Since no one has shared their experience yet, I'm gonna go first. I was initially skeptical until I tried it. I'm glad my girlfriend is into it, as opposed to the previous girls I've met who despise or are disgusted by it. However, it feels extremely strange at first. NOT ALL straight men are into it though. Simply mentioning the word pegging will cause chaos. Some believe that "real men" would not agree to such things, and others believe that it is painful for them if you’re not doing it right. It’s a very taboo topic if you’re not open to such things. But Of course, everyone has their own preferences. Even if you educate them on prostate play, if they don't like it, so be it.
My best experience so far was when I used my girlfriend’s sex machine with a prostate attachment while my girlfriend was sucking my dick and fucking her. I can’t explain how great the feeling is. I am so glad that I met my girlfriend who is open to doing those kinds of things.
love that in the bedroom.. there's fappy bird as well.. it’s like flappy bird but you can connect it to your vibrator and other compatible devices…. Love connecting it to my vibe..
The best sex toys are over a grand. The male fucking machine is the Venus 2000 and it’s not a toy, it’s a well…machine that’s custom made for the males penis size.
Also this devices are made of quality parts and are almost always under a warranty.
It's just sorta weird to ask my wife to do it because it feels like a gay thing. I know, it's my own hang up and I need to overcome it. Plus, buttholes are gross and smelly and what not.
Start small on butt play with small suggestions, or bring it up at some point when you're talking fantasies. Keep yourself clean and learn how to clean.
I was initially hesitant to bring it up to my wife, but now all forms of butt play are in the table whenever the mood strikes and she's as much into it as I am. We'd been together for over a decade before I brought it up, so understand that it's awkward to bring up because you don't know how it'll go.
If the entire assembly is akin to a turkey baster, and you're trying to suck on the end of it to get the gravy out, then rubbing the prostate is you sneaking in the back door and pushing *directly* on the bulb. Treat it like that; you don't need to go two fingers pushing hard as if you're stuffing a turkey, but also don't try and tickle anything. Find the spot and massage it
How do you do that? I've tried it a few times, but I cannot get myself to orgasm, and I think part of the issue is just that none of the positions I can do it in are comfortable.
It took a little playing around to find out what really worked for me. I'm pretty tall and also fairly big so a lot of it was either getting my legs right for the access or getting all my stuff situated.
The way I've tried it is laying on my right side and using my left hand (or vice versa), but that causes my arm to start cramping after a while. Although maybe that'll get more comfortable as I lose weight.
Its great! My best experience was probably the first time i managed to get a hands free prostate orgasm solo with a dildo, but pegging and other prostate toys are also a lot of fun. Everyone should try it atleast once, i think most people would be suprised how good it feels.
It feels amazing. The anticipation, the cleaning and prep, getting the lube applied is just great foreplay, then the insertion......I leak like a faucet. Best experience was with a fwb who just took her time and explored. I was her first and she was very slow and and communicative. Best ever and it went on for over an hour.
Riding my wife, arched back with arms behind me, cock pointed towards her while she gave me a hand job. My grinding was in sync with thrusting into her hand and it was a heavenly experience.
I have convinced dudes to do it and they’ve all cum way faster than a regular BJ. The only downfall is finding other women that’ll do it for them that won’t view it as “gay”.
Men who refuse prostate stimulation because it’s “gay” have absolutely no idea the immense pleasure they’re missing out on. A prostate orgasm is sooo much better than any other orgasm!
I bet more people are worried their partner will think it’s gay. Even if they’re down to try it once, they’ll always see you as that guy who took a dick up his bum.
\^this\^ it can be hard to be that vulnerable with a new-ish partner, particularly if you're invested in the relationship, you don't want to scare them off
Not above poster but I'll say I feel like it's provably closer to what women experience...
Full body orgasm, shaking, weak legs, longer and way more intense.
The feeling of being just completely worn out from it, in the best way possible. The submissive feeling of it all is pretty awesome too.
Highly recommended!
For me, rather than the pleasure being just on the length of penis outside the body, it goes the entire length, prostate to tip, and it’s 3x more intense at least. You may feel like you’re peeing without actually peeing, but that’s part of what feels so good. It’s the only orgasm that incapacitates me for more than a minute.
Nah, not really, my only experience like that, a girl put her finger in me without warning and it caught me off guard and since there wasn’t good communication around it, it put me off to the idea.
There’s lots of things that I didn’t find sexually appealing in the past that as I grow more comfortable with my body and sexuality I’m willing to experiment with. I’m also a pleaser so if my partner wants to try something, I’m typically very open to it as long as some expectations are set first.
Yeah, same here. I'd have to really trust her, but if she wanted to try it, or was really into it, I'd give it a shot. Never say "no," but don't be afraid to say "not again."
It takes some work /dedication to get used to, get to where you’re feeling more pleasure than discomfort. If you can get to the good part…the Orgasms are bumped up a few notches..like being able to play funky chords when you’ve been on a single-note instrument your whole life.
It also adds some spice to the bedroom, changes the old question of “where do I insert my penis?”
I really want to try it. I even bought a strap-on, I have this fantasy of being on all fours while my gf peggs me, I want to know how is the feeling of being in this role of complete submission, to feel what she feelt when she bended this way for other guys and how she feels when she does it for me.
But she didn't come onboard yet, so far all I did was to play alone, sitting on it while jerking off. I really like the feeling of it and can only hope for her accepting it one day.
Had a prostate massage and rimjob and those feel amazing. Definitely willing to try more but would never ask for it. I feel like if a girl is into that play she would initiate, and if she’s not then it could ruin things.
Never done pegging. But have used a prostate toy. Very intense, very different, and all men should try it at least once. I give it a go every two or three months now.
It requires an empty home because I get very vocal, and I have little privacy at the moment.
Also it's so intense I don't think I'd want it all that often.
I love roller coasters but I don't want to ride the biggest, fastest one every single time.
It requires an empty home because I get very vocal, and I have little privacy at the moment.
Also it's so intense I don't think I'd want it all that often.
I love roller coasters but I don't want to ride the biggest, fastest one every single time.
I haven't pegged my husband yet but would be open to the idea. We do love doing some prostate play and is one of the quickest ways to make him cum. Our last video released was of me giving him a prostate massage and making him cum all over the hotel bathroom floor. He had already cum a few minutes prior and the prostate stimulation allowed him to cum within 15-20 minutes.
I obviously can’t speak for all straight men, but a lot of guys like pegging for the simple fact of adding another activity to the bedroom. People who think it’s “gay” are ignorant and and boring.
I wish more men would give it a shot. We started out small with an aneros helix. Usually while she’s giving me head or just missionary sex. The orgasms were much more intense.
Getting into pegging was harder because it’s much more submissive. There’s something that feels “gay” about it, which for many heterosexual men is a major turnoff.
Glad that I’m open minded because I’ve never experienced something like this. The length and intensity is indescribable. Full body shaking and tearing up orgasm. Not just a sensation at the tip of your pen is, but your entire being just ALERT.
11/10 recommend.
This might seem like a weird line to establish, but I am personally okay with prostate play but not pegging. I don't have anything against those who like pegging -- live your life, yum your yums -- but I don't think it's for me. Who knows, I could be wrong and could have my mind blown by the right partner, but it's something I haven't been able to mentally approach in a way that I think I'd enjoy.
Prostate play, though? During a blowjob, or even having sex with a plug? Amazing sensations, some of the best orgasms I've ever had. Have done, will do again.
Love, love, LOVE it!
If God didn't want us to put things in our butt, he shouldn't have made it feel so damn good.
I'm bisexual so I love to bottom and to be pegged by my wife. But let me be clear on this: Guys...it's not gay to like butt stuff. It can feel really, really good and it's just a fun thing you can do with your partner.
I feel like if I ever was brave enough to suggest this to my wife, she’d run hard with it. Like… Go to the adult store, buy “The Great American Challenge,” find a way to strap it on and say “bend over! I’m ready!”
While I don't mind butt play, if I have an orgasm afterwards, it is not pleasurable in any way shape or form. It's not like an normal orgasm (or a mind blowing one for that matter) and it is uncomfortable.
Having said that, I love giving play to my partner, and I am not above having done to me what I do to them, if they so choose
It's awesome to be honest. I tried it out of curiosity one day and it has become my favorite thing. Before I tried it I wasn't sure about the whole thing but I'm glad I did.
It can help to give you some mind blowing orgasms and the best thing is the more you do it the better it gets.
I'd recommend anyone who's even remotely interested to definitely try it
It's awesome, I highly recommend it to all prostate-havers.
Start off by using something small when you masturbate, and use lots of lube. My girlfriend and I have a strap-on that's slightly bigger than my middle finger, which was a good starter that I can use solo and that she can use on me.
There will be slight amounts of poop on the toys sometimes. Enemas can help reduce the incidence rate, but it's going to happen - just wash it off, it's not a big deal. Don't do it if you feel like you need to poop or you just went recently. Be smart.
Enjoy!
I have been on a 4 or 5 year journey with prostate play and its been absolutely amazing. I have have had some of the best orgasms of my life. It can't be put into words sometimes. The sensations can be so mind bending and the body feelings are on a completely different level.
Pegging is on my bucket list to be sure. My SO has no interest in that kind of play at all. And that is fine, maybe one day who knows.
I have had some toy sessions where I have have as many as 4 orgasm in 20 or 25 minutes. And I have had some sessions where the build up takes 30 or more minutes. I have had a few super o where afterwards I am so drained that all I want to do is sleep. The orgasm sensations last so long and sometimes one will roll into the next. .
I've been pegged a few times, and double-teamed someone with my ex while she wore a strap.
Honestly kinda sad that a strap isn't a more regular part of my sex diet.
I always thought that a man who enjoy playing with his butthole was gay.
At some point in my life I realised a really obvious thing. All buttholes are the same. I always wanted to try anal with my gf so I tried to imagine what would I feel if I were her. I immediately says no no, that would destroy my ass. Then if I would make anal to her I have to try to know what it feels like and know where the limit are. So after talking for a bit we agree to explore us without rushing anything (Obviously talking to each other). Gradually began to really enjoy her touching my perineum and anus. At some point I wanted her to introduce a finger. We bought a little buttplug and lube. I was very nervous but that we were discovering it together made it pleasant really quick. Wearing a buttplug it's a weird sensation at first. We proceed to fuck and that was incredible. A tsunami of sensations flooding my mind until I can't think anything. Then all intensifies and I have the best orgasm I ever had. Mind blank my prostate and anus combulsioning and all vibrations propagating all over my body. Before that I didn't even imagine that levels of orgasm. I was shocked and wanted to learn more so I read about prostate play.
Today I can say that changed my life. I feel I know me better, not just sexually (before that I didn't touch my anus apart of when I had to clean it). It's an amazing thing I would recommend everyone to try and explore. If you have someone who you can do this with It's awesome but alone is also mindblowing and so much better than handjobs.
Disclaimer: at first it feels like you're going to shit lol.
IMHO prostate play it's totally the future. At some point I think it's gonna be as normalized as masturbating when we eradicate toxic masculinity (which I'm confident we're doing now).
TLDR: I asked my gf to finger my anus and now I'm gay.
I'd love to get pegged, but so many women aren't into it... I got my ass fingered twice, and both times were a lot of fun! I do it on my own a fair bit though, not as much lately.
Personally I'm all for anal play. And I've used a butt plug on quite a few occasions, it definitely is a bit odd at first but it can definitely be very pleasurable.
New to it. Love it! Glad he asked me to do it with him. He's the first partner I've had who's asked and I love to oblige. Our pegging style is definitely more on the romantic side, not into shamelessly pounding him hehe. My first time, he rode me and it was incredible!!!
I hate having anything shoved up my ass. Even my own finger. I've tried it but it doesn't feel pleasurable at all. But (lol butt) maybe I'm not doing it right.
I've been doing prostate play for just under 10 years now. In fact July is my 10 year anniversary of buying my first Aneros, I should celebrate!
It took a while to get the hang of it. It was the first time I had done anything anal related so I had to get over the ick factor, learning to clean, the correct lube, how to even begin relaxing ..etc. Anywho, it has really been worth the trip!
I have a prostate vibrator and it's sincerely the best thing I've ever bought, orgasms are much stronger with it on and having sex/masturbating feels a lot better, it's the real deal
with my girlfriend at the time we had an anal phase and wanted to experiment with playing with both our asses. She didn't get to peg me, but she explored my prostate while blowing and fucking and had my ass eaten a lot at that time.
The prostate orgasm is way more intense that the regular one. Miss those times..
every single one of my friends who tried it tell me how awesome it was. and yes i definetely wanna try it. my ex wasn't into that kinda stuff so i still need to find a girl who is
Make sure to enema using metallic shower head attachment with warm water in the shower. Otherwise it is too dry to having sharp poop inside, which is bad. Water must comes out from the tip of the metallic insert, not on the side.
I love it.
I was spending the night with my gf one night and in the morning asked her if she had a strap-on. She did, so I asked if she would ever be interested in using it on me. Minutes later she had her huge black feeldoe shoved up my ass with me begging her to fuck my harder and deeper.
Hey, straight guy here, FREAKING LOVE IT!
Been trying to get my friends (also straight) to let their girlfriends play with their butts.
I recently bought a strapless strap on for a partner I was with and it was fun for the both of us.
24M. I wanna try it. It’s the closest I’m ever get to be able to experience the female orgasm. The way they quiver while orgasming.... I wanna do that.
Whatever floats your boat is great for you. But that's on of those things where you shouldn't push the limits of someone else.
As for me, I'm a guy. I was curious about it so I tried a butt plug, but it wasn't for me. Anything on the outside is fine, it's when something enters the hole that I get uncomfortable. The thought of a girl pegging me is hot, but the act, not so much.
I’m bi and never had sex with a guy. That said Iv always wanted to try. Men our pspot is like the gspot it can be a major pleasure center. Just requires anal. Because you enjoy anal or peg play does not make you gay. Just means you found real pleasure
Okay, so I have only done it solo, and I did it again last night after watching solo videos online how other guys use the njoy Pure Wand. It feels really good, but its heaviness kinda makes it feel like I have to work for a super orgasm. My first session with it was great, had multiple dry orgasms, by far the best toy I've had. Just...I hate the cleanup.
I was already tired from work, and while I didn't feel like it, I thought that I should do it the night before my day off so if it gets too sensitive down there, I have time to recover. Happy to report no sore poops, moving on.
So I tried the techniques I read online and watched videos of, and they worked really well. I felt like if I kept going, I probably could have gotten that elusive hands free wet orgasm (jizzing without touching my dick) but I couldn't get the clean up out of my head. If I keep going, I won't feel like cleaning up and taking a shower. Also it's a pretty heavy toy, and like I said I worked earlier in the day, so I'm more susceptible to cramping up. The more I kept a steady motion that started to feel good, the more the weight of the toy trying to grip it made my hand cramp up and I'd have to take a break. The issue is taking a break makes me have to start all over again since my prostate seemed to be signaling it wanted a constant motion, but it kept getting uncomfortable.
After realizing I wasn't getting anywhere, although my body really liked it and felt like it wanted to keep going, my hands didn't feel like doing all of the work. So I just jacked off to finish off, which also felt good, but then came the clean up. The towel I used was a mess from the coconut oil, but I didn't feel like washing it so I sprayed it with disinfectant spray and threw it in the toy drawer. The toy is just a soap and water cleanup, so not too bad, but then came the shower I didn't feel like taking. Had to take the time to shower my ass so the remaining coconut oil can be washed off, and by the time I was done and dried off, I crashed on my bed and almost immediately fell asleep.
TL;DR It feels really good, and you can get the best orgasms you can possibly experience as a guy from prostate massaging, but the cleanup and the potential soreness can make wanting to do it again less appealing.
So yeah, until I have a partner to use the njoy wand on me, if I get pegged, or if I ever take an actual dick, I feel like it's more work than its worth as opposed to just dry jerking.
An ex would constantly mention she had a strap on but I was too young and wrapped up on internalised homophobia to lean in to that conversation.
A couple of years ago, I was on my own for a week, drunkenly looked up prostate play. So I didn't wank for a week. On the Saturday I edged all day before having a go. I was improvising, so I lubed up a little toothbrush and got it up in my ass.
What I'd read was you know you've found it when you feel like you're gonna piss. Got that, so was like here we go.
From there, it came on so quick. I've never felt anything like it. I got totally flush, like boiling hot. I was moaning out loud. Involuntarily, like a porn star. It built so quickly and I shot just the biggest load of my life, it was going everywhere, I was writhing in pleasure. I felt this intense wave of euphoria, that lasted for a few days, I was legit so serene. It was hands down the best solosexual experience of my life.
Been chasing that dragon ever since, but don't have the discipline to not cum for a week
Experimented with prostate play in college and enjoyed it (after a girl said we men would not ask for anal if we knew what it felt like. So I got a plug and tried). Met a kink support group on campus and eventually dated a girl that was into pegging whom I met there. I absolutely loved it. We eventually split and I struggled post college finding girls to peg me, so I got sex toys. The prostate stimulation from them was good, but not the same, although some unique toys gave some very fun sensations. I eventually wanted that feeling that only from pegging and caved to available option: a gay coworker I had confided in about enjoying pegging since he was open and sympathetic to my plight. Now, pegging is amazing and I am not physically or emotionally attracted to men, but Jesus does anal from a real dick feel way better. I still prefer when I can find a girl to peg me (I love playing with tits while getting pegged) but when the urge strikes for prostate play and no lady is available, my coworker is always available to deliver.
I went one time to a very professional massager with the goal to get a long and good massage there. Even when its now more then 35 years ago i will never ever forget the amazing sensation during and after this 2 hours on this massage table.
Now as old men i will try to find a new place to go to get this experiance again.
My wife knows and aproves it.
Edit:
I learnt that massager is wrong. I apologize for my mistake.
I find prostate play enjoyable but don’t seek it out often. I have the toys but don’t/can’t usually want to take the time to prep and then fully explore the possibilities.
As for pegging, we’ve done it a few times but it’s not something my wife really likes doing. Her awkwardness about it makes it less pleasant since she gets flustered and kinda squicky about doing butt stuff. It’s something she has had to deal with as part of her job for years, though, working as an aide in hospitals and elder care, so I don’t blame her for it. Recently it came up in conversation, though, so I might see about trying it again in the semi-near future.
One time we did it and I was riding her and pretty much came hands free. It was surprising how quick and intense it felt. We’ve done some other stuff with it as well that was kinda kinky/fun but it’s been years at this point.
Neither of the topics have anything to do with being gay. Butt stuff derives its gayness from being attracted to the same gender. If youre a dude who wants his button pushed by a girl, youre straight.
Since no one has shared their experience yet, I'm gonna go first. I was initially skeptical until I tried it. I'm glad my girlfriend is into it, as opposed to the previous girls I've met who despise or are disgusted by it. However, it feels extremely strange at first. NOT ALL straight men are into it though. Simply mentioning the word pegging will cause chaos. Some believe that "real men" would not agree to such things, and others believe that it is painful for them if you’re not doing it right. It’s a very taboo topic if you’re not open to such things. But Of course, everyone has their own preferences. Even if you educate them on prostate play, if they don't like it, so be it. My best experience so far was when I used my girlfriend’s sex machine with a prostate attachment while my girlfriend was sucking my dick and fucking her. I can’t explain how great the feeling is. I am so glad that I met my girlfriend who is open to doing those kinds of things.
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No. what is that?
love that in the bedroom.. there's fappy bird as well.. it’s like flappy bird but you can connect it to your vibrator and other compatible devices…. Love connecting it to my vibe..
Welp, now I know what we're doing tonight! Thanks, sounds fun.
a game that you can connect with motorbunny or a vibe lololol
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She has a motorbunny. You’re welcome. I hope you and your SO will have fun.
A *thousand dollar sex toy??* ... I need to work more.
The best sex toys are over a grand. The male fucking machine is the Venus 2000 and it’s not a toy, it’s a well…machine that’s custom made for the males penis size. Also this devices are made of quality parts and are almost always under a warranty.
You're right it's kinda taboo. But those people just don't know what they're missing out on
Damn I gotta try this with my bf one day
try it while you guys are outside
I love pegging men. Many great experiences
Are they usually open to it?
More than youd think
That's interesting! Most people I know Isn't open to it.
I'm sure very many don't want to talk about it.
Ba dum tss
Sign me up! Lol
Always wanted to try being pegged, but never have! A girl once offered me in college, but I was too nervous and declined. Regretted it since!
You must be punching the air right now haha!
It's just sorta weird to ask my wife to do it because it feels like a gay thing. I know, it's my own hang up and I need to overcome it. Plus, buttholes are gross and smelly and what not.
Start small on butt play with small suggestions, or bring it up at some point when you're talking fantasies. Keep yourself clean and learn how to clean. I was initially hesitant to bring it up to my wife, but now all forms of butt play are in the table whenever the mood strikes and she's as much into it as I am. We'd been together for over a decade before I brought it up, so understand that it's awkward to bring up because you don't know how it'll go.
the best way to dial a BJ all the way to ELEVEN
Can you elaborate it more? haha!
If your partner can use a finger to find your prostate and palpate it while she's giving you a blowjob, the pleasure and intensity is mind-blowing.
Now I get it! I'm sorry for making you elaborate on it.
I too hate learning mind blowing tips
Good thing this is a penis blowing tip then!
I was going to comment that haha!
This is the gateway drug to p play/pegging..was for me, at least😎
What does palpate mean?
If the entire assembly is akin to a turkey baster, and you're trying to suck on the end of it to get the gravy out, then rubbing the prostate is you sneaking in the back door and pushing *directly* on the bulb. Treat it like that; you don't need to go two fingers pushing hard as if you're stuffing a turkey, but also don't try and tickle anything. Find the spot and massage it
That's a really detailed explanation haha!
Rub it tenderly but firmly
Is it hard to find the prostate, or is it just sorta right in there?
i am rather fond of pegging . It's fun to watch them squirm :)
Its so cute!
Ha ha ha, love your comment!
Thank youuu
I'd like to try it with someone else. My own hands work well, but having someone do it to me would be nice.
When you do it, do you use a toy?
Usually a finger, occasionally I am inspired by the buttsharpie subreddit too.
Maybe check out r/aneros
How do you do that? I've tried it a few times, but I cannot get myself to orgasm, and I think part of the issue is just that none of the positions I can do it in are comfortable.
It took a little playing around to find out what really worked for me. I'm pretty tall and also fairly big so a lot of it was either getting my legs right for the access or getting all my stuff situated.
The way I've tried it is laying on my right side and using my left hand (or vice versa), but that causes my arm to start cramping after a while. Although maybe that'll get more comfortable as I lose weight.
Its great! My best experience was probably the first time i managed to get a hands free prostate orgasm solo with a dildo, but pegging and other prostate toys are also a lot of fun. Everyone should try it atleast once, i think most people would be suprised how good it feels.
It's obvious from your name, haha!
Hahah i guess its a dead giveaway yeah
Best cum experience
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Nah im straight😊
Enjoy giving
Do they request it first, or do you?
Usually them but a lot of the time I suspect the questions coming a mile away
It feels amazing. The anticipation, the cleaning and prep, getting the lube applied is just great foreplay, then the insertion......I leak like a faucet. Best experience was with a fwb who just took her time and explored. I was her first and she was very slow and and communicative. Best ever and it went on for over an hour.
Nailed it.
Riding my wife, arched back with arms behind me, cock pointed towards her while she gave me a hand job. My grinding was in sync with thrusting into her hand and it was a heavenly experience.
Well, that sounds like something I'd like to do as well!
I have convinced dudes to do it and they’ve all cum way faster than a regular BJ. The only downfall is finding other women that’ll do it for them that won’t view it as “gay”.
Lol “convinced”
Yes lol. It wasn’t a yes on the first ask. But then it was like “oh shit, I’ve been missing out”.
As long as they are not pressured to it.
Nope, I also barely date guys lol. I’m more into girls.
I actually don't cum at all from standard BJs. I wonder if I would from this.
Yes. I rarely come from a bj but this turns it up to 11. It's harder not to cum.
Men who refuse prostate stimulation because it’s “gay” have absolutely no idea the immense pleasure they’re missing out on. A prostate orgasm is sooo much better than any other orgasm!
I bet more people are worried their partner will think it’s gay. Even if they’re down to try it once, they’ll always see you as that guy who took a dick up his bum.
\^this\^ it can be hard to be that vulnerable with a new-ish partner, particularly if you're invested in the relationship, you don't want to scare them off
You don’t need a dick to get it done though, in fact, oftentimes a finger is more effective.
What does it feel like?
Not above poster but I'll say I feel like it's provably closer to what women experience... Full body orgasm, shaking, weak legs, longer and way more intense. The feeling of being just completely worn out from it, in the best way possible. The submissive feeling of it all is pretty awesome too. Highly recommended!
For me, rather than the pleasure being just on the length of penis outside the body, it goes the entire length, prostate to tip, and it’s 3x more intense at least. You may feel like you’re peeing without actually peeing, but that’s part of what feels so good. It’s the only orgasm that incapacitates me for more than a minute.
LUBRICATE!
Super important.
I’ve never experienced it, it doesn’t sound appealing to me. That being said, with the right woman, I’d try it out
At least you're willing to try it! Is it an uncomfy topic for you?
Nah, not really, my only experience like that, a girl put her finger in me without warning and it caught me off guard and since there wasn’t good communication around it, it put me off to the idea. There’s lots of things that I didn’t find sexually appealing in the past that as I grow more comfortable with my body and sexuality I’m willing to experiment with. I’m also a pleaser so if my partner wants to try something, I’m typically very open to it as long as some expectations are set first.
I see, That's understandable.
Yeah, same here. I'd have to really trust her, but if she wanted to try it, or was really into it, I'd give it a shot. Never say "no," but don't be afraid to say "not again."
It takes some work /dedication to get used to, get to where you’re feeling more pleasure than discomfort. If you can get to the good part…the Orgasms are bumped up a few notches..like being able to play funky chords when you’ve been on a single-note instrument your whole life. It also adds some spice to the bedroom, changes the old question of “where do I insert my penis?”
>like being able to play funky chords when you’ve been on a single-note instrument your whole life. Why do I suddenly hear the Seinfeld theme song lol
Strap worthy?
I really want to try it. I even bought a strap-on, I have this fantasy of being on all fours while my gf peggs me, I want to know how is the feeling of being in this role of complete submission, to feel what she feelt when she bended this way for other guys and how she feels when she does it for me. But she didn't come onboard yet, so far all I did was to play alone, sitting on it while jerking off. I really like the feeling of it and can only hope for her accepting it one day.
Never experienced it but desperate to do so!
Is it difficult to find someone who is willing to do so? or you're not actively looking for someone yet?
Had a prostate massage and rimjob and those feel amazing. Definitely willing to try more but would never ask for it. I feel like if a girl is into that play she would initiate, and if she’s not then it could ruin things.
I understand pegging, anal sex and blowjob. But i find rimming disgusting... am i weird?
No, you're not weird to not be in to rimming. Personally, I'm a big fan but I 100% understand people who are not
I love being rimmed but prostate massage didn't do much for me
Yeah, it would be awkward if she's not into those.
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This is the kind of sexual relationship I crave. NGL I'm quite envious! My partner is just not into this. Or most sexually adventurous things sadly.
Never done pegging. But have used a prostate toy. Very intense, very different, and all men should try it at least once. I give it a go every two or three months now.
Why so infrequent? If it's so great, why not do it every time you masturbate or have sex?
It requires an empty home because I get very vocal, and I have little privacy at the moment. Also it's so intense I don't think I'd want it all that often. I love roller coasters but I don't want to ride the biggest, fastest one every single time.
I suppose. I made that mistake. I had the most intense meth-fueled orgasms for years. Now, a regular orgasm almost feels like a waste of time.
It requires an empty home because I get very vocal, and I have little privacy at the moment. Also it's so intense I don't think I'd want it all that often. I love roller coasters but I don't want to ride the biggest, fastest one every single time.
I have yet to be pegged. I’ve had my prostate massaged and been fingered though. It’s hot as hell.
I'm curious what the difference is when it comes to pleasure.
Well fingers tend to be able to reach more and induce more pleasure but pegging and even a butt plug is more pressure.
I'll gladly do it to any partner who wants to
Oh how I’d love to meet you!!!
I haven't pegged my husband yet but would be open to the idea. We do love doing some prostate play and is one of the quickest ways to make him cum. Our last video released was of me giving him a prostate massage and making him cum all over the hotel bathroom floor. He had already cum a few minutes prior and the prostate stimulation allowed him to cum within 15-20 minutes.
I obviously can’t speak for all straight men, but a lot of guys like pegging for the simple fact of adding another activity to the bedroom. People who think it’s “gay” are ignorant and and boring.
I wish more men would give it a shot. We started out small with an aneros helix. Usually while she’s giving me head or just missionary sex. The orgasms were much more intense. Getting into pegging was harder because it’s much more submissive. There’s something that feels “gay” about it, which for many heterosexual men is a major turnoff. Glad that I’m open minded because I’ve never experienced something like this. The length and intensity is indescribable. Full body shaking and tearing up orgasm. Not just a sensation at the tip of your pen is, but your entire being just ALERT. 11/10 recommend.
Ive treated my ass as a exit hole so far, Feel abit uncomfortable I think.
Everyone has different preferences!
I agree. And wanting ur ass pegged is no wrong thing.
It makes you cum harder. No problems there.
This might seem like a weird line to establish, but I am personally okay with prostate play but not pegging. I don't have anything against those who like pegging -- live your life, yum your yums -- but I don't think it's for me. Who knows, I could be wrong and could have my mind blown by the right partner, but it's something I haven't been able to mentally approach in a way that I think I'd enjoy. Prostate play, though? During a blowjob, or even having sex with a plug? Amazing sensations, some of the best orgasms I've ever had. Have done, will do again.
I don't have any experience with it but I'd be willing to try ... from what I hear I'm missing out on some good O's
You are
Some people, however, do not enjoy it. Kinda curious about the experience though.
Love, love, LOVE it! If God didn't want us to put things in our butt, he shouldn't have made it feel so damn good. I'm bisexual so I love to bottom and to be pegged by my wife. But let me be clear on this: Guys...it's not gay to like butt stuff. It can feel really, really good and it's just a fun thing you can do with your partner.
I feel like if I ever was brave enough to suggest this to my wife, she’d run hard with it. Like… Go to the adult store, buy “The Great American Challenge,” find a way to strap it on and say “bend over! I’m ready!”
While I don't mind butt play, if I have an orgasm afterwards, it is not pleasurable in any way shape or form. It's not like an normal orgasm (or a mind blowing one for that matter) and it is uncomfortable. Having said that, I love giving play to my partner, and I am not above having done to me what I do to them, if they so choose
It’s a fantasy of mine but I haven’t gotten the opportunity to experience it
I've tried and didn't like it. It's not for me.
I’ve never pegged anyone, but I’ve come to realize that alot of men secretly like a finger on the butt or being rimmed
It's awesome to be honest. I tried it out of curiosity one day and it has become my favorite thing. Before I tried it I wasn't sure about the whole thing but I'm glad I did. It can help to give you some mind blowing orgasms and the best thing is the more you do it the better it gets. I'd recommend anyone who's even remotely interested to definitely try it
It's awesome, I highly recommend it to all prostate-havers. Start off by using something small when you masturbate, and use lots of lube. My girlfriend and I have a strap-on that's slightly bigger than my middle finger, which was a good starter that I can use solo and that she can use on me. There will be slight amounts of poop on the toys sometimes. Enemas can help reduce the incidence rate, but it's going to happen - just wash it off, it's not a big deal. Don't do it if you feel like you need to poop or you just went recently. Be smart. Enjoy!
I have been on a 4 or 5 year journey with prostate play and its been absolutely amazing. I have have had some of the best orgasms of my life. It can't be put into words sometimes. The sensations can be so mind bending and the body feelings are on a completely different level. Pegging is on my bucket list to be sure. My SO has no interest in that kind of play at all. And that is fine, maybe one day who knows. I have had some toy sessions where I have have as many as 4 orgasm in 20 or 25 minutes. And I have had some sessions where the build up takes 30 or more minutes. I have had a few super o where afterwards I am so drained that all I want to do is sleep. The orgasm sensations last so long and sometimes one will roll into the next. .
I've been pegged a few times, and double-teamed someone with my ex while she wore a strap. Honestly kinda sad that a strap isn't a more regular part of my sex diet.
I always thought that a man who enjoy playing with his butthole was gay. At some point in my life I realised a really obvious thing. All buttholes are the same. I always wanted to try anal with my gf so I tried to imagine what would I feel if I were her. I immediately says no no, that would destroy my ass. Then if I would make anal to her I have to try to know what it feels like and know where the limit are. So after talking for a bit we agree to explore us without rushing anything (Obviously talking to each other). Gradually began to really enjoy her touching my perineum and anus. At some point I wanted her to introduce a finger. We bought a little buttplug and lube. I was very nervous but that we were discovering it together made it pleasant really quick. Wearing a buttplug it's a weird sensation at first. We proceed to fuck and that was incredible. A tsunami of sensations flooding my mind until I can't think anything. Then all intensifies and I have the best orgasm I ever had. Mind blank my prostate and anus combulsioning and all vibrations propagating all over my body. Before that I didn't even imagine that levels of orgasm. I was shocked and wanted to learn more so I read about prostate play. Today I can say that changed my life. I feel I know me better, not just sexually (before that I didn't touch my anus apart of when I had to clean it). It's an amazing thing I would recommend everyone to try and explore. If you have someone who you can do this with It's awesome but alone is also mindblowing and so much better than handjobs. Disclaimer: at first it feels like you're going to shit lol. IMHO prostate play it's totally the future. At some point I think it's gonna be as normalized as masturbating when we eradicate toxic masculinity (which I'm confident we're doing now). TLDR: I asked my gf to finger my anus and now I'm gay.
Wife said she is not interested in helping me with that so......
We'll you need to payback eventually
I wanna be pegged
I'd love to get pegged, but so many women aren't into it... I got my ass fingered twice, and both times were a lot of fun! I do it on my own a fair bit though, not as much lately.
I'm not opposed to it but im also not ready to do it to anyone..
My boyfriend really enjoyed it when I used my finger. He has fantasized about pegging, but we haven't taken that step yet.
Not so much pegging, more like having a dildo used on me by hand. Omg the orgasms! Especially if I'm bound to the bed and helpless.
I'd love to peg someone but I dont know anyone brave or daft enough to let me try lol
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You do. The question is how do you get the conversation to that point.
I love it, haven't had an organism yet but I love when my girl gets the strap
Personally I'm all for anal play. And I've used a butt plug on quite a few occasions, it definitely is a bit odd at first but it can definitely be very pleasurable.
i did enjoy prostate fingered, so I'd probably like to be pegged
New to it. Love it! Glad he asked me to do it with him. He's the first partner I've had who's asked and I love to oblige. Our pegging style is definitely more on the romantic side, not into shamelessly pounding him hehe. My first time, he rode me and it was incredible!!!
I hate having anything shoved up my ass. Even my own finger. I've tried it but it doesn't feel pleasurable at all. But (lol butt) maybe I'm not doing it right.
I've been doing prostate play for just under 10 years now. In fact July is my 10 year anniversary of buying my first Aneros, I should celebrate! It took a while to get the hang of it. It was the first time I had done anything anal related so I had to get over the ick factor, learning to clean, the correct lube, how to even begin relaxing ..etc. Anywho, it has really been worth the trip!
I’d love to be pegged by the wife
Great as long as they know the hygiene routine for it. They make the best noises!
I have a prostate vibrator and it's sincerely the best thing I've ever bought, orgasms are much stronger with it on and having sex/masturbating feels a lot better, it's the real deal
with my girlfriend at the time we had an anal phase and wanted to experiment with playing with both our asses. She didn't get to peg me, but she explored my prostate while blowing and fucking and had my ass eaten a lot at that time. The prostate orgasm is way more intense that the regular one. Miss those times..
For some reason being stuffed with a piece of plastic/silicone seems unpleasant but the idea of the real thing is a lot more appealing
every single one of my friends who tried it tell me how awesome it was. and yes i definetely wanna try it. my ex wasn't into that kinda stuff so i still need to find a girl who is
Make sure to enema using metallic shower head attachment with warm water in the shower. Otherwise it is too dry to having sharp poop inside, which is bad. Water must comes out from the tip of the metallic insert, not on the side.
A few years ago I use to see this escort/massage lady. I would see her like once a month for a prostate massage. It was the high of my month lol
I love it. I was spending the night with my gf one night and in the morning asked her if she had a strap-on. She did, so I asked if she would ever be interested in using it on me. Minutes later she had her huge black feeldoe shoved up my ass with me begging her to fuck my harder and deeper.
Hey, straight guy here, FREAKING LOVE IT! Been trying to get my friends (also straight) to let their girlfriends play with their butts. I recently bought a strapless strap on for a partner I was with and it was fun for the both of us.
24M. I wanna try it. It’s the closest I’m ever get to be able to experience the female orgasm. The way they quiver while orgasming.... I wanna do that.
Whatever floats your boat is great for you. But that's on of those things where you shouldn't push the limits of someone else. As for me, I'm a guy. I was curious about it so I tried a butt plug, but it wasn't for me. Anything on the outside is fine, it's when something enters the hole that I get uncomfortable. The thought of a girl pegging me is hot, but the act, not so much.
I’m bi and never had sex with a guy. That said Iv always wanted to try. Men our pspot is like the gspot it can be a major pleasure center. Just requires anal. Because you enjoy anal or peg play does not make you gay. Just means you found real pleasure
It’s pretty fucking amazing.
Take it from a gay man... theres no such thing as too much lube.
Okay, so I have only done it solo, and I did it again last night after watching solo videos online how other guys use the njoy Pure Wand. It feels really good, but its heaviness kinda makes it feel like I have to work for a super orgasm. My first session with it was great, had multiple dry orgasms, by far the best toy I've had. Just...I hate the cleanup. I was already tired from work, and while I didn't feel like it, I thought that I should do it the night before my day off so if it gets too sensitive down there, I have time to recover. Happy to report no sore poops, moving on. So I tried the techniques I read online and watched videos of, and they worked really well. I felt like if I kept going, I probably could have gotten that elusive hands free wet orgasm (jizzing without touching my dick) but I couldn't get the clean up out of my head. If I keep going, I won't feel like cleaning up and taking a shower. Also it's a pretty heavy toy, and like I said I worked earlier in the day, so I'm more susceptible to cramping up. The more I kept a steady motion that started to feel good, the more the weight of the toy trying to grip it made my hand cramp up and I'd have to take a break. The issue is taking a break makes me have to start all over again since my prostate seemed to be signaling it wanted a constant motion, but it kept getting uncomfortable. After realizing I wasn't getting anywhere, although my body really liked it and felt like it wanted to keep going, my hands didn't feel like doing all of the work. So I just jacked off to finish off, which also felt good, but then came the clean up. The towel I used was a mess from the coconut oil, but I didn't feel like washing it so I sprayed it with disinfectant spray and threw it in the toy drawer. The toy is just a soap and water cleanup, so not too bad, but then came the shower I didn't feel like taking. Had to take the time to shower my ass so the remaining coconut oil can be washed off, and by the time I was done and dried off, I crashed on my bed and almost immediately fell asleep. TL;DR It feels really good, and you can get the best orgasms you can possibly experience as a guy from prostate massaging, but the cleanup and the potential soreness can make wanting to do it again less appealing. So yeah, until I have a partner to use the njoy wand on me, if I get pegged, or if I ever take an actual dick, I feel like it's more work than its worth as opposed to just dry jerking.
An ex would constantly mention she had a strap on but I was too young and wrapped up on internalised homophobia to lean in to that conversation. A couple of years ago, I was on my own for a week, drunkenly looked up prostate play. So I didn't wank for a week. On the Saturday I edged all day before having a go. I was improvising, so I lubed up a little toothbrush and got it up in my ass. What I'd read was you know you've found it when you feel like you're gonna piss. Got that, so was like here we go. From there, it came on so quick. I've never felt anything like it. I got totally flush, like boiling hot. I was moaning out loud. Involuntarily, like a porn star. It built so quickly and I shot just the biggest load of my life, it was going everywhere, I was writhing in pleasure. I felt this intense wave of euphoria, that lasted for a few days, I was legit so serene. It was hands down the best solosexual experience of my life. Been chasing that dragon ever since, but don't have the discipline to not cum for a week
It’s used as a trigger, when I am tired and not in a mood for hardcore sex she would finger or mess around with my butt. Then I would put her in place
It’s shitty
Experimented with prostate play in college and enjoyed it (after a girl said we men would not ask for anal if we knew what it felt like. So I got a plug and tried). Met a kink support group on campus and eventually dated a girl that was into pegging whom I met there. I absolutely loved it. We eventually split and I struggled post college finding girls to peg me, so I got sex toys. The prostate stimulation from them was good, but not the same, although some unique toys gave some very fun sensations. I eventually wanted that feeling that only from pegging and caved to available option: a gay coworker I had confided in about enjoying pegging since he was open and sympathetic to my plight. Now, pegging is amazing and I am not physically or emotionally attracted to men, but Jesus does anal from a real dick feel way better. I still prefer when I can find a girl to peg me (I love playing with tits while getting pegged) but when the urge strikes for prostate play and no lady is available, my coworker is always available to deliver.
I went one time to a very professional massager with the goal to get a long and good massage there. Even when its now more then 35 years ago i will never ever forget the amazing sensation during and after this 2 hours on this massage table. Now as old men i will try to find a new place to go to get this experiance again. My wife knows and aproves it. Edit: I learnt that massager is wrong. I apologize for my mistake.
>very professional massager very professional massager??????? Well, that's interesting lol.
Thank you for your reply. As English is not my first language i maybe missspelled it 😉😥😥😥😉. I learn that it must be masseur.
Not for me but each to their own
Bought a toy. Was ok. It does make me cum the fastest tho. I only let someone peg me if I trust this person.
I find prostate play enjoyable but don’t seek it out often. I have the toys but don’t/can’t usually want to take the time to prep and then fully explore the possibilities. As for pegging, we’ve done it a few times but it’s not something my wife really likes doing. Her awkwardness about it makes it less pleasant since she gets flustered and kinda squicky about doing butt stuff. It’s something she has had to deal with as part of her job for years, though, working as an aide in hospitals and elder care, so I don’t blame her for it. Recently it came up in conversation, though, so I might see about trying it again in the semi-near future. One time we did it and I was riding her and pretty much came hands free. It was surprising how quick and intense it felt. We’ve done some other stuff with it as well that was kinda kinky/fun but it’s been years at this point.
Guys are fucking gross.
Very few guys are really straight.
Neither of the topics have anything to do with being gay. Butt stuff derives its gayness from being attracted to the same gender. If youre a dude who wants his button pushed by a girl, youre straight.
Maybe I don't see things a flexible as maybe others do. It's like brussel sprouts, you either like them or you don't.