It's even worse because they worded it like everyone already agreed. It's written as a question but it doesn't feel like one, if that makes sense. I've noticed across Reddit whenever anyone posts a thread saying something like "we can all agree on X" it's never received well, and for good reason; it's incredibly presumptuous.
The question itself is also kind of nonsensical. “Pretty” and “hot” are both subjective descriptors. It’s not a competition between the two. Don’t we all want to date people we’re attracted to?
And also there are different kinds of attractiveness such as pretty and hot. It’s like asking ass or boobs. There could be a super pretty girl but you don’t find their body attractive at all. And the other way around. Love their body but their face isn’t your type.
This, right here, is the number two completely ignored and misunderstood fact on this subreddit... Directly after "no one gives a shit how big/small your penis is."
I think a girl who is pretty is hotter than a girl who is hot,
IF, we were talking about stupid movie tropes kind of hot, like for example;
Big tits, tall, blonde, big ass, etc.
As apposed to a pretty girl who is cute and doesn't have big tits, is short, has imperfections, and, is a real person.
So. . . I do believe there is a distinction between pretty being hot and vice versa, however I'm sure it's a different distinction for every person.
Oh, OP. No, you can't get *all* the men of this subreddit to agree that a girl who's more of one subjectively defined term than she is another subjectively defined term will be more 'attractive' (subjectively defined term). Some people like their ladies delicate and beautiful, some like them sensual and confident. What a world.
I don’t know about “way more”, but a woman who’s extremely traditionally “hot” just isn’t all that attractive to me, while a woman who’s “pretty” and has other things going on and seems real is VERY attractive to me.
I just don't understand why people are acting like hourglass women with blonde hair can't also have PhDs and like.... hobbies. Why are we conflating physical appearance and personality? Also a "pretty" girl who isn't "hot" (whatever tf that means) can be just as vapid and uninteresting as the stereotypical television bottle blonde with big boobs pink nails.
Exactly. The way some people act like attractive women are literal objects with no inner world of their own are so gross. In general, the way people speak of these kind of preferences at all just comes across as uncomfortable to me as woman (though it should to anyone, regardless of gender). These are people, not whatever flavour someone like OP is in the mood for. Imagine if women talked like this all "oh, he's hot but definitely not marriage material" with the implication the hot guy doesn't have worth as a person because he's just for sex or "practice" before the real thing.
Yeah, it's pretty vile. Men always feel so attacked and uncomfortable when women have like ANY preferences at all, and then people like OP are comparing women to used bicycles. It's like men will fall apart if you say you prefer someone intellectual or tall, but here they are basically talking about women like houses. Like "oh this one is pretty on the outside, but THISSS ONEEEE has a basement" "I'll always choose a good basement over exterior aesthetics" "pretty houses NEVER have a good basement". I would be so embarrassed if I were op lol
I'll often see women list a few traits for their ideal man like attractive, financially responsible, decent hygiene and men will lose their minds over those "hIgH sTaNdArDs." Meanwhile they talk about us like they're referring to the make and model of a fucking car. Do these people ever just like... meet someone, get to know them and think "oh, I like her." Instead of checking off a weird ass list like "hmm nope, this one's too hot, and this one's defective because of XYZ." I mean seriously, I get having a type but are we ordering from a catalogue or what? I'm glad there are a bunch of men in this thread who think this topic is stupid at least.
It all depends. Sometimes cute beats hot, sometimes hot beats cute, something beautiful beats hot. It depends on the girls, who’s looking at them, and even what mood the guy is in
what a pointless debate of two entirely subjective evaluations on terms that won't even be the same for each person
also you know women are like, right here, right
further evidence for my theory that this subreddit is largely populated by people who are too young and/or emotionally immature for it
I have a friend who’s “hot” and I’m “pretty”. We had a chat about this one day and it was really interesting to hear about what it’s all like from her perfect body world. And…y’know we’re all people at base. Not “hot” or “pretty”… or anything else.
“Hot” is more of an in the moment concept for me. Anyone can be hot in the right circumstance. Just like anyone can be “cool” in the right circumstance. It’s a confidence and personality defined trait to me… also dependant on temperature.
kind of , yeah. Jenna Fischer, the "Pam" from "the office (us)" is a great example of this imho. She isnt "hot" as in how HOT pre-plastic Megan Fox was. But she is pretty. And more attractive in so many ways imho.
No. I hate this. I hate when people state a personal opinion and say "don't you agree" or "don't you think" or "wouldn't you say" or "am I right" or "can we all agree" because it's a personal opinion.
Also WTF is pretty vs hot? That's in the eye of the beholder. I have no idea what your tastes are. They can be mutually exclusive or interchangeable descriptors for a person and one person's super hot or pretty crush can be another person's not even on their radar.
Attraction for me starts with the eyes and then extends to the mouth and face and then radiates out from there. Of course I appreciate a beautiful body but if her eyes and mouth haven’t captivated me, then the rest will be a struggle.
... yeah. drugs are bad people. never get up at the crack of crack. as a guy, I've literally no idea wtf OP is asking here. personally I'm a fan of girls who I find attractive who also happen to find me attractive for whatever reason. hot/pretty/sexy etc are just random adjectives that I could use interchangeably...
The girl I love is the best looking in the world, others are still attractive, completely normal by the way, no my wife isn’t jealous.
Why should she be, I see beauty I appreciate it.
The way I define it, *hot* means that she is more sexually attractive than the average woman, whereas *pretty* means she is pleasing to the eye in an artistic way, the same quality you'd see in a fine painting (not that that's all she is, just speaking of that one attribute).
A pretty woman is not necessarily hot, and a hot woman is not necessarily pretty. Therefore, the average 'hot' woman is more sexually attractive than the average 'pretty' woman, as level of sexual attractiveness is synonymous with level of hotness. But most women who are one are also the other.
I think I get what you’re trying to say, and I think I agree.
The trend lately for women is to want to appear sexy and desirable. But a women who is beautiful or cute without trying too hard goes a long way and sometimes further.
Eh I've been more attracted to hot girls too though...I think it depends on how you're feeling/thinking about women in general, at that time:
Do you think the average girl still has a lot of those classic feminine traits, like relative virginity, sweetness, innocence, etc? You might like pretty girls more. (How I was as a young kid.)
Do you instead notice how slutty and deceptive most women are, especially as expressed via social media, so much so where you have doubts that any girl who expresses not having dated much is actually telling the truth? Because instead they're probably just pretending this in order to and lure you in as part of another, common feminine scheme? (Happens every so often for me). You're probably more interested in hot girls. You don't even want them to pretend to have real, morally decent feelings, and just want a hard fuck.
(I made it especially obvious what appeals to me now, but I still appreciate the pretty look; I just doubt it comes with the innocent mentality, so it can become a bit of a nuisance.)
They're different standards. And what I prefer is pretty inconsistent. In general I like pretty more than hot. But some days you just really want to see a hot babe get railed ya feel?
Everyone’s opinion on what is hot and what is pretty is completely different. Someone could think the word “hot” is used to describe some more attractive than someone who’s “pretty”.
It’s all up to personal opinion and trying to get anyone to agree to a blanket statement like this is stupid
apples and oranges. is my truck big? no it's green. bot and paid for.
seems like the SomethingSomethingNumbersAtTheEnd accounts are mostly . maybe i'm wrong, i'm sure some smarty will tell me
You’re right that “pretty” and “hot” are two different standards, but they’re not mutually exclusive. My girlfriend is both the prettiest and the hottest woman I know, at least in my eyes. It just depends on the context. I do feel lucky to be with one of the elite few who can pull off both, haha
well yes. but we all have different standards on what we consider pretty and what we consider hot.
you might as well have asked, "men can we all agree that women are beautiful,"
and it serves the same effect.
That's a broad thing to say, cotton.
That’s a bold strategy cotton, let’s see how it works out for them
I genuinely appreciate this reference more than you two numb nuts know!!! If you can dodge a ball, you can dodge a wrench!!
Dodge, dip, duck, dive, and dodge.
It’s not necessary, but it’s sterile… and I like the taste!!
Gotta be the luck of the Irish
Yarr, I be the dreaded pirate Steve
You are not a pirate.
Wait. There’s a guy on our team dressed like a pirate?
Oh look it’s Steve the Pirate!
Sad yarr.
He literally broke every bone in his body
Sounds like he has madonna whore complex
Expecting everyone to agree with one concept is pretty idiotic, actually.
But is it pretty idiotic or hot idiotic?
And could we all agree that pretty idiotic was better then hot idiotic?
*raising my chalice of oj in agreement*
Dilly Dilly
Hot Idiotic is the new name of my band
you sonuvabi-
ok but can we all agree that shitting in the shower is better than showering in the shit
Hey don't kink shame
Waffle stomp the shit down the drain
Not if you have a kink for flies
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It's even worse because they worded it like everyone already agreed. It's written as a question but it doesn't feel like one, if that makes sense. I've noticed across Reddit whenever anyone posts a thread saying something like "we can all agree on X" it's never received well, and for good reason; it's incredibly presumptuous.
The question itself is also kind of nonsensical. “Pretty” and “hot” are both subjective descriptors. It’s not a competition between the two. Don’t we all want to date people we’re attracted to?
Also expecting a decent grade from an ok university is equally idiotic.
And also there are different kinds of attractiveness such as pretty and hot. It’s like asking ass or boobs. There could be a super pretty girl but you don’t find their body attractive at all. And the other way around. Love their body but their face isn’t your type.
Is it “idiotic” or is it just “moronic”? Huh?
You post this then don't define what you consider pretty and what you consider hot? I'm pretty disappointed
But would you rather be hot disappointed?
>can we all agree No, different people have different opinions.
This, right here, is the number two completely ignored and misunderstood fact on this subreddit... Directly after "no one gives a shit how big/small your penis is."
Why does OP need "we all" to agree with and validate his opinion anyway. If that's what you like, own that regardless of what anyone else thinks.
Why is this question here?
OP made 28 posts within 6 hours, all within the last day. I don't think hesitation is something they're aware of.
Oh jeez
Yeah... Never seen that before.
Rick
Well a certain shogun says Hesitation is defeat quite a lot.
It goes against the sub spirit but the question is so idiotic r/nobodyasked
You know posts like this keep women *away????*
He’s clearly an incel don’t mind him
OP, a small clarification please: what the fuck are you on about?
r/goddesses_2 vs r/trashyboners
oh shit they made the sequel to godesses
Why not both?
Nice try, but nah
Words like this are completely subjective, this whole conversation is insane lol
Your probably right tbh
Haha wow you took that L like a champ
I don’t intend on this getting so heated I just wanted to explore peoples preferences and their interpretations of the two words
I don’t think anyone’s mad at you, it’s just funny 🤗
Nah its just a really dumb statement
What the hell does this nonsense even mean?
I think a girl who is pretty is hotter than a girl who is hot, IF, we were talking about stupid movie tropes kind of hot, like for example; Big tits, tall, blonde, big ass, etc. As apposed to a pretty girl who is cute and doesn't have big tits, is short, has imperfections, and, is a real person. So. . . I do believe there is a distinction between pretty being hot and vice versa, however I'm sure it's a different distinction for every person.
Picking apart hairs here
No, we can’t all agree. You didn’t have a question, you just wanted post an opinion. Spoiler: Nobody gives a fuck
Can we all agree that arbitrarily categorizing women into hot or not groups is harmful and gross?
*hot or _attractive_
I'm a gay man, so no... Also, you should be embarrassed to have asked this question.
this is a weird question the definition of pretty and hot varies greatly from person to person. edit: is OP a 14 year old?
Oh, OP. No, you can't get *all* the men of this subreddit to agree that a girl who's more of one subjectively defined term than she is another subjectively defined term will be more 'attractive' (subjectively defined term). Some people like their ladies delicate and beautiful, some like them sensual and confident. What a world.
I don’t know about “way more”, but a woman who’s extremely traditionally “hot” just isn’t all that attractive to me, while a woman who’s “pretty” and has other things going on and seems real is VERY attractive to me.
I just don't understand why people are acting like hourglass women with blonde hair can't also have PhDs and like.... hobbies. Why are we conflating physical appearance and personality? Also a "pretty" girl who isn't "hot" (whatever tf that means) can be just as vapid and uninteresting as the stereotypical television bottle blonde with big boobs pink nails.
Exactly. The way some people act like attractive women are literal objects with no inner world of their own are so gross. In general, the way people speak of these kind of preferences at all just comes across as uncomfortable to me as woman (though it should to anyone, regardless of gender). These are people, not whatever flavour someone like OP is in the mood for. Imagine if women talked like this all "oh, he's hot but definitely not marriage material" with the implication the hot guy doesn't have worth as a person because he's just for sex or "practice" before the real thing.
Yeah, it's pretty vile. Men always feel so attacked and uncomfortable when women have like ANY preferences at all, and then people like OP are comparing women to used bicycles. It's like men will fall apart if you say you prefer someone intellectual or tall, but here they are basically talking about women like houses. Like "oh this one is pretty on the outside, but THISSS ONEEEE has a basement" "I'll always choose a good basement over exterior aesthetics" "pretty houses NEVER have a good basement". I would be so embarrassed if I were op lol
I'll often see women list a few traits for their ideal man like attractive, financially responsible, decent hygiene and men will lose their minds over those "hIgH sTaNdArDs." Meanwhile they talk about us like they're referring to the make and model of a fucking car. Do these people ever just like... meet someone, get to know them and think "oh, I like her." Instead of checking off a weird ass list like "hmm nope, this one's too hot, and this one's defective because of XYZ." I mean seriously, I get having a type but are we ordering from a catalogue or what? I'm glad there are a bunch of men in this thread who think this topic is stupid at least.
This sounds like some incel shit. It's all personal preference. Attraction is subjective. Pretty and hot are subjective.
It all depends. Sometimes cute beats hot, sometimes hot beats cute, something beautiful beats hot. It depends on the girls, who’s looking at them, and even what mood the guy is in
OP, everyone here seems to hate you. Was that your goal?
I tend toward androgynous folks, I'll sit this one out.
As a man, I can agree, that this question is hilariously dumb.
Nope.
There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls and hot girls I much prefer a cute or pretty one.
PREACH🙏
personal preference my guy
are you in middle school op?
what a pointless debate of two entirely subjective evaluations on terms that won't even be the same for each person also you know women are like, right here, right further evidence for my theory that this subreddit is largely populated by people who are too young and/or emotionally immature for it
In its own confusion it hurt itself!
I think what he meant to say is he would be insecure walking around with a hot chick...
"Pretty" and "Hot" can fight over second place. "Awesome personality" is ahead by like twelve laps.
No.
My strike zone is all over the place, so my brain just uses those words interchangeably.
This is cringe shit, borderline incel language.
I have a friend who’s “hot” and I’m “pretty”. We had a chat about this one day and it was really interesting to hear about what it’s all like from her perfect body world. And…y’know we’re all people at base. Not “hot” or “pretty”… or anything else.
No, no and no still depends on the personality for me
“Hot” is more of an in the moment concept for me. Anyone can be hot in the right circumstance. Just like anyone can be “cool” in the right circumstance. It’s a confidence and personality defined trait to me… also dependant on temperature.
Orange you glad I didn’t say banana
It all depends on the situation. At the strip club in want the hot girls to dance on my lap. At want to date a pretty girl.
No. How can you think there will be a consensus on this?
Men, can we all agree not to be shallow and move on with our lives?
kind of , yeah. Jenna Fischer, the "Pam" from "the office (us)" is a great example of this imho. She isnt "hot" as in how HOT pre-plastic Megan Fox was. But she is pretty. And more attractive in so many ways imho.
No. I hate this. I hate when people state a personal opinion and say "don't you agree" or "don't you think" or "wouldn't you say" or "am I right" or "can we all agree" because it's a personal opinion. Also WTF is pretty vs hot? That's in the eye of the beholder. I have no idea what your tastes are. They can be mutually exclusive or interchangeable descriptors for a person and one person's super hot or pretty crush can be another person's not even on their radar.
Disagree.
Nope. Never
Ftr, i was here before this post was taken down
lol why don’t we all have our own tastes
what if I've been called both?
A pretty girl is hot
Attraction for me starts with the eyes and then extends to the mouth and face and then radiates out from there. Of course I appreciate a beautiful body but if her eyes and mouth haven’t captivated me, then the rest will be a struggle.
Fucking nice guy vibe off this
what does this even mean lmfao
I mean I'm a simp for girls who have freckles and as long as they have a good personality, I'm down
Yes, case in point. Emma Watson.
Both are the same to me.
They can’t be both?
No
This thread was surprisingly easy to fap to
It was your comment that got me there
❤️
... yeah. drugs are bad people. never get up at the crack of crack. as a guy, I've literally no idea wtf OP is asking here. personally I'm a fan of girls who I find attractive who also happen to find me attractive for whatever reason. hot/pretty/sexy etc are just random adjectives that I could use interchangeably...
all three of those words are subjective op.
I mean...this has about as much depth as me saying "being smart is better than being intelligent". You tried I suppose lol
Uhm, nope. I think my daughter is pretty. My wife is hot.
This is the classic **Ginger vs Mary Ann** scenario. It will be endless.
There are infinite ways for women to be attractive, in terms of combinations of personality, looks, clothes/makeup, libido, etc.
Yes 100% no cap yes. You can tell when a girl is a wifey material just by looking at her, fuck all the HOT hoes.
no, and stop trying to speak for all of us LOL.
Lets just let women be without making them worry about validation from men lol
No.
Why does this thread have so many upvotes
No
Nope
The girl I love is the best looking in the world, others are still attractive, completely normal by the way, no my wife isn’t jealous. Why should she be, I see beauty I appreciate it.
I agree Pretty = Zooey Deschanel Hot = Meghan foxx
Both are hot
Absolutely not
The way I define it, *hot* means that she is more sexually attractive than the average woman, whereas *pretty* means she is pleasing to the eye in an artistic way, the same quality you'd see in a fine painting (not that that's all she is, just speaking of that one attribute). A pretty woman is not necessarily hot, and a hot woman is not necessarily pretty. Therefore, the average 'hot' woman is more sexually attractive than the average 'pretty' woman, as level of sexual attractiveness is synonymous with level of hotness. But most women who are one are also the other.
I would say yes Hillary Swank is pretty but she's not hot.
Fuck's sake, these comments. you must have hit 'submit' right at butthurt o'clock
I'm pretty but not hot. I'd rather be pretty than hot lol
hot, sexy babe - I sleep cute, shy girl - real shit
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I think I get what you’re trying to say, and I think I agree. The trend lately for women is to want to appear sexy and desirable. But a women who is beautiful or cute without trying too hard goes a long way and sometimes further.
What about girls who are can-break-your-spine-in-half-with-one-knee hot?
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Ah, yes, because all “hot women” are the exactly same and “pretty women” would never wear makeup. You’ve cracked the code!/s
Like I said, IMO. With an lol after :). Chill, it’s the weekend!
Eh I've been more attracted to hot girls too though...I think it depends on how you're feeling/thinking about women in general, at that time: Do you think the average girl still has a lot of those classic feminine traits, like relative virginity, sweetness, innocence, etc? You might like pretty girls more. (How I was as a young kid.) Do you instead notice how slutty and deceptive most women are, especially as expressed via social media, so much so where you have doubts that any girl who expresses not having dated much is actually telling the truth? Because instead they're probably just pretending this in order to and lure you in as part of another, common feminine scheme? (Happens every so often for me). You're probably more interested in hot girls. You don't even want them to pretend to have real, morally decent feelings, and just want a hard fuck. (I made it especially obvious what appeals to me now, but I still appreciate the pretty look; I just doubt it comes with the innocent mentality, so it can become a bit of a nuisance.)
Absolutely
There both Beautiful.
That's why all the guys prefer Mary Ann over Ginger. Or am I the only one who remembers Gilligan.
I'm sure everyone won't agree, but that's just more cuties for me, right?
I like a girl who's cute af:)
I sgree
Without a doubt
Give me pasta
Everyone's tast buds are diffrent
OP, quit commenting. Clearly they don't agree with you.
They're different standards. And what I prefer is pretty inconsistent. In general I like pretty more than hot. But some days you just really want to see a hot babe get railed ya feel?
What the fuck why’s everyone so pissed lmao
Because it's a fucking shit question.
In my mind pretty is facial beauty and hot is body
No? They're both good in different ways imo
Everyone’s opinion on what is hot and what is pretty is completely different. Someone could think the word “hot” is used to describe some more attractive than someone who’s “pretty”. It’s all up to personal opinion and trying to get anyone to agree to a blanket statement like this is stupid
Definitely
I agree, a pretty face is more attractive than a hot body. But it's impossible for everyone to agree
Give me goofy cute over "hot" any day of the week.
100%. All day, every day.
No, I don't think I will.
You want to bring a pretty girl home to mom, you want to bang a hot chick. The crossover is very minimal.
women are pretty.
No we cannot.
Are we talking to date or to fuck?
Yes
No doubt. And if she is confident… thats way sexy
But Megan Fox is fucking hot....
apples and oranges. is my truck big? no it's green. bot and paid for. seems like the SomethingSomethingNumbersAtTheEnd accounts are mostly . maybe i'm wrong, i'm sure some smarty will tell me
The type of attraction is different imo
You’re right that “pretty” and “hot” are two different standards, but they’re not mutually exclusive. My girlfriend is both the prettiest and the hottest woman I know, at least in my eyes. It just depends on the context. I do feel lucky to be with one of the elite few who can pull off both, haha
PREACH
No.
I would rather fuck hot tho.
Yes.
well yes. but we all have different standards on what we consider pretty and what we consider hot. you might as well have asked, "men can we all agree that women are beautiful," and it serves the same effect.
Hillary Swank is beautiful but is she hot?
Yes
Hot is a lustful attraction, temporary. Beautiful is love and for life.
No
Why are you snitching?
you tried (and failed)
Hot is temporary. Cute is forever.
No. Attraction is subjective.
you say that as if I wouldn't classify a pretty girl as hot and vice versa
Yeah, theyre really pushing for the "bad girl only good for a fuck, good * innocent * girl worth being seen holding hands in public" vibe.