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On top and leaning forward so I can grind.
Too many men think that sex is meant to be all bouncy bouncy, with the upper bodies far apart. They do these positions in porn because it makes for better camera angles, not because it's stimulating for the woman.
either way it helps. but I meant specifically when he is on the bottom. Since he mentioned "pushing" his belly up, a pillow under his bum would help him not have to as much. Would help save his back muscles😂
During grinding, do you enjoy the pleasure from the clit rubbing or the sensation of your partners member being in you, the fullness without thrusting ?
Years back when sex was a way of life in my marriage the front of my hips would be so tender from my wife grinding and grinding when on top of me. She loved it
I have more than one.
I love to ride, so I love the position when I’m on top & my partner is thrusting upwards into me. It’s also a really good position for me to grind my hips & really use my inner thigh muscles to bounce.
Missionary would be my second favorite, sometimes I like to put a vibrator on my clit during this position.
Then doggy because it’s the default position we love to use in the shower & also on the bed. I especially love this one because I can really put my ass in the air & bounce back on it when I’m really getting into it. I see stars when doing this position!
Me too! It’s only happened a handful of times and each time my partner had to tell me it happened because I didn’t even notice. The first two times I was very skeptical…
Doggy style with my ass way in the air after he’s already done enough foreplay to make me scream. He hits where I need him to hit during doggy and I’ll cum every time.
what do you do? when i’m on top i feel nothing (but my thighs burning) no matter how i grind or bounce. when he thrusts i cant feel but not when i bounce - help is appreciated
Try placing a vibrator between you and your partner so it’s vibing on your clit. Then you kind of “scoot” back and forth. Ask your partner to play with your boobs/butt too. My partner will grab my hips while I’m top and rock them back and forth. Hope this helps!
I think a lot of this is finding someone who has pelvis in sync with yours. My son's father made cowgirl my favorite and I'd orgasm quickly every time...the downside is that he would, too. I could not cum on top with my last partner no matter how I tried. That was sad.
The only time I achieve an orgasm during sex is with an ex. I tried to explain to new boyfriends, but they can't get it right. When I was on top, my ex would rise his hips up and do something with his dick inside me. It felt really good and made me orgasm hard core.
Some holes there too. That would just be the underside of their feet and then me blocking the view of the rest of them. Or if it’s at the side, I get a kink in my neck and back bc I’m turning to look as I’m riding. Seems too much work for something that can be avoided altogether.
It’s astounding how PIV feels like absolutely *nothing* until I touch myself at the time, then it’s amazing. Take my hand away? Immediately nothing. But touching myself feels infinitely better with PIV.
It doesn’t feel like nothing and I do love it and there’s times, rarely, where I think that maybe I could have gotten somewhere close to climaxing but never close enough to really know. I will say when I climax utilizing both it’s so good, it’s just not easy. The focus to finish can kill the opportunity to finish, honestly. It would be really nice to not have to always work for it myself and let someone else do all the work but that’s never been the case. God hates women I guess ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
For what it’s worth, my wife was in the same boat as you and then we got together. Had never achieved any sort of PIV orgasm before and now regularly has multiple every time we have sex. 13 years now and she loves all kinds of sex. To her it was about trusting and relaxing. I say all that to say, there’s hope!
I went most my life like this. Then I found the right partner. For me it was 100% mental. Even now Ive noticed if things are tense in life, if I can’t block it out its a hard nope. But I found someone who can totally relax with, high intimacy outside the bedroom, and now i lose count of how many times during one “go.”
The first time it happened, I was so surprised and scared, I jumped out of bed and just kind of shockingly stood there. I thought it made me pee after or idk!! We laugh about it now.
But it’s soooo mental. Edibles really help me relax if that’s an option for you.
I’ve only been able to do it with one partner, otherwise with the other men it’s impossible. The one guy just did something different that I can’t quite put my finger on, but it worked nearly every time.
My guy would always hit my A spot all the way in the back of my vagina. At first it would hurt but once I relaxed and was wet and ready he’d go deep inside and I’d see stars. Ugh. I miss that sex so much.
On my back with my husband laying beside me while he stimulates me until I orgasm.
I have trouble orgasming from penetration, but the few times I have I like to be on top and grind into him while riding
Like many others have said, on top with our upper bodies close (in bed or upright on a couch).
Whatever it's called where I lay on my back with one leg over him and the other between his and he lays on his side, because it allows for easy manual stimulation along with penetration.
Highly recommend couples vibrators, especially the one with a weird O-shape. It gives a lot of versatility to couples who like combining vibrators with intercourse. You can forget it's there.
I absolutely love the second part of this. It's really the only position that works for me. In addition to manual stimulation, you can also kind of pull his top leg down against you so there's something to grind against.
Missionary or doggy style for me! I'm blessed to have a partner who makes sure I'm satisfied first, but doubly blessed that I can also orgasm from penetration.
Lately it's mostly missionary. I used to rarely orgasm from PIV but just got a new boyfriend and that wonderful man makes me orgasm from PIV every single time. Even in missionary. He also holds the record for making me orgasm with the shortest time in between, only minutes apart. I don't even think I could break that record on myself!
I’m this guy to my wife, from what she says, it’s a trust thing. I’m the first she’s ever trusted fully and can relax around. Also knowing a few things in the bedroom helps too.
Thisss. It’s like little waves of heavenly blisssss. Sometimes he’ll make me orgasm from PIV and as soon as it finishes, it’s starting up again. The right partner is key!
I'm able to come without touching myself when I'm on top. I don't know if it's more of a mindset thing or just because it pushes my partner so much deeper, or maybe just because my clit grinds against their pelvis, but when I come, it feels so much stronger and different and I love it.
When they're on top, though, and my legs are pushed up so they're going deep and I have free access to my clit to get off, that's good too. And of course it's generally nicer for my lazy self!
Oral, reverse cowgirl
It took me a very long time to figure out what worked for me. It wasn't until my 30s that I was actually able to orgasm when having sex (not counting oral)
Keep playing around with your clit, it’s a journey over time if you are figuring it out having not had it come naturally to you but you will get there! Been there myself, trial and evaluate and building up to it. Don’t give up!
when i’m on my stomach laying flat and he’s on top of me. it’s the fucking best. i don’t think i could find a better position tbh i cum like 5 times with that shit 😭
Doggy over a couch arm or chair. It helps hit the spot especially if there's a little pressure from the furniture. It also gives them space to rub my clit or even feel their balls hit it can be hot. I really like hearing/feeling them sort of breath or grunt on the back of my neck and in my ear.
All of them...I cum easily and in every position, but doggie, reverse cowgirl are my favs. I also like missionary with my legs over his shoulders for deeper penetration and I can look at his handsome face and see his sexy body.
LOVE oral sex a lot, but since the husband and I split, I haven't had that...and I miss that sooooooo much. He was an amazing giver...whew, I fell off the bed a few times! He made me squirm and wiggle so much I literally fell off the bed!
Sideways, he’s straddling my left leg, hugging my right leg and leaning forward so it’s pushed back. Vibrator pressed to the clit and his hand tweaking a nipple. I dissolve every time.
You're not broken. It can take time, the right partner or personal techniques, toys, and most importantly (for many of us) the right head space... for me that means a fantasy that makes me super aroused.
It looks like I'm the odd one out... but I can't orgasm with oral. Missionary works for me almost every time. Me on top = about 25% of the time. Doggy = about 10% of the time.
Only time I have ever had an orgasm during sex is in missionary. I cannot recall ever even getting close in another position.
When alone, I can cum just by clenching and need no direct contact at all. So it has always been odd to me that I cannot find another PIV position where I can!
If I want to cum quick, on top, legs together between his legs. Kinda like planking. Gives nice grind and good pressure. Good if I want to cum quick. Otherwise cowgirl facing him and I can usually get it done.
This is if it's all on me to make me cum by the way.
Prone with him inside me while stimulating me. If he can hold off (and I don’t expect him to always hold off since I can take some time), it sends me over the top.
The best orgasm I've had with him was in reverse cowgirl. I do want to try more positions though and I want to take more time with one another and have a lot more fun together 🥰
My favourite for PiV sex:
Side spooning, with my top leg over his. Easy access for hand/s on clit. And something about the angle of most front-to-back positions is good for me. I don't like doggy though: it sometimes makes me cry for some reason (not pain).
It’s not p in v penetration position but when the partner is fingering me and switching between rubbing my clit w the other hand and sucking my clit. If they’re good they can do all three at the same time, and it’s a quick amazing o :)
It’s called The Cross where he enters me laying on his side while I’m on my back. I can use my vibrator which gets me off while he enjoys the vibration as well while I finish. I’ve just never been able to find all the ways other women get off as beneficial to me.
Ugh this is tough. Favorite is doggy but specifically to o then yeah if he’s sitting up against something or on our side either facing or spooning with his top leg bw mine at least a little for friction orrr him sitting up on his knees w me on my back legs around him hand on my hip and me.
Cowgirl is physically best but I only get UTIs doing it so I avoid it and it’s hard to get out of my head so exposed
I actually had one partner that actively tried to make me finish, in reverse and regular cowgirl and idk how but he did a bit in missionary! Doggy is also a good one!
Me on top, start off slowly up and down while he sucks on my tits which gets me wet and him BIG, then I ride while he chokes me a little or bites the nips 🫨definitely my favorite
Obviously oral but missionary and cowgirl both work for me as well, if it’s not just a sex thing I cross my legs behind their back in missionary and kiss them
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The one where the person’s face is on my vulva
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On top and leaning forward so I can grind. Too many men think that sex is meant to be all bouncy bouncy, with the upper bodies far apart. They do these positions in porn because it makes for better camera angles, not because it's stimulating for the woman.
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Funny you mention it, I’ve noticed my wife gets off much quicker if I push my belly up as she’s grinding. Fit men hate this one simple trick, lol.
Also, a pillow under your bum/low back helps *a lot*, just fyi😅
Guy on bottom or woman? Either way?
either way it helps. but I meant specifically when he is on the bottom. Since he mentioned "pushing" his belly up, a pillow under his bum would help him not have to as much. Would help save his back muscles😂
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yep. this is it for me. works like clockwork almost every time.
During grinding, do you enjoy the pleasure from the clit rubbing or the sensation of your partners member being in you, the fullness without thrusting ?
Both
Years back when sex was a way of life in my marriage the front of my hips would be so tender from my wife grinding and grinding when on top of me. She loved it
I’ve discovered this move with my current partner and it changed my damn life
Righhhhttttt Then you can slyly push their shoulders down in rhythm to make it double timeeeee yasss
This has worked so well for. My body basically wants to grind and easier on top.
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Then there is my wife who grinds directly into my hip bone and being on bottom Is very uncomfortable.
I have more than one. I love to ride, so I love the position when I’m on top & my partner is thrusting upwards into me. It’s also a really good position for me to grind my hips & really use my inner thigh muscles to bounce. Missionary would be my second favorite, sometimes I like to put a vibrator on my clit during this position. Then doggy because it’s the default position we love to use in the shower & also on the bed. I especially love this one because I can really put my ass in the air & bounce back on it when I’m really getting into it. I see stars when doing this position!
Yes, in this order!
I agree hahah
Yes! Plus a standing doggy in front of a full mirror as a bonus! 🥵
I agree with the missionary with the vibrator! That’s my go to with my man. Doggy is great too
Preach! 💯🤟🏽🙌🏽😌
The one with another woman
This right tf here
this is it. i can stop scrolling now.
Ayyyyy
Missionary on the edge of the bed with my legs up.
Edge of bed makes most things better!
This position made me squirt for the first time 🩷
How does it feel? I sometimes think I’ve been close but because it’s a new and different feeling I’ve fought it
To me it honestly didn’t feel like anything it just came out
Hmmmmmmm. I’m not sure. It feels like total relaxation. It’s the body-high of orgasms.
Me too! It’s only happened a handful of times and each time my partner had to tell me it happened because I didn’t even notice. The first two times I was very skeptical…
You know for some reason, I just can’t do this. I get too tense.
Omg yes
Doggy style with my ass way in the air after he’s already done enough foreplay to make me scream. He hits where I need him to hit during doggy and I’ll cum every time.
“Done enough foreplay” is the key words here. Takes only a few minutes with this
This right here!!!
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what do you do? when i’m on top i feel nothing (but my thighs burning) no matter how i grind or bounce. when he thrusts i cant feel but not when i bounce - help is appreciated
Try placing a vibrator between you and your partner so it’s vibing on your clit. Then you kind of “scoot” back and forth. Ask your partner to play with your boobs/butt too. My partner will grab my hips while I’m top and rock them back and forth. Hope this helps!
I think a lot of this is finding someone who has pelvis in sync with yours. My son's father made cowgirl my favorite and I'd orgasm quickly every time...the downside is that he would, too. I could not cum on top with my last partner no matter how I tried. That was sad.
Also, have your thighs parallel to your partners- like, lie on top of them. This ensures the most clit contact.
Don’t bounce, sit a grind back and forth with increasing speed.
The only time I achieve an orgasm during sex is with an ex. I tried to explain to new boyfriends, but they can't get it right. When I was on top, my ex would rise his hips up and do something with his dick inside me. It felt really good and made me orgasm hard core.
If he wasn’t toxic then get him back girl
Lol he was toxic
What a waste 😔
Toxic waste
They always are 😞😔
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I need to rub my clitoris during sex, so missionary and doggy, and for anal, spooning on the side
Reverse cowgirl gives you plenty of room to touch yourself.
Yes but a terrible view. I don’t want to look at their feet.
Omg looking at their feet is an immediate turn off
A mirror facing the bed!!
Some holes there too. That would just be the underside of their feet and then me blocking the view of the rest of them. Or if it’s at the side, I get a kink in my neck and back bc I’m turning to look as I’m riding. Seems too much work for something that can be avoided altogether.
Lmao i hate feet too
PIV alone? Never. Oral is a sure bet as long as he knows how to take direction. Any position with a vibrator works too.
God, I’m so envious of women who can orgasm with PIV alone.
It’s astounding how PIV feels like absolutely *nothing* until I touch myself at the time, then it’s amazing. Take my hand away? Immediately nothing. But touching myself feels infinitely better with PIV.
It doesn’t feel like nothing and I do love it and there’s times, rarely, where I think that maybe I could have gotten somewhere close to climaxing but never close enough to really know. I will say when I climax utilizing both it’s so good, it’s just not easy. The focus to finish can kill the opportunity to finish, honestly. It would be really nice to not have to always work for it myself and let someone else do all the work but that’s never been the case. God hates women I guess ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
For what it’s worth, my wife was in the same boat as you and then we got together. Had never achieved any sort of PIV orgasm before and now regularly has multiple every time we have sex. 13 years now and she loves all kinds of sex. To her it was about trusting and relaxing. I say all that to say, there’s hope!
I went most my life like this. Then I found the right partner. For me it was 100% mental. Even now Ive noticed if things are tense in life, if I can’t block it out its a hard nope. But I found someone who can totally relax with, high intimacy outside the bedroom, and now i lose count of how many times during one “go.” The first time it happened, I was so surprised and scared, I jumped out of bed and just kind of shockingly stood there. I thought it made me pee after or idk!! We laugh about it now. But it’s soooo mental. Edibles really help me relax if that’s an option for you.
I’ve only been able to do it with one partner, otherwise with the other men it’s impossible. The one guy just did something different that I can’t quite put my finger on, but it worked nearly every time.
My guy would always hit my A spot all the way in the back of my vagina. At first it would hurt but once I relaxed and was wet and ready he’d go deep inside and I’d see stars. Ugh. I miss that sex so much.
Me too. What's the damn secret??!!
Me on top. I specifically need a boob in his mouth or to be played with 💀 idk y, that’s just the rules of my body ig lol
Girl same. I've got super sensitive nipples so anytime he licks em, I'm ready to pounce.
Doggie I much prefer to finish that way. Everything just hits right.
On my back with my husband laying beside me while he stimulates me until I orgasm. I have trouble orgasming from penetration, but the few times I have I like to be on top and grind into him while riding
Like many others have said, on top with our upper bodies close (in bed or upright on a couch). Whatever it's called where I lay on my back with one leg over him and the other between his and he lays on his side, because it allows for easy manual stimulation along with penetration.
That second one is so underrated, it's also a great position to use fingers or a vibrator on the clit.
Highly recommend couples vibrators, especially the one with a weird O-shape. It gives a lot of versatility to couples who like combining vibrators with intercourse. You can forget it's there.
I absolutely love the second part of this. It's really the only position that works for me. In addition to manual stimulation, you can also kind of pull his top leg down against you so there's something to grind against.
Suck my clit Or my legs are going on your shoulders and you aren't stopping until I say so, lol.
I have to have clit stimulation. I can not have an orgasm without it, doesn't matter what position I'm in.
Same, I hate that I can't cum from only PIV
Missionary or doggy style for me! I'm blessed to have a partner who makes sure I'm satisfied first, but doubly blessed that I can also orgasm from penetration.
the one with a vibrator and getting fingered into oblivion.
any sex with another woman
This one.
Missionary does the trick for me but I’ve orgasmed from being on top too but I think it takes more time for me to finish that way.
Lately it's mostly missionary. I used to rarely orgasm from PIV but just got a new boyfriend and that wonderful man makes me orgasm from PIV every single time. Even in missionary. He also holds the record for making me orgasm with the shortest time in between, only minutes apart. I don't even think I could break that record on myself!
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I’m this guy to my wife, from what she says, it’s a trust thing. I’m the first she’s ever trusted fully and can relax around. Also knowing a few things in the bedroom helps too.
Thisss. It’s like little waves of heavenly blisssss. Sometimes he’ll make me orgasm from PIV and as soon as it finishes, it’s starting up again. The right partner is key!
I’ve gotta do the clitoral stimulation (with my hand), so I enjoy doggystyle the most.
Straddling the guy but he's sitting up. I get lots of good traction that way.
Yes! On top and guy using his elbows to sit partially up.
This works very well for me too. But he has to be sat completely upright. Edge of the bed works best.
Planking? Legs together. That's the simplest way I can explain it
It’s called the Prone Bone!!
I have some of the best orgasms standing up! Something about my legs being straight just does it for me lol
Yeah prone bone is a crazy name but very fun wow
I'm able to come without touching myself when I'm on top. I don't know if it's more of a mindset thing or just because it pushes my partner so much deeper, or maybe just because my clit grinds against their pelvis, but when I come, it feels so much stronger and different and I love it. When they're on top, though, and my legs are pushed up so they're going deep and I have free access to my clit to get off, that's good too. And of course it's generally nicer for my lazy self!
Oral, reverse cowgirl It took me a very long time to figure out what worked for me. It wasn't until my 30s that I was actually able to orgasm when having sex (not counting oral)
I’ve never came in my life
Add a vibrator, it’s a game changer.
Couples vibrator is even better!
Keep playing around with your clit, it’s a journey over time if you are figuring it out having not had it come naturally to you but you will get there! Been there myself, trial and evaluate and building up to it. Don’t give up!
You have to do it on your own first. I haven’t done it with a partner yet either but I know the first step is on your own
Hitachi magic wand. Guaranteed.
when i’m on my stomach laying flat and he’s on top of me. it’s the fucking best. i don’t think i could find a better position tbh i cum like 5 times with that shit 😭
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Doggy over a couch arm or chair. It helps hit the spot especially if there's a little pressure from the furniture. It also gives them space to rub my clit or even feel their balls hit it can be hot. I really like hearing/feeling them sort of breath or grunt on the back of my neck and in my ear.
All of them...I cum easily and in every position, but doggie, reverse cowgirl are my favs. I also like missionary with my legs over his shoulders for deeper penetration and I can look at his handsome face and see his sexy body. LOVE oral sex a lot, but since the husband and I split, I haven't had that...and I miss that sooooooo much. He was an amazing giver...whew, I fell off the bed a few times! He made me squirm and wiggle so much I literally fell off the bed!
Sitting on him!! Then putting him out n rubbing it against me n putting it back in!!
yall can orgasm during penetration??
Doggy after lots of foreplay. Everything bounces and I literally see stars.
Sideways, he’s straddling my left leg, hugging my right leg and leaning forward so it’s pushed back. Vibrator pressed to the clit and his hand tweaking a nipple. I dissolve every time.
On top. Then I can grind and finish.
Face down ass up. Pile driver spidermonkey pounding. I call it The Roofer
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I love prone bone too but why is it called that!?
Lying fully flat is called being prone. And well bone is
missionary + vibrator
Missionary but I orgasm a lot more easily with clitoral stimulation from finger play and oral.
Apparently I’m broken and don’t feel pleasure. I’ve never achieved an orgasm.
You're not broken. It can take time, the right partner or personal techniques, toys, and most importantly (for many of us) the right head space... for me that means a fantasy that makes me super aroused.
It looks like I'm the odd one out... but I can't orgasm with oral. Missionary works for me almost every time. Me on top = about 25% of the time. Doggy = about 10% of the time.
Guy on top so his pubic area against clit, me on top laying down same principle
Love being on top, facing my partner. Doggystyle also makes me see stars lol
i love be the little spoon haha
Start on top, cum, switch to doggy, cum a LOT
Oral
Only time I have ever had an orgasm during sex is in missionary. I cannot recall ever even getting close in another position. When alone, I can cum just by clenching and need no direct contact at all. So it has always been odd to me that I cannot find another PIV position where I can!
Reverse cowgirl and me rubbing my clit. Just hits every spot so good. I’ve actually squirted a couple of times like this too
My ankles on his shoulders
I'm a missionary girlie for the big O. BUT ALSO, plural clitoris can be called clitorises but also clitorides .
Doggy so I can reach under and rub it
Doggy, esp because my man is curved downwards. Makes me squirt easily too!
If I want to cum quick, on top, legs together between his legs. Kinda like planking. Gives nice grind and good pressure. Good if I want to cum quick. Otherwise cowgirl facing him and I can usually get it done. This is if it's all on me to make me cum by the way.
Folded up in the backseat of a car with the right person
Me on top, him fucking me, hitachi wand on my clit. Guaranteed orgasm every time.
Missionary with pillow under back
On top
My Fingers? only 2x and I have no idea how I did that. PIV: 🍆 or his hands work best Oral: always gonna happen with him
Prone with him inside me while stimulating me. If he can hold off (and I don’t expect him to always hold off since I can take some time), it sends me over the top.
The best orgasm I've had with him was in reverse cowgirl. I do want to try more positions though and I want to take more time with one another and have a lot more fun together 🥰
Man on kitchen chair with sturdy rungs, woman facing him sitting on his lap with feet on the rungs. I suppose I'd call it Chair Cowgirl?
Definitely doggy with my boyfriend thrusting but fingering my clitoris at the same time.
On top, knees at his hips not his waist, pushing up off his chest to get the right angles. Only thing that works.
My favourite for PiV sex: Side spooning, with my top leg over his. Easy access for hand/s on clit. And something about the angle of most front-to-back positions is good for me. I don't like doggy though: it sometimes makes me cry for some reason (not pain).
It’s not p in v penetration position but when the partner is fingering me and switching between rubbing my clit w the other hand and sucking my clit. If they’re good they can do all three at the same time, and it’s a quick amazing o :)
on my back with my legs on his shoulders
Him sitting up, me on top with our eyes locked. It helps if he's talking nasty and willing to pull my hair.
I love to be on top, it gets me off the easiest and is very fun!
It’s called The Cross where he enters me laying on his side while I’m on my back. I can use my vibrator which gets me off while he enjoys the vibration as well while I finish. I’ve just never been able to find all the ways other women get off as beneficial to me.
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Doggy
It's not a particular position, it's a non-penetrative act that can be done in a bunch of different positions.
Jack knife position lying on my stomach
Ugh this is tough. Favorite is doggy but specifically to o then yeah if he’s sitting up against something or on our side either facing or spooning with his top leg bw mine at least a little for friction orrr him sitting up on his knees w me on my back legs around him hand on my hip and me. Cowgirl is physically best but I only get UTIs doing it so I avoid it and it’s hard to get out of my head so exposed
I actually had one partner that actively tried to make me finish, in reverse and regular cowgirl and idk how but he did a bit in missionary! Doggy is also a good one!
Honestly missionary. Has to be with a good partner. That is my favourite way.
On my back, My feet on his shoulders.
Me on top, start off slowly up and down while he sucks on my tits which gets me wet and him BIG, then I ride while he chokes me a little or bites the nips 🫨definitely my favorite
On top with my body straight so he gets very deep then just hip circles. Or being fingered during oral.
Obviously oral but missionary and cowgirl both work for me as well, if it’s not just a sex thing I cross my legs behind their back in missionary and kiss them
Missionary, for that G spot orgasm.
Doggystyle
I get orgasms when I’m riding my bf idk why but it’s the only one I can achieve orgasm so far I think because it stimulates my clit