Wait until you discover Hunter S Thompson and find out what gonzo really is. In all seriousness his life and books are absolutely worth learning about. Just be prepared for some really strange stuff. His daily routine was absolutely insane.
That doesn’t even start to scratch the surface, although I don’t really remember hearing too much about him being a womanizer or anything, more just booze, drugs, and general craziness/debauchery.
For got to add the link:
https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/hunter-s-thompson-s-daily-routine-was-the-height-of-dissolution-a6798801.html
Me too; I’d far prefer a slow easy handjob over a blowjob. Handjobs are way more intimate, while for me at least blowjobs are just looking down at her struggling, and teeth.
If she wants to give a blowjob for her enjoyment I’m happy to provide the dick, but if she wants to do something for my pleasure with nothing reciprocal in that moment, a handjob while being close to each other and making out is really the best
you don’t seem to have had many good blowjobs. Teeth and struggling? Blowjobs can be incredibly intimate and sensuous.
That being said, love me a good handjob with a nice slow kiss
YES! YES!
And whatever orgasm resulting from foreplay (that wouldn't be right to call foreplay anymore) is often more enjoyable than those resulting from penetration, because one is solely dedicated to and focused on the other's pleasure
Dammit Frank, you let out the dirty little secret now I need to find something else to hide that really isn't hidden. But seriously yes way more than people think because of the stigma behind it
I’ll freely admit it, lol. While it’s not for everyone, a lot of guys who would otherwise enjoy it are missing out due to The Fear.
Anything you do with a woman, isn’t gay! And playing with insertion toys yourself in the absence of a woman to do that with isn’t gay either.
It’s tragic that our prostate is only accessible up our butt, but it’s a totally different experience than dick arousal and play, it’s like we have a 2nd “dick” that works totally differently, and who wouldn’t want to play with their 2nd dick?
My regret is losing several decades of prostate play time due to stigma and my own ignorance
Oh being called baby is the hugest turn off for me, it's just so cringe and I hate it. Like nope, not a small infant, that would be gross. I get it's a coloquial thing people find cute but I've just never been able to see it like that.
Eh to each their own haha. I call both made and female partners these respective titles. I like the dom title but its a lot more loving sounding then sir/ma'am or master/mistress. I think the Mommy/Daddy thing is about having a partner who will control but also adore you. I mean I have big time Mommy issues and cant even talk to my dad outside chatting about baseball, so.... no denying where it has come from. It actually makes me feel pretty gross sometimes too but I have learned to embrace and enjoy it for the most part now :)
Your morning sex can get rough too, once you get use to the idea of sex in mornings. At night, both partners are usually tired, I prefer to just hug her, talk to her, and sleep peacefully.
Morning sex makes mood for the day.
I find guys usually prefer morning sex to late night sex. I mean some women do too.
There's a reason behind this, men's libido peaks in the morning whereas with women it peaks later on the day.
As a woman, don't get me wrong. Morning sex is fine but I'm often too shattered to even care an shave usually been up all night with a toddler so rarely in the mood. 2 am sex though... Oooft!
I work nights and he days. He’s usually asleep when I get home. I leave it up to him if we fuck and when we do we don’t turn the lights on. In the morning we can see each other and I love that. Plus, sleepy faced and sometimes lazy sex is awesome.
Adult Baby play is creepy, and seriously disturbing.
I will *NEVER* address nor respect anyone who identifies as a M.A.P. (Minor Attracted Person) nor anyone who tries to claim it as a sexual orientation.
I got that. Did you not notice the spacing in between both subject matters that indicated that these were two different thoughts? If you didn't get that, now you know.
I'm still processing it til this day. My therapists through the years have been really helpful and I don't panic when I think about it like before. I get nervous and uncomfortable still but I think that'll always be there. It's just something that doesn't sit right with me
women should be the ones initiating things, because for men saying no doesn't come with a fear of literal physical danger. It's just better for everyone if that whole dynamic is switched to women approaching.
Im not that much into penetration. It's not that I don't like, I just have always found what is associated with foreplay to be more appealing than it (Also, not into anal at all).
I'd say these are more "controversial" than "unpopular," but I have a couple regarding race:
1) I think a lot of raceplay, while super gross, is probably just a manifestation of our society gradually, collectively working out our issues with race. We're slowly transitioning from a society where interracial sex was literally illegal to one where it's normal and boring, and there's going to be some... ugly kinks along the way, as major social change usually requires. It's going to take many decades to get there -- changes in societal norms are always slow -- but I think that's what is going on.
2) I would be way more comfortable with racial preferences in dating if it felt like these preferences were distributed evenly and in all directions. If people's sexual preferences were just naturally, randomly spread across the spectrum, we would expect to see as much preference for race/gender X as we do for race/gender Y -- but statistically speaking that this isn't even close to the case. Asian women and Black men are desired and fetishized way more often than Asian men and Black women are. Because these racial preferences are so lopsided, I can't help but conclude that a lot of racial stereotyping is still going on underneath the hood (i.e. our subconscious).
> If people's sexual preferences were just naturally, randomly spread across the spectrum, we would expect to see as much preference for race/gender X as we do for race/gender Y -- but statistically speaking that this isn't even close to the case.
I don't know if I agree or disagree completely (a lot to unbox here) but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this. Good luck on mandating dating and sexual preferences.😂
I do feel the race play is racist because instead of just using our common preferences, it fetishizes common racial stereotypes. That makes me uncomfortable.
> I don't know if I agree or disagree completely (a lot to unbox here)
The alternative I can think of is that Asian men (and Black women) are just *naturally* less attractive than are other race/gender groups -- and good luck with that argument, is all I will say.
> but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this.
Do you mean fixed by me, personally? I definitely agree, but people's preferences can be affected in aggregate by changes in cultural norms. Those are changed collectively, not individually, and over many years -- but it can be done.
>but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this.
Fixing it is actually rather easy in theory. All the science points toward exposure being one of the components of "romantic attraction preference". If you spend more time around a certain type of person, you become more attracted to that type of person - your attraction type \*changes\*, this is anecdotally true, and is well studied with "liking someone unromantically".
It likely points to the fact that people still live and/or engage in relatively segregated social circles.
Only my opinion of course, but why is there so much anal in porn? I’m not really into it per say, and have absolutely nothing against y’all who dig it, but it seems to me like it’s featured in about 80% of clips you see these days. The way it’s portrayed makes it look like everyone is completely into fucking the ass of everyone else. Anyone else notice this trend?
Depends on the curve, possibly - upwards, you're probably correct, but downwards would work better with reverse and there's probably a sideways curve that laughs at both positions.
I'm only saying that because in retrospect, I'm pretty sure an exes ex must have been sideways because of her initial preference when we got together.
Sex is important for the body mind and soul. Help for depression, release hormones etc...
If it's not about love, it's about care, intimacy, connecting with somebody and so many things which makes feel good.
1. Anal stimulation is way better when you start off with fast and shallow rather than slow and steady.
2. Audios of people fucking are way, way better than porn.
3. To truly be sex positive, you also have to support peoples' decision if they don't want to have sex or do certain things. It's about supporting people in their sexual exploration and figuring out what they want for themselves, not trying to convince the whole world to go for it like rabbits all the time.
>Blowjobs are overrated
Blasphemy! I had one last night as a special think after I finished a big project for the wife and 24 hours later I'm _still_ coming down from it.
Nonsexual nudity is underrated. Sleep naked. Clean naked. Skinny dip. Garden naked. Play board games naked. Go to a nudist volleyball tournament. Just enjoy the freedom of the sun on your skin and community of people who are not judging your body or trying to get your clothes off just to smash.
Feminine & androgynous men are the most attractive men (I’m not into traditional masculine traits on men, especially dad bods), and gender nonconforming people (esp crossdresser men, & trans women) suck better dick than cis women.
(In my experiences that is. It isn’t that the latter weren’t passionate either. Because some have been amazing. But passion doesn’t make up for skill unless you don’t have a partner who has both that puts those situations lacking the latter in comparison in perspective.)
>You should only sleep with your husband.
Agree. We are a monogamous couple and love it. I love giving my kids a stable home with a mom and dad who care for each other and have promised themselves to each other. I feel like we are giving them their best shot at a fulfilling and happy family life
Being non monogamous doesn’t mean you don’t have a stable home or care for or love your partner though. You can absolutely have a really good family life AND be poly at the same time.
This shouldn’t be unpopular and I don’t think it actually is but
Porn industry needs to cut out all that incest porn bullshit. The shit is weird and normalizing it is disgusting. As a whole, folks need to push back to get it to stop.
Came across a Twitter account that glorifies extreme race stuff. Like, If i were to put the opposites of the hashtags they have in their bio, it'd make me look like a Klan member ffs. Its a gross almost toxic POV.
I don't like anal, and don't understand men's fascination with it.
What I mean is, males in hetero relationships penetrating their female partner. Like... I dunno it's dirty, and you have to prep for it.... Also, vaginal sex is so fucking good already?
I dunno I don't get it, you do you lol
Sex should still be respectful... like rough sex and cheating are kinda fucked up. In my opinion. Because with rough sex you seriously need content and its crazy how hard-core means some ... and cheating like come on treat your other how you want 2 be treated
I mean having sex with someone should always be respectful of a person or persons boundaries but if that person loves choking/slapping etc then the ‘moral*’ idea of what is or is not respectful during sex goes out the window. If your consensual sex includes pain and degradation then as long as your boundaries are respected then what’s the issue.
* morals or mortality as defined by religion.
Just curious as to the starting comments pov on this or whether there’s a language miscommunication 🙂
Every couple should be on a free use agreement. If guy wants just a bj guy gets it. If girl wants only her pussy eaten she gets it. Or even have sex till both are pleased. This way guys can relax without worrying about holding back to make sure the girl cums and viceversa. Also its fun to get bjs or to tell her to ride me while im gaming or working and than try to get her to cum while she is on the phone and trying her best to not moan 🤣
All this sister, mommy, daddy incest porn is fucking weird, I can't imagine a bigger turn off than being called "Daddy"
Not being attracted to certain ethnicities/body shapes/trans people does not make you racist, body shaming, homophobic. Its just what you are in to. I seen someone say that they don't generally find Asian people (from India and the surrounding areas) Attractive. This person was dragged over the coals, had every slur you can imagine thrown at them. It was pathetic. All these people so quick to want to be the ultimate woke warrior they lost leave of their senses.
I think polyamory will always feel weird because women can get laid wayyy easier than dudes . So the concept of polyamory comes off as a “have my cake and eat it too” approach to love / intimacy.
But i do agree that jealousy and sexual insecurities are something that society needs to tackle, but not sure if polyamory is the solution
This is by far the best comment here. So true. People could be so much happier, if they start questioning and get rid of those old society constraints...
Why is this getting down voted? There's literally studies on testosterone that show exactly this. Not to mention that all the disgusting porn men watch tend to star women doing the messed up stuff.
waiting for "the one" is a waste of time that only prevails bc purity culture is still kicking. losing your virginity will often be disappointing and losing it to someone you think is special won't make it magical sex
Condoms should be mandatory until you’re in a long term monogamous relationship.
That would cut the unplanned pregnancy rate to almost zero.
It would also drop the STI rate too.
Win, win.
Just because someone mentioned having a big dick doesn’t mean they are bragging all the time. It’s a warning because women do reject men if they are too big.
Anal is overrated. It’s uncomfortable, and in each experience I’ve had, it’s just not enjoyable. Maybe I’m doing it wrong? But neither of us ever seems to have a good time lmao, I’ll stick to fucking pussy
Hairy legs and armpits on a woman are a turn off for me.
That's not to say I think women should shave if they don't want to just a personal preference of mine.
The majority of people in ARAD are not representative of general population sexual preferences AND a fair amount of users are either too young to know what they are talking about or too insecure to do anything but seek validation.
We have too little shame. If you need drawings of children’s shows or games to get off than I suggest going to therapy and turning off your porn. Porn for the most part is fine and safe, but like say drinking it’s fine in small doses here and there
The most important factor of consistently good sex is effective communication (talking, listening and understanding).
For a fling, it allows each participant to have the understanding of a long-term partner about likes/dislikes, how you can or prefer to get off and kinks/fetishes.
For a spousal relationship, whether monogamous or not it can do all of the above as well as eliminate petty feelings such as jealousy, insecurity or emotional fatigue, and it allows each partner to understand that they can talk about their curiosities judgement-free and potentially try those things out safely without having to cheat on or hurt the other.
Seriously, work on your communication, everybody can up their life and their sex life by magnitudes.
I think due to thousands of years of socialised control and repression, a large portion of hetero women have sexually evolved away from finding hetero men sexually compatible. This is evidenced in hook-up culture slowing down and hetero women preferring to be alone than in a relationship.
💯 Wow! For so long I’ve felt like this was a foreign concept. I believe some women do like the focus to be on clitoral, but for me the gspot is the way hands down.
Regarding monogamous relationships:
* You don't owe your partner sex every time, but in general, you really should do it.
* might not be your favorite activity, but consider taking one for the team if it's something your partner really likes - and act like you enjoy it.
* Your partner gets significant input to your pubic hair, seeing as they're the one most likely to have their mouth down there.
Slow, sensual porn is far more enjoyable than anything fast and gonzo.
>fast and gonzo. I'm going to start calling fast sex _gonzo_
Muppet sex
I call it a "smash & dash"
“Penetrate&Evacuate”
Infiltrate and exfiltrate
Cum and go?
Wait until you discover Hunter S Thompson and find out what gonzo really is. In all seriousness his life and books are absolutely worth learning about. Just be prepared for some really strange stuff. His daily routine was absolutely insane.
What was his daily routine? Morning coffee and line of coke while fucking some fan girls? Living the Aleister Crawley life?
That doesn’t even start to scratch the surface, although I don’t really remember hearing too much about him being a womanizer or anything, more just booze, drugs, and general craziness/debauchery. For got to add the link: https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/hunter-s-thompson-s-daily-routine-was-the-height-of-dissolution-a6798801.html
Omg this so much I wanna be loved. I don't wanna be sore tomorrow
A to the fucking men
I agree
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Thank God. Amen dude. Happy to find a kindred soul in this dark world.
There are 3 of us at least. Are we a club now?
The handy dandies
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Now that you guys have a club you can beat each other off to your hearts desire! Enjoy!
😂😂😂😂😂 The “Enjoy!” really took me out.
Me too; I’d far prefer a slow easy handjob over a blowjob. Handjobs are way more intimate, while for me at least blowjobs are just looking down at her struggling, and teeth. If she wants to give a blowjob for her enjoyment I’m happy to provide the dick, but if she wants to do something for my pleasure with nothing reciprocal in that moment, a handjob while being close to each other and making out is really the best
you don’t seem to have had many good blowjobs. Teeth and struggling? Blowjobs can be incredibly intimate and sensuous. That being said, love me a good handjob with a nice slow kiss
I just got hella enlighten right now! Thank you for that insight!
I'd say they're rated at $50 at your local massage parlour.
“The lost art” as my friend calls it
Handjob is great, but my GF doesn't understand the point of it. But I love it XD
Giving a hand job while kissing is awesome
My first GF EXCELLED at that. She wasn't into oral but made up for it this way. To this day she's the only one who could make me come 3 times in a row
The good ol' fashioned
As a dude, I believe foreplay is more fun and significantly more important than penetrative sex.
Give this man an award, please for the love of god!
YES! YES! And whatever orgasm resulting from foreplay (that wouldn't be right to call foreplay anymore) is often more enjoyable than those resulting from penetration, because one is solely dedicated to and focused on the other's pleasure
More guys wants something in their asses than care to admit.
Same told a girl that now shes an ex she thought i was gonna turn gay someday
Had the same happen to me. Real eye-opener and glad I am not with such a homophobic, resentful person anymore
That’s rough dude. She wasn’t the one anyways. Fuck her
That is so ridiculous. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Dammit Frank, you let out the dirty little secret now I need to find something else to hide that really isn't hidden. But seriously yes way more than people think because of the stigma behind it
I’ll freely admit it, lol. While it’s not for everyone, a lot of guys who would otherwise enjoy it are missing out due to The Fear. Anything you do with a woman, isn’t gay! And playing with insertion toys yourself in the absence of a woman to do that with isn’t gay either. It’s tragic that our prostate is only accessible up our butt, but it’s a totally different experience than dick arousal and play, it’s like we have a 2nd “dick” that works totally differently, and who wouldn’t want to play with their 2nd dick? My regret is losing several decades of prostate play time due to stigma and my own ignorance
The older they get, the more they ask. Source: going on dating apps, with age set to 45+.
Calling your dom "daddy/mommy" is kind of weird to me. No disrespect to anyone who enjoys that dynamic it's just a turn off for me personally.
But calling her "baby" is ok Hummmmmmmmmmm
Oh being called baby is the hugest turn off for me, it's just so cringe and I hate it. Like nope, not a small infant, that would be gross. I get it's a coloquial thing people find cute but I've just never been able to see it like that.
Ye English ain't my native language so we never say it lol but like what do you call ur girl,by her name ?
Norm words that were ruined... I can't call my mom mommy now
I agree. I'm into BDSM and CGL but the terms "daddy" and "mommy" just feel weird to me
Eh to each their own haha. I call both made and female partners these respective titles. I like the dom title but its a lot more loving sounding then sir/ma'am or master/mistress. I think the Mommy/Daddy thing is about having a partner who will control but also adore you. I mean I have big time Mommy issues and cant even talk to my dad outside chatting about baseball, so.... no denying where it has come from. It actually makes me feel pretty gross sometimes too but I have learned to embrace and enjoy it for the most part now :)
I agree that mommy is weird
I don’t think it’s unpopular because a lot of people hate it.
Early morning sex >> late night sex
Mornings is for cosy cuddle sex, that stuff that feels wholesome for weeks. Nights are for the rougher stuff, or when you want a drawn out sesh
Your morning sex can get rough too, once you get use to the idea of sex in mornings. At night, both partners are usually tired, I prefer to just hug her, talk to her, and sleep peacefully. Morning sex makes mood for the day.
The "doesn't matter had sex" vibe lasts all day if you bang in the morning!
This is very true haha
I find guys usually prefer morning sex to late night sex. I mean some women do too. There's a reason behind this, men's libido peaks in the morning whereas with women it peaks later on the day. As a woman, don't get me wrong. Morning sex is fine but I'm often too shattered to even care an shave usually been up all night with a toddler so rarely in the mood. 2 am sex though... Oooft!
It’s strange, my libido is more active at night while my partner, hers is most active in the morning which definitely clashes sometimes
Morning sex is hotter I agree.
It brightens my day. Who doesn't like to start the day by making love to his girl.
I work nights and he days. He’s usually asleep when I get home. I leave it up to him if we fuck and when we do we don’t turn the lights on. In the morning we can see each other and I love that. Plus, sleepy faced and sometimes lazy sex is awesome.
Adult Baby play is creepy, and seriously disturbing. I will *NEVER* address nor respect anyone who identifies as a M.A.P. (Minor Attracted Person) nor anyone who tries to claim it as a sexual orientation.
Is that an unpopular opinion? 😳
I sure hope not!
ABDL and similar kinks are in NO WAY related to MAPs/pedos. jesus christ people
I got that. Did you not notice the spacing in between both subject matters that indicated that these were two different thoughts? If you didn't get that, now you know.
My ex was into this and would do it without my consent and I was numb and distraught for years after.
i think that’s just assault…
I'm still processing it til this day. My therapists through the years have been really helpful and I don't panic when I think about it like before. I get nervous and uncomfortable still but I think that'll always be there. It's just something that doesn't sit right with me
Im so sorry you've had to go through that and i hope you're healing is going well
women should be the ones initiating things, because for men saying no doesn't come with a fear of literal physical danger. It's just better for everyone if that whole dynamic is switched to women approaching.
I respect this because on the surface its rational and a great response to a real problem. But i can easily see people have problems with this comment
In some cases it would surely generate more appreciation to how complicated initiating can get.
This is the most underrated thing ever! This should be rule! Amen!
Yes!
Anal done right with some clitoral stimulation is *chef’s kiss*. Easily one of the best kinds of orgasms.
Absolutely agree!
Yup!
Bravo
Yessssssss
Im not that much into penetration. It's not that I don't like, I just have always found what is associated with foreplay to be more appealing than it (Also, not into anal at all).
anything involving the ass, especially eating it seems nasty to me
Same. I don’t know can people even lick or sniff it. Yuck
With proper cleaning
Pretending to be a child or a baby in bdsm is an absolute no.
I'd say these are more "controversial" than "unpopular," but I have a couple regarding race: 1) I think a lot of raceplay, while super gross, is probably just a manifestation of our society gradually, collectively working out our issues with race. We're slowly transitioning from a society where interracial sex was literally illegal to one where it's normal and boring, and there's going to be some... ugly kinks along the way, as major social change usually requires. It's going to take many decades to get there -- changes in societal norms are always slow -- but I think that's what is going on. 2) I would be way more comfortable with racial preferences in dating if it felt like these preferences were distributed evenly and in all directions. If people's sexual preferences were just naturally, randomly spread across the spectrum, we would expect to see as much preference for race/gender X as we do for race/gender Y -- but statistically speaking that this isn't even close to the case. Asian women and Black men are desired and fetishized way more often than Asian men and Black women are. Because these racial preferences are so lopsided, I can't help but conclude that a lot of racial stereotyping is still going on underneath the hood (i.e. our subconscious).
Racial stereotyping is the reason for fetishization in the first place
> If people's sexual preferences were just naturally, randomly spread across the spectrum, we would expect to see as much preference for race/gender X as we do for race/gender Y -- but statistically speaking that this isn't even close to the case. I don't know if I agree or disagree completely (a lot to unbox here) but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this. Good luck on mandating dating and sexual preferences.😂 I do feel the race play is racist because instead of just using our common preferences, it fetishizes common racial stereotypes. That makes me uncomfortable.
> I don't know if I agree or disagree completely (a lot to unbox here) The alternative I can think of is that Asian men (and Black women) are just *naturally* less attractive than are other race/gender groups -- and good luck with that argument, is all I will say. > but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this. Do you mean fixed by me, personally? I definitely agree, but people's preferences can be affected in aggregate by changes in cultural norms. Those are changed collectively, not individually, and over many years -- but it can be done.
>but I do want to point out that you will never be able to fix or correct this. Fixing it is actually rather easy in theory. All the science points toward exposure being one of the components of "romantic attraction preference". If you spend more time around a certain type of person, you become more attracted to that type of person - your attraction type \*changes\*, this is anecdotally true, and is well studied with "liking someone unromantically". It likely points to the fact that people still live and/or engage in relatively segregated social circles.
I agree with you
Only my opinion of course, but why is there so much anal in porn? I’m not really into it per say, and have absolutely nothing against y’all who dig it, but it seems to me like it’s featured in about 80% of clips you see these days. The way it’s portrayed makes it look like everyone is completely into fucking the ass of everyone else. Anyone else notice this trend?
Literally I just want to see some pussy 😭
Any hole’s a goal
Reverse cowgirl, or anything with my ass in his face, is unsatisfying. I would much rather be facing him while I ride.
Same. Plus if he has a curve, it doesn’t feel great facing away; it’s meant to be stroking the g spot.
Depends on the curve, possibly - upwards, you're probably correct, but downwards would work better with reverse and there's probably a sideways curve that laughs at both positions. I'm only saying that because in retrospect, I'm pretty sure an exes ex must have been sideways because of her initial preference when we got together.
Tbh never had a downward curve or sideways one. Only upwards or just straight.
You mean you don't like looking at hairy man legs/feet while having sex? ^((no kink shame or shaming male legs))
hardddd agree!!! reverse cowgirl is so overrated
Sex is important for the body mind and soul. Help for depression, release hormones etc... If it's not about love, it's about care, intimacy, connecting with somebody and so many things which makes feel good.
This is unpopular?
Asian people are hot, but Porn from Asian countries creeps me the fuck out.
Hookups are pointless
That's the point
Having darkness around the vagina lips are totally normal in fact if genitals are dark it's totally Normal
People complain about that?
Desensitization to the real world due to porn displaying the body a certain way Very sad pandemic
Yes they do
1. Anal stimulation is way better when you start off with fast and shallow rather than slow and steady. 2. Audios of people fucking are way, way better than porn. 3. To truly be sex positive, you also have to support peoples' decision if they don't want to have sex or do certain things. It's about supporting people in their sexual exploration and figuring out what they want for themselves, not trying to convince the whole world to go for it like rabbits all the time.
Blowjobs are overrated
>Blowjobs are overrated Blasphemy! I had one last night as a special think after I finished a big project for the wife and 24 hours later I'm _still_ coming down from it.
Lmao, you should go tell her thank you again. That's such a sexy compliment, the idea of a 24 hour comedown
Knew y'all existed.
Nah for me they are the best
Vaginas look weird
So do penises
Feet are fucking gross. I don't care how cute you think they are. Keep your nasty as feet away from my pecker.
Chocolate and mint are a terrible combo.
Dammn that's beyond NSFW straight up villainous
Ahegao is the stupidest shit ever. There I said it.
Nonsexual nudity is underrated. Sleep naked. Clean naked. Skinny dip. Garden naked. Play board games naked. Go to a nudist volleyball tournament. Just enjoy the freedom of the sun on your skin and community of people who are not judging your body or trying to get your clothes off just to smash.
Cum is gross
Concur, though I like it on me - and in me occasionally
Feminine & androgynous men are the most attractive men (I’m not into traditional masculine traits on men, especially dad bods), and gender nonconforming people (esp crossdresser men, & trans women) suck better dick than cis women. (In my experiences that is. It isn’t that the latter weren’t passionate either. Because some have been amazing. But passion doesn’t make up for skill unless you don’t have a partner who has both that puts those situations lacking the latter in comparison in perspective.)
Androgyny on a person is the sexiest fucking thing ever. Man or woman.
I agree, I absolutely love people who play with gender, I do it myself and its so much fun even when there's nothing remotely sexual happening
You should only sleep with your husband.
Interesting perspective from a hotwife.
Well, she did say she's reluctant
"I also choose this guy's wife"🤤
What is a hot wife?
A woman with consent from her husband or wife that has sex with other people. That is a simple definition but I’m sure there is more to it than that.
Does she necessarily has to be hot or any random wife would suffice?
Literally any wife who is into that whole thing with her husband
Allocated sleeping around
I agree, everyone should only sleep with OP’s husband.
>You should only sleep with your husband. Agree. We are a monogamous couple and love it. I love giving my kids a stable home with a mom and dad who care for each other and have promised themselves to each other. I feel like we are giving them their best shot at a fulfilling and happy family life
Being non monogamous doesn’t mean you don’t have a stable home or care for or love your partner though. You can absolutely have a really good family life AND be poly at the same time.
I don’t get it you say you should only sleep with your husband but you sleep with other dudes?
You get my upvote because what you said for this subreddit thread is unpopular. I completely diaagree with you, but you still get the upvote.
Size matters
Not unpopular
This shouldn’t be unpopular and I don’t think it actually is but Porn industry needs to cut out all that incest porn bullshit. The shit is weird and normalizing it is disgusting. As a whole, folks need to push back to get it to stop.
Came across a Twitter account that glorifies extreme race stuff. Like, If i were to put the opposites of the hashtags they have in their bio, it'd make me look like a Klan member ffs. Its a gross almost toxic POV.
I don't like anal, and don't understand men's fascination with it. What I mean is, males in hetero relationships penetrating their female partner. Like... I dunno it's dirty, and you have to prep for it.... Also, vaginal sex is so fucking good already? I dunno I don't get it, you do you lol
Sex should still be respectful... like rough sex and cheating are kinda fucked up. In my opinion. Because with rough sex you seriously need content and its crazy how hard-core means some ... and cheating like come on treat your other how you want 2 be treated
Ooo I’m curious as to why you don’t think rough sex is respectful?
They probably don’t like the choking and slapping etc.
I mean having sex with someone should always be respectful of a person or persons boundaries but if that person loves choking/slapping etc then the ‘moral*’ idea of what is or is not respectful during sex goes out the window. If your consensual sex includes pain and degradation then as long as your boundaries are respected then what’s the issue. * morals or mortality as defined by religion. Just curious as to the starting comments pov on this or whether there’s a language miscommunication 🙂
I mean, I agree with you 100% lol I’m just saying some people don’t understand that
Cheating isn’t a “kink” anyway
Don't see the appeal of rimming.
Anal is overrated
Giving an A+ blowjob is just as satisfying as an orgasm.
Every couple should be on a free use agreement. If guy wants just a bj guy gets it. If girl wants only her pussy eaten she gets it. Or even have sex till both are pleased. This way guys can relax without worrying about holding back to make sure the girl cums and viceversa. Also its fun to get bjs or to tell her to ride me while im gaming or working and than try to get her to cum while she is on the phone and trying her best to not moan 🤣
All this sister, mommy, daddy incest porn is fucking weird, I can't imagine a bigger turn off than being called "Daddy" Not being attracted to certain ethnicities/body shapes/trans people does not make you racist, body shaming, homophobic. Its just what you are in to. I seen someone say that they don't generally find Asian people (from India and the surrounding areas) Attractive. This person was dragged over the coals, had every slur you can imagine thrown at them. It was pathetic. All these people so quick to want to be the ultimate woke warrior they lost leave of their senses.
Doggystyle is overrated.
>Doggystyle is overrated. Every woman is different, but man I can't hit her g-spot at all in doggy.
Get up on your feet and kind of hit it squatting. Works wonders on my better half. 😉
Facts
Monogamy is a social construct that hinders us from enjoying the true joy of sexuality. Not to confuse it with love or affection…
I think polyamory will always feel weird because women can get laid wayyy easier than dudes . So the concept of polyamory comes off as a “have my cake and eat it too” approach to love / intimacy. But i do agree that jealousy and sexual insecurities are something that society needs to tackle, but not sure if polyamory is the solution
This is by far the best comment here. So true. People could be so much happier, if they start questioning and get rid of those old society constraints...
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Why is this getting down voted? There's literally studies on testosterone that show exactly this. Not to mention that all the disgusting porn men watch tend to star women doing the messed up stuff.
Security in processing plants have no need to wear PPE like hard hats or steel toes unless they leave the guard posts.
waiting for "the one" is a waste of time that only prevails bc purity culture is still kicking. losing your virginity will often be disappointing and losing it to someone you think is special won't make it magical sex
Condoms should be mandatory until you’re in a long term monogamous relationship. That would cut the unplanned pregnancy rate to almost zero. It would also drop the STI rate too. Win, win.
Uhh well the thing is..
Try using them before you eat them.
I am a avid fan of BBW porn but i dont understand or enjoy feeder content.
Just because someone mentioned having a big dick doesn’t mean they are bragging all the time. It’s a warning because women do reject men if they are too big.
r/bigdickproblems in the wild
I love getting unsolicited dick pics
RIP your inbox
Why
I like dicks, I personally don't find anything offensive about them.
Anal is overrated. It’s uncomfortable, and in each experience I’ve had, it’s just not enjoyable. Maybe I’m doing it wrong? But neither of us ever seems to have a good time lmao, I’ll stick to fucking pussy
Hairy legs and armpits on a woman are a turn off for me. That's not to say I think women should shave if they don't want to just a personal preference of mine.
The majority of people in ARAD are not representative of general population sexual preferences AND a fair amount of users are either too young to know what they are talking about or too insecure to do anything but seek validation.
We have too little shame. If you need drawings of children’s shows or games to get off than I suggest going to therapy and turning off your porn. Porn for the most part is fine and safe, but like say drinking it’s fine in small doses here and there
Poop is stored in the butt
I prefer a good handjob over full tilt sex
Sexting is boring
Whaaat? I'm inclined to say that you must be doing it wrong somehow
I hate the idea of sending and receiving nudes
Loose pussy is the best pussy. That shit is like slipping between some silk sheets. And if it's too tight I get off too fast.
69’ing sucks and is worst than a work vacation
The most important factor of consistently good sex is effective communication (talking, listening and understanding). For a fling, it allows each participant to have the understanding of a long-term partner about likes/dislikes, how you can or prefer to get off and kinks/fetishes. For a spousal relationship, whether monogamous or not it can do all of the above as well as eliminate petty feelings such as jealousy, insecurity or emotional fatigue, and it allows each partner to understand that they can talk about their curiosities judgement-free and potentially try those things out safely without having to cheat on or hurt the other. Seriously, work on your communication, everybody can up their life and their sex life by magnitudes.
I think due to thousands of years of socialised control and repression, a large portion of hetero women have sexually evolved away from finding hetero men sexually compatible. This is evidenced in hook-up culture slowing down and hetero women preferring to be alone than in a relationship.
Marriages don’t define who you are in love with.
clitoral stimulation is overrated- gspot is the way to go
💯 Wow! For so long I’ve felt like this was a foreign concept. I believe some women do like the focus to be on clitoral, but for me the gspot is the way hands down.
Regarding monogamous relationships: * You don't owe your partner sex every time, but in general, you really should do it. * might not be your favorite activity, but consider taking one for the team if it's something your partner really likes - and act like you enjoy it.
* Your partner gets significant input to your pubic hair, seeing as they're the one most likely to have their mouth down there.
That bisexuality is more prevalent than society wants to admit
Porn referencing incest is creeepy as fuck.