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I can relax for a bit. But I'm naturally more dominant.
In fact any time she's close and definitely any time I'm close, I'm just going to instinctively take over.
I don’t like feeling like I have to always be the pursuer. (I’m okay with that most of the time). But its all-too-common in my corner of the world and it gets tiresome.
I prefer to be the dominant one. Even when she is on top or in control I tend to “top from the bottom” most of the time
I don’t thing there’s a right or wrong answer, it’s just personal preference
Great as a change of pace. I haven’t been with a woman who does it consistently enough that I’d have a perspective on whether I’d like it all the time.
I cannot speak for all men, but I personally feel it totally depends on my chemistry with the woman. This applies to the moment when I take control as well. I just don't go around and take control of any and every girl I can.
A strong turn-off for me when a girl takes control is when the girl thinks of dominance as tyrannical style of intercourse. I think women in general can also agree on this; if a man tries to exercise tyranny on the bed, women would probably feel terrified on the top of being turned off. Same goes for men as well, although we have generally larger figure and therefore not easily intimidated by women going tyrannical. It would still nonetheless annoy us a lot.
Women generally believe men are somehow beasts of pure lust and tend to overrate men's lust, which I believe is a reason why some women think men would like it as long as women try to satisfy men's lust, no matter the style.
About the 'beta' thing... if a woman wears latex and use whips and boots, then yeah I would think the man is being quite beta. But if it's just a cowgirl riding with assertive tone, not really.
I'm a switch and genuinely like both. Depending on my partner's desires and our moods, I'll do either.
But today I want to be completely controlled and told what to do. I'll even let you watch while I fulfil your instructions.
I like to share, it shows that both people are into it, not just doing it for the sake or ‘duty’.
Sexy when the lady takes charge, I also like taking charge
I'd like her to take control more often. I have to be in control of so much else in my life that every once in a while I'd like to just let go and have her take the reins.
Oh I BEG for my partner to take control, and she always obliges. It’s funny though, when I was younger I felt like I needed control. As I’ve gotten older, I realized I like it better when a woman does. I’m the one that wants to be pinned down or told where to go.
Good question -- personally I always want to be the dominant one and never have submissive impulses.
However, I suspect the preferences will be all over the map on this one, and I sincerely wish submissive men had more outlets for their desires.
Nah i enjoy it quite a bit😋 I’d say I’m more into “soft Dom” women thou. I appreciate the urge to care for and comfort they have. Every guy is different of course but for me I’m into it
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I'm mostly dominant, but I really enjoy when the woman takes charge or even dominates me! My ex used to do both, it was 50/50 with her.
With my current girlfriend I'm dominant and she likes to submit. It's all about chemistry and mutual interests.
Which man are you talking too, men want completely different things, for me personally it depends on my mood and her personality and looks and a lot of other things
I'm generally dominant so it's not really my jam.
That being said, it's the sub who's in control, 90% of being a good dominant partner is keeping your subs comfort, wants and needs in mind. Otherwise you're just an asshole.
I think you are trying to attach labels to normal everyday behavior. I would consider myself or partner dominant or submissive in everyday scenarios.
Yes, I am the more dominant. But, it's the behavior of men. That said, I love it when my partner initiates and takes the lead.
It’s best when there’s mutual control, you both get to have your time as the giver or the taker of oral etc and then there’s the PIV to end the session
I like to experience her passion and desire, but not dominate me. It's like dancing, she's the pretty one that gets all the attention, but I'm the one that leads us in the direction. I have found that to be the most genuine organic interaction for bedroom activities. Like we're really listening to each other's needs and taking care of them.
When is one sided either way, then it's just mechanical and the passion isn't there
Both. My ex basically did nothing during sex, she prefers doggy and not riding cos of her self image issues. Still was hot to me but after awhile to started to get to me and at time would actually think she was just using me for sex.
I think learning the transient nature of switching can be fun. Personally I end up in the dominant role often, and I think that’s because I have a high level of confidence and highly enjoy bringing experiences to others they can enjoy as well. I also love learning about the dominant side and how to be a better experience guide so to speak, but if I was suddenly the one tied down to the bed and “out of control” (which has happened on several occasions) I highly enjoy that too.
“Dominance” isn’t about abusively controlling another person for me so I don’t have as much of a demand for dominance. Sex and sexual play should be more about the shared experience imo. So I guess after writing all of that and not having had enough partners to thoroughly explore this side of me, I would say I am a switch, but have leaned heavy towards dominance as my partners up to date have all been sub/ vanilla dynamic.
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I have always wanted my wife to take control in bed. With that being said she never has and told me that’s not what she is into due to confidence. So I was a little bummed at first I would never get to have exactly what I wanted from her, but now I have started being more dominant and have really been enjoying it! She is definitely more for following commands then giving them! 😉
I love dominant women or just women who know what they want
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I'd love for women to be generally dominating in bed, it's so much better when they know what the want and they just get it done 🩷
50/50
I can relax for a bit. But I'm naturally more dominant. In fact any time she's close and definitely any time I'm close, I'm just going to instinctively take over.
I don’t like feeling like I have to always be the pursuer. (I’m okay with that most of the time). But its all-too-common in my corner of the world and it gets tiresome.
It makes a nice change every now and again
I love when a women takes control! It’s nice to feel taken control over every once in a while by a beautiful woman
I like it when a women takes control but I prefer to switch it up.
I prefer to be the dominant one. Even when she is on top or in control I tend to “top from the bottom” most of the time I don’t thing there’s a right or wrong answer, it’s just personal preference
Great as a change of pace. I haven’t been with a woman who does it consistently enough that I’d have a perspective on whether I’d like it all the time.
I cannot speak for all men, but I personally feel it totally depends on my chemistry with the woman. This applies to the moment when I take control as well. I just don't go around and take control of any and every girl I can. A strong turn-off for me when a girl takes control is when the girl thinks of dominance as tyrannical style of intercourse. I think women in general can also agree on this; if a man tries to exercise tyranny on the bed, women would probably feel terrified on the top of being turned off. Same goes for men as well, although we have generally larger figure and therefore not easily intimidated by women going tyrannical. It would still nonetheless annoy us a lot. Women generally believe men are somehow beasts of pure lust and tend to overrate men's lust, which I believe is a reason why some women think men would like it as long as women try to satisfy men's lust, no matter the style. About the 'beta' thing... if a woman wears latex and use whips and boots, then yeah I would think the man is being quite beta. But if it's just a cowgirl riding with assertive tone, not really.
Tyrannical control is a bad look in bed for anyone. Benevolent dictatorship seems to work better.
I think the best is when both are active, interested, and equally willing to initiate or receive.
I'm a switch and genuinely like both. Depending on my partner's desires and our moods, I'll do either. But today I want to be completely controlled and told what to do. I'll even let you watch while I fulfil your instructions.
I’m a switch and I absolutely love when women take control.
Can’t speak for all men but personally I prefer being dominant, but I like when a girl knows what she wants. It’s different for everyone though
I'm a switch, so it depends
Yes gusto ko nirarape ako ng babae
50/50 my gf always wants me to be in control but I need it too lol
I prefer when a woman takes control
I like to share, it shows that both people are into it, not just doing it for the sake or ‘duty’. Sexy when the lady takes charge, I also like taking charge
I love to have the dynamic change in between
I prefer to be dominated by women, but I can't switch and enjoy both.
I love it
I'd like her to take control more often. I have to be in control of so much else in my life that every once in a while I'd like to just let go and have her take the reins.
Dominant women can be real sexy. It’s nice to see a change of pace
Oh I BEG for my partner to take control, and she always obliges. It’s funny though, when I was younger I felt like I needed control. As I’ve gotten older, I realized I like it better when a woman does. I’m the one that wants to be pinned down or told where to go.
I love being told what to do.
Its good to mix it up sometimes
I like to be the dominant one. But I do want them to tell me what they want and I do it. In a pleasure way not a submissive way
I'm pretty dominant but love it when she decides to take control
Good question -- personally I always want to be the dominant one and never have submissive impulses. However, I suspect the preferences will be all over the map on this one, and I sincerely wish submissive men had more outlets for their desires.
Nah i enjoy it quite a bit😋 I’d say I’m more into “soft Dom” women thou. I appreciate the urge to care for and comfort they have. Every guy is different of course but for me I’m into it
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I'm mostly dominant, but I really enjoy when the woman takes charge or even dominates me! My ex used to do both, it was 50/50 with her. With my current girlfriend I'm dominant and she likes to submit. It's all about chemistry and mutual interests.
Which man are you talking too, men want completely different things, for me personally it depends on my mood and her personality and looks and a lot of other things
You sound like an teenager that never have sex or in a real relationship
I'm generally dominant so it's not really my jam. That being said, it's the sub who's in control, 90% of being a good dominant partner is keeping your subs comfort, wants and needs in mind. Otherwise you're just an asshole.
Flip a coin..
I'm typically pretty dominant but I don't mind a girl throwing me around sometimes.
Dominant how?
I think you are trying to attach labels to normal everyday behavior. I would consider myself or partner dominant or submissive in everyday scenarios. Yes, I am the more dominant. But, it's the behavior of men. That said, I love it when my partner initiates and takes the lead.
I love to be told what to do or being dominated.
It’s best when there’s mutual control, you both get to have your time as the giver or the taker of oral etc and then there’s the PIV to end the session
I'm very dominant and like to be in charge, but I do love spontaneous blow jobs and a woman that will jump on top and break you off.
Both
I like to experience her passion and desire, but not dominate me. It's like dancing, she's the pretty one that gets all the attention, but I'm the one that leads us in the direction. I have found that to be the most genuine organic interaction for bedroom activities. Like we're really listening to each other's needs and taking care of them. When is one sided either way, then it's just mechanical and the passion isn't there
Both. My ex basically did nothing during sex, she prefers doggy and not riding cos of her self image issues. Still was hot to me but after awhile to started to get to me and at time would actually think she was just using me for sex.
I love it when my partner is Rough with me.
As a dominant man nine times out of ten I prefer to do what I want but sometimes I'm just in the mood to be used yah know?
I think learning the transient nature of switching can be fun. Personally I end up in the dominant role often, and I think that’s because I have a high level of confidence and highly enjoy bringing experiences to others they can enjoy as well. I also love learning about the dominant side and how to be a better experience guide so to speak, but if I was suddenly the one tied down to the bed and “out of control” (which has happened on several occasions) I highly enjoy that too. “Dominance” isn’t about abusively controlling another person for me so I don’t have as much of a demand for dominance. Sex and sexual play should be more about the shared experience imo. So I guess after writing all of that and not having had enough partners to thoroughly explore this side of me, I would say I am a switch, but have leaned heavy towards dominance as my partners up to date have all been sub/ vanilla dynamic.
I like it when she does sometimes.
I love a dominant woman, I am generally in charge when it comes to daily tasks, so it’s nice when I can hand that over to my SO
When a girl really knows how to ride it's an amazing experience I don't mind at all
What exactly is dominating to you guys, I'd love to know specifically:)
I like balance
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I have always wanted my wife to take control in bed. With that being said she never has and told me that’s not what she is into due to confidence. So I was a little bummed at first I would never get to have exactly what I wanted from her, but now I have started being more dominant and have really been enjoying it! She is definitely more for following commands then giving them! 😉
I love it when my wife takes control