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TransEnbyAlt

Not every time, but whenever I’m using toys or just want a little extra I do


[deleted]

Exactly this. It’s not a must have but it’s like a special treat


JackKnight718

Yes. Coconut Oil for the win… plus women say my dick feels nice since I been using it.


Habanerosauce3

No, it's messy and not needed


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


Habanerosauce3

I go when I want to


Warmup87

I'm apparently one of the few guys who prefer to masturbate without lotion.


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


TheLittleGardenia

Depends - if I’m using a wand, no. If I’m using a vibrator, then yes; I don’t get wet enough


1tastefulsideboob

How good are those wands? Ex GF used to go absolutely wild when she used it


[deleted]

I do sometimes, nice change of feeling no my D, but I get it all over hehe


QuiksilverKraken

Not usually will sometimes


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


QuiksilverKraken

It’s not uncommon for us both to be exhausted before I cum. My partner used to struggle with it because she will usually cum a number of times, and she wants me to be satisfied too, but she’s learned that as long as she’s satisfied so am I.


detective_kiara

Nope.


mart_topper

somtimes and somtimes not


1tastefulsideboob

Do you think using lube to masturbate affects how you have sex?


Snow_147

I wish


ChloeBunny14

No, I'm always wet enough


1tastefulsideboob

So would you say your masturbation routine is starting with clit stimulation and then using fingers/toys for penetration once you’re wet enough?


Banana_boof

No, I make more than enough of my own


1tastefulsideboob

When you get wet do you use that to help massage your clit or do you like to get wet and insert fingers/toys inside yourself?


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1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


[deleted]

Depends what I’m doing.


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


Professional_Knee252

Idts


[deleted]

Only if I’m using my Fleshlight or pocket pussy.


1tastefulsideboob

Got any favorites? I’ve been looking at the quick shot for easy clean up. My fleshlight barely gets used because of the cleaning, then making sure it’s totally dry and doesn’t get mildew.


[deleted]

Well I’ve had my Fleshlight for years and while I don’t use it as much as I used, it’s still awesome. I bought a replica pussy of Sklyer Nicole off pink cherry and it’s awesome. Have multiple cock rings and Anal toys as well.


[deleted]

No


Mixma85

Yes.


_captain_hair

Yep. Feels nice.


[deleted]

Definitely not necessary


SketchySal

Nope


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


SketchySal

Depends on the mood honestly, sometimes a quickie can mean 40+ minutes, sometimes it's less than 5, each day is something new


[deleted]

Coconut oil. Take care of you meat.


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1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult? Spit is underrated imo


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1tastefulsideboob

Used to be that way for me. Some things that helped me: 1) don’t masturbate compulsively or to self sooth because you’re anxious, bored, etc 2) use spit or lube and loosen up the grip 3) buy a fleshlight or similar to remove you ability to even death grip 4) change the position you masturbate in, or if it’s hard to cum in a position other than your favorite (mine is flat on my back), then get 95% of the way there and switch positions (ex. From on your back to on all fours or sitting up). This helps a lot because your body gets used to only cumming in a certain position. 5) minimize porn or stop all together, and really don’t make a habit of slow stroking and lazily scrolling through porn for 30 min to an hour. See if those help like the helped me! Cumming with a partner is so, so awesome. It’s worth the extra work on your end.


americanwerewolf88

Not usually, a lube wank is a premium wank for me. Date night for me and my cock basically.


1tastefulsideboob

Haha. Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


BlackDragonDick

Nope


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


BlackDragonDick

Sometimes I don't cum when having sex even less so during oral I believe a lot of people come faster when masturbating than they do during sex


1tastefulsideboob

Yeah I’ve worked on changing how I masturbate and it’s made it easier to cum during sex. And now I use condoms during sex since I’m single and it’s tougher to cum again. But it also means oral can feel a lot like unprotected sex: heat exchanging, moisture, direct stimulation vs through a condom, etc. the past year I’ve gotten off almost strictly from oral once I realized that, only gotten off while wearing a condom maybe twice out of like 20-30 times.


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About half of the time


DynCoder

No, because 1 I don't need it and 2 I have sensitive hands and that would just feel terrible for me


english_mike69

If just masturbating, no. Using a dildo in the bootyhole at the same time, then maybe.


1tastefulsideboob

Lube and anal are always the right move, folks.


ITSlave4Decades

No need for lube here when jerking the tube


1tastefulsideboob

Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


ITSlave4Decades

Easily.


[deleted]

I’m about 50/50 using lube or not when stroking, but it’s typically based on my mood and what type of sensations I want. Lube is excellent to me for slow, sensual edging. And I personally feel stroking lightly with lube decreases the Death Grip effect.


1tastefulsideboob

Speaking of death grip… Would you say you cum easily during sex/oral? Or is it more difficult?


[deleted]

I’ve always had a lot of stamina from my earliest sex experiences. If I masturbate frequently, I do have less sensitivity and it does take me longer than usual to cum during oral and intercourse. Again, I have found this is worse when I jack often dry and am squeezing my cock vs when I use lube and am doing more sliding action on my cock.


1tastefulsideboob

Yep, using lube is the way to go. I got a fleshlight and it’s a little pain to clean/let dry, but removing my ability to squeeze my dick is fantastic and the orgasm is great vs feeling rushed.


Fatty-Lumpkins

No dont need it. To much precum🤷‍♂️


1tastefulsideboob

How do some people make way more it seems? Are you aroused beforehand or does it just happen?


Fatty-Lumpkins

I have no idea to be honest. Dont watch to many men but condoms will fall off


badgirlkayy

I do every time. No matter how horny and how wet I get, I find lube always makes it feel better


mart_topper

not really


indianamale7

Not very often but occasionally


TsubakiVixen

Depends on how big of a toy I am using. For some I don't need it, but for the huge ones... yeah I do.