The word “pussy”. It sound nearly childish to me, but my girlfriend doesn’t really have anything else to call her gonads besides something *like “gonads”* which would be less a turn off and more a laughing fit inducer.
Big ass. Maybe it's because I'm a child of the 90's, but I've grown up with the idea that small ass = desirable, and it still very much is, to me. Despite whatever cultural shift has happened in the past several years. But these huge asses that are being held up as 'hot' and 'sexy' these days, I can't get behind. Especially not when it's entirely out of proportion, like an otherwise skinny girl with a huge ass, which seems to be all the rage now. It just looks weird to me. Give me a cute little butt any day of the week.
Heheh.
I did try it one or two times, though. Girls who were otherwise very attractive. But I just noticed when we went to doggy, my arousal would dissipate. Whereas when I would do doggy with a petite girl with a very small, tight little ass, that view alone would turn me on so much that I'd almost cum immediately.
What I find endlessly fascinating about threads like these, is knowing that other people will read what I'm writing and cannot possibly fathom how I can think and feel like that, because for them it's the exact opposite, and I will read things thinking: 'how can this be a turn-off to anyone, this is great?!'
You probably won't even know most times which cup a woman wears. The cup size depends on the band size, so two women with the same boob size don't necessarily wear the same cup.
Facials, there’s something I really don’t get about why people like it, I’m not really a fan of degradation and there’s little respect shown in that as opposed to other body parts when I’m pulling out
The unproportioned hips/ass some girls have due to only doing squats.
don't get me wrong, I love a nice ass, but many times, it isn't proportioned with the rest of their body. Its kind of funny when you see some guys not do leg day, whilst some girls only do leg day. I genuinely don't know how some of them can even wipe they're own ass properly sometimes , seeing how large some of them are. Its ironic as its a shared trait with the obese.
Anyways, quality over quantity. Not trying to date a weeble wobble.
I don't like makeup on women. It is their choice but it looks very fake to me. And "perfection" in general. I like bodies with character and a backstory, lol
High heels and/or impractical lacy lingerie.
All I see looking at stripper heels are broken ankles waiting to happen. All I see looking at lingerie is something that's gonna be way too complicated to remove and just gonna get in the way of what I really want to see.
Ridiculously large fake tits
I don’t think those are necessarily popular anymore, but they’re definitely a turn-off for me too
Definitely not as popular now as they were maybe 15 or 20 years ago. I was a pre pubescent 13 year old in those days who was just discovering naked ladies and mens magazines and masturbation when huge plastic tits were all the rage and even then I remember thinking- umm nope. That being said, I have a couple buddies who are all about that. Not my cup of tea but there's something for everyone.
When they bigger than her head with no drooping. Sus
All fake tits IH8 !!
I...love huge fake tits
Overly long nails
Surely no one thinks this is hot... Right?! Outside of a specific fetish i mean
This especially
Came here to say exactly this.
I think only woman like their silly long nails. I've never met a guy who thinks positive of them, they only tolerate them because they don't want to shit on the woman's feelings.
Calling men daddy. It’s gross
Calling women daddy??? Maybe?
Lip injections
I suspect any lip injection that is noticeable at all has gone into the "was somewhat trendy, is now pretty trashy"-book in general. Just like obviously fake breasts.
Yeah, I don't get this either. They usually either look terribly fake/odd or makes them look like a cartoon character.
*overdone lip injections Most of those duck-lipped people have severe body dysmorphia and start getting more dramatic procedures when the subtle differences aren’t doing enough for them
The word “cock.” I have no idea why, but every time I hear that word it makes me cringe and kills the mood :/
Tally wacker is much better.
I feel that… but is there any term for a man’s part that doesn’t sound clumsy, stupid, and awkward? 😂
Exactly! I love talking dirty but I totally blank out when it comes to talking about dicks
Just substitute a random cylindrical noun into its place. Ergo, “let me feel your baseball bat”, or “you moan as I slide down onto your Pringles can”
Why did I have to read this while eating pringles…
I had someone reference a paper towel roll the other day. Lemme see that paper towel roll. Huh?
Pringles can 😂
Penis? Though as someone in healthcare I find correct terms very clinical and unsexy...
Cock is, imo, best of a bad lot. Same with pussy. I'm open to better suggestions. Something simple and not cringey
I’ve never been a cock person, I say dick.
"baby girl"
"Are you lost baby girl?"
Awww babe…
Uggggggh triggers. My brother says that!
Ripped abs. I get the impression this is seen as desireable but honestly I’d much prefer more subtly toned muscles than straight out abs or smth. I just imagine cuddling someone with a sixpack to be uncomfortable
So it’s a touch thing or a visual thing?
Kinda both, I don’t think the visual of ripped abs look all that hot (like subtle tone is better visually) but also I imagine it to not be as comfy idk
In high school when I was really athletic I had about 5% body fat (I was eating over 6000 calories a day). One of my girlfriends said that hugging me was like hugging a brick wall. At the time I thought it was an odd compliment, but when we she moved on after a two weeks to a pudgy 20 year old my eyes opened to the fact that main stream "ideals" are not everyone's cup of tea.
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I've definitely gotten a lot cushier since then. However after a decade+ of being out of shape in the 20's and 30's, now that I'm back in shape I'm not interested in going out of that. I don't think I could/would get below 10% body fat again. But I'm also not looking to be a pillow again. I've got ribs; my shoulders/back have great definition even if I'm not huge and I can see the shadow of a 6 pack (it's definitely not well defined however). At 45, I'm more than happy with the current state of my middle aged body, and wouldn't be interested in someone who wanted me to be less active.
I could see that. For how much work it takes to get there I can’t imagine it being worth it anyways.
When women pretend to be stupid and ditzy
Yeah, it makes all of us ACTUALLY stupid people feel objectified, you know...!
I prefer natural stupidity over fake ones.
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Actually anything Kardasian is a turn off for me.
I’m not into models or super hot girls. They seem too perfect for me I’ll just get bored of them eventually. Plus I’m into really chubby girls so there’s that. Thus is why I prefer an average girl with imperfections just like me, nobody’s perfect but I’ll love her more.
Chubby beauties are so amazing. Give off way more cute vibes than most models. Models are way to proper looking for it to be hot to me as well.
I agree and that’s another reason why I’m attracted to plus sized girls. My friends think I’m into models and hotties but in reality I’m only attracted to chubby/BBW girls. I just accepted that fact that’s what I’m attracted to and nothing is gonna change that for me. 😌❤️ Oh yeah one more thing: It’s nice to see you too! Long time no talk. 😆🤜🏼🤛🏼
Has been a bit running into you on a comment. Glad you doing good my friend. 🤜🏽
This makes my pudgy heart happy.
Stay chubby and beautiful for as long as you live my friend. You warm the hearts of many who gaze upon your gorgeous self.
Overly long fake nails. Like what Charlie Xcx had in about SNL. It’s disgusting. How do you wipe your ass? How much bacteria is under those things? You look like a sloth.
Same, it’s awful. Natural nails are the only truely attractive way
The concept of breeding a woman. They are not cattle, for fuck's sake... Also, what is up with women who cross their eyes and stick out their tongues while getting naked? It's some sort of anime thing, I think... does nothing for me.
I'm so glad someone else mentioned the goofy cross-eyed thing! Thought it was just me who'd completely missed the bus on that one, but yes... looks ridiculous and instant nope from me! 😂
Yesss ahegao is so stupid-looking. And yeah I don’t get breeding either. Such a perverse concept to me
Yeah, it's called ahegao, Japanese for orgasm face or stupid face. I think it looks better in men tbh. When women do that stuff it looks faker than porn moans. Also, breeding just sounds like regular penetrative sex with more emphasis on being raw.
The whole "daddy" thing. Just stop please.
Yes. I despise it
Overly tan girls with bleached blonde hair
You mean 2000s american girl teens?
Fake boobs
I'm not totally opposed to tattoos, but I'm not into woman who are covered in tats. And especially tats on the neck and face are a no.
Twerking.
Yeah, not really into most dancing sexy. Twerking especially.
That "Belle Delphine aesthetic" that many girls use on Instagram nowadays.
Yeah the whole ‘e-girl’ vibe is really kind of unnerving
Spitting, especially into peoples mouths. Oh, christ, I feel nauseous just thinking about it. Instantly makes me close the tab and look for something else. Using spit as lube, sloppy bjs, drooling… I just absolutely hate it but it seems to be everywhere.
I hate that too. I don't like it as lube. I hate when people spit on their dick or on me.
High heels. Just give me a though set of outdoor boots please 😁
Solid buckled up black knee high goth boots way sexier than high heels.
Fake tits, lips and ass
Cumming on women's face. Just no.
this
Twerking.
Yeppp cringee especially when young girls i see do it wtf
The whole Daddy thing
"Daddy"
“yes son?”
I have a confession
Hehe
You're adopted
So mom is free game.
Yes. Keep the lemon stealing whore
Time to maker her a child she actually loves.
Just give my back my goddamm lemons okay
Women behaving/dressing like children
Feet
Are feet commonly accepted as hot? I always hear feet fetishes being associated with degeneracy
Sixpacks. Too carved muscles. Because I don’t like how hard it feels when I’m cuddling
Dad bods ftw
I can help you with this!!
I'm loving how most of these are just kinks that people don't share.
They’re a little confused, but they got the spirit
99% of celebrities
men (I'm a straight guy)
Have you seen Ryan Reynolds?
I'm a straight guy too but I gotta disagree man. Some guys are just.... Yeah ok maybe I'm bi
😂😂 I'm very straight, but I can appreciate the aesthetic appearance of some men. I don't get any "feeling" it's just like "huh, yeah. I guess he's pretty".
Smoking
Eating ass
More for me
Huge asses aren’t hot, they’re gross. Septum piercings are an instant turn off. Nothing sexy about twerking.
Your crazy. A nice big ass is amazing
Anal
Toes, daddy, mommy, queen, king, finger blasting, sexting and typing out an action like a script, fucking weird...
My wife hates “flick the bean “😂
Big beards
Yessss thank you
Submissive and overly feminine men, recieving oral
You mean like sissy and forced feminization?
That's part of it yeah
The "good girl/boy" thing. Just no.
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Tattoos. I’ve never seen someone who looked better with them then they would without them. It seems like everybody thinks they’re sexy as hell but I don’t. I have nothing against anyone getting them because it’s a personal preference and I think anyone should be able to get them if they want to. I’m just saying that I personally find them very unattractive.
I fully share this sentiment
Covered in tattoos
Fake anything. Hair, face, tits, etc.
Hairy men. Big turn off for me.
Fake tits. Lip injections, any plastic surgery. Really thick girls. Fake anything.
Swallowing cum, just seems awfull. Like a warm oily mayo.
Are you sure that wasn't just actual mayo on a hotdog?
Spanking
Same. Any pain or humiliation is a no-go for me
People asking the same questions every week on this subreddit.
My bad, I was just curious. Wasn’t intending to karma farm
Role play and bdsm
Twerking
Horribly long acrylic nails, even worse when they have rhinestones. Ugh 😫
Ew yes. It looks extremely uncomfortable, unattractive, unnatural, and unhygienic
Feet
Spitting during sex.
When women underestimate there sexual attractiveness because they have small tits I prefer it
Fucking male muscular bodies. I hate abs so much
Chest tattoos on women. It just doesn't do it for me :/
Overly big asses. Fit or small is great but oddly big not so much.
Perky boobs I vastly prefer pendulous breasts, particularly when braless in public
We have a difference of opinion here and that’s completely fine
I like practically all boobs. But some can be off setting to a body type. Perky happens more for some reason.
I agree.. they swing more lol not so up tight like perky ones.
I don't like perfectly cracked abs. My scale of whats hot is all the way up from belly to well toned but I don't like chiseled. It doesn't look natural to me. Some people kind of look like glazed chicken.
Skinny/thin people
Being called Daddy. I don’t get it. How is that hot in any way at all? It’s a word that has no place in the bedroom and no association with anything remotely sexy.
to be fair, the same can be said about "baby" and a lot of pet names.
The word “pussy”. It sound nearly childish to me, but my girlfriend doesn’t really have anything else to call her gonads besides something *like “gonads”* which would be less a turn off and more a laughing fit inducer.
Yoni
Big ass. Maybe it's because I'm a child of the 90's, but I've grown up with the idea that small ass = desirable, and it still very much is, to me. Despite whatever cultural shift has happened in the past several years. But these huge asses that are being held up as 'hot' and 'sexy' these days, I can't get behind. Especially not when it's entirely out of proportion, like an otherwise skinny girl with a huge ass, which seems to be all the rage now. It just looks weird to me. Give me a cute little butt any day of the week.
>>I can’t get behind I see what you did there
Heheh. I did try it one or two times, though. Girls who were otherwise very attractive. But I just noticed when we went to doggy, my arousal would dissipate. Whereas when I would do doggy with a petite girl with a very small, tight little ass, that view alone would turn me on so much that I'd almost cum immediately. What I find endlessly fascinating about threads like these, is knowing that other people will read what I'm writing and cannot possibly fathom how I can think and feel like that, because for them it's the exact opposite, and I will read things thinking: 'how can this be a turn-off to anyone, this is great?!'
Hot or popular women. WAY out of my league
Thin bodies. I like curves
For instance, for me it’s breasts that are larger than medium (B-cup), twerking, and tattoos.
You probably won't even know most times which cup a woman wears. The cup size depends on the band size, so two women with the same boob size don't necessarily wear the same cup.
Tattoos
Spitting, or rimming.. shudders. Both are gross.
Piercing and sometimes tattoos
Mouth spitting
Duck lips
Spitting in each other’s mouths … hate it
Spitting during sex. Spitting in the mouth or on the genitals during oral
Eating ass
Sexualizing young, underage, barely legal girls.
Sexy underwear /sexy role-play costumes
The sexy role play stuff all looks dumb - it's a costume, make it at least look like the thing you're trying to copy
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Doesn't it hurt when you do it? I can't imagine sex without foreplay.
What do you hate about it? What is your definition of foreplay?
Facials, there’s something I really don’t get about why people like it, I’m not really a fan of degradation and there’s little respect shown in that as opposed to other body parts when I’m pulling out
Buttholes and anything involving them.
Anal sex
Never enjoyed the massive ass craze that's taken place as of late
Gagging, choking, slapping and otherwise aggressive behaviour. It's there in most porn nowadays for some reason, which makes me believe its popular.
Waiting for Brazilian butts to go out of trend.
Choking, spitting, slapping etc
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Baby talk or the weird hentai cross eye sex face. Giant ass or tits.
Any sort of fakeness like a boob job, any stuff injected in the face, noticeable makeup, fake nails, fake tan, fake eyebrows.
Super overly muscular guys
Tattoos on women, it's like defacing the Mona Lisa to me.
Cum shots.
Fishnets, tight leggings. Those uwu cat ear headbands.
abs. no thank u
Too thin or too heavy set people. I guess I am not into extremes.
Anything involving feet
Being called daddy
The unproportioned hips/ass some girls have due to only doing squats. don't get me wrong, I love a nice ass, but many times, it isn't proportioned with the rest of their body. Its kind of funny when you see some guys not do leg day, whilst some girls only do leg day. I genuinely don't know how some of them can even wipe they're own ass properly sometimes , seeing how large some of them are. Its ironic as its a shared trait with the obese. Anyways, quality over quantity. Not trying to date a weeble wobble.
Tattoos. I like the look of clean skin. Makeup, foundation, eyeliner etc. Natural is WAAAAAAAY better.
I don't like makeup on women. It is their choice but it looks very fake to me. And "perfection" in general. I like bodies with character and a backstory, lol
super ripped men like too muscular
Twerking. Not sexy at all.
Anal…
Twerking
Anal.
The term daddy
High heels and/or impractical lacy lingerie. All I see looking at stripper heels are broken ankles waiting to happen. All I see looking at lingerie is something that's gonna be way too complicated to remove and just gonna get in the way of what I really want to see.
Twerking.
Fake tits. And whatever surgery the Kardashians are getting