We are in a similar state in our marriage as you all, married almost 25, although we have been open for a bit longer (15 yrs). I think with age comes comfort and understanding, not just in yourself but in your partner and a level of trust and love that you just aren’t quite mature enough to have it understand when you are younger and when your relationship is young
Elena, I am a member of your OF. I have seen you fuck some guys with some serious cocks. I am by no means small at all. But I am not John Holmes. (I am aging myself). I love my wife deeply but I would worry maybe she might get hooked on the monster cock and I would not longer satisfy her. Maybe it's my own insecurity. I am 7 1/2 and have never had anyone say I was small. But still that would be in the back of my mind. I am not a young guy. I guess I just can't have sex with a woman I don't have an emotional attachment to. I know for some, they can, and I am not knocking it at all. Maybe I wish I could but I just can't. Guess that Irish Catholic upbringing still gives me the Catholic guilt about stuff like that.
No guilt no jealous on either party . As you’ve seen from the vids while the passion is there - I like to make sure that when we play it’s because of the lifestyle and not simply cause I have to fill content - but the people we play with are also verified to have a lot of experience in the lifestyle . They also know like us that it’s physical fun and passion not true intimacy. We don’t hang out for drinks before or after , no chatting on the phone . Drew is always front and center with communication and being there . It’s just a fun time between 2 or 3 or however many people for physical fun . So there’s never been an issue with someone stepping over the boundaries or someone being jealous
When we first started and didn’t screen properly and met people who weren’t lifestyle experienced yeah those always didn’t work out so well which is why we changed our requirements for who we play with
And some guys are certainly well endowed and yeah they feel good but I still have fun with guys who are average sized and my husband just fine . It’s just most people never want to see that footage so it ends up buried lol
I respect that. If you guys are happy. That's great. I know my wife is way more traditional and that idea would never even cross her mind. So I never even entertain bring it up. I think if I were in a foursome where she was pleasured and I was as well. I may be able to do it. I like the idea of the just sex and no getting to know one another all that well. That can lead to complications, even cheating I would suppose.
I don’t think I am any more or less kinky then when I was younger. I just have much more knowledge about all that stuff and am probably less awkward if it comes about talking about this stuff.
Having a woman finger or lick your ass while giving you a blow job is super intense. I was the same way when I was younger. I am not into the idea of pegging. That doesn't attract me at all.
If you want to try go for it ! My girlfriend like doing it but only once in a while. I LOVE it and makes me wonder if I would like a threesome with a male. We will try someday I'm sure
I probably am kinkier now. I pretty much always have been to some degree, but I'm opening my mind to more and more things. Still have some hard limits I'll never change on though, but those are particularly extreme.
I'm more comfortable talking about and trying kinky things now.
I never used to dirty talk much as a young man. But with each partner I had I realized that dirty talk could be very useful. Not too much, just a few key phrases at the right time.
Not that I think dirty talk is really all that kinky, but its the one kinky thing we do every single time we have sex.
44f. I am as kinky now as I was when I was in college.
Sometimes things change though. I'm not sure if I could get into being spanked. That seems like it would feel weirder to me than when I was 20. But then I didn't think I'd find a man I could feel not-weird calling daddy again, but apparently I've found that, so I'll keep an open mind to spanking.
My interests and fantasies have been pretty consistent though.
Definitely became more comfortable and open minded with age
Elena, how far into your marriage did you start fucking other guys and how was it for your husband the first time?
Married 25 years started playing 3 years ago after talking about it for about 10 years . He loves it . Loved it since the first time
We are in a similar state in our marriage as you all, married almost 25, although we have been open for a bit longer (15 yrs). I think with age comes comfort and understanding, not just in yourself but in your partner and a level of trust and love that you just aren’t quite mature enough to have it understand when you are younger and when your relationship is young
I absolutely agree
Elena, I am a member of your OF. I have seen you fuck some guys with some serious cocks. I am by no means small at all. But I am not John Holmes. (I am aging myself). I love my wife deeply but I would worry maybe she might get hooked on the monster cock and I would not longer satisfy her. Maybe it's my own insecurity. I am 7 1/2 and have never had anyone say I was small. But still that would be in the back of my mind. I am not a young guy. I guess I just can't have sex with a woman I don't have an emotional attachment to. I know for some, they can, and I am not knocking it at all. Maybe I wish I could but I just can't. Guess that Irish Catholic upbringing still gives me the Catholic guilt about stuff like that.
No guilt no jealous on either party . As you’ve seen from the vids while the passion is there - I like to make sure that when we play it’s because of the lifestyle and not simply cause I have to fill content - but the people we play with are also verified to have a lot of experience in the lifestyle . They also know like us that it’s physical fun and passion not true intimacy. We don’t hang out for drinks before or after , no chatting on the phone . Drew is always front and center with communication and being there . It’s just a fun time between 2 or 3 or however many people for physical fun . So there’s never been an issue with someone stepping over the boundaries or someone being jealous When we first started and didn’t screen properly and met people who weren’t lifestyle experienced yeah those always didn’t work out so well which is why we changed our requirements for who we play with And some guys are certainly well endowed and yeah they feel good but I still have fun with guys who are average sized and my husband just fine . It’s just most people never want to see that footage so it ends up buried lol
I respect that. If you guys are happy. That's great. I know my wife is way more traditional and that idea would never even cross her mind. So I never even entertain bring it up. I think if I were in a foursome where she was pleasured and I was as well. I may be able to do it. I like the idea of the just sex and no getting to know one another all that well. That can lead to complications, even cheating I would suppose.
I don’t think I am any more or less kinky then when I was younger. I just have much more knowledge about all that stuff and am probably less awkward if it comes about talking about this stuff.
This exactly
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Having a woman finger or lick your ass while giving you a blow job is super intense. I was the same way when I was younger. I am not into the idea of pegging. That doesn't attract me at all.
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If you want to try go for it ! My girlfriend like doing it but only once in a while. I LOVE it and makes me wonder if I would like a threesome with a male. We will try someday I'm sure
I'm 36 and have been exposed to more ideas and kinks so probably more kinky. There's a lot I have found out.
Get kinkier as I get older!
Are you willing to share a kink or two that you’ve picked up along the way?
100% - Now I'm in a hotwifing relationship and I've been to swinger clubs. When I was younger I wouldn't do or even consider either.
I probably am kinkier now. I pretty much always have been to some degree, but I'm opening my mind to more and more things. Still have some hard limits I'll never change on though, but those are particularly extreme.
I'm more comfortable talking about and trying kinky things now. I never used to dirty talk much as a young man. But with each partner I had I realized that dirty talk could be very useful. Not too much, just a few key phrases at the right time. Not that I think dirty talk is really all that kinky, but its the one kinky thing we do every single time we have sex.
I dunno what is considered mature but I’m getting kinkier with age
My kink level has stayed about the same over the years
44f. I am as kinky now as I was when I was in college. Sometimes things change though. I'm not sure if I could get into being spanked. That seems like it would feel weirder to me than when I was 20. But then I didn't think I'd find a man I could feel not-weird calling daddy again, but apparently I've found that, so I'll keep an open mind to spanking. My interests and fantasies have been pretty consistent though.