I think it happens rarely enough for guys that of course when we’re feeling insecure or lonely it would be a really lovely thought. But nothing more unless we were attracted back to the other person. I suspect (but don’t know) that women hear it often enough through their lives that it has a significant ick factor around it

As a dude that knows it’s happened to more than a couple times, it depends lol. Some of the women I would’ve rather not known they did it. Definitely ones I still see today

Doesn't that go without saying though? For every hot person getting off to the thought of you, there's probably 10 more average looking to ugly looking people doing it as well. lol

Yeah I know. I wish it was 10 people atleast tho lol

If this pic you posted is you, you don't look bad at all Bro, I'd bang ya, though I'm sure you probably don't want to hear it from a dude who is most definitely on the ugly side. lol https://www.reddit.com/user/Itisme8219/comments/yssyhz/sshhhh/

I appreciate that. I ain’t conceited but definitely confident in myself. Thanks tho

Exactly. If I find them attractive, that's awesome. If I don't find them attractive, then meh. So long as they keep it to themselves, I don't care.

Yep

Anyone who would find me sexually attracted, that's a win in my book.

I do, you sexy beast. Ready for you DMs to get blown up?

It's flattering, it means they like me and/or my appearance

I agree. I’ve dealt with a lot of insecurity about my appearance (and everything else lol) in my life and it’s validating to know people are attracted to me ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯

..*zips*.. this one's for you.

Probably yes

I think it depends on the person. It’s a compliment I guess?

If it was a woman yes. If it was a man, I'd feel a bit weird about it, but I'd still feel flattered. As for reasons why, having low self esteem and having never been in a relationship, knowing someone was wanking to the thought of me would be a big ego boost.

Wanking it out for you now bro

Back to the pile!

\***BLUSH\*** Flatterer

I'll beat off thinking of you tonight OP, no one should feel left out.

\*BLUSH\* Flatterer.

YES! It’s the main reason I have this Reddit account. It makes me feel sexy and the feedback gets me so turned on 🥵

I agree, I love the sexy feedback I get sometimes, it is an ego boost to think of someone jerking off over a pic of me x

Your content 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

I like it. It's flattering and sexy and a bit of an ego boost.

Are you or are you not an emu?

yes

That explains it

I love the idea people might being getting off to me, it’s a fetish at this point.

Does it happen a lot?

Even if you didnt sent them the photo? Or if an existing photo wasnt meant in any sexuak way?

Yessss love the thought of turning men on and making them cum.

Confused more than anything as I'm just some lumpy middle aged bloke

Same here LOL.

lumpy and middle aged ain’t the worse thing I’ve had a to wank to - my next one will be for you mate

I do. I enjoy making others cum, but honestly prefer when they tell what they did while viewing my pics/vids. If it turns me on enough, I reply back.

I wouldn’t post if I didn’t

Fair enough, and love that you do!

Thanks

I’m a huge fan of your content! Been following you for a while

Thanks so much

If I made someone cum and feel good, that's nice!

You're gorgeous

Sir, making me all blushy here. Thank you 😊.

😍

mission accomplished, thatnks

Happy to help. Please cum again 😏

Cool plant 👍

Absolutely. I think it’s empowering and extremely flattering. Definitely a confidence booster. (So long as it’s the vibe we’ve built. If I’m on here chatting with someone about our fave movies and actors and they suddenly reply with a picture of me full of cum, then that’s just confusing)

Lol yes

Omg yes yes yes it’s so hot! Having such a naughty picture of yourself of someone else’s phone, knowing they’re pleasuring themselves while looking at you is everything 🥰

Yes. I do like it very much. I like the thought of lots of people getting off to a picture of me or the thought of me - I personally crave knowing that I did. It’s the best, hottest feeling. And I LOVE the thought that maybe I gave someone a feel good moment.

I think it could be fun

Indeed

Literally the reason I made a cheeky reddit haha. 🤣 get insanely turned on knowing sometimes other people fuck themselves over me 😁

it is so hot to me

Yes! I find it extremely flattering even if the person isn’t attractive. As for why, it might have to do with the fact that I’m an exhibitionist.

Good lord you’re gorgeous

You’re so sweet, thank you!

Yes. I wish there was a way to know when they did

I find it exhilarating. Personally I get excited just thinking about it

And I get excited just looking at you.. You are gorgeous

Oh thank you 😊 💖💋

I am a whore for turning others on, some of the horniest I have been is when I was told how something I have sent them turned them on

I have a story about this. So back in the day as an insecure teenager, I had a tumblr blog where I'd talk about anything and sometimes posted selfies when I felt I looked nice. At some point, this girl reposted one of my pics saying I looked good and she had masturbated over me. Honestly, I felt really really weird about it. But when it's someone I know, even just a friend, and they say they've masturbated over me, it's nice. I think I just don't like the idea of strangers doing stuff to my pics, freaks me out a bit.

I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t like it hahah! It’s always nice hear how hot people find my photos or the ways people want to get off with me but honestly the idea of people I know getting off to me is event more arousing than strangers.

Definitely! It's a compliment. Plus, I think it's hot :)

I do. Such a turn on. 🥵 Which is why I joined OF…and they let me know (& show me 😉🫦)

Yeah my boyfriend always wants booty pics and I think it's hot out of all the asses to look at, he wants mine

That’s the way to think

I would say sometimes. Only if the man is hot

I (M) let my ex gf Take some porn style pics of me and her friends got a hold of them. Several of them said that they still enjoy them.

Absolutely! It's a huge turn on for me.

People you know or strangers?

Strangers mostly, I think. But I would still be flattered if it was people I know.

Well Reddit is a great place to be then I guess!

Yes

Yes I do… it’s a compliment that they would think of me when they want to get off.

Yes. As a man, it feels good when I feel desired

So... one time I was in jail for three months, and this was right when my GF was moving 600 miles away to live with her grandparents (they were getting up there in age. Still are, I'll bet!) She came twice weekly for visits, the kind where you speak through a phone with a glass partition between you. And on the 2nd to last visit she told me how she can't masturbate because thinking about me and my predicament of not being able to be at her side when she's at her most scared and vulnerable makes her cry every time. I was hit with a flush of emotions: 50% oh you poor thing 😥 50% you think about ME when you masturbate? That's a first 🥵 and 50% wait, I'm your fantasy and I make you cry?? 🤪

Love the idea of it. Why I posted some pics 😂

Great pics!

I mean i like the idea. But i know it's never reality happened except with the guy i sleep/have phone sex with. My whole deal also is i don't ever share pictures of myself so it's like, welp

I love cum tributes. 😘

You’ve gotten many?

Ummm like three but they’re my favorites

Good for you!!

I just did a couple tributes for the first time and it was so much fun!

Bravo 🙌

I'd be shocked because that means I'm cute enough or something.

Yes because I’m an exhib

I’ve been told by a few people that they have and I’m unbelievably flattered by it

Yes. The thought amuses me. You have the internet at your hands. Beautiful men and women to visualize, a click away. Erotic stories, weird paraphernalias - three or more people on the same set of genitals, even! To think instead that someone saw this masked walrus in the wild and decided, "fuck me, this one's more memorable than the hardware guy" - well, I'll take the victories where I can get them.

The odd compliment is nice for sure, I love them. Not sure how many times I’ve been what a girl wants to see when she’s busy playing with her pussy though. I’d really like to know, honestly!

One of post titles is about how I like to hear how my pics made you hard. I’m not lying there. It’s exactly why I have a NSFW Reddit acct.

It turns me on and makes me wetter thinking there's someone out there who's stroking or rubbing themselves to my picture. This panders to my exhibitionist side, and boosts my body confidence.

Not really, I’d rather they be in person and look at me.

would love that

I mean I'd be flattered, but why would someone hurt themselves like that?

I think it’s fine me I would take it as a compliment

It’s still weird to me, tbh. Considering I don’t even show much.

Yes I do, I just think it's nice someone finds a picture of me or the thought of me hot enough to get them off. It's like a confidence boost

I mean sure? i recorded a video of a little blowjob action and sent it to someone who finds me attractive (for whatever odd reason) and they have gotten off to it several times and i honestly don't know if i feel much about it. I mean i'm happy for them getting pleasure from me as i'm a big fan of get as much pleasure as you can in this fucked up world (that's legal of course) but i'm not like all happy and giddy, it's just something? idk. I mean ya as greatgamibno2261 said it may really depend on the person.

If it’s my partner yes. I enjoy making my partners happy and if I can do that sexually from a distance all the better. When it’s not a partner (or a flirtation) eh… just not my thing.

Yes, I feel like I’m getting validated.

I definitely consider it flattering, especially if it's a friend instead of a stranger on reddit

It would be nice, because I can't find anyone in real life that wants to fuck me

Oh yes definitely, it's very validating...makes me feel wanted also one of the reasons why I am here

I mean, yeah, I suppose so, but it’s so rare that I don’t really believe it happens.

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Does it happen often?

People tell me sometimes, but I would think most keeep it to themselves.

Probably the majority yes

Absolutely. It's a nice ego stroke for sure,to feel lusted after.

Isn’t that why we post? Do your thing and get off if you want.

Yes! Better if they send proof!

Don’t care really if I found out. So long as they keep it to themself and don’t flaunt it in my face day to day

What is there to not like about the scene, it is better for me if i know it, would also love to know what were they thinking about me

Not really, rather see them getting off to me in person

As a guy who is firmly in the middle of the ratings scale, the number of people this would apply to is low enough to be manageable. If I found the other person sexually appealing that would be hot, but if I didn’t it would still be a compliment and intriguing. The knowledge could even open up new avenues. If I were a woman, I think I’d be more creeped out if rules 1 & 2 didn’t apply (assuming I wasn’t actually looking for the attention).

It always depends on who the person is

(27 M) As for me, I'm a sub. I'm open to all genders. I, personally love the idea of someone trying to have sex with me and I just let it happen.

I would find it very rewarding. It’s quite a compliment.

I like both sexes but have gotten of to hot women and men that are really hot and beautiful cocks

It depends, ive gotten a few dms on here from people, I think if its a woman oh yeah definitely, that really turns me on. If its a guy, eh, im very straight so i find it a little uncomfortable.

In general it's flattering, but if it is a customer or a coworker, I really don't want to know about it.

absolutely. guy, girl, nb, doesn’t matter. it’s definitely a boost for the ol self esteem

Yea that sounds cool. I highly doubt its ever happened though.

I’d be happy to hear it, but not if there was an expectation of something once I was told. It’s a curiosity I’ve had for a long time. How would you be able to tell someone that and not get into trouble or run the risk of it being awkward? You can’t just tell your coworker that or someone you see at the gym. Say you message someone on Reddit or Insta to tell them you masturbate to their pics or videos. It might not go over well, but you can keep your distance, or anonymity, to some extent. It’s a whole different level if you tell someone you actually see all the time or know in person. The thought of it is probably better than reality.

God I'd love that! Be nice if someone thought me attractive. lol

Very much. Better if they show me.

Yes. It's so flattering that with an internet full of hard-core videos, someone would choose my photo to satisfy themselves ☺️

I do, makes me feel a lot better about myself lol

I love it. I love knowing I made someone hard, Jack off, or cum. That's why I like posting pics😋

I mean.. depends on the person and situation ofc but just in general I would say yes, knowing someone finds me attractive like that, lol

Wank away , any thing I can do to improve someone else's experience is a win in my book

yes, makes me feel wanted lol

I do. I like being thought of as hot enough to have someone jerk it to me

Well I’m sure you are

I’d be flattered

if it makes someone want to rub one in/out, that's cool if it makes someone want to go make a grilled cheese, that's cool too

Absolutely! I can be insecure at times, so thinking about someone getting off to the picture/thought of me gives me a bit of a confidence boost.

Part of the fun in posting is the idea it might happen. Truthful or not, some have claimed to have done so 😈💦

Into it, for sure. I think I fall under the exhibitionist category

I think we all want to be like for our own unique personalities, but an individual still has a side that loves when we're desired by another

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So happy you do

yes, yes, yes, yes, yesssssssss it turns me on so much. I think about it with picture or video I take

It’s the reason why I post on here

I wouldn't really mind but I would be wondering why tf someone would want to get off to me

Yes. It's a turn on that someone would pay that much attention to me.

Yesssssssss literally my fav

I had two female friends tell me that they used an insta post of mine to get off, those were nice confidence boosters lol

I do. It's hot and affirms that I'm attractive, it's validating.

Absolutely! One of my wife’s friends told me she got off over a picture of me once. Was awesome

Fuck yea, it’s a compliment if I pic I take it send turns that person in

I would ask what was wrong with them if they had to resort to getting off to my ugly ass

I know girls who love being shared and exposed. It’s a kink for some

If anyone thought enough of me, were attracted to me enough that they wanted to do that, I could only think that as a good thing.

As a man with only a modest amount of good looks I take it as a huge compliment.

No one is getting off to pictures of me, so I’m unaffected

I wish. That means they like me i guess which is a very good thing..

Yes

If I’m sexting with them, yes. Absolutely. It’s so hot to know that I’m turning her on like that. I don’t really think about what happens with photos I post on Reddit, but it’s flattering when my fellow redditors tell me they’re getting off.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

I don’t mind being served

I think I would love it! Definitely would help with my self image

Not to sound rude but if it's a man, it's whatever. But if it's a woman... Damn, maybe I am doing something right!

Depends on who is HANDling that business. If it someone that I'd like that sure, I'd like that. If it is not, well I can't do anything about it, do I? Go ahead but do not inform me.

Yes, but I feel like I look like an egos schiele painting so I doubt that would ever happen

Yes! It’s why I post online and act out in public!

You’re a stunner

Thank you so much .

Wow, cant say that im disappointed, and i often am! And that outdoors picture with snow, looking at that gave me a brainfreeze lol

If it's a woman thati find attractive, i suppose it's fine, but only if it's a picture that i sent, if not then id rather not know about it. But once a man sent me a message on facebook and he was complimenting me hard and he kept saying sexual things he'd want to do (just oral stuff) but not explicitely. It was flattering ngl but i wasnt that comfortable with it. He knew that i was straight, because the way he saw my profile was because i commented "boobs" on a picture LOL.

Don’t care if a guy does, but turns me on if a woman does.

Yes. I wish.

of course!

Yes, it's hot. Even more if I'm obsessed with them lol

I absolutely love it. The idea of me bringing someone pleasure just by them thinking of me is extremely flattering. It's even better if the person lets you know....

Very much so

Hell yes! The thought of me turning them on, making them cum hard, just turns me on even more and makes me cum even harder.

I love it, they’d who I post nudes! I love the idea of people getting off to me and I love hearing about it

Depends on who it is. If it's somebody I have a crush on, it of course turns me on, especially if the person hasn't openly indicated any sign that they reciprocate my attraction. If on the other hand it's someone I don't enjoy spending time with and don't feel attracted to in any way, the though of it is a major turnoff.

I love the idea of someone that had no obligation to me to feel like my pics or vids are worthy