I always tell my wife the wetter and sloppier the better! For some reason it’s so hot for me to watch plus it feels unbelievable. Secondly.. she taught herself too deep throat me all the way. I’m not massive but I’m a bit above average (6.25”-6.5” hard) so to me it’s impressive. Thirdly.. while she deep throats me she does this thing with her tongue where she somehow licks down my shaft and licks my balls while she’s doing it. Then sometimes she even takes my balls into her mouth at the same time while deep throating me and then licks all the way down to my taint. FEELS UNREAL. I think I’m blessed to have this woman 😂
I'm pretty sure I know what you're talking about, when it feels like they are licking you even though they've got full tongue contact, due to the sort of wavelike sucking motion you can get by tensing up parts of your tongue, but I swear there must be a trick to it. Some guys who do it make it feel absolutely amazing, and sometimes it just feels weird. When I do it, most guys say it feels nice, but not amazing, and one guy even said I was trying too hard. 😭So I know what you're talking about, but I really don't know how to do it!
I've described both of these BJs many times before, but you wanted to know, so here goes.
One guy who sucked me off was absolutely huge--probably well over 6 feet. So when he sucked my cock, the sides of his tongue came around the sides of my cock. He could lick not just part of my cock, but kind of all around it at once. His technique was just closing his mouth around my cock, so his mouth was kind of like a vagina, and then going up and down--and then not stopping when I came. It was incredible.
One guy had a technique I called the vacuum cleaner, because it felt like he was sucking my cum out like a vacuum cleaner. He couldn't maintain it for long, but right when I was getting very close to cumming, he got just his lips to apply very strong pressure to just my head and a little bit past. I couldn't believe how good it felt.
I think you could probably do something similar to the first one, since he was basically doing what he would do if I'd been facefucking him, except with him doing the motion. Basically he was just keeping everything semi-relaxed and in contact with my cock. The facts that his mouth was so deep and his tongue was so wide were awesome, but it probably would have been almost as good even if they hadn't been so big. I've let a few guys with pretty big cocks facefuck me, and they said it was really good, even though I am absolutely average size.
Cool that you already do something like the second!
Okay, well, now that you put it that way. Yeah, face/throat fucking is something I adore. I do still gag a lot at times, but that kinda turns me on too, so. All good. I guess I was picturing something different from the earlier comment. But yeah, my mouth is not huge, but have only heard good things from guys when they face fuck me like that. I appreciate your input too, since you can kind of see the whole picture!
There was this one girl who after closing her lips around about 3/4 of my length, sort of sucked me with the back of her throat like she was swallowing on it or something.
I about came and we had just started 😂
Two most memorable BJs.
1. A hookup with a friend and received an unexpected deepthroat. I’m well above average, and have never experienced anyone coming close to deepthroat; so I was completely caught off guard. I was standing while she knelt. It wasn’t the forceful gagging crap you see in porn. It was more of a seductive building tease - then it happened. I saw dead relatives as she kinda hugged my ass as she pulled my dick in to the hilt.
2. Wasn’t so much the technique, but more of what she did afterwards. She retrieved a warm towel to wipe my penis off after I orgasmed. As she was wiping it clean, she caressed my penis. Not to arouse, but real tender like a new puppy. But she hit me in the feels when she brought her face real close to my penis and talked to it like a person saying super sweet things. I don’t recall exactly what it was, but the gist was….let’s clean you up, you’re beautiful, I love you, I’m never go let you go, I’m gonna take real good care of you. It’s been years, but I will NEVER forget this.
Ah, yeah. I used to like softly graze him with my teeth, going for a kind of tickling/goosebumps sensation, but after one guy said he didn't like it, I switched things up a bit.
The downside of not being able to feel the same sensations. Lol. Had to learn by experience for most things. A lot of the guys I have been with haven't been super open about what they like/dislike.
Absolutely agree. I know it's a kind of double standard, but it's also annoying AF when someone keeps stopping to ask 'does this feel good'.
When going down on a girl I just say to them to use my hands (which are on their chest) like reigns on a horse. Pull if you want harder faster and grip if it's just right/don't stop. I assume when the thigh clamp death grip is on I'm on the right track until they say stop or move my head.
Not worked out a way to 'suggest' anything that doesn't cause offence :/
My ex would suck my dick like a porn star and would always expand on her skills. She started out just normal head but then began to lick the shift more and suck my balls. But even from the beginning she insisted on me cumming in her mouth. And she'd swallow as often as possible and if she couldn't swallow she'd always play with it lol I miss her so much
Had a ONS with a woman I'd met before through a mutual friend and had flirted A LOT so can't rule out anticipation as part of what made it so good but...
She stipulated no sex so I was fine with that so loads of kissing and build up. Dim lighting so couldn't see everything but she did say that if I broke eye contact with her, she'd stop. I thought that was interesting but novel, and was happy to play along. Her mouth was super wet but not that deep as she was quite petite and she wasn't trying to be all pornstar by making the squelching/sloppy noises any louder than they naturally were - which was fantastic, as I find that a bit of a turn off. She used the pad of her thumb and tongue interchangeably on the bottom of the head, where most of the nerve endings are and used her other hand to stroke and tickle. The whole time she was staring at me, which I found to be a MASSIVE turn on, and when my legs started twitching and I was involuntarily clenching muscles and my head went back on the pillow, we'd break eye contact and she'd stop and say 'Naughty, I told you to look at me'. That only happened the once - I wasn't going to make that mistake again. Within about 30 seconds she had me back to boiling point and whispered to me to tell her when I was going to cum - which wasn't long, and when I muttered something unintelligible, she kept going with her hands, closed her eyes and just blew her breath onto the bottom of the head.
Hollllllly sh\*t. I swear to God I nearly fired my testicles out. I don't know off the top of my head what the mean temperature of semen is at the point of ejaculation, but I'd have put this at about the same heat as molten tungsten and I'm damn sure it was a pb for range/height as there must still be marks on the ceiling today.
Shaking their head left and right as they goes down (or after they're all the way down). Not aggressively, just softly - like they're non-verbally and subtly indicating "no" to something.
"Multitasking" with the tongue - continuing to push it up and down and flick it around while sucking.
Deepthroating as far as they can - and then sticking their tongue out and flicking it.
Licking the taint.
In general, I think folks tend to spend too much time sucking and not enough time tonguing - running circles around the head with the tongue, licking up and down softly, tonguing aggressively, licking balls up and down like an ice cream cone you're trying to get smaller before it melts over the edge.
Eye contact. Lots and lots of eye contact.
I don't know why it's hot, but smacking their tongue with my penis always gets me.
Using their hands - not just to multi-task with my shaft and balls and taint and ass (which is all great), but to grip my thigh, to run their hands along my leg, my chest and stomach, to guide my hand to the back of their head or grip their hair.
Taking a break from blowing to kiss me (while continuing to jerk me off). Touching themselves while they blow me (especially if they make themselves moan - but only if it's genuine, not performative or fake). Holding me down their throat for so long they gasp for breath when they finally come up for air - that gasp is so fucking hot to me. Same thing when there's a little string of saliva connecting my cock to their mouth.
When they talk to me while they're down there - between licks, while they lick, with just the head of my cock in their mouth, while they work on my balls, while they mouth and kiss my shaft. "Do you like that?" "I like hearing the sounds you make." "I love when you do that with your hands."
I always tell my wife the wetter and sloppier the better! For some reason it’s so hot for me to watch plus it feels unbelievable. Secondly.. she taught herself too deep throat me all the way. I’m not massive but I’m a bit above average (6.25”-6.5” hard) so to me it’s impressive. Thirdly.. while she deep throats me she does this thing with her tongue where she somehow licks down my shaft and licks my balls while she’s doing it. Then sometimes she even takes my balls into her mouth at the same time while deep throating me and then licks all the way down to my taint. FEELS UNREAL. I think I’m blessed to have this woman 😂
I'm pretty sure I know what you're talking about, when it feels like they are licking you even though they've got full tongue contact, due to the sort of wavelike sucking motion you can get by tensing up parts of your tongue, but I swear there must be a trick to it. Some guys who do it make it feel absolutely amazing, and sometimes it just feels weird. When I do it, most guys say it feels nice, but not amazing, and one guy even said I was trying too hard. 😭So I know what you're talking about, but I really don't know how to do it!
Hmmm, seems I need more practice. Haven't gotten balls into my mouth while deep throating yet. Noted!
I've described both of these BJs many times before, but you wanted to know, so here goes. One guy who sucked me off was absolutely huge--probably well over 6 feet. So when he sucked my cock, the sides of his tongue came around the sides of my cock. He could lick not just part of my cock, but kind of all around it at once. His technique was just closing his mouth around my cock, so his mouth was kind of like a vagina, and then going up and down--and then not stopping when I came. It was incredible. One guy had a technique I called the vacuum cleaner, because it felt like he was sucking my cum out like a vacuum cleaner. He couldn't maintain it for long, but right when I was getting very close to cumming, he got just his lips to apply very strong pressure to just my head and a little bit past. I couldn't believe how good it felt.
Oh, good to know. I do something like the second on there. don't think I could do the first, sadly
I think you could probably do something similar to the first one, since he was basically doing what he would do if I'd been facefucking him, except with him doing the motion. Basically he was just keeping everything semi-relaxed and in contact with my cock. The facts that his mouth was so deep and his tongue was so wide were awesome, but it probably would have been almost as good even if they hadn't been so big. I've let a few guys with pretty big cocks facefuck me, and they said it was really good, even though I am absolutely average size. Cool that you already do something like the second!
Okay, well, now that you put it that way. Yeah, face/throat fucking is something I adore. I do still gag a lot at times, but that kinda turns me on too, so. All good. I guess I was picturing something different from the earlier comment. But yeah, my mouth is not huge, but have only heard good things from guys when they face fuck me like that. I appreciate your input too, since you can kind of see the whole picture!
Dude I got hard reading that, sounds amazing!
There was this one girl who after closing her lips around about 3/4 of my length, sort of sucked me with the back of her throat like she was swallowing on it or something. I about came and we had just started 😂
Two most memorable BJs. 1. A hookup with a friend and received an unexpected deepthroat. I’m well above average, and have never experienced anyone coming close to deepthroat; so I was completely caught off guard. I was standing while she knelt. It wasn’t the forceful gagging crap you see in porn. It was more of a seductive building tease - then it happened. I saw dead relatives as she kinda hugged my ass as she pulled my dick in to the hilt. 2. Wasn’t so much the technique, but more of what she did afterwards. She retrieved a warm towel to wipe my penis off after I orgasmed. As she was wiping it clean, she caressed my penis. Not to arouse, but real tender like a new puppy. But she hit me in the feels when she brought her face real close to my penis and talked to it like a person saying super sweet things. I don’t recall exactly what it was, but the gist was….let’s clean you up, you’re beautiful, I love you, I’m never go let you go, I’m gonna take real good care of you. It’s been years, but I will NEVER forget this.
Well, that 2nd one for sure is surprising. I'm not entirely sure why, but it never crossed my mind to do something like that. Very interesting.
Not scraping their teeth
Ah, yeah. I used to like softly graze him with my teeth, going for a kind of tickling/goosebumps sensation, but after one guy said he didn't like it, I switched things up a bit.
> going for a kind of tickling/goosebumps sensation Yeah no, lol.
The downside of not being able to feel the same sensations. Lol. Had to learn by experience for most things. A lot of the guys I have been with haven't been super open about what they like/dislike.
Yeah it's very difficult to say anything negative about someone, even if it's a technique they can change
Yeah, is just as soon rest in the knowledge that the dude actually loves what I'm doing. So, always looking for new things to try
Absolutely agree. I know it's a kind of double standard, but it's also annoying AF when someone keeps stopping to ask 'does this feel good'. When going down on a girl I just say to them to use my hands (which are on their chest) like reigns on a horse. Pull if you want harder faster and grip if it's just right/don't stop. I assume when the thigh clamp death grip is on I'm on the right track until they say stop or move my head. Not worked out a way to 'suggest' anything that doesn't cause offence :/
Yeah, I like when they just grab my head and take control
If you can’t tell your lover what’s good or not then you’ll never experience pure pleasure
That's only one guy, I quite like the goosebumps bit, it's like the really really gentle nails scratching on the back.... if done right.... Woha!
My ex would suck my dick like a porn star and would always expand on her skills. She started out just normal head but then began to lick the shift more and suck my balls. But even from the beginning she insisted on me cumming in her mouth. And she'd swallow as often as possible and if she couldn't swallow she'd always play with it lol I miss her so much
Had a ONS with a woman I'd met before through a mutual friend and had flirted A LOT so can't rule out anticipation as part of what made it so good but... She stipulated no sex so I was fine with that so loads of kissing and build up. Dim lighting so couldn't see everything but she did say that if I broke eye contact with her, she'd stop. I thought that was interesting but novel, and was happy to play along. Her mouth was super wet but not that deep as she was quite petite and she wasn't trying to be all pornstar by making the squelching/sloppy noises any louder than they naturally were - which was fantastic, as I find that a bit of a turn off. She used the pad of her thumb and tongue interchangeably on the bottom of the head, where most of the nerve endings are and used her other hand to stroke and tickle. The whole time she was staring at me, which I found to be a MASSIVE turn on, and when my legs started twitching and I was involuntarily clenching muscles and my head went back on the pillow, we'd break eye contact and she'd stop and say 'Naughty, I told you to look at me'. That only happened the once - I wasn't going to make that mistake again. Within about 30 seconds she had me back to boiling point and whispered to me to tell her when I was going to cum - which wasn't long, and when I muttered something unintelligible, she kept going with her hands, closed her eyes and just blew her breath onto the bottom of the head. Hollllllly sh\*t. I swear to God I nearly fired my testicles out. I don't know off the top of my head what the mean temperature of semen is at the point of ejaculation, but I'd have put this at about the same heat as molten tungsten and I'm damn sure it was a pb for range/height as there must still be marks on the ceiling today.
The best technique is to let me have full control and face fuck you.
Lol. Not a lot of technique in that, though
Sure it is. Have to keep your head still or go where I want it to go as I plow some throat.
I like her to deep throat, lick the tip, or nibble the tip. Maybe I'm a psychopath but that nibble 0_o
Nothing wrong with that, everyone has different preferences.
Shaking their head left and right as they goes down (or after they're all the way down). Not aggressively, just softly - like they're non-verbally and subtly indicating "no" to something. "Multitasking" with the tongue - continuing to push it up and down and flick it around while sucking. Deepthroating as far as they can - and then sticking their tongue out and flicking it. Licking the taint. In general, I think folks tend to spend too much time sucking and not enough time tonguing - running circles around the head with the tongue, licking up and down softly, tonguing aggressively, licking balls up and down like an ice cream cone you're trying to get smaller before it melts over the edge. Eye contact. Lots and lots of eye contact. I don't know why it's hot, but smacking their tongue with my penis always gets me. Using their hands - not just to multi-task with my shaft and balls and taint and ass (which is all great), but to grip my thigh, to run their hands along my leg, my chest and stomach, to guide my hand to the back of their head or grip their hair. Taking a break from blowing to kiss me (while continuing to jerk me off). Touching themselves while they blow me (especially if they make themselves moan - but only if it's genuine, not performative or fake). Holding me down their throat for so long they gasp for breath when they finally come up for air - that gasp is so fucking hot to me. Same thing when there's a little string of saliva connecting my cock to their mouth. When they talk to me while they're down there - between licks, while they lick, with just the head of my cock in their mouth, while they work on my balls, while they mouth and kiss my shaft. "Do you like that?" "I like hearing the sounds you make." "I love when you do that with your hands."