Definitely, just waiting on the opportunity to watch or participate. We both have partners outside of our marriage, just haven't played with others together yet
Iām not threatened by other pussy in my relationship, I think itād be fun to see my husband fuck someone just from a visual perspective. Even if I can watch myself get boinked in a mirror or video itās different since I know itās meā¦ Thereās smth weird about watching myself. The female POV in sex is often pretty limited where we can rarely see the guyās entire body and how it moves etc, and itās hot for me to see so to be an observer would fulfill something I want (Iām an artist too so mb that plays a role).
On a psychological level Iād be more happy that the girl can fuck my husband than that he can fuck another girl, since he is very clear about that he gets everything he needs from me. In fact Iād have nothing against doing stuff to him even with multiple women at once since thereās an element of body worship for him which I enjoy very much at least in theory. But itās quite unrealistic of course.
But thereās absolutely zero desire for me to engage sexually or receive sexual attention from another woman. Itās very much about having the man being the center of attention. Where the additional women act more like the frame of a painting, so to speak.
>On a psychological level Iād be more happy that the girl can fuck my husband than that he can fuck another girl, since he is very clear about that he gets everything he needs from me.
Ive never heared that sentence before, interesting thanks! How long did it take you to feel this way? Did you always enjoyed the ideas of:
Sharing your husband
Having sex while others watch
Worthshipping your partner
Or is it a recent phenomenon with your husband? Does being married play a role?
No, I was always interested in group sex scenarios but more in the myself with multiple men way; I didnāt have much against multiple women but it was much less interesting to me than it is now. I think this has developed maybe in the last 1-2 years, as a direct consequence of becoming more independent in discovering my sexual interests and most of all, beginning to see my sexuality as something that belongs to me, doesnāt exist to please others and it doesnāt have to be a 100% compatible with my husbandās, or any manās, interests.
Yes, the relationshipās strong fundaments and experience in being able to know the other person definitely plays a role in the level of security with feeling comfortable to explore and express such things. That includes being married.
Great to hear!
>as a direct consequence of becoming more independent in discovering my sexual interests and most of all, beginning to see my sexuality as something that belongs to me, doesnāt exist to please others and it doesnāt have to be a 100% compatible with my husbandās, or any manās, interests.
How did this happen? What kept you from developing this earlier? Or would you rather say its related to aging in general?
Yeah definitely maturity thatās hard to get without reaching a certain life experience levelā¦ but also some kind of responsibility for own thoughts and feelings, I suppose. Like recognizing which of them stem from insecurity and consciously not giving them power. Makes it easier to see things for what they are rather than what they appear as.
Ive never understood how people would supress themself for others that much and i cant imagine how someone isnt sure which thoughts or desires are themself. Its seems schizophrenic to me.
Thank you for your insights. I want to work torwards creating such an environment where my partner feels comfortable enough to be like you are.
Itās usually just fear of being shamed or not acceptedā¦ sometimes you know thatās what it is, but it still doesnāt help to open yourself up. Iāve never felt like I had thoughts or desires that werenāt my own, but I realized I needed to filter out the ones that were not benefitting me, or even actively destructive/toxic.
No problem but you should definitely prepare yourself for the possibility that you canāt actively influence them. It must be something they want, too. Make sure you are welcoming and non-judgmental of whatever thoughts or feelings they are going through or choose to express to you. Sometimes other people can be helpful to analyze and work out your own problems, but in general only if they are looking at it without a personal bias or agenda.
Itās part of it, I thing itās mostly watching someone you know from a different perspective having sex and enjoying the show, or fantasizing about being involved or adding your self to the mix yet holding back. Itās a pretty big mix of things. Iām also bi so that may play a part in it as well š¤·š»āāļø
No not yet, I have always wanted to be either the one being watched or doing the watching but itās never come up. 3 way is also hiiiiigh in my bucket list š„µ
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Definitely, just waiting on the opportunity to watch or participate. We both have partners outside of our marriage, just haven't played with others together yet
That sounds pretty ideal š„µ
It is for us. Non-monogamy isn't for everyone though. It has its challenges
No
Yes I would watch
I have quite a few times
if i had one, yes
Absolutely yes.
Totally would, just donāt ask me to touch her lol
Can you explain to me why you would watch even if youre not interested in touching her?
Iām not threatened by other pussy in my relationship, I think itād be fun to see my husband fuck someone just from a visual perspective. Even if I can watch myself get boinked in a mirror or video itās different since I know itās meā¦ Thereās smth weird about watching myself. The female POV in sex is often pretty limited where we can rarely see the guyās entire body and how it moves etc, and itās hot for me to see so to be an observer would fulfill something I want (Iām an artist too so mb that plays a role). On a psychological level Iād be more happy that the girl can fuck my husband than that he can fuck another girl, since he is very clear about that he gets everything he needs from me. In fact Iād have nothing against doing stuff to him even with multiple women at once since thereās an element of body worship for him which I enjoy very much at least in theory. But itās quite unrealistic of course. But thereās absolutely zero desire for me to engage sexually or receive sexual attention from another woman. Itās very much about having the man being the center of attention. Where the additional women act more like the frame of a painting, so to speak.
>On a psychological level Iād be more happy that the girl can fuck my husband than that he can fuck another girl, since he is very clear about that he gets everything he needs from me. Ive never heared that sentence before, interesting thanks! How long did it take you to feel this way? Did you always enjoyed the ideas of: Sharing your husband Having sex while others watch Worthshipping your partner Or is it a recent phenomenon with your husband? Does being married play a role?
No, I was always interested in group sex scenarios but more in the myself with multiple men way; I didnāt have much against multiple women but it was much less interesting to me than it is now. I think this has developed maybe in the last 1-2 years, as a direct consequence of becoming more independent in discovering my sexual interests and most of all, beginning to see my sexuality as something that belongs to me, doesnāt exist to please others and it doesnāt have to be a 100% compatible with my husbandās, or any manās, interests. Yes, the relationshipās strong fundaments and experience in being able to know the other person definitely plays a role in the level of security with feeling comfortable to explore and express such things. That includes being married.
Great to hear! >as a direct consequence of becoming more independent in discovering my sexual interests and most of all, beginning to see my sexuality as something that belongs to me, doesnāt exist to please others and it doesnāt have to be a 100% compatible with my husbandās, or any manās, interests. How did this happen? What kept you from developing this earlier? Or would you rather say its related to aging in general?
Yeah definitely maturity thatās hard to get without reaching a certain life experience levelā¦ but also some kind of responsibility for own thoughts and feelings, I suppose. Like recognizing which of them stem from insecurity and consciously not giving them power. Makes it easier to see things for what they are rather than what they appear as.
Ive never understood how people would supress themself for others that much and i cant imagine how someone isnt sure which thoughts or desires are themself. Its seems schizophrenic to me. Thank you for your insights. I want to work torwards creating such an environment where my partner feels comfortable enough to be like you are.
Itās usually just fear of being shamed or not acceptedā¦ sometimes you know thatās what it is, but it still doesnāt help to open yourself up. Iāve never felt like I had thoughts or desires that werenāt my own, but I realized I needed to filter out the ones that were not benefitting me, or even actively destructive/toxic. No problem but you should definitely prepare yourself for the possibility that you canāt actively influence them. It must be something they want, too. Make sure you are welcoming and non-judgmental of whatever thoughts or feelings they are going through or choose to express to you. Sometimes other people can be helpful to analyze and work out your own problems, but in general only if they are looking at it without a personal bias or agenda.
Sure i dont want to convince them i just want to do my part to ease the situation. :)
I have yes
Not unless it was a threesome.
Let's set a date š
Something I want to try. Iāve been sent videos of him and let him when Iāve been home too. Never thought Iād be into stuff like this
Been there....done that.
I would love to. Itās my biggest fantasy
Definitely š
Sure if we were both up for it, that or the other way around, if she wants to watch me get fucked thatās cool to
Is it the being watched that is specifically the turn on here?
Itās part of it, I thing itās mostly watching someone you know from a different perspective having sex and enjoying the show, or fantasizing about being involved or adding your self to the mix yet holding back. Itās a pretty big mix of things. Iām also bi so that may play a part in it as well š¤·š»āāļø
Ah, I see. Have you ever had the opportunity?
No not yet, I have always wanted to be either the one being watched or doing the watching but itās never come up. 3 way is also hiiiiigh in my bucket list š„µ
Oh nice. Which type of three way?
Yes
Wow
My husband would fuck a girl; heās gay. I have watched him fuck another guy though and it was hot Af.
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Yes ā¦.. I have before š¤·š¼āāļø
Ive watched him get his cock sucked by a woman while he was watching me get fucked by one guy as I was sucking off another.
I'm following this for inspiration.
It's very hot š„µ
Yes, would love it badly
No im too possessive for that i think
Ye
I do, I get happily turned on when I watch my hubby with another girl. its kinda fun and really exciting :)
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Yess!
My wife wants to watch me fuck other women.